It's Messy and It's OKAY

It's the day after the Miss Blackhawk Valley competition and teen delegate Ashton Campbell and host Marley Haley sit down to discuss the day and all the lessons we learned.

This week I'm focusing on growing through what I'm going through and prioritizing a modified growth mindset. If you're interested in being featured on the next episode of It's Messy and It's OKAY email me at [email protected]

Other peoples expectations for us can be really hard to grapple with. Let's explore this idea and discover the importance of choosing to live by our own measure of success.

Life update! Here to remind you that you've always got options and are NEVER stuck in a life your gut rejects.

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This episode is dedicated to me, because I really needed to hear all of this today. So I pray you find comfort in these words too.

Welcome back to It's Messy and It's OKAY y'all! I'm so happy to be back to sharing my life with this community, thank you for being here even after my hiatus. So sorry about the audio quality!

We as people attract the energy to give, here's the tips and tricks on how to use this to your advantage.

Relationships with success are tricky, its easy to misinterpret what a healthy relationship with working towards success looks like especially when you're a perfectionist.

Risk taking can be terrifying, but why is that? And why is it so important to take little risks? Risk is so much better than the regret we feel from hiding away from the fear of failure so take a little risk today.

What does freedom really mean? And what can we gain just from the notion of being free to make our own choices? Learn all this and more in today’s episode all about becoming fuelled by your freedom.

Welcome to perfectionism rehab lesson 1, learning if your mindset makes your worth conditional. Just like in a toxic relationship, only you can make the choice to find happiness. Let's break down these barriers and become worthy unconditionally!

My greatest dream in life is to have a story worth telling- but what if we become brave enough to embrace the messy as our story? Isn't life already a story worth sharing? Dedicated to my Dad - Eric Haley

Thank you for all of the love and support for season 1, let the season 2 era begin!

“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent” - Elenor Roosavelt. You have the power to overcome insecurity with a balance of kindness and unending strength.

What do we do in the midst of failure? I propose we must recognize we are okay, just not settled. Growth takes place in the unsettled, the uncomfortable, and the messy.

Service connects all walks of life, but it can be difficult to navigate connecting your unique passion to your community. This week lets discover how to fuel our fires and #MakeADifference!

Happiness does not equate to perfection, genuine joy is messy too. So this week lets find happiness wherever we go because you have the permission and right to be happy.

You are never stuck in the old ways, whether something in life isn't sitting right or your whole mindset needs a revamp. Beginning anew doesn't need to be filled with the terror of the unknown.

Mental wellness is a journey, today I'd like to share what this journey has looked like for me using a mantra from Addie Biegel (Miss Mississippi Crown's Teen 2024) that we must Choose to Fight. Help for those struggling is always available by calling or texting 988.

Failure is terrifying, but what if we could harness the feeling of failing and make the lessons we learn our superpower?

As a role model, do you feel the need to be perfect? No matter how impossible it may be, we tend to want that. Today let's explore some alternate routes to being the best role model we can. Dedicated to Miss Rock Island County Fair Queen 2016, Emilee and Miss Rock Island County Fair Queen 2021 Rachel.

Have you ever sat down for a moment and thought about how you really got to this point in life? Today, lets sit down and follow memory lane's invisible strings and learn how to use this phenomenon to our advantage.

Life naturally throws a lot of chaos our way, and no matter how badly we want to be perfect, that's not really an option, is it? So instead, let's embrace the mess!

Meet your host, Marley a 17-year-old college freshman doing the most in the chaos of life.