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FATHERHOOD VOICES
by Edward Rodarte
Welcome to Fatherhood: Breaking The Toxic Cycle where conversations of healing and growth occur. This podcast will showcase brave and heartfelt fathers as they step into the light to share their transformative journeys of acknowledging and overcoming their past mistakes. Join us as these fathers courageously open up about their traumas, regrets, and the moments they wish they could redo. Through honest conversations with their children, they confront the pain, explore the lessons learned, and work towards rebuilding broken connections. Tune in to witness the profound healing that unfolds when fathers and children come together to find understanding, forgiveness, and the path forward. Fatherhood: Breaking The Toxic Cycle is a testament to the power of vulnerability, redemption, and the unbreakable bond between a father and his children.
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EP 73: Three Months After Nearly Dying… Here’s What I Learned
Three months ago, Edward was in surgery unsure if he would survive. Today, he’s sitting down to reflect on gratitude, healing, mindset, and what it truly means to move forward into a new year.In this first 2026 episode of Fatherhood Voices, Edward and Alyssa talk about:• Recovering physically, mentally, and emotionally after trauma• Gratitude for life, movement, and everyday moments• Setting realistic vs. unrealistic goals• How to avoid burnout in 2026• Time management, accountability, and protecting your peace• Meditation, energy clearing, and spiritual grounding• Why not everyone is ready to “start fresh” in January• Giving yourself grace during hard seasons• Life being measured in seasons — not calendar yearsThis episode is raw, honest, and meant for anyone who feels behind, overwhelmed, or unsure how to start again.You are not late. You are not broken. You are exactly where you need to be.🎙 Fatherhood Voices is about breaking cycles, healing generational trauma, and having the conversations most families never have.📘 Edward also announces his upcoming book:“F*ck Average: Life’s Real Playbook” — coming April 1st.If you’d like a free PDF copy, message us on social media or comment below.
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EP 72: He Survived the Impossible: A Father’s Near-Death Story, Mindset, and the Fight to Live
This episode is one of the most powerful and emotional conversations we’ve ever shared.On October 10th, my dad was in a horrific accident that left him fighting for his life multiple surgeries, internal bleeding, intubation, sedation, and moments where we didn’t know if he would survive. For hours, he was missing. No calls. No updates. No answers. Just fear.In this raw and unfiltered episode, we sit down for the first time to talk through everything what really happened that day, what he remembers while sedated, the moment he almost gave up, and the mindset that brought him back from the edge.
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EP 71: I Watched My Father Fight for His Life… Here’s What No One Tells You.
In this raw and personal episode, Alyssa shares the story of the day everything changed when her father, co-host Edward Darty, was rushed into the ICU after a life-threatening accident.What followed was the hardest week of her life: hospital updates, fear, confusion, advocating for her dad, supporting her family, and trying to hold herself together while everything was falling apart.This episode is about love, vulnerability, and what it truly means to show up for your family when life hits without warning. It’s a reminder to cherish the people you love, to prepare for the unexpected, and to take care of yourself even when you feel like you can’t.If you or someone you love has ever gone through a medical emergency, a crisis, or a moment that changes your entire world, you’re not alone.Hold your loved ones tighter today.
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EP 70: Breaking Cycles, Building Legacies Jose Bonilla on Fatherhood, Healing, and Transformation
In this powerful episode of Fatherhood Voices, Edward sits down with his longtime brother and friend, Jose Bonilla. From growing up with scarcity and the impact it had on his mindset, to losing 75 pounds and quitting cigarettes cold turkey, Jose shares his raw journey of healing, fatherhood, and personal growth.Together they unpack how childhood memories shape the way we parent, why the energy we bring into our homes matters more than words, and how traditions like father–child dates can rebuild trust and connection. Jose also opens up about his creative side as a hip-hop artist, his real estate career, and how plant medicine shifted everything for his marriage and family.If you’ve ever struggled with being present, breaking generational cycles, or wondering what legacy you’re leaving behind, this episode will give you both practical wisdom and deep inspiration.
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EP 69: Healing Father Adult Child Relationships: Where to Begin?
In this episode of Fatherhood Voices, we dive into one of the toughest but most important journeys a dad can take the process of healing a strained relationship with an adult child. From taking accountability to opening the door for honest conversation, we explore the first steps fathers can take to rebuild trust and reconnect. If you’ve ever wondered how to bridge the gap, repair old wounds, and create a healthier future with your child, this conversation will give you the tools and hope to begin.
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EP 68: Advice From an 8-Year-Old: Why the World Needs to Listen to Killian
On this heartwarming episode of Fatherhood Voices, Edward and Alyssa sit down with their 8-year-old cousin Killian—YouTuber, future police officer, and wise beyond his years. From why it’s okay for boys to cry to how parents should argue away from their kids, Killian drops truth bombs with a purity and clarity that’ll leave you speechless. If you’ve forgotten what really matters in parenting, childhood, and life—this is your reminder.
