Confident Clergy Women

What happens when clergywomen are given a space designed specifically for them?In this episode, I talk with Megan and Yvonne from United Methodist Church of the Resurrection about Lead(Her)—an event they helped create specifically for clergywomen who know that ministry can feel different when you are both a woman and a pastor.Megan and Yvonne share why they felt called to create Lead(Her) as a place where clergywomen can connect, be encouraged, and build relationships with others who truly understand their experiences in ministry. We talk about why these connections are essential for thriving in leadership and why spaces like this matter so much.They also discuss the importance of investing in yourself—taking a few days away from ministry to rest, learn, and reconnect with your calling. As they remind us, “The world won’t stop turning if we take time to invest in ourselves.”Along the way, Megan and Yvonne share powerful stories of clergywomen showing up for one another and reflect on the women who have inspired them—including Megan’s mom, who taught her this unforgettable advice:“You walk into a room, you throw your shoulders back, you hold your head up high, and you act like you are somebody.”If you’ve been longing for connection, encouragement, and a reminder that you are not alone in ministry, this conversation is for you.You can learn more and register for Lead(Her) here:https://sharechurch.com/leadher-empowering-female-clergy/

What does it look like to become a mother while serving in the pulpit — especially when no one has gone before you?In this episode, I sit down with Rev. Natalie, who has served local congregations for 17 years. As a young female pastor who became pregnant at 27, she stepped into territory her congregation — and even her supervisor — had never navigated before. With courage and clarity, she helped shape policies and boundaries that made space for maternity leave, paving the way for clergy mothers who followed.Natalie also shares about her deep intellectual hunger for God, her connection to the Divine through music, and the powerful opportunity female clergy have to embody something unexpected in the pulpit. We talk honestly about pastoring while parenting, learning to care for ourselves without guilt, and why Sabbath is essential.To hear more from Natalie, check out her podcast A Church for Daniel.For More Details on my Clergywomen's Retreat, click here: https://revamberlaffey.my.canva.site/

In this episode, I sit down with Rev. Debi, an ordained Deacon in the United Methodist Church, whose journey into ministry is anything but linear. From aquatics teacher to Christian educator to counselor—and now serving in a local congregation—Debi shares how God faithfully wove together every season of her story in ways she never could have predicted.We talk about what it’s like to find yourself serving in a place you least expected, and how every skill, passion, and life experience becomes holy ground when placed in God’s hands. Debi reflects on how she co-creates with God in ministry, drawing from her diverse background to serve God’s people with wisdom, compassion, and authenticity.We also have an honest conversation about navigating grief and transition in ministry, the vulnerability that comes with change, and the deep importance of support systems—especially for women in clergy leadership.If you’ve ever wondered how God might use the seemingly disconnected pieces of your story… or if you’re walking through transition and need encouragement… this conversation is for you.

In this episode of Confident Clergy Women, I’m joined by Rev. Ally, a Deacon at the United Methodist Church of the Resurrection, for a rich conversation about what it looks like to serve with authenticity and confidence in ministry.Ally reflects on the joy of no two days ever looking the same in ministry, and how embracing all of our passions allows us to serve more fully and faithfully as clergy. We talk about the importance of bringing our whole selves into leadership, expressing who we are without apology, and learning to lead with confidence in the church.She also shares honestly about the additional challenges—and deep joys—of being a young woman in ministry, as well as the life-giving work of building genuine community within her congregation.This conversation is full of encouragement for clergywomen who long to lead authentically, trust their calling, and find joy in the everyday rhythms of ministry.

In this episode, I’m joined by Melissa Hiatt, MA, a therapist, coach, and strengths communicator, for a deeply honest conversation about emotionally healthy leadership, boundaries, and caring for ourselves and our families while living into our call. Together, we talk about why so many clergy women have been taught to override their own needs, how that eventually costs us and the people we love, and what it means to practice leadership that is both compassionate and sustainable.We explore: • Why boundaries are essential—not selfish—in ministry • How emotional awareness strengthens our leadership rather than weakens it • The connection between our feelings, thoughts, and actions • What it looks like to tend to our own well-being while still showing up faithfully for othersMelissa brings wisdom from her background as a Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Daring Way™ Facilitator, Strengths Communicator, and her work in clinical pastoral education—offering insight that is practical, pastoral, and deeply human.Connect with Melissa: https://www.melissahiatt.com/about

Merry Christmas my beloved clergy sisters! Here is a blessing as you wrap up your Christmas preparations. Remember you are loved and you are already enough! Blessed are you among women!

