Challenge Your Guilt

In this powerful episode of Challenge Your Guilt, I’m joined by the brilliant Tamu Thomas - somatic coach, speaker, founder of the Live Three Sixty brand and author of Women Who Work Too Much.Together, we explore one of the biggest lies modern women have been sold: that being a “good” woman, and especially a “good” mother, means being endlessly busy, endlessly giving and endlessly available.Tamu names how womanhood and motherhood have become conflated with martyrdom, and how the cultural celebration of “selflessness” can keep mothers trapped in cycles of overworking, over-giving and self-abandonment.We discuss why so much of what we call “mum guilt” is often closer to shame - a manufactured sense that we are somehow failing at our core if we are not constantly doing, caring, achieving or proving our worth.This conversation covers toxic productivity, invisible care work, the mental load, the myth of work-life balance, nervous system depletion, the pressure to optimise every inch of family life, and why slowing down can feel so radical when you have been conditioned to measure your worth by how much you do.Tamu also shares practical ways mothers can begin to reconnect with their bodies, their rhythms and their needs - including simple grounding practices and the powerful question: what actually matters to me?If you have ever felt like you are holding everything together on the surface while quietly running on empty underneath, this episode is for you.In this episode, we discuss: Why motherhood is so often confused with martyrdom  The problem with celebrating mothers for being “selfless”  How care work is devalued precisely because it is essential  The difference between guilt and shame  Why many mothers are trapped in toxic productivity  How the mental load keeps women in a state of over-functioning  Why balance may not be the right goal  How to make decisions based on your actual capacity, not your conditioning  Why rest, rhythm and nervous system care are not luxuries  How mothers can begin to become “self-full” rather than selfless Where to find TamuYou can find Tamu on Instagram at @tamu.thomas.Her book, Women Who Work Too Much, is available wherever you buy books.If this episode resonates, please subscribe, leave a review and share it with another mother who needs to hear it.You can also buy my book, Challenge Your Guilt: How to Flourish in Motherhood, Work and Life, or email me ([email protected]) to apply for a free Motherload Breakthrough Call to explore working with me 1:1.✨ If this episode resonated, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a mother who needs to hear that guilt was never hers to carry.

In this episode, I’m joined by award-winning science journalist and author Melissa Hogenboom to explore maternal guilt through a powerful lens: biology, psychology, and culture.Melissa’s work has deeply influenced my own thinking, and in this conversation, we unpack one of the most important truths about modern motherhood:Much of what we experience as “personal failure” is, in fact, systemic design.We explore why women are still carrying too much, how deeply embedded gender norms shape our daily lives, and why even the most empowered, high-performing women can feel stuck in cycles of guilt, overload, and self-doubt.This is a conversation that will help you zoom out, reframe, and start questioning the narratives you’ve been living inside.What We Cover Why maternal guilt often feels visceral-and why it isn’t actually about you The difference between internal guilt vs. socially conditioned guilt  The concept of “gendered cognitive stickiness”-and why roles are so hard to shift  How maternal gatekeeping forms (and why it’s not your fault)  Why women still carry the mental load-even when they earn more  The hidden emotional and psychological cost of being a breadwinning mother  Why empowerment (financial + psychological) changes everything  The reality of modern motherhood: too exhausted to build the village we need How connection acts as a buffer against shame, depletion, and isolation Key Takeaways You are not failing at motherhood-you are operating inside outdated systems Guilt is often a signal of conflicting societal expectations, not personal inadequacy  Letting go of control (even imperfectly) is a crucial step in reducing mental load  Financial and psychological autonomy are deeply linked to wellbeing  Social connection isn’t a luxury-it’s protective and necessary The solution isn’t doing more-it’s rethinking everything you’ve been told you should be doingAbout MelissaMelissa Hogenboom is an award-winning science journalist and author of The Motherhood Complex and Breadwinners. Her work explores the intersection of biology, psychology, and culture-particularly in relation to motherhood, gender, and identity.Links & ResourcesMelissa’s websiteMelissa's InstagramThe Motherhood Complex + Breadwinners – available wherever books are sold Work With MeIf this episode resonated and you’re ready to stop internalising guilt and start creating a way of living and working that actually works for you, you can:Buy my book Challenge Your GuiltSubscribe to my newsletter for weekly insights and support Email me - [email protected] - for the link to apply for a free 60-minute Motherload Breakthrough call - a powerful starting point for real change.✨ If this episode resonated, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a mother who needs to hear that guilt was never hers to carry.

