Explaining family law

Working with a lawyer during separation can be daunting, especially if it’s your first time.In this episode, Tim and Jen share their top tips for making the process smoother and more effective. They break down three key areas: preparing for your first meeting, communicating efficiently with your lawyer, and collaborating on documents.The discussion covers practical advice on setting meeting expectations, organising information, managing communication preferences, and handling financial disclosure.Listeners will learn how to personalise their approach, reduce costs, and make the legal process less overwhelming, turning a challenging time into a more manageable experience.Find out more how our family lawyers can help you through separation: https://www.mills-reeve.com/sectors-and-services/services-for-individuals/family-and-children/divorce-and-separation/

Every January, headlines scream about a surge in break‑ups after the holidays – but is the first Monday really the tipping point for marriages?In this episode, Tim and Jen tackle one of the biggest myths in the media: Divorce Day. They discuss the notion that the first Monday after the Christmas and New Year break sees a surge of divorce enquiries.Analysing Mills & Reeve data from recent years, they reveal that January is not necessarily the busiest month for divorce enquiries. The conversation covers data patterns, media influence, and the thoughtful decision-making process behind divorce.

Navigating divorce is never easy, but when multiple jurisdictions are involved, the process can quickly become overwhelming.In this episode, Tim and Jen are joined by Chloe Oudiz, a divorce coach and author of 'Don't Screw Up Your Divorce.' Chloe shares her extensive background, including her experience as a divorcee navigating multiple jurisdictions and cross-border parenting arrangements.Chloe explains how these experiences led her to become a divorce coach and discusses the three pillars of her 'divorce differently' methodology: planning and preparation, negotiation skills, and deescalating conflict. The conversation also covers the unique challenges faced by international couples and the importance of communication throughout the divorce process and beyond.Listeners can expect practical advice on how to approach divorce as a less destructive and more family-centred opportunity for a fresh start.Find out more about Chloe Oudiz on her website: www.thedivorceandseparationcoach.com. You can book a free initial call with Chloe: https://links.ellacrm.com/widget/booking/4UBB8xyshvdFSywoTRzOTo find out more about Mills & Reeve and how our family lawyers can help, visit our website: https://www.mills-reeve.com/sectors-and-services/services-for-individuals/family-and-children/

Divorce and separation can bring a storm of emotions -guilt, shame, grief, anger, and exhaustion - that make even simple decisions feel impossible.In this episode, Tim and Jen sit down with Petra Brunzell, a seasoned divorce coach with over 20 years of experience, to explore the emotional landscape of relationship breakdowns. Petra shares her personal journey through a high-conflict divorce and explains how coaching provides a supportive, forward-looking space to process feelings, regain confidence, and rebuild life after separation.The discussion covers the most common emotional hurdles, from the shock and grief of lost futures to the challenge of co-parenting and the struggle to find a new identity. Petra offers practical strategies for managing overwhelming emotions, setting boundaries, and supporting children through change. The episode also highlights how legal and emotional support professionals can collaborate to guide clients through the process and provides tips for choosing the right support team.Whether you’re considering separation, in the midst of divorce, or helping someone through it, this episode delivers honest insights and actionable advice for navigating the emotional side of starting over.Find out more about Petra and how she can help: https://www.divorcecoachingpb.co.uk/Find out more about how our family lawyers can help you navigate your divorce: https://www.mills-reeve.com/sectors-and-services/services-for-individuals/family-and-children/divorce-and-separation/

Divorce and separation can unleash a wave of emotions - guilt, shame, grief, anger, and even exhaustion - that often catch people off guard and make decision-making feel overwhelming.In this episode, Tim and Jen are joined by Julie de Ruiter, an experienced divorce coach and registered psychotherapeutic counsellor, to unpack the emotional realities of relationship breakdown.Julie shares how counselling offers a safe, neutral space to process difficult feelings, explore options, and move forward, whether you’re unsure about separating, struggling with the fallout, or rebuilding your life after the dust settles. The conversation dives into the most common emotional challenges people face, from the burden of guilt and fear of failure to the grief of lost dreams and the fatigue that comes with navigating change.Julie explains how tailored support can help individuals and couples find clarity, set healthy boundaries, and support children through transition. You’ll also learn how legal and counselling professionals can work together to guide clients and get practical advice for finding a therapist who fits your needs. If you or someone you care about is going through separation, this episode offers honest insights and empowering strategies for facing the emotional side of divorce. Find out more about Julie: https://www.juliederuiter.co.uk/