It’s Week Three of our Advent journey with Mary and Elizabeth, and today we’re exploring what their relationship teaches us about calling, courage, and community.These two women remind us that ministry was never meant to be done alone. Their story is a beautiful picture of what happens when women show up for one another—blessing instead of competing, celebrating instead of comparing, and standing together so the whole church stands stronger.This week, we’re talking honestly about the pressures clergywomen face: competition, comparison, and the quiet messages that tell us someone else’s success is a threat instead of a gift. But Mary and Elizabeth give us another way—a way rooted in joy, affirmation, and mutual support.Join me as we lean into that way of being: choosing blessing, choosing celebration, choosing community. Because when clergywomen rise together, the whole church rises with us.

In this Advent episode, we’re talking about the kind of holy friendship that holds us together — the kind that sees the call in us even when we’re still figuring it out. You know those women who can look at you, listen to the wild, God-sized things happening in your life, and say, “I believe you. I see this in you”? That’s the kind of companionship we’re leaning into today.As clergywomen, we need those voices — the ones who cheer for us without comparison, who bless us without hesitation, who speak life over our ministry when we’re tired, unsure, or stepping into something new.So this week, we’re carrying the hope of Elizabeth, the courage of Mary, and the unity they shared. We’re paying attention to where God is breaking in, and we’re looking for opportunities to bless other women along the way.Let’s walk into this season knowing — deeply knowing — that we are seen, we are supported, and we are never alone.

Before Jesus is even born, the Gospel story begins with two women standing in quiet courage. Elizabeth carries a hidden miracle; Mary carries an impossible calling. Their stories speak directly to clergywomen navigating doubt, exhaustion, unseen labor, and holy questions. Join me for a gentle conversation about divine timing, embodied faith, and the sisterhood that spans generations. You’ll receive a blessing to strengthen your spirit and remind you that you are called, capable, and deeply loved.

In this episode of Confident Clergy Women, I talk with Rev. Kelli Hitchman-Craig — a passionate pastor, leader, and advocate for women in ministry.Kelli serves as the Director of Leadership Development and Community Engagement for the General Commission on the Status and Role of Women, but her heart for equipping and empowering others goes far beyond her title. She shares her own journey in ministry, what inspires her to lead, and why women’s voices are essential to the health and future of the church.We talk about how women are naturally gifted in ways that serve the church deeply — with emotional intelligence, strength, wisdom, and a capacity to lead with both grace and conviction. Kelli also highlights the ongoing work to create safer, more supportive spaces for women in ministry, including resources for those who have experienced harm or harassment.It’s a thoughtful and hope-filled conversation about leadership, calling, and the unique gifts women bring to the life of the church.To Find More Information and Resources Kelli shares go here: https://www.resourceumc.org/en/partners/gcsrw/homeLet's Connect! 🌐 Learn more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠revamberlaffey.my.canva.site⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📧 Contact: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@revamberl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📘 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Rev Amber Laffey⁠⁠⁠

Rev. Sara made history as the first female senior pastor of several large congregations — but her leadership style breaks the mold in the best way. With a calm, grounded presence, she shares what it means to stay true to the leader God created her to be, even when the world expects louder voices.In this episode, Rev. Sara reflects on the power of mentoring and being mentored, the importance of helping others discover their spiritual gifts, and how authentic leadership creates space for others to flourish. Her wisdom offers encouragement for every clergywoman learning to lead with grace, confidence, and quiet strength.Let's Connect! 🌐 Learn more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠revamberlaffey.my.canva.site⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📧 Contact: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@revamberl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📘 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Rev Amber Laffey⁠⁠⁠

