Calls with your Kinky Bestie

Hey Besties! As we kick off 2025, it's a weird and dystopian vibe here with recent events in the states, and I get it—it's uncomfortable and chaotic. But here's what I'm here to remind you: you are in control of your own life. Despite the distractions and chaos, you have the power to create the life you want. In this episode, I'm sharing some clips from my workshop "Your Kinkiest Year Ever," which is all about aligning with your values and making those big shifts happen. I'll guide you through practical steps to plan your ideal kinky lifestyle, just like I've done for myself. Whether it's embracing a child-free, dual-income, no-kids lifestyle or diving deep into hedonistic pleasures, it's all about living life on your terms. So, let's tune out the noise, focus on what truly matters, and empower ourselves to live authentically. Enjoy these clips and start planning your most aligned year yet! ✨ Ready to dive deeper? The full workshop is available for January here, and it comes with a digital workbook and journaling process to create your action plan. If you're listening after January, join the waitlist to be notified next time it's available. https://kinkybestie.com/your-kinkiest-year-ever-planning-process/ 🏷️ Political Climate, Personal Empowerment, Kinky Lifestyle, Value Alignment, Life Planning, Hedonism, Self-Development, Community Involvement, Personal Growth, Action Plans, Ideal Life, Kinky Workshop, Living Authentically

In this episode (the first of 2025 🥳) I'm sharing 3 practical ways to call in support and make creating your kinky dream life SO much easier. 📢📅 Grab your invite to "Your Kinkiest Year Ever" here: ⁠⁠https://kinkybestie.com/your-kinkiest-year-ever/⁠⁠ 🏷️ Goal Setting, Supportive Systems, Kinky Community, Personal Development, New Year, Vision, Self-Improvement, Live Planning Event, Action Plans, Goal Achievement, Community Building

Hey Besties! Welcome to the final 2024 episode of Calls with Your Kinky Bestie. Despite my sniffly voice, I'm here to guide you through a year-end reflection process that's perfect for the neurodivergent mind. We'll explore how to recognize personal growth, embrace lessons, and celebrate milestones from the past year. Whether you're using your camera roll, journals, or even text messages, I'll share my favorite tools for looking back and appreciating how far you've come. ✨ Exciting News! To kick off 2025, I'm hosting a live New Year's planning party for kinksters on January 8th. This event is all about setting your kinky goals for the year and breaking them into actionable steps. Can't join live? No worries, you'll receive a recording if you're a ticket holder. 📅 Grab a ticket here: https://kinkybestie.com/your-kinkiest-year-ever/ (There's special early bird pricing ending on 1/1, so move fast!) Thank you for being part of my world this year. Your support means everything, and I can't wait to continue this journey with you in 2025. Let's make it your kinkiest year ever! 🏷️ Year-End Reflection, Personal Growth, Neurodivergent Friendly, Kinky Goals, Gratitude, Life Lessons, Kinky Planning Party, Community Building, Self-Development, Goal Setting, Kinky Lifestyle, New Year, Personal Development, Mindset Shift

Hey Besties! I'm back, and I've missed you so much! Life's been a whirlwind with moving, adjusting to new schedules, and sharing my space with my Dom. But I'm here, and diving deep into the uncomfortable but critical: rejection in the kink journey. This episode is all about understanding and overcoming the fear of rejection, whether it's internally, from the vanilla world, and even within the kink community itself. I'll guide you through the three major layers of rejection and how to navigate them, so you can get the fuck over it and start living your kinky dream life!! Been waiting to work with me? I'm temporarily closing my books to new 1:1 mentees, but there's still time to get in before the break. Visit kinkybestie.com/mentorship to secure your spot at current rates, when they reopen they are going up! 🏷️ Rejection, Kink Journey, Personal Growth, Self-Acceptance, Kinky Community, Emotional Hurdles, Overcoming Fear, Mentorship, Personal Development, Embracing Change, Community Dynamics, Finding Your Tribe

Hey Besties! I have some exciting news to share and we're doing a collective vision check-in. Let's get real about our goals and what we truly want because that's how we make it happen! ✨ Want some personalized support? Get Vetted for 1:1 Kink Mentorship And if you're not already, join the Bestie Squad so you never miss out on new resources and episodes! 🏷️ Vision, Goal Setting, Life Updates, Moving In With Dom, Self-Development, ADHD Diagnosis, Autism Testing, Living Alone, Personal Growth, Relationship Dynamics, House Hunting, Manifestation, Business Growth, Kink Mentorship, Community Building, Private Space, Partnership, Transition, Change

Hey Besties! Today we're diving into a phenomenon that almost every sub experiences—attracting other subs instead of doms. Why does this happen? How can you change it? Or even make it work for you? Whether you're just starting out or have been at it for years, I'm breaking it all down for you. ✨ Want to break the sub-to-sub cycle? Learn how to flex your subby muscles and maintain your subspace with my Kinky Dating Kickoff course, now part of the Kink Bundle This bundle is packed with courses from top kinky educators, available for a limited time at a steal of a price. Don't miss out! Offer disappears Wednesday night 9/18. And if you're listening after the bundle is gone, no worries! Sign up for the email list to get notified when other offers like this are available. Let's get you attracting the Doms you desire! (you can also get the Kinky Dating Kickoff a la carte here) 🏷️ BDSM, Kink Mentor, Subbing, Dominant Energy, Kink Bundle, Subspace Intensive, Bdsm Movie, Service Submission, Dom Energy, Dom Sub Living, Kinky Dating Kickoff, BDSM Community, Submissive, Sub Role, Dom Role, Switch Dynamics, BDSM Skills, Kink Courses, Subby Energy, Mentorship

This episode is a must-listen if you're single and ready to attract a kinky partnership. Emma dives deep into a surprising yet effective strategy: befriending couples. Discover how integrating couples into your social circle can shift your mindset and help you attract the relationship you desire. Emma also explores the pitfalls of only hanging out with single friends and how it might be holding you back. Get ready for some eye-opening insights and practical tips to elevate your dating game! Resources from the episode: Emotional Guidance Scale> read more Be notified when the Kink Bundle goes live> signup here Chapters: 00:00:38 " Why befriending couples can help you attract potential partners faster 00:09:45 " Why befriending couples can be supportive of your dating journey 00:19:09 " Jealousy blocks you from thinking positively about a coupled relationship Want more? 💖 Check out Emma's Kinky Dating Kickoff Course for step-by-step guidance. ✨ Stay updated on upcoming resources by joining the Bestie Squad! ☎️ Book a 1:1 Kink Mentorship Call 🏷️ Kinky Dating, Submissive Mentorship, Relationship Dynamics, Couples, Single Friends, Emotional Guidance Scale, Jealousy, Mindset Shift, Dating Struggles, Relationship Goals, Finding A Partner, Community, Shifting Negative Beliefs, Singles Support Groups, Relationship Visualization, Dating Journey, Positive Expectations, Kink Community