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EP 67: From Mexican Mafia Hitman to Family Man: Art Blajos on Fatherhood, Faith & Redemption
In this powerful episode of Fatherhood Voices – a fatherhood podcast dedicated to exploring redemption, transformation, and family – we sit down with Art Blajos, a former Mexican Mafia hitman turned devoted Christian father and speaker. Art shares his extraordinary journey of redemption, fatherhood, and faith. He opens up about growing up without a father figure and how childhood trauma and the absence of positive role models led him into gang life. He recounts the violence of the streets and prison yard, including 17 years behind bars and four on death row, and the miraculous moment of hope in a jail cell that changed everything. This conversation is a testament to breaking the cycle of violence and the healing power of faith, family, and personal transformation. Key Topics Covered:Fatherless Beginnings & Gang Life: Art recalls his painful childhood in broken homes and how a lack of a father figure drove him to seek belonging in a gang. He explains how he became involved with the Mexican Mafia and how that life of chaos and crime consumed his youth.Prison, Violence & Facing Death: We discuss Art’s 17 years in prison – including four years on death row – where he served as an enforcer and hitman behind bars. He reflects on the brutal violence he witnessed and inflicted, and the emptiness it left inside him.Faith and Redemption: Art describes the miraculous turning point when he embraced Christianity in his darkest hour. He reveals how his newfound faith sparked a profound personal transformation from a gang enforcer to a man of God, giving him hope and a new purpose.Fatherhood & Stepfather Stories: In a heartfelt reflection on fatherhood, Art shares what it means to him to be a stepdad and loving family man after growing up without a dad himself. He talks about striving to be the father figure he never had – guiding his stepchildren with love, patience, and faith, and breaking the cycle for the next generation.Breaking the Cycle & Community Impact: Art’s mission now is to give back – he mentors at-risk youth, serves in ministry, and offers hope to those trapped in gangs or trauma. He emphasizes the importance of family, community support, and inner healing in restoring broken lives and families, and in keeping young people away from gangs.This Fatherhood Voices episode is a moving testament to the strength of the human spirit and the possibility of change. It offers deep reflections on violence, the process of inner healing, and how faith-fueled fatherhood can rebuild a life and restore a family. Join us for an unforgettable conversation that proves no one is beyond transformation – and that it’s never too late to rewrite your story. 👍 If you found this episode inspiring, please like, comment, and subscribe for more heartfelt fatherhood stories and redemption journeys. Thank you for watching and being part of the #FatherhoodVoices community! Get the book here! https://artblajos.com#MexicanMafia #GangTransformation #FatherhoodPodcast #FaithAndRedemption #StepfatherStories #BreakingTheCycle
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EP 66: The Music That Saved Us: A Father-Daughter Conversation on Emo, Healing, and Mental Health
In this powerful and emotional episode, Edward and his daughter Alyssa unpack a life-changing experience at a Sleeping with Sirens and Pierce the Veil concert. What began as a fun weekend quickly turned into a raw reflection on misunderstood youth, the healing power of music, and the silent struggles many kids face. From concert tears to TikTok connections, this episode dives deep into mental health, generational growth, and what it really means to show up as a present parent. Whether you're a father, a daughter, or someone who once felt like the outcast, this conversation will hit home.
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EP 65: Mindset Over Money: From Hustling to Building Generational Wealth
In this candid Fatherhood Voices sit-down, Edward and Alyssa crack open the taboo topic of family finances and the bigger dream of generational wealth. Edward retraces his grind-it-out roots—selling pencils in first grade, coupon-stacking, and yes, those cheeseless burgers at Tom’s—to show how a scarcity mindset can both help and hurt. Together they unpack the two real game-changers: mindset and systems. Expect stories of leveraging a 9-to-5 to fund a side hustle, why motivational content is the cheapest coach you’ll ever hire, and how teens (or anyone) can reverse-engineer their income goals down to the minute. This is Part 1 of a two-parter that moves from personal money myths to the nuts and bolts of legacy building. Hit play, grab a notebook, and get ready to level up.
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EP 64: Do You Deserve to Be Celebrated on Father's Day?
It’s Father’s Day, but here’s the uncomfortable question: Do all dads really deserve to be celebrated? Alyssa brings a surprise topic to Edward—no warning, no prep—and what follows is an unfiltered, deeply personal, and sometimes hilarious episode about fatherhood, forgiveness, and what being “present” actually means.From absentee dads and toxic co-parents to healing family wounds and cruising with "fufu dolls," nothing is off the table. This one’s for the dads who show up, the ones who didn’t, and the kids still trying to make sense of it all.💥 “Just because you’re a dad… doesn’t mean you get the card, the tie, and the praise.”
