Between the Lanes

Every leader faces insecurity at some point, but how do you recognize it and overcome it? In this episode of Between the Lanes, we discuss what insecurity looks like and the common causes behind it. We discuss key triggers for insecurity, such as: Comparison to others Not feeling like a subject matter expert Leading in areas where you don’t feel qualified Long periods of time without mental challenges or growth Failing to learn from or connect with other generations Physical health and its impact on confidence More importantly, we explore practical ways to overcome insecurity: Training and preparation to build competency Seeking mentors who call out your strengths and abilities Creating opportunities to build small "wins" that boost confidence Prioritizing physical health as a leader, understanding the connection between mind, body, and soul Whether you're struggling with your confidence or want to help someone you lead find their footing, this episode has actionable insights to help you grow as a leader. #LeadershipPodcast #OvercomingInsecurity #LeadershipGrowth #FaithAndLeadership #MentorshipMatters #BuildingConfidence #ChristianLeadership #LeadershipDevelopment #MindBodySoul #LeadershipTraining

In this inspiring episode of Between the Lanes, Tom Lane and Todd Lane are joined by special guest Ginger Curtis, Founder & CEO of Urbanology Designs. Ginger shares her incredible story of pain, trials, and heartache and how she has found beauty in the most unique places. Through trusting God in even the most challenging times, Ginger discovered her purpose and turned her experiences into a thriving career as an entrepreneur, business owner, writer, and interior designer. Ginger is a celebrated leader in her field. Her accolades include the 2024 Fort Worth Inc. Entrepreneur of Excellence Winner, HGTV Designer of the Year, and a 4-time National Winner of the Interior Design Society. This episode will challenge and inspire you to find hope and stay positive through life’s hardships and how to trust God even when the circumstances don't make sense. Join this uplifting and transformative conversation!

In this thought-provoking episode of Between the Lanes, Tom Lane and Todd Lane discuss the delicate balance between valuing and enjoying the blessings in our lives and unintentionally elevating them above God. God gives good gifts and intends for us to enjoy them. He also calls us to do good things and be the hands and feet of Jesus. So how do good things like- family, work, or ministry—shift from being gifts from God to becoming idols in our hearts? Through a candid and relatable conversation, they explain how to recognize this shift, the spiritual impact it has, and practical steps to keep God at the center of our lives. Whether you're in a position of leadership or simply seeking spiritual growth, this episode offers powerful insights to help realign your focus and priorities. Tune in and join the discussion Webinar discussed in this episode link here.

In this episode of Between the Lanes, Tom and Todd Lane unpack the important skill every leader needs: adaptability. They discuss the importance of staying flexible in an ever-changing world and share five key ways leaders can pivot and thrive: 1. Pivot Your Business Model – Learn when and how to shift your approach to stay relevant in your industry. 2. Ability to Manage a Diverse Team – Discover strategies for leading a team with varied perspectives, skills, and backgrounds. 3. Adopting New Technology – Understand why embracing new tools is key to staying competitive and efficient. 4. Responding to Feedback – Explore how listening to your team’s input can drive improvement and innovation. 5. Leading Through Restructuring—Gain insights into how to guide your team through organizational changes with confidence and clarity. Also, learn to be aware when restructuring is necessary for growth and improvement. Whether you're a seasoned leader or just starting out in leadership, this episode offers practical tips for adapting to challenges and staying ahead.

In this episode of "Between the Lanes," we are joined by special guest Melissa P. Dunn, commissioner for the city of Lauderhill, FL, and CEO of MD Marketing and Consulting. Melissa shares her insights on leadership, drawing from her experience in public service and business. We dive into powerful leadership principles, including how to discover your calling, the importance of perseverance, and how to transform pain and loss into a purpose-driven life of service. This conversation is a must-watch for anyone looking to lead with impact, resilience, and heart.

