Dance in the healing land

It’s completely natural to admire, envy, or even feel jealous of successful people—after all, admiration for strength is deeply ingrained in human nature. We see it everywhere: in history, mythology, and literature. From ancient heroes to modern icons, society has always been fascinated by those who rise above the ordinary.  

Lately, I’ve been hooked on this Chinese song called 只为碎银几两 . There’s a line that repeats like a mantra: “看世人慌慌张张，却只为碎银几两。偏偏这碎银几两，能解这世人慌张。” Roughly, it means: “People worry for bits of silver, yet those bits soothe their worry. ” It got me spiraling into this ancient debate: Can money actually buy happiness?

Recently, I’ve been watching short TV series, many of which center around a girl who is betrayed and killed by someone she loves. In these stories, she is given a second chance through rebirth, allowing her to rewrite her fate. These series have made me wonder: If you could go back to the past, what stage of life would you choose?

In today’s episode, we’re diving back into the topic of looks, but this time from a different perspective. You’ve probably heard people say, “As you get older, beauty fades, a great body changes, but inner beauty lasts forever.” The idea is that internal beauty is what really matters, and we shouldn’t focus too much on the external. And sure, in some ways, they’re not wrong. But let me share a different take on this.

In today’s episode, We’re diving into a topic that’s been around forever but still sparks a lot of debate: Does the look really matter?

This Saturday is International Women’s Day—so happy International Women’s Day to all of you amazing women! Today, I want to speak directly to you, because this day isn’t just a reminder of the hard-won battles of the past—it’s also an invitation to look inward and celebrate the powerful journey of self-awakening that we’re all on.

Today, I want to introduce you to a concept that you may not have heard of before: the "Abandoned Cat Effect." It’s not a scientific term, but rather a metaphor that has been circulating in online discussions about human behavior and psychology. And trust me, once you understand it, you’ll probably start noticing it everywhere—maybe even in yourself or people around you.

I find something interesting, thought it is not something new, which is that A lot of people make fun of modern dating culture, saying it’s all about superficial connections. The moment things start to get serious, people act like kids who just want to play. And it’s not just younger people—it’s something you see even with middle-aged adults.

Tomorrow’s Valentine’s Day, and I want to talk about something we don’t hear enough: what this day means when you’re single—or even if you’re not. Because here’s the truth: Valentine’s Day isn’t just about romance. It’s about love in all its messy, complicated forms—especially the love we owe ourselves.

Hello, everyone, my name is Shirley. The purpose of creating  this channel is for those who are on their healing journey or who are preparing to take their first steps. It’s also for those who feel lost and need a guiding light. I hope this channel can be a source of comfort and inspiration, a place where you find something meaningful and helpful for your journey.