It Is What It Is

In this episode, Kylan shares a major wedding milestone—officially locking in the venue date and stepping into a new phase of the planning journey. From the emotions behind the decision to the excitement of what’s next, the episode offers an intimate look at what it feels like when everything starts to become real.Alongside the wedding updates, Kylan shifts into a powerful conversation about navigating the world of social media. Drawing from real experience, the episode dives into what it truly takes to succeed in the industry—breaking down consistency, discipline, and staying relevant in an ever-evolving digital space.Don’t forget to rate the show and follow the pod on IG: @iiwiibykm

In this episode, Kylan takes listeners behind the scenes of a major wedding planning milestone—touring potential venues. From first impressions to unexpected details, she walks through every moment of the experience, sharing what stood out, what surprised her, and what she’s now prioritizing moving forward. It’s an honest, unfiltered debrief that gives a real look into the decision-making process behind finding the perfect space.The episode also shifts into a candid wedding Q&A, where Kylan answers questions about her planning journey, vision, and everything in between. Don’t forget to rate the show, and follow @iiwiibykm on IG

New season, new energy, and a whole new chapter Kylan’s been dying to talk about…In this season premiere, She’s finally catching you up on everything—from the moment that changed her life (yes… she’s engaged 💍) to stepping into a new level of independence with her new car 🚗. It’s giving growth, it’s giving alignment, it’s giving “everything is happening exactly how it’s supposed to.”We’re talking behind-the-scenes of the proposal, how life has been feeling lately, the emotions no one really prepares you for, and what this next era actually looks like for Kylan. If you’ve ever felt like your life is shifting in real time, this episode is for you.New season, bigger blessings, and a lot to unpack… let’s get into it.

It's the Season 3 Finale!! In this episode, Kylan breaks down the ins and outs of the new year—what’s getting dropped, what’s getting elevated, and what absolutely will not be coming along for the ride. From career moves and creative discipline to friendships, finances, fashion, and personal boundaries, nothing is off-limits, and everything is intentional.She also shares a HUGE potential life update that will be happening this year... (hint: 💍 )If you’re entering 2026 with a vision board in one hand and a “don’t play with me” attitude in the other, this one’s for you. ✨Don't forget to rate the show, and follow the pod on IG: @iiwiibykm

Happy Monday, babes! This episode is a full runway debrief—no PR fluff, no polite claps. We’re breaking down the looks that ate, the backstage chaos, the last-minute outfit swaps, and the moments that made us clutch our pearls.Kylan also shares her first experience at a brand event, her interview mishaps, and more! Xoxo! Don't forget to rate the show!

Hi babes! In this episode, we’re unpacking two iconic topics: Kylan's 2025 Wrapped for the pod, and her first time working a real-life runway show! She discusses the podcast's success this year, from top listeners to top countries?!?! She also talks about the potential backstage chaos she might endure, and the unexpected glam of the fashion world. And because the internet never sleeps, we’re closing things out with some BookTok updates—what’s trending, what’s overhyped, which romances had her kicking her feet, and the plot twists that healed her more than therapy.Xoxo! Don't forget to rate the show and follow It Is What It Is on Instagram: @iiwiibykm

Happy Monday, Babes! This week, Kylan is unpacking the plot twist of all plot twists: going from the fast-paced chaos of the sports industry to the creative, slightly delulu, always-dynamic world of content creation—and landing real-life experience in the e-commerce fashion space. Kylan dives into what it felt like to pivot industries, build a new skill set, and step into rooms that once felt out of reach. From sideline reporting to styling flat lays, from press boxes to product drops, this episode is all about Kylan breaking down the lessons, the growth, the glam (and not-so-glam) moments, and how this journey became the blueprint for stepping into a dream career.Don't forget to rate the show. Xoxo!