With divorce often bringing financial uncertainty and anxiety, many people wonder when and how to seek the right support.In this episode, Tim and Jen are joined by Steve Hennessy, a chartered financial planner and Resolution-accredited IFA at Beeswax Wealth Management, who brings extensive experience guiding clients through the financial side of divorce.Together, they explore the crucial role of financial advice alongside legal guidance, debunking the myth that you should wait until the end of the process to get help. The team discusses how early involvement from a financial advisor can help you understand your priorities, avoid common pitfalls (like pension sharing misconceptions), and build confidence in your financial future.They also highlight the importance of teamwork between legal and financial professionals, explain the role of a financial neutral in mediation, and share practical tips for choosing the right advisor for your situation.Whether you’re just starting the divorce process or supporting someone who is, this episode offers essential insights and actionable advice for navigating financial decisions with clarity and confidence.Find out more about Steve: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stevenhennessy/https://beeswaxwealth.co.uk/

Recently named as Resolution's Firm of the Year, Mills & Reeve Senior Associates Ellen Wilkinson and Matthew Saunderson join hosts Tim Whitney and Jen Curtis to discuss what Resolution means to them and their clients. In this episode, they explore what Resolution stands for, the benefits a client gets from using a Resolution lawyer and how Resolution's code of practice fundamentally re-shapes the way family law professionals support separating families.The discussion covers the evolution of Resolution, its role in policy change (including its successful campaign for no-fault divorce and its ongoing campaign for law reform for unmarried couples), the importance of constructive language and how being a part of the Resolution network benefits clients. Ellen and Matthew share practical examples of how following the code leads to better outcomes, especially for families with children, and highlight the resources available to those navigating separation.Find out more about Resolution: https://resolution.org.uk/Find out more about Ellen: https://www.mills-reeve.com/people/ellen-wilkinsonFind out more about Matthew: https://www.mills-reeve.com/people/matthew-saunderson

Adopting a child from overseas is usually associated with celebrities. But is it an option available to ordinary people?In this episode, Tim and Jennifer are joined by Mills & Reeve Senior Associate Abigail Pearse, who specialises in child abduction, to demystify the complex world of international child adoption. Together, they explore the different legal routes for international adoption, including The Hague Convention process, designated list adoptions, and the recognition of foreign adoptions.Abigail explains the critical importance of understanding immigration status, the risks of inadvertently committing a criminal offence, and why early legal and immigration advice is essential.Listeners will gain insight into the step-by-step process for adopting internationally, the statutory criteria, and the practical hurdles - such as lengthy timelines, costs, and the emotional impact of home suitability assessments. The episode also highlights complications like birth parent consent, country-specific restrictions, and the significance of the child’s best interests in court decisions. Packed with practical guidance, this episode is a must-listen for anyone considering international adoption or supporting families through this intricate legal journey.Find out more about Abi: https://www.mills-reeve.com/people/abigail-pearse/Find out more about our adoption services: https://www.mills-reeve.com/sectors-and-services/services-for-individuals/family-and-children/surrogacy-and-fertility-law/adoption/

Taking a child abroad without the other parent’s consent or not returning a child from abroad after an agreed holiday, is classed as child abduction. But is child abduction a criminal offence?In this episode, Tim and Jen are joined by Mills & Reeve Partner Zoe Fleetwood, a specialist in child abduction and international children law.Together, they explore the myth that child abduction is always a criminal offence, clarify the legal definitions, and explain the processes involved when a child is taken or kept abroad without consent. The team discusses the role of The Hague Convention, what happens when countries aren’t signatories, and the practical steps parents can take if they fear abduction or need to secure a child’s return.Listeners will hear real-life examples, learn about the importance of early risk assessment, and discover the options for mediation and urgent court action. The episode also covers the court process, available defences, timelines, and the support legal aid can provide - offering clear, practical guidance for families navigating these complex international issues.Find out more about our child abdcution services: https://www.mills-reeve.com/sectors-and-services/services-for-individuals/family-and-children/children/child-abduction/Find out more about Zoe: https://www.mills-reeve.com/people/zoe-fleetwood/

