Golden Threads: Stories of Disability & Resilience

Leanne Watson sees her life in three acts — and the third one started the day a freshly minted GP finally took her seriously.For nearly a decade, doctors fobbed her off. Lose weight. Build glutes. You've had three kids. One specialist had her parade in her bra and undies and said she "looked fine." She was 42 when she was finally diagnosed with limb girdle muscular dystrophy (LGMD) — a rare, progressive neuromuscular condition that's been quietly dismantling her muscles ever since.In this Episode 1 of Golden Threads, host Dan Dougherty sits down with Leanne — now 60, podcaster, former community radio host, and one of the warmest advocates you'll meet — to talk about what it's actually like to become disabled in slow motion. The optimism. The grief that doesn't announce itself. The husband who decided this happened to both of them. The strangers who pray over her in hotel lobbies. And the barista at Chadstone who looked her in the eye and changed how she felt that whole day.This is a conversation about disability, inclusion, marriage, motherhood, advocacy, and the simple radical act of saying hello.Key Takeaways- A life in three acts. Leanne maps her 60 years into three chapters — the privileged childhood and young marriage, the family-building decades, and the third act that began the moment she was diagnosed at 42.- The cost of being dismissed. Nine years of being fobbed off by doctors before a young GP ordered the right blood test. A reminder that women, especially, get told their bodies are "just changing."- "This has happened to the both of us." Leanne's husband Gary's quiet philosophy — and what it teaches us about love, partnership, and refusing to make disability a solo project.- Inclusion is small, daily, and specific. From the strangers who pray over her uninvited to the barista who simply looked her in the eye — Leanne unpacks what real inclusion looks like in everyday Australian life.- Community is non-negotiable. Why she joined Women with Disabilities Victoria, started a radio show, and now hosts her own podcast — and why one phone call to a community group can change everything.Guest BioLeanne Watson lives on the Bellarine Peninsula in Victoria with her husband Gary. She is the eldest of four, a mum of three, and grandparent to a growing family. After a career at Westpac and decades of part-time work and community volunteering, Leanne was diagnosed with limb girdle muscular dystrophy (LGMD) at 42. Today she is the host of You, Me and Muscular Dystrophy, a former presenter of Rolling Through Wednesdays on Pulse FM, and an active member of Women with Disabilities Victoria (Barwon Hub).Find Leanne:- Website: Leanne's Wheel Life — leanneswheellife.com - Podcast: You, Me and Muscular Dystrophy (YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts)- Instagram: @leanneswheellife Resources Mentioned- Limb Girdle Muscular Dystrophy (LGMD) — overview via Muscular Dystrophy Australia: mda.org.au- Women with Disabilities Victoria (WDV) — wdv.org.au — Leanne is a member of the Barwon Hub- Women with Disabilities Australia (WWDA) — wwda.org.au- From the Outskirts — WDV's podcast featuring women with disabilities going about their lives- Rolling Through Wednesdays — Leanne's former weekly spot on Pulse FM (community radio, Bellarine), supported by Loretta Hart- You, Me and Muscular Dystrophy — Leanne's current podcast (YouTube, Spotify, Apple) Timestamps- 00:00 Cold open + welcome to Golden Threads- 01:01 Meeting Leanne — and the breathing tube on the desk- 02:42 What limb girdle muscular dystrophy actually is- 03:53 A life in three acts: childhood in Melbourne's east- 06:11 Meeting Gary in Year 11 — and a life built early- 08:19 Marriage, motherhood, and a quietly privileged life- 08:49 Something starts changing at 35- 09:46 Nine years of being fobbed off by specialists- 11:43 The blood test that finally cracked it open- 12:11 Diagnosis at 42 — and the third act begins- 13:35 The slow inventory: high heels, toilet frames, stairs- 17:58 "Each time I thought, this is it. It's not going to get worse."- 19:21 Optimism, pragmatism, and protection- 20:15 Gary's philosophy: "this has happened to the both of us"- 22:08 Parenting through progression- 23:07 What end of life looks like from here- 25:30 Loneliness, community, and being seen- 25:52 What it's like being treated as "different"- 27:46 The strangers who pray over her uninvited- 30:30 The wheelchair "speed jokes" — and why they sting- 31:54 What Dan got wrong, and what real inclusion looks like- 34:30 Choice, consent, and being pushed without permission- 34:56 The Chadstone barista who got it right- 36:32 Anatomy of LGMD — what it does muscle by muscle- 40:22 Why Leanne started You, Me and Muscular Dystrophy- 41:18 The power of community — book club, WDV, Pulse FM- 44:00 The radio show, the illness, and finding podcasting- 45:26 "Just make one phone call."- 47:48 Final reflections: we are only as strong as our weakest link- 50:08 OutroCall to ActionIf this conversation moved you, here's how to help us share more like it:- Subscribe to Golden Threads and the Kintsugi Heroes podcast wherever you listen- Leave a rating or review — it's the single biggest thing you can do to help us reach more listeners- Share this episode with one person who needs to hear it today- Donate to support our storytelling: kintsugiheroes.com.au — all donations are tax-deductible- Partner with us if your organisation works in disability, inclusion, or community: [email protected] Kintsugi Connection🎥 Watch the full conversation on YouTube: youtube.com/@KintsugiHeroesAbout Kintsugi HeroesKintsugi Heroes is a not-for-profit storytelling platform sharing real stories of resilience, disability, and transformation — inspired by the Japanese art of kintsugi, where broken pottery is repaired with gold and the cracks become part of its beauty.We believe the people who've been broken and rebuilt have something the rest of us need to hear.Partner with us: [email protected] (tax-deductible): kintsugiheroes.com.au/donateConnect:- Website: kintsugiheroes.com.au- Instagram: @kintsugi.heroes- Facebook: facebook.com/kintsugiheroes- LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/kintsugiheroes- YouTube: youtube.com/@KintsugiHeroesRemember — we're all in this together.

Golden Threads: Stories of Disability & ResilienceGolden Threads is a Kintsugi Heroes podcast hosted by Daniel Dougherty, sharing honest, lived-experience conversations with people navigating disability, identity, and inclusion.This series explores what it really means to adapt, persevere, and live fully in a world still learning what accessibility and inclusion look like in practice.Each episode brings forward real stories — not focused on labels, but on people, relationships, and lived experience.Topics covered:disability, resilience, lived experience, inclusion, accessibility, identity, mental health, community, personal storiesAbout Kintsugi HeroesKintsugi Heroes is an Australian not-for-profit dedicated to strengthening wellbeing through lived-experience storytelling.We create safe, respectful spaces where stories can be shared with dignity — helping people feel seen, heard, and connected.Learn more or support the work:https://www.kintsugiheroes.com.auhttps://www.kintsugiheroes.com.au/donate/#donate