In this chaotic Dallas + Oklahoma debrief, Kylan breaks down a weekend that was supposed to be simple — until she somehow almost ended up in London. From small-town shenanigans and late-night convos in Oklahoma to airport chaos that pushed her to her final straw with American Airlines, nothing went as planned (per usual). Buckle up for a storytime full of travel drama, unhinged moments, and the kind of accidental chaos that only Kylan could attract. ✈️💅🏽Don't forget to rate the show! Xoxo

Disclaimer: This episode is based solely on Kylan’s personal experience and should not be taken as medical advice. She is not a medical professional. Please consult your doctor or a licensed healthcare provider for any questions or decisions regarding birth control or hormonal health.Happy Monday, babes! In this episode, Kylan opens up about her personal journey with birth control — from why she started, to the moment she realized it was time to stop. She shares how hormonal birth control affected her mental health, the emotional challenges she faced along the way, and the clarity that came once she decided to get off it. Now feeling more balanced and in tune with her body, Kylan talks about what she’s learned about hormone health, self-awareness, and finding peace in the process of healing.Don't forget to follow It Is What It Is on IG: @iiwiibykm

She’s back in the Big Apple, baby — and the budget didn’t make it out alive. 💅🏽 Join Kylan as she spills all the tea from her second trip to NYC — from accidentally spending her savings in SoHo, to following a mysterious Asian lady into an alley (don’t ask), to unpacking why she really thought she was getting proposed to. It’s chaotic, it’s delusional, it’s Manhattan-core. ✨Follow the pod on IG @iiwiibykm

She’s baaaack ✈️🍎 In honor of Kylan making her glamorous second debut in the city that never sleeps, we're running it back to her first time in NYC. From wide-eyed tourist moments to finessing her way into the US Open, enjoy this special rerun episode of It Is What It Is. Follow the pod on IG: @iiwiibykm

Happy Monday, babes! This week, Kylan finally dives into her recent work trip to Dallas, and spoiler alert...it didn't live up to what it usually does. Between overpriced tequila sodas, a night that fizzled quicker than her patience, and realizing Dallas boys are just mid with boots, this trip was not the yeehaw fantasy Kylan signed up for. The only saving grace? Scoring last-minute tickets to see Randy Rogers live (because nothing heals disappointment like screaming country lyrics in a crowd).Tune in for her unfiltered trip debrief, the tea on why book boyfriends stay winning, and her latest updates on which winged, fanged, or magically endowed man currently owns her entire personality.Follow It Is What It Is on IG: @iiwiibykm

Welcome back, ladies! It's time for the iconic Charleston debrief you've all been waiting for. Picture this: one freshly divorced man (who clearly forgot this wasn’t his honeymoon), Kylan looking like a lobster after a second-degree sunburn because SPF is apparently optional when you’re drinking tequila by the pool, and a $1,000 bar tab that probably funded the bartender’s rent. It’s messy, it’s unhinged, it’s giving “don’t tell my mom”—but she's spilling it all. Grab a drink, because Lord knows we did. Follow @iiwiibykm on Instagram

Hi loves, happy Monday!! This week, Kylan's back and giving her honest tell-all. She's answering your boldest questions—yes, including how she “conveniently” doesn't pay rent, the truth about body counts, and clearing up every wild assumption you’ve made about her.Then she's pivoting to the runway, baby. Kylan is spilling all the tea on how she got her foot in the fashion industry without a fancy zip code, connections, or a nepotism plug. From small-town beginnings to big city dreams—this one’s for the girls who want more.Grab a drink and, if you'd like, a notebook. It’s about to get juicy and educational. 💅✨Follow the pod on Instagram: @iiwiibykm

Kylan’s back from bathing in the sun and has all the tea. From trying to live a rich-b*tch life at TPC, to instead getting full-body sun poisoning and a travel experience so vile it deserves its own season on American Horror Story: American Airlines. Come hear about her getting medically gaslight by her bf, and her checked bag's detour while she slowly died in the Florida airport. Warning: this episode contains excessive swearing, skin trauma, and aggressive contempt for SPF negligence. Bring aloe.Don’t forget to follow @iiwiibykm on IG

It's Monday babes and Kylan is diving into everything that's on her mind. This week, she's deep-diving into why KPOP is taking over your for you page (again), the beauty of finding your creative spark after a rut, and the power of not giving a f*ck. From stan culture to self-expression, Kylan is talking about what happens when you stop caring about outside opinions and start doing what actually lights you up. It’s giving liberation, it’s giving main character energy — let’s get into it.Don't forget to follow @iiwiibykm on socials to keep track of all the TED talks. Xoxo!

