Carlene + Jaime

Last week we talked about how to love your woman — this week, we're flipping it. In this episode, Jaime gets vulnerable and opens up about what he actually needs to feel deeply loved, supported, and seen. From the pressure men silently carry to the power of affirmation, we're having the real conversation that too many couples skip.We get into:Why men feel like they always have to "have it all together" — and where that comes fromWhat Jaime actually needs on his hardest days (hint: it's not a solution)The unintentional ways a partner can add pressure without realizing itWhat it means to be deeply loved — and whether we've always shown up authentically in our marriageWhat we want Katelynn and Amber to learn from watching us love each otherThis one got real, y'all. We even went down a rabbit hole about Christian rap, Sabbath keeping, and what it actually means to be equally yoked. Welcome to the messy middle. 😄Steal our questions and ask them to your partner tonight!🔔 Subscribe so you never miss an episode👍 Like this video if it blessed you💬 Drop a comment — we read them!Carlene + Jaime: Mentors for the Messy Middle#CarleneAndJaime #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipGoals #BlackLove #BlackMarriage #HowToLoveYourMan #MarriagePodcast #MentorsForThMessyMiddle #ChristianMarriage #BlackChristians #FaithAndRelationships #MarriageTips #CouplesGoals #AdventistCouples #LoveAndMarriage #RelationshipTalk #BlackCouples #HusbandAndWife #MarriageConversations #RealTalk

In this episode of Carlene + Jaime: Mentors for the Messy Middle, Jaime sits down with Carlene for one of their most vulnerable conversations yet. They unpack the "strong Black woman" trope, what it costs, and what it actually looks like when a husband chooses to see his wife — fully, consistently, and intentionally.From the early years of their marriage navigating independence and unspoken expectations, to seasons of feeling unseen, carrying too much, and finding their way back to each other — this one is raw, real, and deeply necessary.In this episode:Why the "strong Black woman" narrative can be a slow deathWhat it means to truly see your spouse (not just listen)How communication — not assumption — is what saves marriagesWhat Carlene wants Katelynn and Amber to see modeled in how Jaime loves herAdvice for any Black woman who doesn't feel loved well right now🎙️ Subscribe & hit the notification bell Like, comment & share what resonated 📍 Find us on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts & InstagramInstagram: @carleneplusjaimeTikTok: @carleneplusjaime#BlackLove #LovingYourBlackWoman #MarriagePodcast #BlackMarriage #StrongBlackWoman #CarleneAndJaime #MentorsForTheMessyMiddle #RelationshipGoals #BlackCouples #FaithAndFamily #ChristianMarriage #BlackWomen

Are you holding it all together — but barely? This one's for you. 💍Every marriage hits seasons where life just won't slow down. The spin cycle of work, family, responsibilities, and unspoken feelings can quietly pull two people apart — even when they're sitting in the same room. In this raw and real episode, Carlene + Jaime get vulnerable about what happens when one partner shuts down, the other feels the distance, and how they found their way back to each other.Inspired by Big Sean's Hold Your Head, Guard Your Heart, Jaime opens up about what it means to bottle things up as a man — the cultural conditioning that tells us strength looks like silence — and why that can quietly destroy the very relationships we love most. Carlene shares what it feels like to miss your spouse while they're right there, and the power of creating a truly safe space for your partner to fall apart and be put back together.This episode is for every couple navigating the messy middle.In this episode, we talk about:What to do when your marriage gets stuck in an "off rhythm"Why men tend to go silent under pressure (and what's really going on)The difference between guarding your heart and letting God guard your heartHow emotional closeness and physical intimacy are deeply connectedWhat it really means to be your spouse's "corner" in the fight of lifeThe power of saying "we need to talk" — and meaning it with love🔗 Take our FREE Relationship Assessment:carleneplusjaime.com/survey📍 Mentioned in this episode:Myron Edmonds' Winning Circle — https://winningcircleconference.comSubscribe & join the community: 👇We are Carlene + Jaime — your mentors for the messy middle. Every episode, we bring you honest conversations about marriage, faith, and what it really takes to build a lasting relationship.🔔 Hit the bell so you never miss an episode.❤️ Like this video if it spoke to you.💬 Drop a comment and tell us — are you more of a "bottler" or do you speak up when something feels off?📲 Share this with a couple who needs to hear it.#MarriagePodcast #ChristianMarriage #CarleneAndJaime #MentorsForTheMesicMiddle #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageGoals #BlackLove #HoldYourHead #GuardYourHeart #FaithAndMarriage #CoupleGoals #MenAndMentalHealth #MarriageCommunication #HealingInMarriage #BlackMarriage #YouTubePodcast #RelationshipTips #IntimacyInMarriage #MessyMiddle