What if the problem isn’t you… but the rules you’ve been living by?In this powerful and deeply validating conversation, I’m joined by psychotherapeutic counsellor and coach Becky Selbie (also known as Motherway), to unpack one of the most important - and overlooked - drivers of maternal guilt: the invisible rulebook.Because when you become a mother, you don’t start from scratch.You inherit a complex set of internalised rules about what it means to be “good.”Rules about: How much you should give  How patient you should be  What balance should look like  What success, ambition, and sacrifice mean And the problem?Many of these rules are impossible to meet - and guilt becomes the mechanism that keeps you trying.Together, we explore how this rulebook is formed, why it feels so powerful, and what it really takes to step outside it.🔍 In this episode, we explore: What the “rulebook” is - and how it quietly shapes your experience of motherhood The difference between micro conditioning (your personal upbringing) and macro conditioning (societal expectations) Why modern mothers are caught between conflicting rulebooks (the “perfect mother” vs “have it all” narrative) How guilt acts as an enforcement mechanism keeping you stuck in impossible standards The powerful distinction between motherhood (the institution) and mothering (your lived experience)Why awareness is the first - and most essential - step in breaking free Practical ways to identify and challenge the rules driving your behaviour How your rulebook may be clashing with your partner’s - and what that creates at home Why rewriting the rules is uncomfortable… but ultimately freeing 🧠 A key takeawayYou are not failing at motherhood.You are trying to succeed within a system of rules that were never designed to support you.And when you begin to see that clearly? You stop internalising the pressure - and start reclaiming choice.🌿 About Becky SelbieBecky is a psychotherapeutic counsellor and coach who supports mothers to understand their internal rulebooks and build a more compassionate, conscious relationship with themselves and their motherhood.You can find Becky here: Instagram Website📣 If this episode resonatedIf this conversation made you feel seen, I’d love you to: Subscribe to the podcast  Share it with another mother who needs to hear this  Leave a review - it helps more women find this work 🔗 Work with meIf you’re ready to stop living by impossible standards and start creating a way of working and living that actually works for you:→ Book a Motherload Breakthrough Call (application only - email [email protected])→ Buy my book: Challenge Your Guilt: How to Flourish in Motherhood, Work, and Life✨ If this episode resonated, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a mother who needs to hear that guilt was never hers to carry.

In this episode, I’m joined by conscious parenting coach and somatic practitioner Emily Hughes from Finding Flow Parenting.When we first spoke, she said something that stopped me in my tracks:“I see far less guilt in parents… and far more shame.”Not “I did something wrong” - but“Something is wrong with me.”And that distinction matters more than we realise.Because shame doesn’t just sit at the surface.It lives in the body.It shapes how we respond to our children.And it can quietly define how we see ourselves as mothers.In this conversation, we explore what’s really going on beneath those moments where we lose our temper, spiral into self-criticism, or question whether we’re “cut out” for motherhood.In this episode, we cover:The crucial difference between guilt and shame - and why so many mothers skip straight to shameHow core beliefs like “I’m not good enough” or “I’m failing” drive the shame spiralWhy shame thrives in secrecy - and begins to dissolve in connectionThe role of the nervous system in parenting triggers and emotional overwhelmHow neurodiversity and sensitivity can intensify experiences of shameThe concept of belonging as a buffer to shame - for both mothers and childrenWhy rupture is inevitable in family life - and how repair builds deeper connectionThe link between self-acceptance and how we parent our childrenPractical ways to regulate in the moment (even when you’ve completely lost it)Somatic tools (including movement and awareness) to release shame from the bodyA key insight from this conversation:Shame isn’t just psychological - it’s physiological.Emily describes it as an “implosion in the body” - something we feel, not just think.Which means we can’t just “mindset” our way out of it.We have to work with the body too.Why this episode mattersIf you’ve ever:Snapped at your child and immediately felt like a terrible motherSpiralled into self-blame after a difficult momentWondered why some parenting struggles feel so personal…this episode will help you understand why.And more importantly, how to respond differently.About Emily HughesEmily Hughes is a conscious parenting coach and somatic practitioner, supporting parents who feel overwhelmed, triggered, or stuck in challenging family dynamics.Her work focuses on creating “de-shaming spaces” for parents — helping them understand their nervous systems, build emotional awareness, and parent from a place of connection rather than reactivity.Find Emily:WebsiteInstagramWork with meIf this conversation resonated, and you’re ready to change your relationship with guilt (and shame) at a deeper level:→ Book a free 60-minute Motherload Breakthrough CallThis is an application-only call for mothers who are ready to step into coaching and do the work - not a quick advice session, but a space to explore whether 1:1 Reframe coaching is right for you. Email me for the link to apply - [email protected]→ Buy my book Challenge Your GuiltA practical and compassionate guide to understanding and overcoming maternal guilt.→ Subscribe to my weekly newsletterFor deeper reflections, tools, and conversations on motherhood, identity, and flourishing.✨ If this episode resonated, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a mother who needs to hear that guilt was never hers to carry.