Happy Monday, babes! This week, Kylan is diving into the absolute chaos that is Love Island’s latest scandal—yes, we’re talking Huda and Jeremiah and the Olympic-level mess they’ve created. We’re breaking down every cringeworthy moment and side-eye glance. But it’s not just reality TV tea—we’re also talking about the real-life importance of love languages (because if he doesn’t know yours by week 2, what are we doing??).And for once, we’re defending Virgo men. Why? Because Kylan is dating one, and shockingly, he’s not the emotionally repressed, hypercritical stereotype. He’s built differently. Tune in for hot takes, a little astrology, and a whole lotta drama.Don't forget to follow the show for more unsolicited opinions from Kylan--Xoxo! Love Language Test:https://blossomup.co/lp/love-styles/?utm_medium=cpc&utm_source=google&utm_campaign=20867135029&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21209970442&gbraid=0AAAAAoP3mdAeHiGygZe2JCoyxUlljwAlx&gclid=Cj0KCQjwjdTCBhCLARIsAEu8bpI_MMfk8iSdKY8A3yJTqKsCr_x1rN_4GDAK8Fy4G6a9rhQXNGcEv7saAiXEEALw_wcB

Pack your ponchos and prepare your group chat receipts — this Dallas Market trip was one for the books. In this episode, Kylan unpacks her glamorous descent into chaos: think thunderstorm runway shows in literal trash bags, executing the prank of the century on her manager (sorry, not sorry), and being violently awakened by a screaming alarm system that had her on the phone with ADT, as if it were 911. It’s giving wet rat chic. It’s giving sleep-deprived retail warriors. It’s giving… never again (but also she'll be back in August).Don't forget to rate the show and follow @iiwiibykm on social media to stay up-to-date with the chaos.

Welcome back babes! This week, Kylan gives her unsolicited opinions on society’s propaganda: Plastic surgery? Overpriced insecurity. Birth control? Absolutely not. Sonny Angels? Be serious—they're ugly and you know it. In this episode, she dives headfirst into the glossy hellscape of modern propaganda and the way it sells us everything from fake noses to creepy little dolls.Kylan also gets real about why she ditched birth control (spoiler: it wasn’t a wellness trend, it was survival). Press play, but don’t say we didn’t warn you. Xoxo

Hi besties! This week, Kylan is coming in hot! (Literally) She finally talks about her first experience with edibles--she takes you on a spiritual, chaotic, and deeply unnecessary journey through a night in Dallas, TX. She promptly loses all sense of space, time, and dignity. From confidently saying “I don’t feel anything” to lying on the floor convinced she was melting into the Earth — it’s a ride. She unpacks edible delusions, why she thought she could hang, and the very real moment she considered texting her bf. Buckle up, babes — this one’s hazy, hilarious, and high-key humbling. Follow @iiwiibykm on social media to stay up-to-date with the TEA.

Hi ladies!! This week, Kylan kicks things off by talking all things content creation—from negotiating brand deals with $0 budgets to mentally spiraling over an Instagram post that only got 32 likes (and 12 were your burner accounts). She goes into her day-to-day work as a social media manager for two stores, the good and the bad, traveling the world while working, and the nights she's up until 2 a.m. editing. Grab your ring light and your delusions of virality — it’s time to unpack the glamor and the grind of life behind the grid. Follow @iiwiibykm on socials and keep up with all the tea by following.

