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Between Over & Next
by Robert Allen & Holli Ehrlich
Welcome to "Between Over & Next", the podcast where married couple Holli and Robert will inspire you to live more mindfully and find joy in the present moment. Join them on their journey as they discuss the challenges, rewards, and the culmination of everything wonderful and spectacular in love, life, family, and business.In each episode, they share ideas, insights, and personal stories highlighting decades of valuable lessons learned personally and professionally. They also interview experts and thought leaders to gain a deeper understanding of how to embrace what you’re passionate about doing, and then never stop doing it. Whether you're looking to reduce fear, take more risks, settle less, increase happiness, or simply learn how to experience a more fulfilling life, "Between Over & Next" has something for everyone. So, tune in and join Holli and Robert as they explore the space between what was, what is, and what's to come.
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Living Between Over & Next: A Break for Ultimate Rejuvenation
Join Holli and Robert for a special Thanksgiving edition of 'Between Over & Next' as they celebrate nearly a year of engaging podcasting with their 46th episode. Reflecting on their journey since launching on January 16th, 2024, Holli and Robert express deep gratitude for their supportive podcast community. They delve into the powerful themes of gratitude, family traditions, and the importance of hosting gatherings that bring loved ones together. Throughout this Thanksgiving episode, Holli and Robert announce a well-deserved podcast hiatus, emphasizing the importance of taking a break to recharge and realign with personal and professional goals. The episode is rich with insights on maintaining a balanced life, acknowledging personal milestones, and the importance of thoughtful reflection in preparation for a vibrant new year. Holli and Robert promise even more engaging content, new projects, and collaborations in 2025. As they look forward to embracing the holiday season, listeners are encouraged to reflect and plan their own "next big thing." Tune into the full episode for a dose of gratitude and inspiration designed to enrich lives, embrace life's transitions, and inspire change. In This Episode 0:00 Thanksgiving Gratitude and Podcasting Journey with Holli and Robert5:11 The Importance of Taking Breaks for Personal and Professional Growth11:09 The Evolution of Podcasting From 2005 to 202512:49 Balancing Holiday Breaks and an Entrepreneurial Lifestyle17:14 Celebrating Life and Looking Forward to 2025 Key Takeaways Embrace Gratitude: Holli and Robert emphasize the importance of gratitude in both personal and professional aspects of life. The Power of Hosting: Bringing the family together, particularly during holidays, can foster deeper bonds and create lasting memories. Intentional Breaks: Taking a pause is essential for reflection, preventing burnout, and aligning with future goals. Evolution of Podcasting: From their early podcasting days, Holli and Robert have evolved to deliver more intentional and structured content. Celebrating Milestones: Personal achievements and new additions, like becoming grandparents, enrich the hosts' lives and provide fresh perspectives. Holli & Robert Quotes "Reflecting on this year, we are so grateful for you, our podcast community." "Time to walk the walk and talk the talk and live out what we preach, prioritizing the things that truly matter." "This season, we are counting our blessings, and one of the biggest blessings is you." "Each day that we get to enjoy life is a gift, and we want to cherish that, and we encourage all of you to do the same.""Thank you to our featured guests for sharing your wisdom, your stories, and your energy because you've inspired us and our audience in countless ways.""It's a "between over & next space" that we always talk about. It's a transition point where we reflect, refocus, and, importantly, prepare for what's next." Mentioned In Episode 46 Wedding Podcast Network 'Between Over & Next' Episode 40: Slow Down, Reflect, and Rise: The Gift of Life's Pauses 'Between Over & Next' Episode 41: The Future is Now: Welcoming Our Grandson into the World 'Between Over & Next' Episode 36: Core Values in Action: How to Align Life with What Matters Most 'Between Over & Next' Episode 31: Life is the Sum of All Your Choices 'Between Over & Next' Episode 25: A Look Back: 25 Episodes of Growth and Gratitude
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The Interplay of Hindsight, Foresight, and Insight for Personal Growth
Immerse yourself in this insightful episode of 'Between Over & Next' as Holli and Robert explore how foresight and hindsight can enrich and transform our lives. With their trademark humor and thoughtfulness, the couple emphasizes the importance of how learning from the past and living fully in the present can inform more intentional decision-making in the future.Holli and Robert discuss various life themes, such as career choices, parenting, health, financial decisions, and relationships, using foresight and hindsight as lenses to better understand them. They share personal anecdotes and insights to encourage listeners to embrace life's unpredictability by building resilience, maintaining optimism, and creating a personal legacy for future generations. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on balancing past experiences with forward-looking aspirations. In This Episode 0:00 Exploring Foresight and Hindsight in Life's Journey3:01 The Rear View Mirror 4:17 The Interplay of Hindsight, Foresight, and Insight6:19 Reflecting on Life Choices and Their Long-Term Impact9:31 Ask Yourself What Relationships Taught You About Yourself 11:04 The Importance of Saving and Financial Responsibility13:17 Embracing What Lies Ahead14:52 Leaving A Legacy15:48 Empowering Youth and Lifelong Parenting Responsibilities17:25 Present Moments for Long-Term Fulfillment and Gratitude19:50 Know What to Hold On To and What to Leave Behind22:08 It's Never Too Late to Learn or Try Something New23:53 Hindsight is a Teacher, Foresight is a Motivator, The Present is a Canvas for Change Key Takeaways Foresight and hindsight are powerful tools that can guide us in navigating life's transitions and uncertainties. Reflecting on past experiences can provide insights that inform better decisions and foster personal growth. Embracing life stages with an attitude of gratitude creates a sense of fulfillment and empowers resilience. Building a personal legacy involves intentional actions and imparting wisdom to younger generations. Being present in the moment is crucial for appreciating life's journey and harnessing the full potential of foresight and hindsight. Holli & Robert Quotes "The beauty of hindsight is that it reveals the masterpiece that life has painted, brushstroke by brushstroke, with each decision." "You can gain more foresight from other people's hindsight." "Your past can equal the strength for your present.""Foresight is not about controlling the future. It's about shaping ourselves to meet it with grace." "Foresight is not about prediction, but about positioning ourselves for what might be.""Empowering youth is an obligation… educating others is something we should strive to do.""Be open to taking that information in so that it can help you make decisions in the future.""Ask yourself what one habit could you adopt today that the future you will be grateful for?""Embrace your past, look forward with hope, fully engage in today." "Being in the present moment is a gift.""Your heart has only so much room, so make sure it's filled with things that feed your soul." Mentioned In Episode 45 'Between Over & Next' Episode 43: The Metaphorical Concept of The Traffic Lights of Life 'Between Over & Next' Episode 3: The Meaning Of "Between Over & Next" 'Between Over & Next' Episode 44: From Publishing Prestige to Coaching Clarity: Leadership Lessons & Life Pivots 'Between Over & Next' Episode 4: Celebrating Achievements Of The Parent-Child Journey
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From Publishing Prestige to Coaching Clarity: Leadership Lessons & Life Pivots
In this episode of 'Between Over & Next'," hosts Holli and Robert reconnect with Amy Wilkins, formerly of Martha Stewart Weddings, as she shares her journey from publishing exec to leadership coach. Amy shares her vibrant journey from the bustling world of publishing with giants like Martha Stewart Living Omnimedia and Smithsonian Media to becoming a sought-after leadership coach. Listeners will gain insight into Amy's decision-making processes as she navigated career pivots, driven by her desire for growth and leadership empowerment. Her narrative weaves through deeply personal experiences and significant professional transitions leading to a rewarding career dedicated to coaching others through their professional crossroads. Amy discusses pivotal moments that influenced her career trajectory, such as dealing with leadership changes and economic downturns while at Martha Stewart, and ultimately realizing her passion for coaching. With her profound understanding of the "messy middle"—a term she uses to describe a particularly challenging phase in one's career—Amy is determined to aid others in not only surviving but thriving during transitional periods. Throughout the episode, Holli, Robert, and Amy emphasize the importance of choosing a fulfilling path, remaining adaptable, and leveraging personal experiences for professional growth. Amy's story is a testament to the power of choice, resilience, and strategic career transitions in the space between what was, what is, and what's next. In This Episode 0:00 Career Pivots and Leadership Insights with Amy Wilkins4:26 Career Growth and Adaptability in the Publishing Industry8:20 Navigating Career Challenges and Personal Growth Amid Adversity18:19 Career Transitions and Leadership in Media Organizations24:39 Empowering Women in the Messy Middle Through Leadership Coaching32:34 Listening to Your Body's Warnings on Life's Journey34:29 Navigating Life's Transitions with Purpose and Contribution Key Takeaways Amy Wilkins transitioned from a successful career in media and publishing to leadership coaching, driven by her passion for empowering others. The "messy middle" is a critical phase in a career with increased responsibility, where Amy provides coaching to help navigate this complex period. Amy advocates for listening to personal intuition and recognizing when it's time for a professional pivot. Leadership and empowerment are central themes in Amy's approach, encouraging professionals to embrace change and growth. Amy helps individuals incorporate mindfulness into their daily routines for professional and personal development. Amy Wilkins Quotes "What if I could choose awe, wonder, and curiosity in every moment, regardless of how the world is operating around me?""Every situation, no matter what can be looked at like a gift or an opportunity.""I always loved empowering them… I like to let people's creativity flourish.""For me, it's all about the people in my life…the moments where I got to be deeply connected with the people that I meet.""I think what I was noticing is that I have a need to support and help others. It's like a burning need inside of me.""Even if I had told my younger self some of those things, she probably would have been like, what are you talking about?""Your body's going to tell you stuff that you didn't even know you needed to hear." About Amy Wilkins, Founder of Choose Awe LLC Messy Middle Mindset Coach Amy Wilkins established her coaching practice to empower women navigating the complex "messy middle" of their careers. With an impressive 35-year background in media sales, including senior sales and marketing roles at iconic brands like Martha Stewart Living Omnimedia and Smithsonian Media, Amy brings unique insight into leadership and transformation. She earned her ACC through the International Coaching Federation and is also a Positive Intelligence Coach. Amy gives her time to America Needs You, an organization supporting first-generation college students. In addition, she is connected to She Runs It having served on the board for 10 years (not consecutively) and continues to participate in the Mentoring program, something she has done for over a decade. Amy lives in New Jersey with her husband, daughter, and granddaughter. She loves spending time with family (including extended) and considers cooking in the kitchen the best kind of therapy. Most of the time, everyone wins! Amy also loves being outdoors in nature and often schedules "walking" calls with the people in her life.
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The Metaphorical Concept of The Traffic Lights of Life
In this engaging episode of 'Between Over and Next', listeners are taken on a metaphorical drive as hosts Holli and Robert interpret life's transitions through the lens of traffic lights and use the common symbols of red, yellow, and green traffic lights to illustrate the phases of life—between, over, and next. The discussion opens up on how we navigate the red (stop), yellow (proceed with caution), and green (go) moments in our personal and professional journeys. The episode encourages mindfulness and reflection at life's intersections, advocating for a balance between patience and action when confronted with life's unexpected changes and challenges. Engage with Holli and Robert as they share rich insights into embracing life's pauses, seizing opportunities to redefine purpose, and the importance of adaptability amidst change. In This Episode 0:00 Exploring Life's Metaphors Through Between, Over, and Next Moments2:14 Each Light Color Signifies an Empowering Message6:14 The Gift of Life's Pauses to Rethink Direction and Purpose11:30 Adapting Event Planning Amidst Covid and Cannabis Challenges13:21 Trust the Direction, Be Willing to Pivot, Be Open to Detours15:08 Balance Ambition with Patience and Adjust as Needed 16:04 A Green, Red, or Yellow Light Could Lead You to a Rewarding New Direction18:00 The Importance of Effective Billboard Advertising 19:57 We Encounter Many Traffic Lights Throughout Our Day, Both Literally and Metaphorically Key Takeaways Traffic Light Metaphor: Red lights indicate moments to stop and reflect, yellow lights suggest proceeding with caution, and green lights inspire bold action and movement forward. Life's Pauses are Powerful: Red light moments in life, like relationship endings or career changes, serve as crucial times for reassessment and preparation for new beginnings. Navigating the In-Between: Yellow light stages represent times of uncertainty where clarity is gained, offering the chance to redefine purpose before transitioning to the next stage. Boldness in Transition: Green lights invite individuals to step out of their comfort zones and embrace new paths, ready for life's surprises and detours. Balancing and Supporting: Effective navigation between these stages requires a balance of ambition and patience and the importance of supporting one another at life's crossroads. Holli & Robert Quotes "In life, just as on the road, signals show us when it's time to shift our approach, stop, slow down, or go.""These signals don't always appear in order… sometimes green turns yellow or red without warning.""The idea of the traffic light has so many interpretations for life…""Trust your intuition as to when it might be right to accelerate through a yellow or to slow down and stop and wait for that red light to change." Mentioned in Episode 43'Between Over & Next' Episode 40: Slow Down, Reflect, and Rise: The Gift of Life's Pauses 'Between Over & Next' Episode 3: The Meaning Of "Between Over & Next" Canna Pop-Up
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The Secrets of Entrepreneurial Bliss: Business & Pleasure United
In this episode of 'Between Over and Next,' Holli and Robert delve into the art of blending business with pleasure, highlighting the importance of loving what you do. Their discussion emanates from a profound understanding of personal satisfaction and authenticity as pivotal elements driving their long-standing success. With anecdotes from their careers and examples from renowned personalities like Bruce Springsteen, they explore how passion translates into professional triumph, urging listeners to pursue what they love for a meaningful life. The couple underscores the significance of fostering genuine connections and maintaining a relational approach in business, as exemplified by their journey in wedding and event production. Their conversation further extends to contemporary entrepreneurial success stories of Airbnb, Milk Bar, and Boston Beer Company, illuminating how staying true to one's passions can yield extraordinary outcomes. This episode encourages listeners to break free from conventional career constraints and embrace an entrepreneurial spirit that harmonizes business objectives with personal fulfillment. In This Episode 0:00 Combining Business and Pleasure for a Fulfilling Career 4:58 The Power of Passion and Authenticity in Entrepreneurial Success 9:52 Shaping the Podcasting Industry 14:45 Building Lasting Client Relationships in Event Video Production 17:38 Bruce Springsteen's Enduring Legacy and Passion for Performance 23:34 Business Success Stories Highlighting Connection and Community Key Takeaways The Intersection of Business and Pleasure: Combining personal interests with professional endeavors leads to greater job satisfaction and success. Authentic Connections in Business: Building deep, relational interactions with clients and audiences fosters loyalty and long-term success. Continual Growth and Adaptability: To stay ahead, always be open to evolving technologies and new trends, such as podcasting and AI. Inspirational Success Stories: Learn from trailblazers like Bruce Springsteen and other entrepreneurs who exemplify staying true to their passions. Encouragement for Personal Fulfillment: Pursue your passions fearlessly, and permit yourself to redirect your path towards joy and satisfaction. Holli & Robert Quotes "We have crafted all of our endeavors as entrepreneurs around things that we love to do." "Everybody should give themselves permission to tap into what they love." "It is about connection and people and producing something meaningful." "Nothing that has our thumbprint on it is ever anything but the best we can do." "We are inviting people to tune in to something that I believe is relevant, is relatable, does matter." "We love creating… When you're doing something you love, the product is better, your attitude is better, customer service is better." "Success isn't always just in the form of revenue. It is about finding fulfillment by doing what you love." Mentioned in Episode 42 Wedding Podcast Network Official Trailer: 'Bruce Springsteen: Backstage and Backstreets' From ABC News Studios and George Stephanopoulos Productions, the all-new special premieres Sunday night, October 20th at 10/9c on ABC. Stream on Hulu. Road Diary: Bruce Springsteen and The E Street Band | Official Trailer | Hulu Brian Chesky - Founder Airbnb Christina Tosi - Founder Milk Bar Jim Koch - Founder Boston Beer Company Follow Holli & RobertYouTubeWebsiteFacebookInstagram
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The Future is Now: Welcoming Our Grandson into the World
In this touching episode of 'Between Over and Next', Holli and Robert celebrate a major life transition as they share the joy of becoming first-time grandparents. As they introduce their grandson, Holden Ray, they discuss the excitement and anticipation surrounding grandparenthood, highlighting the responsibilities accompanying this life stage. With humor and emotion, Holli and Robert explore what this new chapter means, offering listeners a glimpse into their experiences and the cherished moments that define their journey. Throughout the episode, Holli and Robert delve into the profound impact of family and the circle of life, reflecting on their story from parenthood to grandparenthood. They describe the unique experience of witnessing their daughter take on the role of a mother and explore how the modern landscape of parenthood, enhanced by technology and social networks, has evolved. This episode captures the nuances of familial bonds and spotlights the blend of old traditions and new practices embraced by today's parents. Their personal stories and thoughtful discussions promise to leave listeners inspired and reflective about life's pivotal moments. In This Episode 0:00 The Transition of Becoming First-Time Grandparents9:59 Generational Shifts in Parenting and Childbirth Experiences14:38 Celebrating New Life and Generational Legacies18:39 The Wonders of Modern Obstetrics and Family Support21:20 The Power of Social Media for Community and Commerce22:34 Celebrating the Joy of Becoming New Grandparents27:51 Navigating Life's Twists With Courage and Inspiration Key Takeaways Becoming grandparents is a pivotal life transition, reflecting deeply personal and universal themes of family and legacy. The journey from parenthood to grandparenthood is fraught with emotions, surprises, and a newfound appreciation for family dynamics. Modern advancements such as technology and social media significantly influence contemporary parenting, offering resources and support previously unavailable. Emphasizing the importance of staying connected, Holli and Robert celebrate the notion that family support transcends generations, enriching lives with love and wisdom. Reflecting on how life stages bring about transformative experiences, this episode underscores the value of embracing each phase with gratitude and openness. Holli & Robert Quotes "I have so many feelings and emotions that are swirling around my head and in my heart.""There are very few moments in life that are a true surprise.""There are certain basics that just don't change.""The human body is the very first 3D printer." "There is so much power to social media when it's used with purpose.""There is so much of what's next and what's ahead, we don't know what it's going to bring." Mentioned in Episode 41 'Between Over & Next' Episode 38: A New Journey: Becoming GrandparentsArticles about Names for Grandparents40 Special Names for Grandparents-to-Be 80 Sassy Grandma Names for the Best Grandmothers Out There 100 Unique Grandpa Names the Grandkids Will Love How to Choose a Grandparent Name Lindsey & Elliot's Baby Registry: Babylist Emma Chayse - Lindsey's DoulaCooperman Barnabas Medical Center History In September 2021, Saint Barnabas Medical Center received a gift of $100 million from the Cooperman Family Foundation. The hospital was renamed Cooperman Barnabas Medical Center in honor of the family's gift.Having a Baby at Cooperman Barnabas Medical Center
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Slow Down, Reflect, and Rise: The Gift of Life's Pauses
