Ending the Sexual Dark Age

In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara, Tristan Taormino and the Swingset Crew recapping SS Desire 2018. Part 1 of 2   Show Links: Come play with us at SS Desire 2019 Life on the Swingset Pucker […]

After a long hiatus induced by JV almost dying last year and taking months to recover, we’re podcasting again! We’ve missed you, sexy friends!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please “LIKE”   Direct Download: Sexual-Dark-Age-096-So-JV-Almost-Died-Last-Year.mp3

This year’s Desire Resort takeover brought a new and improved Dungeon Night, and a couple dozen perverts decided to join our live audience recording the next day…where we were able to do an absinthe tasting thanks to the generosity of Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie. Many thanks to the Dungeon Crew, including Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie, Knotty Irish & […]

This year’s Desire Resort takeover brought a new and improved Dungeon Night, and a couple dozen perverts decided to join our live audience recording the next day…where we were able to do an absinthe tasting thanks to the generosity of Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie. Many thanks to the Dungeon Crew, including Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie, Knotty Irish & […]

Part 2 of our post-fair discussion. In the conclusion we talk more about our Saturday night play party (including Sexxypixie signing Shara’s ass), vibrators with rolling unlock codes, and everyone gets together to give Gabriella her birthday spankings.   Thanks to our friends and fellow freaks, Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie, Knotty Irish & Pet, and Maximus […]

After Folsom Street Fair, we sat down with our friends to talk about the sights and scenes of the weekend. We talk more about Twisted Windows, especially Saki & Mayu’s intense shibari performance, though the word “shibari” alone fails entirely to do it justice.  We also talk about our Saturday Night Play party, including Knotty with his […]

While we were in San Francisco for Folsom Street Fair, Shara and the other submissives recorded their own episode on Saturday evening while the doms were cooking dinner and otherwise entertaining themselves.  They spend a good bit of time unpacking the amazing kinky performances we’d seen at Twisted Windows the previous night, as well as […]

Podcaster, Sex educator and prolific pornographer Tristan Taormino, who also happens to be our guest co-host for our upcoming Desire Resort takeover in November, joins us to talk about kinky sex and how she likes it. This episode was originally intended mostly be about ethical pornography, on which Tristan is also an expert, but we […]

We talk about some of the highlights of our sexy times in San Francisco, including an excellent evening spent at an erotic dinner hosted by Our Gourmet Life Chef Chris Hubbard   Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints…on every order you ever make!   […]

While in San Francisco, we sat down with Midori to talk about using better communication to make hot play happen and get more out of it. Topics include turning “no” into something positive and learning to share your desires in a way that empowers you. Make Hot Play Happen with Marcia B. & Midori: Coming up in […]

We’ve been doing some traveling this year, and part of that has been visiting new and interesting fetish clubs. In this episode we talk about our time at: Our sexy friend Cooper S Beckett from Life on the Swingset joins us to talk about (and read from) his swinging new novel, “Approaching The Swingularity” Click below […]

We’ve been doing some traveling this year, and part of that has been visiting new and interesting fetish clubs. In this episode we talk about our time at: Galleria Domain 2 in Chicago Choice Social Club in Rhode Island We were also honored to be present for the closing night of Alter Ego in Rhode […]

In this supersize episode, Shara and I join our friends from Life on the Swingset to reminisce about our Desire Resort takeover back in November. This is also a special Swingset episode, as it marks the show’s seventh anniversary! The content of this episode was originally released as Life On The Swingset Episode 279.   […]

During our trip to Fetish Fair Fleamarket, we had the opportunity to sit down with legendary kink educator Midori for one of our favorite interviews ever. This episode includes the conclusion of that interview, in which we talk about ForteFemme, Midori’s weekend intensive on female dominance. But, we start by discussing Shara’s newfound desire to be gang-topped […]

During our trip to Fetish Fair Fleamarket, we had the opportunity to sit down with legendary kink educator Midori for one of our favorite interviews ever. This episode includes most of that interview (more to come next week). We talk about lead/follow archetypes that can assist us deconstructing our kinky tendencies and desires in a way that […]

Our long-time medical advisor finally joins us on the show to continue a discussion about PTSD & BDSM play that began a few episodes ago with a listener question. Sadly, due to some technical issues, we had to use the Skype recording of our interview and thus do not have the benefit of the new […]

After a crazy holiday season, we ring in the new year with a new studio setup, and we hope you love the new sound as much as we do. Please let us know what you think! Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints…on every order […]

On November 9th, the disco at Desire Resort became a dungeon for the first time and it was an amazing night. Shara and I could never have pulled it off without the support and assistance of several other kinky couples who acted as both dungeon masters and service tops all evening. This episode was about […]

A submissive from Down Under asks questions about navigating the realm of BDSM when you have PTSD from sexual and physical abuse, including looking for a dominant online. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints…on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by […]

A listener question about orgasms on command inspired an impromptu recording in paradise, which later inspired (and is included in) this episode. Honestly, it was a blast to both record and edit this one. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints…on every order you ever […]

Jim from Char Travel joins us for this special episode about the upcoming (nearly 100% booked!) Desire Resort takeover in November Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints…on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On […]

For our first episode in a while we talk a bit about Shara’s fondness for erotic asphyxiation, as well as a listener question about striking out at swing clubs that Ginger and Prof were kind enough to answer with us. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at […]

This year for Swingset Takes Desire we hosted a bunch of kinky events, and a great time was had by all. This discussion-group style episode was recorded live on our last full day at the resort, full of reminiscence of good times had and great ideas for next year’s full-resort takeover. Listen to this episode […]

Ginger & The Prof join us again to pitch in discussing some kinky listener mail topics, including getting the confidence up to attend your first munch, dealing with sexual monotony when your kinky play becomes so predictable it feels like vanilla sex all over again, kinky threesome concerns, and performance anxiety after prostate removal surgery. […]

Ginger & The Prof from Life on the Swingset (and their own upcoming podcast Intellectual Foreplay–we can’t wait!) join us to reminisce about our trip to Desire in April…and plot what sorts of trouble we can cause on our upcoming trips in November 2015 and April 2016. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will […]

A listener asks for advice on recovering from a rape she suffered three years ago. We interview two other sexual abuse/assault survivors who share their experiences with recovery. Interview Guests: Dawn Serra is a sex an intimacy coach who has personal experience with rape and sexual assault. She is also co-host of the Sex Gets Real […]

This episode was recorded at CatalystCon in front of a live studio audience. We have a great conversation with David Mandell, creator of the Private Gym Pelvic Muscle Exercise System For Men, on this revolutionary (and FDA registered) system for improving sexual performance and overall male sexual health through simple exercises that any guy can learn. Follow […]

A listener request for advice on bondage gear that doesn’t cost a fortune led us on a winding road that ended with a new sponsor! This episode begins with a discussion of “pervertables” that can be found in various vanilla venues, then transitions into a discussion of the awesome gear we got from Extreme Restraints […]

Dee Dennis joins us to talk about CatalystCon, a conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. Follow @DeeDennis and @CatalystCon on Twitter Enter code “DARKAGE” at registration for 10 bucks off! Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we […]

Cooper Beckett joins us to talk about his new book, My Life On The Swingset, which chronicles the ups, downs and sideways shimmies of his first six years practicing ethical non-monogamy, in a way that really brings the reader along for the ride. Ebook now available, hard copies to be released by March. Click Below […]