You love your spouse. That's not the question. But if you've ever come home to an unmade bed, tried to have a serious conversation through a running shower, or opened the fridge to find a collection of mystery foil packets — you already know what this episode is about.In this honest and hilarious conversation, Carlene and Jaime open up about the pet peeves that come with sharing a life with someone you love. Because no matter how strong your marriage is, there will always be moments when you look at your spouse and think: I love you, but I really don't like you right now.They also share why communication — not perfection — is what keeps a marriage healthy, and how two people from completely different backgrounds can learn to adjust, laugh, and grow together without losing themselves in the process.Plus, Jaime shares some major personal news that the whole family has been building toward for years. You don't want to miss it.If you've ever felt alone in the messiness of marriage, this episode is for you.Visit us at carleneplusjaime.com to take our Couples Assessment and fill out our listener survey.Follow us on YouTube: Carlene + Jaime

Friendships change—and sometimes that’s the hardest part of growth.In this episode, we have an honest, heartfelt conversation about friendships, including how they evolve, drift, deepen, or sometimes end altogether. From navigating adult friendships to letting go without guilt, we explore what it really means to maintain healthy relationships in different seasons of life.Whether you’re struggling with distance, redefining boundaries, or grieving a friendship that no longer fits, this conversation is for you. 💛✨ In this episode, we discuss:Why friendships change as we growOutgrowing people without resentmentHealthy boundaries in adult friendshipsWhen to fight for a friendship—and when to let goHow to build meaningful, life-giving connectionsIf you’ve ever asked yourself “Is it just me, or are friendships harder now?”—you’re not alone.👍 Like this video if it resonates💬 Comment: What season are your friendships in right now?🔔 Subscribe for more real conversations about relationships, growth, and the messy middle of life.

You love each other — but why does every argument feel like a battle? In this episode, we break down why couples fight the way they do and what to do about it.We explore the two conflict personalities that exist in every relationship — The Processor (needs to talk it out) and The Regulator (needs space to think) — and why understanding which one you and your spouse are changes everything. We dig into John Gottman's 4 Horsemen that predict relationship breakdown: criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. And we get honest about our own conflict styles and what we had to learn early in our marriage — starting with something as simple as washing dishes.We also walk you through two practical tools you can start using today: The Timeout Agreement (a structured pause with built-in accountability) and The Translation Method (reframing what your partner is really saying to de-escalate fast).If your arguments keep going in circles, if silence lasts for days, or if you're feeling emotionally unsafe to speak — this episode is for you.Take our Couples Survey — link in the show notes. Marriage Webinar coming soon — stay connected for details.We're Carlene + Jaime, your mentors for the messy middle.

In this episode of the Carlene + Jaime Podcast, we explore why Valentine’s Day often leads to disappointment and how understanding your partner’s love language can change the way couples experience love, connection, and expectations. Whether you’re married, dating, or preparing for future relationships, this conversation will help you communicate your needs clearly and love each other better—without resentment.

We're back with Part 2, and this time we're diving into our move FROM Texas TO Atlanta—and why this move changed everything for us! 🏡💕Carlene and Jaime get vulnerable about what it means to make a move as a true partnership, starting completely over with jobs and salaries, and how asking for help and building community saved our marriage during the transition.In This Episode We Talk About:Why this Atlanta move was different—it was OUR move, not just Jaime'sStarting over from scratch with new jobs and taking salary hitsThe financial pressure of rebuilding our careers in a new cityHow we stayed committed to each other when everything felt uncertainThe power of asking for help (and why pride almost stopped us)How our community and friends in Atlanta showed up for usWhy surrounding yourself with like-minded people is NON-NEGOTIABLEBuilding a support system that actually supports your marriageWhat "being a team" really looks like during major transitionsIf you're in a season of starting over, navigating career changes as a couple, or learning to receive help—this episode is for you.CONNECT WITH US:Instagram: CarlenePlusJaimeTikTok: CarlenePlusJaimeYoutube: ‪@CarleneplusJaime‬ Email: CarleneplusJaime‪@gmail.com‬ #MovingToAtlanta #MarriageAdvice #YoungCouples #RelocationTips #StartingOver #CareerChange #MarriagePodcast #AtlantaLife #CoupleGoals #AskingForHelp #CommunityMatters #ParentingPodcast #Part2