In this video episode, we're diving deep into how participating in kink can dramatically improve your quality of life. We'll chat about how your ancient lizard brain might actually be keeping you from your people. Plus the benefits of embracing your kink, including boosting your self-esteem, self-image, and overall happiness. Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned player, this episode is packed with insights on how to find your community and live authentically. I'll share my personal journey and how accepting my kinky side has positively impacted my life. Plus, we'll touch on the importance of finding like-minded individuals and the psychological safety that comes from being true to yourself. ✨ Want some personalized support? Get Vetted for 1:1 Kink Mentorship And if you're not already, join the Bestie Squad so you never miss out on new resources and episodes! 🏷️ Kink Lifestyle, Self Improvement, Neurodivergent Community, Submissive Mentorship, Community, Acceptance, Conservative Upbringing, Taboo, Sexuality, Psychological Safety, Finding Your Tribe, Fetishes, Kinks, Self-Worth, Masking, Kinky Relationships, Social Rejection, Personal Growth, Authentic Self, Kink Community

Hey, besties! In this episode, we're diving into the world of swinging and swing clubs. My Dom and I are about to renew our membership at our local swing club, so it's the perfect time to discuss this unique community. We'll explore the differences between swing clubs and BDSM spaces, what to expect, and how to decide if this is the right scene for you. Whether you're into exhibitionism, voyeurism, or just looking for a a less intimidating scene, this episode has got you covered. We'll also chat about my own positive experiences at our local swing club, how to find these spaces, and some red flags to watch out for. From the focus on sex in swing clubs to the differing rules on substances and consent, we'll break it all down. Plus, I'll share tips on navigating these spaces and creating the experience you want. ✨ Want personalized support? Book a 1:1 Kink Mentorship Call And if you're not already, join the Bestie Squad to never miss out on new resources and episodes! 🏷️ Kinkster, BDSM, Swing Clubs, Lifestyle Clubs, Consent, Exhibitionism, Voyeurism, Dom/Sub Dynamics, Sex-Focused Spaces, Dungeon Masters, Kink Community, Kink Mentorship, Swinging Vs BDSM, Red Flags In Clubs, STI Testing, Gendered Pricing, BDSM Events, Kink Nights, Finding Local Clubs

This episode dives deep into the world of taboo kinks and survivorship guilt within the kink community. We explore the misunderstandings, guilt, and shame that can arise from participating in kinks like age play, race play, and more. I share my personal experiences and offer guidance on how to navigate these challenges, heal yourself, and find supportive spaces. Whether you're dealing with judgment from others or your own internal conflicts, this episode is here to help you embrace your kinks confidently and safely. ✨ Ready for personalized support? Book a Vetting Call with me to get started! And if you're not already, join the Bestie Squad so you never miss out on new resources and episodes!

Welcome back, besties! In this episode, I spill all the tea on my own BDSM dynamic with my Daddy Dom. A real-life look at how we manage vanilla life, our power exchange details, different sleep schedules, and boundaries with friends and family. This episode is packed with insights, personal stories, and a whole lot of tea on BDSM dynamics! ✨ Want some personalized support? Get Vetted for 1:1 Kink Mentorship And if you're not already, join the Bestie Squad so you never miss out on new resources and episodes!

It's time we went there. What it is (if you have no clue what I'm talking about), how to strengthen your vetting muscles, and take some friggin pressure off yourself! ✨ Want some personal mentorship? Get Vetted to get started! Https://KinkyBestie.com/vetting

If manifesting hasn't "clicked" for you yet, or you're just more of a literal thinker, this is the episode for you! Because OMG there is so much we can learn from social media about creating the life we want, and hacking this algorithm isn't nearly as hard as you'd think. ✨ Latest free resource> ⁠Reviewing my entire Toybox⁠ And if you're not already, ⁠join the Bestie Squad⁠ so you never miss out on new resources and episodes! ☎️ ⁠Book a 1:1 Kink Mentorship Call

Here's even more permission to make your dynamic (and lifestyle) your own! I share tons of ways myself and my partner accommodate for my brain within our dynamic and playtime and how to start creating your own. ✨ New free resource> Reviewing my entire Toybox And if you're not already, join the Bestie Squad so you never miss out on new resources and episodes! ☎️ Book a 1:1 Kink Mentorship Call

If you're all too familiar with the disappearing act, this is the episode for you. The sooner you understand it you can avoid getting into these situations, and find some lovely kinky matches who are in it for the long haul. Relevant Episode Mentioned: Episode 8: "4 Ways to Meet Kinksters IRL" ☎️ Book a 1:1 Mentorship Call Hang out on Instagram @kinkybestie

Some reasons why kink events might be right for you, a simple way to gauge whether or not you should go to an event, and why I haven't been attending kink events lately as a mentor in the community 😲 Relevant Episode Mentioned: Ep 22 "Finding Community in Kink: Overcoming Fears & Embracing the Kink Community" ☎️ Book a 1:1 Mentorship Call Hang out on Instagram @kinkybestie

Let's talk about what happens when serving and sacrificing within a BDSM dynamic can tip-toe into sabotage. How to identify it, what to do about it, and how to find these boundaries for yourself to be the best hecking sub you can be (by taking care of yourself first and foremost). 🔮 Grab your limited time kinky oracle reading Free resources mentioned: 💖 Kink Shame Healing oracle reading 🧰 Tech Toolbox for Kinky Entrepreneurs

SOOO let's talk about the less obvious ways that kink-shaming is 100% affecting your life as a kinkster and what we can actually do about it. I'll also share with you how to flip the script to own and accept your desires + an AMAZING free resource I've made for you to continue your healing journey. ✨ Free Kink Shame Healing Oracle Reading Work with Emma: Private Kinky Oracle Reading 1:1 Kink Mentorship Kinky Dating Course Connect on Instagram @kinkybestie

From the practicality of protecting your identity to the powerful manifestation tool they can become, I share my personal journey of choosing my scene name and how it has impacted my kink journey and beyond. Whether you're considering adopting a scene name or curious about their significance within the community, my insights and tips will leave you inspired and empowered to explore your own kinky identity

Time to dive into the world of dating through the lens of neurodivergence kink mentor. As someone with ADHD and a unique perspective on social interactions, I share my personal experiences and insights on navigating the dating scene when processing things takes a little longer. Whether you're neurodivergent yourself or simply curious about different approaches to dating, join me as I offer tips, anecdotes, and mindset shifts to help you feel more confident in your connections.

Dive into the energetics of manifesting your ideal dominant partner with Emma, your kinky bestie and seasoned kink mentor. In this episode, Emma shares her personal manifestation journey, offering insights, mindset shifts, and practical steps to help you attract your dream dominant. Whether you're new to the scene or a seasoned kinkster, Emma's stories and strategies will inspire and empower you on your own path to finding confidence and fulfillment in your kinky relationships.

