Done With Dating

Most people overlook one of the most important keys to modern dating: authenticity and emotional maturity. Rhys Loring reveals how her decade of self-work reshaped her approach to relationships—and what she truly needs from a partner to build something meaningful. In this candid episode, Rhys shares her journey from years of in-and-out dating to finding clarity in what she values—health, honesty, and emotional presence. She dives into the importance of shared values over superficial metrics like height, and why she believes real connection begins with self-awareness, not game-playing. Rhys breaks down her must-have qualities, including effort, effort, effort—and why men who do the work, like therapy-oriented partners, are incredibly attractive.You'll discover her thoughts on navigating politics in relationships, the importance of respectful disagreement, and her no-go deal breakers like substance abuse and unresolved past relationships. She offers practical tips for online dating: her three-question rule that fosters genuine conversations, how to project confidence without chasing, and why effort and authenticity are truly green flags. Plus, Rhys opens up about the role of humor, emotional sensitivity, and being a mom—highlighting that vulnerability isn’t a weakness, but a pathway to lasting love.This episode is essential listening if you're tired of surface-level swipes and want to understand what it takes to attract a partner who truly matches your values. Rhys’s perspective is perfect for singles serious about self-growth, meaningful connection, and building a relationship rooted in honesty. Whether you’re navigating the dating scene or reflecting on past relationships, her insights will inspire you to show up authentically—and attract someone who genuinely deserves you. Want to meet someone who shares your values and invests in growth? Rhys is open to dating—learn how to connect with her at www.donewithdating.co and apply to be matched with her. This episode isn’t just about dating; it’s about redefining what real love looks like in today’s world. #DateAGuest #ChiefsFan #Chiefs #TravisKelce #ConnectionMatters #DatingTips #DoneWithDating #RealConnections #DatingAdvice #FindYourMatch #RelationshipGoals #relationships #moderndating #datingculture #dwd #donewithdating #donewithdatingapps #dating #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment #mindfulness  #DatingRealTalk #AuthenticConnections #RelationshipTips #MindsetShift #DateSmart

Most people struggle to find authentic love without sacrificing their true selves — but what if your ideal match isn’t just looking for perfect, they’re searching for someone real? In this candid episode, Adam Dickinson shares how his blend of analytical thinking and spiritual insight is guiding him toward meaningful connection. With honesty about his journey from FBI agent to solo entrepreneur and a desire for vulnerability and authenticity, Adam opens up about what he truly seeks in a partner — someone dependable, mature, and supportive who can join him in his ambitions and personal growth. You’ll discover how he navigates the dating scene as a busy, outgoing, yet introspective man who values cooking, reading, travel, and family. This episode is perfect for busy professionals, spiritual seekers, or anyone tired of superficial matches — looking for a partner who can match your depth and drive. Adam’s story shows that love doesn’t have to be complicated when you’re clear about what truly matters. If you’re ready to meet someone who’s as real and ambitious as you are, tune in now — this might just be the connection you’ve been waiting for. Interested in finding your match? Visit donewithdating.co and apply today, and let your journey to genuine love begin.#InnerIntelligence #TrustYourGut #SelfGrowth #MindBodySoul #Reinvention #relationships #moderndating #datingculture #dwd #donewithdating #donewithdatingapps #dating #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment #mindfulness  #DatingRealTalk #AuthenticConnections #RelationshipTips #MindsetShift #DateSmart #LGBT

