Dose of Delusion

Send us Fan MailOkay so Jay finally has an in-person guest (Stephanie) and within seconds they go from cute boys to a full breakdown of “designer delusion” - aka thinking a Lululemon outfit will fix your life all while Jay casually admits he ordered multiple Fashion Nova packages to the wrong addresses and just accepted his fate...Then Steph counters with “I didn’t shop for 4.5 years” (shade), so now we’re talking confidence, body changes, and “if you look good you feel good”Then SOMEHOW (eyeroll) they derail into 90s fashion, JFK Love Story, hot actors, and why everyone has the same iPhone face...and all of a sudden it’s an adulting episode (like...what??): deep freezer, Costco executive membership, buying a house, financial stress.But then they finally end on AI chaos, lazy coworkers, and somehow… six-finger crime rings.This episode is delusional chaos and it works.

Send us Fan MailOkay so Jay brings on his straight, suspiciously too good of an ally friend Max, and what starts as a chill convo turns into a full-on identity unpacking spiral.They argue about Heated Rivalry. Max says it’s basically gay porn with a weak plot, and Jay’s like… no babe, that’s trauma, repression, and lived experience. Then suddenly we’re deep in the trenches talking about being closeted, dating someone who won’t claim you, and the emotional DAMAGE of being loved privately but hidden publicly.Max tries to understand the gay experience in real time (honestly, gold star for effort), they get into internalized homophobia, growing up in different cultures, and why some people take 25 years, a marriage, and two kids to realize they’re gay.Then it pivots into identity vs personality, gay mannerisms, and whether being “visibly gay” is authentic or something we learn. Light existential crisis, casual evening chat.

Send us Fan MailSo... AJ is off this week chasing big career dreams, Jay brings Dinah in, and within minutes we’re dealing with angry mothers, engagement ring decision paralysis, and a Jacksonville trip where Jay gets bullied into eating a moldy sandwich like it’s totally normal. Then the two of them spiral into The Traitors, Alan Cumming in a leather harness, Ryan Murphy being ridiculously talented, JFK Jr. thirst, and finally they start solving Dear Abby and Am I The Asshole problems like two people who absolutely should NOT be trusted with relationship advice. 

Send us Fan MailOkay so AJ is glowing because Botox, Jay is experimenting with Vaseline like he’s in a dermatology lab, then Jay joins gay kickball and realizes it’s basically the IRS with jerseys. We get mad about shoe rules, talk Benito Bowl and people acting dumb, laugh at Jill Zarin getting dropped, and then Jay finds out his LDL is elite and starts strutting like he’s booked for Fashion Week.

Send us Fan MailJay fumbled so hard this week that he accidentally deleted the entire episode. Like, fully Thanos-snapped our recording into the shadow realm. So today’s drop is an oldie but a goodie, pulled straight from the Dose of Delusion vault because we refuse to let Jay’s “oopsie” ruin your weekly mess.

Send us Fan Mail Jay and AJ swap winter-storm war stories from DC and Texas, roast panic-buying culture, then detour into Jay’s West Wing White House tour (including the Oval Office and the Truman Bowling Alley). AJ shares what he’s been up to socially in San Antonio, gives a full New Year’s recap, and they land on their comfort-food obsession: reality TV (RHOSLC reunion timing confusion and Traitors hype). 

Send us Fan MailSeason 4 is here. Jay and AJ kick off 2026 with intentions (not resolutions), then Jay drops his most unhinged Lyft experience yet: a two-minute pre-recorded “tip me or else” audio, a ride ended early, and a TikTok that went viral. From there it’s full reality TV court: Salt Lake reunion chaos, BH’s new girl energy, Sutton slander, and Traitors hot takes (including Michael Rapaport doing… too much). We wrap with AJ’s DJ-world update and what’s coming next for I’m Friends With The DJ. 