Ready for some quick and easy hacks to make your deepest desires a normal, everyday part of your life? In this bite-sized episode, I tackle the self-sabotage and resistance that may be keeping your kinkiest goals at arm's length. I spill my two favorite tricks: first, surround yourself with people living your dream; second, adopt my go-to affirmation – "This is my life now!" 🎙️✨ Normalizing and neutralizing those desires is the key to manifesting them effortlessly. So, if you're ready to make your dreams part of your daily reality, buckle up for a fun and insightful journey! Oh, and don't forget to check out the freebie to supercharge your manifestation game. Let's make your desires feel as normal as your morning coffee x Get the freebie for this episode and start actioning toward your kinky dream life this weekend! ⁠kinkybestie.com/weekend Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with me: ⁠https://kinkybestie.com/mentorshipFind me on Instagram here:⁠www.instagram.com/kinkybestie

Lets talk about turning those desires into tangible goals. Ever wondered why verbalizing your desires is such a game-changer? In this episode, I unravel the power of clarity that comes with putting your intentions into words. Whether it's journaling, updating your dating profile, or casually sharing with friends, the act of verbalizing is like casting a spell of clarity into your world. But wait, there's more! We also tackle the crucial next step – how to go beyond the talk and start walking the walk. Buckle up, besties, because it's time to make those desires a reality! Get the freebie for this episode and start actioning toward your kinky dream life this weekend! ⁠kinkybestie.com/weekend Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with me: ⁠https://kinkybestie.com/mentorshipFind me on Instagram here:⁠www.instagram.com/kinkybestie

In this episode, we're delving into the fascinating world of kinky desires and why it's crucial to not only acknowledge them but also take bold steps towards making them a reality. From the origin of desires as divine guidance to the ripple effect they can have on your life and the larger kink community, we're uncovering the layers of importance. Using my own journey in starting a kink mentorship business as an example, we explore the resistance, confusion, and ultimate empowerment that comes with pursuing your deepest desires. Join me in unraveling the mysteries and gaining insights that might just change the game for you and your kinky goals. So, grab a cuppa, settle in, and let's get into it, besties! Get the freebie for this episode and start actioning toward your kinky dream life this weekend! kinkybestie.com/weekend Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with me: ⁠https://kinkybestie.com/mentorshipFind me on Instagram here:⁠www.instagram.com/kinkybestie

Welcome back to the second part of the Kinky Dating Q+A series! In this one I respond to 5 reasons kinksters gave about feeling stuck in their kinky dating journey. These q’s were a bit more loaded so I could only fit in half the amount of answers here, but each answer is still under 3 minutes so still super practical/simple shifts. So whether you’re navigating the challenges of dating apps, managing chronic illness while seeking connection, dating when you're still living with your parents… I even cover being demisexual while dating, finding queer community, and what to do if you’re shy AF. Enjoy enjoy enjoy, and give me a cute lil rating why don’t you?If this helps change ANYTHING for you, wait til you join the Kinky Dating Kickoff course!! Start here:https://kinkybestie.com/kinky-dating-kickoff/

10 brave kinksters (over on Instagram) shared the reasons they’re feeling stuck with kinky dating: “What if my kinks are too strange?” “It’s hard to find kinky partners where I live” “I can’t find a safe space to talk to others about my kinks.” Even plain old FEAR! I hope this episode alone helps you to get un-stuck and make some simple mindset shifts, tweak your approach, or even just inspires you to know that 10 other kinksters exist and are struggling through this, too. If this helps change ANYTHING for you, wait til you join the Kinky Dating Kickoff course!! Start here: https://kinkybestie.com/kinky-dating-kickoff/

In this spicy episode, we're diving into the wild world of being a kink mentor with ADHD in the entrepreneurial game. We will be talking about rejection sensitivity, adapting to kink taboos, and the wild ride of running a business as an ADHD person. We spill the tea on setting up systems, handling rejection like a boss, and the unexpected challenges of bringing kink to the business forefront. Whether you're kinky, ADHD, or just curious about entrepreneurship, you're in for a treat! Get email notifications about new episodes:https://kinkybestie.ck.page/7491672830Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with me: ⁠https://kinkybestie.com/mentorshipFind me on Instagram here:⁠www.instagram.com/kinkybestie

In this intimate episode of "Calls with Your Kinky Bestie," meet my Dom and listen in on our candid conversation about our journey into kink and love. From discussing how we met on a vanilla dating app to exploring the dynamics of dominance and submission, this episode dives deep into the complexities of building a kinky relationship from scratch. Get ready for laughs, insights, and some major love 💖 gushy stuff! Kinkybestie.com/mentorship

Diving into a topic close to my heart: collars, ADHD, and sensory sensitivities. As someone navigating the kink community with ADHD, I'm here to share my experiences and insights on how sensory sensitivities have shaped my relationship with collars and other kink accessories. Whether you're a seasoned kinkster or just starting out, this episode offers a relatable perspective on finding your place in the BDSM world while embracing your unique needs and preferences! Kinkybestie.com/mentorship

🚨 Win 1 month of FREE Kink Mentorship! Contest ends 1/31/24, apply here: ⁠Kinkybestie.com/links Let's talk about shame ONTOP of your self-discovery as a neurodivergent kinkster. How to navigate existing in the "in-between" of 2 communities, and setting boundaries around kink-shaming comments when part of your circle just doesn't get it. Further listening for this episode: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kinkybestie/episodes/Are-Kink-and-ADHD-Related---Kink-Coaching-Giveaway-e2cla5g

🚨 Win 1 month of FREE Kink Mentorship! Contest ends 1/31/24, apply here: Kinkybestie.com/links It's about time we talked about "Fake Doms", so here's what to expect in this episode: 💖 The good intentions of this term, why it's used and what it means. 💖 How using this term can be problematic, and even harmful/confusing. (Especially for those in the neurodivergent sector of the kink community, like me!) 💖 What language we can use instead to address poor behavior in the kink community! Whether you're a seasoned enthusiast or just dipping your toes into spicier waters, we'll decode "Fake Doms" together and keep our kink community safe and empowering. Ready? Let's dive in! Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with me: ⁠https://kinkybestie.com/mentorship

Bestie, this is your year. Your year to be the kinkiest you that you want, to feel comfortable in your desires and your needs, and to be loved and accepted for ALL that means. Signup for the bestie buzz newsletter to join me in this outrageous endeavor: https://kinkybestie.ck.page/7491672830 Show resources, submit a question, and where else to find me: Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with me: ⁠https://kinkybestie.com/mentorship Submit a question for me to answer in a future episode: ⁠https://kinkybestie.com/podcast⁠ Find me on Instagram here: ⁠www.instagram.com/kinkybestie Instagram @kinkybestie