What does it mean to live out the ministry of a Deacon in the UMC? Rev. April joins us to talk about serving with compassion, justice, and inclusion, while leading with and beyond the local church. She shares the joys of working at a UMC seminary, equipping future leaders, and celebrating the diversity of the diaconate. Rev. April also gets real about the challenges clergy face in navigating expectations—and the freedom that comes with remembering, “you are the one in charge of your calendar and your energy.”To view the Deacon/Elder Video April refers to click here: https://www.mtso.edu/about-mtso/news-publications/mtso-news-archive/what-it-means-to-be-a-deacon/

In this inspiring conversation, Bishop Lanette reflects on her journey of faith and leadership. She shares how lay leaders played a vital role in her call to ministry and why mentors are essential companions along the way. Bishop Lanette offers encouragement for female clergy who are blazing new trails, speaks to the importance of self-awareness in strong and faithful leadership, and reminds us that we can encounter Jesus personally while helping others do the same. With honesty and wisdom, she encourages us to trust God’s call—especially when the road is difficult—and so much more! You are going to love this! Let's Connect! 🌐 Learn more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠revamberlaffey.my.canva.site⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📧 Contact: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@revamberl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📘 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Rev Amber Laffey⁠⁠

In this episode of Confident Clergy Women, I’m joined by Deacon Mara, who serves with the ELCA’s Church on the Street. Her ministry includes walking alongside the unhoused, those experiencing homelessness, and people living in poverty—and she reminds us how essential it is to treat every person with dignity in the midst of those struggles. She shares the deep joy she finds in serving others, along with the lasting impact of camping ministries in shaping faith and community. We also hear her words of encouragement for future clergy women discerning their call. This conversation is full of wisdom, hope, and reminders of God’s presence on every street corner.Connect with Mara's Ministry: https://churchonthestreetsf.org/

In this episode of Confident Clergy Women, Rev. Allison shares the joy of serving a congregation eager to embrace change and revitalize its ministries. She offers wisdom on why ministry is a marathon, not a sprint—and how self-care and healthy boundaries are essential to sustaining the call for the long run. Together, we explore what it means to find worth beyond ministry roles, and how unexpected sources of inspiration—from Disney’s Moana to the wisdom of Hildegard of Bingen—can renew our spirits along the way. Rev. Allison's Website: therevallison.blogspot.comLet's Connect: 🌐 Learn more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠revamberlaffey.my.canva.site⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📧 Contact: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@revamberl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📘 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Rev Amber Laffey⁠⁠

In this powerful episode, I sit down with Dr. Bethany Peake, DMin, NCC—a gifted counselor and spiritual companion whose work centers on helping women reclaim their stories, unravel shame, and live with a deeply embodied sense of self. Together, we explore the unique gifts that clergy women bring to ministry, offering a fuller expression of the image of God.Bethany shares deep wisdom on how women in ministry can be agents of healing for those hurt by predominately male systems—and why that healing must begin within ourselves first. Whether you’re a clergywoman, a leader, or someone longing for hope and restoration, this episode offers encouragement and practical insight for your spiritual journey.Tune in for an honest, grace-filled conversation about healing, calling, and God’s redeeming love. If you enjoy this episode, please share it with a friend!! Let’s Connect! 🌐 Learn more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠revamberlaffey.my.canva.site⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📧 Contact: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@revamberl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📘 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Rev Amber Laffey⁠

From pastor’s kid to full-time pastor, Rev. Lorah knows firsthand the power of seeing women lead in ministry. In this episode of Confident Clergy Women, we talk about why it matters for girls to see women in the pulpit and how surrounding yourself with strong women can sustain you in ministry.Rev. Lorah shares why she believes “The children and the youth are the Church — capital C — right now. It’s not something we can put off.” We also discuss the joy of pulpit supply, how she finds rest and renewal at camp, and why preaching hope matters in this time of deep fear and uncertainty.If you’ve ever questioned the impact of your presence in ministry, this conversation will remind you: your call matters.Let's Connect! 🌐 Learn more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠revamberlaffey.my.canva.site⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📧 Contact: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@revamberl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📘 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Rev Amber Laffey⁠