Most people don’t realize that the root of many relationship struggles is a silent language of emotional disconnect and unmet needs. Rhys Loring, a seasoned divorce recovery coach, reveals the critical signs that your marriage is unraveling before your eyes—and how to intervene before it’s too late. Whether you're feeling stuck, contemplating divorce, or simply want to deepen your connection, this episode uncovers actionable insights to help you understand the emotional cues that often go unnoticed.Rhys shares her powerful framework on recognizing early signs of emotional detachment—like living more like roommates than lovers, the absence of intimacy, and the creeping silence that signals disconnect. She breaks down the common patterns that lead to divorce, including emotional labor imbalances, communication gaps, and the devastating effects of losing self-identity within a marriage. You’ll discover how societal shifts, gender role expectations, and emotional language differences contribute to the disconnect—plus, practical tools to bridge those gaps today.In this candid conversation, Rhys discusses the importance of emotional safety, understanding love languages, and the critical role of self-awareness in nurturing a thriving partnership. We delve into the misconceptions about gender roles, the significance of value alignment, and her proven approach for couples to do “relationship maintenance”—like monthly check-ins—to prevent issues from escalating. She emphasizes that recognizing these signals early and working intentionally can not only save relationships but also foster personal growth.Whether you're in a committed relationship pondering its future, or simply want to learn how to better navigate emotional complexities, this episode is essential listening. Rhys' insights empower you to identify warning signs, rebuild emotional intimacy, and make confident choices for your love life. Don’t wait until silence turns into separation—start understanding the language of real connection today. Rhys Loring is a divorce recovery coach based in Kansas City, known for her compassionate and pragmatic approach to healing emotional wounds and rebuilding self-identity post-divorce. She helps clients from all genders and ages transform chaos into clarity, guiding them toward healthier, more authentic relationships. Perfect for singles, couples, and anyone interested in emotional intelligence, self-growth, and meaningful relationships. Hit play now to discover how small, intentional steps can change the trajectory of your love life—before it’s too late.#relationships #moderndating #datingculture #dwd #donewithdating #donewithdatingapps #dating #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment #mindfulness  #DatingRealTalk #AuthenticConnections #RelationshipTips #MindsetShift #DateSmart

A fascinating blend of logic and intuition, this episode dives deep into how high-functioning adults can navigate life's big transitions with clarity and confidence. Adam Dickinson, a former FBI analyst turned future self strategist, shares his groundbreaking method for integrating inner signals with logical decision-making — transforming overwhelm into empowered action.If you're feeling stuck, balancing a demanding career, or simply craving more alignment in your daily choices, this conversation is your guide. Adam reveals his four-step process—Recognize, Interpret, Align, Act—that helps you tap into your body’s wisdom, release doubts, and move forward with trust. You'll discover how shifting your energy—and your vibration—can unlock breakthroughs in both your personal and professional life.We break down practical techniques Adam uses to raise your vibration, from breathwork and body movement to anchoring in stillness and heart-mind synchronization. Plus, explore how to decode intuitive signals during complex moments—like dating or career pivots—so you can boldly follow your true north. Whether you're driven by logic, spirituality, or both, this episode shows how to craft a resilient mindset rooted in inner truth.Why is this vital now? Because ignoring your inner guidance can lead to missed opportunities, exhaustion, or staying stuck in situations that no longer serve you. Embracing your intuitive intelligence offers a way out of that trap and into a future where your choices feel aligned, clear, and authentic.Perfect for high achievers, career changers, or anyone seeking deeper self-awareness—and a fresh perspective on decision-making—this episode equips you with tools to elevate your vibe and trust your inner compass. Don’t miss the chance to turn internal signals into your greatest asset for growth and joy.Adam Dickinson is a logic-to-intuition integration advisor, serving as a future self strategist. With over 15 years at the FBI and a profound inner shift, he now helps adults interpret internal guidance for career and life reinvention. Connect with him on LinkedIn at Adam-R-Dickinson for ongoing insights into mastering your inner intelligence.Ready to harness your most powerful decision-making tool? Hit play now—your future self will thank you.#InnerIntelligence #TrustYourGut #SelfGrowth #MindBodySoul #Reinvention #relationships #moderndating #datingculture #dwd #donewithdating #donewithdatingapps #dating #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment #mindfulness  #DatingRealTalk #AuthenticConnections #RelationshipTips #MindsetShift #DateSmart

In a follow-up discussion regarding the perspective on modern dating, previous guest Alex Most is back. He's a seasoned dating veteran based in San Francisco, known for insights on relationship deal breakers, navigating modern dating pitfalls, and turning vulnerability into strength. Alex shares how he once thought he found "the one," only to learn that growth and communication are key to turning potential into lasting love. Plus, he opens up about the hilarious mistakes we all make: coming on too strong, rushing into feelings, and the perils of perfect-looking profiles. You'll discover specific strategies to navigate the tricky world of dating apps—when to introduce someone to your friends, how to create natural conversations without feeling like an interrogation, and why sometimes it's better to trust your instincts rather than over-analytical checklists. Alex emphasizes that ghosting is a reflection of their struggles, not yours—and that resilience, patience, and authenticity are your best allies in this landscape.Tune in, apply these lessons, and turn your next listen into your next date. Your perfect match is waiting—are you ready to find them?#relationships #moderndating #datingculture #dwd #donewithdating #donewithdatingapps #dating #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment #mindfulness  #DatingRealTalk #AuthenticConnections #RelationshipTips #MindsetShift #DateSmart