Kylan gives a full Commencement Address this week: she's traveling again and giving her ultimate ICKS for men. Before she dives into the male species, Kylan talks about her and Juan's relationship as they're about to celebrate 3 years. It's all about lab-grown or real diamonds, and when they're planning on getting their own place. She shares her ultimate icks for men: wearing flip flops to the airport, having their mom on Snapchat, and needing to face the door at restaurants gives beta male energy. It's a Hot one! Follow @iiwiibykm on socials and don't forget to rate the show and subscribe to keep up with the tea. Xoxo

Kylan is officially home from calf fry and she’s ready to unload EVERYTHING. From flirtatious cowboys in the desert to hoofing it through the mud to get into tumbleweed stadium, to say the least she’s letting you in on all the tea. Kylan relives her travel misgivings from last year that have come back to haunt her, how she felt like she was in an episode of Manifest due to a emergency on her flight to DFW, and wraps it up with a story involving a beautiful shirtless cowboy.Strap your boots on and giddy up! Follow @iiwiibykm on socials to follow along with Kylan’s adventures. Xoxo

It’s Monday ladies!! Kylan kicks off the week with a recap of her and Juan’s 24-hour trip to the gulf: staying in a haunted hotel, poolside piña colada’s, and a manhunt for a Rhode lip treatment. She dives into her upcoming trip to Stillwater OK for the second time for the infamous Calf Fry Festival (cowchella) It’s a fun one this week! Follow @iiwiibykm on IG to follow along with Kylan’s adventures. Don’t forget to leave a review and subscribe to keep up with the chaos coming. Xoxo!

Kylan gives a full debrief this week: she’s getting drunk, meeting new people, and babysitting her bfs ex girlfriend… She shares a chaotic night out where she met all of Juan’s friends from high school, a scary encounter involving a flat tire, and how an EXTRA dirty martini was made in her honor that led her to giving out her IG handle to strangers. It’s a fun one so sit back, relax, and enjoy this week’s episode. Follow @iiwiibykm on IG. Don’t forget to leave a review. Xoxo!

It’s Monday ladies! This week, Kylan sits down and reflects on old stories and recent spending habits that leaves her speechless. Oh, and about the time she stayed in a hospital with a criminal…Throw on your favorite hoodie and follow It Is What It Is on socials and don’t forget to give the show a review, and subscribe to follow along with the chaos. Xoxo!

Grab your ice vanilla latte—this week Kylan is talking about her ultimate guide to survive the Sunday scaries… from doomscrolling on social media, to planning her entire wedding on Pinterest (and charging her bf’s credit card) Kylan walks you through morning rituals and even some bed time tiffs…Tie up your robe, put on the eye masks, and follow @iiwiibykm on socials to follow along with all the info! Don’t forget to leave a review—xoxo!

DISCLAIMER: This episode contains major spoilers for ACOTAR, Fourth Wing, and Throne of Glass Book Series.Grab your go-to tea ladies!! Kylan sits down and officially dives into the world of Romance Fantasy. After a night out with the girls, Kylan gets inspired to talk all things ACOTAR, Fourth Wing, and Throne of Glass. Of course she talks about the iconic shadow daddy’s, her vocabulary evolving, and how Rhysand and Xaden occupy her every thought! This one’s extra fun—so follow @iiwiibykm on socials, leave a review, and follow the show wherever you get your podcasts! Xoxo

It’s Monday loves!! This week, Kylan gives the ultimate guide to being a Leo (fire sign). She talks about their characteristics, s*x life, and what not to do to piss them off. Kylan shares her own personal traits as a Leo and her experience with dating a Virgo (earth sign). Kylan also shares a quick story time of her best friend’s getting married, and what when a bartender offers 7 espresso martinis… It’s an extra long one, so sit back, relax, and follow @iiwiibykm on socials, leave a review, and follow the show wherever you get your podcasts! Xoxo

Welcome back loves! In today's episode, we have Kylan's hot takes on what it's been like dating both country and city men, and nothing is off limits. She discusses her personal experiences, pros and cons, and things get a little messy when she drops the ball on why she broke up with her ex from the UK...Kick back, relax and enjoy the show! Follow @iiwiibykm on socials, leave a review, and follow the show wherever you get your podcasts. Xoxo!

Welcome back to the show loves! It's episode 1 of IT IS WHAT IT IS SEASON 3 and you don't need to be anywhere else. Kylan starts the season with a strong spill sesh: life updates about her living situation, becoming a full-on fantasy smutt reader, and how she's officially in her idgaf era. Kick back, relax and enjoy the show! Follow @iiwiibykm on socials, leave a review, and follow the show wherever you get your podcasts. Xoxo!