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EP 63: School, Scars, and Standing Up: The Real Talk on Teenage Bullying
Bullying doesn’t end in elementary school—it evolves. In this raw continuation of Episode 63, Edward and Alyssa take us deeper into the world of junior high and high school bullying: from silent suffering to navigating school politics, and why "just ignore it" doesn't cut it anymore.They get brutally honest about social media, the failures of school systems, the trauma parents miss, and what they wish they’d done differently. With personal stories, heated moments, and a call for real-world tools (like their upcoming Bullying Response Checklist), this episode is equal parts heart, heat, and healing.
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EP 62: Real Talk on Bullying, Trauma & Showing Up as a Parent
In Episode 62 of Fatherhood Voices, Edward and Alyssa dive deep into a raw and powerful conversation about childhood bullying from preschool to adulthood. With stories of trauma, undiagnosed conditions, and tough family dynamics, they shine a light on the unspoken pain many kids carry and the role parents must play in breaking generational cycles.From bathroom sanctuary confessions to fiery debates on how to fight back (literally and figuratively), this episode pulls no punches. Whether you’re a parent, teacher, or someone healing your own inner child this one hits home.
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All In: What It Means to Show Up as a Man, Father, and Brother
What does it really mean to be present—as a father, a mentor, a man? In this powerful episode, real estate leader and father Anthony Morrell opens up about growing up without his father and the two older brothers who stepped in to fill that role. He reflects on the deep impact of mentorship, the lessons of legacy, and the mindset shift from simply providing to truly protecting. From childhood memories to building a home on a golf course for his daughter’s dreams, Anthony shares how faith, fatherhood, and personal growth have shaped the man he is today. Whether it’s coaching his kids, confronting trauma, or becoming the “Chief Fun Officer” of his family, his journey reminds us that healing and purpose often come full circle.
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EP 60: DNA Doesn’t Lie: Uncovering the Family Secret
What if everything you believed about your family wasn’t the whole truth? In this heartfelt episode, Alphonso Sanchez Chandler shares the moment he found out that the woman he called mom—and the man he thought was his biological father—weren’t his parents by blood. From a quiet conversation that changed everything to the results of a DNA test, Alphonso opens up about how that discovery shaped his identity and his journey as a man. This is a story about truth, healing, and finding strength in the roots you choose to grow. Listen to Episode 60 of Fatherhood Voices—because sometimes learning where you come from helps you become who you’re meant to be.
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EP 59: TRA Dads, Bullying, and Barbie Fights: Real Talk From the Rodarte House
In Episode 59 of Fatherhood Voices, Edward and Alyssa get deep—and a little hilarious—as they unpack the old-school parenting style known as the "TRA Dad" (Traditional Rules and Authority). From iron fists to tender regrets, Edward reflects on raising daughters with tough love, while Alyssa opens up about how it shaped her emotional world. Together, they dive into the rise of soft parenting, PTSD from college (yes, really), why participation trophies are ruining kids, and what happens when dads turn Barbie time into UFC training. There’s also a wild reveal: Edward paid neighborhood boys to secretly report on his daughter in high school 😳… and it gets even funnier with the case of the missing teddy bear Poopy, who may or may not still be held for ransom. Oh—and if you’ve ever wondered how not to handle bullying as a parent? This episode might leave you laughing, crying, and seriously reflecting.
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EP 58: Drunk Confessions, Dating Rules & That One “Secret” Document
In Episode 58 of Fatherhood Voices, Edward and Alyssa go off-script—and off the rails—in one of the most raw and hilarious episodes yet. From underage drinking and first crushes to awkward “birds and bees” talks and surprise document discoveries (yep, that one with the bold notes), this episode dives deep into the uncomfortable convos parents avoid but desperately need to have. They unpack the real fears behind house parties, why some parents shouldn’t drink, and how trauma shapes parenting styles. Oh—and wait for the twist involving a spreadsheet called “People Assets and Liabilities.” Oof. This one’s funny, heartfelt, and maybe a little triggering (in the best way). You’ll laugh, reflect, and maybe even text your kid after.
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EP 53: Ruben Palomares From Cop to Convict, Redemption and Fatherhood Rebirth
In this gripping episode of Fatherhood Voices, former LAPD officer Ruben Palomares takes us on a raw and emotional journey from his days in law enforcement, his fall from grace, and his ultimate path to redemption. From growing up in South Central LA surrounded by gangs, to becoming one of the most respected officers, and then plunging into the dark world of corruption, Ruben shares how faith, forgiveness, and fatherhood saved his life. Discover how he transformed from a man filled with anger to one driven by love and healing.If you’ve ever struggled with breaking generational cycles or finding peace after a fall, this is an episode you can’t miss. Tune in to hear Ruben’s powerful story of personal redemption and how he’s using his past to shape a better future for his children. Subscribe now for more inspiring stories of transformation and fatherhood!
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EP 57: Fired Twice, Healed Once: A Father-Daughter Story of Business, Betrayal, and Breakthroughs
In this profoundly personal Season 2 premiere of Fatherhood Voices: Breaking the Toxic Cycle, Edward and Alyssa reunite on the mic to unpack a lifetime of wounds, work, and wild rides—from being fired (twice) in their family business to rebuilding their bond through ayahuasca, hard conversations, and second chances. You’ll hear about chaotic trade show blowups, soul-searching ceremonies, and the power of healing the inner child. This episode is raw, redemptive, and a reminder that even the messiest relationships can bloom again, with love, humility, and humor.