In this episode, we're getting real about our big move to Texas with two toddlers and how it completely transformed our marriage! 🏡✨Carlene and Jaime open up about the challenges, unexpected blessings, and hard-won lessons from relocating our family to the Lone Star State. If you're a young couple considering a major move—especially with little ones—this episode is for you!In This Episode We Talk About:Why we decided to move to Texas with our two toddlersThe biggest challenges we faced in our marriage during the transitionHow the move brought us closer (and the moments it tested us!)Practical advice for couples planning a big relocation with kidsWhat we wish we'd known before making the moveTips for maintaining connection during major life changesWhether you're thinking about moving to Texas, relocating to a new state with young children, or just navigating big life changes as a couple, we hope our story encourages and equips you!#MovingToTexas #MarriageAdvice #YoungCouples #ParentingToddlers #RelocationTips #TexasLife #MarriagePodcast #FamilyMove #CoupleGoals #parentingpodcast

In this raw and honest episode of Carlene plus Jaime, we dive deep into one of the most overlooked topics in relationships: what happens when HE’s the one saying no to intimacy.💔 What We Cover:• The emotional impact when traditional gender roles flip• Breaking down the myths around male desire and consent• How rejection affects women in ways we rarely discuss• Communication strategies for navigating sexual mismatches• Building understanding and empathy in intimate partnershipsThis vulnerable conversation challenges assumptions about desire, rejection, and gender dynamics in modern relationships. Whether you’re in a relationship or single, this episode offers insights that could transform how you think about intimacy and communication.

When she says "I'm too tired" - it's probably not what you think. In this raw and honest conversation, Carlene and Jaime dive deep into one of the most misunderstood dynamics in marriage. What's really happening when your wife says she's too tired for intimacy? Spoiler alert: it's rarely about physical exhaustion.This episode pulls back the curtain on the emotional, mental, and relational factors that impact a woman's desire for connection. From invisible mental loads to feeling unseen in the relationship, Carlene and Jaime explore the deeper truths behind "I'm too tired" - and more importantly, how couples can bridge this gap with understanding and compassion.Whether you're the spouse saying "I'm too tired" or the one hearing it, this episode offers practical insights and real solutions for creating the kind of intimacy that goes beyond the bedroom. Because when couples understand each other's perspectives, everything changes.We are the marriage mentors for the messy middle - where real relationships get real solutions.Perfect for couples ready to move past surface-level conversations and dive into what really matters.

🔥 The shocking truth about what's actually breaking relationships apart...Most couples think they need grand gestures, expensive therapy, or perfect communication to save their relationship. But the real relationship killer?Leaving connection to chance.In this episode, we reveal the ONE thing that 90% of couples completely skip - and it's costing them their relationship. We're talking about intentional couple care planning, and why creating a "couple care menu" might be the most important thing you do for your relationship this year.🎯 What You'll Learn:The #1 reason couples drift apart (it's not what you think)How to create your own couple care menu in under 10 minutesWhy spontaneity is actually killing your connection25+ couple care ideas for any budget, time, or energy levelThe difference between couples who thrive vs. couples who surviveABOUT US:We're Carlene and Jaime, and we've been married for 17 years. After nearly losing our own relationship to the "roommate trap," we discovered the power of intentional couple care. Now we help couples reconnect and build relationships that actually last.💬 LET'S CONNECT:What's one thing from your couple care menu that you want to try this week? Drop it in the comments below! We read every single one and often feature your stories in future videos.

