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Tune into the conversation with this recorded virtual one-on-one interview. We were in the same place at the same time. S2E28: Poppo Oso Poppo Oso is a Dom, Daddy, handler, leatherman, Bear, nudist, and rigger. He has been in the lifestyle for 28 years. A Mr. Gay Days alumni of 2023. Florida Power Exchange Titleholder for 2026. Founder of Barn House, Onyx associate, kink educator, reproductive justice advocate and the Jacksonville Black Pride president. He is the proud owner of his princexx and mentors numerous people in community. He is most known for his sensual and alluring heavy impact scenes and interactive educational classes he facilitates. 🎙️ Love real conversations about kink, BDSM, and Leather? Join our kink community on Patreon. it’s free to join! https://patreon.com/InterviewMyKinkwi... Watch more interviews, Subscribe and discover voices from across the scene on our YouTube channel hit notify to get the alert 🔔: 👉 / / @interviewmykinkwithladyred 🎙️ New to streaming or looking to level up? Check out StreamYard and get $10 discount! 😍 https://streamyard.com/pal/d/57215658...

Join the conversation with me in this recorded live virtual one-on-one interview. S2E27: Mistress Sky Mistress Sky has been a New England conference presenter for many years. She is a relationship counselor, alternative lifestyle counselor, and personal development coach. Her lifelong activism has spanned anti-racism, addressing food insecurity, LGBTQ rights, and the protection of women and children. Her work is now focused on female empowerment and the rise of the Divine Feminine. She is the author of two books and many articles. Her book, Unequal Partnership: a dating guide for loving non-egalitarian relationships can be found wherever books are sold. Her newest ebook, Honoring the True Self: a journey to discover a woman’s core needs can be downloaded at elevatingwomen.org. Personal Life Leadership is Sky’s empowerment program for women and her organization is Elevate Women Collaborative. To learn more or contact Mistress Sky you can reach her at: http://elevatingwomen.org and http://gatescounseling.com 🎙️ Love real conversations about kink, BDSM, and Leather? Join our kink community on Patreon. it’s free to join! https://patreon.com/InterviewMyKinkwithLadyRed?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Watch more interviews, Subscribe and discover voices from across the scene on our YouTube channel: 👉 / https://youtube.com/@interviewmykinkwithladyred?sub_confirmation=1 🎙️ New to streaming or looking to level up? Check out StreamYard and get $10 discount! 😍 https://streamyard.com/pal/d/5721565805019136

Join the conversation with me in this live recorded virtual one-on-one interview.S2E26: Sir PandaSir Panda (he/him) is a polyamorous Dominant, BDSM educator, and kink community leader based in the Kansas City metro area. He began his educational journey in 2011 teaching consent, BDSM basics, and kink education at the Center for Sex Positive Culture (CSPC) in Seattle, WA. Over the years, Sir Panda has served the BDSM and kink community in many roles, including discussion group facilitator, event organizer and host, communications director, and house top. He was a Program Lead for KinkFest 2023 and has presented classes and workshops for organizations such as CSPC, Pragmatically Kinking, Wicked Grounds, the Kink Center, the Venusian Society, and Leather Reign, sharing knowledge about consent, ethical kink, and BDSM dynamics.Watch his presentation on Patreon at the link below: exploring topics from the class “Your Kink Is Not My Kink” (YKINMK) and what it means within the BDSM and kink community.https://www.patreon.com/posts/sir-panda-154344747Online he can be found as Sir-Panda on FetLife, RealSirPanda on Instagram and Substack, and through his educational organization D/s Outreach at http://www.dsoutreach.com./🎙️ Love real conversations about kink, BDSM, and Leather? Join our kink community on Patreon. it’s free to join! https://patreon.com/InterviewMyKinkwithLadyRed?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLinkWatch more interviews, Subscribe and discover voices from across the scene on our YouTube channel:👉 https://youtube.com/@InterviewMyKinkwithLadyRed?sub_confirmation=1🎙️ New to streaming or looking to level up? Check out StreamYard and get $10 discount! 😍 https://streamyard.com/pal/d/5721565805019136