In this thought-provoking episode of 'Between Over and Next', Holli and Robert explore how moments of pause can shape a more mindful and resilient approach to life's myriad transitions. Reflecting on their personal experiences and shared philosophies, they unravel the intricate dance between action and contemplation, urging listeners to embrace stillness amidst life's hustle and bustle. As Holli and Robert delve into the topic, their conversation touches on the importance of giving yourself the space to breathe, reflect, and embrace self-discovery underscoring how moments of pause foster growth, healing, and understanding. The duo emphasizes the importance of pausing for clarity which further enriches their dialogue, making this a must-listen for anyone seeking insight on cultivating patience. In This Episode 0:00 The In-Between Moments and Their Importance in Our Lives 2:26 Exploring the Transformative Power of Patience and Pause 6:40 The Jewish New Year is a Time to Look Inward 8:14 The Importance of Self-Discovery 11:25 Physical Transformation and/or Healing Requires Patience 12:52 The Biggest Test of Patience is the Unknown 14:12 Your Relationships Require Patience 16:22 The Power and Importance of the Pause Button 18:45 The Process of Learning: Periods of Inspiration and Stagnation 19:34 The Pause Can Lead to Breakthroughs Key Takeaways Patience and pause are vital tools for personal growth and navigating life's transitions. Embracing stillness can foster self-awareness and facilitate a more peaceful approach to challenges. Personal relationships require continuous nurturing and patience, as they are integral to personal fulfillment. Facing the unknown with patience can alleviate fear and uncertainty, allowing for a more comfortable journey into the future. Cultivating patience can be especially challenging during life-changing events, but viewing these as opportunities for growth develops resilience. Holli & Robert Quotes "Patience is the ability to embrace stillness and wait without frustration.""Your attitude and approach to those moments of pause and in-between completely determines the outcome on the other side.""These in-between spaces are all about embracing peace and love and kindness and healing.""How you show up has to matter to you… you can't always be going at the same intensity all the time.""Facing the unknown is the biggest test of patience.""You need to clear the mental clutter, set boundaries to rest, to slow down, and to take moments to take breaks." "Importantly, we want you to give yourself permission to reflect, to recharge, to reframe your thoughts, your actions, your what's next." Mentioned in Episode 40'Between Over & Next' Episode 3: The Meaning Of "Between Over & Next" 'Between Over & Next' Episode 38: A New Journey: Becoming Grandparents Follow Holli & RobertYouTubeWebsiteFacebookInstagram
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Love Across Ages: From Sparks to Lifetime Commitment
Join hosts Holli and Robert as they delve into the nuances of love and relationships across various life stages. From the thrills of young love to the contentment found in long-term partnerships, they discuss the evolution of feelings and the importance of nurturing relationships with patience, forgiveness, mutual respect, and fun. Throughout the conversation, they share personal anecdotes and insights on communication, vulnerability, and keeping romance alive. Discover engaging ideas to foster lasting bonds and prioritize emotional intimacy. Whether you're navigating new love or seeking to enrich a longtime partnership, Holli and Robert provide listeners with inspiration and practical advice for anyone seeking to understand or improve their relationship dynamics. In This Episode 0:00 The Evolution of Love From Infatuation to Deep Companionship5:00 Evolving Love and Relationships from Youth to Adulthood11:10 Communication and Connection in Long-Term Relationships18:43 The Joy of Flowers and Thoughtful Gestures20:03 Keeping Romance Alive in Long-Term Relationships28:57 Navigating Life's Challenges with Courage and Laughter Key Takeaways The Importance of Communication: Open and honest dialogue is the cornerstone of any successful relationship. Evolving Love: Relationships transform from the initial passion of young love to the deeper commitment of long-term partnerships. Maintaining the Spark: Regularly engaging in fun activities together helps to keep the romance alive. Patience and Forgiveness: Overcoming grudges and practicing forgiveness are essential for a healthy relationship. Embracing Vulnerability: Sharing fears and dreams fosters trust and strengthens the emotional connection between partners. Holli & Robert Quotes "Fondness could be the foundation of what could be in one's love life.""You must keep asking questions and engaging in deep conversations to discover and rediscover.""That passion should never go away, but let's face it, that passion is not what drives a relationship 24/7.""You must love yourself first to set the foundation for a healthy connection.""All you need is love"
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A New Journey: Becoming Grandparents
In this emotionally insightful episode of 'Between Over & Next,' Holli and Robert discuss the excitement and universal feelings associated with the anticipation of becoming grandparents for the first time. They share personal family stories, their own experiences with their grandparents, and how they plan to embrace their new role. They also explore the differences between young and older grandparents, the importance of proximity in grandparent-grandchild relationships, and their aspirations of being 'cool' and 'fun' grandparents. The couple reflects on how their parents and grandparents have shaped the way they envision grandparenting, emphasizing the value of everyday moments over special occasions. They look forward to integrating their new roles into their current lives and invite listeners to share their grandparenting advice. In This Episode 00:27 Exciting News: Becoming Grandparents02:09 Reflecting on Grandparenthood05:01 Memories with Our Grandparents14:23 The Role of Grandparents Today22:39 Looking Forward to Grandparenting27:16 Conclusion and Future Plans Key Takeaways The Anticipation: The journey to grandparenthood is something many parents either look forward to or are experiencing. What it Means to Be a Grandparent: The role will be a blend of joy and responsibility with exciting times ahead. Reflecting On Grandparent Experiences: Universal feelings that grandparents have. Special Memories of Your Grandparents: Personal stories and continuing traditions shaped by former generations. Proximity and Relationships: The closer you live to your grandchildren, the more you'll see them and hopefully have a deeper connection. Documenting the Moments: Not just the big events but the everyday interactions that form the essence of family life. Holli & Robert Quotes "Quite often, grandparents are raising their grandchildren or play a significant role in their lives.""It's not the big holidays or special times, but the mundane, everyday moments that create the deepest bonds." "We're going to look forward to babysitting and letting our children have the date nights like we had.""You've got to still be parents and guide and advise, but you need to let them do it their way."
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How to Thrive in the Sandwich Generation
Discussing the sandwich generation with depth and warmth, Holli and Robert share their experiences with their octogenarian parents and their now-independent children. Through reflections and insights into maintaining health and independence, they underline the significance of open communication and gratitude for meaningful relationships. The hosts also touch on the emotional and financial pressures, the evolving roles within families, the importance of creating multigenerational memories, and the benefits of learning from both older and younger generations. They bring to light the balancing act between maintaining personal well-being and fulfilling family duties and the satisfaction that comes from this complex but rewarding life phase. In This Episode 0:00 Navigating Life's Middle Stage as the Sandwich Generation3:48 Navigating the Sandwich Generation's Unique Challenges and Responsibilities12:03 The Importance of Family Proximity and Technology in Relationships17:33 Evolving Family Roles and Finding Peace in the Present20:05 Valuing Time and Cherishing Moments with Loved Ones22:00 Family Dynamics and COVID's Impact on Togetherness23:16 Balancing Parental Care and Celebrating Children's Milestones25:28 Balancing Self-Care and Family Responsibilities31:32 The Joy and Tradition of Multigenerational Family Gatherings34:48 Embracing Life's Transitions and Finding Joy in the Moment Key Takeaways Emotional Balance: The sandwich generation faces unique emotional challenges, balancing care for aging parents while supporting adult children. Family Connections: Maintaining strong multigenerational relationships enhances life experiences and brings significant emotional rewards. Health and Independence: Prioritizing health and independence is crucial for both aging parents and the caregivers themselves. Financial Planning: Early financial planning for retirement and elder care can alleviate future stress and dependency issues. Lifelong Learning: Continuously learning and adapting through life's transitions leads to personal growth and stronger family dynamics. Holli & Robert Quotes "We are experiencing right now a significant life pivot. Life is full of pivots. Being in the middle of any aging parents and adult children is a time to think about what was, what is, and what's to come.""One day your life will flash before your eyes. Make sure it's a story worth telling." "It's the wisdom to embrace the transitions and to blend the old and the new, and to grow together.""You can't be too proud to ask for help. It very often takes a village.""With knowledge comes growth, and I think that's really what you should strive for at any stage of life." Mentioned in Episode 37 Life Happens Survey "Adulthood Across Generations" Talker Research (new survey shows that Americans believe that "adulthood" starts at the age of 27) Live to 100: Secrets of the Blue Zones Netflix Documentary Udi's gluten-free bread Lindsey's Blog: Knead to Nosh 'Between Over & Next' Episode 36: Core Values in Action: How to Align Life with What Matters Most Blog Article: Time is Precious: How to Make Your Life Worth Watching Blog Article: Embrace the Power of Rituals for Relationship Enhancement and Growth Follow Holli & RobertYouTubeWebsiteFacebookInstagram Let Our Experience Be Your Advantage! Work with Holli & Robert – Learn More HERE
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Core Values in Action: How to Align Life with What Matters Most
In this episode of 'Between Over & Next', hosts Holli and Robert discuss the importance of aligning life with core values, particularly as one reflects on their golden years and beyond. They emphasize that living in harmony with these values can significantly impact both personal fulfillment and the legacy we leave behind. Throughout the conversation, the couple reflects on their milestones and rewarding moments, from their 30th birthdays to their professional journey starting in the early 1990s. As entrepreneurial partners, they've navigated both personal and professional landscapes together. They also discuss their strong belief in living by core values such as positivity, lifelong learning, and leaving a legacy. Holli and Robert share their unique perspective on building meaningful relationships, supporting each other's goals, and maintaining a balanced life filled with joy and purpose. This episode is packed with inspiration, advice, and reflections on living intentionally at any stage of life. In This Episode 0:00 Celebrating Milestones and Reflecting on Core Values in Golden Years3:49 From Wedding Videography to Pioneer Podcasters9:47 Mindful Moments and Legacy in Everyday Life12:03 The Joy and Challenges of Working with Your Spouse17:16 Embracing Change and Living by Core Values25:38 The Evolution and Importance of Friendships Over Time28:03 Embracing Life's Journey Through Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment Key Takeaways The Importance of Core Values: Holli and Robert stress living by core values such as positivity, lifelong learning, and leaving a lasting legacy. Celebrating Milestones Together: The couple reminisces about their milestone birthdays and significant life events, underscoring the importance of celebrating life's moments. Working Together as a Couple: They highlight the benefits and challenges of blending personal and professional lives, emphasizing mutual respect and support. Evolving Friendships and Relationships: The episode touches on how friendships change over time and the importance of keeping the door open for new relationships. Focus on Health and Wellness: Emphasis on prioritizing health and wellness, including staying active and managing physical limitations. Holli & Robert Quotes "Starting our entrepreneurial journey right after our honeymoon set the stage for where we are today.""The potential for greatness lies within each of us, always believing that something wonderful is about to happen can make the difference.""The only thing we can control is how we react to and manage the changes that come our way.""Don't let life just happen to you. Make it happen.""Don't postpone joy.""If enjoyment isn't part of your life, then what you're working for is not worth a dime.""Choose to celebrate, collaborate, and build community." "Your greatest wealth is good health." Mentioned in Episode 36 Holli & Robert's Proposal Video (FF to timestamp 6:40) Holli Williams Ehrlich Personal Facebook page Kris LeDonne Videotape Digitizing Services 'Between Over & Next' Episode 15: Living a Happy and Fulfilled Life As An Entrepreneur with Shannon Mayernik Follow Holli & RobertYouTubeWebsiteFacebookInstagram Let Our Experience Be Your Advantage! Work with Holli & Robert – Learn More HERE Schedule a Discovery Call HERE Share topics you would like covered in future episodes [email protected]
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Expert Relationship Advice: Proven Ways to Strengthen Your Connections
In this insightful episode of 'Between, Over & Next", hosts Holli and Robert sit down with relationship expert Carol J. Bruess, PhD, to delve into the intricate dynamics that make relationships thrive. She has been a researcher, author, social scientist, teacher, and speaker passionate about how humans create happy, healthy relationships and marriages through micro-moments of interaction, ritual, and dialogue for more than three decades. Revisiting a conversation that began in 2008 on their Wedding Podcast Network Lovecast show, they explore the balance between the art and science in marriages, offering listeners actionable advice on fostering strong, loving connections. Carol emphasizes the power of daily affirmations, kindness, playfulness, and maintaining connections in the digital age. By embedding these practices into daily life, couples can navigate challenges with greater ease. Carol also unveils her upcoming book project focused on empathy and dialogue. Tune in to listen to the full episode for a deeper understanding of these valuable insights on nurturing strong, loving, long-lasting relationships. In This Episode 0:00 Secrets to Happy Marriages with Relationship Expert Carol Bruess 5:13 The Art and Science of Relationships 8:18 The Power of Rituals and Playfulness in Happy Relationships 21:24 Key Elements for a Flourishing Relationship 27:05 Understanding Love Languages and Family Communication 30:29 Navigating Marital Challenges with Unique Approaches 32:10 The Importance of Generosity in Professional and Personal Growth 35:06 Balancing Digital and Face-to-Face Interactions for Healthier Relationships 39:21 Carol Bruess on Dialogue, Empathy, and Her Upcoming Book Project 42:14 Rituals and the Joy of Shared Adventures 44:07 Navigating Conflict and Growth in Relationships 45:48 Strengthening Relationships and Deepening Connections Key Takeaways Daily Affirmations: Regularly affirming your partner strengthens the relationship and ensures they feel valued and appreciated. Rituals of Connection: Small, consistent rituals such as hugs, nicknames, or shared games can significantly enhance the emotional bond between partners. Importance of Playfulness: Incorporating playful moments and maintaining a sense of fun helps keep the relationship youthful and resilient. Managing Conflict with Grace: Learning to disagree respectfully and granting each other grace during conflicts cultivates a healthier, more understanding partnership. Self-Talk: Positive self-talk and managing internal narratives about your partner are crucial for a successful relationship. Carol Bruess Quotes "Our relationships need daily deposits… of affirmation, kindness served with grace and positive self-talk.""We all need playful moments. A shared delight means a shared set of endorphins in your body, and then you get to share it with each other. A powerful moment of experience.""These moments of language sharing are little moments of ritual. And they do a whole host of really profound things for our marriages. They build a connection. They bond us. They say to the other person, I know you in a way that no one else does." "Be generous with your time and your resources and with giving credit and especially with your words.""We have to prioritize face-to-face micro-moments where we are with each other because we have a loneliness epidemic.""If something is important to you and me as a ritual of connection in our relationship, in our marriage or our friendship or our family, it's because we've given it meaning.""We have to expect anything worthwhile to take a long time." ABOUT CAROL J. BRUESS, Ph.D, Relationship Social Scientist | Author | Speaker | Radical Encourager Carol Bruess has a PhD in relationship communication and is Professor Emeritus of Communication and Family Studies at the University of St. Thomas, MN. She serves as Scholar in Residence for Relationships & Dialogue at the College of St. Benedict and St. John's University, Minnesota. The author of five books, she has a popular TEDx Talk "Are All Relationships Messy?" and has published her research in dozens of peer-reviewed journals and books. Dedicated to translating research into actionable, practical tools for creating human connection, she is a University of Washington / Gottman Relationship Institute, Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work Certified Educator, and a highly sought-after provider of community-based workshops on nurturing healthy families and marriages. Carol is also a contributing writer at TED.com on human interaction and has given more than 400 TV, podcast, radio, and media interviews, including MPR, NPR, CBS, NBC, ABC, The New York Times, and PBS. She's been married for 32 years to St. Bens/St. John's president, Dr. Brian Bruess, and they have two adult children (Tony, 28, a tech entrepreneur living in Manhattan, New York; and Gracie, 24, a second-year med student in Wisconsin). They also have one 4-legged child: 95lb Bernedoodle George, a certified therapy dog who is happily serving CSB+SJU students as puppy-in-residence. A lifelong artist and creator, Carol was recently appointed by Minnesota Governor Walz to serve as one of 11 members of the Minnesota State Arts Board. She loves sewing with vintage fabrics, doing headstands, and sipping an IPA non-alcoholic beer—not all at the same time. Carol's Website Carol's TED.com articles
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Embrace Seasonal Transitions: How to Stay Uplifted Post Labor Day
In this new episode of "Between Over & Next," hosts Holli and Robert dive into the seasonal transition from summer to fall, especially in the context of post-Labor Day reflections. They explore how this change signals new beginnings and incites a mixture of emotions, from excitement to a bit of melancholy, as they discuss the impact of the back-to-school season, changes in schedules, and the onset of autumn activities. Holli and Robert offer a wealth of actionable tips to help listeners maintain a positive outlook during this transition. With a focus on maintaining a balanced life, they cover establishing effective routines, practicing gratitude, and celebrating small wins. The episode also emphasizes embracing downtime, staying physically active, and setting realistic goals for personal and professional growth. The conversation is a mixture of personal anecdotes, practical advice, and motivational insights aimed at helping the audience navigate this annual shift with optimism and purpose. In This Episode 0:10 Transitioning from Summer to Fall 3:32 Nostalgia and Sensory Memories of School Days4:48 Post-Labor Day Reflections 11:01 Tips for Maintaining an Optimistic Attitude After Labor Day16:43 Embracing Seasonal Changes and Creating Enjoyable Activities18:16 Tips for Staying Positive Post-Labor Day Key Takeaways Morning Routines: Establishing a consistent morning routine with activities like stretching, meditation, or a healthy breakfast can set a positive tone for the day. Gratitude Practice: Starting and ending the day with a gratitude list can significantly uplift your mood and outlook on life. Embrace New Beginnings: View the change of season as an opportunity to start new projects or set new goals. Physical Activity: Regular movement and physical activities like walking or joining fitness groups can have a profound effect on your mental health. Positive Perspective: Shift your perspective to focus on the positives, celebrating small wins and maintaining a mindset of growth and appreciation. Holli & Robert Quotes "Labor Day signals for a lot of people the official end of summer.""Start and end each day by writing down at least three things that you're grateful for." "Embrace this time with enthusiasm and an open mind." Mentioned in Episode 34 Gratitude Journals: 365 Gratitude Journal, Grateful Daily Planner Apps Light Therapy The Jerry Lewis MDA Labor Day Telethonhttps://www.mda.org/about-mda/history https://www.mda.org/jerry-lewis/ 'Between Over & Next' Podcast Episode 20: Embracing A New Chapter: The Empty Nest Blog ArticlesGratitude in Action: Practical Tips to Cultivate a Thankful Mindset How To Stay Motivated: Recognizing And Celebrating Mini-Milestones "Plan. Do. Review. Assess. Repeat" - Performance Excellence: The Essential Framework for Startups and New Brands The Best is Yet to Come: How to Maintain an Optimistic Outlook Through the End of the Year
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The Digital Pivot: Adapting To New Technology
In this enlightening episode of 'Between Over & Next', hosts Holli and Robert delve into the remarkable digital transformation that has defined their generation. Reflecting on their personal and professional experiences over the past 30 years, they discuss the pivot from analog to digital and its profound impacts on various aspects of life and industry. From tape deterioration in video recording to using early computers and the advent of email, they provide a nostalgic yet informative journey through time.Holli and Robert bring to light the resistance many people feel toward new technology, exploring the reasons behind this reluctance, such as fear, comfort with the familiar, and the perceived complexity of modern digital tools. With humorous anecdotes and practical advice, the hosts provide insights into navigating and embracing technological change at any age. Join Holli and Robert as they reminisce about past innovations and speculate on what's next in tech evolution. In This Episode 0:00 Navigating the Analog to Digital Transition in Everyday Life8:23 The Evolution of Communication and Technology Over the Decades20:06 From Rolodexes to QR Codes: The Evolution of Business Tools29:29 Embracing Digital Tools and AI for Enhanced Productivity and Connectivity34:23 The Evolution of Technology and Its Impact on Daily Life Key Takeaways The Generation of Transformation: Holli and Robert discuss how their generation has experienced unparalleled technological change, from analog tapes to digital mediums. Resistance to Technology: They explain common reasons why individuals may resist new technology, including fear and discomfort with the unfamiliar, and offer tips to overcome these obstacles. Nostalgic Reflections: The hosts reminisce about past technologies like typewriters, rotary phones, and the first home computers, juxtaposing them with today's digital conveniences like smartphones and cloud storage. Advantages of Digital Tools: They highlight the numerous benefits of modern technology, including increased productivity, connectivity, and flexibility, and share practical tips for leveraging these tools effectively. Future of AI: Robert delves into the implications of artificial intelligence, from voice recognition to real-time language translation, underscoring its growing influence on everyday life. Holli & Robert Quotes "You have to get comfortable being uncomfortable to embrace new technology." "People will not lose jobs to artificial intelligence. People will lose jobs to people who know how to use artificial intelligence.""Keep reminding yourself of the advantages that new technology can bring so you can do and be better." "There are many, many benefits of operating in a digital world that will continue to enrich our lives personally and professionally."
