Dead Mum's Club

Georgie and Monique are back after two weeks apart — and they've got a LOT to catch up on.This week: Monique's wholesome speed dating plans, why she urgently needs to take her dance classes online, and the Twerk & Shake workshop you need in your life. Georgie's had a rough couple of weeks — sick kid, lost voice, broken toe — but she's come out the other side with a fire under her. She shares some devastating family news that puts everything in perspective, and makes a passionate case for living boldly right now.They talk about their Macmillan Gower Peninsula Mighty Hike (26.2 miles, hilly terrain, Wales — donations very welcome), Georgie's impulsive London Marathon ballot entry, and what it means to do hard things for people who physically can't.Monique closes with a Sauna Story about a husband, a pair of metal glasses, and the kind of quiet love that makes you want to cry in a hot room.Death Month (May) is coming for both of them. They're going into it with daily grounding check-ins, dark humour, and each other.Tune in every Tuesday for the main pod and every Thursday for Am I The Asshole.Support the Macmillan hike: https://mightyhikesfundraising.macmillan.org.uk/fundraising/two-parentless-mums-one-mighty-hike-for-macmillanInstagram: www.instagram.com/_deadmumsclub

Welcome to Dead Mums Club — Am I the Asshole series. Georgie reads the Reddit post. Monique has zero warning. Chaos ensues.This week's dilemma: a man doing his very devoted best for his girlfriend when her IBS decides to intervene at the worst possible moment. He threw up. She fled. Is he the asshole? We rule — but not before the whole thing spirals into stories none of you were ready for.Monique knows someone with a suspiciously similar situation. Only in their case, both parties fully leaned in. On the toilet. Simultaneously. Moving on.Georgie contributes a honeymoon memory she's never forgotten — a couple from Brighton, a woodland, small baskets, and rabbit droppings used in ways the forest did not intend.Marshall's "spicy pepperoni bum" gets its moment. A pitch black bedroom, lumpy fingers, and an entire packet of extra hot salami. Dale's golf course incident also makes an appearance.And finally: our AI editing software has apparently been transcribing our show as "Dead Bums Club" since episode one. For this episode, we're not correcting it.⚠️ Weak stomach? Grab a bowl. You've been warned.Send us your stories. We want all of them. The detail, the horror, all of it.See you next time — Dead Bums Club. 💀

Dead Mum's Club is back for episode eight, and this week we are not holding back.Georgie's half term was an absolute nightmare — two head injuries, a rogue piercing infection, potty training chaos, and zero sleep. Monique took her kids indoor skydiving and had the time of their lives, despite her auntie managing to film precisely nothing.Then things get honest. Really honest. We had a proper falling out this week over the podcast — different expectations, different working styles, and two big personalities who both needed to be heard at the same time. We kept the whole conversation in. It's raw, it's real, and if you've ever had a bust-up with your best friend over something that matters, you'll recognise every second of it. We came out the other side stronger, clearer, and with a lot more love for each other.And finally — Sauna Stories is here. Our brand new recurring segment kicks off with Monique's unforgettable coffee date with a man from her David Lloyd who drops a sex addiction confession before the first cup is finished, and reveals he was banned from the spa for what he got up to in the steam room. Georgie responds with a confession of her own — a pool, a holiday in Egypt, 50 Shades of Grey, and her parents at the other end of the water. Enough said.Tantrums, tears, laughs and a banned spa member. Episode eight. Enjoy.

This week on Dead Mums Club, Georgie and Monique tackle an anonymous AITA submission from a 28-year-old woman who broke up with her boyfriend of one year — not because he was unkind, but because he simply never made an effort. No planned dates, no birthdays remembered, no initiative. Just "wanna come over and chill?"Sound familiar? It does to Georgie. She gets candid about how she and Dale came close to divorce over the invisible mental load and years of miscommunicated needs, and how the book Fair Play nearly blew up her marriage (in the best and worst way). Monique talks shifting love languages, the importance of presence over phones, and why quality time has become her non-negotiable.Together they break down whether our girl is the asshole (she's not), what she should do next, and why knowing your love language — and your partner's — might be the most important thing you do in a relationship.Got your own AITA to share? Submit anonymously at www.deadmumsclub.com

This week on Dead Mum's Club, Georgie and Monique get real — as always. They kick things off with life updates, spring energy, and a very honest chat about bodies: loose skin, stretch marks, saggy tits, tummy tucks, and why none of it defines you. Then things get deeper. Inspired by conversations with Georgie's community, the girls dive into attachment styles — secure, avoidant, anxious, and disorganized — and why so many women are settling for "he doesn't hit me" as a baseline. If you've ever confused comfort with compatibility, this one's for you. Raw, relatable, and refreshingly honest. New episodes every week.

Am I The Asshole? If I Cancelled A '3 Years In The Making' Trip With My Friend…This week on Dead Mums Club, Georgie and Monique are diving into a Reddit AITA that hit a little close to home. A woman is considering cancelling a long awaited overseas trip with her best friend of 10+ years — all after a week of burnout fuelled short replies spiralled into silence, hurt feelings, and a friendship left on read.But is cancelling the trip really about the trip? Or is there something bigger going on underneath?Georgie and Monique unpack the very relatable chaos of burnout, poor communication, and the stories we tell ourselves when guilt takes the wheel. They've both been there and they're not letting her off the hook entirely, but they're bringing the compassion too.Verdict: She's the asshole. But she's an asshole going through some tough shit.Like, follow, and share DMC wherever you listen or watch — YouTube, Spotify, Apple Music & Amazon.