In this episode of Between the Lanes, Tom Lane and Todd Lane discuss a vital topic for every leader: Emotional Intelligence (Emotional IQ). In this candid conversation, they explore the five key components that define high emotional intelligence: self-awareness, self-regulation, empathy, general social skills (sociability), and motivation. Join Tom and Todd as they discuss how developing these traits can enhance your leadership, improve relationships, and foster an environment where people not only want to work but enjoy working. Tune in to discover how to have an Emotional IQ, which can be a game-changer in your leadership journey! SUBSCRIBE: http://www.youtube.com/@betweenthelanespodcast CONNECT WITH US! Tom Lane Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pstomlane?igsh=MWxrMmFnemNreno0MA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Todd Lane Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/todd_lane?igsh=dGVyYzJtMGw1ejNh&utm_source=qr Executive Leadership Institute Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/executive_leadership_institute?igsh=Y3Ixc3EyOXNiZm5k&utm_source=qr Executive Leadership Institute Website: https://executiveleaders.com

In this episode of Between the Lanes, Tom and Todd Lane explore the important concept of our identity as a child of God. They discuss how fully understanding that identity allows us to lead with confidence, compassion, and empathy. Our upbringing can shape our perception of God, affecting our ability to fully understand and embrace our identity as a child of God.  One of the reasons it's so important to understand our identity is that we realize that we are never alone. God walks with us through life's challenges, and we can lead better, knowing that we are guided by a good Father. We have confidence in decision-making and leading because we know we have a Helper helping us navigate our lives.  Whether we’re facing tough decisions or walking into the unknown, our identity in God equips us to lead in a way that is grounded in His love and truth. Check out this episode to have a better understanding of what it means to be a child of God and how that can help you be a better leader.

"A lid to your leadership is a lack of awareness of your blind spots." In this episode of Between the Lanes, Tom and Todd discuss leadership blind spots. If left unaddressed, blind spots start small but can grow to limit our effectiveness as leaders. So, how do we begin to recognize and confront them?  Join Tom and Todd as they explore how to seek out and respond to honest feedback humbly. They share practical ways to approach others for insight into areas of growth that may be holding you back. This episode is packed with tips on how to overcome your leadership blind spots, empowering you to lead your team with greater self-awareness and effectiveness.  Discover why acknowledging your blind spots is the first step toward unlocking your full leadership potential. Don't miss this insightful conversation!

As a leader, speaking the language of others is important, but truly valuing the people on your team goes beyond words—it's about actions.  In this episode, Tom Lane and Todd Lane discuss what it means to prioritize people over processes. From their experience, they explain why relational leadership is important in creating loyalty, engagement, and a sense of purpose in your organization. Discover practical ways to move from a transactional leader to a relational one, making your team feel empowered, motivated, and like they are part of a greater calling, not just a job.  Tune in to learn how to become a leader that genuinely connects with and values your people!

In this episode of Between the Lanes, Tom Lane and Todd Lane discuss the "Family Lane" and explore how our upbringing and family dynamics significantly influence our leadership style. Parenting is often seen as a training ground for leadership, where life's circumstances provide valuable lessons in communication, commitment, conflict resolution, and more. Whether you grew up in a great family environment or in a broken and unhealthy family, your family plays a pivotal role in shaping your problem-solving abilities. Even if your family was ideal, you, as an individual, can change the trajectory for future generations, starting with your personal growth. It's empowering to know that it only takes one person to break the cycle and create a lasting, generational impact. Join us as we try to help you discover what you may have missed from your family of origin. Taking steps to change can lead to powerful transformations in your family moving forward and your leadership journey. Tune in to learn how to leverage your family experiences—good or bad—to become a more effective and compassionate leader.

In this episode of "Between the Lanes," we talk with Shawn Ring, a Christian leader and entrepreneur who’s mastered the art of blending faith with business. Shawn’s journey gives great insights as he shares how his faith has been consistent, guiding him through the ups and downs of building and scaling multiple startups. Looking back on his early days, Shawn says, "At 28, I didn't really process the importance of linking identity to culture so that you draw the right talent because you can train skill. But it's very difficult to train someone in life and behavior." This point really drives home the idea that character is key in leadership—a theme that runs throughout this conversation.  We also dive into the balancing act of continuing to be visionary and futuristic while handling the day-to-day operations necessary to keep the company moving. Shawn talks about how important humility is in that process, saying, "Failure is part of the success and almost a requirement toward it. If you don't see it, you should be concerned." His open and honest take on the role of failure in growth is something every leader can learn from.  Plus, we get into how to empower your team to make decisions where they matter most, ensuring you’ve got the right people pushing your vision forward. Whether you’re leading a startup or managing a team, this episode is full of practical advice on navigating the challenges of business through your faith and relationship with God. Don’t miss out on this deep and engaging conversation that will connect with Christian business leaders and entrepreneurs!  #Leadership #FaithInBusiness #ChristianEntrepreneur #Startups #BusinessSuccess #TeamEmpowerment