This week on Confident Clergy Women, I’m getting real about something I’m still learning: how to rest when life feels heavy.As we continue our Rhythms of Rest series, I’m sharing what God’s been stirring in me — not just about the importance of rest, but how we actually find it when our to-do lists are long and the world feels overwhelming.This episode is a reminder that we don’t rest because everything is done. We rest because Jesus is our peace, our hope, and our steady foundation.If you’re carrying a lot right now, come join me. You’re not alone.Let's Connect! 🌐 Learn more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠revamberlaffey.my.canva.site⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📧 Contact: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@revamberl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📘 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Rev Amber Laffey⁠

Hey friends—welcome back to Confident Clergy Women! In this episode, we’re continuing our Embracing Rest series by diving into one of the most sacred (and let’s be real—challenging) spiritual practices: Sabbath.I’m sharing what I’ve learned—and what I’m still learning—about Sabbath rest. Not the rigid, rule-based version some of us grew up with, but the beautiful, life-giving pause God invites us into. I’ll talk about what it was like to step away from ministry for the month of July, and how I’ve been trying (and often struggling) to let rest shape my soul—not just my schedule.We’ll look at Scripture, wisdom from Wayne Mueller’s book Sabbath, and real-life experiences from my own ministry and spiritual direction. I hope it encourages you to step off the treadmill of productivity and embrace the truth: you are beloved, whether you’re working or resting.If your heart is craving a holy pause, this one’s for you. Come on in, take a deep breath, and let’s remember that Sabbath is not just a day—it’s a gift.Let's Connect! 🌐 Learn more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠revamberlaffey.my.canva.site⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📧 Contact: ⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@revamberl⁠⁠⁠⁠📘 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Rev Amber Laffey

Hey friends—this week on Confident Clergy Women, I’m reflecting on one of my favorite invitations from Jesus: “Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest” (Mark 6:31).We’re continuing our series on rest, and today I’m sharing how Jesus modeled rest—not as a reward after hard work, but as a regular rhythm of ministry. I’ll walk you through Scripture, real-life moments, and a few simple, practical ways you can carve out space for solitude, even in the busiest seasons.If your soul is weary, this episode is a gentle invitation to come away, breathe deeply, and remember that your worth isn’t in what you do—but in who (and whose) you are. Stick around until the end for a short breath prayer you can carry into your day.Let’s rest together—body, mind, and spirit.Stay for the guided breath prayer at the end—your soul will thank you!Let's Connect! 🌐 Learn more: ⁠⁠⁠revamberlaffey.my.canva.site⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠📧 Contact: ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@revamberl⁠⁠⁠📘 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠Rev Amber Laffey

Let’s be real — when’s the last time you actually rested? And no, zoning out on your phone or grabbing that third cup of coffee doesn’t count (trust me, I’ve tried).If your energy’s running on fumes and your soul feels fried, this episode is for you. We’re kicking off a brand new series all about rest — not the lazy, do-nothing kind, but the life-giving, soul-refreshing, Jesus-invited kind.Spoiler alert: You don’t have to hustle for your worth. You are beloved, called, and worthy — even when you’re resting. So breathe deep, friend. Let’s talk naps, boundaries, and why we need to stop wearing exhaustion like a badge of honor.Let's Connect: 🌐 Learn more: ⁠⁠revamberlaffey.my.canva.site⁠⁠⁠⁠📧 Contact: ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠@revamberl⁠⁠📘 Facebook: ⁠⁠Rev Amber Laffey

In this episode, I’m joined by Amber Wichmann —a seminary student and rural church pastor—who shares what it’s like to say a wholehearted yes to God’s call.We talk about the joy and reverence of serving communion to people you know and love, the gift of having a wise and supportive supervisor, and the sacred moments she experiences as a hospital chaplain. Amber and I also share about the biblical women who inspire us—Hagar and Esther—and how their stories shape our calls to lead with courage and faith.One of the most powerful parts of our conversation? Hearing how Amber, who fears public speaking, finds the strength to stand in the pulpit and preach each week. Her story is a beautiful reminder that God equips us in the very places we feel least confident.If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re really “cut out” for ministry—this episode will speak straight to your heart.Let's Connect: 🌐 Learn more: ⁠revamberlaffey.my.canva.site⁠📧 Contact: ⁠[email protected]⁠📸 Instagram: ⁠@revamberl⁠📘 Facebook: ⁠Rev Amber Laffey