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Designing Your Dream Life: Entrepreneurship in the World of Styling
In this episode of 'Between, Over & Next', hosts Holli and Robert have a delightful discussion with their talented friend, Robin Zachary, a seasoned fashion and prop stylist, content creator, and educator. The conversation dives into Robin's eclectic career journey from her beginnings in magazine publishing to her successful transition into entrepreneurship. Robin shares her evolution in the fashion and wedding industries, her pivot to home decor and prop styling, and her passion for teaching at FIT. Robin shares her inspiring story of transferring her skills from tableware and weddings to becoming an author. Holli and Robert revisit memorable moments from their collaboration during bridal markets and runway shows, illustrating the profound changes in the industry over time. Robin also discusses the nuances of her work, including the importance of staying updated with trends, the transition from print to digital media, and the evolving role of styling in today's image-centric world. The episode wraps up with Robin's passions, from collecting unique decor items to performing music with her husband, and the joys of living an entrepreneurial life. Join this inspiring conversation filled with expertise and creative insights. Key Takeaways Entrepreneurial Spirit: Robin emphasizes the importance of pivoting and adapting to changing industry trends while maintaining creative integrity. Educational Path: Detailed insights on the value of teaching and mentoring, highlighting Robin's transition to offering online courses and writing a comprehensive book on styling. Industry Evolution: How the fashion and bridal industries have shifted from print magazines to digital and social media platforms. Creative Process: The artistic inspirations behind Robin's successful career in styling, from fine arts to hands-on magazine layouts, and prop styling. Personal Interests: A glimpse into Robin's personal life, her love for music, and how she integrates her passions into her professional life. In This Episode 0:00 Reconnecting and Thriving in the Wedding Industry5:12 School Newspaper to Creative Director7:14 The Evolution of Bridal Magazines and Fashion10:39 Styling and Inspiration Sources14:04 Robin's Journey from Bridal Fashion to Prop Styling20:59 Transitioning From Print To Digital In The Styling Industry22:58 Teaching Styling Techniques and Business Strategies29:43 Discovering Unique Collectibles and Transforming Home Spaces34:02 Publication Work to Freelance Success39:55 The Art of Styling and Creating Beautiful Spaces45:18 Entrepreneurial Freedom and Life Design Robin Zachary Quotes: "I think, for a lot of people, when they look back on their careers, even though they may have been in and out of the corporate world, at heart, they're entrepreneurs.""The inspiration comes from everywhere.""What's much more important than money is to have pleasure in your life.""The days of working at a job, a physical job, I did that for many, many years, and I feel like I don't look back." "The idea of having your day be different every single day is the most exciting thing." ABOUT ROBIN ZACHARY Prop Stylist, Tabletop Editor, Creator of The Prop Styling Experience® Robin Zachary is a New York-based prop stylist and creative director for over 20+ years, a styling educator, and author of the book STYLING BEYOND INSTAGRAM. The creator of The Prop Styling Experience®, a custom-designed hands-on styling workshop, she is also a contributing home editor at Bridal Guide Magazine and its former creative director. Robin is a frequent speaker at conferences and workshops. She has been on the faculty of the Fashion Institute of Technology and has taught classes at the New York Botanical Gardens, the Penumbra Foundation, and West Elm. Her clients include national brands, magazines, e-commerce, and social media accounts. She lives in New York City and is passionate about vintage collecting, shopping, and being surrounded by flowers as much as possible. Follow Robin: Website, Found Artists, Pinterest, Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn Robin's Classes The Prop Styling Experience® Prop Styling Workshops Online Learn More Click Here Robin's Prop Styling Tools Order Robin's Book: Styling Beyond Instagram: Take Your Prop Styling Skills from the Square to the Street This comprehensive guide to the business of prop styling helps newcomers skip over some first-timer failures and approach styling work professionally. Stylist Robin Zachary explains the many types of styling that exist, and how to choose which focus is best for your goals.
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Life is the Sum of All Your Choices
Join Holli and Robert as they explore the complex world of decision-making. From what to eat for lunch to major life decisions like careers, relationships, and health, they dig deep into the psychology and philosophy of how our choices shape our lives daily. Hear about their experiences, including moving houses, picking colleges, and balancing parental guidance with self-discovery. The hosts share striking statistics, noting that an average person makes around 35,000 decisions daily. They discuss their journey from being entrepreneurs to podcast pioneers and the extensive planning that goes into every episode. Further, they explore the importance of prioritizing decisions, trusting your gut, and learning from past mistakes. This episode offers insights and strategies to help you make intentional choices and avoid regrets, highlighting the significance of the three Cs—choices, chance, and change. In This Episode 0:00 Navigating Life's Choices and Decisions5:56 All of Our Decisions Accumulate to Shape Our Lives11:53 Parental Guidance and Its Impact on Young Adults15:14 College and Career Choices20:22 Decisions in Relationships, Home, and Health26:43 Change is Inevitable in Life and Work27:58 Every Decision Comes with Uncertainties29:29 Live a Fulfilling Life Through Intentional Decision-Making Key Takeaways Decision-Making Statistics: Each person makes about 35,000 decisions daily, underscoring the complexity and frequency of our daily decision-making processes. Types of Decisions: The hosts differentiate between daily routine decisions and less frequent, impactful choices that can significantly alter one's life trajectory. Career and Education Choices: The importance of guiding young adults in making educational and career choices that keep options open and do not limit future possibilities. Parental Influence: The vital role of parental guidance and how engaged parents can positively influence their children's decision-making skills. Personal Happiness: The essential need to make decisions that align with personal values and long-term happiness rather than societal expectations. Holli & Robert Quotes "Some decisions we make on our own. Some decisions, you make it with others, like planning a family getaway." "Very few decisions are permanent. If you make the wrong choice, just pivot and try another path." "I believe everything happens for a reason. The Universe made the space for us to produce this podcast." "Trust your gut and your past decision-making successes. It's about being proactive rather than letting fear dictate your choices." "Sometimes you have to make the wrong choice to know the right one." "Focus on your why, not just your what." "Resisting change can hinder growth and happiness." Mentioned in Episode 31 'Between Over & Next' Episode 4 Celebrating Achievements Of The Parent-Child Journey MBTI (Myers-Briggs Type Indicator) is a valuable tool for understanding personality types and decision-making styles. 'Between Over & Next' Episode 28 Understanding Relationships Through MBTI®: A Journey To Better Connections Related Content: Holli & Robert Blog Article Mindfulness in Action: Life Hacks for Managing Decisions with Confidence Ready To Record Your Story or Interview Your Loved Ones? Take the first step and access our exclusive, FREE LEAVE A LEGACY How-To Guide designed to help you save time and jumpstart the process with dozens of personal biography questions and best practices on how to record the interview. We encourage you to embrace your role as an amateur documentarian and embark on this fulfilling journey of creating your video interview. Together, we can ensure that your legacy resonates with future generations in the most captivating way.
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Legend on the Airwaves: A Radio Icon to Media Stardom
In this episode of 'Between Over & Next", Holli & Robert welcome the legendary G. Keith Alexander, who takes listeners on a journey through his fascinating career in radio and his impactful ventures in Harlem. Known for his iconic voice, Alexander shares anecdotal stories of his time at WBLS, where he was mentored by the formidable Frankie Crocker, and later, his experiences during the heyday of disco. The episode navigates through Alexander's relationship with music legends, the various pivots in his career, and his entrepreneurial spirit that led to the creation of the Harlem America Digital Network, a platform dedicated to showcasing Harlem's rich history, culture, and creative community. This episode promises an engaging narrative about the evolution of radio, incredible personal stories, and insights into the transformative power of persistence and passion in one's career. Discover what it takes to embrace change and thrive in the ever-evolving world of broadcasting. In This Episode 0:00 Meet G. Keith Alexander6:20 From Humble Beginnings to Radio Stardom in 1970s New York12:16 The Evolution of Radio and Its Impact on Artists15:32 Rising From Radio Fill-In to Prominent On-Air Personality21:38 G. Keith Alexander's Radio DJ Career and Industry Changes27:23 Celebrity Encounters and Nightlife in 1980s New York City34:50 The Vision and Impact of Harlem America Digital Network40:39 Finding Joy and Success Through Passion and Determination43:49 Embracing Technological Change in Media and Voiceover Industries48:01 G. Keith Alexander's Impact on Harlem and Digital Media57:00 Celebrating G. Keith Alexander's Inspiring Interviews Key Takeaways G. Keith Alexander's storied career began as a music librarian at WBLS, where he learned the ropes under the mentorship of Frankie Crocker. The cultural and operational dynamics of radio in the seventies and eighties significantly influenced the careers of artists and DJs alike, often requiring a balance of talent and strategic networking. Alexander's notable engagements in the disco scene of the late seventies and early eighties, including his roles at WKTU and his memorable interactions with celebrities like Diana Ross and Aretha Franklin, highlight the amalgamation of media and entertainment during that era. His transition from radio to voice-over work and ultimately to founding Harlem America Digital Network showcases his adaptability and forward-thinking approach in media. Harlem America Digital Network aims to bridge local creativity with global recognition, providing a platform for Harlem's artists and entrepreneurs and ensuring authentic representation and inclusive growth. G. Keith Alexander Quotes "The level of your success is determined by the level of your determination.""We provide a stage for Harlem's artists and creators and entrepreneurs to share their stories and talents and innovations with the global audience.""I remember predicting that they would not have such a need for voice talent. Years from now, they're going to have automated voices." ABOUT G. KEITH ALEXANDER, Founder & CEO of HarlemAmerica Digital Network G. Keith Alexander is a renowned New York City radio icon, voice-over artist, and media personality with an illustrious career spanning several decades. He served as a DJ at WBLS, one of New York's leading radio stations, and worked at WRVR and WKTU. G. Keith is an industry pioneer known for his deep, charismatic voice and contributions to the Harlem cultural scene. As the visionary founder and CEO of HarlemAmerica Digital Network, he has forged a path for small businesses to amplify their fame, fortune, and followers in the digital age, showcasing his entrepreneurial insight and commitment to nurturing the talents of others. He has hosted numerous high-profile events and worked with iconic figures in the music and entertainment industry. Among his many accolades, the G. Keith Alexander Radio Collection finds its hallowed place in New York's renowned Paley Center for Media, a testament to his enduring influence and enduring legacy in the world of broadcasting.
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Small Treats, Big Impact: Simple Ways to Brighten Your Day
In this episode of "Between Over and Next," hosts Holli and Robert delve into the importance of small treats that uplift your spirit and enhance daily joy. From morning rituals and outdoor activities to playing pickleball and enjoying live music, they explore how little gestures make a big impact in enhancing life satisfaction. Sharing relatable anecdotes and practical advice for social connections, physical activities, and mindful self-care, Holli & Robert emphasize how incorporating simple pleasures can lead to a happier life. In This Episode 0:00 Finding Joy in Small Daily Rituals6:58 Shared Interests: Pickleball, Games, and Quality Time Together10:26 Rediscovering Joy in Everyday Activities and Local Adventures16:25 Small Joys: Scratch-Off Tickets, Music, and Daily Word Games18:57 The Flexibility and Personalization of Podcast Listening20:59 Treat Yourself Without Guilt22:19 Fully Engage with the Experience to Enhance Pleasure and Satisfaction 23:20 Holli & Robert Would Love to Hear Your Ideas 23:31 Don't Postpone Joy Key Takeaways Morning Rituals: Establish daily routines that set a positive tone for the day, whether it's enjoying the sunrise or sharing motivational content. Physical Activities: Engaging in activities like pickleball or gardening can significantly boost happiness and physical well-being. Social Activities: Regular social interactions, such as game nights or visiting new restaurants, can strengthen relationships and create lasting joy. Self-Care: Small wellness practices like reflexology or an occasional pedicure can rejuvenate the mind and body. Consistency and Mindfulness: Regularly incorporating small pleasures into daily life enhances overall happiness and satisfaction. Holli & Robert Quotes "Small gestures, small actions can spark joy and uplift your spirit." Holli"Our advice is that you find a morning ritual that energizes you and sets a positive tone for the day." Holli"On most days, I come back to bed for when you wake up so that you get to see me. When you wake up. I'm your sunrise." - Robert "Pay attention. Be aware, be mindful. When enjoying your small treats, fully engage with the experience and enhance the pleasure and satisfaction you derive from it." - Holli"When you walk around happy, I think the world is better because of that." Robert"I don't think anybody should postpone joy. Life is far too short." Robert
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Understanding Relationships Through MBTI®: A Journey To Better Connections
Holli and Robert delve into personality types with Michael R. Segovia from The Myers-Briggs Company, celebrating his 36 years of expertise. Learn how understanding the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator® (MBTI®) can enhance personal and professional relationships, improve communication, and foster growth. Michael covers the foundational principles of the MBTI® and shares insights on the evolution of personality types, conflict handling, and authenticity's importance. Michael explains the origins of the MBTI®, developed by Isabel Briggs Myers and Katharine Cook Briggs, detailing how the tool has evolved into a highly respected personality assessment taken by millions worldwide. He walks through the different preference pairs: Extroversion/Introversion, Sensing/Intuition, Thinking/Feeling, and Judging/Perceiving, and explains how these preferences influence our lives. This episode is an invitation to explore your personality type and use this understanding to build stronger connections. Don't miss our special offer for MBTI® assessments! In This Episode 0:00 Exploring Myers Briggs with Expert Michael Segovia6:02 Understanding the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator® and Its Validity12:33 Understanding Yourself Through the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator® 15:39 How MBTI® Types Influence Personal Relationships21:08 Personality Development and Collaboration Through Myers Briggs24:51 How MBTI® Can Improve Workplace Relationships and Productivity27:40 Understanding MBTI® in Relationships, Leadership, and Conflict Resolution31:59 Understanding Family Dynamics Through Personality Types35:52 Understanding Personality Types for Better Relationships and Personal Growth43:37 Discover Your Personality Type with a Special MBTI® Offer Key Takeaways Understanding MBTI®: The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator® helps individuals understand their own and others' personality types to improve communication, resolve conflicts, and build stronger relationships. Personality in Different Contexts: Our personalities impact all areas of life, including work and home. Knowing your personality type can provide valuable insights for both personal growth and professional development. Types and Preferences: Everyone uses all aspects of personality types to some degree; however, knowing which preferences you lean towards can help you interact more effectively with others. Development Over Time: Personality types don't change, but how we express and utilize them can evolve as we grow, promoting better type development and improved interpersonal relationships. MBTI® as a Lifelong Tool: The MBTI® is not only for organizational settings but can be applied beneficially in personal life, helping to strengthen family dynamics and friendships. Michael R. Segovia Quotes "When people differ, a knowledge of type lessens friction and eases strain. In addition, it reveals the value of differences.""Honor who you are. Find your authentic self… and then see how you can continue to grow beyond that.""Seek to understand as opposed to be understood.""Treat people how they want to be treated, which is more of the platinum rule." About Michael R. Segovia, M.A. Principal Consultant at The Myers-Briggs Company Michael Segovia is a Principal Consultant at The Myers-Briggs Company, where he has served for over 36 years. He holds a master's degree in Clinical Psychology from Trinity University, specializing in assessment and interpretation. Michael is renowned for his Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) expertise and has been quoted in major publications like Inc., Fast Company, and the Wall Street Journal. Additionally, he has delivered notable talks, including a TEDx Talk on how personality type theory has impacted his life.