The holidays are here, and the chaos has officially begun! In today's final episode of Season 2 of It Is What It Is, Kylan discusses a whole bunch of things: what her winter arc looks like, TikTok getting banned, and all the drama involving Acotar. Oh, and gives an exclusive inside scoop of what's to come in season 3! FOLLOW US: INSTA// www.instagram.com/iiwiibykm FOLLOW Kylan Maree: IG: www.instagram.com/kylanmaree/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylanmaree My reading journal: ⁠https://www.papier.com/us/wonder-48782⁠

To celebrate the 1st anniversary of It Is What It Is, Kylan has decided that this week’s episode will be a re-run of the first iconic episode of the podcast!! If you haven’t heard this episode yet, you're in for a treat. If you have and would like to revisit it, please do. FOLLOW US: INSTA// www.instagram.com/iiwiibykm FOLLOW Kylan Maree: IG: www.instagram.com/kylanmaree/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylanmaree

Kylan is back with another Dallas Market episode. In today's episode, she shares her travel experiences, discusses her work in fashion and sales, and recounts her wild night in the stockyards. FOLLOW US: INSTA// www.instagram.com/iiwiibykm FOLLOW Kylan Maree: IG: www.instagram.com/kylanmaree/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylanmaree

In today's episode of Take It or Leave It, we discuss things that might keep you up at night. From jumping the gun and saying yes way too early, to what it's like having your significant other work for you, Kylan brings her unsolicited advice to the table once again. FOLLOW US: INSTA// www.instagram.com/iiwiibykm FOLLOW Kylan Maree: IG: www.instagram.com/kylanmaree/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylanmaree

This one's for the GIRLIE POPS! Welcome to a new episode of your favorite podcast! This week, Kylan takes us back to high school again, where she talks about the first time she was cheated on. She goes into how she found out and how she's handled since then. She then reveals that she and Juan FINALLY went ring shopping and what's next for their future. FOLLOW US: INSTA// www.instagram.com/iiwiibykm FOLLOW Kylan Maree: IG: www.instagram.com/kylanmaree/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylanmaree New York Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/it-is-what-it-is/id1715138552?i=1000666827501

In today's episode, Kylan is diving into the idea of being demure and modest. She discusses transitioning from a "brat summer" to embracing a "demure" fall aesthetic. She also shares some important insights about setting boundaries in relationships and the workplace and talks about her recent bachelorette trip to the hill country. Use my code "kylan maree" at www.boohoo.com for 15% off your order. FOLLOW US: INSTA// www.instagram.com/iiwiibykm FOLLOW Kylan Maree: IG: www.instagram.com/kylanmaree/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylanmaree

On today's episode, Kylan discusses her birthday trip to the Big Apple. She shares her favorite moments, such as seeing "Wicked" on Broadway and unexpectedly attending the US Open Tennis tournament. She also provides a personal life update and talks about what's coming next. FOLLOW US: INSTA// www.instagram.com/iiwiibykm FOLLOW Kylan Maree: IG: www.instagram.com/kylanmaree/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylanmaree

In today's episode, Kylan reflects on the lessons she learned during her 22nd year. She discusses her insights about growth, resilience, and the importance of embracing change. Kylan also shares what she has learned about navigating the fashion industry, building connections in a big city, and her goals for the upcoming year as she turns 23! FOLLOW US: INSTA// www.instagram.com/iiwiibykm FOLLOW Kylan Maree: IG: www.instagram.com/kylanmaree/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylanmaree

In today's episode, Kylan shares a fun story about how she was almost cast in a very well-known Netflix show and her whole process during her first-ever audition. She then shares some interesting assumptions that you all believed to be true...Listen to your favorite podcast every Monday! FOLLOW US: INSTA// www.instagram.com/iiwiibykm FOLLOW Kylan Maree: IG: www.instagram.com/kylanmaree/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylanmaree

In today's episode, Kylan explores the world of TikTok drama. She discusses the recent drama involving Alissa Violet and Brooke Schofield, as well as explains why Clinton Kane is a major red flag and how Brooke put him on the map. Additionally, she shares some recent house updates, future travel plans, and sheds light on certain individuals. FOLLOW US: INSTA// www.instagram.com/iiwiibykm FOLLOW Kylan Maree: IG: www.instagram.com/kylanmaree/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylanmaree

