Backroads to Us

Bloom where you are planted. But what if...   www.backroadstous.com

Can you have love without respect? How about respect without love? Let's find out!   www.backroadstous.com Instagram: backroads_to_us

They say comparison is the thief of joy...are you guilty?    www.backroadstous.com Instagram: backroads_to_us

What does it mean to be a masculine male and why are women so afraid of it. We are going to dive into this topic, discussing the difference between a strong man vs a weak man and why women choose each.   www.backroadstous.com Instagram: backroads_to_us

This one's for you gentleman!  We are exploring 10 things a man needs to have a healthy, happy relationship. Ladies, you aren't going to want to miss this episode.  Learn what a man wants from his partner and what it will take to keep him.   www.backroadstous.com Instagram: backroads_to_us

There is a lot of advice out there.  Some are good, some are bad.  Ok, some are really bad! We have some fun discussing all of the above. Join us for a good laugh along with some great conversation.   www.backroadstous.com   Instagram: backroads_to_us

Whether you are just starting a new relationships or have been committed for awhile, how well do you know your significant other?   In this episode we dive into 13 questions you can ask your partner to either get to know them better or test your knowledge!   Use this as a fun date night template or get a little crazy and create your own list. 

Ever hear of the 7-year itch? Is it just a myth or is there truth behind it? Fact or fiction let's talk about the 7 things NOT TO DO to avoid that itch. Don't ask for honesty if you aren't ready for the answer Don't forget to celebrate the milestones Don't slack on helping with the chores Don't stop looking for joy & laughter Don't stop trying to attract your partner Don't ignore your partners needs Don't forget why you choose each other  Making a conscious effort every day in your relationship is the only way you are going to avoid that dreaded itch. www.backroadstous.com Instagram: backroads_to_us

We never want to admit when we are the problem, maybe you aren't even aware you are the problem.  Does any of the following sound familiar in your relationship?   1.     Actively looking for flaws 2.     Silent treatment 3.     Not being honest 4.     Constantly looking for an exit strategy 5.     Cheating     If any of that rings a bell, listen up! We go over those issues as well as why you may be sabotaging your relationship.     www.backroadstous.com   Instagram: backroads_to_us

Do you know what it means to be toxic?  Have you experienced it yourself? Tougher question…are you toxic? Look at these 5 traits of a toxic person: 1.Control freak 2.Trying to make others fit into an image you want 3.Insecure and clingy 4.Minimizing others feeling and emotions 5.Only care about your needs Do any of those sound familiar? If so, now is the time to become self-aware and find ways to combat those toxic traits in a healthy way.   www.backroadstous.com Instagram: backroads_to_us

Who says connecting with your partner has to be serious all the time? How about we have some fun, play true or false? How about we focus on zodiac signs.  Whether you believe zodiac signs are a bunch of BS or live and die by your sign, take a look into what it's all about. Zodiacs are just another source to dig deeper into who you and your partner are.  Sure, some of what is out there isn't all accurate. I bet a high percentage is.  Don't believe me, find out for yourself.  Let us know what you find out!   www.backroadstous.com   Instagram: backroads_to_us

Have you heard the saying, "If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything."? You can embrace differences and try to find balance all you want, however if you don't take inventory of your core values you will most likely have some unsuccessful relationships.  Here are three questions we address: What are core values? Why is having core values important?  How do you apply them to your relationship? We will get into how our personal core values impacted our relationship and how we created additional values together.     www.backroadstous.com Instagram: backroads_to_us

We've all heard the phrase, opposites attract.  Some of the strongest relationships are between two very different people.  From the outside it looks like the making of an arranged marriage, however, look closer.  The strength and weakness of each person in the relationship may be the exact opposite of their partner.  This creates an amazing balance, where one is soft one is strong, allowing the relationship to be solid and steady.    Look into the key areas of difference to find the balance: 1.     How you each love and communicate it. 2.     How do you each respond to adversity and struggle. 3.     How do you each spend your down time (hobbies).   In this episode we teach you how to recognize and accept the differences, while finding ways to stop focusing on the areas the other may not change. Instead, we want you to focus on the ways you can build the other up while learning to lean on your partner when you are at your lowest.  There is love to be found in the balance of embracing your differences.   www.backroadstous.com   Instagram: backroads_to_us

Relationships are hard! Why make them harder with continues mistakes? We will go over our top 5 mistakes to avoid for a happy and healthy relationship. Let us know if any of these are on your top 5 as well. www.backroadstous.com Instagram: backroads_to_us

The ultimate trifecta in a marriage: friendship, laughter and orgasms…who wouldn't want that?! You want that in your relationship but how do you get there? What if you had all three but life got in the way and you don't know how to find your way back.  You'll need to do some soul searching and cut the bullshit, but it's possible! We will give you some tips and tricks that have worked for us, and they just might work for you too. www.backroadstous.com

Everyone has a story.  There are moments of sadness and moments of triumph.  All stories leave an imprint on your life, whether they be positive or negative.  The problem many individuals face is ignoring the negative effects these events have had on them.  Unhealed people hurt others.  It's not always intentional, sometimes people just aren't self-aware enough to understand themselves.  Be warned if you ignore your problems they won't go away.    Instagram: @backroads_to_us www.backroadstous.com

What do you do when you wake up one morning and everything has changed? How do you learn to move on from unimaginable heartbreak? Jade opens up about a part of her story that has long been held close to her heart. There are many tears but this story is for any survivor of trauma or loss. Instagram: @backroads_to_us Website: www.backroadstous.com

Growing pains are tough! Not just physically but also emotionally. Individuals never grow and evolve at the same speed or even in the same direction. When you are in a relationship how do you allow yourself and your partner the freedom of change without feeling like you are being left behind?  How do you keep these struggles from causing a rift in your relationship or worse, ending it entirely? We grew up together as children, teens, young adults and now a married couple pretending to have their shit together.  Trust us, we've struggled.

Everyone in your life has an opinion and they will constantly try to persuade you to their side.  When it comes to marriage everyone and their damn dog will give you the secret to a long and happy marriage while whispering to their best friend, "there is no way those two will ever last".  Whether you start out with a strong, healthy relationship or maybe jumped into saying "I do", before you were ready, learn to tell all those Karen's to mind their own damn business!