Send us Fan MailJay and AJ catch up on chaotic nights out, surprise run-ins with RuPaul’s Drag Race girls, and holiday plans that involve more chosen family than blood relatives. Jay recaps a soul-filling trip home, frat-boy mattress life, and a truly unhinged Lyft ride that turns into a full role reversal.Things pivot into Housewives territory, with strong opinions on Salt Lake City, Meredith Marks, and the ongoing art of stirring the pot. The episode wraps with a deep dive into Heated Rivalry, unpacking masculinity, obsession, and why rivalry gives men permission to fixate on each other, all while admitting the show is horny as hell. Equal parts chaos, comfort, and cultural commentary.

Send us Fan MailJay and AJ open the episode with chaotic banter and AJ’s recap of a fully booked San Antonio weekend of DJs, Sundown Social, and low-key crushing on DJ Surge. Jay then spirals into the saga of the “gayla” disaster: the tux shop was closed, he panic-shopped across Marshall’s, Target, Zara, and Macy’s, paid full price against his will, but still showed up serving Calvin Klein at a formal work gala… where he accidentally volunteered himself to host next year’s event in front of 1,300 people.AJ runs off to a Blue Santa event, and Jay brings in special guest Eric Lee (@soyericlee), Tejano pop singer and part-time thirst trap. Eric talks about juggling his nail salon day job and pop star nights, growing up performing with his dad’s band, being told to “tone down” his mannerisms, and now finally performing as his full, gay self. He explains the heartbreak behind “Pacífico,” touches on Selena as a deep but overused inspiration, and talks about using his body and social media strategically to sell his music while balancing that with a long-term marriage.They wrap with stanning Whitney from Dancing With the Stars, celebrating Eric’s first solo concert at Let’s Be Honest in San Antonio on December 14, and Eric ending on gratitude, ass slaps, and a whole lot of “I don’t take any of this for granted.”

Send us Fan MailIn this Dose of Delusion episode, Jay and AJ unpack the consequences of AJ cheating on his hot barber and ending up with a crooked South Side lineup right before major events, while Jay is drowning in government taskers and bingeing every “Selling…” show like it’s his second job. Sean vs Austin on Selling OC triggers a very real rant about messy straight men who flirt, blur lines, then act like victims when their curiosity catches up with them, and AJ explains his “no blurred lines, just are we hooking up or not” policy. From there, they spiral into BravoCon gossip, Kim K’s questionable acting on All’s Fair, Jessica Simpson’s “is that just makeup?” moment, and close out with Thanksgiving plans, tux vs suit for Jay’s gala and French Embassy night, and AJ demanding full access to Jay’s calendar like a controlling but lovable cohost

Send us Fan MailJay and AJ catch up like two people who survived Halloween on vibes and Amazon Prime. Jay tells the story of him and Renae showing up to a DC house party dressed as “CDC employees laid off by RFK Jr.” with badges so legit people actually thought they worked for the government, then realizing there was a secret costume contest they obviously won. AJ runs through San Antonio’s marathon of queer Halloween events, warehouse parties, drag, and bar lines that were too long for his spirit. Then they veer straight into Bravo talk, dragging Sutton, defending Kyle (kind of), stanning Jennifer Tilly, and using “the morally corrupt Faye Resnick” as a lifestyle. They close out talking about levels of gossip, how everyone says “don’t tell” while telling everyone, and Jay deciding he actually likes being the morally corrupt one. 

Send us Fan MailJay swears he didn’t want to go to Boston, and destiny punished him accordingly; with a sleepy drag show, a performer named Frisky Business, and a full-blown lecture for calling someone “darling.” Meanwhile, AJ was playing Acting Manager of the Year, juggling puppy fights, power outages, and employee chaos like a Bravo crossover episode. Between a $35 Hamilton miracle (third row, second-act nap included), DJ gossip, Potomac scandals, and Meredith Marks’ tragic DJ debut, the boys prove chaos is their love language. It’s safe spaces, bad manners, and gay blessings; all poured over wine and mild regret.