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EP 56: Breaking Free from Domestic Violence: Erica Ruiz's Journey of Survival and Healing
In this powerful episode of Fatherhood Voices, host Edward sits down with Erica Ruiz, a survivor of domestic violence, author, and advocate for women and children. Erica shares her profound journey from a turbulent childhood to overcoming domestic abuse, substance addiction, and eventually becoming a published author. Hear how Erica's transformative experiences have shaped her mission to spread awareness and support through her children's books and advocacy work. This episode offers valuable insights for anyone struggling with their own path to healing and is a must-watch for both parents and those affected by domestic violence.
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EP 55: Building Bonds: The Importance of Father-Daughter Relationships
Fatherhood Voices: Embracing Vulnerability and Gentle Parenting with Hector CentenoIn this heartfelt episode of 'Fatherhood Voices,' host Edward welcomes Hector Centeno, a devoted father who shares his personal journey of fatherhood and the transformative power of gentle parenting. Hector discusses the impactful moment that led to their meeting, his childhood challenges growing up in South Central, and the lessons he has learned along the way. Together, they explore the importance of emotional safety, vulnerability, and the continuous effort required to be a present and nurturing parent. This touching conversation offers valuable insights for fathers and parents alike, emphasizing the profound impact of being accessible and open-hearted with children.
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EP 54: Empowering Kids: Financial Literacy and Life Skills with Scott Donnell
Join our engaging episode featuring Scott Donnell as we delve into the critical importance of instilling work ethic and financial literacy in children. Explore how to teach essential life skills through practical experiences, personal stories, and breaking toxic cycles to set up the younger generation for success. Learn how to build a home economy system where kids can earn and thrive, emphasizing heritage over inheritance and fostering a family culture with clear values. Discover strategies to protect against entitlement, create value, and promote financial independence, highlighted by examples from successful families like the founders of Hobby Lobby. Tune in for invaluable insights and effective strategies to equip your children with lifelong skills and confidence, ensuring a prosperous future for your family.
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EP 52: Breaking the Cycle: How Love and Humor Shape Modern Dads
This engaging fatherhood podcast, 'Fatherhood Voices,' hosted by Edward, features guest Jevin Smith. Jevin discusses his dedication to being a present father, emphasizing how the absence of his own father shaped his commitment to his children. He shares anecdotes about growing up in West Los Angeles, raised by a single mom and surrounded by strong female figures and key male role models like his grandfather. Jevin finds inspiration in TV fathers like Heathcliff Huxtable, Uncle Phil, and Carl Winslow. Known for embarrassing his kids with comedic and musical antics, Jevin has turned that into a unique parenting style. As a DJ, he uses humor and music to connect with and support his children emotionally. This script emphasizes his encouragement for parents to be present and creative in nurturing their children, and highlights his newly released children's book, 'Daddy Loves to Embarrass Me,' which weaves these themes into a fun narrative. Jevin's story commends the importance of understanding family dynamics, creating lasting memories, and the significance of male role models, with a focus on children growing up in single-parent households.
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EP 51: A Fatherhood Conversation with Juan Gallegos
In this emotional and insightful episode of 'Fatherhood Voices', Edward sits down with Juan Gallegos, a father and real estate professional from Denver, Colorado. The conversation explores Juan's life journey, including his childhood split between the U.S. and Mexico, the challenges of growing up with a physically abusive but well-meaning mother, and a largely absent father. Juan opens up about his transition to fatherhood and the struggles of repeating his father's patterns, as well as his path to healing through plant medicine and personal growth. The discussion also touches on themes of intergenerational trauma, the importance of breaking toxic cycles, and the power of love and understanding in parenting. Juan shares heartfelt advice for mothers, reflections on his relationship with his parents, and aspirations for future trips to strengthen family bonds. The episode closes with a powerful message about living life with love, happiness, and service.
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EP 50: Fatherhood Voices with Rod Richards: Embracing Purpose and The Eternal Role of a Dad
Join us in an enlightening episode of Fatherhood Voices where host Rod Richards delves into the raw and real journey of fatherhood. Rod candidly discusses his unique upbringing, the transformative power of parenting, and the foundation of his platform, Forfeit Fatherhood. Discover how fatherhood transcends careers and achievements, explores the vital role of fitness in parenting, and underscores the importance of being present in your children's lives. Get inspired by stories of commitment, sacrifice, and the unbreakable bond of family, reshaping what it means to be a dad.
