Hot and Nice

We played would you rather, and things got interesting fast…

Learn how to speak like a hottie! Your crash course in new phrases and jokes you can start using every day.

We put our friendship to the test by playing We’re Not Really Strangers. Find out if we’re really besties.

We hosted the inaugural Hot and Nice Fest during our cabin weekend in Ohio. Tune in for the highs, lows, near-death moments and the memories we wish were on video.

Debating the conspiracies we swear are real, the ones we blame on the universe and the astrology takes we refuse to stop believing in.

For some people, Reddit is therapy… or a public diary entry that should’ve stayed private.We’re reacting to some of the most chaotic, unhinged stories on Internet.

NSFW 🤭 Sharing updates on our sex lives that would usually stay in the group chat.

No, unfortunately, the title is NOT clickbait. From emailing Ben Shapiro, to buying pen** enlargers, to trying to buy a dog off Craigslist, our exes really have the audacity. If nothing else, we hope these stories make you laugh and feel better about your own dating chaos.

Are you using "boundaries" as an excuse to not show up for your friends? You can’t build a village if you’re not willing to be a villager.

We’re breaking down what we’re calling the "spectrum of modern manhood," from incel culture to paypig dynamics. Learn more about these online communities, the signs you might be dating one and whether your boyfriend actually hates women.

Did you miss us? Viv, Macy, Haley and Gillian are back around the dining room table, catching up on life and sharing their (anti) resolutions for 2026.

You’ve made it to the Season 1 finale of Hot and Nice! Thank you all for listening! We’re recapping lessons we’ve learned from the iconic NYC foursome of Sex and the City—friendship, dating, sex—and why it’s all still relevant in 2025. Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

It’s getting hot in here… Welcome to our very first Hot and SPICE episode — everything you need to know to spice up your sex life.We’re talking mouth spitting, missionary, OnlyFans, the infamous hottie classic of c**k and balls and more.Plus, we’re answering your questions and sharing juicy submissions straight from the Hottie Hotline. Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

We threw a Hot and Freaki Tiki party! We’re breaking down how to throw a party people won’t stop talking about — from setting a theme and curating the vibe, to planning games and keeping the energy high all night long.Whether you’re hosting a pregame, birthday or backyard bash, this is your unofficial party playbook.And remember… hot and nice guests only (a few of ours may even make a special appearance this episode 👀)Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

We’re excited to welcome our very first guest! This week, we sit down with Erica Molfetto, the co-writer behind Blanchard’s Turn: A Killer Gypsy Musical — an off-Broadway show inspired by true crime, internet culture and extreme mommy issues.We’re talking crazy ideas, chasing your wildest dreams and making them a reality — because if you don’t, someone else will.Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

Let’s get real about living in New York as a #brokegirl. From broker fees, student loans and overdrafted bank accounts—we’re talking apartment hunting scams, splitting bills and spotting secret Nepo babies.Plus, we’re sharing our most humbling money moments, the side hustles we’ve considered (OnlyFans?) and the manifestations that somehow justify it all.Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

Just because you can date doesn’t always mean you’re ready.This week, we’re unpacking a Hotties Overheard about a single Hinge date that spiraled into full-blown obsession… and not from the side you’d expect.And to close out Q2, we’re crowning a very deserving recipient of the Worst Peen Award.Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

Are we still considered NYC transplants if we’ve lived here over a year?This week, we’re breaking down all our favorite spots — from food and drinks to fashion and, of course, chaotic dating moments.It’s New York or nowhere, baby.Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

This week, the hotties are getting into all things age — from feeling younger than ever in NYC to navigating age gap relationships. We’re talking sex, celebrity couples and more. Plus, a Hottie debate: kissing or sauce? Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

We missed you last week, but Brat Summer waits for no one, and we’re back and better than ever! One hottie is off the market, and another is back on. Fueled by vodka Redbull and wild stories, we’re sharing tips to get you prepped for Brat Summer 2.0.Plus, we’re answering some of our recent hottie hotline questions. It’s time to hydrate and dance like no one’s watching because it’s HOTTIE SUMMER, baby! Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

What happens when you drunkenly wake up to a Marine’s hat in your apartment during Fleet Week?You make a TikTok to return it—and then go viral. Welcome to Fleet Week 2025: Hot and Nice edition. Where we unpack the full 4-day bender: the hat heist, a stolen cone, trash snacks and a backyard cookout featuring a live set by DJ Bender and a surprise performance by Viv.Let's Debrief. 💋🍸

To celebrate our 10th episode, we’re diving into one of the hardest kinds of breakups: friendship breakups.Whether it’s a slow fade, a dramatic fallout or just growing apart, losing a friend hurts—and no one talks about it enough. The hotties open up about their own friendship breakups, what they’ve learned and how to move on.Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

Sometimes red flags are like the sun — right in front of you, but somehow you still get burned. 🚩In this episode, we’re diving into the red flags we missed, the green flags we love and sharing submissions from our hottie listeners.Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

This week, we’re getting real about long-term relationships — the good, the bad and the boring. From keeping things exciting and handling jealousy, to surviving long distance and knowing when it’s time to move on, we’re sharing our best (and worst) lessons learned.Let’s Debrief. 💋🍸

Just in time for Brat Summer 2025, we’re throwing it back to one unforgettable Brat Weekend. Haley finally shares her truth: how a single SoulCycle class spiraled into a 5-day hospital stay and a near-death diagnosis—rhabdomyolysis. ‍From ER chaos and hot doctors to IV floods and grumpy roommates, it’s a cautionary tale of what happens when a Brat goes a little too hard... at a spin class.Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

This week, we’re diving into the world of NYC subways. From almost fighting a man, to catching strangers jerkin’ it on the train, to meeting the one and only Cousin Ray — this episode is a wild ride through the depths of NYC public transit.We’ve seen it all. But let’s be real… we’ve probably been someone’s subway creature too.Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

From men who ask for your Snapchat in 2025, to health spirals that land you in the ER post-rave, to career meltdowns—we’re breaking down what it means to truly crash out (because let’s be real, we’ve all been there).Whether you’re spiraling about what to wear, or questioning your entire future, this one’s for you.Let’s Debrief. 💋🍸

This week, we dive into your Hottie Hotline submissions and answer your burning questions. We cover everything from seducing Hot and Nice girls to overcoming imposter syndrome, plus our thoughts on moving out of state and navigating polyamory. Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

Buckle up, hotties. This week, we’re taking you on a wild ride through a short-lived but absolutely unhinged relationship with a Bushwick DJ—aka Dude—who just might be the poster child for our brand-new segment: Worst Peen. We’re breaking down the red flags, the DJ ego and the bizarre plot twists that made this an experience for the books. Oh, and did we mention he gifted a shirt that says, “I’m not gay, but my boyfriend is?”Let’s Debrief. 💋🍸

So… you want to be Hot & Nice? We’re setting the official community guidelines—everything from committing to the bit and being a girls' girl to avoiding boyfriend sickness. Plus, we’re answering our first Hottie Hotline mail and crowning our inaugural “Hottie of the Week.” Oh, and the golden rule? #BringBackGrinding. Let’s debrief. 💋🍸

A three-day bender leads to a three-way makeout with Navy Seals and somehow ends with a Harry Jowsey in bed. By sunrise, someone was saying three little words — and it wasn’t us. Let’s debrief. 💋🍸