Send us Fan MailJay and AJ regroup after a missed week and unleash a full catch-up: AJ leans into day drinking, plays promoter at Sundown Social, and covers over local DJs, while Jay survives a cursed travel run from SLC to LaGuardia that includes surprise TSA at the gate, a touch-and-go landing, and a neighbor who kept farting until Google Translate saved the cabin. The boys revisit Crumbl’s hard-launch boyfriend news, give a bartender update that sparks a fresh lavender marriage debate, and swap Housewives takes as Bronwyn swings hard and Lisa’s edit looks rough. Life updates land too: Jay is moving across the river to Arlington and is officially a poodle granddad. They close with a Dear Daddy note on vintage thirst, online boundaries, and why not every keyboard needs to be a catcall. 

Send us Fan MailJay and AJ catch up like two besties on a layover: AJ just survived COVID and discovered he is now a proud ga(y)mer, Jay is living his hotel upgrade fantasy in Salt Lake with bartender hookups, Park City sightings, and bartender drama that sparks a deep dive into lavender marriages, lavender husbands, and the weird economics of queer cover arrangements. They riff on reality TV recaps, hotel room nightmares, Grindr sleuthing at the office, and friendship ranking feels, all with gossip-level energy, awkward detective skills, and a lot of sass. Equal parts bar diary, pop culture gossip, and queer life tea.

Send us Fan MailSeason 3 kicks off with Jay plotting a move, flirting with hotel-life, and admitting Taco Bell is now just a sometimes treat.We spiral into the Crumbl cookie circus, pink boxes, TikTok outing drama, and why internalized homophobia is the real stale cookie.“Homiesexual” gets decoded, “demisexual” gets respect, and yes, Jay uses the term demi-glaze because he’s hungry and…correct.An advice column tackles Declan the distressed bottom who can’t finish, verdict: less pressure, more patience, and a top who can multitask.Plus travel chaos (Salt Lake, Park City hair blowouts, hard pass on the St. Louis arch), AJ’s step-challenge slut era, and enough gossip to frost a dozen.

Send us Fan MailThis episode revolves around the theme of growth, reflection, and navigating the complexities of friendships in the new year. The hosts share personal experiences about gym memberships, movie reviews, and the importance of self-worth while addressing the need to cut ties with toxic relationships. • Reflecting on the highs and lows of the past year • Discussing fitness journeys and trendy gym memberships • Reviewing the film "Wicked" and its cultural significance • Sharing insights from a challenging dinner date experience • Navigating the importance of walking away from toxicity • Setting intentions for 2025, including learning new languages

Send us Fan MailThis episode explores the intersection of holiday joy, personal reflections, and cultural commentary. With updates on family happenings, AI discussions, and reality TV gossip, we dive deep into the values of leisure and connection.• Sharing personal updates about holiday experiences • Discussing the benefits and challenges of time off • Anecdotes about festive attire and holiday creativity • Insights on the case of Luigi Mangione and implications of image • Conversations about AI in content generation • Critiques and reflections on "Real Housewives" • Comments on marketing luxury items in celebrity culture

Send us Fan MailJay and AJ are back, discussing the ups and downs of the holiday season, from battling Texas chill and attending multiple Thanksgiving dinners to navigating the madness of Black Friday shopping. AJ shares stories of a low-key holiday while Jay recounts the challenge of four feasts in one day. The conversation takes an unexpected turn, touching on a high-profile incident with the CEO of United Healthcare, a lookalike contest, and courtroom oddities. They also explore quirky holiday traditions, including controversial Krampus parades and Disney World's mischievous "Tally the Elf." Along the way, they reflect on communication, celebrity lookalikes, and personal wellness amidst the festive chaos. The episode wraps up with humor, nostalgia, and a touch of southern charm.

