Fathernetics

This episode of the Fathernetics podcast explores what modern fatherhood looks like before kids even arrive. The conversation moves from K pop and Dungeons and Dragons to the very real emotional weight of surrogacy, chosen family, and building support systems as LGBTQ+ men planning for parenthood. It is an honest look at anticipation, uncertainty, and how community, creativity, and connection carry you through the waiting.🎧 Watch on YouTube https://youtube.com/@fathernetics📲 Guests on InstagramJoshua Bishop @twodadsandababydreamBen Bishop @bennybishop89#Fathernetics #LGBTQDads #SurrogacyJourney #GayDads #ChosenFamily #ModernFatherhood #QueerParents #FutureDads

In this episode of the Fathernetics podcast, Alex and Dustin share an honest, wide-ranging conversation about life as LGBTQ+ parents. From their shared love of music and concerts to their journey through fostering and adoption, they reflect on how culture, upbringing, and chosen community have shaped the way they parent. They talk candidly about intentional parenting, the importance of self-care, and the real joys and challenges of raising children in a diverse family structure. The episode centers on showing up with purpose, building support systems, and redefining what modern fatherhood can look like.Watch the full episode on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@fatherneticsGuest Instagram handles: @leogee2010, @acabal82

In this Fathernetics podcast episode, Nathan Serran shares his perspective on modern fatherhood through adoption, offering an honest look at raising two daughters with intention, presence, and emotional awareness. The conversation touches on communication inside the family, mental health, and how technology shapes childhood today. Nathan also reflects on his transition from restaurant ownership to building a skincare business, and how redefining success allowed him to become a more engaged and available father. This episode focuses on adoption, intentional parenting, and the everyday choices that strengthen family connection.Watch the full conversation on YouTube at https://youtube.com/@fatherneticsFollow Fathernetics on Instagram at @fatherneticsFollow Nathan Serran on Instagram at @nathanserran

This episode brings Jameel Mayers and Casey Benson together for a real conversation about fatherhood, homeownership, and the emotional work behind raising kids with intention. They get into cultural differences, immigration stories, family politics, and the ways racism and relocation shape how we show up as parents. They talk about adoption, naming, shifting friendships, and the pressure fathers feel to model accountability every day. At its heart, this conversation is about presence, growth, and the way our children quietly teach us who we’re becoming.TakeawaysHomeownership brings excitement but also unexpected challenges.Parenting often feels like a trial-and-error process.Accountability in parenting helps model behavior for children.Communication styles must adapt to different audiences.Navigating political differences can strain family relationships.Friendship dynamics change when children are involved.Cultural differences can impact personal relationships.Parenting perspectives evolve with generational changes.Personal growth often comes from navigating difficult relationships.Emotional intelligence is key in all forms of communication. Moving can change family dynamics significantly.Conversations can shift perspectives on immigration.Personal experiences shape views on racism.Fathers play a crucial role in daughters' lives.Presence in parenting is more important than perfection.Naming a child can reflect family history and identity.Navigating family dynamics requires awareness and intention.Intentional parenting fosters stronger bonds.Children teach us to appreciate simple joys.Parenting is a journey of growth and learning.

The conversation looks at the real-world impact of information asymmetry in healthcare and how it shapes the patient experience. Daniel Berezowsky and Jameel talk about what happens when service providers control most of the information, leaving families to make decisions without the clarity or context they deserve. They unpack how this imbalance creates confusion, limits personal agency, and makes it harder for people to advocate for themselves in a system that already feels overwhelming. The discussion also touches on the emotional toll—how navigating complex medical information adds pressure to parents and caregivers who are trying to do right by their families. Overall, it’s a conversation about power, clarity, and the need for more transparent, accessible healthcare communication, especially for families seeking fairness and understanding in complex systems.TakeawaysThere is significant information asymmetry in healthcare.Service providers often present biased information.Navigating healthcare requires critical evaluation of sources.Complexity in healthcare can overwhelm individuals seeking information.Understanding the motives behind information sharing is crucial.Clinics and agencies may not provide the full picture.Individuals need to seek diverse perspectives.The healthcare landscape is filled with conflicting narratives.Awareness of biases can lead to better decision-making.Effective communication is essential in healthcare.

In this episode of Fathernetics, Jameel Mayers sits down with Jaimie Kelton, host of the Queer Family Podcast, to talk about LGBTQ+ family life, evolving holiday traditions, parenting in a digital world, infertility, and the intentional nature of queer family building. The conversation centers on representation, community support, and navigating visibility amid online noise, aligning closely with the mission of Fathernetics.YouTube & Socialhttps://www.youtube.com/@fatherneticsInstagram: @fatherneticsJaimie Kelton: @jaimiekelton (instagram)Queer Family Podcast: @queerfamilypodcast

Sam dives into the real work of raising kids who can stand on their own. She unpacks the tension parents feel between wanting to give their children more than they had and actually preparing them for adulthood. The conversation centers on teaching life skills, building responsibility, and shaping experiences that lead to confidence and maturity. It’s a grounded look at how intentional parenting creates independent young adults—exactly the kind of fatherhood conversation Fathernetics is known for, especially for families exploring modern approaches to raising resilient kids.TakeawaysEvery parent wants more for their children than they had.It's important to assess a child's readiness for independence.Life skills are essential for a child's maturity.Children need opportunities to grow and mature.Setting children up for success is a parental responsibility.Part-time jobs can contribute to a child's readiness.Household responsibilities help children learn independence.Maturity is not just about age but about experience.Parents should focus on teaching practical skills.Preparing children for adulthood requires intentional effort.