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Event Planning Excellence: What You Need To Know
In this episode of "Between Over & Next," Holli and Robert share decades of expertise in turning special moments into unforgettable memories. They delve into the core of successful event planning and production, offering invaluable tips on turning a vision into reality. They discuss the significance of early influences, including Robert's first foray into videography in the 7th grade, to building a highly recognized videography business from scratch. From their extensive experiences in the event industry, the duo covers essential steps such as setting a date, considering the guest experience, choosing a venue, and managing logistics. They emphasize the importance of personalization, flexibility, and meticulous coordination to ensure every event is memorable and smooth. With references to their daughter's wedding and other notable events they've documented, listeners get a behind-the-scenes look at the meticulous planning and creativity involved. In This Episode 0:00 From Corporate Comfort to Event Videography9:28 The Importance of Choosing the Right Date for Your Event11:24 Essential Tips for Planning a Successful Event19:10 The Importance of Hiring a Videographer for Special Moments20:31 Essential Considerations When Choosing a Wedding Venue22:55 Transforming Weddings with Extended Cocktail Hours and Seamless Dining27:56 Secrets to Event Planning and Vendor Coordination Key Takeaways Start with the Date: Choosing the right date is crucial as it influences every aspect of the event, from venue availability to guest accommodations. Guest Experience is Key: Focus on the comfort and enjoyment of your guests by considering their travel plans, dietary needs, and overall experience. Personalization Matters: Incorporate unique elements and personal touches that reflect your style and preferences, making the event truly memorable. Budget and Guest List: Controlling the guest list helps manage the budget effectively. Be realistic and clear about expenses and contributions. Professional Documentation: Invest in skilled photographers and videographers to capture the essence of your event and preserve those precious memories. Holli & Robert Quotes "You never, ever want to have your event at the maximum capacity period." "Don't sweat the small stuff. If the shade of pink on that flower is just not quite right, nobody will know unless you are making a big deal out of it.""Controlling your guest list will help you control your budget." "People will react to how you're reacting as a host." "Documenting the times of your lives matters. These are your special moments.""A skilled documentarian will help you preserve all of those things that are gone. And more importantly, not the things that are gone, but the people." Mentioned in Episode 27 Good Noise Band Preston Bailey CLICK HERE to access the FREE PDF 'Eleven Tips to Engage Your Audience Virtually'
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Non-Negotiables: The Bedrock of a Fulfilled and Authentic Life
In this latest episode of "Between Over and Next," hosts Holli and Robert delve into the concept of non-negotiables, both in personal and professional contexts. They dissect the idea of core principles and values that individuals should not compromise on, using examples and insights from their own lives and the television show "The Bear." They highlight the importance of integrity, work-life balance, and lifelong learning, underscoring how these essentials shape their actions, decisions, and overall life satisfaction. The episode is rich with relatable anecdotes and practical advice, making it a must-listen for anyone looking to identify their non-negotiables and the confidence to uphold them in every facet of life. In This Episode 0:00 Exploring Non-Negotiables in Life and Business8:08 The Pursuit of Excellence in Culinary and Videography16:29 The Value of Awards and Self-Recognition in Professional Settings17:42 Living by Non Negotiables for Personal and Professional Excellence27:51 Identify and Uphold Your Non-Negotiables Key Takeaways Define Your Non-Negotiables: Understand and articulate the core principles and values that are essential to your authenticity and fulfillment. Integrate Non-Negotiables Across Life: Apply your non-negotiables consistently in both personal and professional domains to stay true to your core values. Prioritize Integrity: Maintain honesty, trustworthiness, and ethical behavior as non-negotiable standards in all interactions. Focus on Quality and Details: Whether in business or life, aiming for excellence and attention to detail can distinguish your work and build a strong reputation. Embrace Flexibility: While having clear non-negotiables, adaptability and the ability to adjust to unexpected changes are crucial for achieving balance and success. Holli & Robert Quotes: "Our non-negotiables are just part of who we are. They're our must-haves.""Make sure your non-negotiables are mutually beneficial in both life and business.""I wanted to give the gold package every time. That was my non-negotiable.""Live by your non-negotiables to inspire others to identify and adhere to their core values.""Be clear about your expectations and maintain open lines of communication."
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A Look Back: 25 Episodes of Growth and Gratitude
This special episode of "Between Over & Next" marks the 25th episode milestone, where hosts Holli & Robert reflect on the podcast's journey over the last six months. They celebrate their progress and share insights about the challenges and triumphs they faced while producing 24 episodes packed with valuable content. With themes of entrepreneurship, life pivots, and personal growth, this episode promises a treasure trove of reflections and gratitude. Holli & Robert emphasize the importance of commitment, consistency, and authenticity in their podcasting journey. They revisit the valuable lessons and profound insights shared by their 16 guests, including their children, friends, colleagues, and experts from diverse fields. They stress the value of experience and expertise in navigating life's major pivots, such as relocating homes or going through a divorce. The episode also brings to light the significance of strong relationships and meaningful connections in achieving personal and professional success. Thank you for joining Holli & Robert on this reflective journey through their first six months of podcasting. Tune in to the full episode to hear more about their experiences and stay posted for more enlightening content from "Between Over & Next." Don't forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review to support their mission of helping you navigate life's twists and turns with inspiration and insight. In This Episode 0:00 Celebrating 25 Episodes of "Between Over & Next" 3:09 The Commitment and Strategy Behind Successful Podcasting 5:18 Exploring Life's Pivots, Milestones, and Legacy Through Storytelling 8:13 The Importance of Email Lists Over Social Media 11:16 Celebrating Milestones and Lifelong Mentorship with Family 14:41 Navigating Home Buying and Selling with Expert Help 16:56 Navigating Divorce: Expert Advice for a Successful Outcome 18:47 The Power of Relationships and Networking in Podcast Success 24:02 Reflecting on Six Months of Podcasting and Future Plans Key Takeaways Commitment and Consistency: Holli and Robert underscore the importance of staying committed and consistent to produce quality content regularly. Value of Expertise: Emphasizing no substitute for experience, they highlight how expert guests provided deep insights into navigating significant life transitions. Power of Relationships: Meaningful personal and professional connections have been crucial in shaping the podcast's journey and achieving success. Navigating Life's Pivots: The hosts and their guests share real-life stories about adapting to changing circumstances and overcoming challenges. Audience Engagement: The importance of audience feedback, writing reviews, and joining the mailing list to stay connected and updated. Holli & Robert Quotes "We're proud of what we've accomplished over these 24 episodes, and we feel good looking back at all the hard work we've done.""The power of belief in yourself and trusting the process is essential in navigating life's uncertainties.""Choosing the right people to help you through life's significant changes, like moving homes or navigating a divorce, is crucial.""Legacy is something that really matters to us, and we believe everyone has a legacy to leave.""The relationships and meaningful connections we've built along the way have been instrumental in our success." "Embracing one's passion and being open to life's changing landscapes is essential for growth and happiness." Mentioned in Episode 25 Norman Lear's inspiration shared in Episode 3: The Meaning Of "Between Over & Next"Documentary "If You're Not in the Obit, Eat Breakfast"
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Professional Insights on Safe and Responsible Cannabis Consumption
Holli and Robert welcome Oleg Maryasis, a trusted cannabis expert, to discuss prohibition to legalization, touching on the plant's medicinal properties, harm reduction, and safe use. Oleg is a leading expert with over ten years in the cannabis industry and a specialized master's degree in Medical Cannabis Science and Therapeutics. Oleg shares his journey from traditional finance to becoming a cannabis advocate, influenced by personal experiences and heartfelt stories he encountered. The episode wraps up with insights into Oleg's current role at NYC Bud, FDA clinical trials, and opportunities for public education to de-stigmatize cannabis.Tune in for an in-depth look into the evolution of cannabis, the importance of dosing, and its therapeutic benefits across different demographics. This episode is packed with valuable information for both seasoned users and those curious about incorporating cannabis into their wellness routine. In This Episode 0:00 Exploring Cannabis' Therapeutic Benefits and Harm Reduction with Oleg5:50 The Medicinal Benefits and Evolution of Cannabis Use14:05 The Growing Importance of Cannabis Education in Medicine17:47 Harm Reduction and Safe Cannabis Consumption Strategies27:47 Understanding Cannabis Effects and the Role of Budtenders32:09 FDA Clinical Trials and the Future of Cannabis Therapeutics37:03 Oleg's Journey from Ukraine to the United States38:50 The Evolution and Legalization of Cannabis in Modern Society41:47 Exploring CBD Products, Usage, and Medical Advocacy47:13 Healing Jewelry and the Power of Gratitude Key Takeaways The Transition from Legacy to Legal Markets: Legalization focuses on providing clean, lab-tested cannabis products, ensuring safety and reducing the risk of contaminants. Medicinal Benefits and Endocannabinoid System: Cannabis offers therapeutic benefits that affect the body's endocannabinoid system, essential for maintaining homeostasis. Safe and Responsible Use: Start low and go slow with dosing, ensuring personalized wellness without overconsumption, especially important for younger users. Educational Gap in Medical Community: There's a lack of formal training regarding the endocannabinoid system in medical schools, resulting in a need for better education. Future of Cannabis in Therapeutics: Advancements in FDA clinical trials and rescheduling of cannabis could pave the way for wider acceptance and use of botanical drugs. Oleg Maryasis Quotes: "For me, cannabis is an exit drug. I was on anxiety and antidepressant medications from age 15 to age 30.""Most research indicates that for our bodies to function optimally, a person needs about 2.5 to 5 milligrams of THC per day.""The biggest takeaway is people should look into the endocannabinoid system.""Harm reduction is a big focus for me because I've learned there is excessive consumption often taking place for THC in particular.""By doing more of the things that we love and enjoy, your body's generating the anandamide cannabinoid. Everyone needs more bliss." About Oleg Maryasis, Director of Education at Lock & Key Remedies Oleg is a distinguished expert in the field of cannabis science and therapeutics. With over a decade of industry experience, he has been a guiding light for many seeking to understand cannabis' health benefits. Oleg earned his Medical Cannabis Science & Therapeutics Master's Degree from the University of Maryland School of Pharmacy in 2024. He is currently involved with NYC Bud, NYS (Long Island City) legal dispensary, where he oversees product selection, compliance, budtender training, and consumer education. Oleg is dedicated to reducing harm, promoting safe cannabis use, and advancing the public's understanding of the plant's therapeutic properties. In November 2016, Oleg and his partners founded Lock and Key Remedies to develop health and wellness products incorporating non-intoxicating ingredients extracted from cannabis plants. He is dedicated to researching cannabinoids, terpenes, and their interactions with the endocannabinoid system, as well as educating the public about these compounds. Oleg continues to develop and manufacture products for Lock and Key Remedies, where he serves as the Director of Education.
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The Magic of "Chasing Tornadoes: Friendship, Fame, and Fulfillment
In this episode of 'Between Over & Next', hosts Holli and Robert converse with the duo behind the musical "Chasing Tornadoes," Rob Fusari and Robin DeLauri. The episode unearths the compelling backstory of their collaboration, their reflections on friendship, and the deep connection between their personal and professional lives. Rob and Robin share insights drawn from their journeys, highlighting the significant inspirations and life-altering moments that have shaped their musical careers. Rob and Robin discuss their initial meeting and how their mutual love for music and complementary skills led to "Chasing Tornadoes," a captivating musical inspired by "The Wizard of Oz." They delve into themes of success, fame, and fulfillment, enriched with anecdotes from working with industry giants like Destiny's Child and Whitney Houston, while Robin reflects on balancing motherhood and music. The episode beautifully articulates the essence of home, community, and the transformative power of their creative endeavors. In This Episode 0:00 Chasing Tornadoes: A Musical Journey Inspired by The Wizard of Oz6:29 The Significance of Home in Personal and Creative Journeys9:09 A Musical Journey: From College Accompanist to Vocal Mentor14:43 Evolving Definitions of Success and Fulfillment in Show Business18:40 The Highs and Lows of a Songwriter's Journey25:05 Rediscovering Passion and Purpose in Music and Life36:58 Rediscovering Passion and Talent Through Chasing Tornadoes44:46 Chasing Tornadoes and Future Adventures with Rob and Robin Key Takeaways Musical Beginnings: Rob and Robin recount their early encounters with music and how it has continuously influenced their lives and careers. Creative Collaboration: The duo reflects on how their friendship and shared history contributed to the production of "Chasing Tornadoes," inspired by "The Wizard of Oz." Defining Success: Insights into how their perceptions of success and fulfillment have evolved, emphasizing personal growth over professional acclaim. Industry Experiences: Anecdotes from Rob's collaborations with music icons, revealing the highs and lows of working behind the scenes. Inspirational Journey: Encouraging listeners to embrace life's uncertainties and pursue their passions, irrespective of age or stage in life. Notable Quotes "But something about where you grew up just always feels like I'm here. You could kind of, like, your shoulders can relax and you could breathe." - Rob Fusari"Home is you. It's got so many layers. Home." - Rob Fusari"When you follow your heart and your talents and you know you have a gift to share with others, life becomes meaningful." - Holli"I had it all wrong. What I thought success and friendship and all of it were to me in my twenties, I had it wrong." Robin"I would have been so much kinder to myself along the way if I had known that at 49, it's going to happen for you." Robin About Rob Fusari A Grammy-award-winning multi-platinum record producer and songwriter, Rob Fusari has worked with some of the biggest names in the music industry, including Beyonce, Whitney Houston, Britney Spears, Will Smith, and Lady Gaga. His discography holds countless Billboard hits, including Destiny's Child's "No No No" and "Bootylicious", Whitney Houston's "Love That Man", Will Smith's "Wild Wild West" and Lady Gaga's "Paparazzi", which he also co-wrote, and subsequently lead to being honored with a Grammy and the Ascap POP award. He has recently been featured in Billboard magazine's Top 10 Songwriters in the world.Rob Fusari Website: Bio + Discography About Robin DiLauri A seasoned singer and performer with a rich background in jazz and pop music, Robin DeLauri has been a prominent figure in the tri-state area's music scene. She is co-owner of Down Neck Productions and President of LongShore Entertainment. She has dedicated her life to her family and music career, performing with popular groups like The Infernos. Robin is passionate about bringing emotional depth and nuance to her performances.