Happy holidays, besties! 🎄🎁 This Christmas, I've got a special gift for you - the second part of our dive into the reasons you don't feel kinky enough. Ever wondered why those desires seem distant? Well, today, I'm your kinky Santa Claus, revealing my ENTIRE personal process to create my dream kinky life. In this episode, we'll unpack the philosophy of "use a bridge, not boots," exploring why trudging through the mud isn't always necessary.Sign up for the upcoming course before December 31 and get ready for your kinkiest Christmas yet! 🌟🔥kinkybestie.com/links Show resources, submit a question, and where else to find me: Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with me: ⁠https://kinkybestie.com/mentorship Submit a question for me to answer in a future episode:⁠https://kinkybestie.com/podcast⁠ Find me on Instagram here:⁠www.instagram.com/kinkybestie Transcript (continued on my website https://kinkybestie.com/podcast⁠): "Hi bestie. Merry holiday or christmas or whatever you're celebrating? Um, this episode comes out on december 25th. Um, because if you had noticed, that's my podcasting schedule, every monday, it's been my new episodes have been dropping. And i did think about maybe delaying this, Episode around that. Um, because yeah, i've never posted a Podcast on christmas day before. So i don't know if it's going to totally tank Um, but then i realized, you know, i never have anything to do on christmas day. I'm usually just kind of sitting around my family after we do, the big family stuff and killing some time on my phone. Um, so Listen to me now or of course, listen to me later if you want and Mary holiday. This is part two of the episode we started last week with the, you know, the real reason you don't feel kinky enough. Um, and that gap between having desires and then actually getting to experience them and this, yeah, not not enough feeling that comes in this in between space when you have these desires and it's frustrating. When you're not, they're not really part of your life like, you know, for there's a few different ways that your brain might work. Its way around this but i usually comes down to like, oh i'm not ready. I'm not, you know, kinky enough to get to do that thing, but you still have the desire. So it's this internal conflict thing, and Uh yeah, if you haven't listened to that and you want, you know, me to break that down a little bit more. Go back to last week, the part one and we dive way deep into it. So Uh in the spirit of all of this, i'm going to be your little your little Santa claus today because i know you have desires and i know that you want them fulfilled and they're fucking kinky because you're fucking kinky. Hey look at you just like me. And so in true, Santa Claus style, i'm going to tell you my exact process. I've taken to create my i call my kinky dream life. The whole process, the steps i follow, when i uncover new desires to actually getting them for myself. Um, so that you can be your own freaking Santa Claus too and follow these steps for yourself. So yeah, i'll take you through this is um basically And all the outline and the modules of the course that the last day to sign up for this live, round of this course, is going to be December 31st this year, so you don't have much time. You have exactly one week, go sign up for this course. Get yourself a little Christmas present. And yeah. So but they basically this podcast episode, i'm just taking you through that line. So you can see you know, get a taste of what this process is like, what to expect. And yeah, make sure it resonates with you if you're not really sure what to expect or if this would be your thing. Okay, this is going to be fun. I'm really excited. So, The first thing. That i want to address is my philosophy for this course and also just all the self-development shit that i do..."

OMG Bestie, HI! Here's what you can expect from today's episode:✨ The 2 most common reasons you don't feel "kinky enough". If you're like me you may even relate to both at different parts of your kink journey.✨ Validation that you ARE kinky enough, DUH!✨ How the f**k to stop feeling like this, and live your dream kinky life instead.Signup for the course before December 31 kinkybestie.com/links Show resources, submit a question, and where else to find me: Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with me: ⁠https://kinkybestie.com/mentorship Submit a question for me to answer in a future episode:⁠https://kinkybestie.com/podcast⁠ Find me on Instagram here:⁠www.instagram.com/kinkybestie Transcript (continued on my website https://kinkybestie.com/podcast⁠): "Oh, bestie, bestie bestie. It's about time we had this chat and let me just tell you some of the challenges i've run into trying to record this episode. So, you know, it's legit and important enough for me to fight through all of this. Okay, so remember a few weeks ago, when i recorded a video podcast, And was like oh my god this is you know so cool and i thought this is going to be the new way and everyone seem to really like it. So i've been trying to figure out how to make that my norm. But, Just moving around, large video, files sucks and recording. Good quality video, files and recording, you know, audio at same time. Sucks. And i literally have a DSLR camera, like a nice, you know. Get a good photo of you camera that i don't know how to use very well, but i have it. So i thought i could record videos on that but even that has like a file size limits on what it'll record on the SD card at a time at a certain, like, Quality. So i fucking bought online like, um, And, you know, the battery runs out too. So, i bought this kit online that turns your camera into a webcam. So i can, like, plug it into my laptop and basically use it like a webcam, and an even is able to convert the camera battery so that i can just be like, charge at a normal outlet. So there's a constant power stream, which is crazy. And so i thought, oh my god, i have all the stuff it's going to be great. I downloaded the webcam software but now i can't figure out how to record a video from it and I'm so frustrated. And on top of that, it's just been the weirdest sound day. Like, ah, there's been all this lawn mowing happening outside. And every time i think it's done. She my neighbor starts back up again and then another name neighbor's milling their lawn and then my upstairs neighbors. Fire alarm went off. And even now i've turned my heater like in my home off because sometimes the heater sound is too much. Like it just kicked back on again. And there's a slight heating vent sound and i'm so sorry, guys. Besties besties, i'm trying. And also, if anyone has tech shit and can help me figure that this out, that would be great, but maybe this is just a sign from the universe to like i'm not meant to be doing video. Video podcast, just keep it simple with my audios. Oh, we'll see anyways. Okay, i know i really led you on with a sneaky little title there. So let's get into it. Let's talk about the real reason that you don't feel kinky enough. And, This is something that i When i started. This podcast and my business. Did not even have this topic on my radar at all. But i've kind of like my hand has kind of been forced here. It's just kind of happened um because one of the most commonly asked questions that i get like my dms. My emails are kind of Hounded with this one more than actual questions about, you know, kinky lifestyle and self-development and stuff. As i'm constantly being asked by kinky people. Um, basically, you know, coming to me and asking like, hey am i even qualified to work with you? Like i'm interested in what you have to offer, but i don't know if i'm subbie enough..."