In this conversation, Jameel Mayers and Oded Heilinger discuss the significance of names and cultural heritage, Oded's journey from Israel to becoming a father through surrogacy, and the challenges and joys of parenting. They explore the importance of community, travel experiences, and the lessons learned from their own parents. Oded shares insights on navigating current events with children and the importance of giving back to the community, all while planning future adventures with his son, Ari.TakeawaysNames carry deep cultural significance and history.Surrogacy can be a fulfilling path to parenthood.Parenting requires meticulous planning and organization.Cherishing moments with children is essential.Community support is vital for single parents.Traveling creates lasting memories and cultural awareness.Parenting involves navigating various challenges and stages.Intentional parenting fosters positive values in children.Discussing current events with children requires sensitivity.Giving back to the community is an important lesson for children.Chapters00:00 The Significance of Names and Their Meanings02:40 Cultural Background and Family Dynamics05:09 Parenting Journey: From Surrogacy to Single Fatherhood08:26 The Quest for a Sibling: Expanding the Family09:20 Choosing Surrogacy in Canada: A Thoughtful Decision11:00 Navigating the Surrogacy Process and Challenges12:22 Planning for Parenthood: Balancing Responsibilities14:00 Lessons from Generations: Parenting Influences16:09 The Emotional Connection of Food and Family19:26 Experiencing the Early Years of Parenting22:11 Intuition in Parenting: Trusting Yourself24:12 The Terrible Twos: A Learning Experience25:26 Building Community as a Gay Parent27:37 Embracing the Gay Community and Parenting29:43 Creating Memorable Experiences with Ari30:51 Planning the Perfect Family Trip33:59 Traveling with Kids: Experiences and Memories39:16 Oded's Journey Before Fatherhood45:48 Teaching Values: Giving Back and Community Engagement49:11 Navigating Difficult Conversations with Children56:42 Future Travel Plans and Adventures#FatherneticsPodcast #ModernFatherhood #SurrogacyJourney #LGBTQFamilies #ParentingStories #CrossCulturalParenting #CulturalHeritage #FamilyTraditions #GlobalParenting #IsraelToUSA #ParentingAdvice #DadCommunity #FamilyBuilding #TravelWithKids #FatherhoodUnfiltered

This episode of Fathernetics follows Nate Kimeyer’s journey from South Korea to Norway and the unexpected path that shaped him as a gay dad to twins born through surrogacy. Nate talks about navigating cultural shifts, building a multicultural family, and learning to communicate openly in relationships. He shares the humor, chaos, and emotional depth of raising twins, along with the personal growth that comes from parenting across identities, borders, and traditions. The conversation explores modern LGBTQ family structures, the realities of surrogacy, and the evolving meaning of fatherhood today.#Fathernetics #NateKimeyer #LGBTQdads #SurrogacyTwins #GayDadsAbroad #ModernFamilyLife #MulticulturalParenting #SurrogacyJourney #ParentingTwins #GlobalParenting #TwoDadHousehold #LGBTQFamilyStories #IntentionalParenting #FatherhoodCommunity

This episode of Fathernetics dives into the real journey of parenting through surrogacy, identity, and LGBTQ family life. The conversation with Cory Allen explores raising kids with cultural intention, navigating loss during pregnancy, and finding strength in community. Cory opens up about self-discovery, dating as an LGBTQ parent, and the legal realities around surrogacy today. He shares how music shapes his home, how communication and self-care keep fatherhood grounded, and why representation in children’s literature matters. The episode also touches on his connection to the Obamas and how their legacy shaped his views on family, service, and visibility. This discussion offers insight, honesty, and the kind of conversation dads everywhere are searching for.#Fathernetics #LGBTQdads #SurrogacyJourney #ModernParenting #GayDads #TwoDadFamilies #ParenthoodStories #IntentionalParenting #FatherhoodCommunity #FamilyBuilding

Jameel Mayers sits down with Frank and BJ to talk about traveling the world with their son Milo and how global experiences shape modern LGBTQ parenting. They share the joy, chaos, and lessons learned from raising a kid while exploring new cultures, along with honest reflections on education, community building, and what it means to create a connected family. Their story highlights the value of curiosity, openness, and raising a child who sees the world without limits.Chapters00:00 Traveling with Kids: A Family Adventure02:53 Cultural Experiences: Italy and Beyond05:57 Exploring Colombia: A Hidden Gem08:40 Adventures in the Philippines: Unexpected Thrills12:02 Parenting in the LGBTQ Community: Unique Perspectives14:48 Pride Celebrations: A Global Perspective17:42 Food and Travel: Culinary Journeys20:49 Education on the Road: Learning Through Travel26:22 The Impact of Travel on Childhood Development30:24 Navigating Fears of Parenting in Today's World33:59 The Transition to Adolescence: Balancing Independence and Support37:12 Understanding Personality Types in Parenting41:04 Building Community: The Importance of Representation44:45 Educating Children on Family Dynamics51:04 The Journey of Surrogacy and Family Formation52:25 Lessons Learned from a Year of Travel55:33 Parenting Styles: Learning from Our Parents01:00:52 The Importance of Open Conversations in Parenting#Fathernetics #LGBTQParents #TwoDads #GayDads #FamilyTravel #ModernParenting #ParentingCommunity #TravelWithKids #ExploreTogether #ParentingPodcast

In this powerful episode, Emmanuel opens up about planning a magical Disney trip for his daughter, navigating fatherhood through surrogacy, and the heart of intentional parenting. He shares the highs and challenges of raising a child in today’s world—covering identity, naming, and his research on stigma within marginalized communities. The conversation dives into parenting as a modern LGBTQ+ family, balancing fitness, family activities, and future plans for expanding their family. With honesty and warmth, Emmanuel highlights the value of open communication, adaptability, and love in parenting.Chapters00:00 Planning the Perfect Disney Trip09:59 Experiencing Disney Through a Child's Eyes20:04 The Journey of Surrogacy29:58 Navigating Stigma in Marginalized Communities31:54 Fitness Goals and Personal Growth37:04 Parenting Styles and Influences49:06 Surrogacy Journey Insights#GayDads #Fatherhood #LGBTQParenting #ParentingPodcast #Fathernetics #ModernFamily #AdoptionJourney #SurrogacyStories #ParentingUnfiltered #DadLife #FatherhoodCommunity #PodcastLife #ParentingStories #LGBTQCommunity #ParentingJourney #FamilyFirst #ParentingSupport #DadsOfYouTube #PodcastForParents #ParentingRealTalk

