COMMITTED HEARTS

Are you still investing in your relationship?In this episode of Committed Hearts, William and Donna Porter talk about why strong relationships do not grow by accident. Just like money, time, effort, attention, and affection must be invested if you expect a return.From dating your spouse, spending intentional time together, honoring personal time, having meaningful conversations, and keeping the connection alive after raising children, this episode reminds couples that love requires consistent investment.If your relationship feels distant, empty, or disconnected, it may be time to ask: what have we been depositing?It is never too late to start investing again.Welcome to Committed Hearts, a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship, without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload.Hosted by The Porters, pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years, each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away.You’ll hear honest conversations about communication, connection, conflict, intimacy, and spiritual growth, delivered with grace, humor, and zero judgment.Whether you're newly engaged or decades into marriage, Committed Hearts will encourage you, challenge you, and help you grow together emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.Because great marriages aren’t found, they’re intentionally built, one committed heart at a time.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Life changes — and so do relationships.In this episode of Committed Hearts, William and Donna Porter talk about how to keep loving each other through every season of change. From children, aging parents, health shifts, emotional changes, intimacy changes, menopause, work stress, family responsibilities, and becoming grandparents, marriage requires constant adjustment.But change does not have to weaken your relationship.This conversation encourages couples to communicate, extend grace, stay united, and keep their love consistent even when life looks different than it used to.If your marriage feels different lately, this episode will remind you that you can grow through the changes together.Life may change, but your love can remain.Welcome to Committed Hearts, a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship, without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload.Hosted by The Porters, pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years, each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away.You’ll hear honest conversations about communication, connection, conflict, intimacy, and spiritual growth, delivered with grace, humor, and zero judgment.Whether you're newly engaged or decades into marriage, Committed Hearts will encourage you, challenge you, and help you grow together emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.Because great marriages aren’t found, they’re intentionally built, one committed heart at a time.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What if the breaking in your relationship is actually part of the process?In this episode of Committed Hearts, William and Donna Porter talk about the real process of blending, not just in blended families, but in every relationship where two people are trying to become one.Whether you are bringing children into a marriage, blending routines and personalities, or simply learning how to live life together, one thing is true:something has to break before true blending can happen.This conversation is honest, practical, and full of hope for couples who feel like the process has been messy, loud, painful, or confusing.In this episode, they talk about:Why blending is necessary in every marriageWhat has to break in order for oneness to happenHow to handle the challenges of blended familiesWhy consistency, fairness, and order matterHow to work through chaos without giving upWhat it takes to move from “me” to “us”If your relationship feels stretched, challenged, or chaotic right now, this episode will remind you that the process may be hard, but the outcome can still be beautiful.It may break, but it will blend.Welcome to Committed Hearts, a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship—without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload.Hosted by The Porters—pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years—each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away.You’ll hear honest conversations about communication, connection, conflict, intimacy, and spiritual growth—delivered with grace, humor, and zero judgment.Whether you're newly engaged or decades into marriage, Committed Hearts will encourage you, challenge you, and help you grow together emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.Because great marriages aren’t found—they’re intentionally built, one committed heart at a time.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What do you do when marriage doesn’t feel like what you imagined? In this episode of Committed Hearts, William and Donna Porter talk honestly about the moment every couple faces at some point: “Help… this is not what I thought it was going to be.” Whether it is finances, parenting, daily habits, personality differences, structure vs spontaneity, or the unexpected realities of living life together, marriage has a way of exposing things you never saw coming. In this conversation, they share how those hard moments do not mean your relationship is broken. They may actually be part of the process God uses to grow you, strengthen you, and bring you into something better than what you expected. This episode is for couples who are struggling, adjusting, learning, and trying not to give up. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, disappointed, confused, or just plain surprised by marriage, this conversation is for you. You are not the only one. You are not stuck. And it can get better.Welcome to Committed Hearts, a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship—without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload.Hosted by The Porters—pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years—each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away.You’ll hear honest conversations about communication, connection, conflict, intimacy, and spiritual growth—delivered with grace, humor, and zero judgment.Whether you're newly engaged or decades into marriage, Committed Hearts will encourage you, challenge you, and help you grow together emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.Because great marriages aren’t found—they’re intentionally built, one committed heart at a time.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