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EP 49: Breaking the Cycle: Empowerment Through Family Empire Car Club
Fatherhood Voices: Empowerment Through Healing – Stories of Resilience from the Family Empire Car ClubIn this impactful episode of 'Fatherhood Voices,' we shine a light on the profound stories of resilience from members of the Family Empire Car Club, a women-led organization from Lancaster, California. These remarkable women share their raw and emotional experiences of overcoming abusive relationships, generational trauma, and addiction. The episode highlights their journey towards healing, empowerment, and the crucial role of fatherhood in shaping future generations. Listen in to understand their mission of breaking cycles of abuse and empowering others through outreach programs, support, and vocational training. Join us for candid conversations that challenge traditional views and champion the strength and solidarity needed for personal and communal growth.
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EP 48: Beyond Expectations: A Conversation on Family, Healing, and Purpose
Transformative Healing: Harsha Sosa's Journey through Family, Breathwork, and Community BuildingJoin us for an enlightening episode of Fatherhood Voices: Breaking the Toxic Cycle, as Edward sits down with Harsha Sosa to explore her profound journey of self-discovery and healing. Harsha delves into the challenges of navigating parental projections, adolescent expectations, and the power of breathwork and plant medicine. Alongside her husband, Aaron, Harsha embraces motherhood and further personal growth, leading them to create an online community dedicated to fostering connection and healing. This episode offers heartfelt insights, practical advice, and an inspiring message of hope, highlighting the importance of individual oneness and collective human connection.00:00 Introduction: Breaking the Toxic Cycle00:37 Meet Harsha Sosa: A Journey of Wisdom and Healing02:53 Harsha's Early Life: From India to Vancouver05:18 The Burden of Greatness: Cultural Expectations and Personal Growth07:46 Parenting and Projections: Navigating Childhood Expectations13:07 Healing the Inner Child: Overcoming Trauma and Finding Balance19:56 The Power of Self-Love: Practical Steps for Healing33:18 Travel and Exposure: The Impact of a Global Upbringing42:11 Sibling Dynamics and Personal Pressure43:15 Identity Crisis and Self-Limiting Beliefs44:48 Parental Expectations and Personal Realizations46:07 Parental Influence and Self-Expression49:42 University Life and Experimentation52:27 Meeting Aaron and Relationship Dynamics55:48 Healing and Spiritual Awakening01:00:59 Parenting Advice and Relationship Reflections01:08:46 Personal Development and Plant Medicine01:19:08 Concluding Thoughts and Future Plans
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EP 47: Ego, Emotions, and Evolution: A Father's Healing Journey
In this episode of 'Fatherhood Voices' featuring Matt and Jash from the 'Cool Dad Collective.' It explores the multifaceted challenges and triumphs of fatherhood, highlighting the importance of mental health, vulnerability, and emotional bonds. The discussion covers personal narratives, with Jash documenting his journey from birth through the toddler years and Matt discussing his healing through introspection and plant medicine. They delve into breaking toxic cycles, balancing fatherhood with ego management, and the powerful impact of nurturing emotional connections with children. The concept of maintaining traditions to heal relationships, implementing healthy boundaries, and the importance of self-awareness and vulnerability are prominent themes.
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EP 45: Presence Over Absence: A Mother’s Resolve
Sarah Eckert confronts the shadows of growing up without a father, weaving a narrative of resilience and healing. Raised by her grandparents, Sarah's tale navigates the emotional gaps left by absence and her resolve as a mother to break the cycle of abandonment. She discusses overcoming toxic relationships and the power of forgiveness, both towards her father and in her journey as a parent. This episode is a profound exploration of how love and presence can transform lives, ensuring no child feels an empty seat in the audience.
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EP 44: Navigating the Challenges of Postpartum Parenthood
Think postpartum depression is just a ‘mom issue’? Think again. In this explosive episode of ‘Fatherhood Voices,’ Chelsea of Mama Psychologist reveals how outdated attitudes can harm entire families. She tackles the tough questions around partner support, the real impact of generational trauma, and why fostering your child’s autonomy isn’t just good parenting—it’s essential. Dive into the controversial truths about what it really takes to build a resilient family. Don’t miss this deep dive into transforming personal struggles into powerful legacies!
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EP 43: From Absence to Influence: A Father’s Transformation
In this episode of "Fatherhood Voices," Edward Rodarte interviews Locke Haman, a father of four who transitioned from being absent to becoming a mentor for dads. Locke shares his journey and stresses the importance of fathers being heroes in their families. He discusses the benefits of men's groups and meaningful conversations about fatherhood. The episode focuses on self-acceptance, the challenges of fatherhood, and the significant impact of supportive fathers on their daughters' emotional health and development. Locke and Edward emphasize the necessity of fathers being present and teaching their daughters how to navigate conflicts and express emotions healthily.
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EP 42: From Discipline to Discovery: A Journey into Conscious Fatherhood
In this episode of "Fatherhood Voices," Edward Rodarte and Adetokunbo Osinaike discuss the profound impact of father figures on child development. Ade shares his journey from engineering to spirituality and coaching, highlighting his experiences with ayahuasca, which deepened his emotional awareness and authenticity as a parent. They delve into the challenges of inner-city life, the importance of positive male role models, and effective co-parenting strategies. The conversation also emphasizes the necessity of emotional presence in parenting and the benefits of outdoor activities and reading for children's growth.