With more families living across borders, questions about moving children internationally after separation are increasingly common. But can parents move their children abroad without the child’s other parent permission?In this episode, Tim and Jen are joined by Mills & Reeve Associate Annie Wogel, who specialises in international family law. Together, they tackle the myth that a parent can move abroad with their child without the other parent's consent and explain the legal requirements for international relocation.The discussion covers why parents consider moving overseas, the importance of early communication and mediation, what the courts look for when deciding these cases, and the practical steps needed to plan a move. The team also outlines the court process, timelines, and when to seek legal advice, providing essential guidance for parents facing international relocation decisions.

When it comes to an international divorce and there are connections to multiple countries, choosing the best jurisdiction for financial matters is crucial. But is London really the divorce capital of the world and the best place for financial settlements?In this episode, Tim and Jen are joined by Mills & Reeve Partner Melissa Lesson, an expert on financial claims for international divorces. Melissa draws on her cross-border experience to bust the myth that London is always the best place to divorce, explaining how jurisdiction depends on factors like habitual residence, domicile, and financial circumstances.Together, they explore the complexities of competing jurisdictions, the impact of Brexit, and the practical and strategic steps international couples should consider - from early legal advice in multiple countries to understanding enforcement challenges and the role of marital agreements.Whether you’re navigating a cross-border relationship or simply curious about how international divorce works, this episode offers essential insights and top tips for protecting your future.To find out more about our international divorce lawyers visit: https://www.mills-reeve.com/sectors-and-services/services-for-individuals/family-and-children/international-family-law/Find out how Melissa can help you: https://www.mills-reeve.com/people/melissa-lesson/

With international families on the rise and global mobility at an all-time high, more couples are finding themselves with connections to more than one country.But what happens when an international marriage breaks down? Does the country where you got married automatically handle your divorce, or is it all about where you live now?In this episode, Tim and Jen are joined by Mills & Reeve Principal Associate Ciara Moore, an expert in high-value and international family law.Together, they bust the myth that you can always divorce in the country where you married, and unpack the real legal criteria - such habitual residence and domicile -that determine which court has jurisdiction. The team also explores the complexities of competing jurisdictions, the impact of Brexit, and the practical and strategic steps international couples should consider. Whether you’re navigating cross-border relationships or just curious about how international divorce works, this episode offers essential insights and top tips for protecting your future.Find out more about how we can help you on our website: https://www.mills-reeve.com/sectors-and-services/services-for-individuals/family-and-children/international-family-law/Get to know Ciara: https://www.mills-reeve.com/people/ciara-moore/

When a couple separates, splitting their finances can be quite difficult, especially when it comes to pensions, as they can be one of the most valuable assets on divorce and are often overlooked.In this episode, Tim and Jen are joined by Mills & Reeve Principal Associate, David Hickmott. David has extensive experience in advising on complex financial matters, including pensions.Together they discuss pensions and divorce: the importance of disclosing pensions and obtaining a cash equivalent transfer value, how the courts handle pensions, what clients’ priorities should be, pension valuations, the role of a pensions on divorce expert (PODE) and the benefits of mediation.Find out more about how we can help you on our website: https://www.mills-reeve.com/sectors-and-services/services-for-individuals/family-and-children/divorce-and-separation/dealing-with-pensions-in-divorce/Find out more about David: https://www.mills-reeve.com/people/david-hickmott/Resources: Pensions on divorce: everything you need to know - https://www.mills-reeve.com/blogs/family-and-children/march-2023/pensions-on-divorce-everything-you-need-to-know/International pensions – tips and traps in international divorce cases involving pensions: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-M1MAVeyGzs&t=1s