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From Training Wheels to Triumph: Growth, Balance, Lifelong Learning
In this episode of "Between Over and Next," hosts Holli and Robert delve into the metaphor of riding a bicycle with training wheels to discuss personal and professional growth. Holli and Robert emphasize the critical role of mentorship and continuous guidance in achieving long-term success. They discuss how early support, akin to training wheels on a bicycle, can provide stability and confidence in one's professional journey. Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, they emphasize the lifelong journey of learning and growth and the critical role of balance and preparedness. Tune in for reflections on mentorship, the pitfalls of overconfidence, and the value of true expertise. In This Episode 0:00 Life Lessons From Childhood Memories and Learning to Ride a Bike 5:23 Evaluating Client Successes and Failures Through Social Media Insights 8:23 The Value of Real-World Experience in Business and Mentorship 15:36 False Confidence and Client Ego in Professional Relationships 16:08 The Importance of Continuous Growth and Honest Feedback 19:40 The Importance of Timing in Removing Training Wheels 20:49 Continuous Guidance Maximizes Success and Minimizes Mistakes 31:25 Navigating Life's Twists and Turns with Holli and Robert Key Takeaways Importance of Initial Guidance: Early support can provide the stability and confidence needed to navigate new challenges. Continuous Mentorship: Long-term mentorship offers ongoing refinement and support, essential for sustained success. Handling False Confidence: It's crucial to identify and mitigate overestimations of readiness to avoid setbacks. Role of Broad Experience: Real-world experience is invaluable in offering practical advice and foresight. Adaptability in Relationships: Professional and personal relationships evolve and require continuous assessment and adaptation. Holli & Robert Quotes "What we do, in many ways, is that hand on the back of the bicycle." "True mastery requires ongoing refinement and support." "There are instances where clients try to take those training wheels off way too soon." In Your Success, Lies Our Success! Holli & Robert Coaching Holli & Robert empower individuals and businesses with a focus on creative content, storytelling, digital strategy, video, podcast, and event production to gain impact and influence online. Blog Article: Performance Excellence: The Essential Framework for Startups and New Brands
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How To Bloom Where You're Planted With An Entrepreneurial Spirit
In this episode of "Between Over & Next," hosts Holli & Robert welcome Donna Fillweber, a vibrant entrepreneur who has showcased a remarkable ability to pivot across diverse professional landscapes. Donna shares valuable life lessons from her success in direct sales with Lia Sophia to becoming the Publisher of Pequannock Magazine. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion on self-belief, overcoming challenges, finding joy, and living authentically. Donna recounts her transition from a stay-at-home mom to a business leader in the competitive realms of scrapbooking, jewelry, and nail products. She emphasizes the importance of networking and passion in achieving financial independence and personal growth. Additionally, Donna discusses her recent ventures into real estate and publishing, underscoring the importance of community connection and personal fulfillment. Don't miss this insightful conversation filled with practical advice and inspirational stories of resilience, adaptability, and thriving in various industries. In This Episode 0:00 The Power of Networking and Meaningful Connections6:02 Donna's Journey from Divorce to Entrepreneurship7:01 From Scrapbooking to Jewelry: A Journey of Passion and Success8:19 Donna's Journey from Home Parties to Financial Independence13:19 Opportunities and Challenges in Direct Sales and Network Marketing14:34 Empowering Women Through Nail Art and Entrepreneurship17:21 Balancing Work and Personal Freedom17:34 Donna's Journey from Single Motherhood to Real Estate19:07 Donna's Journey to Becoming a Publisher 22:48 Resilience and Adaptability in Overcoming Personal and Professional Challenges25:21 Reflections on Life, Happiness, and Personal Growth32:19 The Benefits and Misconceptions of Direct Sales and Network Marketing34:21 Capricorn Traits and the Importance of Gratitude38:19 Showcasing Donna's Magazine and Inspirational Stories Key Takeaways Authenticity in Business: Donna stresses the importance of being genuine and passionate about what you do, as this authentic connection fosters trust and success in any venture. Power of Networking: Building and nurturing networking relationships can significantly impact personal and professional growth. Adapting to Change: Embracing life changes and viewing them as opportunities for growth can pave the way for unexpected successes. Balancing Life and Work: Flexibility is crucial in effectively managing one's time between professional duties and personal life. Family as a Driving Force: Donna's journey highlights her family's influence in motivating her to strive for and achieve financial independence and professional success. Donna Fillweber Quotes "Do what you love, and the money will come." "It's always a no if you don't ask." "If something feels funny, it's usually off." "Bloom where you are planted." "Just do it and move on to the next thing." About Donna FillweberPublisher, Pequannock & Pompton Plains Magazine Donna Fillweber is a multifaceted entrepreneur with over 30 years of experience in various business ventures. She started her journey in direct sales, excelling in companies like Lia Sophia and Color Street, managing and mentoring teams of hundreds of women. Donna recently transitioned into real estate with Realty Executives Exceptional Realtors, and publishing, currently serving as the Editor and Publisher of Pequannock Magazine. Donna's hobbies include hiking, gardening, pickleball, home decor, and cooking. June 2024 Issue Pequannock & Pompton Plains Magazine Wainscot Media Publications Mentioned In Episode 21B.I.G. - Believe. Inspire. Grow. Canna Pop-Up
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Embracing A New Chapter: The Empty Nest
In this episode of "Between Over and Next," Holli and Robert candidly share their journey through the empty nest stage of life. The episode serves as a soothing balm for parents grappling with the adjustment of their children leaving home for college, work, or to start their own lives. As a dynamic duo, they peel back the layers of emotions involved in this transition, offering an empathetic narrative that many listeners can relate to. The hosts reveal their transition into empty nesting, interspersing anecdotes and reflections on their parenting journey. A considerable part of the discussion focuses on maintaining a healthy marital relationship, ensuring personal growth, and the complex interplay between parents and adult children. By exploring the benefits, challenges, and strategies to cope with the empty nest syndrome, the episode is embedded with wisdom, practical advice, and relatable sentiments. This episode is for anyone looking for encouragement and affirming that life holds plenty for them to look forward to. Holli and Robert's musings will leave you with a renewed perspective, equipped to handle the inevitable changes life throws your way. In This Episode 0:00 Embracing Life's Transitions as Empty Nesters4:42 Transitions: College, Home, and City Living5:12 Navigating the Emotional Journey of Becoming Empty Nesters9:28 Empty Nesters Reflect on Parental Transitions12:22 Embracing the Empty Nest Stage in Marriage16:38 Embracing Life Transitions and Maintaining Parent-Child Connections22:25 Parenting Reflections and the Empty Nest Experience24:23 Embracing Life's Next Stage: The Empty Nest Transition30:18 Exploring Life's Transitions with Holli and Robert Key Takeaways Embrace Transition: Viewing the empty nest stage as an opportunity rather than a loss can lead to personal and spiritual growth. Rekindle Relationships: This stage offers couples a chance to reconnect with one another and rediscover shared interests. Parental Reflections: Parents often introspect about their parenting effectiveness and their children's future independence. Personal Rediscovery: This stage allows parents to explore new hobbies, education, or career options, leading toward self-discovery. Communicative Bonds: Maintaining open communication lines with adult children is vital for a supportive, ongoing relationship. Holli & Robert Quotes "Empty nesting is more of a pivot than a final stop. It's a process of shifting one's energy and focus. It's creating a new stage in life." "If all your life, if everything you've done, if your whole focus has been your children and doting on them and taking care of them, and now, suddenly it's like losing a job, in a sense, you don't have those responsibilities anymore." "You need to forge a new relationship with yourself and your adult children. Let it be a supportive relationship rather than a controlling one.""It's a time to learn, to grow, to pursue personal goals.""Investing in your fulfillment will not only bring you more freedom and joy but also serve as a model for your children." Related "Between Over & Next" Podcast Episodes and Blog Articles Blog Article: From Endings to Beginnings: Finding Fulfillment in Life's Beautiful Transitions Podcast Episode 4 with Holli & Robert's Adult Children: Celebrating Achievements Of The Parent-Child Journey Podcast Episode 11: Charting New Territories: Strengthening Relationships Hand in Hand Podcast Episode 19: Your Next Big Thing: Tips for Exploring, Discovering, and Launching
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Your Next Big Thing: Tips for Exploring, Discovering, and Launching
In this episode, Holli and Robert discuss the process of bringing your vision to reality and making your next big thing happen. Dive into the lively conversation where they tackle the journey from ideation to actualization. This episode is infused with the energy and expertise of a couple who have not only thrived through myriad entrepreneurial endeavors but are also passionate about guiding others on the path to their happiest life at every age. They offer tips for exploring, discovering, developing, and launching new ideas, whether it's a career change, a passion project, or starting a business. With their own experiences and success stories, they inspire listeners to trust in their abilities, stay persistent, and minimize fear. Learn how to identify your interests, create a plan, build a strong brand, and stay determined throughout the journey. Tune in to the full episode to gain a wealth of knowledge from Holli and Robert as they illuminate the path from concept to creation with personal anecdotes, practical advice, and indispensable strategies. In This Episode 0:00 Empowering Life Transitions and Entrepreneurial Journeys 5:25 Turning Passions Into Entrepreneurial Success Stories 8:44 Adapting to Change in Professional Landscapes 11:08 Harnessing Passion and Expertise to Ignite Business Ideas 14:05 Turning Personal Passions Into Profitable Businesses 15:38 Leveraging Public Conversations to Inspire Business Ideas 16:47 Turning Big Ideas Into Achievable Tasks With Project Management Tools 18:21 Crafting a Timeless Brand Identity and Logo 21:51 The Evolution and Longevity of Evergreen Podcast Content 22:47 Harnessing AI and Online Platforms for Branding and Design 25:03 Strategies for Leading in Technology and Innovation 29:19 Embracing Challenges and Celebrating Milestones in Entrepreneurship 32:16 Turning Passion Into Success With Determination and Innovation 34:56 Fostering Connection Through Insightful Conversations Key Takeaways Bringing your vision to life begins with identifying your passions and mastering the art of brainstorming to shape your idea into a viable plan. Develop a unique selling proposition (USP) and build a strong brand identity through compelling logos, memorable taglines, and consistent brand voice and tone. Employ SMART goals as a framework for actionable steps that are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound. Surround yourself with a supportive network to provide guidance, feedback, and encouragement throughout the process of executing your idea. Adaptability and resilience are key. Embrace challenges and changes along the way, and stay determined to see your vision come to fruition. Holli & Robert Quotes "The intersection of passion and expertise is where the best ideas start." "Every pivot is an opportunity for growth and development, and you have to trust in your abilities." "Be curious about what your next big thing could be. You don't have to figure it out this second, but look for the patterns where you have a unique perspective or skillset." "If you can tie that excitement to what you do in life, then you'll go into each day with that excitement and that enthusiasm." You have to know when to refine, to reroute, to pivot, and that's how you'll persevere." "With the right approach and a determined spirit, your next big thing is just around the corner." Mentioned in Episode 19 View Unique Brand Logos on Holli & Robert's About Us Page Stacy Lewis - designer Absolute Video logo Wedding Podcast Network - How To Listen Ilene Segal - designer WPN logo Vicky Barone - Wedding Podcast Network website designer Apple iPod History SMART Goals - University of California: A How-To Guide Answer the Public (Resource for gauging public interest and problems) Notion (Project management tool) Project Management Tools Canva (Design tool) Canva Magic-Write Online AI Text Generator Fiverr and Upwork (Freelance services platforms) Kickstarter J.K. Rowling Between Over & Next Podcast Episodes Mentioned Episode 14 with Jill Frechtman Episode 13 with David Noonan Episode 18 with Holli & Robert
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Building A Happy Life While Working With Your Spouse
In this episode of 'Between Over and Next,' co-hosts Holli and Robert delve into the complexities and rewards of navigating personal and professional life as a married couple. They discuss their journey of working closely together for more than three decades, exploring the nuances of maintaining happiness when your spouse is also your business partner. This episode provides a candid look into their own experiences, offering listeners a unique window into the harmonious world they've cultivated. The couple reflects on the intricate balance of partnership, detailing their strategies to overcome obstacles and achieve success together. Their shared beliefs in communication, trust, and respect have established a strong foundation for their marriage and joint business endeavors. Listeners will walk away with a better understanding of the key aspects that make a professional relationship work, even when mixed with romance. Key Takeaways Working with your spouse professionally requires clear communication, trust, and mutual respect to navigate the mixed dynamics successfully. Establishing distinct roles and boundaries within the partnership is crucial to maintaining personal happiness and professional effectiveness. Celebrating successes and learning from disagreements are an integral part of growing together in a business partnership. Entrepreneurial couples should share a vision and goals but also need to be flexible and willing to pivot when necessary. A successful working relationship with your spouse can offer incredible rewards, including a deeper level of understanding and collaboration. Holli & Robert Quotes "Almost 100% of the time when we tell people that we're married and work together, almost 100% of the time, the reaction is, oh, my God, I could never do that." Robert "Our compatibility is extraordinary. We are friends, lovers, and business partners." Holli "Being an entrepreneur is based on wanting to and being able to be in control of your schedule, your daily schedule, not having someone else dictate that to you." Robert "We have each other's best interests at heart." Holli "Our personalities are very different... but they're complimentary." Robert Mentioned In Episode 18 HollI & Robert's About US Page Holli's Huffington Post Article "All You Need is Love - A Tale Of A Happily Married Couple" LinkedIn Weekly Newsletter THE PIVOT by Robert Allen Between Over & Next Episode 4 Featured Guests Lindsey & Alex Ehrlich Wedding Podcast Network Wedding Podcast Network YouTube Page Planet Bride with Henry Roth & Michelle Roth All My Children 2000 - Mateo and Hayley Wed - Mark Consuelos and Kelly Ripa Live with Kelly & Mark Regis Farewell Special: Joy Philbin and Daughters Regis and Kelly Host Chat - March 16, 2001 (time stamp 21:31 = a fun exchange about Kelly's pregnancy with baby #2)
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Hollywood to High Times: Entertainment, Media, and Cannabis
Join hosts Holli and Robert as they chat with Stu Zakim, a PR expert with a long and illustrious career in the entertainment industry. Stu shares stories from his time working with celebrities and discusses his pivot into the cannabis sector. Stu shares fascinating tales from his early days at Columbia Pictures to pivotal moments like the coining of the term "Brat Pack." His evolution into the cannabis industry marks yet another significant shift, reflecting both a personal passion and a professional pivot. Stu's journey is a testament to building relationships and embracing new opportunities. He has shown that you can thrive in any industry and make a lasting impact with the right skills and mindset.Join us for this captivating discussion with Stu, a PR aficionado, and uncover the intricacies of his storied career, his role in setting trends, and his advocacy in the cannabis world. Gain valuable insights into the power of connections, storytelling, and the transformative effects of education on public perception. With his vast experience in PR, Stu brings a unique perspective to the cannabis industry and is dedicated to making a positive impact. The discussion delves into Stu's remarkable journey, dissecting his career transitions, the influential decisions made, and his continuous mission to redefine perceptions. Don't miss this insightful episode of Between Over and Next! Key Takeaways Stu Zakim's extensive background encompasses significant roles in PR across entertainment sectors, culminating in his influential presence in the cannabis industry. The concept of brand positioning and crisis communication in PR has played a pivotal role in shaping the trajectory of businesses and public figures throughout Stu's career. Stu's role in the 'Brat Pack' phenomenon exemplifies his knack for seizing opportunities and creating impactful narratives. Mentorship, attention to industry relationships, and continuous learning are key themes Stu emphasizes for success in PR. Despite his diverse experiences, Stu believes his current chapter in the cannabis industry might be one of his most impactful and fulfilling. Stu Zakim Quotes "It's all about relationships, period. And so that skill, which I have a natural ability to generate, certainly is a way to meet new people whom I need to cultivate. "At the end of the day, it's really about education, because the only way you eliminate the stigmas that people have... is by storytelling and telling the right kind of stories." "I think there's so much more to accomplish, whether it's with cannabis or extends to the psychedelic era, which is also gaining enormous traction right now." "And that's how I continue to look at things, who knows what's going to happen next?" About Stu Zakim President and CEO, Bridge Strategic Communications Stu Zakim is a seasoned public relations (PR) professional with a career spanning over four decades in various entertainment and communication sectors, including film, music, publishing, and most recently, the cannabis industry. Having started his journey at Columbia Pictures right after college, Stu quickly rose through the ranks, translating his passion for media into a thriving career. Engaged in significant pivots throughout his career, Stu has contributed to and influenced iconic projects like 'St. Elmo's Fire.' A proud consumer and advocate for cannabis, Stu has transitioned his expertise to the PR side of the cannabis sector, where he continues to shape opinions and dispel stigma, earning him the title "The Emperor of PR" by Honeysuckle magazine. He has worked for some of the best-known film, magazine, and television brands. Zakim has provided counsel to a variety of iconic media leaders including Jann Wenner, Bonnie Fuller, Christie Hefner, and David Pecker, and their publications - Rolling Stone, Playboy, Us Weekly, Shape, and Star magazine among others. As an executive at Columbia Pictures, Universal Pictures, and Showtime Networks, he has also worked on the PR campaigns of some of the most popular and successful films and television shows in recent history. Zakim is a frequent contributor to CNN and MSNBC. He is a member of the Academy of Motion Pictures Arts & Sciences. His peers recognized him as one of the Top 100 people in the cable industry and also serves on the Board of Directors of the Publicity Club of New York. In the Cannabis space since 2013 as both a PR professional and advocate, Zakim's firm has represented clients in multiple states like The Happy Munkey (NYC), and CryoCure (NV). The Marijuana Business Association (MJBA) )(WA), LIM College (NY), Berkshire Roots (MA), The Travel Agency: A Cannabis Store (NYC) Queen City Dispensary (NJ), Cannabis Platform Advisors (NYC) Flower Power Dispensers (NYC), Mighty Lucky Dispensary (NYC) Heavy Metal Cannabis and writes regularly on Cannabis issues for Rolling Stone and other outlets. Since 2021, his firm helped clients win 6 Clio Awards and the firm was a finalist in Best PR Firm and the Cannabis category from the EMJAY awards and has generated over $15 million in earned media coverage. Rolling Stone article by Stu Zakim: What's In A Name: How Cannabis Brands Can Break Through The Clutter
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What We Know For Sure: Six Decades And Counting
Life is a series of moments strung together, colored by experiences that mark our journey from one milestone to the next. Join hosts Holli and Robert as they celebrate their age and talk fondly of their six decades lived as a testament to their resilience and positivity. They share insights on marriage, parenting, and the value of a strong support system. Spanning topics like career transitions and entrepreneurship, personal growth, and family dynamics, the duo candidly shares the wisdom garnered from their own experiences, shedding light on the trajectory from their youth to the seasoned perspectives they now hold in their sixties. The episode doesn't shy away from discussing the significance of growing older with gratitude, maintaining health, forging and nurturing relationships, and embracing change. This episode of 'Between Over & Next' will inspire listeners to lead a life brimming with joy and fulfillment, irrespective of their age. Key Takeaways: Age is just a number; mindset and embracing every moment are the true determinants of a fulfilling life. Investing in personal and professional growth in your twenties lays a strong foundation for the future. The thirties and forties are pivotal for balancing family life with personal aspirations and maintaining strong relationships. Reflection and reevaluation become more intrinsic in one's fifties, setting the stage for a focused and intentional approach to the coming years. Lifelong learning, self-care, and giving back to the community are essential practices for a happy and meaningful life. Holli & Robert Quotes: "Time seems to move so much faster as you get older.""Invest in your relationships over and over and over again.""We are the architect of our happiness.""I am grateful for the abundance in my life."