In this episode of Challenge Your Guilt, I’m joined by Clare Willetts - gender equality consultant, founder of Not Only Pink and Blue, and former advertising and brand leader.Through Not Only Pink and Blue, Clare works with businesses, schools and organisations to challenge gender stereotypes and create more equitable cultures - from the playground to the boardroom.Clare’s work sits at the powerful intersection of childhood socialisation, maternal guilt, workplace inequality, the limits society places on fathers’ caregiving roles and the impact this has on mothers' lives and careers. This conversation connected so many dots for me.We talk about how gender stereotypes are learned shockingly early, how they follow us from the playground straight into the workplace, and why initiatives aimed at “fixing women” or “encouraging dads” will always fall short unless we address the system underneath.Clare shares research and real-world insight from her work with businesses, schools and parents - including some statistics that stopped me in my tracks.In this conversation, we explore:Why girls lose around 30% of their confidence by age eight - and why it rarely returnsHow boys as young as seven are taught that anger is the only acceptable emotionWhy workplace gender equality initiatives often come 20+ years too lateHow caregiving is devalued, feminised, and treated as “lesser” - at work and at homeWhy fathers don’t take up shared parental leave, even when policies existThe hidden career penalty mothers absorb - and why men are watching it happenHow “parenting out loud” is praised in men but penalised in womenWhy rolling back DEI isn’t neutral - it’s a brand and trust riskWhat meaningful change would actually require (hint: it’s cultural, not cosmetic)This conversation is essential listening if you’re interested in maternal guilt, workplace inequality, gender stereotypes and norms, or the deeper systems shaping modern family life. Clare’s work makes clear that while mothers carry a disproportionate burden, fathers are also constrained by gender norms that limit their emotional expression, caregiving roles and freedom at work - and that meaningful change requires us to address the system as a whole.Where to find Clare Willetts:Website InstagramLinkedIn ✨ If this episode resonated, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a mother who needs to hear that guilt was never hers to carry.

In this episode, I’m joined by Esther Amira-Opie, a natural therapist and women’s health practitioner, for a deeply honest and compassionate conversation about maternal guilt, health anxiety, burnout, and learning to listen to our bodies as mothers.Esther shares her own journey from corporate healthcare into holistic practice, including how postnatal depletion, stress, and a pre-diabetes diagnosis became a turning point in how she understood health, balance, and self-care. Together, we explore the invisible pressures modern mothers are under - and how guilt so often shows up around our children’s health, our work, and our own needs.This episode is especially for you if you’ve ever:Felt guilty for not doing “enough” for your child’s healthQuestioned past medical decisions with the benefit of hindsightStruggled to rest, sleep, or switch off without feeling selfishFelt torn between modern medicine and more holistic approachesKnown what you “should” do for your wellbeing - but found it hard to actually do itIn our conversation, we explore:Why guilt is such a constant companion for so many mothers - especially self-employed and working mumsThe pressure to “bounce back” after birth, and how this harms women’s physical and mental healthEsther’s experience of burnout, hair loss, over-training, and stress - and what her body was trying to tell herAn integrative approach to health, where modern medicine and holistic support can coexistHow maternal intuition gets undermined - and why learning to trust ourselves again mattersThe role of sleep, stress, gut health, breathwork, and nervous system regulation in women’s wellbeingWhy perfectionism keeps us stuck - and how small, compassionate changes really add upThe powerful reframe of moving from a to-do list to a ta-da listThroughout the episode, Esther reminds us that when we know better, we do better - and that guilt has no place in decisions made from love, care, and the information we had at the time About Esther Amira OpieEsther is a natural therapist and women’s health practitioner who supports women to find balance, wellbeing, and confidence in their bodies and lives. Her work is grounded, practical, and compassionate - focusing on root causes rather than quick fixes, and helping women work with their bodies rather than against them.🔗 Find Esther here:WebsiteInstagramIf this episode resonated with you:Subscribe to Challenge Your Guilt so you don’t miss future conversationsShare this episode with another mother who’s carrying too muchLeave a review - it really helps this podcast reach more women✨ If this episode resonated, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a mother who needs to hear that guilt was never hers to carry.