Farming is not just a business. It’s also a lifestyle and culture, making it different from other family businesses and subject to various market and natural factors. So when a farming couple separates, how are the assets split? What should it be considered?In this episode, Tim and Jen are joined by Mills & Reeve Principal Associate, Ania Tarasiewicz. Ania specialises in complex family law cases involving agricultural and property sectors.Together they discuss farms on divorce: the complexity of divorce cases involving farms, what the client’s priorities should be, the court’s approach, the importance of financial disclosure and when to involve experts, and the benefits of non-court dispute resolution.Find out more about our farms on divorce experience on our website: https://www.familylawsolicitors.org/separating/separating-married-couples/finances/farms-on-divorce/Find out more about Ania and how she can help you: https://www.mills-reeve.com/people/ania-tarasiewicz/

For business owners, divorce can be a particularly difficult time, especially regarding the daily operations when both parties or other family members are involved, leaving them wondering what will happen to the business on divorce. Can the courts order a sale of the business?In this episode, Tim and Jen are joined by Mills & Reeve Principal Associate, Andrew Moore. Andrew specialises in financial settlements following divorce, particularly when there are businesses involved. Together they discuss businesses on divorce: how can business come up in a divorce, what the client’s priorities should be, the court’s approach, planning opportunities and the benefits of non-court dispute resolution.To find out more about business on divorce visit: https://www.mills-reeve.com/sectors-and-services/services-for-individuals/family-and-children/divorce-and-separation/dealing-with-businesses-in-divorce/

Family trusts are established for a wide variety of reasons. They can be part of a wider family strategy of wealth protection for the tax-efficient transfer of assets between generations, set up to hold property assets or be part of the overall structure of a family business or investment company. But what happens when a couple separates and trusts are involved?In this episode, Tim and Jen are joined by Mills & Reeve Partner, Frances Bailey. Frances specialises in financial settlement on divorce with a particular interest in trust structures.Together they discuss trusts: how they can come up in a divorce, the types of trust structures, the role of trustees in divorce cases, the court’s approach and the benefits of non-court dispute resolution.Find out more about trusts and divorce and how we can help on our website: https://www.mills-reeve.com/sectors-and-services/services-for-individuals/family-and-children/divorce-and-separation/divorce-and-family-trusts/You can also learn more about Frances and her work: https://www.mills-reeve.com/people/frances-bailey/Follow us on LinkedIn for more updates https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/mills-reeve-family-and-children, and don’t forget to subscribe and rate our podcast.

Many believe that when unmarried couples live together after a few years they become common law spouses and that the rules of married couples apply to them. But do common law marriages receive the same tax exemptions as married couples when their partner dies?In this episode, Tim and Jen are joined by Mills & Reeve Private Client Principal Associate, Emma Geale. Emma advises on a wide range of succession planning issues, including complex tax regimes, wills, trusts, and powers of attorney.Together they discuss inheritance tax and unmarried couples: what it is, the current tax rates and allowances, the impact on unmarried couples, the importance of wills and the considerations for property ownership.Find out more about how we can help on our website: https://www.mills-reeve.com/sectors-and-services/services-for-individuals/family-and-children/unmarried-couples/inheritance-tax-for-unmarried-couples/

When couples separate amicably, they often look for ways to make the process as smooth and cost-effective as possible. This can involve exploring various legal options and approaches that can help them reach a fair and mutually agreeable resolution without unnecessary conflict. But do they have to instruct separate lawyers when going through divorce or separation? In this episode, Tim and Jen are joined by Mills & Reeve Partner, Mediator and Arbitrator Alison Bull. Together they discuss the one lawyer two clients model: what it is, how it works, the benefits, risks and limitations of this model as well as some successful examples.You can find out more about our separate well with one lawyer service on our webpage: https://www.mills-reeve.com/sectors-and-services/services-for-individuals/family-and-children/alternatives-to-court/separate-well-with-one-lawyer-reaching-an-agreement/

When couples look to separate without going to court, mediation is a well-known option. However, how many have heard of hybrid mediation? By bringing together the best of both the family and the civil mediation models, hybrid mediation allows for lawyer support in the mediation room. But is it just a more expensive way of mediating? In this episode, Tim and Jen are joined by Suzanne Kingston. Suzanne is an experienced mediator, arbitrator and collaborative lawyer, with expertise in resolving complex financial issues and children matters. Together they discuss hybrid mediation: what it is, the difference between classic and hybrid mediation, the process and its advantages. You can find out more about mediation and our out-of-court services by visiting our website: www.mills-reeve.com/sectors-and-services/services-for-individuals/family-and-children/alternatives-to-court/