This episode of Fathernetics explores the real journey of parenting and adoption through the eyes of two LGBTQ dads. Jameel, Jason and James talk about raising kids with intention, navigating the adoption process, and building a strong foundation of planning and support. They share the realities of balancing travel, self-care, and community while creating a home where representation matters. The conversation highlights the unique challenges and everyday joy of LGBTQ families, the importance of supportive networks, and what it truly takes to build a family through adoption today.#Fathernetics #LGBTQFamilies #AdoptionJourney #GayDads #ModernParenting #TwoDadHouseholds #IntentionalParenting #FamilyBuilding #ParenthoodStories

Graham Martin joins Fathernetics host Jameel Mayers for a real, funny, and thoughtful talk about modern fatherhood. From parenting through extreme weather and raising kids with completely different personalities to youth sports, homeschooling, and mental health—nothing’s off the table. Graham opens up about creating Hayday Company and why building a community for dads matters more than ever. This episode dives deep into self-care, intentional parenting, and the honest chaos that comes with being a dad today.TakeawaysThe weather in Phoenix can be extreme, affecting daily life.Family dynamics change with the addition of children, impacting parenting styles.Fatherhood often brings a softening effect, especially with daughters.Children's personalities can differ greatly, influencing parenting approaches.Youth sports play a significant role in child development and resilience.Homeschooling decisions are often based on family values and circumstances.Starting a business can be a way to create a legacy for children.The bourbon community can be competitive and sometimes toxic.Intentional parenting is crucial for building strong family connections.Mental health and self-care are important for parents to model for their children.Watch the full conversation on YouTube and subscribe to Fathernetics for more authentic stories about fatherhood, surrogacy, adoption, and LGBTQ+ family journeys.Chapters00:00 - Weather and Driving in Phoenix02:56 - Introduction to Graham Martin04:16 - Parenting Dynamics: Boys vs. Girls10:04 - Understanding Child Personalities15:28 - Youth Sports and Commitment19:09 - Homeschooling Decisions and Family Dynamics22:08 - Skiing in Colorado: Costs and Experiences25:14 - The Journey of Fatherhood: From Corporate Life to Entrepreneurship30:19 - Creating a Marketplace for Dads: The Vision Behind Dad's Life34:43 - Building Connections: The Importance of Community for Dads37:08 - Influences of Fatherhood: Learning from Generations40:21 - The Evolution of Parenting: Embracing Change and Growth43:07 - Reflections on Life Before Kids: What’s Missed?46:05 - Exploring Bourbon Preferences46:59 - Spontaneous Adventures and Family Time48:54 - Cinematic Interests and Recommendations51:27 - Mental Health and Self-Care Practices55:53 - Intentional Parenting and Family Connections01:01:57 - Capturing Memories and Future Generations

In this engaging conversation, Ricky shares his experiences as a single dad navigating the complexities of parenting, creativity in Halloween celebrations, and the journey to fatherhood through adoption. He discusses the importance of communication with his children, the fears and concerns that come with parenting, and the significance of fostering a loving environment. Ricky emphasizes the need for open dialogue about family dynamics and societal perceptions, particularly as an LGBTQ parent. He offers heartfelt advice for aspiring parents, highlighting the joys and challenges of raising children.

In this conversation, Shaun Thomas shares his experiences as a father of three children through surrogacy, discussing the challenges and joys of parenting, the importance of community support, and the process of selecting a surrogacy agency. He emphasizes the need for impartial advice for intended parents and the significance of normalizing diverse family structures. The discussion also touches on the cultural aspects of surrogacy in Colombia and the ongoing journey of parenthood.Chapters00:00 Navigating Family Routines with Young Children05:55 Shaun's Journey into Surrogacy14:54 Experiences in Colombia and Surrogacy Challenges22:01 Empowering Intended Parents in Surrogacy30:21 Exploring Surrogacy Options37:20 Influences from Family and Upbringing43:19 Building an Inclusive Community for Children50:48 Future Plans and Community Engagement#Parenting #Surrogacy #LGBTQFamilies #CommunitySupport #FamilyRoutines #ColombiaCulture #IntendedParents #AgencySelection #ParentEmpowerment #FamilyDynamics

Did you meet Meryl Streep?Brian James shares his journey from a small-town upbringing in West Virginia to a career in musical theater and film in New York City. He talks about becoming a dad, moving to the suburbs, and why representation in media matters for kids.He and his husband’s adoption journey highlights the challenges and joy of building a family. Brian reflects on raising a Black child as a white parent, navigating racial dynamics, and the role of community in supporting LGBTQ families.This conversation explores adoption, parenting, family life, and the changing landscape of LGBTQ representation.Like, share, and subscribe for more fatherhood and family stories from Fathernetics.#BrianJames #MusicalTheater #Film #Parenting #LGBTQ #AdoptionJourney #NewYorkCity #LifeCoaching #Representation #LGBTQFamilies #Surrogacy #FamilyDynamics #CulturalDiversity #ParentingStories #RacialDynamics #FamilyExpansion #ChosenFamilyChapters00:00 Introduction to Brian's Artistic Journey02:09 The Impact of Parenthood on Career Choices05:13 Exploring Musical Theater and Recommendations08:01 Transitioning from Theater to Film and Television11:12 Behind the Scenes: The Film and TV Experience14:06 Balancing Fatherhood and Career16:51 Moving from City Life to Suburbia20:01 The Charm of Provincetown and LGBTQ Acceptance24:56 The Power of Representation in Media26:47 Growing Up Queer: A New Perspective28:45 Cultural Shifts in LGBTQ+ Visibility30:28 Love and Relationships: A Musical Connection32:51 Navigating Life Together: The Importance of Communication35:51 The Adoption Journey: Challenges and Triumphs38:47 Preparing for Parenthood: The Adoption Process43:42 Coping with Loss: Finding Humor in Dark Times48:47 Navigating Grief and Adoption Journeys49:55 The Unexpected Call: Welcoming a Newborn50:48 Open Adoption: Building Relationships with Birth Parents52:44 Addressing Race in Multicultural Families55:18 Confronting Public Perception and Cultural Identity58:33 Educating Others: The Importance of Curiosity01:01:05 Embracing Diversity in Family Dynamics01:09:45 The Future of Parenting in a Changing World