In this episode of Challenge Your Guilt, I’m joined by Lauren Currie OBE - social entrepreneur, author, activist and founder of Upfront, a global movement supporting women and marginalised genders to build confidence, take up space and feel braver together.I’ve admired Lauren’s work for a long time, because so much of what she explores - confidence, visibility, shame, shrinking and self-censorship - sits right at the heart of the maternal guilt conversations I have with mothers every day.In our conversation, we explore how guilt and confidence are deeply interconnected, and how many women - particularly mothers - are trapped in a cultural double bind where confidence is encouraged in theory, but punished in practice.Lauren explains why women don’t “lack confidence” - and how living in a system that penalises confident women leads many of us to avoid conflict, over-function, and take responsibility for everything and everyone. The result? Guilt, exhaustion and a constant sense of not being enough.In this episode, we talk about:Why the so-called “confidence gap” is systemic, not personalHow women are praised for being accommodating, but punished for being assertiveThe double bind that keeps mothers stuck between being too much and never enoughWhy guilt often feels safer than conflict - and what that costs usLauren’s idea of “runaway guilt”, and how low confidence erodes boundariesHow motherhood intensifies guilt even when you intellectually “know better”What it looks like to notice guilt without letting it run the showLauren also shares honestly about guilt in her own motherhood journey - from early working-mother guilt, to the emotional pull between ambition, presence and rest - and how she now meets guilt with awareness rather than self-attack.We also talk about Lauren’s children’s book Taylor Meets the Trick, and how giving families simple language to name patriarchy can remove shame, defensiveness and silence - not just for children, but for adults too.I close by asking Lauren one question I return to often on this podcast:What is one small act of courage a mother could take this week if she’s feeling stuck in guilt, self-doubt or invisibility?Her answer is deceptively simple - and incredibly powerful.🔗 Links & Ways to Connect with LaurenIf this conversation resonated and you’d like to explore Lauren’s work further, here are the best places to find her:📲 Follow Lauren on Instagram:Lauren Currie (personal account) Taylor Meets the Trick (children’s book) Upfront (confidence & community)Lauren also writes regularly on LinkedIn and Substack, and I know she’d genuinely love to hear what landed for you from this episode.📚 Books Mentioned in This EpisodeTaylor Meets the TrickA playful, powerful children’s book that gives families simple language to talk about patriarchy, gender roles and “the trick” - without shame or blame. Be Upfront: 24 Rules for Life-Changing Confidence (published February '26)Lauren’s first non-fiction book, distilling over a decade of confidence-building work into practical, culture-shifting insights. 💛 If You Enjoyed This EpisodePlease subscribe, rate and share Challenge Your Guilt - it really helps this podcast reach more mothers who need these conve✨ If this episode resonated, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a mother who needs to hear that guilt was never hers to carry.

What if laughter isn’t just a coping mechanism for motherhood - but a quiet act of resistance against guilt and shame?In this episode of Challenge Your Guilt I'm joined by comedian, actor and creator of the much-loved Instagram account @thefunnymummyuk, Alyssa Kyria. Known for her razor-sharp parodies and unfiltered honesty, Alyssa shares the story behind her work, her experiences of maternal guilt, and why humour has become one of her most powerful tools for survival, connection and self-compassion.Together, we explore guilt in all its messy forms - from working motherhood and being a parent of an only child, to phone addiction, mental load, screen guilt and the pressure to look like you’re coping. This is a conversation about honesty over perfection, empathy over shame, and why laughing at the chaos might just help us put some of the guilt down.Warm, funny and deeply validating, this episode will leave you feeling less alone - and very likely laughing along.What We Cover in This EpisodeAlyssa’s journey from actor and character comedy to @thefunnymummyukWhy becoming a mother changed how she shows up creativelyMaternal guilt through the lens of having one childThe guilt of working, touring and missing key momentsMental health, burnout and the pressure to always appear “fine”Why curated social media feeds fuel maternal guiltPhone addiction, boundaries and the impact on family lifeScreen guilt, mental load and modern motherhoodHow humour helps dissolve shame and restore connectionLaughing at ourselves as a form of emotional resilienceAlyssa’s upcoming podcast Cringe & Tell and future projectsKey TakeawaysGuilt shows up no matter how many children you have - there is no “right” way to motherShame thrives in isolation, but laughter creates connectionYou are not failing - you’re responding to impossible standardsHumour can help us step out of self-judgement and into compassionBeing honest about the hard parts of motherhood mattersFind Alyssa online:Instagram & Facebook: @thefunnymummyukWebsite: https://alyssakyria.com/Links & ResourcesBuy the book: Challenge Your Guilt: How to Flourish in Motherhood, Work and LifeApply for a free Motherload Breakthrough Call with BelindaSubscribe to Belinda’s weekly newsletter for reflections on motherhood, work and guilt✨ If this episode resonated, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a mother who needs to hear that guilt was never hers to carry.