In this episode of the Committed Hearts Podcast, we talk about a principle that can completely transform your relationship: leaving and cleaving.Most people think it just means moving out of your parents’ house, but it goes much deeper than that. You can leave physically and still be emotionally, mentally, or even habitually tied to your past.And that might be the very thing blocking intimacy, connection, and growth in your relationship.In this conversation, we break down:Why leaving is more than just physical distanceHow outside relationships (family, habits, routines) can affect your marriageThe importance of prioritizing your spouse above everything elseWhat “cleaving” actually looks like in real lifeHow to rebuild a connection, even if you don’t feel it right nowWhy bonding and intentional time together are essentialWhether you’re newly married, engaged, or years into your relationship… It’s not too late to reset.💡 Sometimes the breakthrough isn’t finding something new…It’s finally letting go of what’s holding you back.💬 Ask yourself: Is there anything I haven’t fully left?❤️ And as always… keep your hearts committed.Welcome to Committed Hearts, a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload.Hosted by The Porters pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years, each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away.You’ll hear honest conversations about communication, connection, conflict, intimacy, and spiritual growth delivered with grace, humor, and zero judgment.Whether you're newly engaged or decades into marriage, Committed Hearts will encourage you, challenge you, and help you grow together emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.Because great marriages aren’t found, they’re intentionally built, one committed heart at a time.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

In a world full of social media highlights and picture-perfect marriages, it’s easy to feel like your relationship doesn’t measure up. On this episode of Committed Hearts, Donna and William Porter break down the dangers of comparison and share how transparency, communication, and intentional action can help you build the marriage God intended for you.Learn why struggles are necessary, how to create your own image of love, and why protecting your relationship from outside influences can strengthen your bond. Whether you’re married, dating, or preparing for marriage, this episode will give you practical tools and spiritual guidance to stop comparing, start growing, and truly celebrate the love you share.Tune in and discover how to create a marriage that’s uniquely yours—without comparison, without regret, just committed hearts.Welcome to Committed Hearts, a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship—without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload.Hosted by The Porters—pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years—each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away.You’ll hear honest conversations about communication, connection, conflict, intimacy, and spiritual growth—delivered with grace, humor, and zero judgment.Whether you're newly engaged or decades into marriage, Committed Hearts will encourage you, challenge you, and help you grow together emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.Because great marriages aren’t found—they’re intentionally built, one committed heart at a time.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

In this episode of the Committed Hearts Podcast, we dive into a real and honest conversation about how to protect and strengthen your marriage in a world full of distractions.Affairs don’t just happen overnight—they often start with small compromises, lack of boundaries, and unmet needs. But the good news? You have the power to create a relationship that’s so strong, fulfilling, and intentional that there’s no desire to look outside.We talk about:Setting boundaries that actually protect your relationshipWhy you should never “test your discipline”How to create an atmosphere your spouse wants to come home toThe importance of meeting each other’s needs emotionally and physicallyKeeping things fun, fresh, and exciting inside your marriageWhy “the grass isn’t greener” (and what to do instead)No matter where your relationship is right now, you can make a shift today.This is your reminder:You don’t need an outsider to fix what can be built stronger on the inside.💬 If this spoke to you, share it with someone who needs it.❤️ And as always… keep your heart committed.Welcome to Committed Hearts, a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship—without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload.Hosted by The Porters—pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years—each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away.You’ll hear honest conversations about communication, connection, conflict, intimacy, and spiritual growth—delivered with grace, humor, and zero judgment.Whether you're newly engaged or decades into marriage, Committed Hearts will encourage you, challenge you, and help you grow together emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.Because great marriages aren’t found—they’re intentionally built, one committed heart at a time.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Is romance missing in your relationship… and you don’t even realize it?In this episode of the Committed Hearts Podcast, Donna and William Porter have a real, honest conversation about why romance often fades—and how couples can bring it back in a meaningful way.Many couples believe they’re being romantic… but never stop to ask if it actually feels that way to their partner.💡 In this episode, we talk about:Why your definition of romance might be completely different from your partner’sThe small things that make a BIG difference in relationshipsHow to keep your relationship fresh, fun, and excitingWhy intentional romance matters at every stage of marriageSimple ways to bring the spark back—starting todayWhether you’ve been together for years or you’re just starting your journey, this conversation will challenge you to rethink how you show love and connection.✨ Romance isn’t optional—it’s required.🎧 Tune in and learn how to keep your relationship strong, exciting, and deeply connected.👉 Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more relationship conversations that strengthen your heart and your home.Welcome to Committed Hearts, a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship—without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload.Hosted by The Porters—pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years—each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away.You’ll hear honest conversations about communication, connection, conflict, intimacy, and spiritual growth—delivered with grace, humor, and zero judgment.Whether you're newly engaged or decades into marriage, Committed Hearts will encourage you, challenge you, and help you grow together emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.Because great marriages aren’t found—they’re intentionally built, one committed heart at a time.