The tea has been SPLIT! I share about my personal kink journey, from the innocent days of literotica exploration to fetlife, internalized religious shame, and where I stand now as a kinkster. This episode is a rollercoaster of self-discovery rollercoaster 🎢, offering insights, cautionary tales, and a whole lot of encouragement for those on their own kink journey. Get ready for a candid chat that explores the highs, lows, and unexpected turns on the winding road of kinky livin'. Show resources, submit a question, and where else to find me:Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with me: ⁠https://kinkybestie.com/mentorshipSubmit a question for me to answer in a future episode:⁠https://kinkybestie.com/podcast⁠Find me on Instagram here:⁠www.instagram.com/kinkybestieTranscript (continued on my website https://kinkybestie.com/podcast⁠): “Hi. Hello bestie. Oh, this is going to be a fun one. For me. Which hey, let's be real. The fun ones for me. That i get the most into are the ones that tend to do the best anyways, so you're gonna like it too. Today, we're talking about, Question. I get asked all the freaking time which is about like my own personal kink journey journey. How i discovered this about myself and you know how it's led to Where i am today in the king scene and just yeah, really what's what's going on there? So Let's do this fucking thing. I'm excited. Um, So my very first introduction ever to kink. What's through, literotica? I, When i was like, you know, just just discovering porn and sexuality. Um, i Was kind of scared shitless. Honestly to watch porn. Like i had heard so many negative things about it, first of all but also just Like, i had this. You know. A sibling roommate situation and It just wasn't really. The smartest option for me to be watching porn. You know, when i could maybe get caught with it. So instead, i would read a lot of literotica. Which i, you know, would have to highly recommend for my very imaginative Subs out there. Um, it's so great because you get to And vision. What you what you want to have happen. There's so much of it out there that's like so readily available. Um, There's like a literotica website but there's, you know, like the wattpad app is just filthy with literotica too. I'm sure there are so many you know, smuddy audio books, too. There is a vast. Vast vast amount of content out there that is literotica. And so that's kind of the reason why i leaned more towards literotica. But What's interesting with literotica? Is it's a lot. It's a lot easier. I'm not side of the side of things. To kind of. Slip down a new path, maybe an invert inadvertently or unintentionally. And what i mean by that is when you're watching porn, You have to be pretty explicit. It's like what you're searching for like, okay. I want to see Gay. Oh my god, i searched porn before. Before we have to be very explicit, like you have to look out, you know, like group play cuckold rimming to like see that. So you have to know and like Get it down to like a few keywords, like exactly what it is. You're looking for to find it. And yeah, there are recommended videos under that that might be a little bit outside of what you're what you had initially searched for But there's also, Those little little screen grabs. So, like before you click on any video, you're going to have a really good sense of what it is. And it's hard for there to really be many surprises in that, especially with the length of most porn videos, they tend to be really short. So yeah, they're just tends to not be a ton of surprises. Like you tend to know What you're going to get and that's why you're deciding to watch that video. But with literotica. Oh my, that is not the case...."

Today we're chatting about sleep and how the fuck to sleep with ADHD when your favorite kinky activities take place in the same room. From separating your sleep sanctuary to managing sex toys and creating a plush bedtime haven (fit with smart devices to boot), we're unraveling the secrets to blissful sleep with ADHD in the mix. Discover why a dedicated sleep space is your ticket to dreamland and how to keep those sexy toys tucked away when it's time for some serious Zzzs. Plus, get pro tips on using sensory aids like blindfolds and earplugs to enhance your sleep routine. It's all about creating a haven that screams comfort and relaxation. Let's do this thing! ✨ Show resources, submit a question, and where else to find me:Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with me: ⁠https://kinkybestie.com/mentorshipSubmit a question for me to answer in a future episode:⁠https://kinkybestie.com/podcast⁠Find me on Instagram here:⁠www.instagram.com/kinkybestieTranscript (continued on my website https://kinkybestie.com/podcast⁠): "Oh my god. Hi, hello. If you've listened to past episodes, are you been in my circle for a while? You know, that i'm a Batcher. Like i try to batch all my My podcast stuff all together at once. And last episode was my first ever time doing a Video episode. And it's taking a long time to upload and i'm not even sure. Ah, i mean, i've already recorded it, so i'm committed to getting it up. But as of this moment, it seems like a big pain in the butt, so maybe i'll figure out systems for it in the future. But for right now, i'm just gonna record the rest of these In the normal way, i'm comfortable with so i can make sure i can get this shit to you rather than trying to Figure out like a totally new process for three episodes all at once in, spanish it ten of time on it. So That's what's going on. If you loved the puck, the video format definitely let me know. Um, because sometimes i feel the podcasts there's not a ton of Direct feedback. It's not the same as social media where you're going to get, like a bunch of, you know, comments for for every episode. Basically knowing what people think a little bit like shouting into the void. So i really don't know what you like and what you don't like. So tell me if there's something you love. So i know what to prioritize. You know, like focusing on and what is important to you guys. So yeah, okay today. All that aside. Today today talking about Sleep spaces with adhd. If you are in the kinky lifestyle, because this is a really Interesting intersection. Um, So, It's pretty wildly, studied. That. Adhd. Equates to A tough time sleeping as a normal human. Like, our melatonin production isn't always the same. We just have higher levels of energies so it can be harder to wind down. Um, harder to like regulate certain certain like habits and patterns around sleep. So, combining that with You know, bedroom interests. Like the example i can think of it might i've got a shit ton of sex toys and where else am i going to store them? But my bedroom. So, I have some, some guidance, some solutions for Keep like finding a little little balance between the two so that you can get some fucking sleep. And just other sleep space ideas as well for, you know, Focus on this lovely. Adhd bubbly. Brain neurodivergent spectrum. So, The first thing. If you can, if it is at all possible for you, Creating a separate space, just for sleep. Is the ideal way to go. It's the ideal way to go so that your brain knows that, like, whenever you enter this room, like this is my just my sleeping room. And just my sleeping space and like, my brain has a dedicated activity. That goes on here and nothing else. It can be harder to wind down, and shut down your brain..."

As a mentor for submissives with ADHD, this is a question I get asked a lot. Today I'm answering this once and for all! I'm also celebrating Spotify wrapped season with a special limited time giveaway of my not-even-out-yet upcoming course (which includes private 1:1 mentorship with me!) Get in touch on Instagram @kinkybestie, or email me your listenership or review screenshot [email protected] Show resources, submit a question, and where else to find me: Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with me: ⁠https:// kinkybestie.com/mentorship Submit a question for me to answer in a future episode: ⁠https:// kinkybestie.com/podcast No transcript today as I'm figuring out video software for the first time - bear with me! Would love your feedback or tech suggestions, get in touch when you're sending in your reviews for the giveaway!