S2E25: Marla Renee Stewart One-on-One Virtual Interview recorded March 4, 2026 Marla Renee Stewart, MA, CSE (she/her) is a 3x award-winning sexologist, author, and sexual strategist behind Velvet Lips Sex Education. A devoted kinkster of over 20 years, Marla thrives as a professional top and identifies as a sensual sadist who delights in the erotic interplay of dominance, intensity, and deep connection. Her workshops—ranging from kink fundamentals to impact play, breath play, dirty talk, and sensual genital torment—are known for blending technique with intentional seduction. A fierce advocate for Black sexual liberation and pleasure-centered education, Marla also teaches Black kink and queer history, helping professionals decolonize their understanding of erotic expression. As Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference, she established the largest BIPOC-centered dungeon space in the world. Today, she trains educators, counselors, and therapists on how to affirm and support Black queer and kinky relationships with nuance, empathy, and radical sex-positivity. To contact and learn more about her, visit https://www.marlareneestewart.com/ 🎙️ Love real conversations about kink, creativity, and community? Join our kink community on Patreon. it’s free to join! https://www.patreon.com/c/InterviewMyKinkwithLadyRed Watch more interviews and discover voices from across the scene on our YouTube channel: 👉 https://youtube.com/@InterviewMyKinkwithLadyRed?sub_confirmation=1

Mata Windstorm of Dragons’ Designs Impact Toys | Craftsmanship, Creativity & Kink-Made Impact Toys Mata Windstorm is the founder and primary maker of Dragons’ Design Impact Toys. Mata began crafting toys at a very early age and has spent years refining his skills, mixing and matching techniques to create some of the highest-quality impact toys available today. Featured on Crafted 4 kink Special Episode, Shop and get to know DD Impact toys at: https://www.ddimpacttoys.com

We’re kicking off the first LIVE episode of the month with a virtual interview featuring the phenomenal Domina Alluriah. Come ready with your questions, your thoughts, and your energy, let’s connect and build in real time. Domina Alluriah is a multi-racial trans Leatherwoman from the Gulf Coast of MS. She is a co leader of several groups including SMART in South MS, LBT in Alabama, and HALE which spans the Gulf Coast. She is the Chapter Director of MAsT:Biloxi and has educated from literal Coast to Coast across the US. She is a contributing writer to BLIC Magazine, and as a BIPOC Trans woman, she uses her platform to highlight the importance of inclusivity, visibility and representation. Her Leather values focus on selfless service, integrity, and respect. To Learn more and connect with Domina Alluriah, follow her at: Fetlife and X : @DominaAlluriah 🎙️ Love real conversations about kink, creativity, and community? Join our kink community on Patreon. it’s free to join! https://www.patreon.com/c/InterviewMyKinkwithLadyRed Watch more interviews and discover voices from across the scene on our YouTube channel: 👉 https://youtube.com/@interviewmykinkwithladyred?sub_confirmation=1 🎙️ New to streaming or looking to level up? Check out StreamYard and get $10 discount! 😍 https://streamyard.com/pal/d/5721565805019136

Mistress Femme Fatale is a professional dominatrix and media personality who speaks openly about power, control, and the psychology behind desire. Known for her sharp mind, calm authority, and no-nonsense honesty, she’s appeared on Channel 5 in the UK and SBS Australia. Her work cuts through fantasy to focus on consent, exploration of kinks, and what power dynamics really reveal about human connection. Learn more about Mistress Femme Fatale at: https://www.mistressfemmefatale.com/ 🎙️ Love real conversations about kink, creativity, and community? Join our kink community on Patreon — it’s free to join! / interviewmykinkwithladyred Watch interviews and discover voices from across the scene on our YouTube channel: 👉 / @interviewmykinkwithladyred

Join me for a live interview with Gary Wasdin. Gary, is the Executive Director of the Leather Archives & Museum in Chicago, and if you have any latent librarian fantasies about overdue books and creative ways to pay your fines, he’s your guy. Gary is a Poly amorous Bi Dom Leather Daddy Bear (PBDLDB) who flags red, yellow, tan and hunter green on the left. In his free time Gary enjoys travel, food, and awkward silence. Gary is a passionate advocate for body positivity and sexiness in all shapes and sizes. Gary’s professional background is in academic and public libraries, where he has worked to build more inclusive spaces that are welcoming to everyone. He holds Masters degrees in Library Science and English, and a Bachelor’s degree in theater. He lives in Chicago with his husband, Sir, pets, and partners, and you can find him in various places online as chicagocigardad. 🎙️🔥 Want more powerful conversations? Head to IMK with LadyRed on YouTube and tap the Video or Live tab to catch all the interviews! https://www.youtube.com/@InterviewMyKinkwithLadyRed?sub_confirmation=1