In this episode, I’m joined by the wise and wonderful Karen Reaume—a true champion of clergy care and well-being. While Karen isn’t ordained, her work (and her pursuit of a Doctor of Ministry degree) centers on helping ministry leaders live healthier, more sustainable lives.Together, we talk about the sneaky grip of the savior complex in ministry, the gift of sabbath, and the sacred invitation to rest that runs through scripture. Karen also shares insight from the lives of Christian women mystics—whose courage, wisdom, and rhythms of self-care still speak powerfully today.This is a conversation full of grace, challenge, and holy permission to care for your whole self.Let's Connect: [email protected]🌐 Learn more: revamberlaffey.my.canva.site📧 Contact: [email protected]📸 Instagram: @revamberl📘 Facebook: Rev Amber Laffey

In this episode, I’m joined by Rev. Erika, a United Methodist Deacon with a deep love for Charles Wesley hymns and a passion for ministry, music, and education. Together, we explore the unique and vital ministry of the deacon, the power of inclusive language in worship, and the sacred work of supporting people through pregnancy loss and grief.Rev. Erika also shares her hopeful vision for the future of the church—one where diverse people come together, offering their gifts in shared ministry. Whether you're a clergywoman, worship leader, or simply someone who loves the church, this conversation will leave you encouraged and inspired.Let's Connect!! Visit My Website

What if every woman and girl knew she was sacred?That question changed everything for Rev. Barbara. It launched her journey into ministry, led her to become a Deacon in the United Methodist Church, and inspired the creation of Sacred Worth Ministries.In this episode, Rev. Barbara shares her passionate mission to uplift the sacred worth of women and girls — from advocating for their spiritual dignity to fighting for access to free period products in every public restroom. Her story is one of faith, justice, and bold action.Don’t miss this powerful conversation rooted in purpose and packed with hope.Connect with Barbara:🌐 sacredworth.org📸 Instagram: @sacred_worth📘 Facebook: Sacred Worth Ministries

Rev. Stephanie is a passionate pastor and leader who brings energy, wisdom, and deep compassion to everything she does—especially when it comes to walking alongside young people in faith. Whether she’s teaching confirmation or leading youth group, Rev. Stephanie creates space for young people to explore their questions, discover their passions, and learn how to use their God-given gifts to make a difference in the church and in the world.Her ministry is rooted in a fierce commitment to equality, equity, and inclusion, always striving to reflect the expansive love of Christ in every space she enters. Rev. Stephanie is also deeply connected to a global sisterhood of women who encourage, support, and pray for one another across distances and differences—a reminder that we are never alone in the call to lead.With a listening heart and a bold spirit, she follows the movement of the Holy Spirit—trusting that each nudge and stirring is leading her toward what’s next. Let’s Connect!🌐 My Website📘 Facebook📸 Instagram: @revamberl

In this episode of Confident Clergy Women, I sit down with Rev. Barb, a seasoned leader who has served in diverse ministry roles—from running a non-profit to serving as a district superintendent and now as an assistant to the Bishop. Rev. Barb shares her powerful journey of raising four PKs, wrestling with doubt, and courageously stepping into the hard things God calls us to. She opens up about the role of vulnerability in leadership, her deep hope for the future of the Church, and why she believes women are essential to shaping what comes next. This is an honest, hope-filled conversation you won’t want to miss.Let’s Connect!🌐 My Website📘 Facebook📸 Instagram: @revamberl

In this inspiring episode, Pastor Carol shares her remarkable journey of becoming a pastor, transitioning between denominations, and courageously accepting a call to serve a congregation with just one member and a crumbling church building. Her story is a testament to God’s miraculous provision and unwavering faithfulness. Pastor Carol also speaks passionately about her commitment to creating safe, supportive spaces for clergy to care for themselves and each other.Explore more about Carol’s ministry: Morris Brown AME Church on FacebookLet’s Connect!🌐 My Website📘 Facebook📸 Instagram: @revamberl