Hey there, my kinky besties! In this episode, we dive deep into the world of service submission, with a twist for those who might be dealing with ADHD or consistency challenges. I'm here to help you eliminate, automate, systemize, batch, and delegate tasks, both in your personal life and your service submission journey. Whether you're taking off your Dom's shoes or exploring the wonders of robot vacuums, we're going to make more time and space for your kink desires. Let's get efficient, kinky, and creative together! Show resources, submit a question, and where else to find me:Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with me: ⁠https://kinkybestie.com/mentorshipSubmit a question for me to answer in a future episode:⁠https://kinkybestie.com/podcast⁠Find me on Instagram here:⁠www.instagram.com/kinkybestieTranscript (continued on my website https://kinkybestie.com/podcast⁠): "Oh, hello. My little besties How was your your weekend? Let's get you excited for this next week. We're dropping and driving. Oh my god. Am i the worst podcast host ever? World, we may never know. Um, we are diving into one of my favorite topics. As of lately. Um, because I fully acknowledge that i have ADHD and my topics of interest change on a daily weekly monthly basis. So this might change later. So let's talk about it now. Well, i am really interested in this topic and have so many thoughts that are fresh to say about this. So we are talking about service submission. Um, What this is in kink. So this is a desire to To serve your partner in some way. It's, a really can be a really beautiful piece of your submission practice to care for your dog. Because, oftentimes the desires we have in submission are to be taken care of by others. So, You know, sometimes uh we also have a desire to take care of our doms or maybe, Um, you know, that this is your dance love, language is to be cared for and access service or something that their brain understands and loves and values. So let's let's share that love for them in the ways that they love too. So, Um, if you do not have a dom That is okay this episode is for you to. I'm actually also going like a big part of this episode is going to be talking about ways to be a surface sub to yourself actually to make space for. Um, manifesting service submission with with a dominant partner too. So this is for you either way, if you are just desiring a dumb and desiring this to be part of your kink practice in some way or if you currently have a Dom and are looking to you know be a good service of to them. Even if you have ADHD or just executive functioning issues or struggle with the consistency piece, Um, this all ties in so very excited to do this. Uh, let's let's just dive in and talk about it. So how does this relate to ADHD? So if you have a desire to take care of your partner and you know, just, you know, take some types of tasks and services. Over to to do for them. Um, if you have struggles with executive, Functioning. Um, or again? Yeah, if you are just a person who tends to hyper fixate and get really excited about something once. But three months from now, it's hard to say. If you'll, you know, still be on that train and if this is still something that you'll be wanting to do later. Um, Or who knows, maybe six months from now. This is still like the hot topic of your life and you're just finding different nuances for it. That's okay too. But yeah, if you just really don't know. We're gonna, we're gonna talk about. Yeah, how to automate and set systems in place. So that yeah, you can still care for your partner and lovely ways. Even if You know, it's just not not the the hot topic for you anymore. Because, you know, our lovely, domi partner is deserved that consistency from us too. Whenever we can create it and we can absolutely create it. Even if we have a issues with executive functioning..."

Hey, fabulous folks! Today, we're delving into a topic close to my heart – cultivating an abundance mindset in the world of kink. I've been there, stuck in that place of scarcity, fearing that there just aren't enough options for me in the kinky dating pool. But through my journey, I've learned to shift my beliefs and embrace the idea that there are countless compatible partners out there, just waiting to explore kink with me. I'll break down the steps to flip the script on those limiting beliefs and replace them with thoughts that will empower you. We'll discuss why you're not facing a shortage of dominants or kinksters, and how to make manifestation work in your favor. Let's help you attract the kink experiences you deserve! Show resources, submit a question, and where else to find me:Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with me: ⁠https://kinkybestie.com/mentorshipSubmit a question for me to answer in a future episode:⁠https://kinkybestie.com/podcast⁠Find me on Instagram here:⁠www.instagram.com/kinkybestieTranscript (continued on my website https://kinkybestie.com/podcast⁠): “Hello! Fun stuff a day. I'm diving into one of my favorite topics ever. Which is abundance mindset. Um, this is actually something that sometimes it's hard for me to Share. Just because I was in this place for so long in my life just fearing and feeling like There weren't enough options for me or like, you know, it's gonna be hard for me to find kinky people that are compatible with me, who actually want to date me. And yeah, i just used to live in such a place of fear and shame and you know, just this lacking mindset. Um, But because i have as one of my symptoms of that. A bit of, you know, my memory is not always the most reliable and it can be really hard for me to remember things. You know, the further away from that event i i am So, sometimes it's hard for me to actually talk about this topic and put it into words, because i've been out of that lack state for social long time, like my reality is just, oh, there are all of the options for me. Everyone wants to be with me and give me what i want. So, Usually, that's kind of the beat beauty of my one-on-one calls is, i'm able to just really shift people into that mindset by sharing how i feel about it. So it can be hard sometimes to, you know, logic logify it And break it down, but i'm going to try to do that today. I've listed out. Yeah. Just that's 90 years around this. And the first things first, we're gonna talk about hey is there actually a shortage of doms or shortage of kinky people? And then, How to get into the abundance mindset around that. So, first of all, I do not believe that there is a shortage of doms. Or a shortage of kinky people. Um, I, you know, i have uh, Lifetime of experiences that have kind of Um, led to me getting to that personal belief. So, Do your own. I try to do some research before this episode of like, you know. Oh, are there more doms than subs in this world? And you know, i couldn't really find much. So maybe actual research will come out around this topic and we can put it to numbers, but from just, my personal experience is and i've noticed in the kink community. I absolutely do not believe that there is a short of dumbs number one, because if you go to any Um just like kinky dating, you know, video on youtube, cheesy thing, whatever. Your you will find a comment section full of people saying, oh well i'm a i'm a dog and it's so hard for me to find subs the same way that subs will leave that same comment of i'm a sub but it's so hard to find the right. Dom You know, i also just know from being a submissive on unfetlife. Oh my god. You're going to be absolutely hounded with doms. Who, just yeah, want to talk to you and dominate you and just..."

Hey besties! 🎧 In this episode, we're delving deep into the world of kink community. We'll chat about how to find your kink community, why some of us tend to avoid it, and how to conquer those avoidance fears. It's a shorter episode packed with actionable tips and a mindset shift approach. We'll explore finding kink communities online, addressing fears around privacy, safety, and rejection, and how to take those crucial steps towards your kink community goals. So, if you're curious about kink community and looking to build confidence, this episode is for you! Show resources, submit a question, and where else to find me:Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with me: ⁠https://kinkybestie.com/mentorshipSubmit a question for me to answer in a future episode:⁠https://kinkybestie.com/podcast⁠Find me on Instagram here:⁠www.instagram.com/kinkybestieTranscript (continued on my website https://kinkybestie.com/podcast⁠): “Hey besties. Today, we're talking about all things kink community. How to find community and king why you'll avoid it? Waste overcome that avoidance and just do the thing anyways because if you're listening your desiring some sort of community and kink. So let's do it. Let's chat about it. Um, this will be a shorter episode. God, i'm hoping Um, this is a batch day for me where i'm recording multiple podcasts in a row. And this is my last one of the day. And i Yeah, i just had a hard time raining in my wanting to rant about the other. And i've got shit to do. So. Okay, we're gonna keep this a little short into the points. This is going to be very actionable and more of a mindset shift type of episode rather than like, uh, you know, a step by step tutorial, kind of thing that i usually do. Okay. So, Finding community can kink, you're probably You probably already know ways to find this community. I will give a little blur like little blurbs about you know the ways like you can clearly find people online. That life is an amazing resource. That life is also great way to find again. Other resources to find kink community. So people will post about physical events there so you can find physical community. But you'll also find out about some digital communities that way, too. A lot of times people will post to fetlife, you know, about their discord group or, you know, kick used to be a thing for community groups too. I don't know if that's even around anymore. Um, but discord is the one that that i have seen most recently. It's like an online meeting space. Sometimes even digital events will go on. That will be posted to fetlife 2 like munches that will maybe happen over zoom or you know an online place like that. So You know, there are some things that you can start researching to find those kink community and places. So come up with those places that are interesting to you just do your research on. Yeah. We're Where you want to go, what you want to experience, and The reason that you're probably here uh is because you know, you maybe already know about these communities but you find yourself avoiding them for one reason or another. So maybe it's that, you know about these spaces but For maybe a reason that you can't quite put your finger on. You don't want to do it. Or maybe you're able to to put your your finger on a piece of the reason but not, you know, maybe it's not grounded in a ton of reality or truth and it's coming from more of a fear place. So, oftentimes I see this a lot around fetlife where people, You know, there's this this kind of fear around fetlife as an online place Um, And you you'll hear this around different reasons..."