MsDDom (She/Her) is active in the Atlanta community and lives in a M/s dynamic with her slave, CreamDream. She is an MTTA Master Academy alumna who holds membership in MAsT chapters, leads Black FemDoms-Atlanta, co-leads Black Atlanta Munch, is a founding member and Road Captain of Women in Leather Atlanta, and is the current Editor-In-Chief for Black Leather In Color (NextGen) Magazine. Her service to the community varies, from an advisor for the Leather Solidarity Collective, a servant for Evergreen Leather Events, a fundraising coordinator with her slave CreamDream for MsC Worldwide, and a Southeast advisor for Women of Drummer. She is a Recipient of several community awards, including the DomCon New Orleans 2025 Lady Remedy Ann Fetish Educator Award, the Washington State Leather Organization Leather Emerald Award 2025, and the MTTA's Lady Lynette Leadership Award 2022, MsDDom continues her labor of love to the community as a presenter, peer mentor, and volunteer. MsDDom and CreamDream are librarians for the Carter/Johnson Leather Library & Collection Atlanta Annex, and frequently travel to visit friends and family across the U.S. and Canada.

Ready for an open, judgment-free conversation about sexual self-discovery, confidence, and intimacy later in life? We will explore living a BDSM lifestyle in a vanilla world, including relationships, boundaries, and authenticity—whether you’re kink-curious, experienced, or partnered with someone vanilla. This episode is for individuals and couples ready to reconnect with their bodies, release shame, and redefine intimacy. Through honest dialogue and mindful guidance, pleasure becomes a path to confidence and deeper connection at any age. Mark your calendars! 🖤 For more real, unfiltered conversations like this, head over to IMK with LadyRed on YouTube 👉 https://youtube.com/@interviewmykinkwithladyred?sub_confirmation=1For exclusive behind-the-scenes interviews and a sneak peek at what’s coming next, join my community on Patreon, IMK with LadyRed: https://patreon.com/InterviewMyKinkwithLadyRed?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink

Mistress Mia Payne is a healer, transformational life coach, and professional Dominatrix specializing in the areas of self-development, shame, rites of passage work, trauma recovery and self-empowerment. Using the principles and tools found in BDSM, she helps her clients reach their goals, set themselves free, and live powerful lives that make a difference. 🖤 Want the truth with a spark? Tap below & subscribe for 🔥 Interviews that light up your feed! 🛎️ / @interviewmykinkwithladyred

Hey kinky friends! 🌶️ Enjoy this recorded episode as we chat with Amari, the UK-based owner of a s3x-positive business who also works with clients across the USA.. She’s an Accredited S3x & Relationship Educator, Clinical S3xologist, Certified S3x Coach, Certified Conscious Kink Educator, and Certified Pleasure & Masculine Libido Coach. And because she likes to keep things spicy and organized, she also runs a s3x-positive virtual assistant and social media agency. ✨ Her Businesses: Admin by Amari Agency – A s3x-positive virtual assistant and social media agency supporting businesses, brands, and babes in s3xual wellness and women’s health. S3x Coaching by Amari – Coaching and education for all things birds, bees, and beyond. 🔥Tap the link below & subscribe for more Candid interviews that light up the screen. 🛎️youtube.com/@InterviewMyKinkwithLadyRed?sub_confirmation=1

Queen was given her name by the BDSM/kink community. Queen has been in the community for 6 yrs. She is an owned submissive to Andrell Principal, her husband/Dominant. She is a switch, Smart Ass Masochist (SAM), brat, little/middle, little sadist, Voyeur. She loves impact, wax, knife, rope, electrodes, fire, needles, mummification, watersports, a lil primal and evolving. Along with her husband, they created Xposed events 5 years ago, hosting dungeon and kink events once a month, but recently took a break to regroup, rebuild, and reconnect. 🔥Tap the link below & subscribe for more Candid interviews that light up the screen. 🛎️ / @interviewmykinkwithladyred

Master Mufasa Ali has been a dedicated member of the leather community for more than 35 years! He is the founder of the Men of ONYX, ONYX National Council Chairman Emeritus, Patriarch of Mufasa's Pride, Leather History Preservation Foundation founding Board Member, Mr. World Leather 2006/2007 and the ONYX Leatherman 1997. Mufasa has received many awards, including the Pantheon of Leather Marcus Hernandez Lifetime Achievement Award. He is the founder of the People of Color Caucus, the Leatherman of Color title and a nationally known speaker and educator/presenter on many topics. Mufasa is an ordained pastor, DEI consultant, spiritual life coach, and consulting hypnotist by profession. 🔥Tap the link below & subscribe for more Candid interviews that light up the screen.🛎️youtube.com/@InterviewMyKinkwithLadyRed?sub_confirmation=1 🎙️New to streaming or looking to level up? Check out StreamYard and get $10 discount! 😍 https://streamyard.com/pal/d/5721565805019136