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Living a Happy and Fulfilled Life As An Entrepreneur
In today's rapidly evolving world, the concept of a lifelong career is no longer the norm. The journey between where we are, where we have been, and where we want to be can often seem like a complex maze. However, as the insightful podcast "Between Over and Next" reveals, it also offers a rich space full of possibilities for personal and professional growth. Hosts Holli and Robert introduce us to the inspiring story of Shannon Mayernik, who at 41, discovered her passion for herbalism and transformed her life by leaving the confines of a loathed publishing job to create a business bursting with purpose. Shannon reminisces about the pivotal moment that shifted her career trajectory - a spontaneous visit to a local farm that led to her epiphany and decisive career shift from a twelve-year stint in publishing to pursuing herbalism. The narrative unfolds as she shares her explorations in herbalism and the joys of working harmoniously with nature. Shannon deconstructs the idea of plant medicine, touching upon how common herbs like ginger, lemon balm, and chamomile can be used as natural remedies for the body's well-being. This podcast episode illustrates the power of embracing one's true calling and how nature, entrepreneurship, and personal well-being can intertwine to foster a meaningful life. Key Takeaways Shannon Mayernik took a significant leap from a career in publishing to founding her own herbalism business, emphasizing the importance of following one's passion. Plant medicine and herbalism offer natural alternatives to conventional medication for common ailments such as colds, sleep issues, and digestive troubles. Herb gardening can be both a therapeutic pastime and a sustainable way to cultivate personal health remedies. Educating oneself and being financially pragmatic are crucial when transitioning to a passion-led career. Starting small and growing one's passion for natural health into a business is possible with dedication, patience, and support. Shannon Mayernik Quotes: "I went to a local farm just to pick up eggs in the morning. And as I was driving out, it just hit me. I said I had to quit my job. This is not what I want to do.""I followed my passion. I fell in love with herbalism and really just followed it." "You don't want to just grow all of these plants and then come fall, they die. You want to be using them throughout the year.""Dandelions? Everyone looks at it as a weed. It's not a weed. It could be used medicinally from flower to root. And it's great for your digestive system. It's good for immunity, it's good for the liver.""You're always going to be thinking about work... It just comes with owning your own business." About Shannon Mayernik Shannon is an herbalist and plant medicine maker who started her green journey back in 2012. She graduated from Chestnut School of Herbal Medicine and became an herbalist under the apprenticeship of Robin Rose Bennet. Shannon graduated from the Academy of Culinary Nutrition in 2015 and became a Master Food Preserver in 2019. In 2022, Shannon became a Level 1 Certified Aromatherapist through the School for Aromatic Studies & in 2024, Shannon became a Flower Essence Practitioner. In 2015 she launched Mayernik Kitchen with her husband Matt, a Modern Day Herbal Apothecary in Pompton Plains, NJ. They are committed to producing pure herbal preparations and educating others on the art of growing and making medicine from plants. They offer a wide spectrum of plants and herbal medicines, integrating and preserving the sacred bounty. They create more than 75 products, created from many of the herbs sourced from their New Jersey farm. Courses Learn about gardening, growing flowers, & maintaining house plantsHerb Farmer Apprenticeship The Mayernik Kitchen Table embraces natural wellness and sustainability while enjoying video lessons, live events, conversations, and Q&A sessions
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Standing Out in a Competitive Market: Strategies for Building a Unique Brand
In this episode of "Between Over & Next," hosts Holli and Robert sit down with Jill Frechtman to delve into her journey from creating a popular office party snack to becoming the powerhouse behind a nationally admired gourmet brand, Fretzels. The episode promises a blend of personal storytelling, practical advice, and inspiring entrepreneurial insights that are bound to engage listeners from various walks of life. Known for her innovative approach to marketing and her expertise in branding, Jill articulates the challenges and triumphs of starting and scaling a business, touching on key moments such as receiving overwhelming support and the serendipitous feature on Daily Candy that skyrocketed her sales. She provides a candid look into the evolution of a business, the strategies deployed to thrive in the competitive market, and the bittersweet but necessary decision to close the doors to her venture. As a bonus, listeners will gain an understanding of how personal experiences and professional expertise can pivot to seize new opportunities and guide others. Key Takeaways: Jill Frechtman shares her story of transitioning from advertising to entrepreneurship, building the Fretzels brand from scratch. Serendipitous opportunities, such as being featured in Daily Candy, can significantly boost a new business. Transitioning a product from direct sales to retail requires a rethinking of packaging, branding, and distribution strategy. The importance of excellent customer service and personal touches in building brand loyalty and standing out in the marketplace. Closing a business can be a complex emotional journey, yet the experience gained is invaluable for future endeavors and mentoring others. Jill Frechtman Quotes: "I never invented chocolate-covered pretzels, but nobody was marketing it as a high-end gourmet gift item." "I just leaned into what I knew and what was available to me when I started." "Say yes and figure it out later." "Attention to detail is really important. It's the little things that are important." "People just want to be seen and heard and understood." "I certainly knew nothing about the food industry." About Jill Frechtman Jill Frechtman is an award-winning entrepreneur turned brand strategist and trusted startup advisor. Her journey from advertising to entrepreneurship embodies the spirit of resilience and reinvention. Inspired by the acclaim her homemade chocolate pretzels received at an office holiday, Jill launched Fretzels by Jill in 2005 as an online gift business for just $300. Her creative ingenuity propelled Fretzels into a nationally recognized brand, featured on The Today Show and in The Wall Street Journal. Navigating the challenges of the 2008 recession, Jill pivoted to wholesale distribution and secured retail partnerships with Nordstrom, The Fresh Market, and various independent specialty food shops. Beyond her entrepreneurial success, she played a pivotal role in expanding Chocolate Works, a second-generation chocolate company, into a national franchise. Her roles at organizations like TIGER 21 and Russell Reynolds Associates further honed her branding, marketing, and community engagement expertise. Today, as a consultant and educator, Jill shares her insights with aspiring food entrepreneurs, teaching brands to stand out and set themselves up for success. She recently co-founded and launched The Aura Project, a community for women leaders navigating a period of personal reinvention due to a career transition.
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A Lifetime of Diverse Writing Experiences
In this inspiring episode of "Between Over and Next," hosts Holli and Robert sit down with the seasoned writer and journalist, David Noonan, to discuss the transformative journey of a writer across the decades. From the typewriter era to the digital age, David shares the evolution of his writing career and offers profound insights into the art of storytelling, the craft of writing, and the ever-changing landscape of the written word. David unpicks some of the most memorable jobs he's had and how these experiences have shaped his approach to writing. He illuminates the complexity of translating medical and scientific information into accessible, engaging feature articles. Later, he delves into his short stint in screenwriting, describing how it honed his appreciation for visual storytelling. Then, David reminisces about his foray into songwriting - a new boundary in his creativity - and expounds on the exhilarating process of capturing stories within melodies. Key Takeaways Discovering and nurturing your talents early in life can lead to a fulfilling career - David knew he wanted to be a writer since 7th grade. Diverse experiences across various jobs can enrich one's approach to storytelling - from the assembly of toys to screenwriting. The transition from typewriter to digital platforms has opened up more avenues for writers to publish and share their work, lowering barriers to entry. Songwriting presents a unique and mystical form of storytelling that combines personal memories, feelings, and the sensory experience of music. Artificial intelligence is seen as both a potent tool for writers and a non-threat to the inherently human experience at the core of storytelling. David Noonan Quotes "One of the good things about getting older... there's more to write about." - refers to David's treasure trove of experiences to draw upon in his writing. "I learned more outside of these structured systems than I could ever learn in school." - this relates to the wealth of knowledge David has accumulated outside traditional education. "The secret of being a writer is that basically, you spend your life learning." - this emphasizes the continual learning process inherent in a writer's journey. "I just remember things that never happened." - David's unique approach to fiction writing, where he visualizes fictional events with as much detail as memories. "It's so purely creative... when I'm playing my guitar and I'm trying to write a song, I'm strumming away... it's happening to me more than writing novels and nonfiction stories." - this describes the organic and enveloping process of songwriting. About David David Noonan is an accomplished writer with an extensive 50-year career in the writing industry. He has established himself as a seasoned journalist, feature writer, and author. Notably, David has contributed to prominent magazines with his works published in notable outlets such as the New York Times Magazine, Scientific American, Esquire, Sports Illustrated, Smithsonian, and Newsweek, where he was the Health and Medical Senior Editor for 10 years. He was also the National Affairs Editor at Readers Digest. He has explored various writing genres, including screenwriting, and his versatility encompasses a wealth of subjects from science and medicine to sports and fiction. David's ability to adapt his storytelling across various platforms showcases his lifelong commitment to the craft of writing. David is the author of two books, the critically acclaimed novel Memoirs of a Caddy, and the non-fiction Neuro. His Kindle Single, Attempted Hippie, was named one of the Top Ten e-singles of 2013 by Thin Reads. David is currently working as a freelance writer and communications consultant, specializing in science, medicine, and healthcare. 38 Jobs A Life's Work by David Noonan Fun Facts: Besides pumping gas, burying people, and caddying, he has worked as a plumber's helper, a dishwasher, a cab driver, a diamond weigher, and a roustabout. GIA stands for Gemological Institute of America, where David worked part-time in the 70s running the diamond scale at their main lab on 47th Street in NYC, the diamond district. He got the job by answering an ad in the NY Times. Green Tent was a company based in Wharton where David and his brothers worked college summers putting up tents for county fairs, weddings, horse shows, etc in NJ, LI, and sometimes New England. David Noonan: As Seen In ARTICLES Newsweek Boomer Humor: The Way We Laughed Published (Feb 18, 2007) Sports IllustratedLou Gehrig Losing Athlete's Hearts Scientific American EsquireInside the Brain American Weed...It Satisfies NYT Magazine Profile of Larry David
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Creating A Lasting Legacy: The Value Of Video Storytelling
In this emotionally charged episode of 'Between Over And Next,' join Holli and Robert on a profound exploration of the significance of leaving a lasting legacy through the power of storytelling. With Holli's energetic engagement and Robert's extensive background as a documentarian, the episode encourages listeners to document their narratives, spotlighting the indelible impact such records can have on both the present and future generations. The episode delves into the essence of legacy and the various forms it can take, from recorded memories to imparted wisdom. Holli and Robert draw from their journey, touching upon their familial history and the professional experiences that have bolstered their belief in preserving personal stories. With persuasive narratives and practical advice, the duo accentuates the impact of legacy videos, the advances in documenting technology, and the ways to overcome the common apprehension associated with starting such a venture. Key Takeaways: Legacy involves preserving impactful events and the essence of a person's life for future generations. Documenting one's personal story, values, and life lessons on video is a compelling medium to leave a lasting impact. The episode underscores the therapeutic benefits of creating legacy videos for both the storyteller and descendants. Robert shares heart-warming insights and practical advice derived from his time at 'Thru My Eyes', where he created video biographies for terminally ill individuals. Holli and Robert provide an exclusive free guide with biography questions and best practices to help listeners start documenting their legacy. Holli & Robert Quotes: "We passionately advocate for the documentation of life stories." "Your story serves as a reminder of how far you've come." "Imagine the chance to watch your grandparents' wedding video." "Everyone has the capability to document their family history." "100% of the time...we always ended with the person feeling grateful." Mentioned In Episode 12: Episode 4 'Between Over & Next': Celebrating Achievements Of The Parent-Child Journey Thru My Eyes Featured on CNN In Episode 2 'Between Over & Next': A Conversation On Entrepreneurship, Robert shares his experience working with the organization "Thru My Eyes" and the importance of documenting one's story Thomas Edison National Historical Park in West Orange, NJ Yogi Berra Museum
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Charting New Territories: Strengthening Relationships Hand in Hand
In this insightful episode of "Between Over and Next," hosts Holli and Robert dive into the theme of navigating life transitions and their impact on relationships. As they engage in candid conversation, they open a window into how different stages of life, such as anniversaries, career changes, and retirement, can either strengthen bonds or present challenges in our connections. The episode highlights the importance of communication and intentional connection as the foundational pillars of any relationship. Holli and Robert provide tangible advice on fostering resilience and growth within partnerships, whether facing the excitement of new beginnings or the adjustments of later life stages. With a focus on embracing change, they underscore the potential for relationship milestones to become enriching chapters in a shared story of love and life. Key Takeaways Life transitions are pivotal in shaping relationships and may reinforce bonds or cause tension. Effective communication and active listening are vital in adapting to changes within relationships. Establishing new traditions and expressing appreciation are key to keeping the connection alive. Changes in intimacy and romance can be navigated by redefining their meanings and staying close through life's ups and downs. Viewing changes as opportunities for growth, and committing to growing together instead of apart, can transform transitions into enriching relational experiences. Notable Quotes: "Communication matters. And the other thing that matters in evolving relationships is prioritizing connection and quality time." "Intimacy and romance are a really important part of a couple's life. And it's very often, I think, ignored or not talked about enough." "It's about communication and sharing feelings and thoughts. And those can be a mixed bag." "So ultimately, it's the commitment to grow together rather than apart. And that transforms these transitions into enriching chapters of a shared story."
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Facing A Career Transition Later In Life
In this episode of "Between Over and Next," hosts Holli and Robert interview Howard Waldstreicher, fondly referred to as Howie, whose remarkable career transition unfolds a narrative of relentless pursuit and adaptation. After a notable stint as a software engineer and a successful career as an entrepreneur, Howard shifted gears and landed a job after a 20-year hiatus from the information technology world eventually becoming the oldest intern at Facebook, which led him to author his book, "Facebook's Oldest Intern." He rekindled his programming skills to re-enter the workforce amidst challenging dynamics, personifying the drive to thrive against all odds. Howard shares his inspiring journey of reinvention and discusses the obstacles he overcame, the lessons he learned, updating a 20-year-old resume, and adapting to radically different corporate cultures, poignantly described through his interview experiences and eventual success landing a role in the titan of social media—Facebook/Meta. Through determination and an unyielding spirit, Howie demonstrates that possibilities are boundless, irrespective of age. Howard's story is a powerful reminder that it's never too late to pursue your dreams and embrace new opportunities. To learn more about his transformational story, be sure to listen to the full episode. 00:00 Introduction to the podcast and guest, Howard Waldstreicher 04:25 Howard's motivation for writing the book and inspiring others 05:26 Overcoming obstacles in switching careers and reentering the workforce 08:11 Howard's strategy for interviewing and comparing the experience to 30 years ago 09:03 Howard's successful job offer and the excitement of working at Facebook 10:25 The unique cohort experience and diversity at Facebook 10:52 Adjusting to the culture and differences between Facebook and previous workplaces 11:51 Comparing the strict culture at EDS to the relaxed culture at Facebook 11:55 Howard talks about the differences between working at Facebook and other companies 12:15 Robert discusses the challenges of corporate bureaucracy 12:50 Howard mentions the oddities of office interaction at Facebook 13:55 Howard takes control of a meeting and highlights communication challenges 14:46 Howard discusses the difficulties of communicating through text messages 15:17 Howard shares his biggest lesson from working at Facebook 16:30 Howard reflects on how his entrepreneurial background helped him succeed 16:52 Robert asks if the 30-year-old Howard could have gotten the job 17:30 Howard explains how being older and wiser worked to his advantage 18:03 Howard shares what inspires him 18:17 Howard discusses his plans for the future 19:24 Holli acknowledges the impact Howard made at Facebook 20:09 Howard advises listeners not to act or look old 20:34 Robert discusses the impact of age discrimination in job interviews 22:00 Holli emphasizes the importance of adapting to corporate culture 22:50 Holli encourages listeners to embrace new opportunities 23:24 Robert highlights the power of networking 23:46 Holli concludes by emphasizing the importance of pursuing dreams at any age 23:24 Robert emphasizes the power of connections and networks 24:10 Holli highlights the importance of asking for what you want 25:42 Robert explains the challenges of relating to different generations 26:13 Holli praises Howie for self-publishing a book 26:31 Robert discusses the accessibility of self-publishing in the digital age 28:06 Contact information and request for feedback 28:33 Conclusion and closing remarks Key Takeaways: Embracing change and taking risks are key to navigating career transitions, regardless of age. Networking and leveraging connections remain crucial, though they may not always yield immediate results. The ability to adapt to new working environments and reimagine your skillset is pivotal in today's job market. Howard's experience underscores the importance of opening up to learning and continuous growth. Age should not define or limit potential; it can indeed align with new opportunities and successes. Howard's Notable Quotes: "It's not easy, but you can do it. And I was proof that you can do it." – Howard on reinventing oneself. "I felt I could motivate people and inspire… It just becomes harder as you get older, can you do it? Do you believe you can? And I did it." – Howard when asked about why he wrote his book. "What they don't have, and what I brought to the table, was the life experience." – Howard on what set him apart in the workforce.
