I married a narcissist!

Young children of narcissists learn early in life that everything they do is a reflection on the parent to the point that the child must fit into the personality and behavioral mold intended for them. These children bear tremendous anxiety from a young age as they must continually push aside their own personality in order to please the parent and provide the mirror image the parent so desperately needs. If these children fail to comply with the narcissist’s wishes or try to set their own goals for their life – God, forbid – the children will be overtly punished, frozen out or avoided for a period of time – hours, days or even weeks depending on the perceived transgression in the eyes of the narcissistic parent. With young children, the narcissistic parent is experienced as unpredictable and confusing. After all, narcissists are  The overall quality and strength of the bond between the narcissistic parent and young child are poor and weak. Deep down, the child doesn’t feel consistently loved, as the child is taught the metaphoric Narcissistic Parenting Program: You’re only as good as I say you are, and you’ll be loved only if you’re fully compliant with my wishes. Simply put, it’s truly heartbreaking for the child – although the narcissistic parent is sinfully oblivious. SUBSCRIBE!! YouTube? https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt6w7w5QmPdw5bjODdLrG5g Quora? https://www.quora.com/profile/Chastity-Chyld BlogTalkRadio? https://www.blogtalkradio.com/northernduchess Its free....

Narcissists' emotional intelligence helps them manipulate and exploit others in fact, narcissists' emotional intelligence helps them manipulate and exploit others to get what they want, while their impaired emotional empathy desensitizes them to the pain they inflict. People who love narcissists are starved for many of these expressions of love. 1. Do you think that he has moved on yet? 2. When will it stop hurting? 3. Does he still love me, you think? SUBSCRIBE!! YouTube? https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt6w7w5QmPdw5bjODdLrG5g Quora? https://www.quora.com/profile/Chastity-Chyld BlogTalkRadio? https://www.blogtalkradio.com/northernduchess Its free....        

Lets tackle these four examples of NPD - applying them to both relational and interpersonal relationships.  an inflated sense of importancea deep need for excessive attention and admirationlack of empathy for othersoften having troubled relationships SUBSCRIBE!! YouTube? https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt6w7w5QmPdw5bjODdLrG5g Quora? https://www.quora.com/profile/Chastity-Chyld BlogTalkRadio? https://www.blogtalkradio.com/northernduchess Its free....

Northern how can I tell if I am married to a Narcissist? Often we don’t discover who or what Narcissist are until after we have open ourselves up to them. This has been one of the most horrific journeys of my life. I had never come in contact with one, until the day I married a narcissist!   SUBSCRIBE!! YouTube? https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt6w7w5QmPdw5bjODdLrG5g Quora? https://www.quora.com/profile/Chastity-Chyld BlogTalkRadio? https://www.blogtalkradio.com/northernduchess Its free....

Often we don’t discover who or what Narcissist are until after we have open ourselves up to them. This has been one of the most horrific journeys of my life. I had never come in contact with one, until the day I married a narcissist! Individuals afflicted with with NPD feel profound loneliness down to their very core. This gnawing emptiness is the central piece of what ails them. It is an un-fillable void created by inconsistent or absence of love in their early childhood. Of the narcissists I have known, there is a common desire to be sought after and wanted. This is why the initial stage of a relationship with them (love-bombing) can be so exhilarating. The Narcissist loves to pursue and be pursued. For both involved parties, this phase can be misconstrued as love. Following this “honeymoon” phase the Narcissist becomes restless , because real love is a selfless emotion and a person afflicted with Narcissistic Personality Disorder is not wired to feel that way. At this point the Narcissist begins to devalue his partner and goes back out to meet new people who may better heal his feelings of emptiness. The individuals drawn to narcissists usually hope that their love is all that is needed to fix the sadness. Try as they may, their unconditional love and kindness cannot heal and replace the loneliness of the narcissist. We are generally raised to think ”Love conquers all”, but in the case of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, it is sadly not enough. Although their heart is a lonely hunter, my empathy had at last run out. SUBSCRIBE!! YouTube? https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCt6w7w5QmPdw5bjODdLrG5g Quora? https://www.quora.com/profile/Chastity-Chyld BlogTalkRadio? https://www.blogtalkradio.com/northernduchess Its free....