I Wish Someone Would've Told Me!

Ever wondered how the Holy Spirit actually works in your daily life—and why everyone seems to have an opinion about it? In this episode, we’re cutting through the noise and tackling how to trust your relationship with the Holy Spirit. Spoiler alert: stop letting others tell you whether you’ve got it or not, and quit letting folks speak negativity over your life! We’ll explore the signs of the Holy Spirit’s presence and remind you that it’s not about what they think—it’s about what God is doing in you. Tune in, and let’s shake off those doubters together!

Ever feel stuck in life, like you’re drifting with no clear direction? In this episode, we’re breaking down how to get yourself out of that rut and on the path to growth. We’ll talk about why so many of us struggle to grow after childhood and how being shielded from decision-making can leave us feeling lost as adults. From personal, emotional, and spiritual growth to career development, I’ll guide you through identifying gaps, creating a growth plan, and building the confidence to move forward. Ready to stop drifting and start growing? Let’s get into it! Email: [email protected]

Ever feel like life throws impossible decisions your way and you’re stuck wondering if you’re making the right call? In this episode, we dive deep into how to make tough choices through faith. It’s not always about waiting for signs or divine whispers; sometimes it’s about aligning your choices with God’s word and trusting that He’ll guide your steps. We’ll break down real-life examples, explore how our expectations shape decisions, and share personal insights on leaning into faith even when the path isn’t clear. If you’re wrestling with a big decision, this one’s for you! Email: [email protected]

Searching for God's guidance? This episode takes a fun, engaging approach to uncovering God’s will, filled with lively anecdotes and laughter. Explore how faith can guide the way and how to decipher those divine hints that lead to a purpose-driven life—no crystal ball required! Email: [email protected]

Ready to flip failure on its head? This episode dives into the transformative power of a growth mindset with tales of triumph and hilarious setbacks. Uncover how embracing challenges can lead to unexpected successes, making every stumble feel like a stepping stone to greatness. Email: [email protected]

Imposter syndrome: the party crasher no one invited! In this entertaining episode, hear stories that reveal the sneaky ways it shows up and how to kick it to the curb. Discover strategies to embrace achievements with confidence and stop that inner critic from stealing the spotlight. Email: [email protected]

Ever feel like adulthood is just a series of plot twists? Join this episode as personality types take center stage, revealing how they shape expectations and the reality check that follows. With relatable stories and insightful tips, learn how to turn those expectations upside down and create a life that feels like a thrilling novel. Email: [email protected]

Who said learning stops after school? This episode celebrates lifelong learning with a fun list of must-read books that have shaped countless journeys. From hilarious mishaps to enlightening epiphanies, discover how embracing knowledge can turn everyday life into an extraordinary adventure. Email: [email protected]

Boundaries: the unsung heroes of healthy relationships! In this engaging episode, hear stories that highlight the hilarity and heartbreak of setting limits. Learn how to say “no” without guilt and embrace the power of boundaries—because saying “yes” to everything is so last season. Email: [email protected]

Ready to spot the toxic folks like a pro? Dive into this episode filled with dramatic tales of survival from the clutches of toxic relationships. Learn the red flags to watch for and how to dodge emotional grenades, all while laughing through the madness of human connections. Email: [email protected]

Why network like it’s 1999 when you can do it like a pro? This episode spills the secrets of how connections can catapult dreams into reality. With stories of epic mentorships and networking fails (yes, there are some!), discover how building relationships can be both a strategic move and a wild ride. Email: [email protected]

Failure? Been there, done that, and probably going to do it again! In this episode, we’re talking all about how to turn those epic fails into fuel for growth. Whether you’ve bombed a project, missed a big opportunity, or just had a rough day, we’ve got you covered. We’ll explore how failure can actually be the secret ingredient to success (crazy, right?) and how to bounce back stronger each time. Tune in for some laughs, relatable stories, and tips on building resilience when life doesn’t go as planned! Email: [email protected]

Ever feel like you’re juggling a thousand things at once, and somehow, you're the one getting dropped? In this episode, we’re diving into the madness that is work-life balance. From managing deadlines to finding time for yourself (what's that again?), we’ll explore practical ways to keep the chaos in check without losing your cool. Whether you're working from home, commuting, or chasing after kids, this episode is packed with tips and real talk to help you find a better balance—without sacrificing your sanity! Email: [email protected]

Struggling with self-love and feeling its impact on your relationships? This episode dives into a real-life story of someone wrestling with self-esteem and how it affects their connections with others. I’ll break down what a lack of self-love looks like, offer practical advice on how to recognize and address it, and guide you through steps to overcome these challenges. If you’ve been searching for answers and a path to self-acceptance, click play and settle in. You Got This Email: [email protected]

Ever wonder how to keep your mental health in check while juggling life’s curveballs? Join me for a lively chat on why mental health matters and how to be the CEO of your own well-being. I’ll share real-life stories, practical tips, and ways to tackle anything that threatens your mental peace. Whether you’re dealing with stress, rocky relationships, juggling responsibilities, or just want to boost your mental game, this episode is your guide to feeling your best. Tune in, get inspired, and take charge of your mental health with a smile!

Thinking of a career switch in your 30s or 40s? Is the idea of starting over overwhelming and making you feel like you'll be so far behind if you do? Pull up a chair and listen as I spill the tea on my hilarious journey from corporate rookie to (somewhat) pro, with all the awkward moments and lessons learned. Get tips on discovering what you really want and making a smooth transition. Grab a snack, tune in, and let’s make career changes fun and a little less daunting!