Discover the revolutionary approach to meaningful connections—beyond swipes and small talk—hidden in the secrets of expert matchmakers.Are you tired of endless dating apps that feel more like auditions than actual connections? What if authenticity, emotional maturity, and shared values could be your shortcut to a deep, lasting relationship? In this episode, Boston-based matchmaker Rebeccah Lipson reveals how she’s transforming the way singles meet—focusing on intentional, curated introductions that cut through the noise of modern dating.Rebecca shares insider insights on what makes a successful match—beyond surface traits—and explains the red flags that signal someone isn’t truly ready for love. She discusses her unique vetting process, how emotional pace and interpretive lenses influence compatibility, and why based on her experience, effort and commitment are the ultimate green flags. Connect with Rebecca on Instagram at @ConnectionClubMatchmaking or visit her website at connectionclubmatchmaking.com for personalized matchmaking, upcoming events, and community-building opportunities that prioritize real human sparks over superficial swipes.This episode is perfect for singles looking for a thoughtful, proven approach to dating, or anyone interested in understanding the deeper dynamics that foster long-term love in modern life.Get ready to rethink everything you know about love, and start building relationships that truly matter.#ConnectionMatters #DatingTips #MatchmakerSecrets#DoneWithDating #RealConnections #DatingAdvice #FindYourMatch #RelationshipGoals #relationships #moderndating #datingculture #dwd #donewithdating #donewithdatingapps #dating #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment #mindfulness  #DatingRealTalk #AuthenticConnections #RelationshipTips #MindsetShift #DateSmart

Are dating apps killing organic connections? Here's what two women in their 20s and 40s really think... 🔥Drop a 🔥 if you've felt this fatigue too — it's more common than you think.So many of us have been stuck swiping, hoping for something real, but feeling exhausted instead. Sierra, 28, shares how the dating scene's shifted with COVID, making people more hesitant to approach in person, especially in bars. Christina, 41, points out how trust and effort are missing now — and how online platforms often feel more superficial than authentic.What truly makes a meaningful connection? Active listening, showing genuine interest, and not rushing into things. It’s about quality over quantity and feeling that energy — not just matching on an app.Worth thinking about: Are we relying too much on technology, losing the magic of real conversations? Or is the future in new, intentional ways of meeting?Your take? Would you try local singles events or exclusive platforms for real trust? 💬Remember — connection isn’t dead; it’s just evolving.#LoveEvolution #MindfulDating #MeaningfulConnections #SelfWorkJourney #relationships #moderndating #datingculture #dwd #donewithdating #donewithdatingapps #dating #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment #mindfulness  #DatingRealTalk #AuthenticConnections #RelationshipTips #MindsetShift #DateSmart

In this Episode discover how real conversations and intentional dating can transform your love life. Two women, Christina and Sierra share insights on how dating fatigue and societal changes have impacted face-to-face interactions, revealing the limitations of traditional apps. Explore the rise of local singles events and exclusive platforms where verification and professionalism redefine trust in online dating. Perfect for singles seeking more than fleeting chats, this episode offers fresh insights and practical advice from the female perspective to revolutionize your dating life.#relationships #moderndating #datingculture #dwd #donewithdating #donewithdatingapps #dating

The conversation covers the Male perspective on modern dating and relationships. Alex Most has been on 250 first dates. Alex discussed his dating experiences, using dating apps, and the transition to meaningful relationships. It also explores the importance of authenticity, self-awareness, and recognizing red flags in dating interactions. The conversation concludes with advice on mindset and habits for finding genuine connections in dating experiences.TakeawaysAuthenticity and self-awareness are crucial in dating interactions.Rejection in dating should not be taken personally, and self-compassion is important for learning from dating mistakes.#relationships #moderndating #datingculture #dwd #donewithdating #donewithdatingapps #DatingRealTalk #AuthenticConnections #RelationshipTips #MindsetShift #DateSmart

The conversation covers the creation of an interactive dating podcast, the pillars of the dream listener, personal experiences and self-improvement, dating stories and generational background, the format and content of the podcast, and the goal of destroying dating myths and inspiring hope.TakeawaysInteractive dating podcastBuilding trust and authenticityChapters00:00 Creating an Interactive Dating Podcast10:11 Personal Experiences and Self-Improvement20:24 The Format and Content of the Podcast