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Embracing Your Second Act: Navigating Change for a Happier Life
In this uplifting episode of "Between Over and Next," hosts Holli and Robert welcome Andy Levine to discuss the transformative power of life's second acts. The conversation delves into the art of pivoting one's life path to align with personal happiness and fulfillment, a compelling topic that resonates with many individuals seeking change in today's fast-paced world. In their engaging discussion, Andy shares profound insights from his podcast "Second Act Stories," revealing common threads from interviews with people who have boldly modified their career paths and lives for greater satisfaction. Through stories of trauma triggering drastic change, the importance of planning versus leaping into new ventures, and the ultimate pursuit of purpose over profit, this episode is rich with themes of resilience and self-discovery. You will learn more about his TEDx Talk titled "The Art of a Second Act," and be inspired by extraordinary life stories, encouraging individuals to seek and realize their full potential. Andy's narrative of adopting his wife's cousin's ten-year-old daughter exemplifies embracing change at any stage of life, motivating listeners to consider their own "next." Andy offers a wealth of experience and knowledge in pursuing a happier life at every age and stage. In This Episode: 00:00 Introduction to the podcast and the guest, Andy Levine 02:00 Andy shares his personal story and his various pursuits in his second act 08:34 Andy discusses the statistic of the "quiet quitters" and the lack of purpose in work life 10:43 Andy shares the five key lessons that emerged from his podcast interviews 11:18 Lesson 1: Trauma often triggers the desire for change 12:39 Andy shares Dr. Peter Rork's traumatic experience and the subsequent change in life direction with animal rescue 14:44 Andy talks about people going back to something they loved in their childhood 15:53 Andy shares the story of Joe Bach, who became a gym teacher for kids who struggle with sports 16:51 Andy discusses the difference between planners and leapers in pursuing a second act 17:15 Robert asks if there is an age demographic for leapers 18:08 Andy shares the story of Leah Gorham, who quit nursing to become a truck driver 19:18 Andy talks about Chris Donovan, who pursued his dream of designing women's shoes 22:04 Andy emphasizes that money is no substitute for purpose in a second act 23:53 Having a financial net makes it easier to make a pivot. 24:04 Lesson 1: If you're unhappy, make a change 24:53 Lesson 2: Change is not easy, expect barriers 25:51 Lesson 3: Money is no substitute for purpose 26:28 Leaping or planning depends on risk tolerance and belief in oneself 27:27 Lesson 4: Trying new things can lead to discovery 28:11 Lesson 5: Prioritize happiness and well-being with purpose 31:01 Conclusion: Happiness is a continuous journey Key Takeaways: 1. Traumatic events often serve as catalysts for individuals to reassess their lives and embark on new journeys. 2. Childhood interests and passions can be significant indicators for one's second act and provide a fulfilling direction for career changes. 3. The transition to a second act is characterized by individuals either meticulously planning their next steps or making the bold decision to leap into change without a clear plan. 4. One should anticipate and embrace challenges when pursuing a change, as no second-act transition is a straightforward path. 5. Pursuing a purpose-driven life typically results in greater happiness, even if it means earning less income than before. Andy Levine Quotes: "If you're unhappy and you know it, make a change." "The walls of fear are paper-thin—they're easy to break through, but they keep people locked in." "Money without purpose is a tough way to live, and money doesn't buy happiness." "Leap and the net will appear." "Money is no substitute for purpose." About Andy Levine Andy Levine is the creator and cohost of the "Second Act Stories" podcast. A fascination with storytelling and second acts triggered the launch of this podcast in 2018. He is always on the lookout for a good story. Andy and his podcast cohost Scott Merritt have traveled to more than 30 states to conduct face-to-face interviews with guests. To date, they have interviewed nearly 150 courageous individuals pursuing a better life in a second act. Five key lessons have emerged from this experience and are shared in his TEDx Talk, "The Art of the Second Act" (released in January 2024). About Second Act Stories Podcast Second Act Stories Podcast is a podcast sharing stories of people who have made major career changes to pursue more rewarding lives in a second act. The stories are in their own words and the words of friends and family that helped them find a new path. Mentioned In Episode 9 Second Act Stories Website Meet the Podcast Hosts Andy & Steve Andy's TEDx Talk: The Art of the Second Act | Andrew Levine | TEDxGrandJunction Second Act Stories Episodes Mentioned Dr. Peter Rorke: Animal Rescue Is Dr. Peter Rork's Second Act Joe Bock: Getting Benchwarmers in the Game: Retired Engineer Keeps a Promise Leah Gorman: Why Leah Gorham Scrubbed Out of Nursing to Drive a Truck Chris Donovan: Telephone Repairman Follows His Dream: Designing Women's Shoes (European Shoe Designer: Aki Choklat) Steve Paz: A Cop Leaves The Force for Corporate America Amy Yontef-McGrath: A Midlife Shake-up: Stay-At-Home Mom Pursues A Year Of Public Service (Follow Me To 50 Website) BONUS: SECOND ACT STORIES 100th EPISODE: Second Act Masterclass: 6 Key Takeaways From 100 Episodes
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Navigating Divorce: Expert Advice for a Successful Outcome
In this episode of "Between Over and Next," hosts Holli and Robert interview Salvatore(Sal) A. Simeone, a leading matrimonial lawyer, about the process of divorce. Sal shares his journey and multiple pivots that led him to his career in family law. Deep-diving into the conversation, Sal imparts wisdom on several fronts. He emphasizes the importance of finding the right attorney who will be a good fit and provide guidance throughout the divorce process. Sal also offers advice for those considering divorce, highlighting the need for communication, resilience, and the understanding that life can thrive after divorce. Sal's narrative serves as a cornerstone of the conversation, detailing his progression from a former athlete and postal worker to a respected family law attorney. His approach balances the intricacies of the legal divorce process with the human element, underscoring the importance of compassion and client-attorney synergy. The episode presents divorce not only as an end but also as a potential starting point for individuals to rediscover happiness and fulfillment. These insights are foundational for anyone contemplating or enduring the divorce process. IN THIS EPISODE 00:00 Introduction to the podcast and the topic of divorce 03:17 Sal Simeone's pivots leading up to his career 07:32 The pivotal moment when Sal made a connection with a mentor 09:26 Why Sal chose divorce law as his specialization 10:50 Sal's personal experience with divorce 11:38 Life after divorce and the next phase of Sal's life 12:07 Sal shares his experience of life after divorce and finding love again 13:04 Sal emphasizes the importance of choosing the right attorney for divorce cases 14:36 Sal advises meeting the attorney in person and ensuring their full attention during the consultation 15:16 Sal suggests looking for certified matrimonial attorneys with legal acumen and good people skills 18:04 Sal discusses the differences in divorce challenges between younger and older couples 19:31 Sal explains how he tailors his approach based on the life stage of the couple 22:30 Sal advises getting the best attorney that fits the individual's personality and needs 23:10 Picking the right attorney and understanding the divorce process 23:38 Importance of being an involved client and finding a partnership with your attorney 24:18 The impact of divorce on children and extended families 24:38 Not involving children in custody cases and being a shield for clients 25:32 The approach of fairness and reasonableness in divorce cases 26:12 Transitioning from aggressive to assertive approach in divorce cases 27:20 Helping individuals understand that life is not over after divorce 28:20 Emphasizing the importance of communication, connection, and optimism 29:23 Resiliency of individuals and the impact of divorce on children 31:15 The shift towards shared custody and the best interest of the children 31:47 The importance of minimizing damage and helping clients move forward 32:22 Challenges of second marriages and the need for compatibility 33:15 Final thoughts on divorce and finding the right attorney 35:18 Recognizing moments and opportunities in life 35:58 The next step should be a step up, not a step-down 36:37 Importance of communication and family thriving 37:31 Links to resources in show notes for finding an attorney 37:45 Sharing the podcast with friends and family 38:06 Relevant links in show notes 38:23 Closing remarks and gratitude for listening Key Takeaways: Choosing a divorce attorney should not only be about legal expertise but also about finding a personal fit and establishing a strong client-attorney partnership. Younger generations are quicker to exit unsatisfactory marriages, while older couples tend to deliberate more due to longstanding investments in their relationships. Life after divorce should be approached with an optimistic outlook, recognizing the potential for personal rebirth and happiness in future relationships. The best interest of the family, especially children, should be the central focus during divorce proceedings, advocating for fair outcomes and mindful transitions. Open, clear communication is essential throughout the divorce process to ensure expectations are realistic and clients are well-informed. About Salvatore "Sal" Simeone, Esq. Sal Simeone is a seasoned matrimonial lawyer based in Northern New Jersey. With a personal journey marked by a series of significant life pivots, Sal has emerged as a leading figure in family law. His professional trajectory includes returning to higher education later in life and transitioning from a mailman to a successful attorney. Sal's expertise is particularly notable in the domain of divorce, where he blends legal acumen with a deeply empathetic approach, guiding his clients through one of life's most challenging pivots. He is a partner at Weinberger Divorce & Family Law Group, LLC. Throughout his distinguished career, Sal has dedicated his practice to assisting clients in all their divorce and family matters, with a special focus on high-conflict divorce cases, custody battles, custodial parent relocation, domestic violence, alimony, child support, and contested asset and complex business valuations, as well as the various facets of equitable distribution. He also handles adoptions, and cases involving the Division of Child Protection and Permanency, and is often appointed as a Guardian Ad Litem and Parenting Coordinator by the New Jersey Courts. Outside the courtroom, Sal has volunteered his time to the Morris County Battered Women Legal Advocacy Program, where he consulted with victims of domestic abuse on a pro bono basis. He has also volunteered his time to present educational programs on behalf of the Women's Center at the County College of Morris, Randolph, New Jersey.
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Do What You Love: Lawyer To Romance Novelist
In this episode of "Between Over & Next," hosts Holli and Robert welcome Arell Rivers, a former attorney turned contemporary romance novelist, whose journey from the legal world to the creative space of writing defines the explorative essence of career pivoting. Arell shares what triggered her series of professional transitions and what it means to define success on one's own terms. The discussion delves into the intricacies and misconceptions of being a romance author and the role of marketing in self-publishing. Arell Rivers' path from a structured career in law to the free-flowing narrative of romance novels captures the adventurous spirit of embracing life's uncertainties. Reflecting upon her trials and triumphs, she reveals how marketing has played a significant role in her entrepreneurial endeavors. The conversation also highlights the psychological depth that goes into character development within her novels, debunking myths surrounding the romance genre. In This Episode: 00:00 Introduction to the podcast and voiceover G. Keith Alexander 03:06 Arell's pivot from being an attorney to a wedding and event planner 06:36 Transitioning into the tutoring and college counseling business 08:58 Arell's journey as a romance novelist 10:39 Arell's extensive collection of books and fan interactions 11:24 Possibility of Arell's books becoming movies 11:54 Robert asks if Arell is fulfilled being a romance novelist 12:02 Arell talks about the psychology behind crafting characters in romance novels 12:38 Arell dispels the stereotype that romance novels write themselves 13:20 Arrell discusses the character development in her novels 14:28 Robert asks Arell what advice she would give her 20-year-old self 14:41 Arell advises not to let others define success and to do what you love 15:05 Arell wishes she had known earlier about the importance of marketing 15:37 Arell talks about the challenges of creating audiobook versions of her novels 18:09 Robert highlights the importance of marketing and connecting with the target audience 18:40 Arell emphasizes the importance of following dreams 19:19 Holli and Robert discuss their career journeys 22:10 Holli mentions how Arell embraced podcasting and its impact on their business 23:21 Robert and Holli express their gratitude for the audience's support and reviews 23:42 Holli expresses happiness for the audience being with them 24:02 Robert mentions relevant links in the show notes and encourages feedback 24:11 Holli signs off and thanks the audience Key Takeaways Embracing career changes can lead to discovering one's passion, as shown by Arell Rivers' transition from law to romance novel writing. Success should not be defined by others or by financial metrics alone—pursuing what you love can bring fulfillment and eventually lead to financial reward. Marketing is a critical component in entrepreneurship, especially in the self-publishing industry, and learning its dynamics is key to success. The romance genre offers significant depth and complexity in character development, contesting the stereotype that romance novels have formulaic plots. The power of community in platforms like social media, specifically Facebook groups, is essential for engagement and forming relationships with the audience. Arell Rivers Quotes "Don't let others define success for you. Don't define success by a dollar figure. Do what you love and the money will follow." "You have to learn how to navigate both employee and entrepreneur roles. Whichever one you're in, you have to learn how to make the most of it." "The way the characters are and how another character comes and makes one a fuller human being." – Arrell Rivers discussing character development in romance novels "It's a lot more difficult than people realize because you hear a lot of, 'Oh, romance writers, right? The novel writes itself because it's the same every time.' And that's so not true." About Arell Rivers Before embracing her passion for writing romance, she practiced law at prominent New York and New Jersey firms. Following her stint in law, Arrell became an event and wedding planner, drawing inspiration from planning her own wedding. She further ventured into the world of marketing, specifically in the tutoring and college counseling industry, alongside her husband. Her robust pivot culminated in her current role as an independently published author, having written a trilogy and contributed to anthologies, with a total of over 15 romance novels to her name. Arell is a member of the New Jersey chapter of Romance Writers of America. Mentioned In Episode 7 Follow Arell Rivers Arell Rivers Website Arell Rivers Romance Novels on Amazon and Kindle Unlimited Arell Rivers Facebook Group Arell's Angels Arell Rivers Instagram Arell Rivers Twitter G. Keith Alexander: New York Radio Legend, Founder HarlemAmerica, Between Over & Next Voiceover Artist G. Keith Alexander is an actor, voiceover artist, and accomplished radio disc jockey. He's been in movies, on TV, and your radio since the 1970s. Follow G. Keith Alexander G. Keith Alexander Website G. Keith Alexander Instagram G. Keith Alexander Facebook Follow Holli & Robert YouTube Website Facebook Instagram
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From Personal Passions to Profitable Pursuits
In this engaging episode of 'Between Over and Next,' hosts Holli and Robert delve into the journey of business evolution with a focus on transitioning from a hobbyist to an entrepreneur. Guest Sue Monhait, Founder and CEO of Gift Biz Unwrapped and The Ribbon Print Company, shares lessons learned and invaluable insights into the world where passion meets entrepreneurship, highlighting what matters most when turning a hobby or craft into a thriving business. Sue reflects on her trajectory from corporate employment to embracing entrepreneurship, drawing from her rich background to assist others in becoming successful business owners. She emphasizes the importance of action and adaptation, offering an affirming perspective on the power of small businesses. The conversation also touches upon the collaborative experience during the pandemic as they launched 'At Home Event,' navigating the new normal of virtual interaction and online marketplaces. Holli and Robert further explore Sue's decision to conclude her successful podcast and what's next for her personally and professionally. Don't miss this inspiring episode filled with wisdom that will enrich your entrepreneurial spirit. In This Episode: 00:00 Introduction to the podcast and hosts 01:11 The impact of the pandemic and the need to pivot 03:44 Launching the At Home Event brand 05:43 The importance of embracing the virtual space 07:57 Introducing Sue Monhait as a guest 09:20 The mindset shift needed to turn a hobby into a business 11:21 The importance of asking the right questions 12:26 Lessons learned from corporate and personal life 13:39 The advantages of small businesses over big brands 14:27 Nothing happens without action. Action results in positive or negative conclusions. 15:01 Follow your passion and do what makes you happy 15:17 Sue finds happiness in the little things in life, like walking and observing nature 16:53 Sue is inspired by people who take action and inspire themselves 17:04 Relationships, family, friends, nature, and health matter most to Sue 18:11 Sue decided to end her podcast after achieving her goal of building a resource of evergreen information 20:06 Sue plans to gain more personal time, travel, and engage in healthier activities 23:46 Holli and Robert express their respect and gratitude for Sue's contributions 24:18 The virtual crafting gift show helped businesses transition online and connect with customers 26:01 Holli shares her experience as a customer of various businesses from the virtual event 27:41 Holli and Robert thank Sue for her contributions to the brand vision 28:07 Holli encourages listeners to check out Sue's podcast 28:14 Robert expresses gratitude to Sue for being part of the episode 28:31 Holli and Robert thank listeners for tuning in and invite them to share the podcast 28:43 Holli mentions the show notes with relevant links 29:04 Holli and Robert provide their email address for questions and comments 29:09 The hosts thank listeners for joining them and encourage them to visit their website Key Takeaways: Transitioning from a hobby to a profitable business starts with the right mindset and the willingness to embrace change and uncertainty. Small businesses have unique strengths that allow them to compete with larger players in the market; resilience, agility, and personal touch set them apart. Tangible results and outcomes are pivotal indicators that help chart the future course of business strategy. Genuine action is crucial for progress, and even outcomes perceived as negative are valuable learning experiences. Life satisfaction for entrepreneurs can stem from simple joys, relationships, and the pursuit of personal interests such as health and hobbies. Sue Monhait Quotes: "It starts with that vision and that idea of, oh, maybe somebody would be interested. It's when you get that initial validation that then you can start seeing what could be possible if you put some time and energy into it." "A lot of us get intimidated by the big brand names, where I will tell you… big brand names with these big company structures… have so much structure and procedure that they need to go through to get things done. There are definite strengths you have as a small business owner." "Nothing happens without action. How many times do people talk about what they're going to do, and they absolutely don't ever do it. Action is all important." "What matters most to me is my relationships in my life. Being with family, being with friends, being around nature, and my health is important." "I felt like I was going to be duplicating some of the information that's already available… So pivot… I decided that I didn't need to record more, but what I could do is take and package all of that eight years of information and do something different with it." About Sue Monhait, Founder and CEO of Gift Biz Unwrapped and the Ribbon Print Company With over 30 years of experience in corporate sales, marketing, retail, and online business, Sue is a veteran entrepreneur who has made significant strides in empowering crafters and makers to build sustainable and profitable enterprises. She is also the bestselling author of "Maker to Master: Find and Fix What's Not Working in Your Small Business" and the host of the Gift Biz Unwrapped podcast empowering and educating creative entrepreneurs to turn their hobbies or crafts into thriving businesses. Sue's initiative of establishing an official National Bakers Crafters Makers Day in 2020 highlights her commitment to celebrating and supporting the creator economy.