Jameel Mayers sits down with Mauricio Chamberlin for a candid conversation about the journey of fatherhood, adoption challenges, and the joy of building family traditions. They discuss how social media shapes modern shopping habits, why nutrition matters in parenting, and how cultural roots influence both cooking and raising kids. Mauricio reflects on his adoption story, while the conversation expands to explore journalism’s role in shaping family narratives and the meaning of the American dream for LGBTQ families. This heartfelt exchange offers a powerful glimpse into the beauty, complexity, and resilience of modern parenting.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Personal Style02:11 The Impact of Social Media on Consumer Behavior04:40 Creative Outlets and Cooking Passion07:06 Nutritional Awareness and Meal Preparation09:20 Family Background and Culinary Influences11:57 Parenthood and Cultural Perspectives14:34 Naturalization and the American Dream21:06 The Journey to Parenthood Begins24:44 Navigating the Adoption Process30:03 The Day They Became Parents34:06 Transitioning from Concept to Reality39:46 Cultural Influences on Parenting43:48 The Role of Journalism in Parenting47:21 A Call to Action for Future Parents

This conversation brings together Jameel Mayers and David Morgenstern for a lively look at how music, parenting, and entrepreneurship shape the lives of LGBTQ dads. They talk boy bands, intentional parenting, generational connections, and the power of community. David opens up about building Gatties, his lifestyle brand focused on representation and support for gay dads, and explains the mentorship and resilience behind his journey. The discussion highlights how fatherhood, creativity, and identity come together in today’s world while offering relatable insights for parents navigating their own paths.www.gaddies.com#Fathernetics #LGBTQParents #GayDads #DadPodcast #LGBTQEntrepreneur #IntentionalParenting #ParentingCommunity #BoyBandFans #RepresentationMatters #YouTubePodcasts

The conversation with Matt Tolbert breaks down why surrogacy in the United States has become so expensive and what those rising costs really mean for families hoping to grow through assisted reproduction. It explores how prices have climbed over the years, the real numbers families are navigating today, and the level of financial planning required for anyone starting a surrogacy journey. The discussion offers clarity for parents and future parents who want transparent information about modern family building, LGBTQ plus parenting options, and the realities behind today’s surrogacy landscape. It also reinforces the mission of Fathernetics to make conversations around fatherhood and family creation more accessible and honest for everyone.

Two cousins, one wild conversation. Kalyani grew up without a dad but with a mom who raised a powerhouse. She’s funny, a deep-thinker, a globe-trotting concert junkie, and one of my fiercest allies. This one’s part laughter, part therapy, and all heart.Catch the full visual on YouTube as part of Season Two of Fathernetics.www.youtube.com/@fatherneticswww.instagram.com/fathernetics#FatherneticsPodcast #LGBTQAlly #FamilyStories #AdoptionJourney #ModernParenting #FatherhoodPodcast

In this conversation, Dennis Wesemann Widmark shares his journey of becoming a father through surrogacy, his experiences traveling in the US, and the cultural insights from Colombia. He discusses the emotional rollercoaster of parenthood, the importance of community support, and the challenges faced by LGBTQ parents. Dennis also highlights the significance of social media in connecting with others and providing resources for those interested in surrogacy. His story emphasizes the joys and challenges of parenting, the importance of open communication, and the need for more visibility in the LGBTQ community.

In this engaging conversation, Joseph Tito shares his journey as a father, navigating the complexities of parenthood, surrogacy, and cultural influences. He reflects on the importance of family, self-care, and the challenges of balancing work and parenting. Joseph discusses his Italian upbringing and how it shapes his parenting style, emphasizing the need for open communication and intentional parenting. He also highlights the legal challenges faced by LGBTQ parents and the significance of representation in parenting. Through his creative ventures, including books and content creation, Joseph aims to inspire others while embracing authenticity in his parenting journey.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Joseph Tito and His Journey02:57 The Challenges of Balancing Work and Family Life05:55 Cultural Reflections: Life in Italy and Canada09:04 The Surrogacy Journey: Becoming a Dad12:02 Navigating Parenthood: The Experience of Raising Twins15:01 The Impact of Family Dynamics on Parenting17:50 The Drive to Become a Father21:05 Overcoming Bureaucratic Hurdles in Parenting24:02 The Importance of Family Traditions27:00 Raising Daughters: Insights and Experiences29:51 Embracing Playfulness in Parenting32:55 Embracing Creativity in Parenting38:04 Lessons from Parents: Balancing Love and Discipline43:03 Coming Out: Family Dynamics and Acceptance46:09 Building Family Bonds: The Role of Extended Family47:59 Navigating Parenting Styles: The Balance of Fun and Discipline50:37 Dating as a Parent: Finding the Right Match53:09 Influencing Through Content: The Impact of Social Media01:01:09 Sharing Stories: The Importance of Representation in Literature

In this episode of Fathernetics, Jameel Mayers introduces his son Jacob, who takes on the role of interviewer. They discuss various topics including Jacob's experiences in school, reflections on parenting, and the lessons learned from childhood. The conversation highlights the dynamics of their family life, the challenges of being a parent, and the importance of personal growth and understanding. Jameel shares insights from his own upbringing and the values he hopes to instill in Jacob as he navigates his own journey.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Fathernetics and Family Dynamics05:47 Navigating School Life and Friendships11:27 Reflections on Parenting and Personal Growth16:56 Lessons from Childhood and Family Heroes

In this episode of Fathernetics, we talk with Tammy — founder of Oak Surrogacy in Canada, and a woman who has been a surrogate multiple times herself. Tammy brings a rare perspective to the conversation, sharing both her personal experiences as a surrogate and her professional role guiding intended parents and surrogates through the journey of family building.She discusses the emotional and practical realities of being a surrogate, the importance of trust and communication, and how her agency connects families from all backgrounds — LGBTQ+, single parents, and traditional couples alike. Tammy’s insights shed light on the heart of surrogacy: generosity, resilience, and the creation of families filled with love.Whether you’re an intended parent, considering becoming a surrogate, or simply curious about how the process works, this episode provides valuable knowledge from someone who truly understands both sides of the experience.✨ Subscribe to Fathernetics for more conversations with dads, parents, surrogates, and allies shaping the meaning of family today.