Is your relationship running on autopilot?In this episode, we’re breaking down what Couple Care really means — and why it’s the secret ingredient most couples are missing.We’re sharing:🌿 What “Couple Care” actually is (it’s more than just date night)🙏🏾 How to invite God into the daily rhythm of your relationship💛 3 easy practices that build connection, trust, and joy🎉 Plus: How to start your own “Couple Care Menu” todayWhether your marriage feels disconnected or just in need of a tune-up, this episode is your reminder that love needs tending.🔔 Subscribe for more faith-based encouragement, practical tools, and real talk to help you build a marriage that lasts.

💬 In this episode, we dive deep into why waiting to have kids was the best decision for our marriage. From building a stronger emotional connection to exploring personal goals, delaying parenthood gave us the space to grow—individually and together.🎧 What you’ll hear in this episode: • Why we chose to delay starting a family • The surprising benefits for our communication and intimacy • How career growth and travel shaped our bond • Advice for couples considering waiting to have kids • Honest reflections on societal pressure, family expectations, and what we’d do differentlyWhether you’re married, engaged, or simply curious about how timing affects relationships, this conversation is for you.🔔 Subscribe for more real, raw conversations about love, marriage, and intentional living.👍 If this resonated with you, give it a like and share with someone navigating the same decision.💬 Tell us in the comments: Have you considered delaying parenthood? Why or why not?#MarriagePodcast #DelayingParenthood #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageGoals #CouplesTalk #MillennialMarriage #IntentionalLiving #ParentingDecisions #LoveAndMarriage #StrongRelationships

Are you and your partner living like roommates instead of lovers? In this raw and honest conversation, we dive deep into what happens when life gets so busy that you forget how to connect with the person you love most.What We Cover:The warning signs that busyness is killing your relationshipWhy "quality time" isn't enough (and what actually works)How to reconnect when you're both exhausted and overwhelmedThe 15-minute daily habit that saved our marriageSetting boundaries with work, kids, and life to protect your relationshipWhy scheduling romance isn't unromantic—it's essentialPerfect for couples who:✓ Feel like they're just going through the motions✓ Can't remember the last time they had a real conversation✓ Want to reconnect but don't know where to start✓ Are tired of putting their relationship on the back burnerDon't let busyness be the reason your love story ends. Sometimes the best thing you can do for your relationship is hit the reset button.What's your biggest relationship challenge right now? Let us know in the comments below! 👇Follow us on instagram:  @CarleneplusJaime  #MarriageAdvice #CouplesTherapy #RelationshipGoals #MarriageReset #BusyCouples #RelationshipTips #MarriageTips #CouplesCommunication #LoveAndMarriage #HealthyRelationships

Are you and your spouse going through a rough patch? Learn how to handle difficult marriage problems privately without involving the whole world. In this episode of Carlene + Jaime explore why privacy in marriage matters and how to work through challenges as a team - just the two of you.🎯 What You'll Learn:Why keeping marriage problems private actually strengthens your relationshipHow to resist the urge to vent to friends, family, and social mediaEffective ways to communicate and solve problems between yourselvesWhen it's appropriate to seek outside help (and when it's not)How to create a safe space for honest conversations at home🤐 Signs you might be oversharing your marriage problems:Complaining about your spouse to friends or familyPosting cryptic messages on social media about your relationshipSeeking validation from others instead of your partnerFeeling like everyone knows your businessThis episode focuses on building a stronger, more private bond with your spouse. Learn how successful couples handle difficulties internally while maintaining respect, dignity, and ultimately solving problems together.🔔 SUBSCRIBE for more practical marriage advice that keeps your relationship strong and private!

In this episode, we break down the toxic relationship between Chrisean Rock and Blueface to reveal the 3 essential things every couple MUST do before getting married. Their drama-filled relationship teaches us valuable lessons about red flags, communication, and relationship foundations.