This conversation feels like a heart-to-heart you didn’t know you needed. Lindsey and I talk about what it’s really like to be an itinerant clergywoman with little ones at home — the bittersweetness of leaving one congregation and embracing another, and how we keep every church community close to our hearts. We dig into embracing the leaders God uniquely made us to be, lifting up the next generation of women in ministry, and finding inspiration from women leaders who came before us. Lindsey also shares how her kids keep her grounded and fired up when defending her call feels heavy. And trust me—you’ll love her take on why unity is best described… as a tossed salad!Grab your coffee and join us — you’ll leave feeling seen, strengthened, and inspired.Let’s Connect!My Website: https://revamberlaffey.my.canva.site/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/p/Confident-Clergy-Women-61572414390171/Insta: @revamberl

What does it look like to be the Church… without a building?In today’s powerful episode, we sit down with Rev. Chris, pastor of the innovative and deeply relational ministry known as Church on the Street. No two days in her ministry look the same—and that’s exactly the beauty of it.Rev. Chris shares the courageous story of how she left a beloved congregation to step into an unknown, Spirit-led call to serve those often overlooked. She talks about the realities of leading a ministry rooted in presence, compassion, and justice, and the sacredness she finds in the messiness of it all.We also explore what sustains her—especially how travel, both the anticipation and the journey itself, renews her soul amid the heaviness of the work.At the heart of it all, Rev. Chris offers a gentle, grounding reminder: we are all beloved children of God, uniquely called to serve in the ways we were created.This one’s full of wisdom, heart, and holy challenge—you won’t want to miss it!To check out her ministry go to: https://churchonthestreetsf.orgLet’s Connect!My Website: https://revamberlaffey.my.canva.site/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/p/Confident-Clergy-Women-61572414390171/Insta: @revamberl

Rev. Julie is a local church pastor, spiritual director, and seminary professor committed to following Jesus—one faithful step at a time. With a heart for walking alongside others in all seasons of life and ministry, she helps people discover who God is and who they are in Christ. In this episode, Julie invites listeners into honest conversations about calling, leadership, and spiritual growth. From her unexpected journey as a former math major to her current roles in ministry, she shares how small, faithful steps—and abiding deeply with Christ—can lighten the weight of ministry and deepen our joy along the way. You are going to be so inspired by it! Check out my website: https://revamberlaffey.my.canva.siteFind me on Instagram @revamberlFollow us on Facebook @ Confident Clergy Women

In this powerful episode, Rev. Amy shares her remarkable journey as a gestational surrogate—not once, but three times, including once while serving in her first pastoral appointment.She reflects on how this deeply personal and sacred calling has shaped her understanding of ministry, teaching her to lead with unconditional love, deep empathy, and compassionate presence.Rev. Amy’s story is one of courage, calling, and grace. It’s an inspiring reminder of how our life experiences can become vessels for God’s love in the world. You’ll be blessed by her honesty, wisdom, and the heart she brings to her calling.If you would do me a great favor and provide feedback as part of my D.Min. Studies, Click here : https://forms.gle/VRS7dcMHcz5MfcBL7 If you are a clergy woman and want to share your story and encourage other clergy women, I would be so honored! Please fill out this form, so I can get to know you a bit more! Click here: https://forms.gle/DLoXeCUzSBTmoAqr8

Join me for a conversation with Rev. Teresa, who serves a growing church that welcomes those whose previous congregations have disaffiliated from the UMC. She shares her calling to ministry and how she put that call on hold due to others placing her in a box. Rev. Teresa discusses how she claims her authority as a pastor and leader, navigates gender stereotypes, and uses ChatGPT to lighten her workload. If you would do me a great favor and provide feedback as part of my D.Min. Studies, Click here : https://forms.gle/VRS7dcMHcz5MfcBL7 If you are a clergy woman and want to share your story and encourage other clergy women, I would be so honored! Please fill out this form, so I can get to know you a bit more! Click here: https://forms.gle/DLoXeCUzSBTmoAqr8