Family arbitration is a great option for those who want to settle their case outside of court using an arbitrator. But is arbitration just for the wealthy who don’t want their cases reported in the press?In this episode, Tim and Jen are joined by Mills & Reeve Partner Jane Ingleby, from our Leeds office. Together they discuss family arbitration: what it is, its benefits, the process, its limitations and how best to choose an arbitrator.Learn more about arbitration and how we can help here: https://www.mills-reeve.com/sectors-and-services/services-for-individuals/family-and-children/alternatives-to-court/family-arbitration/You can also find out more about Jane Ingleby by visiting our website: https://www.mills-reeve.com/people/jane-ingleby/

Resolving disputes without going to court is a viable option for couples who want a more amicable approach to agreeing to the terms of their divorce. Mediation is one of the most popular approaches, and child inclusive mediation is a great option for couples with children, as it allows children to have their voices heard.But when parents disagree about what they want, should mediators ask their children?In this episode, Tim and Jen are joined by Mills & Reeve Partner, Mediator and Arbitrator Alison Bull. Together they discuss child inclusive mediation: what it is, the process, the importance of children’s voices and practical considerations.Listen back to episode 2 where Tim and Jen discuss family mediation. You can also find out more about mediation and how we can help here: https://www.mills-reeve.com/sectors-and-services/services-for-individuals/family-and-children/alternatives-to-court/family-mediation/You can also find out more about Alison Bull by visiting our website: https://www.mills-reeve.com/people/alison-bull/

From 7 to 11 October, the family and children team at Mills & Reeve is running Children Law Awareness Week, a week dedicated to raising awareness about children law and its impact on families.During this week, we will be supporting the team, with bonus episodes, and in this episode, we share some highlights from episode 2, where Tim and Jen discuss family mediation and how it can help resolving disputes around children.

From 7 to 11 October, the family and children team at Mills & Reeve is running Children Law Awareness Week, a week dedicated to raising awareness about children law and its impact on families.During this week, we will be supporting the team with bonus episodes. In this episode, Tim and Jen hand the reigns to Mills & Reeve Partner Jane Ingleby and Trainee Solicitor Abbie Green, where they go over the options for non-court dispute resolution when there are issues about children on separation.To find out more about our services and how we can help, please visit our website https://www.mills-reeve.com/services/family-and-children/children, and follow us on LinkedIn for more updates https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/mills-reeve-family-and-children.

From 7 to 11 October, the family and children team at Mills & Reeve is running Children Law Awareness Week, a week dedicated to raising awareness about children law and its impact on families.During this week, we will be supporting the team, with bonus episodes, and in this episode, we share some highlights from episode 7, where Jen, Tim and their colleague Claire Burton discussed child arrangements and reaching an agreement or going to court about your children following a separation. To find out more about our services and how we can help, please visit our website https://www.mills-reeve.com/services/family-and-children/children, and follow us on LinkedIn for more updates https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/mills-reeve-family-and-children.

Unmarried couples are the fastest-growing family type in the UK. So with couples deciding not to get married and instead buying property and living together, what happens to the house if the relationship breaks down? Is signing the sale contract all they need to do?In the first episode of series 2 of the Explaining family law podcast, Tim and Jen are joined by Mills & Reeve Principal Associate Sue Brookes. Together they discuss the importance of cohabitation agreements, their benefits and the role they can play in protecting assets in the event of relationship breakdown.To find out more about cohabitation agreements and how we can help you visit: www.mills-reeve.com/services/family-and-children/cohabitation/cohabitation-agreementsFollow us on LinkedIn for more updates https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/mills-reeve-family-and-children, and don’t forget to subscribe and rate our podcast.