🌟 Ready to turn your kink fantasies into reality? 🌟This podcast episode is full of high-level actions to plan and take to transform your life into your dream kinky fantasy. This episode covers:🔥 Embracing your kinkiest desires with unapologetic enthusiasm.🔥 Cultivating a proactive mindset by mapping out actions for your desires.🔥 Releasing perfection and overthinking by focusing on the purposeful actions you CAN take.🔥 The power of mentorship and a supportive community to fast-track your journey.Ready to manifest your dream kinky life? Let's do this! 🌈💥 Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with me: ⁠https://kinkybestie.com/mentorshipSubmit a question for me to answer in a future episode:⁠https://kinkybestie.com/podcast⁠Find me on Instagram here:⁠www.instagram.com/kinkybestie Transcript (continued on my website https://kinkybestie.com/podcast): Hey y'all. Okay, here's hoping this is a shorter episode. I have a shorter list of bullet points, so we will see, but oh my god. Last week's got really long and really carried away. But hey it was important it was good, it lives on my website. Now it's entering my you know, all my faq's for my website and mentorship and stuff. Okay, cool. So today i have a really fucking fun one. We are talking about something that i talk about in mentorship, which is realizing your dream, kink life and manifesting and making it fucking real for you. So, we're gonna break it all down. It’s going to be so much fucking fun and honestly it's going to be like a mini mentorship session, so i am fucking excited for you. Let us do this thing. Okay. So, The first thing is to realize your dream kinky life because i know you've got a shit ton of desires around kink now that's why you're here. Is to make a list somewhere. Of every single kinky desire that you have, it could be specific actions, like specific things you want to do in bed, toys you want to try and implement, scenes you want to be in, but it can also be like ways you want kink to be in your life, more like you wish you had like a kinky job. Do you wish that you worked in an environment where kink was cool? Do you wish that you were in more kink social spaces and scenarios? Just like, Every little thing, your kinky heart desires is getting all written out on this page, this google sheets, excel document, whatever it is. Okay. And really take your time with this. Go deep, go through your porn search history if you need to - like do what you got to do. And Pause and come back or whatever. Okay, when you have your list of all your Kinky things that you want to happen in your life. Next, each of those items you're going to write out a tangible action that you can take for each of these to get you this thing. Like, Okay, if you're Oh i should have come up with examples before this you know it doesn't work well whenever you try to come up with examples on the fly but we'll try so. Okay, if one of your kinky desires is to have a diaper placing What would be an action that you could take for that to happen? You could write out multiple actions if there are but it's also okay to just out right out one for each especially if you have a shit ton of kinky desires, like maybe it's a simple as like buy a diaper. Find a kinky partner, who would do this thing that you want to do? Or maybe it's finding a space where you can do this thing or finding time in your routine where you can do this thing. Like, what is the action that would get you there? Okay, so if the thing that you would need to have that scene that you want to have is to have time in your day. Well, having time your day is in the tangible action. The tangible action would be like, scheduling in and blocking out time to do this with yourself...

🌟 Ever wondered how kink mentorship can change your life? 🌟 Get your questions answered as we dive deep into this episode: 🔥 What is kink mentorship all about, and what benefits can kink mentorship bring to your life? 🔥 How do you know if it's the right path for you? 🔥 How does mentorship offer tailored support in a niche community? Join the conversation and book me as your very own kink mentor Show resources, submit a question, and where else to find me:Book a 1:1 Mentorship call with me: ⁠https://kinkybestie.com/mentorshipSubmit a question for me to answer in a future episode:⁠https://kinkybestie.com/podcast⁠Find me on Instagram here:⁠www.instagram.com/kinkybestieTranscript (continued on my website https://kinkybestie.com/podcast⁠): Hello Hello! I’ve got a different kind of episode for you today. This is going to be a living resource episode that I point to a lot now to answer some frequently asked questions that i get all the freaking time asking about kink mentorship. So What is this thing? How do i know if this is right? For me? And then also, of course, I'm going to be talking about what kink mentorship with me is like, and how to do it. And All the questions that I get asked around that too, so Diving. Right in. What really is kink mentorship? So this is different to different people. Um, in the context that i'm talking about kink mentorship, it is like a non-sexual relationship like a mentee mentor relationship. Um, where i'm someone, who is a peer mentor. So I'm someone who's like in the similar kink boat to you, but i'm a bit further along and my journey and i'm supporting you in that way. I've just you know, someone who knows what you're going through. knows, you know, the topics that you're talking about and is here and supportive and has the space to give to you. So, There's a few different reasons that people can seek this out or that, you know, it can just be beneficial for you. But you know what, ultimately, depending on your situation. So, What happens with a lot of kingstars is because this is such a niche. Topic, it can be hard to find community around or maybe you do find community around it. But the community that you're finding is, you know, like people you do want to have sexual relationships with so it can be Hard to then find platonic support. Also, you know It could be hard to find sometimes kingsters who like to have their shit together a bit like it tends to be my I love my kinky people. They tend to be shit. Shows a little bit sometimes. And that's cool too. We love that but sometimes they're not able to hold the space for you whenever you are seeking support as a kinky person. So yeah, that depends more on your own support system and what kind of, you know what, what you're going through that you want support with So, Um, on the flip side of that, maybe you do have a strong support system, who is like, Really. You know. Okay, with whatever it is that you're doing, but because they are not active kinksters themselves, they probably lack a lot of the awareness around. What's actually, you know what, king is, and what's going on? Um and maybe you find most of your time seeking support from them is actually just you having to explain your kinks. Um, which you know? It's not, you know, a diss on your friend or anything like that, it's just Is can be really it's not always a realistic expectation. To ask someone who doesn't actually know this like niche topic to learn about it really quickly and then be able to provide perspective for you. Like maybe they are able to quickly provide perspective, but it's just different than the type of perspective. You get From someone who is. Already like from the get-go on that same page with you about what's going on...