In this rich & energising conversation, I'm joined by writer, multi-award-winning blogger & long-time flexible working campaigner Vicki Broadbent - known to many as @honestmum - whose digital career began after leaving her role as a screenwriter & TV director when motherhood collided with an inflexible industry.The author of Mumboss and Greek Myths, Folk Tales & Legends, Vicki has built one of the UK’s most recognisable digital platforms while raising her three children - & advocating for mothers’ rights, visibility & creativity along the way.We explore how guilt showed up in Vicki’s early years of motherhood, how identity loss & creative reinvention shaped her path, & what 15 years online has taught her about women’s voices, misogyny, stigma, & the pressures mothers still carry today. What we cover:✨ The early career pivot that wasn’t really a choiceVicki shares how the TV & film world made it almost impossible to combine directing with raising a baby - & the subtle (and not-so-subtle) stigma she faced for becoming pregnant at 27 in a male-dominated industry. ✨ The constant undertow of mum-guiltWe discuss guilt as the “side dish of motherhood” - from being physically separated from your child for work, to trying to work around them at home, to the emotional whiplash of being endlessly stretched, responsible & tired. ✨ Flexible work: blessing or burden?Vicki shares how working digitally gave her more presence with her children - but also came with increased expectations & mental load, reinforcing gendered roles even when both partners wanted equality. ✨ Fathers, stigma and the pressure to “provide”We discuss how stigma, financial norms & patriarchal expectations also constrain fathers - keeping equality stalled & mothers overloaded. ✨ The mental load and the quiet crisis of modern parenthoodFrom crying in the car after drop-off to the exhaustion of juggling kids, care, work, after-school clubs & emotional labour - Vicki names the hidden strain so many parents carry. ✨ The culture of comparison & social media’s influence on maternal guiltWe talk candidly about how curated feeds, beauty standards, pressures on girls, & toxic masculinity messages shape how children grow up - & how mothers feel. ✨ Creativity as the thread back to yourselfVicki shares how blogging, writing & storytelling helped her rebuild a sense of identity after traumatic birth & career upheaval - & why creativity is still her anchor. ✨ Her new book: Greek Myths, Folk Tales & LegendsVicki explains the emotional & ancestral pull behind retelling Greek stories for a modern audience, how she researched & reimagined characters, & why writing this book was unexpectedly grounding & healing. LinksBuy Vicki’s book: Greek Myths, Folk Tales & LegendsConnect with Vicki: @honestmumBuy Belinda’s book: Challenge Your GuiltApply for a free Motherload Breakthrough CallSubscribe to the Flourishing Mother newsletter✨ If this episode resonated, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a mother who needs to hear that guilt was never hers to carry.

In this episode, I'm joined by Siobhan Strode - writer, campaigner, business owner, and mother of three - for a raw, wide-ranging conversation about the evolving nature of mum guilt and what it means to raise children in a world that can feel increasingly fractured.Together we explore:How guilt shifts across the seasons of motherhood - from toddler tantrums and TV time to teenage independence and phone boundaries.The transition from employment to self-employment, and how freedom and flexibility can both ease and amplify maternal guilt.Why guilt isn’t a personal flaw but a systemic issue rooted in patriarchal expectations and the undervaluing of care.The challenge of mothering in a broken world - climate crisis, global conflict, and social injustice - and the deeper “existential guilt” that many parents feel.Raising socially conscious, compassionate children through honest conversations, empathy, and action.Finding hope by nurturing imagination, community, and collective change.This is an honest, moving, and ultimately hopeful dialogue about guilt, grief, privilege, and purpose - and how mothers can model both empathy and agency for the next generation.Connect with Siobhan Strode 👉 siobhanstrode.com 👉 Instagram @siobhan.strodeWork with Belinda Jane Batt 💬 Book your free Motherload Breakthrough Call — a pre-coaching conversation for mothers ready to reflect and take action. 📖 Buy Challenge Your Guilt: How to Flourish in Motherhood, Work and Life 📰 Subscribe to the weekly newsletter 🎧 Listen to previous podcast episodes✨ If this episode resonated, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a mother who needs to hear that guilt was never hers to carry.