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Conflict is inevitable in marriage — but how you handle it determines whether your relationship grows stronger or slowly breaks down. In this episode of Committed Hearts, William and Donna Porter talk about why avoiding conflict actually makes things worse and how couples can learn to confront issues in a healthy way. They share practical wisdom about creating a conflict plan, staying current instead of letting problems pile up, listening to understand instead of trying to win, and why forgiveness must be a foundation of every strong marriage. You’ll also hear powerful insights about when to bring in a mediator, how to keep peace in your home, and why resolving conflict together can strengthen your relationship instead of damaging it. If you want a healthier marriage and better communication with your spouse, this episode will give you tools you can start using today. Remember: Peace is more valuable than winning an argument.Welcome to Committed Hearts, a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship—without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload.Hosted by The Porters—pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years—each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away.You’ll hear honest conversations about communication, connection, conflict, intimacy, and spiritual growth—delivered with grace, humor, and zero judgment.Whether you're newly engaged or decades into marriage, Committed Hearts will encourage you, challenge you, and help you grow together emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.Because great marriages aren’t found—they’re intentionally built, one committed heart at a time.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Are your words building your marriage — or quietly tearing it down?In this powerful episode of Men At Heart Podcast, William and Donna Porter dive deep into “Matters of the Mouth” — how tone, timing, attitude, and delivery shape your marriage more than you think.It’s not just what you say…It’s how you say it.And even more importantly — when you say it.From Ephesians 4:29 to real-life moments (including a Walmart parking lot wake-up call), this conversation unpacks:• How tone can change everything• Why timing is critical in hard conversations• The power of apology in marriage• How to speak truth without creating tension• Why your spouse must feel safe hearing you• Creating a peaceful atmosphere at homeMarriage is a beautiful opportunity for growth — but growth requires awareness and intentional communication.If you want a sweeter marriage, a peaceful home, and better connection with your spouse, this episode is for you.❤️ Keep your hearts committed.Welcome to Committed Hearts, a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship—without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload.Hosted by The Porters—pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years—each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away.You’ll hear honest conversations about communication, connection, conflict, intimacy, and spiritual growth—delivered with grace, humor, and zero judgment.Whether you're newly engaged or decades into marriage, Committed Hearts will encourage you, challenge you, and help you grow together emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.Because great marriages aren’t found—they’re intentionally built, one committed heart at a time.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Welcome to Committed Hearts, a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship—without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload.Hosted by The Porters—pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years—each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away.You’ll hear honest conversations about communication, connection, conflict, intimacy, and spiritual growth—delivered with grace, humor, and zero judgment.Whether you're newly engaged or decades into marriage, Committed Hearts will encourage you, challenge you, and help you grow together emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.Because great marriages aren’t found—they’re intentionally built, one committed heart at a time.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Marriage doesn’t stay strong by accident — it requires intentional maintenance. In this episode of Committed Hearts, William and Donna Porter dive into the powerful truth that saying “I do” is only the beginning. Just like a fire needs fuel and a car needs regular upkeep, a thriving marriage requires consistent attention, intentional actions, and ongoing investment. Using practical analogies like maintaining a fireplace, servicing a vehicle, and creating a “planned maintenance schedule,” this episode offers real-life wisdom to help couples keep their connection strong, passionate, and growing. You’ll discover: ❤️ Why intentional actions keep love alive long-term ❤️ How “marriage maintenance” prevents emotional breakdowns ❤️ Practical ways to keep dating your spouse after marriage ❤️ Why couples often stop doing what worked at the beginning — and how to restart ❤️ The importance of planning time together and protecting connection Whether you feel like your relationship is thriving or needs a reset, this conversation will inspire you to take small, consistent steps that keep your marriage strong and your love burning. Committed Hearts — intentional love, practical wisdom, and faith-centered relationships.Welcome to Committed Hearts, a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship—without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload.Hosted by The Porters—pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years—each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away.You’ll hear honest conversations about communication, connection, conflict, intimacy, and spiritual growth—delivered with grace, humor, and zero judgment.Whether you're newly engaged or decades into marriage, Committed Hearts will encourage you, challenge you, and help you grow together emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.Because great marriages aren’t found—they’re intentionally built, one committed heart at a time.