Sure, here is the revised text: Welcome to the infamous two-part Dallas Market episode. In this brief episode, Kylan discusses more of what happened at the stockyards, her traveling home to see her parents, and more. She also shares some house updates and possibly a future podcast studio?!?! Catch her every Monday for a new episode of your favorite podcast. FOLLOW US: INSTA// www.instagram.com/iiwiibykm/ FOLLOW Kylan Maree: IG: www.instagram.com/kylanmaree/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylanmaree

Welcome to another episode of It Is What It Is! Today, Kylan discusses her trip to Dallas and everything in her first two-part episode - from witnessing her friend getting proposed to at the bar to accidentally giving a bouncer her SSN!? She also gets vulnerable for the first time and talks about a HUGE life update. Catch her every Monday for a new episode of your favorite podcast! FOLLOW US: INSTA// www.instaram.com/iiwiibykm/ FOLLOW Kylan Maree: IG: www.instagram.com/kylanmaree/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylanmaree See less

This week, Kylan takes on Dallas, TX for market. She talks about how she's excited to be back after an 8-month hiatus and how it feels working with a brand-new vendor. She then discusses her ultimate summer do's and don'ts. She emphasizes that we should stop wearing shoes to the bar, avoid meeting your future husbands on dating apps, and steer clear of bleached brows that make you look like Jack Frost. FOLLOW US: INSTA// www.instagram.com/iiwiibykm/ FOLLOW Kylan Maree: IG: www.instagram.com/kylanmaree/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylanmaree

It's June, which means it's finally summer!! This week Kylan shares her ultimate summer 2024 must-haves to be the "it-girl" this summer. She discusses her must-have hoops to dress up any outfit, her secrets to perfect skin, and more! Summer 2024 Favorites: https://www.amazon.com/shop/kylanmaree/list/134TA1TEG3B9S?ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_mixed_d FOLLOW US: INSTA// www.instagram.com/iiwiibykm/ FOLLOW Kylan Maree: IG: www.instagram.com/kylanmaree/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylanmaree

Looking for the latest gossip in Hollywood? Look no further. This week, Kylan shares her unique take on the hottest drama in pop culture, including JoJo Siwa, the recent carriage scene in Bridgerton season 3, and the news that Hailey Bieber is expecting a baby girl. FOLLOW US: INSTA// https://www.instagram.com/iiwiibykm/ FOLLOW Kylan Maree: INSTA// www.instagram.com/kylanmaree/ TIKTOK// www.tiktok.com/@kylanmaree

This week, Kylan reads all of your current relationship red flags ranging from love bombing, being clingy, and breadcrumbing??? She also talks about her recent experience in a tornado and how it brought back some major PTSD. FOLLOW US: INSTA// www.instagram.com/iiwiibykm/ FOLLOW Kylan Maree: INSTA// www.instagram.com/kylanmaree/ TIKTOK: www.tiktok.com/@kylanmaree

This week Kylan shares her experience at the Calf Fry Festival in Stillwater, Oklahoma. She talks about her unfortunate travel experience, how a wardrobe malfunction turned into her favorite weekend look, and more!! FOLLOW US: INSTA// www.instagram.com/iiwiibykm/ FOLLOW Kylan Maree: INSTA// www.instagram.com/kylanmaree/ TIKTOK// https://www.tiktok.com/@kylanmaree

This week, Kylann is giving you a lot of hot takes! She gives very *honest* thoughts on current fashion trends, if In-N-Out is overrated or not, the reality of pretty privilege, and more! She also addresses the elephant in the room from last week's episode. FOLLOW US: INSTA// https://www.instagram.com/iiwiibykm/

This week, Kylan shares her unsolicited advice on topics suggested by you. She talks about how to land a successful job after college, dealing with crazy roommates, and more! She also dives into her own experiences, and some tea gets spilled... FOLLOW US: INSTA// https://www.instagram.com/iiwiibykm/