Why do mothers feel guilty no matter what we do?In this episode, I’m joined by Dr Sophie Brock – sociologist, motherhood studies expert, and one of the biggest influences on my own work – to explore how maternal guilt isn’t a personal flaw but a product of the world we’re swimming in.Sophie introduces her powerful Fish Tank of Motherhood model, explains the roots of the Perfect Mother Myth, and shows how guilt, privilege, and social expectations intersect to shape our daily experience of mothering.We talk about the difference between mothering and motherhood, why “good enough” is healthier than “perfect,” and how small acts of self-care and rebellion can help mothers reclaim space, joy, and self-worth.If you’ve ever wondered why it feels impossible to get motherhood “right,” this conversation will change how you see guilt – and yourself.🎧 Listen now, and let’s start dismantling the myth together.📖 You can also read more in my book Challenge Your Guilt: How to Flourish in Motherhood, Work and Life.👉 And if you’re ready to go deeper, apply for a free 60 minute Motherload Breakthrough Call – a pre-coaching conversation for mothers ready to reflect and take action.💌 Or subscribe to my newsletter for more reflections and resources each week.✨ If this episode resonated, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a mother who needs to hear that guilt was never hers to carry.

What if your career could fit within school hours instead of forcing you to choose between work and family?In this conversation, I’m joined by Amy Grilli, co-founder of The Five Hour Club, a platform that connects parents with meaningful professional roles that fit between the school run. Amy shares how her own identity crisis at the school gates led her to create a community and job board that’s now helping thousands of parents globally.We explore:Amy’s story of stepping away from her teaching career, the loss of identity she felt, and how a viral LinkedIn post (40 million views in 14 days!) kick-started a movement.Why traditional 9–5 work doesn’t fit with family life—and the systemic issues behind it.The link between rigid working structures and maternal guilt.How flexible five-hour workdays help parents reclaim their confidence, purpose, and reduce guilt.The importance of boundaries: carving out work time without letting “fake flexibility” spill over.Sharing the mental load at home and tackling “maternal gatekeeping.”What employers can do differently—and why progressive organisations are already seeing the benefits.This is a hopeful episode for any mother who feels stuck between wanting to work and being the default parent. Amy’s story proves you’re not alone—and that change is possible.Connect with Amy & The Five Hour ClubWebsite: fivehourclub.comInstagram: @fivehourclubResources & Next StepsBuy my book: Challenge Your Guilt: How to Flourish in Motherhood, Work, and LifeBook a free call with me to explore how coaching can support your next stepsSubscribe to the podcast so you don’t miss future episodes✨ If this episode resonated, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a mother who needs to hear that guilt was never hers to carry.

Welcome to the very first episode of Challenge Your Guilt! I couldn’t imagine a better guest to start this journey with than Anna Mathur — psychotherapist, bestselling author, mother, and someone whose words on guilt have shaped my own work.In this episode we explore:Why mothers so often believe we’re the problem — and how to flip that script.How to ask, “Have I actually done anything wrong?” when guilt strikes.The power of practicing self-compassion instead of bullying ourselves with the inner critic.Why it’s vital to “rest loudly” and model rest for our children.Making the invisible load visible in relationships, and having honest conversations about resentment.Anna’s practical ACT tool (Address, Compassion, Tweak) to move through guilt.This is a conversation packed with wisdom, laughter, and lightbulb moments to help you dismantle guilt and step into a more flourishing motherhood.Links & Resources:Find Anna on Instagram: @annamathurCheck out Anna’s new book: The Good Decision DiaryBuy my book: Challenge Your Guilt: How to Flourish in Motherhood, Work and LifeBook your free 60 minute Motherload Breakthrough call with me here✨ If this episode resonated, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a mother who needs to hear that guilt was never hers to carry.