In this episode of Fathernetics, we sit down with Dustin Talley — a proud husband, dedicated father of two (a son and a daughter), and a strong ally to the LGBTQ+ community. Dustin opens up about balancing career and family, the joys and challenges of raising kids in today’s world, and what allyship really looks like in practice.From parenting milestones to the values he hopes to pass down, Dustin’s story is one of intentional fatherhood, partnership, and community support. Whether you’re a dad, parent-to-be, or ally yourself, this conversation will inspire you to reflect on what it means to show up for your family and for others.✨ Subscribe to Fathernetics for more real stories from fathers and allies shaping today’s parenting conversations.

In this heartfelt episode of Fathernetics, we sit down with Nader—a devoted father of two daughters, loving husband, and longtime friend I’ve known since our Houston days when he was just 12. Our conversation dives deep into what it means to be an intentional father: building the kind of foundation that allows children to grow into their truest, most amazing selves.Nader also shares his experience as an ally to the LGBTQ community, how his time living in Israel shaped his views on parenting and global citizenship, and why raising daughters in today’s world requires both courage and humility. Together, we reflect on friendship, faith, and the enduring lessons we carry from childhood to parenthood.Whether you’re a dad, a parent, or simply someone looking to understand the importance of allyship and intentional parenting, this episode offers a perspective rooted in real-life experience, cross-cultural insights, and the shared goal of raising kind, confident kids.Listen now and join the conversation at @fathernetics.

In this episode of Fathernetics, we sit down with John Berno — husband, new dad, and proud father to baby girl Vivian. John opens up about the three-year surrogacy journey that took him and his husband to Mexico, a process filled with challenges, perseverance, and ultimately the joy of welcoming their daughter into the world.From navigating international surrogacy laws to the emotional weight of waiting, John’s story is both heartfelt and eye-opening. Now, as a first-time father, he shares the early moments of bonding with Vivian, the lessons learned along the way, and what family means after such a long road to parenthood.Whether you’re exploring surrogacy, curious about LGBTQ+ family-building, or simply love hearing powerful fatherhood stories, this conversation will inspire and resonate.✨ Subscribe to Fathernetics for more real stories of dads, allies, and parents shaping the future of family.

In this episode, I sit down with my big sister Jowharah McNeil—the original trailblazer of the McNeil clan—who’s got receipts on how Dad shaped her world and, by extension, ours. As the firstborn, Jowharah took the brunt of “first-child strictness,” only to turn around and soften the landing for me and our brother Abbas. She unpacks the lessons Dad passed down—work ethic, compassion, and fierce loyalty—and shows how those values became the blueprint she carried into every role: daughter, sister, aunt, and unflinching family advocate.In this conversation:• Dad’s legacy in action: pivotal moments when his guidance set Jowharah on a path of bold choices and big-hearted leadership• Blazing the trail: stories of being the family guinea pig—schoolyard antics, curfew capers, and learning the hard way so we didn’t have to• Shielding the siblings: how Jowharah negotiated wiggle room with our parents, easing the rules for me and Abbas while still keeping it all in check• Sibling symphony: the balance of teasing, teaching, and team-building that turned strict rules into shared laughter and lifelong bonds• Passing the torch: her vision for how the next generation—our sons and nephews—can carry forward the best of Dad’s influence without fear of the unknownJowharah brings heartfelt anecdotes, sharp wit, and that signature “big-sis realness.” Tune in for a masterclass on turning firstborn trials into family triumphs—one epic story at a time.

In this episode, I pull up a chair with Sonia M.—wife to Chrispin Mayers, Panamanian powerhouse, and veteran TV exec—to spill the tea on fatherhood from the mother’s side of the net. Born and raised in Panama, daughter and sister first, corporate juggernaut second, Sonia blends cultural wisdom with boardroom savvy to give us a fresh playbook on supporting dads, kids, and families in high-stakes arenas.In this conversation:• Cultural baseline: how growing up in Panama shaped her understanding of family roles and paternal care• Daughter & sister serve: lessons learned from the men in her life and how those lessons inform her support of partner-fathers• Balancing the set: strategies for juggling executive duties in television entertainment while staying present at home• Primary Play Maker: the art of being a rock-solid single mom• Intersectional court vision: blending Latinx heritage, expectations, and corporate culture to redefine parentingSonia brings heartfelt anecdotes, sharp insights, and that signature Panamanian flair. Tune in for a masterclass on love, leadership, and leveling up your support game—one ace at a time.

In this episode of Fathernetics, I sit down with Brian Rosenberg, founder of Gays With Kids, the leading resource and community platform for queer dads and dads-to-be. Brian opens up about his journey as a father, what inspired him to build an organization dedicated to empowering LGBTQ+ families, and the very real challenges and triumphs that come with parenting in today’s political climate.From his personal experiences raising kids as a gay dad to the larger mission of creating visibility and resources for queer families, Brian shares candid insights on love, resilience, and advocacy. We also dive into the current political landscape and how it impacts LGBTQ+ parents, exploring both the progress made and the hurdles still ahead.If you’ve ever wondered what it takes to build a thriving community for gay dads—or simply want an honest conversation about fatherhood, identity, and pushing for change—this episode is for you.Listen in and join the conversation.#Fathernetics #BrianRosenberg #GaysWithKids #GayDads #LGBTQParenting #QueerFamilies #FatherhoodJourney #LGBTQCommunity #IntentionalParenting

In this fabulously unexpected episode (in a good way), I sit down with Robert McNeil—a man whose roadmap to fatherhood wasn’t drawn by his dad but lovingly sketched by his larger-than-life grandfather. Robert shares how “Pop-Pop’s” old-school charm, tough love, and secret stash of life hacks became the foundation for his own parenting style—and how sometimes the fiercest role models come in the most surprising packages.In this conversation:• When Dad sat out: the story of why Robert’s father took a backseat and how his grandfather swooped in with playbook in hand, unknowingly• Pop-Pop’s playbook: larger-than-life anecdotes that forged Robert’s “grandslam” approach to parenthood• Turning trials into triumphs: how vintage wisdom about resilience, responsibility, and unconditional love became Robert’s north star as a dad• Caps, gowns & glitter: celebrating his son’s high-school graduation—complete with the lessons Robert now passes on as both dad and doting grad-dad• Mentors in disguise: why the best fatherhood examples might come from unexpected places, and how to spot them in your own lifeRobert brings humor, heart, and just the right amount of glitzy nostalgia. Tune in for a masterclass on embracing the unorthodox, honoring family legacies, and serving up fatherhood realness—one vintage gem at a time.