Join us as my oldest daughter, Ava, shares her story of me becoming a pastor and what life has been like as a pastor’s kid. Ava is already leading in the church and in our community. She shares her great love for clergy women and what we can do to inspire the next generation of women leaders in the church. I hope you will love this episode! If you would do me a great favor and provide feedback as part of my D.Min. Studies, Click here : https://forms.gle/VRS7dcMHcz5MfcBL7 If you are a clergy woman and want to share your story and encourage other clergy women, I would be so honored! Please fill out this form, so I can get to know you a bit more! Click here: https://forms.gle/DLoXeCUzSBTmoAqr8

Rev. Krista shares her story of growing up in Evangelical churches where the goal was to be a pastor’s wife to becoming a clergy person herself. Krista talks about finding her voice and taking up space in her own unique way in her own ministry. She says so many profound, helpful things that I know will encourage you in your own journey - the women in history and in scripture who have inspired her, naming trauma and finding healing, letting your light shine to encourage the next generation of clergy women, and her hope for the future of the church. I hope and pray this episode will inspire you and encourage you today!If you would do me a great favor and provide feedback as part of my D.Min. Studies, Click here : https://forms.gle/VRS7dcMHcz5MfcBL7 If you are a clergy woman and want to share your story and encourage other clergy women, I would be so honored! Please fill out this form, so I can get to know you a bit more! Click here: https://forms.gle/DLoXeCUzSBTmoAqr8

Today’s episode features Rev. Kori, a seasoned pastor with over 15 years of ministry experience in a variety of settings. In our conversation, Kori opens up about a pivotal season in her life when she was determined to reclaim her joy—and the intentional steps she took to get there.She speaks honestly about walking through hard things and discovering beauty in the very places that felt like they were falling apart. Her story is one of deep faith, vulnerability, and resilience.This conversation was truly a gift to be part of, and I believe it will bring you a fresh sense of hope and encouragement—especially if you’re navigating your own difficult season in ministry.If you would do me a great favor and provide feedback as part of my D.Min. Studies, Click here : https://forms.gle/VRS7dcMHcz5MfcBL7 If you are a clergy woman and want to share your story and encourage other clergy women, I would be so honored! Please fill out this form, so I can get to know you a bit more! Click here: https://forms.gle/DLoXeCUzSBTmoAqr8

You’re going to love this conversation with Rev. Kathy—affectionately known as the Queen of the Wild West! As the pastor of three congregations, Kathy travels nearly 100 miles every Sunday to bring the gospel to rural communities.In our conversation, she shares a wealth of wisdom about what it takes to care for yourself while caring for others. From building a supportive community, to finding healthy ways to release stress, to intentionally doing what feeds your soul—Kathy reminds us that tending to our own well-being is not optional, it’s essential.Whether you’re deep in ministry or just starting out, this episode is packed with grace, grit, and encouragement.I did have some audio issues in this, so I used an outside source to try to level the audio. I apologize for the not so great quality, but I hope you will listen, Becasue it is such a great conversation! If you would do me a great favor and provide feedback as part of my D.Min. Studies, Click here : https://forms.gle/VRS7dcMHcz5MfcBL7 If you are a clergy woman and want to share your story and encourage other clergy women, I would be so honored! Please fill out this form, so I can get to know you a bit more! Click here: https://forms.gle/DLoXeCUzSBTmoAqr8

In today’s episode, I’m joined by someone who has played a meaningful role in my own journey into ministry—Rev. Sharla. A mentor, encourager, and faithful leader, Sharla brings wisdom, warmth, and joy into every conversation.We talk about the importance of uplifting and equipping women called into professional ministry, and why that support matters now more than ever. Sharla also shares her own story—from stepping into her call to serving in a local church for 21 years with passion and purpose.Her story is rich with insight and heart, and I know you’ll walk away encouraged and inspired. She’s been a burst of joy in my life, and I hope you feel that same spark through this conversation.If you would do me a great favor and provide feedback as part of my D.Min. Studies, Click here : https://forms.gle/VRS7dcMHcz5MfcBL7 If you are a clergy woman and want to share your story and encourage other clergy women, I would be so honored! Please fill out this form, so I can get to know you a bit more! Click here: https://forms.gle/DLoXeCUzSBTmoAqr8