Hello hello!!Yeah yeah, I'm talking about rejection AGAIN. Because let's be real: this is one of the biggest challenges for kinky ADHDers while dating. We know from the episode "Soothing Dating Rejection with RSD for ADHDers" that rejection hits neurodivergent folks especially hard, but let's talk about why it also seems to happen so fast (for us). And then, what we can learn from these experiences to grow into resilient self-adoring baddies. Thanks so much for tuning in this episode, if this is *your* kind of content you can subscribe for easy access to each new episode. If you have your own questions or insight, look for this episode's Q&A + polls and chime in - I'd love to hear from you. Oh, and you can find me on Instagram @kinkybestie for me behind the scenes and more regular doses of kinky inspo!Head to my website for a full transcription of this podcast:https://kinkybestie.com/podcast/why-dating-rejection-is-so-prevalent-for-adhers-and-how-to-start-healing-the-self-esteem-hitSubmit a question for a future episode (option for text or audio question):https://kinkybestie.com/podcastFind my website and mentorship offers+booking here:https://kinkybestie.com/mentorshipFind me on Instagram here:www.instagram.com/kinkybestieAll the Best(ie),Emma

Hello hello!! Today I unload a tale as old as time. Have you caught yourself thinking or saying things like: "I'm stuck with long-distance relationships because the kink community in my area is non-existent" "I would need to move to a partner or have a partner move to me to have the BDSM relationship I want" "There is a kink community near me, but I wouldn't date any of them..." Yeah, those sound familiar to me too. I used to live for online relationships, fantasizing about what any of my desires could ever feel like "some day". Bestie, let's get you the f*** out of that headspace in less than 20 mins and onward with your best kinky life. Mmmmkay! Thanks so much for tuning in this episode, if this is *your* kind of content you can subscribe for easy access to each new episode. If you have your own questions or insight, look for this episode's Q&A + polls and chime in - I'd love to hear from you. Oh, and you can find me on Instagram @kinkybestie for me behind the scenes and more regular doses of kinky inspo!Want to ask your question for a future episode? Leave me a voice message here:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kinkybestie/messageFind my website and mentorship offers+booking here:https://kinkybestie.com/mentorshipFind me on Instagram here:www.instagram.com/kinkybestieAll the Best(ie),Emma

A melatonin-fueled rant on how to talk about kink on your dating profile + my most recent hack for how to plan as an impulsive person. Because goodness knows as an ADHDer I'm GREAT at anything I decide to do (I have seriously excellent planning skills when I sit down to do it), it's just the actually planning time to create systems and prevent crisis that I struggle with... day 2 of my self-invented "hack" for this is going great and looking forward to sharing updates better than a target bag used as a lint bin 💕 Thanks so much for tuning in this episode, if this is *your* kind of content you can subscribe for easy access to each new episode. If you have your own questions or insight, look for this episode's Q&A + polls and chime in - I'd love to hear from you. Oh, and you can find me on Instagram @kinkybestie for me behind the scenes and more regular doses of kinky inspo! Want to ask your question for a future episode? Leave me a voice message here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kinkybestie/message Find my website and mentorship offers+booking here: https://kinkybestie.com/mentorship Find me on Instagram here: www.instagram.com/kinkybestie All the Best(ie), Emma

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Hey bestie. Thanks for hanging in there this week when my IG reel actually...reached people?? It was a gift and a lesson as the reel reached folks who let's just say... aren't really into my topics of kink or ADHD and I got to practice my skills in boundary enforcing. But it really got me thinking about alternatives to the 'gram! So poll's live, tell me where you think I should go. Thanks so much for tuning in this episode, if this is *your* kind of content you can subscribe for easy access to each new episode. If you have your own questions or insight, look for this episode's Q&A + polls and chime in - I'd love to hear from you. Oh, and you can find me on Instagram @kinkybestie for me behind the scenes and more regular doses of kinky inspo!Want to ask your question for a future episode? Leave me a voice message here:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kinkybestie/messageFind my website and mentorship offers+booking here:https://kinkybestie.com/mentorshipFind me on Instagram here:www.instagram.com/kinkybestieAll the Best(ie),Emma

Hello hello!! Many people are surprised to learn that I met my dom on a vanilla dating app, and that he was actually vanilla at the time! This is a mini chronicle of our first few dates, getting together, introducing kink, and how this all correlated with my living space. To learn more about and get yourself a spot in the Bagua for BDSM program, check it out at kinkybestie.com/bagua4bdsm Thanks so much for tuning in this episode, if this is *your* kind of content you can subscribe for easy access to each new episode. If you have your own questions or insight, look for this episode's Q&A + polls and chime in - I'd love to hear from you. Oh, and you can find me on Instagram @kinkybestie for me behind the scenes and more regular doses of kinky inspo! Want to ask your question for a future episode? Leave me a voice message here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kinkybestie/message Find my website and mentorship offers+booking here: https://kinkybestie.com/mentorships Find me on Instagram here: www.instagram.com/kinkybestie All the Best(ie), Emma

Hello hello!! A totally new style of episode today where I share lovely life updates! Not much kink stuff to see here - but if you're curious for a peek behind the scenes of my life and my business this is a really fun one to tune into. The brand new Bagua for BDSM program can be found here: Kinkybestie.com/bagua4bdsm Thanks so much for tuning in this episode, if this is *your* kind of content you can subscribe for easy access to each new episode. If you have your own questions or insight, look for this episode's Q&A + polls and chime in - I'd love to hear from you. Oh, and you can find me on Instagram @kinkybestie for me behind the scenes and more regular doses of kinky inspo! Want to ask your question for a future episode? Leave me a voice message here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kinkybestie/message Find my website and mentorship offers+booking here: https://kinkybestie.com/mentorships Find me on Instagram here: www.instagram.com/kinkybestie All the Best(ie), Emma

Hello hello!! The part of dating noone likes to talk about (or feel)... rejection. In this episode I share how I manage and minimize the pain of being rejected as an ADHDer with rejection sensitivity dysphoria (RSD). I also talk about my experience with RSD, and how it's impacted areas of my life outside of dating, too! Thanks so much for tuning in this episode, if this is *your* kind of content you can subscribe for easy access to each new episode. If you have your own questions or insight, look for this episode's Q&A + polls and chime in - I'd love to hear from you. Oh, and you can find me on Instagram @kinkybestie for me behind the scenes and more regular doses of kinky inspo! Want to ask your question for a future episode? Leave me a voice message here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kinkybestie/message Find my website and mentorship offers+booking here: https://kinkybestie.com/mentorships Find me on Instagram here: www.instagram.com/kinkybestie All the Best(ie), Emma