Send us Fan MailOn this episode of Dose of Delusion, AJ and Jay reflect on their weekend adventures, with AJ revisiting the 80s cult classic Kroll and Jay indulging in a day of relaxation and snacks. Their conversation takes a fun detour through memories of Las Vegas, the Bellagio's floral displays, and laughs over Miss Congeniality and an upcoming Pentatonix concert. They share heartwarming stories of holiday plans, including Friendsgivings, "winesgiving" adventures, and the comfort of chosen family amidst unresolved family drama. A comedy show in New York adds a layer of festive cheer, with comparisons to the cold of Washington, D.C., and anticipation for a much-needed winter break. The episode also delves into the latest music industry buzz, discussing Dua Lipa's ranking among influential artists and Taylor Swift’s rise to the top. Reality TV fans are in for a treat with gossip about the housewives' drama, Kathy's memes, and Jennifer Tilly's surprise appearance, wrapping up with exciting plans for a London trip and Thanksgiving wishes.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, we recount our fun-filled Halloween weekend, packed with creativity and laughter. AJ relives his block party experience, featuring DJ Rue D's performance and a lumberjack costume that sparked a newfound love for facial hair. Meanwhile, I share stories of romantic adventures and my memorable "Gay Black Jesus" costume. We also dive into the quirky trend of hair transplants in Turkey.Our tales take unexpected turns, from a mysterious food heist in Washington, D.C. to a nail-biting ticket hunt for the Pentatonix concert. We also unravel the curious case of a missing Uber Eats order, complete with security footage drama and local gossip. Along the way, we chat about high-tech childcare gadgets, reminisce about babysitting twins, and swap our latest TV show obsessions, making for a lively and entertaining episode.

Send us Fan MailIn this spirited episode of "Dose of Delusion," AJ's Red Riding Hood costume sparks hilarious conversations about social escapades, including a charming wedding reconnection and a culinary adventure at a trendy fusion restaurant. AJ's legendary Halloween party experiences add to the fun, while the hosts navigate FOMO surrounding a future apocalypse.A road trip from San Antonio to Austin transforms their music playlist, thanks to Chappell Roan and and other festival performers. They also share amusing travel stories from Jay's East Coast adventures. The episode deepens as they reflect on Liam from One Direction's struggles with fame and ultimate passing way. They tie in whimsical discussions about Baba Vanga's prophecies, blending humor with thoughtful exploration of music, friendship, and the future of AI.

Send us Fan MailJust when you thought it was safe to skip your daily Dose of Delusion, we're back and ready to serve up some serious chaos! In this lively update, AJ, our resident Silver Fox, shares his thrilling new role in property management, reigniting his passion. As Halloween approaches, we're planning costumes and reminiscing about past celebrations, while also gearing up for events like ACL. We explore the vibrant DC drag scene, highlighting memorable nights with queens like Miss Mia Vanderbilt and teasing a Salt Lake City saga for future episodes. Additionally, we dive into the drama of the "Real Housewives," featuring eccentric characters and unforgettable moments. As we discuss travel plans and creative costumes, we celebrate the chaos and growth of our journey together.

Send us Fan MailIn a humorous podcast episode, hosts AJ and Jay recount their narrow escape from the Solar Eclipse Festival, which is on the brink of becoming a social media disaster. Amidst speculation about the festival's fate and their friends still attending, they delve into various conspiracy theories, including hoarding hotel toiletries and #KateGate. Transitioning into deeper territory, they discuss Nostradamus's predictions, the possibility of Trump's time-traveling abilities, and Anne Hathaway's connection to Shakespeare. With a blend of curiosity and skepticism, the hosts lead listeners on an entertaining exploration of prophecies and presidential time-travel, promising an unforgettable auditory experience.

Send us Fan MailThrough anecdotes of navigating travel with grace and kindness, Jay and AJ  illustrate how politeness can yield unexpected luxuries and upgrades. The story delves into the human connections forged during travel adventures, from memorable encounters with service workers to thought-provoking discussions about "Quiet on Set". Ending on a reflective note, the authors share personal experiences and insights on friendship, body image, and self-awareness, highlighting the importance of mutual support.

Send us Fan MailJoin this astrological journey with Mason, AJ, and Jay as they delve into the complexities of identity and fortune through the zodiac houses. With Mason's expertise, they analyze celestial energies shaping their destinies, exploring themes of prosperity, innovation, and creativity revealed in their charts. From understanding astrological oppositions to navigating the dynamics of assertiveness and reservation, they uncover the impact of celestial alignments on daily life. Traversing through the intricacies of astrological compatibility and long-term partnerships, they reflect on personal growth and social consciousness, offering listeners a personalized astrological map guiding them through the human experience's celestial influences.