In this episode, we sit down with Mark a.k.a Hypnoticdawg, a professionally trained hypnotherapist and founder of Tranquility Health & Wellness, L.L.C. With a background in helping clients manage pain, quit smoking, and overcome insomnia, Mark also specializes in a more intimate and often misunderstood area of his practice, Erotic hypnosis.Mark shares how hypnosis can unlock deep levels of relaxation and pleasure, and discusses his work guiding women toward profound sensual experiences, including heightened arousal, multiple orgasms, and even squirting, all through the power of the mind. Whether you're curious about the therapeutic benefits of hypnosis or intrigued by its erotic potential, this conversation offers a unique look into how the subconscious mind can be a gateway to both healing and pleasure. 🔴 SUBSCRIBE for more like this: / @interviewmykinkwithladyred

Who is Mistress Sophie of Hertfordshire? Based in the historic town of Hertford, UK, Sophie is an Autistic, intersexed Dominatrix whose mind is as sharp as her tongue and whose presence demands attention the moment she enters a room. With a unique blend of intelligence, wit, and authority, she stands out not only for her skills but for the authenticity and power she brings to every session. In January 2025, Mistress Sophie founded S.D.S., the Special Domme Service, an agency created to serve as a trusted trader platform. Its mission is clear: to protect, empower, and elevate members of the kink and BDSM communities by providing a safe, reliable, and professional space where individuals can explore their desires without fear or judgment. What sets her apart is her deep expertise in working with people on the autism spectrum and those with ADHD, bringing an understanding and tailored approach that many find transformative. Her style combines articulate insight, a bubbly yet commanding presence, and a sadistic cruelty reserved for those who willingly submit to her control. For Sophie, domination is far more than fantasy; it’s a purposeful mission to challenge, empower, and redefine what it means to serve and be served. Curious to learn more? Just Google her name. You might be surprised by what you discover.

🔥 Welcome to the world of DaDuchesss – where kink, creativity, and power collide. 🔥 DaDuchess is a bold presence in the BDSM and kink lifestyle community. A proud switch with dominant tendencies, she combines sensuality, strength, and artistic expression in everything she does. Whether you're here to explore fetish content, learn about BDSM dynamics, or enjoy captivating kink performances, you’re in the right place. As a kink content creator, lifestyle educator, and erotic performer, DaDuchess fuses erotic dance with live BDSM scenes, bringing fantasy to life on stage and on screen. Her content blends education, entertainment, and real-world kink experiences, perfect for curious beginners and seasoned players alike. 🖤 In addition to creating stunning video content, DaDuchess designs and sells custom BDSM gear and fetish accessories, including handmade floggers, restraints, and unique kinkwear. Each product is crafted with care, style, and a deep understanding of what kinksters truly need. Collaboration is at the heart of her work. DaDuchess works with other kink professionals, models, photographers, and educators to push boundaries and showcase the power of authentic, diverse expressions of BDSM and alternative sexuality. ✨ Whether you’re here for BDSM tutorials, behind-the-scenes looks at fetish performances, product spotlights, or real talk about kink culture, hit that Subscribe button and turn on notifications, because this is where kink gets real.

TheSirDee Heart proudly identifies as pansexual and embraces the role of a Leather Primal Sadist within the BDSM and leather community, boasting over 25 years of experience. Beyond being a Sir, she embodies the roles of Protector, Mentor, Educator, Disciplinarian, Kink & Fetish Room host, Kink Performer, and works as a ProDom. As the Head and founder of DeeLicious House of Heart, she oversees a dynamic Leather Poly M/s-D/s household, nurturing a safe haven that prioritizes education, growth, community building, and the exploration of kink through obedience, discipline, and self-discovery. DHOH operates on principles of service and dedication, with SirDee leading by example. Through Dee’s Dungeon, a platform she established, individuals of all levels, from novices to seasoned practitioners, come together to share knowledge, support, and nurture each other's journeys. Additionally, Dee’s Dungeon hosts a monthly munch & kink night in DC, facilitating learning and skill-sharing opportunities. Sir D is a covered Sir aiming to elevate her knowledge to the level of a Master. Her expertise spans a wide array of practices including Primal play, Fire play/cupping, impact, sensation play, sensory deprivation, electro play, mummification, wax play, cigar play, sensual/erotic massages, needle play, forced orgasms, orgasm denial, CBT, medical play, Asphyxiation, Odaxelagnia, bondage, restraints, and learning the intricate art of Shibari. She has attended several events in her years in WIITWD, volunteering, presenting, and providing education as well at events including Fetish Ball, Fuckcation, SELF, Beyond Leather, NECK, the Korral- Kink intensive & Dee’s Dungeon Munch, to name a few. She is also an Ally for Leather Girl of Color and Leather Boy of Color, and a panelist on Uncovered Conversations.Watch Liive on the link below & subscribe for more Candid interviews that light up the screen.youtube.com/@InterviewMyKinkwithLadyRed?sub_confirmation=1