Join hosts Tim and Jen as they conclude the first series of the Explaining Family Law podcast. In this episode, they address common questions that have emerged from previous discussions and provide a sneak peek into what’s ahead for the next series. Questions covered:Do I need a lawyer?Can I get divorced I don’t know where the other person lives? What are the costs of getting divorced?What happens to our pets when we separate? Does one parent get favoured over the other when it comes to childcare arrangements?Who can apply to have contact with a child?We hope you have enjoyed the podcast so far. Follow us on LinkedIn for more updates https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/mills-reeve-family-and-children, and don’t forget to subscribe and rate our podcast.To find out more about our family lawyers and Mills & Reeve, please visit: https://www.mills-reeve.com/services/family-and-children

According to the ONS, 51% of children were born to unmarried mothers in 2021, the highest since records began in 1845. However, when unmarried couples with children separate, is the only thing to sort out child maintenance through the government-run Child Maintenance Service?  In this episode, Jen Curtis is joined by Mills & Reeve Associate Stephanie Hawthorn office and Principal Associate David Hickmott. Together they unravel the importance of a piece of law often simply referred to as Schedule 1 (Children Act 1989), which claims may not be accepted by the Child Maintenance Service (CMS), how financial provision for children is calculated and the benefits of resolving disputes outside of the court room.If you'd like to find out more about child maintenance and our children lawyers, visit: https://www.mills-reeve.com/services/family-and-children/children/child-maintenance. Follow us on LinkedIn for more updates https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/mills-reeve-family-and-children.

Recent figures reveal that cohabiting (unmarried) couples are the fastest growing family type in the UK. In 2021, cohabiting couples accounted for 24.3% of families in the UK and this is set to rise further. Unmarried couples are often referred to as common law spouses and there is the expectation that, if the relationship breaks down, the couple can expect the same financial treatment as divorcing couples. But is it true?In this episode, Tim and Jen discuss unmarried couples and property ownership. They explain the different types of property ownership, what couples moving in together need to think about when only one of them owns the house, the increasing importance of the Bank of Family and Friends as well as how cohabitation agreements can help avoid misunderstandings in the future.If you'd like to find out more about our cohabitation lawyers, visit: https://www.mills-reeve.com/services/family-and-children/cohabitation/property-rights-of-cohabiting-couplesFollow us on LinkedIn for more updates https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/mills-reeve-family-and-children.

Despite surrogacy being available in England and Wales, many UK couples find themselves looking for alternatives overseas. There may be more availability of surrogates, more affordable fertility treatment or the option to have a pre-birth order. Likewise, couples from overseas may look to the UK for a surrogacy arrangement.In this episode, Tim and Jen are joined by Mills & Reeve Head of Fertility Law, Colin Rogerson. Together they discuss international surrogacy arrangements, parental orders, the most popular destinations for surrogacy, the challenges parents-to-be need to be aware of and the international recognition of parentage.If you'd like to find out more about our surrogacy lawyers, visit: https://www.mills-reeve.com/services/family-and-children/surrogacy-and-fertility-law/surrogacyFollow us on LinkedIn for more updates https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/mills-reeve-family-and-children.

Over the past decade, the number of parents opting for surrogacy in England and Wales has nearly quadrupled. However, there’s a common misconception that surrogacy is illegal in the UK.In this episode, Tim is joined by Mills & Reeve Head of Fertility Law, Colin Rogerson and Principal Associate Rose-Marie Drury. Together, they discuss surrogacy arrangements in the UK, how things like expenses are dealt with and the importance of parental orders. They also share their top tips for surrogates and parents-to-be to successfully navigate the surrogacy process.If you'd like to find out more about our surrogacy lawyers, visit: https://www.mills-reeve.com/services/family-and-children/surrogacy-and-fertility-law/surrogacyFollow us on LinkedIn for more updates https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/mills-reeve-family-and-children.Glossary:Surrogate – the person who carries a pregnancy for another individual or coupleIntended parents – the individual or couple who intend to be the parents of the childGestational surrogacy – the surrogate is not genetically related to the child e.g. their egg is not usedTraditional surrogacy – the surrogate’s egg is used and they are genetically related to the child