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EP 41: Echoes of the Past: The Healing Power of Oldies Music
In this episode of "Fatherhood Voices," Becky Lu, aka Old School Becky Lu, discusses her connection to the Art LeBeau Connection and the healing power of oldies music. She shares how her childhood was shaped by her parents' love for music and emphasizes the importance of involving children in this musical heritage. Becky highlights how oldies music helps preserve cultural memories and strengthen family bonds. The episode also explores the role of fathers in family dynamics, the impact of their presence, and the communal and healing aspects of music.
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EP 40: Redefining Fatherhood: Consistency, Kindness, and Fitness
In this episode of "Fatherhood Voices," Edward Rodarte interviews Pat Barber, founder of The Father's Guild. They discuss Pat's journey as a father of four boys, emphasizing the importance of questioning parenting norms, maintaining consistent communication, and integrating fitness into fatherhood.They also explore the parallels between parenting and business leadership, focusing on continuous improvement and the profound impact of unconditional love.
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EP 39: The Joy of Youth Sports: Balancing Fun and Competition
In this episode, Coach Andrew Weingart shares his passion for working with youth athletes, emphasizing the importance of mindset and mindfulness in sports. He reflects on his upbringing and athletic experiences, advocating for children to have fun and not define themselves by their athletic abilities. The conversation explores common parental mistakes in pressuring young athletes and the need for a code of ethics for parents during games. The episode concludes with insights on the appropriate age to introduce children to sports and the value of friendly competition.
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EP 38: Unlocking the Potential of Homeschooling
In this episode of "Fatherhood Voices," Claire Denault and Edward Rodarte share their homeschooling journeys, emphasizing that homeschooling is accessible to families of all income levels. Claire discusses the abundant resources and curricula available, while Edward highlights the importance of fostering a love for learning and addressing misconceptions about homeschooling.They both touch on the significance of socialization, the role of parents as educators, and the benefits of personalized education. Edward also discusses the impact of technological advancements in homeschooling. Tune in to explore how homeschooling can help children develop confidence and critical thinking skills.
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EP 37: Parenting at Your Child's Pace: A Holistic Approach
In this episode, Dr. Joel Warsh, an integrative pediatrician, discusses the importance of parenting at a child's unique pace and the benefits of a balanced approach to medicine.He emphasizes the need to explore alternative practices alongside modern treatments and addresses the overuse of medication in children. The conversation covers various topics including holistic health and nutrition, the costs of organic food, the impact of societal beauty standards on children, and controversies around circumcision and birth control. Dr. Warsh also talks about empowering parents to make informed choices and introduces his book, "Parenting at Your Child's Pace," offering a bonus chapter and access to his parenting community. Tune in for innovative insights on parenting and child health.
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EP 36: The Power of Presence in Parenting
In this episode of "Fatherhood Voices," Nate Feathers, a father of six, shares his transformative journey from traditional to conscious parenting. Nate reflects on the regret he felt when his oldest son went to college, realizing he could have been more present. Emphasizing the importance of personal growth and being a better version of himself each year, Nate discusses building deeper emotional connections with his children and the necessity for fathers to support each other through shared struggles. Together with host Edward Rodarte, they delve into the value of mastermind groups for fathers, the impact of mutual suffering in fostering brotherhood, and the critical role of self-discipline in parenting. The episode concludes with practical recommendations for resources and systems to help fathers strengthen their emotional bonds with their children.
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EP 35: Love and Affection: Keys to Strong Parenting
In this episode, Aaron Sosa shares his transformative journey from a loving childhood to fatherhood. He discusses the impact of his grandfather's passing, the importance of creating safe spaces for children's emotions, and the value of vulnerability and authenticity in parenting. Aaron also talks about being present with his son and building self-confidence in children. The conversation highlights maintaining a healthy relationship with one's partner, showing love and affection to children, and using plant medicine for personal growth. The episode concludes with Aaron offering a free master class on relationship coaching.