🚨 BREAKING: Will Smith just admitted he made a "very very very terrible mistake" with his parenting approach - and we're breaking down exactly why his "radical honesty" method backfired!In this explosive episode, parenting experts Carlene and Jaime react to Will Smith's shocking confession from his recent Heart Breakfast interview where he revealed how his parenting philosophy damaged his relationship with Jaden and Willow.⚡ WHAT WE UNCOVER:✅ Will Smith's exact words about his parenting "mistake"❌ Why "radical honesty" can be harmful to children's development🧠 The psychology behind why this approach backfires💡 What parents should do INSTEAD (evidence-based alternatives)🎯 Red flags every parent needs to watch for💭 DISCUSSION POINTS:Evidence-based parenting strategies that actually workSetting healthy boundaries vs. radical transparency

In this powerful discussion, we explore the unique challenges and opportunities facing Black girls and young women in today's political climate. As parents, educators, and community members, how do we nurture strength, confidence, and resilience in the next generation of Black leaders?This video covers:Building unshakeable self-worth in environments that may not always affirm their valueTeaching critical thinking skills to navigate media, politics, and social pressuresCelebrating Black excellence while acknowledging real challengesPractical strategies for parents and caregiversWhether you're a parent, teacher, mentor, or ally, this conversation offers insights into empowering young Black women to thrive despite obstacles. We discuss how to balance protecting their innocence while preparing them for reality, and how to instill both pride in their heritage and tools for success in any environment.Join the conversation in the comments about your own experiences and strategies for raising confident, resilient young women who know their worth and power.

Raising resilient Black queens begins with affirming identity, embracing joy, and equipping our daughters with the tools to navigate a world that often challenges their worth. In this heartfelt episode, we delve into empowering practices like daily affirmations, celebrating Blackness, and recognizing the importance of teaching our children to confront microaggressions with confidence and grace. This conversation is about building strength, cultivating emotional wellness, and fostering genuine connections in a society that doesn't always value our stories. Discover how creating a village of support—through home, school, and community—helps instill pride and resilience in the next generation of Black leaders. We share insights on affirming individuality, the beauty of our heritage, and the significance of teaching real history to ensure our children grow up self-assured and empowered. Join us as we reflect on the emotional weight of parenting, the mutual commitment to lifting up Black excellence, and the journey of recognizing your worth and standing tall in every space.

What happens when we let go of our carefully laid plans and step boldly into the unknown? In this powerful conversation, we explore the beautiful tension between human planning and divine purpose—and why God's greatest work often happens in the spaces we never saw coming.From Abraham's call to leave everything familiar behind, to the disciples dropping their nets to follow Jesus, scripture is filled with ordinary people who said "yes" to extraordinary invitations. But what does this look like in our modern lives? How do we distinguish between reckless abandon and faithful obedience?Whether you're facing a major life transition, feeling stuck in routine, or sensing a stirring to pursue something that seems impossible, this conversation will challenge you to see uncertainty not as an enemy, but as the very place where miracles are born.Sometimes the most profound question isn't "What's my five-year plan?" but rather "God, what are you inviting me into today?"Perfect for: Anyone wrestling with big decisions, feeling called to something new, or simply wanting to live with greater faith and expectancy.Connect with us:Subscribe for weekly episodes on faith, purpose, and living boldlyShare your own "stepping out" story in the commentsJoin our community discussion using #IntoTheUnknownRemember: The God who parted seas and moved mountains is the same God writing your story today. What if the unknown isn't something to fear, but somewhere to flourish?

We dive into the emotional weight of personal style and how it shapes mutual commitment, connection, and perceptions in a relationship. From experimenting with unique clothing choices to navigating differences in taste, we reflect on how honoring your individuality while supporting your partner's expressions creates a balanced partnership. Recognizing your worth and embracing each other’s authenticity can truly strengthen the bond you share. Discover how understanding and communication about style can foster emotional wellness, build genuine connections, and even help you grow together as a couple. Whether it’s styling choices that spark joy or budget-conscious shopping habits, this conversation empowers you to embrace personal growth while nurturing your relationship. Join us for insights that go beyond fashion to touch on love, respect, and the complexities of marriage. What role does your style play in your relationship? Share your thoughts in the comments below and let’s connect over this shared journey.

In today's fast-paced world, relationships often need more than just love to thrive. This video explores how the dynamic duo of personal style and deep soul connection creates lasting bonds that withstand life's challenges.We'll dive into how shared aesthetic values create visual harmony in our lives, while soul connections provide the emotional foundation that keeps us grounded. Whether it's the way you decorate your shared space, your complementary fashion choices, or those profound late-night conversations—style and soul are the twin forces that keep relationships vibrant and enduring.Join us as we share personal stories, practical tips, and psychological insights on nurturing both the stylistic compatibility and soulful understanding that make relationships not just work, but flourish.

