How To Get a Guy in 10 Ways

In our 10th & FINAL episode, Danielle and I brought our husbands on as guests to discuss our questions AND all listener questions that had been sent in:What was something we did that let you know we were interested or at least open to the idea of getting to know you?What was a fear you were wrestling with when you were deciding whether to ask us out or not?When you were single, what were some of the ways you preferred a girl to show interest in you?What should I do when I’m head over heels for a guy who checks off all my boxes & I check off all of his, but he’s not in the same place as me yet. He does want to be & has some things to work through before he can be in a relationship. Should I linger and be patient in the friend zone?How do you ask the hard questions?If a guy friend in your friend group asks you out and you turn him down but months later your feelings change and you'd be open to see where things go, how do you go about letting him know? Any advice on what I should do?How soon is too soon to get married?How to find a traditional type of masculine man (provider, strong, Christian, leader, etc)? I feel like it can be hard to know if he has “toxic masculinity” or if he’s just confident in who he is as a man right away. What are some red flags to look out for?SHOW NOTES:Our playlist for the drive to your date!https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3Fq3REDrBLKo2aX5XkD63O?si=66e45f210c0549a9FOLLOW Head to Heart Podcast (RELAUNCHES IN SEPTEMBER 2026!) - https://open.spotify.com/show/0WBFraCL0647Gfelm4XvqQ?si=f40b6f4db7d24f11

In our 9th episode, we discuss with Richard & Darcie Payne:How important is feeling “the spark” on the first few dates?Is your phone numbing you from feeling the dopamine rush of having a great date?Date ideas that will help you connect way more than just staring at each other over coffeeHow do you keep natural conversation going when first meeting someone?What types of questions help you know the person deeper without being “too much”?HINGE 2025 DATE REPORT:https://files.hinge.co/41f24ee8c5b2a48fbad9ffee49a8bcbf32b559e1.pdf/Hinge%202025%20Gen%20Z%20D.A.T.E.%20Report.pdf

In our 8th episode, we discussed:How to get out of the friend zone even if you’ve already heard those dreaded words “You’re like a sister to me” and it feels like it's already too lateHow to gauge if that guy is finally catching feelings for youHow to have the DTR that won’t catch him off guardThe behavioral science that is proven to get people out of the friend zone and into a romantic dating relationshipSHOW NOTES:Vanessa Van Edwards - Behavioral Investigatorhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uoI11Ih13ZsASK US YOUR QUESTIONS USING THIS LINK & WE’LL ANSWER THEM ON THE SHOW:https://forms.gle/QmLVgCmjpNXEmrRY8Follow our playlist for the drive to your date!https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3Fq3REDrBLKo2aX5XkD63O?si=66e45f210c0549a9

In our 7th episode, we discuss with Kyle Broberg:How do you know if you have the right motives for choosing to do online dating?What age/season of life do you recommend choosing to do online dating?How do you prevent burnout while using dating apps?How can you prevent yourself from developing a consumer mindset while swiping away on profiles?How do you learn to not judge someone based on the first photo?How to steward the apps well without it consuming all of your time & mental spaceWhich types of online conversations should you invest in?ASK US YOUR QUESTIONS USING THIS LINK & WE’LL ANSWER THEM ON THE SHOW:https://forms.gle/QmLVgCmjpNXEmrRY8Follow our playlist for the drive to your date!https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3Fq3REDrBLKo2aX5XkD63O?si=66e45f210c0549a9

In our sixth episode, Emma Nicholson joins us to discuss- how she successfully set up Jenny & Joe- how to get set up on a date by people you trust in direct and indirect ways- how to go into any date with curiosity & open-handedness, not a grocery list or unrealistic expectations- how to honor the date and the person who set you up, even if there won't be a 2nd date- our #1 pieces of dating advise that change the gameSHOW NOTESAsk us your questions here & we'll answer them anonymously on the show:https://forms.gle/JXZaGVcnkH8fH9YSAOur playlist for the drive to your date:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3Fq3REDrBLKo2aX5XkD63O?si=66e45f210c0549a9