The Crime Survey for England and Wales estimates that 2.1 million people aged 16 and over experienced domestic abuse in the year ending to March 2023. But does domestic abuse have to involve violent or physical abuse?In this episode, Tim is joined by Mills & Reeve Principal Associates Claire Burton and Claudia Gilham.  Together they discuss what we mean when we talk about domestic abuse, how the media portrays victims and perpetrators, what to do if you find yourself in an abusive relationship and how domestic abuse impacts children.If you'd like to find out more about how we can help you, visit: https://www.mills-reeve.com/services/family-and-children/domestic-abuse or check out the resources below.Resources:Domestic Abuse Act 2021 - https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2021/17/contents/enactedClaire’s blog: “Netflix and Chill” – How film and binge-watching can impact your understanding of domestic abuse - https://www.mills-reeve.com/insights/blogs/family-and-children/april-2023/how-film-can-impact-understanding-domestic-abuseWomen's Aid - https://www.womensaid.org.uk/Refuge: https://refuge.org.uk/

When couples with children separate, the main concern revolves around child arrangements. The perception amongst mothers and fathers is that mothers always get custody of the children after separation, but is it true?In this episode, Tim and Jen are joined by Mills & Reeve Principal Associate Claire Burton, discussing child arrangements and reaching an agreement or going to court about your children following a separation. Claire has expertise in cases involving children and where there are allegations of alcohol, drugs and domestic abuse. You can find more about Claire and how she can support you here: https://www.mills-reeve.com/people/claire-burtonTo find out more about our children lawyers, you can visit our website https://www.mills-reeve.com/services/family-and-children/childrenFollow us on LinkedIn for more updates https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/mills-reeve-family-and-children.

Dealing with finances during a divorce can be quite complex and will often involve going to court to deal with the asset split. We’ve all seen TV shows portraying what happens in court during a divorce case, where the opposite party comes up with last-minute evidence. But is this the same in real life?In this episode, Tim and Jen will discuss the process a couple will follow when trying to divide their assets on divorce, as specifically what happens when a court application is made.To find out more about finances on divorce and splitting assets please visit: https://www.mills-reeve.com/services/family-and-children/divorce/financial-settlementFollow us on LinkedIn for more updates https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/mills-reeve-family-and-children, and don’t forget to subscribe and rate our podcast.

Dealing with finances on divorce is often the most complicated part of a divorce. Many people assume that in a divorce the financial assets are split 50/50. But is that true?In this episode, Tim and Jen demystify the 50/50 asset split myth and discuss how the courts treat finances on divorce: what is the role of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973, what are the orders the court can make and what are the different stages of sorting out your finances during a divorce.To find out more about divorce and financial settlement and how our team can help please visit: https://www.mills-reeve.com/services/family-and-children/divorce/financial-settlement Follow us on LinkedIn for more updates https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/mills-reeve-family-and-children, and don’t forget to subscribe and rate our podcast.

Getting divorced is an unfamiliar, unsettling and upsetting process for many people. But since the introduction of the “No fault” divorce laws, does the reason for ending a marriage impact the divorce proceedings?In this episode, Tim and Jen discuss divorce: the process of legally ending a marriage in England and Wales, the requirements, the court application and timings, and what to consider. To find out more about getting divorced and how our team can help please visit: https://www.mills-reeve.com/services/family-and-children/divorceFollow us on LinkedIn for more updates, and don’t forget to subscribe and rate our podcast.

Are prenups unromantic? In this episode, Tim and Jen discuss prenuptial agreements: what misconceptions there are, the benefits, what you need to consider and how to introduce them to your partner.You can read more about how to introduce the topic of prenups to your partner here: Next generation focus: Discussing marital agreementsTo find out more about our prenuptial agreements and how our team can help visit our website.Follow us on LinkedIn for more updates, and don’t forget to subscribe and rate our podcast.

In this episode, Tim and Jen discuss mediation. What is mediation and is it really only suitable for simple and straightforward cases? Tim, as well as being a family lawyer, is an accredited family mediator and has a wide range of experience mediating both children and financial issues. Jen will approach this topic from a family lawyer's perspective and how lawyers can support their clients through the mediation process. To find out more about our mediation services, visit our website https://www.mills-reeve.com/services/family-and-children/separate-well-together/mediation.Follow us on LinkedIn for more updates https://www.linkedin.com/showcase/mills-reeve-family-and-children.

In this short episode, our hosts Tim Whitney and Jen Curtis introduce themselves and talk a bit more about their job and their journey into family law.You can find out more and get in touch with our hosts by visiting our website:Jennifer Curtis Tim WhitneyFollow us on LinkedIn for more updates.