🎙️ **Welcome Back to I Wish Someone Would Have Told Me!** 🎙️ After a 3-year break, the podcast you loved is back and ready to dive into the real conversations you crave. If you’ve ever wished for honest advice and a friendly voice to guide you through life’s ups and downs, you’re in the right place. Join me for a blend of inspiring stories, practical insights, and a touch of humor—just like catching up with an old friend over lunch. Whether you’re revisiting or tuning in for the first time, get ready for the wisdom and laughs that will make you feel right at home. Let’s reconnect, learn, and share the things we wish we’d known sooner. Hit subscribe and let’s get started!

We've given failure too much credit. It's time to put that to an end. Is it even real? Or is it something we subconsciously make up as a cop out?

In light of suicide awareness month, we're getting to the "root" of why so many people struggle with suicidal thoughts. Yes, it's spiritual, but there's also a psychological side to it. I want to explore that with you all in the most emotional (and tearful) podcast that I've recorded to date.

Today we want to dive into different personality types and the strengths and weaknesses of each! You know, even what you believe to be a negative about your personality, when controlled appropriately, can be a positive 😁

Let's talk emotions!

"God, when is it going to be my turn?" We've all asked this question once before about something. For me, I asked this a lot when I had a desire to get married. Today, I talk about God wanting to work miracles in your life if you're patient. The only one rushing is you!

I had WAAAYYYY too much fun with this podcast 😂 It's not for everyone! If this is not your testimony, that's fine! It's all my opinion and I respect differing opinions 🥰 But, if you have a hunch that you're in a relationship by yourself, sis, this one's for you!

Today I talk to Caleb "Kaleeb" Decius as he tells the story of losing his son and getting through all the "Badness" that that tragic event produced.

Today, let's talk about surrendering our will to God and allowing Him to perform unthinkable miracles in our lives!

In today's podcast, I talk to my friend, Naomi, about her story of abuse as a child, how she's coping with it as an adult, and the healing she's still working through.

This week, we discuss never being prepared for life's hardships! But we can have a foundation to get us through 💙

Today, I'm sharing the epiphany that I had one day while reading the story of Rachel and Jacob. There's work to be done while single!

Today I enjoy podcasting with my dear friend and sister, Ayeleh! She's recently engaged and, man, when I tell you we've been on a rollercoaster together these last 10+ years, I'm not exaggerating! She has always told me from day one, "Rachel, our story isn't going to be normal." Neither of us knew just how prophetic those words were! Now, listen in to our stories and our journeys to married life! (Excuse the quality at some points in the podcast 😳)

Still waiting on the right one? Good! There's nothing wrong with you! God is preparing you. Today, we discuss the perils of waiting and the importance of understanding the VALUE in waiting on God to bring you the right one!

Live a little! Or a lottle! Whatever you want, just do it! Life is way too short to be bogged down by everyday life. Don't be so focused on living that you forget to live. Go and invest in experiences.

We hear it all the time, but does it ever sink in? Does it ever become a revelation? Is it ever a reality? Does God really care? That's so hard to believe sometimes!! Let's talk...

HAPPY 2021!! You survived 2020, but now what? You want to move forward, but how do you start over? Three easy steps 1. Decide 2. Write 3. Execute Listen as I elaborate on these points and then go start over!

Longsuffering, grace, and forgiveness... WAY easier said than done. In this podcast, China and I dig into healing "in silence" when others have wronged you. Is that possible?

We're debunking TMI.

From the time that we're a baby, we're thrown into a world of competition. This world becomes the birthing ground for insecurities, complexes, and even jealousy. But, what if we didn't focus on others so much? What if, dare I say it, we took time to mind our OWN business?!

Today I enjoyed talking with Steven about some discoveries that we stumbled upon after getting married. We had so much fun reliving some reality checks. Truthfully! Marriage isn't a cute picture. It's a challenge that you have to overcome everyday. But, if you're as competitive as my hubby, challenges are fun 🙃🥰😅

Simply put, the title says it all :)

There's such a pressure to have your life planned out by the time you walk across your high-school graduation stage. Think about it! One day you're asking permission to go to the school clinic, and the very next day, by the flip of a cap tassel, you're expected to have a 4 to 8 year plan for your life completely laid out! It's pretty crazy! Then there's the side of making your parents proud by doing what it is that THEY want you to do. So much to discuss!! Shall we? Let's go!

A friend is someone who you can share everything with and they share everything with you, right? Wrong! It's time to debunk the myths that friendships have to fit a certain mold. Time to go back to truly enjoying one another's company without minimizing their role in your life. Friendships are BLESSINGS that come in many forms. Respect those relationships.

You know that weeping only endures for a night and that things will eventually get better, but sometimes you don't feel it! And to add to it, sometimes things feel difficult even when everything SEEMS to be going right! Is this normal? Is there something wrong with you? When will you just "get over it?!" Today we uncover the last 3 stages of grief and some interesting realities of the other 4 stages.

Grief will make you feel like you're underwater. In today's topic we'll discuss stages 3 and 4 of Grief and how, if handled wrong, this stage will make you feel like you're drowning.

There are seven stages to grieving someone's death... but what about someone still living? This is just the foundation to the series on Grief that Raychel will cover. Steps one and two are understandable. The rest are about to get emotional! (Stay tuned!)

Men Are Dogs? Men are dogs! On this episode I invite my friend Liz and my husband Steven to sit down and have a friendly discussion on why we ALL agree that men are dogs.

DISCLAIMER: Audio quality isn't the best. 2nd DISCLAIMER: If you've got your life figured out and faith under your thumb, THIS IS NOT FOR YOU! For the rest of us, me and my dear friend Liz take time to talk about living out faith UNCONSCIOUSLY and stepping out even without all the answers. Here's a hint: ALL things work together for your good!!! (ALL)

I get REAL fired up today talking about the importance of finding Contentment Before Commitment and the pain I went through before coming to this reality.