Send us Fan MailIn this podcast episode, Jay takes listeners on a humorous road trip across the country with his mother, recounting the challenges of navigating closed attractions and the quest for dairy-free ice cream, while reflecting on the joys and trials of family travel. The episode also delves into the apartment hunting experience in DC, highlighting the excitement of finding a dream penthouse and the frustrations of dealing with application mishaps, providing a candid look into the emotional rollercoaster of searching for a new home. Additionally, AJ shares insights gained from a recent retreat, discussing the importance of self-care and personal renewal, and teases upcoming plans for adventures in D.C., Dallas, and Puerto Vallarta, emphasizing the value of nurturing friendships and creating lasting memories.

Send us Fan MailListen to this journey of Ryan Murphy's television and film empire as AJ and Jay delve into the intricacies of his legendary creations. From the iconic "Glee" to the chilling "American Horror Story" and the gripping narratives of "American Crime Story," Murphy's vision has left an indelible mark on binge-watchers everywhere. Delving into cinematic ventures like "The Prom," "Eat Pray Love," and "The Boys in the Band," they invite fans to celebrate Murphy's impactful stories and explore hidden gems. In the latest episode, they dissect "Feud" season 2, exploring the captivating saga of Truman Capote and New York's elite,  featuring star-studded casts including Naomi Watts, Diane Lane, and Demi Moore.  From groundbreaking moments in "Pose" to nostalgic reflections on TV dramas of the past, AJ and Jay offer a heartfelt nod to Murphy's flair for the dramatic and his ability to craft unforgettable narratives that resonate deeply with audiences.

Send us Fan MailRight in the middle of Jay’s big move to DC and AJ’s work conference (that we can hardly wait to tell you about!), please enjoy this pre-recorded bit with us giving you the best delusional advice we can offer! 

Send us Fan MailIn their final in-studio session, the hosts reflect nostalgically on a memorable farewell bash, inviting listeners on a journey back to the laughter-filled evening. Transitioning to a cosmic exploration of astrology, the hosts delve into the stories behind zodiac symbols, revealing insights into Capricorns and the dynamics of elemental influences on personality traits. As they dissect the traits of air signs, particularly those with a Libra rising, Aquarius moon, and Aquarius sun, alongside the fiery Leo ascendant of one host, listeners are encouraged to explore their own astrological makeup and perhaps coax the perpetually late host into punctuality with celestial persuasion.

Send us Fan MailIn their latest episode, Jay and AJ reminisce about the fusion of sports and music during Super Bowl weekend, inspired by Usher's halftime performance. From casual Sunday gatherings to lively watch parties, they reflect on the evolving NFL audience demographics highlighted by the halftime spectacle. Amidst tales of drag shows, DJ gigs, and VIP moments, they introduce guest author Patrick, who discusses his book "Neeon the Duck" and its message of inclusion and empathy. They explore the power of storytelling as a universal connector, blending sports excitement with literary warmth in an episode that's both celebratory and introspective.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Jay and AJ embark on a journey to confront stress and find balance amidst life's challenges. Through candid discussions, they unveil their strategies for mental reset, including meditation and decluttering. They also delve into their past coping mechanisms, such as sleep evasion and stress eating, highlighting their efforts to confront adversity head-on. Transitioning to pop culture, they dissect Drake's leaked video saga and share their insights on Grammy moments, infusing their commentary with wit and candor. The conversation shifts to the complexities of relationships, exploring themes of affairs, forbidden desires, and the pursuit of love in unexpected places. Advocating for open dialogue and destigmatizing discussions around sexuality, Jay and AJ invite listeners on a journey of introspection and honesty, where every confession fosters understanding and connection.

Send us Fan MailIn this podcast episode, AJ and Jay candidly discuss their experiences with ADHD, from childhood to adulthood, highlighting the impact it has had on their academic pursuits and daily lives. They share humorous anecdotes, reflections on evolving perceptions of ADHD, and emphasize the importance of managing the condition for a better quality of life. The episode then takes a turn to the world of reality TV, focusing on the dynamics of friendship and rivalry among the 'Real Housewives.' The hosts delve into the drama, antics, and cultural phenomenon of these shows, drawing parallels to their own struggles with confrontation, friendships, and relationships. The discussion also touches on the pervasive influence of social media algorithms, with the hosts sharing their experiences of navigating digital rabbit holes. The episode concludes with a mix of personal growth stories, pop culture debates, TV show banter, and an invitation for listeners to join the ongoing conversation on social media.

