Imperfect Couples

‘Your Attitude in marriage determines the Altitude of your marriage’. Attitude is not just about how we think but it is a mixed bag, about our behavior, actions, expressions, feelings. While we use the word ‘Attitude’ in reference to how we think, it’s related to the concept of our posture in our relationship While attitude develops over time through a mixture of history, personality, and experiences, in the end it is a personal choice. The anti-dote to toxic love is? ....listen to the podcast to find out! Check out my latest episode!

Marriage is a continuous striving of two individuals trying to be best friends. The ability to understand each other is one of the key attributes a couple needs to keep strengthening and work upon daily. Your marriage will thrive, be joyful, last longer, and be successful if you two are not just husband and wife but also best of friends. Understanding comes from friendship thus you need to be friends with your spouse. It will help to stay connected with each other emotionally and keep the love alive and vibrant in your relationship.

Check out my latest episode! Couples that are satisfied and happy in their relationship share one thing in common – they can talk about anything. With mutual respect, sensitivity, and awareness of age, there is nothing that cannot be discussed. In this episode, I share some qualities that a couple in a happy and healthy relationship possesses.

Are you in a relationship and have broken the heart of your beloved by your words or actions? The most difficult task for a person with a broken heart is to stand still and go through the pain. Every relationship goes through its low phase. We all make mistakes and if you have hurt the feelings of your spouse we will discuss some handy and great ways to say sorry and help your partner come out of the pain

There are many ways to express love, even when you aren’t actually saying the words. Actions speak louder than words! If you love someone deeply; your actions can convey love better than words. And this is true, especially after marriage. But the real story starts after the rush comes down and the excitement of the honeymoon stage wanes. That is when your actions convey more than words.

No marriage is free of conflicts, mis-understandings and hurts. There is no perfect family, we do not get married to perfect persons. Therefore there is no perfect marriage or perfect family. Nobody is perfect and every day we all prove that we are full of flaws, that our partners either find it endearing or annoying. Accepting our own flaws can be hard but it’s sometimes it’s even harder to accept the flaws of our romantic partner. Now that you’re with the person you want to be with and you are in that relationship, how do you keep nurturing your love over time?

They say marriages are made in heaven ...but so is thunder and lightning. In present times, work pressure, rising costs, uncertain future due to Covid 19 pandemic, health challenges, personality conflicts, lack of healthy inter-personal communication and many other factors are taking a heavy toll on couple relationship. But the good news is that despite these challenges, couples can still hope to have meaningful communication, an exciting relationship and a healthy, strong marriage. Julius shares ideas and insights, from his personal experiences from 22 years of marriage, that will help couples - married, engaged or dating, meet their expectations in their relationship and transform husbands and wives into best friends and lovers.