Navigating the teen years can feel like a whirlwind, especially when it comes to finding common ground in personal expression and style. In this heartfelt episode, we dive into “Teen Style Battles” and the invaluable “Lessons We Learned as Parents” while sharing the couch with our 14-year-old daughter, Caitlyn. From generational shifts in fashion to empowering your child’s individuality, we unpack the emotional weight of balancing parental guidance with their growing independence. We reflect on fostering mutual commitment to understanding each other, recognizing your worth as both parents and kids, and building genuine connections within the family. Whether you're a parent trying to embrace your teen's evolving style or a teen seeking a balanced partnership with your parents, this episode offers insights that resonate across generations. Discover how to navigate these complex dynamics with empathy, humor, and a touch of nostalgia as we explore the importance of confidence, self-expression, and timeless values in the journey of self-discovery. Join us for this empowering conversation filled with laughter, lessons, and love. What are the lessons you've learned in your family about individuality and compromise? Share your thoughts in the comments below, and don’t forget to like, subscribe, and join us for more episodes on personal growth and emotional wellness.

Timeless fashion doesn’t just transform your wardrobe—it transforms your mindset and self-expression. In this episode, we dive into the emotional weight of style as a reflection of personal growth, mental liberation, and individuality. From balanced partnerships in fashion choices to recognizing your worth through what you wear, we explore how your style communicates who you are and where you’ve been.Discover how timeless fashion tips can help you build genuine connections, embrace your culture, and redefine your confidence. Whether it’s finding joy in quality pieces, balancing trends with timeless investments, or honoring your individuality, your style is a celebration of your journey. Join us as we share insights on navigating professional environments, creating a wardrobe that evolves with you, and using fashion as a form of resistance and affirmation. How does your style reflect your voice? Let’s talk about it.

"Black Love Heals: Finding Strength in Each Other ❤️" is more than a phrase—it's a testament to the resilience, connection, and sacred bond that black love represents. In this heartfelt conversation, we explore the emotional weight of societal pressures, the power of mutual commitment, and the importance of recognizing your worth in a world that often seeks to diminish it. Together, we reflect on how black love creates a space of healing, a balanced partnership, and the foundation for building genuine connections that transcend challenges.Discover how black love fosters emotional wellness, self-discovery, and personal growth by embracing both its sacredness and visibility. Through shared stories, we unpack the complexities of relationships and highlight the importance of affirming, protecting, and celebrating this extraordinary love in both public and private spaces.What does black love mean to you? Share your thoughts in the comments and let’s continue this empowering conversation. Remember, black love is powerful, bold, and transformative. Keep choosing each other, keep rewriting the narrative, and keep letting your love shine.

In this episode, we dive into the complex and multifaceted concept of intimacy. From emotional vulnerability to physical closeness, we explore the various forms of intimacy and how they can enhance our relationships. We also discuss the importance of creating a safe space for intimacy to flourish and how communication and trust play a crucial role in fostering deep connections. Join us as we navigate the depths of intimacy and uncover its power to enrich our lives.

No new friends! At what age do you stop making new friends? How do you cope with friendship break-ups? This is part 2 of the conversation Carlene and Jaime were having last week. Once again we dig deeper into the sustaining, maintaing, and fostering your old fridns, and new friends. Thank you for joining us!

It seems like these days friendship are difficult to navigate. With changing personalities, distance, and life changes it can make it pretty hard just to balance life and friendships. On today's episode Carlene and Jaime chose to talk about our experience with new friends, old friends, and life. We hope you enjoy the conversation. Thank you for listening and subscribing

After 15 years of pastoral ministry, Carlene has a few things she would like to share about the ups and downs of a ministerial spouse in the work. In a faith tradition that does not ordain women or truly acknowledge their gifts and calling, it makes sense that ministerial wives are only to be seen, not heard. Join us in this episode as Carlene talks about ins and outs, ups and downs of 15 years of being married to a pastor. Remember to follow us on Youtube and Instagram @CarleneplusJaime

We decided to take a little break to get some much-needed rest. In this episode, we want to take some time to talk about how important it is to take a break and go off the radar.

