Between Meetings

Keywords leadership, communication, mindfulness, response, pause, decision-making, emotional intelligence, team dynamics, self-awareness, coaching SummaryIn this episode, Scott Sadler discusses the critical moment before responding to stimuli, emphasizing the importance of pausing to enhance communication and leadership effectiveness. He explores how quick responses can lead to automatic reactions rather than intentional choices, and how mindfulness can improve decision-making. The conversation highlights the value of taking a moment to breathe and reflect before replying, ultimately fostering better leadership qualities and team dynamics. Takeaways The moment before you respond matters more than we think. Speed can have a cost in leadership. The content of communication matters less than the emotional activation it triggers. The moment before you respond is where choice lives. Pausing allows for better decision-making and clarity. Leadership is about the quality of attention in communication. Practicing the pause can enhance leadership maturity. Quick responses often stem from habit rather than intention. Creating space before responding fosters trust and steadiness. Mindfulness in communication leads to better outcomes.

keywords: emotional intelligence, leadership, self-awareness, empathy, self-regulation, emotional awareness, decision making, communication, personal growth, leadership developmentsummary: In this conversation, Scott Sadler explores the essence of emotional intelligence, particularly in challenging and unscripted situations. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing emotions as they arise and the power of pausing to reflect on what truly matters in leadership. By reframing emotions as valuable information rather than obstacles, leaders can enhance their decision-making and communication skills, ultimately leading to more effective leadership.takeaways:Emotional intelligence is about real human experiences, not just skills.It manifests physically, often as discomfort or tension.Recognizing emotions early allows for better responses.The pause is a powerful tool in emotional intelligence.Shifting focus from winning to understanding what matters changes outcomes.Leadership often rewards speed, making pauses feel risky.Naming emotions can feel vulnerable but is essential for growth.Emotions provide data about our values and boundaries.Treating emotions as information opens up options in leadership.Understanding oneself deeply enhances leadership effectiveness.titlesUnlocking Emotional Intelligence in LeadershipThe Art of Pausing: A Leadership EssentialSound Bites"It feels like discomfort.""Awareness is the work.""Emotions are information."Chapters00:00Understanding Emotional Intelligence in Real Situations03:35The Power of the Pause in Leadership05:10Emotions as Information: A New Perspective on Leadership05:43riverside_outro_- between meetings _ feb 03, 2026 001_between_meetings st.wav

Between MeetingsThe Conversation You Have With Yourself After a Hard MeetingHost: Scott Sadler, PCC, MCLC, MNLPEpisode SummaryAfter a difficult meeting, your calendar may move on—but your mind often doesn’t. In this episode of Between Meetings, Scott explores the internal conversations leaders have after tough interactions and how unchecked self-talk quietly shapes confidence, presence, and leadership behavior. You’ll learn how to notice these narratives without becoming them and apply simple, practical tools to reset before your next conversation.Key TakeawaysLeaders often continue the meeting internally through judgment and rumination, not reflection.Unexamined self-talk influences tone, energy, and future decisions more than most leaders realize.Awareness creates choice: noticing the story allows you to separate facts from interpretation.Effective leaders practice self-coaching—responding to themselves with curiosity, not criticism.Discomfort after a meeting does not equal incompetence.A Simple Practice to TryAfter your next meeting, pause and ask:What am I telling myself right now?Is this a fact—or an interpretation? Name the narrative, ground yourself with a breath, and choose a more constructive frame before moving on.Why This MattersThe most influential leader you work with every day is the voice in your head. How you speak to yourself between meetings shapes how you show up in the next one.What’s NextIn the next episode, Scott explores emotional leakage—what your team feels before you ever say a word.Learn more: scottsadlercoaching.com