Nicholas Tanek is an American author, ghostwriter, speaker, and podcaster from New Brunswick, New Jersey. A Rutgers University graduate with a bachelor’s degree in English, he grew up immersed in the New Jersey punk rock and skateboarding scene before diving into the early 1990s New York City rave culture. Struggling with drug addiction, he turned his life around after reconnecting with Lynn, the love of his life, who tragically died at 37. Her loss inspired his raw, acclaimed memoir, The Coolest Way to K*ll Yourself, which explores his experiences in the punk rock and BDSM subcultures, addiction, depression, and unconventional sexuality.He has also written Chipped Black Nail Polish, a novella about punk rock romance, and Your Kinky Friends, a non-fiction work on alternative lifestyles. Nicholas hosts the podcast Your Kinky Friends, where he interviews members of the kink community, and is a frequent speaker on topics like mental health, addiction recovery, and sexual expression. A liver transplant survivor, he channels his optimism into advocating for creative change and open-mindedness.

Cat is a transformative leader in the kink, BDSM, and leather communities, with a legacy spanning over 30 years. Driven by the principles of honesty, integrity, honor, and transparency, Cat is passionate about guiding individuals toward clarity, purpose, and confidence. She creates inclusive spaces where everyone is valued, seen, and heard, fostering growth within and beyond the kink community.

Ms. Lace is a dynamic leader, humble guide, and deeply respected figure in the BDSM and Leather communities. Since joining the community, she has always subscribed to the spiritual aspect of BDSM. She has served our community from boards, to group collaboration to providing virtual spaces sprinkled with education and empowerment for those that seek it.With nearly a decade of experience fostering inclusive and empowering spaces, she has guided countless individuals on their journeys toward self-discovery, consent awareness, and personal empowerment.She is also a proud graduate of the MTTA Master class of 2023, further deepening her commitment to mastery and leadership within the community. As a Master-level Reiki practitioner, she seamlessly integrates spiritual insight with BDSM and Leather principles, creating transformative experiences that resonate beyond the play space. Known for her unwavering commitment to authenticity, accountability, and ethical leadership, Lace inspires others to embrace their truest selves with confidence, compassion, and strength while teaching people to protect and advocate for themselves in the community. She credits even her critics and challenges for fueling her growth and resilience, believing every obstacle strengthens her commitment to her path.

There are plenty of amazing entertainers out there, but few can truly engage all your senses the way Eli Daniel, aka The Naked Trumpeter (they/them), does. Blending music, art, and kink, Eli is a Musician/Composer/artist and Kinkster who offers more than just a show—they create an immersive experience they call Kinkstrument, where sound meets sensuality in bold, unforgettable ways.You may have seen them at events like Surrender: Wrestling & Impact Play, The Red Room Dallas, or more recently, the SP Exxxpo Southern Pleasure Expo, just to name a few. Each performance is an invitation to feel, explore, and connect on a deeper level.They’ve also appeared in erotic films like The Good Wolf and even composed an original track, The Black Wolf, which is available now on YouTube.Eli Daniel isn’t just performing—they’re transforming how we experience music, intimacy, and self-expression

Papito Equis is here to bring the rodeo to you, introducing the ancient art of Shibari—a practice that blends trust, communication, and sensuality. As an experienced instructor, he offers intimate classes where you'll explore how Shibari (Japanese rope bondage) can deepen both your emotional and physical connection with your partner. His classes create an unforgettable fusion of Shibari beauty, electrifying experiences, and intimate moments. In addition to his teaching, Papi is a Wellness Coach and Event Planner/Host, organizing unique lifestyle events such as birthday parties, bachelorette celebrations, erotic poetry nights, personal Shibari sessions, individual sessions BDSM demonstrations, and more.

Lady Amaterasu Okami is a left-leaning Switch happily Owned and married to Master Scorpius Wulf. She proudly identifies as a Sensual Sadistic LeatherWoman with a deep appreciation for knives and paddles. Her journey into the world of Leather began in December 2016. It was during her first visit to the former Atlanta Eagle Gay bar at the 2017 Kinky Carnival Party that she was introduced to Men of Onyx Southeast and Onyx Pearls Southeast. Affectionately known as Lady A by a select few, she later created a Facebook group titled Come Talk About Life with Lady A. The group is designed to be a safe, supportive space for female-identified slaves, submissives, and Switches to connect, share, and explore their experiences.Come talk about life with Lady A-