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EP 34: Healing from Childhood Trauma: A Journey of Self-Discovery
In this powerful episode of "Fatherhood Voices," Hazley opens up about her transformative journey of healing and self-discovery. She reflects on her childhood experiences growing up without a father and her complicated relationship with her mother, shedding light on the trauma she endured. Hazley shares how plant medicine, meditation, and journaling have been pivotal in her healing process, helping her navigate the complexities of family relationships and set healthy boundaries.Join us as we explore the intergenerational impact of trauma, the importance of forgiveness, and the journey towards creating a safe emotional space. Hazley also discusses the challenges of cultural expectations and the difficult process of breaking toxic cycles within her ancestral lineage. This episode is a heartfelt conversation about healing, self-discovery, and the resilience needed to overcome deep-rooted family issues
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EP 33: Redefining Fatherhood: Insights on Parenting and Presence
In this episode of "Fatherhood Voices," host Edward Rodarte interviews Charles Vargas about his transformative journey as a father and the profound impact of his upbringing on his parenting style. Growing up in Redondo Beach, California, Charles faced emotional challenges due to his father's absence, leading him to build emotional barriers and focus heavily on his career. This workaholic tendency persisted into adulthood, until a pivotal moment when his daughter started high school made him realize the fleeting nature of time with his children.Charles shares how this realization prompted him to become more present and involved in his children's lives. He highlights the importance of self-love and self-acceptance in parenting, and the value of seeking mentors and role models for guidance and support. The conversation also delves into the role of plant medicine in improving relationships with their children and parents, the significance of creating safe spaces for children to express themselves, and the necessity of breaking free from scarcity mindsets around money.Charles and Edward emphasize the power of vulnerability and transparent conversations among men about their struggles. They conclude the discussion with a reminder to focus on leaving a legacy of love and positivity for future generations.
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EP 32: The Power of Inner Work: Releasing Emotional Baggage Through Spiritual Divorce
In this episode of "Fatherhood Voices," Joyce Haddad shares her transformative journey of healing through spiritual divorce and energetic detachment from relationships. Joyce delves into the importance of forgiveness and recognizing the lessons in every experience. She highlights the healing power of journaling and taking small, mindful steps towards personal growth. Central to her discussion is the concept of the inner child and its profound impact on our adult lives.Drawing from her own childhood and her father's illness, Joyce explains how these experiences led her to explore energy healing and create her own protocol for spiritual divorce. She expands the idea of spiritual divorce beyond romantic relationships, illustrating how it applies to family, friends, and even work connections. Joyce emphasizes the necessity of inner work and having meaningful conversations with the energies of those we need to detach from.Through her insights and book, "Spiritual Divorce," Joyce outlines a step-by-step process for releasing energetic attachments and emotional baggage, paving the way for positive experiences. She concludes by urging listeners to take responsibility for their own reality and view challenges as opportunities for growth and self-discovery. Tune in for an enlightening conversation on healing, growth, and the power of spiritual transformation
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EP 31: Fatherhood Voices: Laughter & Learning: A Pharmacist's Take on Fatherhood and Healing
In this edition of Fatherhood Voices, the guest Corey Jenks, a pharmacist, author, comedian, and professional speaker from Tucson, Arizona, shares his unique journey of fatherhood intertwined with his professions. Jenks discusses the influence of his family's background in education and work ethic on his diversified career path, including his approach to parenting, managing diabetes through lifestyle changes, and utilizing comedy in healthcare communication and parenting. Corey speaks candidly about his experiences growing up, his belief in setting a strong foundation for his kids, and the importance of being present as a father. He further explores how his work in pharmacology and personal parenting experiences inspired him to write a humorous yet insightful book aimed at newish dads, 'I Guess I'm a Dad Now.' The podcast delves into themes of parental expectations, the balance between discipline and allowing children independence, the impact of nutrition on behavior, and the crucial role of personal self-care for fathers. Corey's story is a call to fathers for introspection and growth, emphasizing the significance of applying one's passions and lessons learned to raise the next generation.
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EP 30: From Chaos to Clarity: Navigating the Complexities of Parental Relationships
In this episode of Fatherhood Voices, host Edward engages in a profound conversation with Sarah Kari, a coach and therapist who doesn't conform to traditional therapeutic labels. Initially reflecting on personal freedom experienced around her grandfather, Sarah delves into the importance of childlike curiosity and authenticity. She shares her journey from pursuing academia to embracing a holistic approach combining spirituality, meditation, and Reiki. The discussion navigates through the impacts of parental relationships on personal development and approaches to addressing and transcending familial challenges. Sarah emphasizes the need for self-awareness, understanding, and communication within relationships, advocating a heart-centered approach to healing and personal growth. The conversation offers insights into creating safe spaces for emotional expression and growth for both parents and children, ultimately aiming towards breaking cycles of toxicity and evolving towards healthier familial dynamics.
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Ep 29: From Regrets to Reflections: A Dad's Raw Journey Through Fatherhood's Challenges
In this heartfelt episode of "Fatherhood Voices," we explore the deep and often unspoken struggles of fatherhood through the eyes of Jerry, a dad who has navigated the tumultuous waters of parenting, regret, and personal growth. From tales of childhood shaped by a disciplinarian father to his own challenges and missteps as a parent, Jerry's story is one of trying to break the toxic cycles passed down through generations. Listen as he delves into his personal journey of self-awareness and attempts to mend the strained relationships with his children. This episode is a must-watch for anyone who seeks to understand the complexities of fatherly love, the impact of our upbringing, and the possibilities for healing and hope.