This episode features Rev. Allison, a newly ordained clergywoman fresh out of seminary and already making an impact as she serves three rural churches in her very first appointment.Allison shares what it’s like stepping into pastoral ministry in small-town settings, navigating the joys and challenges of being a new clergywoman in new communities. She also reflects on the importance of play—a powerful reminder for all of us who feel the constant pressure to always be “professional.”We also talk about how the Church can better support teens and young adults discerning a call to ministry.Allison’s insight, energy, and honesty make this conversation a true delight—you’re going to love what she brings to the table!If you would like to be a guest on my podcast, please fill out this survey!https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1qzjPbNBlwLfOg1BhjzP-7sBGLyJCbwOmgBx4589gO0Y/editIf you are willing to provide feedback for my D.Min studies, please fill this out!https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd2J_HVnhmq-m_6Pthsf7D9LD7ckhoqXmTxWr7JO83DPa132g/viewform?usp=header

I am so glad to be sharing the story of Rev. Jenny’s journey in ministry and her journey of being a wife and a mom and all the hard and good times in between. Jenny shares a very vulnerable story of the grief we carry of what could have been and our crushed dreams for the future. And then, how there can still be redemption and beauty in the new things we enter into despite the pain. You are going to be so blessed by Jenny’s story. **Trigger warning** Jenny does talk about miscarriage so please be kind to yourself if that’s a trigger for you. If you would like to be a guest on my podcast, please fill out this survey! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1qzjPbNBlwLfOg1BhjzP-7sBGLyJCbwOmgBx4589gO0Y/edit If you are willing to provide feedback for my D.Min studies, please fill this out! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd2J_HVnhmq-m_6Pthsf7D9LD7ckhoqXmTxWr7JO83DPa132g/viewform?usp=header

Today’s episode features Rev. Cindy! She is a bi-vocational pastor who is passionate about her community and stepping into places to love and serve those in the margins. As a new(er) clergy person serving in a church, Cindy shares how those of us more seasoned clergy women can walk along side those who are just entering into pastoral ministry. I hope you are blessed by this vulnerable and fun episode! If you would like to be a guest on my podcast, please fill out this survey! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1qzjPbNBlwLfOg1BhjzP-7sBGLyJCbwOmgBx4589gO0Y/edit If you are willing to provide feedback for my D.Min studies, please fill this out! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd2J_HVnhmq-m_6Pthsf7D9LD7ckhoqXmTxWr7JO83DPa132g/viewform?usp=header

Today my conversation is with Pastor Valerie. Valerie’s is a pastor leading a rural congregation. She is the mom of two little precious girls and is part of a clergy couple. Valerie is passionate about being in community with other women clergy, so no one has to do this hard work alone. Valerie also reminds us of the gift that our youth are to the church and the hope they bring her for the future of the church. I hope you enjoy this episode today. If you would like to be a guest on my podcast, please fill out this survey! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1qzjPbNBlwLfOg1BhjzP-7sBGLyJCbwOmgBx4589gO0Y/edit If you are willing to provide feedback for my D.Min studies, please fill this out! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd2J_HVnhmq-m_6Pthsf7D9LD7ckhoqXmTxWr7JO83DPa132g/viewform?usp=header

Today my conversation is with Pastor Liz. Liz serves a large church outside a growing urban area with multiple pastors and staff. Liz is the mom of 2 little boys and shares with us her journey of being a single pastor to then getting married and having kids. Liz is so passionate about women serving God in multiples ways and being authentic in our ministries. You are going to love this and I hope you are inspired today! If you would like to be a guest on my podcast, please fill out this survey! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1qzjPbNBlwLfOg1BhjzP-7sBGLyJCbwOmgBx4589gO0Y/edit If you are willing to provide feedback for my D.Min studies, please fill this out! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd2J_HVnhmq-m_6Pthsf7D9LD7ckhoqXmTxWr7JO83DPa132g/viewform?usp=header