Send us Fan MailIn this vibrant recount, AJ and Jay explore the lively Dallas nightlife, delving into experiences such as DJ Nina Flowers at the Dallas Eagle and celebrating; we discuss celebrating Jay's birthday with slapstick ballet at the Tobin Center. The narrative takes the reader on a whirlwind tour of nights filled with revelry, unexpected connections, and the sensation of feeling regal among ballet enthusiasts. The recap includes highlights from 'Thursgays' at Brass Monkey, a tribute to Tina Turner at the Majestic, reflections on the film "Salt Burn," and insights into the playful hierarchy within the gay community, shared with authenticity and humor.

Send us Fan MailThe latest episode is a diverse exploration that covers the intricacies of relationship dynamics. The hosts reflects experiences, delving into topics like the balance between work and play, heartache from secret affairs, and challenges in non-traditional love. Personal experiences with infidelity, navigating open relationships, and the intimacy of casual connections are revealed. 

Send us Fan MailA weekend recap  with Jay and AJ and listen as they delve into Astrology with our first ever guest, Mason Escamilla! 

Send us Fan MailAJ and Jay share their holiday adventures, featuring a mix of chaos, impromptu hair appointments, and festive fiascos. AJ recounts his sun-soaked Mexican escapades. The duo indulges in tantalizing tastes and wild pool parties in Puerto Vallarta, highlighting inclusive events at Casa Cupula. AJ's New Year's celebration includes luxurious spa indulgences while Jay laid-back on New Year's Eve with his fearless puppy. The narrative captures the essence of a vibrant and unforgettable holiday season, offering inspiration for future getaways and celebrations.

Send us Fan MailJay and AJ recount personal experiences during business trips and holiday festivities. The focus is on amusing incidents, including a challenging hotel shower, hosting a corporate Christmas party, unconventional holiday feasts, and entertaining gift exchanges. They also explore family dynamics during work escapades and how families maintain holiday cheer despite distances. The discussion extends to personal love lives, touching on dating app mishaps and unexpected influences on romantic pursuits. The hosts share anecdotes of modern dating, from Grindr encounters to connections on apps like Be Real and Raw. The podcast also recommends "Messy Situations," a compilation of amusing life stories. The hosts invite listeners to close out the year with laughter, celebrating past adventures and looking forward to the stories that lie ahead in the coming year.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, the hosts share humorous stories of travel chaos, including noisy hotel experiences and memorable work trips. They also explore the unique joys of celebrating Christmas in Puerto Vallarta, comparing holiday climates with Australian friends. The conversation delves into the impact of travel on holiday spirits and traditions, teasing a future stargazing session with an astrologist. The hosts discuss the personal aspect of gift-giving, highlighting the small joys of sharing travel-inspired presents. Shifting gears, they explore the comedic world, discussing the balance between humor and sensitivity in performers like Matt Rife and Joe Rogan. Overall, the episode offers a backstage pass to the laughter, luggage, and little things that make travel and life rewarding.