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Believing in Your Dreams For Your Next Big Move
In this heartfelt episode of Between Over and Next, listeners are invited to join Holli and Robert as they delve into the emotional and complex world of real estate with their friend and realtor, Jackie Mandell. The discussion pivots around the duo's personal experience of moving after 30 years, highlighting the significance of the process, and Jackie's pivotal role in it. This conversation is not just about finding a new house but about discovering a new home that aligns with one's dreams and reflects a lifetime of memories. Jackie expounds on the intricacies of buying and selling a home, emphasizing how these transactions are deeply rooted in personal relationships and trust. She asserts that every home purchase is unique and deeply entwined with one's lifestyle and emotional state. Listeners are rewarded with insights that extend beyond just buying or selling a property as this episode reverberates with the message that a true home transcends physical structures and is anchored wherever there's love and togetherness. Key Takeaways Your home is not just a physical space, but where life's stories begin and memories are created. The process of moving and real estate is highly emotional and should be approached with care and patience. Understanding what you truly need and want in a home is a crucial part of the buying process. Important life transitions like moving to a new home require expert guidance and support from trusted professionals. It is essential to feel aligned with the location, community, and lifestyle your new environment offers. Notable Quotes "Your home is where your heart is. It's where your memories begin. It's where your memories are created." - Jackie Mandel "Not every realtor is made up the same way and does not bring the same level of professionalism." - Robert "Wherever Robert is, is my home." - Holli "You should have everything you want…Do not compromise. Do not settle." - Holli "Do the 'let's pretend'… Go to the neighborhood… Pretend you live there." - Jackie Mandell About Jacqueline "Jackie" Mandell Jackie Mandell is a seasoned real estate professional who plays a critical role in the life-changing process of buying and selling homes. Boasting years of experience in the industry, Jackie is known for her holistic approach to real estate, emphasizing the relationship and emotional journey alongside the financial and logistical aspects. Her personable approach and keen understanding of client's needs and desires have established her as a trusted advisor in real estate circles. JACQUELINE MANDELL GROUP NJ REALTORS® Circle of Excellence GOLD Sales Award 2022®
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Celebrating Achievements Of The Parent-Child Journey
In this family-centric episode of 'Between Over and Next,' Holli and Robert are joined by their children, Lindsey and Alex. From career choices to relationships, the family has a heartfelt conversation discussing the lessons they've learned and the support they've received from each other. With a focus on love, trust, and respect, this episode explores the unique bond between parents and children and the importance of fostering meaningful relationships. As Holli and Robert reflect on their roles as parents, they underscore the importance of imparting resilience, love, and a drive to pursue one's passions. Lindsey discusses her gratifying experience as an educator, harnessing her artistic skills to ignite a similar fire in her students. Alex shares his multifaceted career trajectory, emphasizing the significance of forming genuine connections and taking calculated risks. Together, they piece a narrative that celebrates each family member's individuality while acknowledging the shared value of their collective experiences. Tune in as they delve deep into the personal stories of family dynamics, career choices, and the unique challenges of parenting. It's an exploration of the growing pains and triumphs that bridge the generational divide and evidence of the profound influence parents have on their offspring's journey through life. This episode promises not only to resonate with parents and their adult children but offer timeless insights to every listener. In This Episode 00:00 Introduction to the podcast and the importance of the parent-child relationship 04:56 Reflecting on the experience of being parents 08:30 Lindsey's description of her parents as her biggest support system 09:48 Alex's description of his parents as driven, supportive, and innovative 11:33 Discussing important lessons learned in their 20s 11:33 Reflection on The 21st Century Bride event 11:57 Exploring the unknown and embracing change 12:07 Introduction to the couple's career paths and strengths 12:50 Learning to navigate relationships and career choices 13:52 The importance of resilience and adaptability 13:53 Alex's lesson learned on the importance of relationships 14:41 The significance of working with people you like 14:43 Finding a balance between work and personal life 15:26 Alex's journey from high school to college and various jobs 15:52 Embracing personal growth and self-discovery 17:08 Building strong foundations for the future 17:40 Alex's experience during the Covid pandemic 18:15 The importance of communication and trust in relationships 19:21 Embracing new experiences and stepping out of comfort zones 19:48 Alex starting his digital marketing agency 20:26 The value of lifelong learning and continuous growth 20:45 Lindsey's career path as an art teacher 21:32 Nurturing and maintaining meaningful friendships 22:21 Lessons learned as an art teacher 22:40 The role of gratitude and positivity in life 22:59 Lindsey's marriage and relationship with her husband 22:59 Meeting Lindsey's husband during her job search 23:47 Embracing challenges and learning from failures 24:12 Alex's happiness and optimism 24:52 The importance of self-care and mental well-being 25:00 Love for family and friends 26:03 Thoughts on the journey through the 20s 26:21 Lindsey's inspiration from her students 26:54 Alex's inspiration from friends and mentors 28:34 Alex's creative freedom and struggle with organization 29:00 Lindsey's joy in watching her students' progress 30:16 No regrets for Alex 30:58 Lindsey's advice: "When in doubt, do without" 31:57 Alex's belief that everything happens for a reason 32:29 Lindsey's desire to start a family 32:39 Lindsey's passion for cooking, baking, and curating photo albums 33:20 Alex sees himself staying in his current job for the long term 33:32 Robert is asked to share his wisdom 33:41 Robert reflects on parenting and the challenges of not having a guidebook 34:18 Robert talks about being involved in his children's lives and documenting their school years 35:04 Holli emphasizes the importance of kindness and being proud of her children 35:35 Alex talks about appreciating his dad's caring and responsible nature 37:16 Lindsey discusses the importance of annoying parents who care 38:09 Robert praises his children and their relationship with each other 38:50 Holli looks forward to the future and wants her children to be happy and follow their passions 39:43 Robert talks about resilience and leaving a legacy 41:37 Holli reflects on being a role model and fostering meaningful relationships 42:09 Robert discusses authenticity and the importance of learning from each other 43:17 Holli talks about leaving a legacy and continuing to share their story 44:00 Robert and Holli thank the listeners and invite feedback 44:44 End of podcast episode Key Takeaways: The role of parents as lifelong mentors and cheerleaders is crucial in shaping the personal and professional lives of their children. Embracing one's passion and being open to life's changing landscapes is essential for growth and happiness. Forming and nurturing connections is invaluable both personally and professionally. The concept of resilience is a critical skill, ensuring one's ability to navigate the uncertainties of life. How generational perspectives can differ and align, providing insights on parenting practices and relationships. Family Quotes: "My parents are my biggest support system, my rock. They help to guide me. They are two people that I can always count on." - Lindsey "Everything happens for a reason. I've never been worried whenever I've gotten let go or a new opportunity is coming. It's going to work out. - Alex "Stay calm and persevere." - Lindsey, reflecting on her career in education and the life lessons she has garnered "It's important to always be there for family." - Holli, encapsulating their family's core philosophy "It's who you know that matters" - Alex, on the importance of nurturing relationships in career progression" "My parents are driven, supportive, innovative, genuine, and just kind, warm-hearted people that are… They're just them. They're Holli and Robert, and everybody knows them. And everyone I know has always loved them." - Alex
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The Meaning Of "Between Over & Next"
In this thought-provoking episode of "Between Over and Next," hosts Holli and Robert unravel the meanings behind the phrases "between," "over," and "next," with insights that celebrate life's continual unfolding. The duo embarks on a journey that contemplates the past, present, and anticipatory nature of the future while touching upon the wisdom found in these exchanges. The discussion is vibrant with references to cultural icons like Norman Lear and documentaries that have inspired the hosts' outlook on aging and living fulfilling lives. They wonderfully encapsulate the essence of living in the present, acknowledging past experiences, and remaining open to what comes next, anchoring the conversation in optimism and continuous learning. In This Episode: 00:00 Introduction to the podcast "Between Over and Next" 00:30 Hosts introduce themselves and discuss the importance of the podcast 01:42 Discussing the documentary "If You're Not in the Obit, Eat Breakfast" 04:05 Exploring the meaning of "between over and next" 05:56 Reflecting on the process of naming the podcast 09:49 Embracing the unknown and sharing knowledge 11:43 Recognizing the importance of the present moment and trusting what's next 12:57 Reflecting on lessons learned from starting Wedding Podcast Network 13:46 Robert regrets not bringing more awareness to podcasting 14:08 Holli acknowledges the limitations in their outlets for podcasting 16:32 Robert reflects on the fluidity of life and the transitions between over and next 18:16 Holli expresses her desire to continue the Wedding Podcast Network 19:35 Holli discusses the meanings of between, over, and next 22:09 Holli emphasizes the importance of living in the present moment 23:39 Robert highlights the significance of the space between over and next 26:37 Holli celebrates Robert and expresses gratitude to their listeners 26:37 Robert and Holli discuss a card and confetti cannon 27:12 Holli reflects on the meaning of the card and their future 27:47 Robert expresses his positive outlook on his 60s 28:05 Holli shares her hope for the future with Robert 28:09 Robert expresses his gratitude for Holli 28:17 Holli encourages listeners to share the podcast 28:21 Robert asks for reviews and feedback 28:29 Holli mentions the show notes with relevant links 28:38 Robert invites listeners to connect via email 28:50 Holli concludes the episode and thanks listeners Key Takeaways: 1. "Between Over and Next" reflects on different stages of life, symbolizing the past, present, and future, and the importance of each in shaping personal growth. 2. Norman Lear's wisdom inspires the conceptual framework for the show, highlighting the significance of the 'in between' times of our lives. 3. Manifesting the future through the understanding of what is 'over' and looking forward to what's 'next' provides a perspective rooted in positivity and progress. 4. Personal anecdotes and cultural references add depth to the conversation, emphasizing the universal nature of life's journey. 5. Embracing each moment and the lessons it brings can lead to a richer, more purpose-driven life regardless of age. Holli & Robert Quotes: "Living in the moment, it is embracing today. It means not waiting for the future. It means living your life consciously aware that each moment is a gift." "…what's next is meant to be." "You need to trust what's meant to emerge will emerge in the perfect way at the perfect time." "Here's to the future. May every new day bring all of life's nicest and best things your way."
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A Conversation On Entrepreneurship
Join hosts Holli and Robert as they share their personal and professional journeys in this episode of "Between Over and Next." From their backgrounds in videography and fashion to their entrepreneurial ventures, Holli and Robert have a wealth of experience to draw from. Together, they've launched multiple brands, including the Wedding Podcast Network, Canna Pop-Up, and At Home Event. Spanning the realms of corporate to entrepreneurship, digital space engagement, and the emerging cannabis market, Holli and Robert reflect on the power of collaboration and branding in today's dynamic world. The episode voyages through their shared experiences, from the birth of their video production business to their involvement in producing in-person and virtual events. Exhibiting both vulnerability and humor, they recount their stories in a candid conversation about their life and careers. - Fostering creativity: Holli and Robert emphasize the importance of taking risks and adopting innovation in pursuing fulfilling careers. - Valuing connections: They highlight how meaningful relationships have contributed to their growth, success, and the nurturing of new opportunities. - Brand evolution: The conversation turns to their venture transitions, detailing pivots and realignments designed to keep pace with changing markets. - Hybrid events spark: The pair recalls their pioneering efforts in launching The 21st Century Bride, blending virtual and in-person experiences. - Cannabis advocacy: As proponents of the CBD and wellness industry, they speak about their roles in educating and elevating the conversation around cannabis. In This Episode: 00:00 Introduction to the podcast and hosts 00:31 Episode title and overview of the episode 01:04 Discussion on taking risks and overcoming fear 02:17 Importance of relationships and connections 03:36 Bruce Springsteen's quote on making sense of the world 07:00 Robert's background and early experiences 09:10 Holli's background and early experiences 11:00 Meeting and beginning of their entrepreneurial journey 12:15 Rebranding of Absolute Video and Robert Allen 13:22 Holli and Robert discuss Robert Allen's achievements as a video journalist 14:11 Holli and Robert emphasize the importance of discussing sex 15:13 Robert shares his experience working with the organization "Th My Eruyes" 16:22 Holli and Robert discuss the importance of documenting one's story 17:16 Holli and Robert highlight their expertise in the digital and corporate world 18:28 Holli and Robert mention their previous venture, Wedding Podcast Network 19:57 Holli and Robert discuss their brand, the 21st Century Bride, and its success 21:29 Robert expresses his desire to be more involved in the cannabis industry 23:44 Holli and Robert talk about their shift to online events due to the COVID-19 pandemic 25:14 Holli and Robert introduce their new brand and express their excitement for podcasting 26:18 Holli and Robert reflect on their journey and the significance of their new endeavor 27:39 Holli expresses her love and gratitude for Robert and their partnership 27:39 Robert and Holli discuss their new endeavor 28:01 Holli expresses gratitude for listeners and promises a meaningful experience 28:34 Robert thanks Holli for being his partner 28:56 Robert and Holli express pride in their accomplishments 29:35 Robert and Holli conclude the podcast and encourage sharing 30.19 End of the podcast Key Takeaways: 1. Holli and Robert's collaborative spirit and complementary skills have defined their joint ventures and personal relationship. 2. The duo believes in continuous learning and embracing digital innovation to adapt and thrive in shifting industries. 3. Their entrepreneurial journey reflects a commitment to high-quality content creation and crafting meaningful experiences. 4. The couple serves as a bridge between traditional marketing practices and the versatility of new media formats. 5. There is an emphasis on documenting personal stories and legacies as a means of enriching life experiences and sharing wisdom. Holli & Robert Quotes: "…we've built something in the boardroom and the bedroom, and we each bring something special to our life." "Nothing is ever lost in what we do. It all becomes part of our toolkit, and our ability to create something from nothing is what we do." "…that's where that space between over and next can happen because that's where you make all of those decisions, where we can actually do better and be better." "So every presentation was 15 minutes or less… You don't have to fast forward to the good parts because everything was a good part." - "I have never felt more at home than now because we are right where we are supposed to be." Mentioned in Episode 2: Greater Harlem Chamber of Commerce: Harlem Week Wedding Podcast Network: Advice Worth Listening To CannaPopUp: Bringing Events To A New High At Home Event: Online marketplace bringing people and businesses together For a deeper dive into these life stories and the wealth of experiences shared by the hosts, be sure to visit HolliandRobert.com. Keep an eye out for more enlightening content that will inspire you on your journey towards what's next.
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Meet Your Hosts: Holli & Robert's Journey
The first episode of "Between Over & Next" sets the stage for a captivating podcast series that explores the human experience of transitions and new beginnings. With a delightful mix of personal anecdotes and insights, Holli and Robert share their journey as entrepreneurs, parents, and partners in life and business. They bring a wealth of combined experience to the table with a focus on teaching lessons learned and embracing change. Discussing their former podcast 'Wedding Podcast Network' launched in 2005, they express excitement about their new venture, aiming once again to inspire and educate their listeners from their unique perspective. Through their authentic and honest conversations, they want to inspire listeners to live their happiest lives and find joy in the present moment. The show promises to deliver stories of their own experiences, as well as interviews with knowledgeable guests they discuss topics such as relationships, technology, work-life balance, and launching new ventures. Holli and Robert deliver a powerful message of hope and encouragement, reminding us that the space between what is over and what is next is filled with incredible potential and opportunities for self-discovery. In This Episode: 00:00 Introduction to the podcast and hosts02:12 Discussing the evolution of podcasting and their experience04:37 Emphasizing their unique perspective and expertise06:37 Highlighting the importance of belief and reinvention09:07 Sharing their experience helping nonprofits during COVID-1910:38 Explaining the concept of "between over and next"12:53 Encouraging optimism and gratitude14:07 Outlining the topics they will cover on the podcast15:12 Promising to introduce listeners to knowledgeable guests15:14 Inviting recommendations for future podcast guests15:48 Introduction: Holli talks about her t-shirt and being 6016:10 Philosophy: Age is just a number, enjoy every stage17:15 Meant to be: Holli and Robert's love story18:53 Serendipity and Synchronicity: Unexpected good luck and meaningful coincidences20:52 Holli and Robert's background and interests24:00 Promise: Authenticity, honesty, and entertainment25:09 Conclusion: Create the next best chapter of your life25:26 Call to action: Share, review, and connect with us25:47 Thank you and closing remarks25:52 End of the podcast Key Takeaways: Embrace what you're passionate about and never stop doing it. Recognize and embrace the changes happening in your life. Steer your life in the direction you want to go. Stay positive and good things will come to you. Live in the present moment and find joy in the little things. Holli & Robert Quotes: "Your life is always undergoing change. Recognizing when you're in that moment gives you power over what's next." "You're never too old, and it's never too late to have fun and enjoy every age and life stage." "Optimism is rooted in gratitude." "You're never too old to have a happy childhood." "Live in your purpose, with your passion, and that is when you shine the brightest."
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Between Over & Next - The Trailer
Join us on "Between Over & Next," where your favorite married co-hosts, Holli and Robert, delve into the intriguing transition zones—reflecting on the past, embracing the present, and eagerly anticipating the future. Whether it's pivoting in your profession or steering through the unpredictable tides of life, this power pair is here to inspire and enable you to find joy in every milestone. Buckle up for an enlightening ride; your adventure with Holli & Robert begins today!
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Welcome to "Between Over & Next", the podcast where married couple Holli and Robert will inspire you to live more mindfully and find joy in the present moment. Join them on their journey as they discuss the challenges, rewards, and the culmination of everything wonderful and spectacular in love, life, family, and business.In each episode, they share ideas, insights, and personal stories highlighting decades of valuable lessons learned personally and professionally. They also interview experts and thought leaders to gain a deeper understanding of how to embrace what you’re passionate about doing, and then never stop doing it. Whether you're looking to reduce fear, take more risks, settle less, increase happiness, or simply learn how to experience a more fulfilling life, "Between Over & Next" has something for everyone. So, tune in and join Holli and Robert as they explore the space between what was, what is, and what's to come.
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Robert Allen & Holli Ehrlich
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