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Ep 28: Unveiling Wisdom Through Fatherhood: Francisco's Journey with Plant Medicine and Parenting
Join us in this profound episode of "Fatherhood Voices" where our guest, Francisco, dives deep into the heart of parenting and personal transformation. Francisco shares his inspiring journey through plant medicine, the profound lessons it brought into his life, and how these experiences reshaped his approach to fatherhood. From navigating the challenges of raising three boys to embracing the wisdom gained from his unique upbringing and the powerful insights from plant ceremonies, this episode is a touching exploration of love, growth, and the deep bonds of family. Whether you're a parent seeking connection or anyone interested in the transformative power of introspection and healing, this conversation offers valuable insights and heartfelt stories that resonate with all.
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Ep 27: Embracing Imperfection: Lessons in Parenting and Presence
In this profound episode of Fatherhood Voices, we explore the transformative journey of fatherhood and its impact on personal growth. Join us as our guest Nira Rivas shares her powerful story of navigating motherhood, reflecting on her childhood, and the lessons learned from absent parenting. From her early years in Chihuahua, Mexico, to raising twins and discovering her path through self-awareness and plant medicine, Nira discusses the deep emotional work necessary to break generational cycles of detachment. This episode is not just about the challenges of parenting but also about embracing imperfection, understanding the importance of presence, and the healing power of acknowledging past wounds. Dive into a discussion that might just change how you view relationships and family dynamics.
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Ep 26: Breaking Free from Tradition: A Father's Journey to Mindful Parenting
In this deeply personal episode, join me as I share my transformative journey through fatherhood, reflecting on the lessons learned from my own upbringing within a strict religious household, the struggles with rebellion and acceptance, and ultimately, the path to healing and growth. Discover how my experiences with my parents, especially the poignant moments of vulnerability and understanding, have shaped my approach to being a dad. Learn about the importance of free agency, compassion, and deep connection as I navigate the joys and challenges of raising my son. This story is a testament to the power of change, the beauty of forgiveness, and the endless possibilities that come from breaking the cycles of the past to create a new legacy of love and understanding for future generations.
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Ep 25: Truck Talks and Healing Hearts: A Journey Beyond Toxic Fatherhood
In this transformative episode of 'Fatherhood Voices,' we dive deep into the power of open communication and healing in breaking the cycles of toxic fatherhood. Our guest, Travis Arsenault, shares his intimate journey from experiencing absentee fatherhood to embracing vulnerability and love in his own role as a father later in life. Through poignant discussions ranging from 'truck talks' with his children, where no topic is off-limits, to battling cancer and reevaluating what truly matters, Travis's story is a testament to the strength found in facing our fears and opening our hearts. Join us as we explore the challenging, yet rewarding path to becoming better fathers, partners, and men.
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Ep 24: Navigating the Transition: From Marriage to Co-Parenting Gracefully
Navigating the Transition: From Marriage to Co-Parenting GracefullyThis episode of Fatherhood Voices focuses on the journey of Carly Pinchin, a mother navigating the transition from being married to becoming a single parent and co-parenting successfully. Carly shares her personal experience of recognizing the need for separation from her husband to ensure her children grow up with a healthier understanding of relationships. She discusses the initial realization, the decision to separate, and the challenges and successes of co-parenting. The episode also delves into the impact of one's upbringing on their parenting style, the decision-making process regarding separation, and the importance of setting a positive example for one's children. Throughout the episode, the discussion also touches on finding strength in vulnerability, the journey towards self-discovery post-separation, and the significance of communication in co-parenting. This heartfelt narrative offers insights into breaking toxic cycles, embracing change, and fostering a loving, supportive environment for children post-separation.
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Ep 23: Beyond the Scoreboard: Cultivating Growth and Grace in Young Athletes
This episode of Fatherhood Voices delves into the critical role fathers play in their children's development, particularly in the context of sports. The discussion starts with a reflection on parental influence and the importance of fathers being role models in terms of work ethic and mental resilience. Guests share personal stories and strategies, such as the use of sports journals to track progress and setting clear expectations with coaches, to help fathers encourage and support their children effectively. Highlighting a staggering statistic that 72% of American children leave sports by age 11 due to parental pressure, the script emphasizes the need for fathers to focus on instilling love for the sport rather than pushing for competitive success. Key themes include the role of positive reinforcement, handling benching by coaches, and balancing competitiveness with fun. The discussion also touches on broader themes of self-improvement, resilience, and the profound impact of fathers' behaviors on their children.
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Welcome to Fatherhood: Breaking The Toxic Cycle where conversations of healing and growth occur. This podcast will showcase brave and heartfelt fathers as they step into the light to share their transformative journeys of acknowledging and overcoming their past mistakes. Join us as these fathers courageously open up about their traumas, regrets, and the moments they wish they could redo. Through honest conversations with their children, they confront the pain, explore the lessons learned, and work towards rebuilding broken connections. Tune in to witness the profound healing that unfolds when fathers and children come together to find understanding, forgiveness, and the path forward. Fatherhood: Breaking The Toxic Cycle is a testament to the power of vulnerability, redemption, and the unbreakable bond between a father and his children.
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Edward Rodarte
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