"Status is incompatible with being an entrepreneur because the second you care more about how things look than how they actually are, you set yourself up to fail." -Chris Heaslip In this episode of Between the Lanes, Tom Lane and Todd Lane sit down with entrepreneur Chris Heaslip, to discuss how to succeed after failing in business. Chris is no stranger to the ups and downs of business—after trying and failing, or as Chris would say, "learning" to start 14 companies, his 15th venture finally took off, propelling him into the tech space with great success. Now, Chris is the founder, partner, and investor of many thriving businesses. Chris believes that failure only exists if you quit. To him, you either succeed or you learn. This episode discusses how to grow and scale with a company experiencing explosive success, how the American mindset can limit a leader's perspective and growth, and the tension between excellence and status. Chris also talks about how his faith in God has shaped and impacted his determination and desire to learn. Whether you’re an aspiring entrepreneur or looking to elevate your leadership, this conversation is packed with valuable insights and encouragement for achieving and sustaining success in any situation.

“What if I thought of my role as a business leader and I got up in the morning and I prayed like it was going to be a Billy Graham crusade…What if the expectation was, ‘Guys, we need to pray that God is going to do something through the business today.’” In this episode of "Between the Lanes," father and son Tom and Todd Lane sit down with Jonathan Harkless, the managing partner of Banah Advisory, an investment bank specializing in mergers and acquisitions. They dive into a topic that might change how you view your career and faith: what if business is your ministry? Jonathan shares his unique perspective on how many of us are called into the business world and how that calling can be as powerful as vocational ministry. They discuss the need to have a perspective of ministry in business and not separate the two. This conversation blends leadership, faith, and the business world in a way that will challenge you to think differently about your role in both. If you want to connect your faith with your work, this episode is for you.

Corporate culture is the beliefs that govern how people behave. Where there is a group of people, there is a culture. Tom and Todd discuss how to have an excellent culture in the areas that you lead with Steve Gandara, the managing director of Excellent Cultures.

Todd and Blynda Lane talk about their marriage, raising kids, growing as individuals how that contributes to the strength of their relationship, and much more.

Tom and Todd sit down with restauranteur and entrepreneur Marty Bryan of Marty B's. You will be inspired by his story of success and loss and the will to keep going in spite of much adversity.

Tom and Todd have identified six spiritual seasons that every person experiences in their life. Join the discussion as they explain each season, its effects, and what battles to expect.

Tom and Todd have identified six spiritual seasons that every person experiences in their life. Join the discussion as they explain each season, its effects, and what battles to expect. 

Tom and Todd continue the discussion with Chad Gundersen, producer of The Chosen TV series. They discuss what it's like to lead in the film industry and the lessons Chad has learned throughout his life that have equipped him to lead well.

Tom and Todd talk to Chad Gundersen, the producer of "The Chosen," about what it's like to lead in the film industry.

Do you see ethics and character as synonymous? They are not. You can have good ethics and still not have good character. Tom and Todd Lane discuss the difference between the two.

Guest and youngest daughter to Tom and Jan Lane, Lindsay Huckins, sits down to ask her dad for advice and wisdom about some of life's questions.

Only 10% of people are naturally born leaders. Most need to be trained and equipped to become a great leader. Do you have a culture that develops and trains your people consistently? Do you intentionally train and mentor your children? In this episode, Tom and Todd discuss what mentorship looks like as a part of the culture of your home or organization.

No matter the size of your organization, you are only as successful as your communication. Do you have mechanisms to know what is happening at each level in your organization? How do you know the truth about what's happening within your organization, family, or team? Tom and Todd discuss how to discern the truth and ways to find the truth about what is going on inside the scope of leadership.

Does all conflict need to be resolved? Is there good that comes from conflict? Is there always a right person and a wrong person in conflict? Todd Lane and Tom Lane discuss the many facets of conflict and conflict resolution in this week's episode.