Send us Fan MailJay and AJ describe a weekend filled with parties, work events, and the perpetual balance between work and social commitments. They touch on an enticing Food Network experience and emphasize the importance of self-care amidst the holiday rush. Concluding with the age-old tradition of gift-giving, AJ and Jay share unique strategies for navigating multiple parties, handling financial strains, and fostering genuine connections through thoughtful gifts, including the sometimes controversial gift-giving topics. For those caught in the holiday shopping frenzy, the duo provides practical tips, encouraging listeners to relax, grab their favorite drink, and join in the vibrant picture they paint of the party scene and holiday season.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Jay and AJ, who are long-time fans of the Real Housewives franchise, reminisce about the glamour, drama, and memorable moments from various series like OC, New York, and Atlanta. They highlight personal favorites such as Countess Luann and Nini Leeks, sharing their experiences and thoughts on the evolution of this reality TV phenomenon. Shifting focus to the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, they delve into the show's 10-year run and 13 seasons, discussing current buzz around Kyle and Sutton, as well as exploring unsettling psychic predictions about Kyle's marriage. The writers promise a mix of heavy topics and lighter moments, including admiration for fashion icon Jenna Lyons and discussions on the ever-changing dynamics of the cast. Whether you're a dedicated fan or new to the franchise, they invite you to join them for a lively and entertaining chat about their favorite reality TV series.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode AJ and Jay recount amusing and whimsical adventures, including encounters with cast members from Jesus Christ Superstar and the unexpected joy of manifesting their way onto a guest list. The hosts discuss Thanksgiving traditions, exploring the dynamics of family gatherings and the emotional journeys they entail. The episode also highlights the heartwarming bonds within the LGBTQ+ community, inspired by shows like "Schitt's Creek." As the hosts delve into the holiday season, they share traditions and memories of Friendsgiving celebrations, emphasizing the transformative power of chosen family bonds. The episode is a celebration of connection, gratitude, and the joyful chaos that comes with being part of a family, whether biological or chosen.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Jay and AJ reflect on their personal journeys through toxic relationships, They introduce a new rule they're testing and discuss upcoming weekend plans involving Jesus Christ Superstar. The narrative takes a deeper turn as they open up about the darkest corners of their past, addressing toxic behavior, love bombing, and the challenges of navigating relationships in their twenties. The discussion extends to the intriguing world of 'fuckboys,' exploring emotional implications and the addiction to attention. Despite the heavy topics, the speaker emphasizes the power of empathy in transforming experiences into wisdom. They share insights into channeling friends' pain into advice, highlighting the importance of 'just listening' in mental health and relationships. Ultimately, the episode is framed as a journey of laughter, vulnerability, and personal growth.

Send us Fan MailAJ and I take you on a wild ride through sexual journeys, sharing anecdotes from recent adventures.  We mix things up by discussing the Netflix film "Nyad" and its portrayal of a woman's incredible swim from Cuba to Key West. We delve into the world of BDSM through the movie "Sanctuary," exploring its intense scenes and high Rotten Tomatoes rating. Our conversation covers the 90s reality show "Real Sex" reflecting on kinks and fetishes. We also explore role-playing, bondage, cross-dressing, and wrap up with a deep dive into self-discovery and embracing sexuality, emphasizing trust, fearlessness, and self-love. We invite you to join our podcast for an engaging and thought-provoking conversation.

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, the host takes listeners on a Halloween adventure that explores drag culture, personal reflections on prejudices and preferences. They recount their experiences at a local event and RuPaul's Drag Race, where they witnessed creative costumes and electrifying fashion shows. The episode also discusses unpretentious fashion, LL's comeback with a  Mean Girls commercial. It delves into stories of free drinks, gay-baiting, and their implications. The host also shares their journey of unlearning biases, embracing various attractions, and the importance of personality and confidence in shaping perceptions. The complexities of threesomes and the role of open communication in relationships are explored. Overall, it's a wild and diverse episode that offers insights and experiences on various topics

Send us Fan MailEver wondered how your favorite people manage to look fabulous in their 40s? This episode will touch on the world of Botox, fillers, and plastic surgery, as AJ candidly shares his beauty secrets and cosmetic adventures. We also delve into his unique approach to skincare, including supplements and the controversial idea of preventative Botox. As we step away from the mirror, we're whisked off to the playful realm of Halloween, exploring Jay's and AJ's extravagant costume designs and their audacious approach to party planning. We also touch on Jay's Texas education and the surprising revelations about geography. But that's not all - we also share the emotional burden of Britney Spears's conservatorship, examining its impact on our perspective on celebrity culture. Lastly, we navigate the turbulent waters of breakups and delusions, offering personal stories that will resonate with many. We discuss the paradox of heartbreak even in the absence of an official relationship and share invaluable lessons about honesty and romance. Join us for a whirlwind episode that will leave you laughing, crying, and more than a little intrigued.