Daniel and Jeff open up about their journey toward fatherhood, reflecting on their relationships with their own parents—especially their dads—and how those experiences shaped their readiness to become fathers themselves. Along the way, they share heartfelt moments, future hopes, and the qualities they believe will make them great dads. Between the emotional beats, the conversation takes fun detours into concert memories, from Beyoncé’s powerhouse performances to Lady Gaga’s show-stopping moments, and the excitement of Vegas adventures. This episode blends laughter, insight, and connection in true Fathernetics style.#FatherhoodJourney #Fathernetics #GayDads #ParentingStories #LGBTQFamily #FutureFathers #FatherhoodGoals #ConcertMemories #BeyonceFans #LadyGagaFans #VegasLife #LGBTQPodcast #DadLifeUnfiltered #ParentingPodcast #FathersByChoice

What does it take to build a family when the road stretches across continents? In this episode of Fathernetics, Aldo and Kim share their powerful 10-year surrogacy journey that spans the UK, the Netherlands, Canada, and the US. From navigating laws and cultural expectations to the emotional highs and heartbreaking setbacks, their story is a testament to resilience, love, and the power of chosen family.You’ll hear how these two gay dads kept their vision alive through international challenges, the lessons they’ve learned about patience and partnership, and why visibility for LGBTQ+ families matters now more than ever. Their experience is not just about parenthood—it’s about perseverance, identity, and redefining what family looks like.If you’ve ever wondered what the surrogacy process is like across borders, or if you’re seeking stories of fatherhood told with honesty and heart, this episode will leave you inspired.👉 Subscribe to Fathernetics for weekly conversations with fathers, allies, and families from every walk of life.👉 Join the community on Instagram: @fathernetics

In this extended episode of Fathernetics, Mark and Eoin open up about their family’s surrogacy journey and the joy of raising two kids in a culturally rich, mixed-heritage home. From navigating the emotional highs of surrogacy to recognizing the potential money traps that hopeful parents should watch out for, they bring honesty and humor to every detail of their story.Food plays a big role in their family life, and they share how good meals have become a grounding force while raising little ones. The conversation also explores Ireland vs. America as home bases—where their kids can thrive, where family support feels strongest, and how different cultural perspectives shape their parenting experience.This episode is packed with practical takeaways for parents considering surrogacy, meaningful reflections on cultural identity, and a whole lot of heart.#Fathernetics #IntentionalParenting #SurrogacyJourney #LGBTQParents #GayDads #ParentingAcrossCultures #CulturalAwareness #IrelandVsAmerica #ModernFatherhood #ParentingWithPurpose #SurrogacyStories #RaisingMixedKids

In this episode, I team up with my uncle and lifelong mentor, Crispin M., who coaches fatherhood through the dynamics of the tennis court. From perfecting your serve to mastering the match point, Crispin shows us how each play on the court mirrors moments in parenting—challenging us to stay agile, strategic, and always ready to learn alongside our kids.In this conversation:Finding your serve: how crafting a pre-kickoff routine sets the tone for the whole dayRallying through the rough patches: strategies for staying present when parenting feels like a long setReading your opponent—and your child: mastering the art of observation to anticipate needs before they ariseThe importance of “changeovers”: taking intentional breaks to reset, recharge, and reconnect as a family"Never make provisions for failure.'Chrispin brings the precision of a coach, the camaraderie of a doubles partner, and the wisdom of an uncle who’s seen it all. Whether you’re upmatch or downmatch, this episode serves up the plays you need to turn every point into an opportunity for growth, connection, and—above all—love.

Trevor Said WHAT?! Fatherhood Gets CandidIn this episode, I sit down with Trevor—an only child, proud husband, and devoted dad of two—to explore the realities and rewards of fatherhood through his lens as part of an interracial LGBTQ+ family.We dive into questions like:• What does fatherhood look like when you’ve never had siblings?• How do two dads balance identity, culture, and parenting?• What are the ups and downs of the adoption process?From heartfelt reflections to everyday parenting wins and challenges, Trevor brings a warm, honest voice to the table. Whether you’re navigating parenthood, adoption, or allyship, there’s something here for you.🎧 Tune in—and let the realness begin.

In this fabulously candid episode, I catch up with my brother Abbas—our dad’s favorite protégé—who’s mastered the art of viewing life through the vibrant prism Dad handed him. We dive into how growing up under Dad’s watchful gaze shaped Abbas’s compass as a son, how sibling shenanigans turned us into lifelong allies, and how he’s taken that same fierce love into the world as a mentor and “father” to chosen family.Abbas reflects on the attributes he inherited—compassion and tenacity from Mom, but above all resilience and integrity from Dad—and how those lessons have sculpted the way he carries himself, making him stand out among men. Expect heartwarming anecdotes about negotiating curfews (and friendly rivalries), lessons in loyalty forged at , and Abbas’s vision for extending our family’s legacy of compassion and courage far beyond our household. Tune in for a blend of big-brother sass (from yours truly) with big-brother brilliance—proof that sometimes the best way to honor Dad is to see the world through his shades on.