Todd and Blynda Lane sit down with David and Mikayla Blease and discuss love, marriage, parenting, and everything in between. David is the teaching Pastor for the Center for Israel at Gateway Church. David and Mikayla are passionate about helping people grow and enjoy their marriage as God intended.

Have you ever thought of your time like you do your money? It is a limited resource that needs to be properly stewarded. Tom and Todd talk about the similarity between your budget for money and your budget for time.

"Where there is no prophetic vision, the people cast off restraint." Proverbs 29:18 (ESV): To be truly successful, you must know God's vision for your life and business. How do you do that? Tom and Todd discuss knowing and establishing God's vision for your life.

Tom and Todd sit down and talk with Amy Ford, the Co-Founder and President of Embrace Grace. Embrace Grace is a national non-profit organization designed to equip churches to help single women who find themselves with an unexpected pregnancy.

The Lane men get together to discuss leadership, business, and fatherhood.

This week on "Between the Lanes" the Lane women take over. They discuss how they navigate parenting, family, and keeping their closeness.

Tom and Todd discuss what it takes to lead upward.

Tom and Todd talk with guest Steve Riach about leading through storytelling in film and helping to serve underprivileged youth.

Tom and Todd discuss the importance of communication. To be an effective leader, knowing what information needs to be given to whom and when is essential. They discuss how to discern when and who gets information within your organization.

Todd and Tom talk with Byron Copeland about what has made him a successful leader. They discuss the power of being an authentic leader.

Todd takes the driver's seat this week and interviews the matriarch and patriarch of the Lane family. You'll hear the conversations between three Lanes discussing family, parenting, and traditions.

This is part 2 of the discussion with JB Copeland. Tom continues the discussion with JB about his life's journey through addiction while being an athlete and pastor, to rehab, and now being a mental health advocate.

Todd sits down and talks with JB Copeland about his journey through addiction and recovery and is now a mental health advocate.

This is part two of our interview with Chris Griffin. Chris is the CEO of Hover Energy and the Men's Pastor at Gateway Church. Tom Lane discusses with Chris the roles of Pastor and CEO and how they relate to each other.

Todd sits down with Chris Griffin, CEO of Hover Energy and Men's Pastor at Gateway Church, to find out how he manages all his different lanes. From pastoring people as a CEO to being an actual pastor, what things are the same, and what is different between the positions?

Good leaders inspire the people they lead. Inspiration leads to action. The best leaders do not just talk eloquently, but they move people to action. People will know if your words are genuine and come from a sincere place based on authentic actions in your own life. When they are, people will gladly follow you as their leader.

How does having a positive outlook affect your leadership? "We grow through pain, and if we get rid of pain, we get rid of growth." We are promised that we will endure hard things, so how do we stay positive? Tom and Todd explain how to keep a positive perspective through the hardships of life.

Tom and Todd speak with special guest Ervin Lee, author and founder of "From Beer to the Bible." They discuss the struggle leaders face to stay disciplined and humble and how to identify the moments when we begin to go off course, and how to avoid pitfalls.

Tom and Todd discuss the family lane of your leadership. How impactful is family on you as a person and you as a leader?

Tom and Todd discuss the different aspects of what discipline is. From discipline in the way of punishment and how that looks in parenting and leadership to discipline in the way of the measured and calculated sacrifices, we make in our life in order to be the type of person and leader we want to be. Tom and Todd will answer and explain why discipline is important in our lives. 

Tom and Todd interviewed Harrison Lane, son of Todd. Harrison explains navigating through a new season of life filled with unknowns. They also discuss the power of your words both over yourself and others.

Tom and Todd interviewed Jack Hollis, is the executive vice president of Toyota Motor North America and president of Toyota Motor Sales. We asked him how he can lead at such a high level while still having a thriving marriage, being involved in his kids' lives, and enjoying life. It seems like he has it all! Does he? If so, how?!

This is an introduction to Executive Leadership Institute (ELI), a company that aims to enhance leadership by encouraging leaders to discover their "why" behind their leadership. In this first episode, we will briefly explain who we are and dive into the first of six foundational pillars of leadership: purpose/destiny.