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Welcome to Committed Hearts, a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship—without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload.Hosted by The Porters—pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years—each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away.You’ll hear honest conversations about communication, connection, conflict, intimacy, and spiritual growth—delivered with grace, humor, and zero judgment.Whether you're newly engaged or decades into marriage, Committed Hearts will encourage you, challenge you, and help you grow together emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.Because great marriages aren’t found—they’re intentionally built, one committed heart at a time.You say “I love you”… but can your spouse actually see it? In this episode of Committed Hearts, William and Donna Porter explore why actions speak louder than words in marriage. While saying “I love you” is important, true connection comes when love is demonstrated through daily choices, intentional actions, and genuine care. In this conversation, you’ll learn: ❤️ How to move from saying love to showing love ❤️ Simple daily actions that make your spouse feel valued ❤️ The power of observation and understanding love languages ❤️ Loving intentionally — even during disagreements ❤️ Why consistency builds emotional safety and intimacyHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What do you do when you love your spouse… but you don’t like what they’re doing?In this episode of Committed Hearts, William and Donna Porter get real about the “dislike list”—those moments, habits, tones, and pet peeves that can frustrate you in marriage if you let them grow. They share a practical mindset shift that helps couples protect love during frustrating seasons: stop magnifying the dislike, and build your “love list” on purpose.You’ll learn how to:Keep dislikes from becoming resentmentHandle conflict without avoiding itShrink the “dislike list” through maturity and communicationUse appreciation and affirmations to change the atmosphere in your homeApply the “3 positives for every 1 negative” principleCelebrate small steps and keep love at the forefrontIf you’ve ever thought, “Why does that bother me so much?”—this episode will give you tools to respond with wisdom, stay committed, and grow stronger together.Welcome to Committed Hearts, a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship—without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload.Hosted by The Porters—pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years—each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away.You’ll hear honest conversations about communication, connection, conflict, intimacy, and spiritual growth—delivered with grace, humor, and zero judgment.Whether you're newly engaged or decades into marriage, Committed Hearts will encourage you, challenge you, and help you grow together emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.Because great marriages aren’t found—they’re intentionally built, one committed heart at a time.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Boundaries aren’t about building walls—they’re about building a healthy, lasting marriage.In this episode of Committed Hearts, we dive into what boundaries really look like in marriage and why they’re essential for trust, respect, and emotional safety. Many couples struggle with boundaries—whether it’s with family, friends, communication, or personal space—but learning how to set them with love can transform your relationship.We talk about:Why boundaries strengthen love instead of weakening itHow to set boundaries without conflict or controlCommon boundary mistakes couples makeHow faith and commitment guide healthy limitsPractical ways to protect your marriage while staying connectedWhether you’re engaged, newly married, or decades in, this conversation will help you create a stronger foundation and a healthier partnership.Intentional love. Practical wisdom. Committed hearts.Welcome to Committed Hearts, a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship—without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload.Hosted by The Porters—pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years—each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away.You’ll hear honest conversations about communication, connection, conflict, intimacy, and spiritual growth—delivered with grace, humor, and zero judgment.Whether you're newly engaged or decades into marriage, Committed Hearts will encourage you, challenge you, and help you grow together emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.Because great marriages aren’t found—they’re intentionally built, one committed heart at a time.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What if the biggest shift your marriage needs is a change in perspective?In this episode of Committed Hearts, we talk about how seeing your spouse as God’s son or daughter changes the way you speak, listen, handle conflict, and show love. When perspective shifts, everything else follows—communication, respect, patience, and connection.We discuss:Why treating your spouse like a parent damages intimacyHow paying attention builds trust and emotional safetyThe power of agreement over controlWhy love is bold, intentional, and learned over timeHow honoring God starts with how you honor your spouseThis conversation is honest, practical, and deeply encouraging for couples who want more than just staying married—they want a great marriage.No perfection. No pressure. Just intentional love and committed hearts.Welcome to Committed Hearts, a weekly podcast for engaged and married couples who want to build a strong, lasting, and God-centered relationship—without pressure, perfection, or churchy overload.Hosted by The Porters—pastors, marriage counselors, and partners for more than 25 years—each episode blends real-life stories, faith-shaped wisdom, and practical tools couples can apply right away.You’ll hear honest conversations about communication, connection, conflict, intimacy, and spiritual growth—delivered with grace, humor, and zero judgment.Whether you're newly engaged or decades into marriage, Committed Hearts will encourage you, challenge you, and help you grow together emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.Because great marriages aren’t found—they’re intentionally built, one committed heart at a time.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Welcome to Committed Hearts, a podcast for engaged and married couples who want a stronger, more connected, and more intentional relationship—without the pressure, the clichés, or the churchy tone. Just real talk, real tools, and real love.In this very first episode, we’re sharing our story—how we met, fell in love, built a marriage rooted in commitment, faith, and friendship, and how we’ve learned (and keep learning) to put God at the center in a way that feels natural, not forced.We open up about:The unexpected parts of our love storySeasons that stretched us and seasons that strengthened usHow we learned to communicate, forgive, and grow togetherWhy we believe God-centered relationships don’t have to be complicatedWhat Committed Hearts will bring you each week—practical tools, honest conversations, and encouragement you can apply right awayWhether you’re dating, engaged, newly married, or decades in, this episode sets the tone for the journey we’ll be taking together: authentic, relational, faith-aware, and deeply practical.Join us as we share where it all began—and how you can build (or rebuild) a marriage that lasts.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.