In this episode, Shawn and Tyler (@shawnandtylerb) kick things off with stories from their trip to see Beyoncé live in Houston. I jump in with my own memories of meeting Beyoncé a few times at church—alongside Kelly Rowland—back in the day.We explore how their different upbringings shaped them: Shawn grew up without a dad in his life, while Tyler was close to his. Their YouTube channel, once a window into their everyday lives, skyrocketed when they shared the arrival of Harrison—their newborn son through adoption.We dive into their experiences of growing up without seeing families like theirs reflected in the world, and how that fuels their mission to create a community that represents them—for themselves, and for their son.#GayDads #LGBTQParents #AdoptionJourney #BeyonceFans #TwoDads #LGBTQFamily #GayParents #FatherhoodPodcast #LGBTQRepresentation #GayDadsOfInstagram #LGBTQLove #AdoptiveParents #RepresentationMatters #FatherneticsPodcast #LoveMakesAFamily

In this episode of Fathernetics, Louis & Sean takes us through the winding path of becoming a father via surrogacy in Canada. From the early days of uncertainty — paperwork, waiting lists, and emotional hurdles — to the life‑changing moment he held his child for the first time, Sean’s story is as real and raw as it gets.He shares what surprised him most about the process, the challenges unique to LGBTQ parents navigating international surrogacy, and the powerful lessons about patience, resilience, and redefining family along the way.This isn’t just about becoming a parent — it’s about rewriting what parenthood can look like and the community it takes to make it possible.Listen now wherever you get your podcasts and join the conversation @fathernetics.#Fathernetics #SurrogacyJourney #LGBTQFamily #GayDads #QueerParenting #ModernParenting #FatherhoodPodcast #ParentingStories #ChosenFamily

In this episode of Fathernetics, we sit down with Ethan Levy — whose life story captured national attention when his adoption by LGBTQ parents made the New York Times. Raised between the iconic shores of Fire Island and the vibrant streets of Chelsea, Ethan offers a candid look into what it means to grow up embraced by queer culture and family values.Ethan opens up about identity, belonging, and the power of safe spaces for LGBTQ youth. He reflects on the unique challenges and joys of being part of a famously public adoption story and shares why he’s committed to fostering deeper conversations and connections within the queer community today.This is more than a personal history, it’s an invitation to rethink what family looks like and how we create inclusive spaces for the next generation.Listen now wherever you get your podcasts and join the conversation @fathernetics.#Fathernetics #LGBTQFamily #QueerParenting #AdoptionStory #FireIsland #ChelseaNYC #FatherhoodPodcast #ModernParenting #SafeSpaces #QueerVoices

Anthony C. Brings the D(iscussion)In this episode of Fathernetics, I get on a call with my good friend Anthony—a straight father, husband to Sophia, and proud dad to a beautiful daughter. We dive into the realness of fatherhood from his perspective, the joys and challenges of raising a girl in today’s world, and how he keeps his identity as a husband, friend, and man in balance.From navigating marriage to sharing laughs about our own parenting fails, this one is full of gems for dads from all walks of life. Whether you’re a new father or deep in the game, Anthony brings relatable wisdom and warmth you won’t want to miss.Topics We Covered:• Raising daughters with intention• The evolving role of modern dads• Friendships and emotional support for men• Marriage maintenance while parenting• Laughs, life, and the lessons in betweenFollow us on IG: @fathernetics

🎙 Episode: #8 - Same Love, Different LeavesIn this episode of Fathernetics, I sit down with my close friend, Shally V, to explore how culture shapes our experiences as LGBTQ+ individuals and fathers. Coming from a deeply rooted Indian background and now building his life, career, and family in America, Shally shares his unique journey of navigating identity, tradition, and fatherhood as a straight cis-gendered male.We discuss:🌏 The cultural contrasts between growing up in India vs. the U.S.🏳️‍🌈 How LGBTQ+ identity is perceived across different cultures👨‍👩‍👦‍👦 The common threads that connect us as fathers, regardless of background💬 The importance of representation, acceptance, and chosen familyDespite the differences in where we come from, this conversation highlights how much we truly share when it comes to love, family, and fatherhood.👉 Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow me on Instagram @fathernetics for more insights and - eventually - behind-the-scenes moments.🎧 Tune in, subscribe, and join us on this journey of connection!

🎙 Episode: #07 - Mothers Spilling the Parental TeaIn this special episode, we flip the mic and bring Mom into the Fathernetics fold. As a co-parent, she shares her honest perspective on what it’s like partnering with dads, navigating blended family dynamics, and raising a child with love, boundaries, and humor.We talk about communication breakdowns, co-parent wins, and what fathers can do to show up better every day. This is the real, unfiltered, necessary convo—because it takes more than one perspective to raise amazing humans.💬 In This Episode:• How co-parenting actually works (not just the theory)• What moms wish dads really knew• The importance of community• Why “showing up” matters more than being perfect🔊 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts.🧠 Join the convo @fathernetics.#Fathernetics #CoParentingRealness #MomsAndDadsUnite #FatherhoodPodcast #ModernParenting #RealDadTalk #FamilyFirst #ParentingFromBothSides #LGBTQFamily #BlackAndBrownDads

Bonus: Paper Cradles Interview: Author Jameel Mayers on Open Adoption & Gay FatherhoodIn this powerful episode of Fathernetics, we go behind the scenes of Paper Cradles — a deeply personal and gripping memoir that chronicles the emotional terrain of fatherhood, open adoption, identity, and love. From the first phone call to finalizing the paperwork, this story doesn’t shy away from the messy, the beautiful, and the deeply human moments that make up the adoption journey.Whether you’re an adoptive parent, a birth parent, or somewhere in between, this episode offers an honest look at what it means to choose fatherhood — again and again.We explore:The reality of open adoptionNavigating fatherhood as a gay, married coupleHow to stay grounded when the system tests your patienceWhy “chosen family” isn’t just a phrase — it’s a callingWhat Paper Cradles reveals about grief, hope, and parenthoodIf you’ve ever questioned what makes a family, or how far you’d go to protect a child not born to you but born for you — this one’s for you.📕 Buy the book: Buy Here.📲 Follow us on Instagram: @fathernetics & @jmayerspublushing💬 Let us know what resonated with you in the comments or reviews!