In our 5th episode, we interviewed author, speaker & matchmaker Jackie Dorman and discussed:- Why is dating nowadays more difficult than in decades past?- How to drop the unrealistic expectations keeping you from dating the one- How to leverage your community and meet the right guy for you- How to do the gritty, supernatural heart work in your own life and figure out what has been keeping you singleResources:Jackie Dorman’s website & resources: https://jackiedorman.com/Jackie’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jackiedormanofficial/Ask us your questions here & we'll answer them on the show:https://forms.gle/QmLVgCmjpNXEmrRY8Follow us on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/howtogetaguyin10ways_podcast/⁠Follow our playlist for the drive to your next date!https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3Fq3REDrBLKo2aX5XkD63O?si=66e45f210c0549a9

 In our 4th episode, we discuss: If you show interest first, does that mean you’re not going to “be pursued”?Indirect ways you can show interest in a guy you already know or are just meeting for the first timeDirect ways and one liners you can use to show interest in a guy (Indirect or Direct? Choose your preference!)What do you do if you’ve been friends for a long time & you’ve developed feelings?Which ways of “showing interest” qualify as being too abrasive?Our listener question that was sent in(!): Dating to get to know someone vs. friendship to dating - What are the pros and cons for both?ASK US YOUR QUESTIONS USING THIS LINK & WE’LL ANSWER THEM ON THE SHOW:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeHDk28S540yIHRdcmvPeemoA4yB3tsA_vRvhd17krjvdJmWA/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=104414978387641361771Follow our playlist for the drive to your date!https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3Fq3REDrBLKo2aX5XkD63O?si=66e45f210c0549a9

In our third episode, we'll talk about:- What places do you have the most chance of meeting someone available and great?- What places give you lowest chances of meeting someone available and great?- How to go into a conversation with a stranger with curiosity and create a connectionYou won't find a romantic connection if you are hanging out with your same girl group every weekend.Have a question you want answered on the show? Want to share a positive dating experience? Tell us here:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeHDk28S540yIHRdcmvPeemoA4yB3tsA_vRvhd17krjvdJmWA/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=104414978387641361771Follow our playlist for the drive to your next date:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3Fq3REDrBLKo2aX5XkD63O?si=66e45f210c0549a9

In our second episode, we talk about:- How to overcome the fear of rejection so you don't take it too personally & are able to move on faster- How to tell if you're ACTUALLY putting yourself out there or just playing scared- Weighing the cost of not putting yourself out there vs. taking the risk- How "having anxiety" can be an excuse to stay stuck and not try new things- What Solomon ACTUALLY meant when he wrote "guard your heart above all else" in ProverbsConsider this your personal pep talk that YOU CAN DO THIS! We're rooting for you!Resources:ASK US YOUR QUESTIONS USING THIS LINK & WE’LL ANSWER THEM ON THE SHOW:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeHDk28S540yIHRdcmvPeemoA4yB3tsA_vRvhd17krjvdJmWA/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=104414978387641361771Follow our playlist for the drive to your next date:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3Fq3REDrBLKo2aX5XkD63O?si=66e45f210c0549a9

In our first episode, we'll talk about:How to know if you’re currently content being single or notThe cost of choosing not to cultivate contentment right nowHow to enjoy your life TODAY regardless of your relationship statusHow to change your mindset from marriage being your reward to Jesus Himself being your rewardHow to stop pretending you’re content with God while peeking over your shoulder to see if He brought that husband yetHow to genuinely believe that what God has for you is what is BEST for youHow to determine the reason(s) you’re currently single (but don’t worry, none of the reasons are that something is wrong with you!)Resources:ASK US YOUR QUESTIONS USING THIS LINK & WE’LL ANSWER THEM ON THE SHOW:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeHDk28S540yIHRdcmvPeemoA4yB3tsA_vRvhd17krjvdJmWA/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=104414978387641361771Follow our playlist for the drive to your next date!https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3Fq3REDrBLKo2aX5XkD63O?si=66e45f210c0549a9

In this podcast, we show women how to move from Point A (single) to Point B (in a healthy romantic relationship) and we’re going to help you do it by teaching you how to leave behind all the FearOverspiritualizingLimiting beliefsConfusionDiscontentmentAnd we’ll show you how to:Be content in singleness & go after your goal of marriage somedayPut yourself out thereBe assertive without being abrasiveGet set up on datesBe in the right places to meet someone greatHow to online date smartSo if you are single and ready to mingle, afraid of putting yourself out there, afraid of rejection, or are not sure where to start in your dating life, then this podcast is for you!