Last week, we discussed the need for authentic study, community, and worship. I shared with Carlene that, as a pastor, we long for that, too, but some challenges accompany that. In this episode, I’m going to share a few things. I’ve learned in my 15 years of full-time pastoral ministry in the Seventh-day Adventist Church.

Prior, during, and after the pandemic we have heard so many people have mentioned to us that they just aren't feeling church anymore, and they are searching for something more authentic and organic.  In this weeks episode we chose to discuss the important topic of thirsting, but not being quenched.  Last week Carlene had the awesome privilege of attending the Glory Conference featuring Jackie Hill Perry. She felt the presence of the Lord as she was in the building. So we decided that we should discuss some of the topics that Jackie Hill discussed, and unpack our own thirst and what we are desiring.  Thank you for rocking with us,  I hope you enjoy.   Please don't forget to like, subscribe, and share.  

What do you see if I told you to close your eyes and imagine Jesus standing before you? In this week's episode, Carlene and I want to discuss the process of deconstruction and constructing a whole new imagination of God. We borrowed the title of the book that we've been reading by Dr. Cristena Clevaland.

Someone said showing up means showing up is just being so invested in a relationship's success, whatever that takes, based on whatever the two of you negotiate, that you're always listening, tailoring, and adjusting to meet each other's needs. In this week's episode, Carlene and I discuss how important it is to show up for each other and balance how we show up for our friends.

Are you struggling to establish healthy boundaries in the most intimate areas of your life? Do you find it challenging to balance your desires with your children's needs? If so, you're not alone. Join us as we delve into uncharted territories, breaking societal taboos and engaging in open conversations about boundaries in the bedroom and with children. You already know we are not afraid to go there, so we hope you are willing to join us on the journey.

In this episode, we dive deep into the realm of marriage and explore the crucial topic of boundaries. Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for years, establishing and respecting boundaries is essential for a healthy and thriving relationship. Through real-life examples and relatable experiences, we'll uncover the most common pitfalls couples encounter when it comes to boundaries and provide practical tips on how to overcome them. Whether it's dealing with differing opinions on finances, parenting styles, or even friendships, we'll explore how setting and maintaining boundaries can create a stronger foundation for your marriage.

Does everyone win in a marriage, or do we abandon our goals to support our significant other? Is loving you causing me to lose myself? In some relationships, we may sacrifice what we want to support our significant other. Thank you for taking the time to hang out with us on this episode of Carlene + Jaime

We have come to the culmination of our 3 part series about picking up the pieces. Let's just be honest, relationships are complicated to navigate. Essentially it's about bringing two different worlds together and making them into one, where two individuals can co-exist in happy harmony. Carlene and Jaime will discuss the essentials that keep us happy together. 

Last week we touched on the topic a little bit, this week want to dive right in. Have you been with someone who displayed toxic behavior because they didn’t know what they wanted? Constantly putting you through a spin cycle, that left you questioning yourself? Well Carlene and I have been through that, and we are here to pick up where we left off with part 2 of our "Picking Up the Pieces" series

In this episode, Carlene and I unpack how a father’s absence or presence could positively impact a relationship. We will share how it has impacted us in our marriage and how we are navigating through our obstacles. We are just picking up the pieces of our fragmented childhood traumas and using them to build a beautiful picture.

Black Millennials have been absent from church for quite some time now. It seems like, after the pandemic, we are beginning to notice it. In this episode, Carlene and I discuss the top 5 reasons black millennials are leaving the church. Thank you for listening!!!

What kind of conversations do you have in front of your children? We try to protect their little ears from adult-like content, but our youngest daughter heard something that she didn't understand. In this episode, we tackle this issue in parenting. Listen to find out where we landed.

In this episode, we hit a lot of topics, from the ships sinking to banning the Bible in schools because of vulgarity, and our parenting skills this week. It isn't easy, but we are here to talk about all of it.

Now that camp meeting is over there's been much talk about what went down. We have something to say about what they had to say. In this episode, we look at the trajectory of worship in the Adventist church and offer our opinion on the matter.