Couples Unscripted

What happens when a relationship starts behind bars…and evolves into something completely unconventional? In this episode of Couples Unscripted, Givian and Jade share their 16-year journey, from a Love After Lockup-style beginning to building a marriage that defies expectations…and now exploring polyamory together. They met while he was incarcerated. Got married just months later. And somehow… through distance, breakups, and rebuilding life from scratch,they made it work. This is not your typical love story. It’s about: Falling in love while incarcerated Taking a leap into marriage early Rebuilding after prison and starting over Creating a relationship on their own terms Navigating a closed triad dynamic “Two people who nobody was supposed to want… but we wanted each other.” Their story challenges everything you think you know about love, loyalty, and what a relationship is “supposed” to look like.

Couples Unscripted – Brandon & Unika What happens when love doesn’t work the first time… or even the second? Brandon and Unika’s story is the real definition of “spinning the block.” After meeting in 2012, their relationship was filled with love, timing issues, breakups, grief, growth, and life-changing experiences that pulled them apart, more than once. From navigating loss, ego, and emotional immaturity… to finding their way back to each other years later, this episode dives deep into what it really takes to build a lasting relationship. They talk about: Why their first relationship didn’t work The impact of grief, timing, and personal growth Dating other people but never finding the same connection Reconnecting years later after life changed them both Why respect mattered more than labels And how they finally made it work after 13 years This is a raw, honest conversation about love, accountability, and second chances.

In this episode of Couples Unscripted, we sit down with relationship and divorce coach Natasha Mahtani to talk about the reality of modern relationships. Natasha shares why many couples jump straight to divorce when what they may actually need is guidance, coaching, and better communication. We discuss the gap between wanting a divorce and actually going through with it, the fear many people experience in relationships, and how couples can grow instead of giving up. We also dive into cultural expectations in relationships, the importance of personal growth, and why financial literacy is crucial for women navigating relationships and divorce. If you're dating, married, or questioning your relationship, this conversation offers valuable insight into building stronger partnerships. Follow Natasha: Instagram: @natashacoaches Listen to more episodes of Couples Unscripted for honest conversations about relationships, love, and growth.

Iva and Josh share their story of meeting young, committing quickly, and growing together through faith, communication, and patience. They discuss living together early, overcoming trust and anger issues, and how parenthood and prayer strengthened their relationship. This episode offers honest lessons on sacrifice, forgiveness, and building a healthy family foundation.

Are AI companions replacing real relationships? In this episode of Couples Unscripted, Ayana and Nyles dive deep into the rise of AI dating, AI girlfriends and boyfriends, and the growing number of people forming emotional bonds with bots. From apps like Replika to AI-powered dating profiles, we explore what’s really happening in modern love. Are people turning to AI because they’re lonely? Is it easier than dating real humans? Can having an AI partner while in a relationship be considered cheating? And at what point does artificial intimacy become dangerous, especially for teens? Ayana even creates her own AI companion live during the episode to see how these bots interact in real time.

Are you ready for what you’re praying for? In this episode of Couples Unscripted, newlyweds Savannah & Xavier share how healing, therapy, faith, and God’s timing prepared them for marriage. From toxic relationships to pre-marital counseling, they open up about doing the work before saying “I do.” This is a real conversation about faith-based marriage, boundaries, leadership, submission, conflict resolution, and preparing for a healthy relationship. If you’re single, dating, engaged, or married, this one is for you.

Just two months into their relationship, Ayana made a decision to move to Costa Rica to study abroad.  For many new couples, that kind of distance would be the end. But instead of allowing uncertainty to define their story, Ayana chose intention. Before she left, she wrote Nyles 11 love letters, one for each week she would be away. Each letter carried reassurance, vulnerability, and commitment during a season that could have easily pulled them apart. In this episode, Ayana and Nyles revisit that chapter of their relationship and read four of those letters out loud for the first time together. They reflect on what it means to love someone on purpose, navigate long distance early on, and trust God in the unknown. This episode is about timing, and choosing each other, even when it isn’t convenient.

We’re diving into the myth of the perfect relationship. Does it really exist? Is monogamy the only path, or are there other relationship styles worth exploring? In this episode, we unpack different dynamics, like non-monogamy and polyamory and talk about why they might be a choice for some people.

In this episode, Ayana and Nyles dive into the topic of balancing energies in relationships. They open up about how important it is to support each other, not tear each other down, especially when energy is off. Relationships thrive when both partners are aware, accountable, and communicative. From understanding how your personal energy impacts your dynamic to learning how to show up without projecting stress or frustration, this conversation is all about building a partnership that feels safe, supportive, and aligned.

Today we dive into conversation on how to maintain the spark in your relationship. We discuss ways to keep it spicy from sexual and non-sexual actions. 

Can you really have it all? Love, marriage, and a thriving career? In this episode, we dive into a real-life scenario sent in by a listener who's struggling to balance work and their marriage. We break down the challenges, share our thoughts, and give our honest advice on making it work. Plus, we get personal! Ayana works a lot, and we open up about how that has impacted our relationship and the ways we've had to navigate work-life balance together. If you've ever felt like your job is taking over your relationship, this one's for you!

In this episode, we’re talking all about love language, why they matter, the problems with them, and how they can even be used against your partner. We also share our own love languages and why they’re important in our relationships. Plus, we give advice to a listener who wrote in about their struggles with love languages. Join us for some real talk and personal stories!

In this episode of Couples Unscripted, Nyles and Ayana dive into the different phases of a relationship when it comes to living together. From their first experience sharing a space with a roommate, to getting their own apartment, and then living together in a house together, it’s been a journey filled with lessons, growth, and plenty of adjustments! Join us as we share the highs, the challenges, and everything in between when it comes to cohabitating as a couple. Whether you’re thinking about moving in with your partner or already navigating life under one roof, this episode is for you! Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more real relationship talk! New episodes every Monday!

In this episode, Nyles and Ayana dive deep into the red flags they encountered in their own relationship, what they missed, what they ignored, and what they learned along the way. With raw honesty and real-life experiences, they explore the warning signs that often go unnoticed in relationships, from communication breakdowns to childhood trauma. Beyond sharing their personal journey, they also break down how to identify red flags in any relationship and why recognizing them early is crucial. Whether you’re in a relationship, getting to know someone new, or reflecting on past experiences, this episode will help you sharpen your awareness and trust your instincts.

Misunderstandings can make or break a relationship, but the key to overcoming them is clarity, communication, and patience. In this episode of Couples Unscripted, we dive into how small misinterpretations can spiral into big issues—and more importantly, how to fix them. From assumptions to lack of listening, we break down the common causes of relationship confusion and share practical ways to foster understanding with your partner. Don’t let miscommunication ruin a good thing—tune in and learn how to navigate these moments with love and clarity!

Traveling with your partner can be a lot going on, from fun times, to meeting new people to the unexpected, you can have an amazing time! In this episode, we dive into the highs and lows of traveling together, from choosing between hotels, hostels, and all-inclusive resorts to sharing our personal experiences and favorite destinations.

Welcome to the first episode of Couples Unscripted! Meet your hosts, Ayana and Nyles, as they share their story and passion for relationships. This episode dives into green flags—the positive signs in dating and relationships—and how to spot them. With humor, honesty, and real-life insights, Ayana and Nyles kick off this unscripted journey full of love, growth, and connection. Perfect for singles, couples, and everyone in between!