Episode 6 — first virtual episode, same chaotic energy. After two weeks apart (and a whole lot of life), Georgie and Monique are back to catch up on everything.Monique unpacks her Northern Depression after returning from up north, the emotional weight of longing for a life that feels just out of reach, and a surprisingly wholesome dating app reunion with a childhood crush. Georgie shares the reality of a family trip to Europe — dirty Amsterdam, space brownies, and a very eventful ferry home — before getting honest about grief, exhaustion, and the very real pain of parenting without a support network.They also cover: laser hair removal progress (yes, really), potty training chaos, and a conversation about avoidant attachment that might just make you rethink what "boring" means in a relationship.Raw, funny, and genuinely real — as always.

Spotify DescriptionThis week on our AITA segment, we're diving into a story that had us both emotional from the first paragraph.A woman in her early thirties grew up surrounded by toxicity — yelling, manipulation, emotional control, and a cycle of dysfunction that was just "normal." After years of people-pleasing and bending over backwards for her family, she found a partner who helped her grow, heal, and set real boundaries. And when she did? Her family blocked her, turned her kids against her, and called her sick in the head.We break down why boundaries feel like betrayal to people who relied on your compliance, how to communicate from a place of peace rather than pain, and why being cast as the villain in someone else's story might actually be the most empowering thing that ever happens to you.This one hits close to home for both of us — and we think it will for you too.Got your own AITA moment? Submit it at www.deadmumsclub.com and you could be featured on a future episode.

Episode five — and our last in person recording for a little while. We catch up on life (cold water swims, a new man friend, a booked retreat, and a booming dance business) before diving into this week's theme: new identities.What does it actually feel like to go through a major life change? We explore fear, limiting beliefs, the pull of familiarity, and why so many of us stop right before the hardest — and most important — part of the journey. We also get into whether moving somewhere new can genuinely help you become a different person, and the tools that actually help: coaching, self-awareness, and deciding whether you want change or are truly ready for it.Honest, unfiltered, and very relatable. Drop us a comment — we want to hear from you.

Welcome to the DMC AITA Mini Segment — dropping every Thursday!This week: "My husband said I don't deserve love now I've gained weight."A mum of one, battling postpartum anxiety, hypothyroidism, and depression, shares how her husband told her she doesn't deserve love until she's back to 140lbs — and that he "can't feel sex" because of her weight gain. We're reading it, reacting to it, and giving our unfiltered verdict.Is she the asshole? Absolutely not. But is he? Oh, absolutely.Join us every Thursday for our AITA mini segment, and catch our main pod every Tuesday for longer conversations on life, relationships, self-worth, and everything in between.

Episode 4 is here! After announcing our new split-format (weekly episodes on Tuesdays + our Asshole Segment every Thursday), we catch up on Mother's Day adventures, a dance class launch, and the week's wins and struggles.Then we get into the main topic: the manosphere. Inspired by Louis Theroux's documentary, we dissect the key figures, the toxic workplace culture we lived through, the infamous delusion meter, and what we actually want in a good man (hint: it has nothing to do with a fancy car). We also get into body confidence, how far we'd go for money, and somehow end up having a full conversation about areolas.Honest, chaotic, and always real — this is Titties & Testosterone.

Episode 3 – Mother's Day SpecialThis one got us. In our most emotional episode yet, we're diving deep into Mother's Day when your mum is gone, when your relationship with her was complicated, and when you're now a mum trying to hold it all together.We talk grief, guilt, mother-in-laws, a listener's story of being completely blindsided on Mother's Day, a 5 year old with an otherworldly connection to his granddad, and the very real, very messy experience of parenting without your village.Raw, honest, chaotic — as always. Pull up a seat. You're not alone in this. 💛New episodes every week.

Are you living like the victim? We have been there too! Episode 2, Boundaries & Buffets now live

Episode 2: Boundaries & BuffetsEpisode two is here… after 12 hours of technical chaos and a full re-record.In this episode we kick things off on International Women’s Day, celebrating women who have their boundaries locked in, those still figuring it out, and those who don’t even know where to start yet.We dive into this week’s “Am I The Asshole?” dilemma about emotional trauma dumping and whether it’s okay to draw the line with a friend who refuses to leave a toxic relationship.From there the conversation goes deep into friendship boundaries, emotional labour, losing friendships during personal growth, and trusting your gut when something feels off.And in true DMC fashion… things take a turn.This week’s “Would You Ever?” question explores open relationships, sexual curiosity, and whether some things are better left un-experimented with.It’s honest, unfiltered, occasionally chaotic — and very much us.

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Chin Hairs & Cottage Cheese | Dead Mum’s Club – Episode 1Welcome to episode one.We’re easing in gently… by talking about chin hairs, cottage cheese, lost toenails, AITA dilemmas, questionable decisions and a few slightly scandalous stories.We cover: An AITA submission“Would you ever…” chaosGrowth (the uncomfortable kind)Friendship after 15+ yearsAnd why life never quite goes to planIt’s not a grief podcast. It’s a life podcast.Pull up a chair.