Surrogacy to Sippy Cups: A Gay Dad’s Wild Ride with TonyIn this episode of Fathernetics, we sit down with the endlessly lovable and hilariously honest Tony—aka Daddy Chen (https://www.instagram.com/avery.atlas.zc) a proud gay dad raising two spirited little ones with his husband, Daddy Chase, in the heart of Orange County, California.Tony opens up about his surrogacy journey and how being the son of immigrants shaped his identity as both a father and a partner. We get real about social pressures in Los Angeles, the uprising, and protest- how they impact him, his children, and the culture of comparison - "How do you talk to your children about war" and why intentional parenting is the only parenting that works when you’ve got a fiercely independent three-year-old daughter named Avery and a 20-month-old daredevil son named Atlas.Get ready for laughter, real talk, and some serious dad wisdom with a whole lotta sass.✨ Topics We Cover:Gay dads navigating fatherhood in Orange CountyThe beautiful chaos of parenting toddlersReal talk on being a child of immigrantsThe emotional layers of surrogacy and chosen familyThe truth about social status and expectations in LAWhy being intentional as a parent is everything📢 Perfect for:LGBTQ+ parentsDads exploring surrogacy optionsSons of immigrants navigating new generational pathsAnyone who wants a heartwarming, hilarious, and honest convo about modern parenting🔗 FOLLOW FATHERNETICS EVERYWHERE!🎙️ Listen & Subscribe:Spotify → search “Fathernetics”Apple Podcasts → search “Fathernetics”YouTube → youtube.com/@fathernetics📱 Connect on Social:Instagram → @fatherneticsTikTok → @fatherneticsFacebook → facebook.com/fathernetics💬 Engage:Like, comment, and share with your crewTag a dad who needs to hear thisSlide into the DMs with your stories—we might just talk about it!🎧 New episodes weekly. Real talk. Dad perspective. LGBTQ+ lens.Because fatherhood isn’t one-size-fits-all—and it sure isn’t quiet.📌 Tags:#GayDads #SurrogacyJourney #LGBTQFamily #TwoDads #IntentionalParenting #ToddlerLife #FatherhoodUnfiltered #ModernFamily #OrangeCountyDads #SonOfImmigrants #DadPodcast #Fathernetics #GayDadLife #war #NoKings

🎙 Abuelo Energy: Celebrating Zaddy Vibes with Esteban on Father’s DayIn this special episode (Father's Day), I sit down with my own father for a real, unfiltered conversation about what fatherhood meant to him—and how it’s evolved across generations. We get into the values he passed down, the mistakes he owned, and the pride he carries watching me raise my kids. It’s a full-circle moment you don’t want to miss.Highlights include:• The lessons he learned from his father• What he thinks I’m doing right (and wrong)• How parenting has changed—and stayed the same• Laughter, vulnerability, and a few surprisesThis one’s straight from the heart. Let’s get into it.Follow us on Instagram @fathernetics - https://www.instagram.com/fathernetics/#Fathernetics #GayDadPodcast #ModernFatherhood #LGBTQDads #dadLife #Fathersday #ParentingUnfiltered #DadTalks #LGBTQ #FathersMatter #InclusiveParenting #FatherhoodIn2025 #Panama

🎙 Chassé into Fatherhood: Ballroom Dancer Dad Michael J. Shares the Adoption JourneyIn this episode, I talk with Michael (@mdjeffersonii) —one of many siblings, a proud Black father, and someone who always knew parenthood was part of his path.We unpack:• What it means to grow up in a big family and build your own• How race, culture, and identity shape the parenting journey• Why representation and community matter in adoptionMichael brings heart, history, and humor as he shares how the Black experience has shaped his approach to fatherhood, love, and legacy. His story is one of intention, deep roots, and dreaming forward.🎧 Tap in—this one hits soul deep.ELYSIUM, a book by Jameel MayersWhere to get your copy:📚 Paperback & Kindle available on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DXGGMCJ8📖 Direct from the author: https://www.jameelmayers.com/📲 Connect & explore more:Follow the book on Instagram: @jmayerspublishing#Fathernetics #GayDadPodcast #ModernFatherhood #LGBTQDads #dadLife #ParentingUnfiltered #DadTalks #FathersMatter #InclusiveParenting #FatherhoodIn2025

🎙 Sis Has Thoughts: Women Talking Fatherhood with Daisy – Sunday SpecialIn this special Sunday episode, I sit down with our dear family friend Daisy to explore fatherhood from a different angle—not from the seat of a father, but from the heart of someone who’s been beside us, loving us, supporting us, and witnessing our journey as two dads raising boys.Daisy brings the kind of insight only a woman can—nurturing, reflective, and unflinchingly honest. She speaks to the quiet power of emotional labor, the role of women in shaping family systems, and what it means to show up for fathers as they show up for their kids.In this conversation:• The gift of proximity: watching fatherhood unfold from the inside out• Why women often see what fathers miss—and why that matters• How chosen family and allyship strengthen LGBTQ+ parenting• The balance of softness and strength in raising children todayDaisy offers a voice filled with warmth, clarity, and experience. Her perspective reminds us that fatherhood doesn’t exist in a vacuum—it’s enriched, challenged, and elevated by the women who walk with us.This one’s about the village, the wisdom of women, and the power of showing up.#Fathernetics #GayDadPodcast #ModernFatherhood #LGBTQDads #dadLife #ParentingUnfiltered #DadTalks #FathersMatter #InclusiveParenting #FatherhoodIn2025

🎙 Adoption Chronicles: Destiny’s Story with Nicholas D. — LGBTQ+ Adoptive DadIn this episode, I sit down with my husband, Nicholas (Instagram: @nicnick), to have an open and honest conversation about fatherhood from our unique perspective as an interracial LGBTQ+ couple. We ask and answer some of the biggest questions we’ve faced on this journey, including:• How do you know you’re ready to be a dad?• How do we navigate adoption as an interracial LGBTQ+ couple?• How do we teach our child about diversity and acceptance?From personal reflections to practical insights, this discussion is all about love, intentionality, and the lessons we’re learning as parents. Whether you’re a father, hoping to be one, or just curious about different perspectives on parenting, this episode is for you.🎧 Tune in and let’s keep the conversation going!#Fathernetics #GayDadPodcast #ModernFatherhood #LGBTQDads #dadLife #ParentingUnfiltered #DadTalks #FathersMatter #InclusiveParenting #FatherhoodIn2025