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It's Not Just the Alcohol Talking

Hey there, fabulous folks! We're Diana And Ry, the voices behind the podcast that's spilling the tea on the messy, marvelous, and sometimes mystifying journey of life in your 40s and beyond. 🍵🌪️Grab your favorite beverage (ours is usually a cocktail but hey, no judgments if yours is coffee at 3 pm) because we're diving deep into the chaos that comes with being married, working, raising kids, and trying not to lose our minds in the process. 🍸👩‍👩‍👧‍👦What to Expect:🤣 Hilarious Tales🍹 Drinks of the Day💑 Relationship RealnessGet ready for the rollercoaster, because life begins at 40

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    It's Not Just The Laughs Talking

    This week on It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking, Ryan and Diana tackle the big question—do we age gracefully or fight it every step of the way? With Ryan fully embracing aesthetics and Diana opting for the natural route, they dive into the why behind their choices and ask the real question—does it even really matter? In this episode, Ryan chugs a soda (but fully admits Dry January had a little detour), while Diana keeps it classic with some good old water. Tune in for a fun and honest conversation about beauty, confidence, and doing whatever makes you feel good. Cheers to aging however the hell we want!

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    It's Not Just The Social Media Talking

    This week on It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking, Ryan and Diana dive into the wild world of social media—how it shapes our lives, our views, and sometimes even our sanity. They keep it real in this digital age, discussing how some people let it take over their lives and what it’s like when social media is your job. In this episode, Ryan chugs a soda (because Dry January is still going strong), while Diana sticks with some good old-fashioned water. Tune in for an honest, unfiltered chat about balance, boundaries, and keeping it real in a world full of filters. Cheers to authenticity!

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    Guess What... We Are Back

    Ryan and Diana are back on 'It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking' after a busy couple of months! In this episode, they catch up on work and business changes, surviving the chaos of the holiday season with teenagers home, and how they managed to get through it all. They also dive into their goals for the next year, including big plans to grow this fun little podcast. This week, they're keeping it simple with good old water—Ryan’s embracing Dry January, and Diana’s the responsible driver. Tune in for an inspiring and down-to-earth chat about reflection, resilience, and looking ahead to an exciting new year. Cheers to fresh starts!

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    It's Not Just The Drinking Games Talking

    After a brief hiatus, Ryan and Diana are back on 'It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking' to catch up on the whirlwind of the last few weeks. From work and business changes to the chaos of back-to-school season, they dive into everything that's been happening while they've been apart. With teenagers making new friends and a search for the perfect drinking game, there’s plenty to talk about. In this episode, they enjoy a bottle of Apothic Red, their go-to wine for a delicious and easy pick. Tune in for a fun and lively chat about juggling life’s demands and finding time for a little fun along the way. Cheers to catching up and keeping it real!

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    It's Not Just The Therapy Talking

    Catch up with Ryan and Diana on this week's episode of 'It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking' as they chat about the whirlwind of the past few weeks. From exciting promotions to therapy sessions and the ups and downs of everyday life, no topic is off-limits. In this laid-back episode, the duo enjoys Ryan's quirky gas station wine pick, adding a fun twist to their heartfelt conversation. Tune in for an honest and relatable discussion about navigating life’s changes and finding joy in the journey. Cheers to new experiences and candid conversations!

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    It's Not Just The Complaining Talking

    Join Ryan and Diana for a heartfelt and candid discussion on this week's episode of 'It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking.' They dive into the challenges Ryan is facing with her mental health, offering insights and support for anyone going through similar struggles. In this episode, Ryan and Diana share a moment of solidarity with Ryan's favorite, Snoop Dogg Cali Red Wine. Tune in for an honest conversation about mental health, resilience, and the power of friendship. Cheers to bravery and seeking support when needed!

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    It's Not Just The Never Have I Ever Talking

    Get ready for a wild ride on this week's episode of 'It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking'! Join Ryan and Diana as they navigate video issues and a bout of writer's block by diving into a hilarious game of 'Never Have I Ever.' In this spontaneous episode, Ryan and Diana sip on a delicious concoction of Wendy's Frosty with a splash of Irish Cream Liqueur, blending sweetness with a kick. Tune in for laughs, surprises, and a glimpse into their playful side. Cheers to spontaneity and the joy of friendship!

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    It's Not Just The Video Talking

    Join Ryan and Diana on a milestone episode of 'It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking' as they embark on their first-ever video recording journey! Tune in as they share their excitement and nerves about this new venture, along with a candid discussion about the things consuming their minds lately. In this episode, Ryan and Diana keep it refreshingly simple with a can of soda, as Ryan opts for a much-needed break for her liver. From navigating new beginnings to taking care of oneself, this episode is packed with authenticity and relatability. Cheers to growth, self-care, and the adventures ahead! If your feeling up to it you can also pop on over to YouTube and watch us be silly and make weird faces!

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    It's Not Just The Crying Talking

    "Join Ryan and Diana on a heartfelt episode of 'It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking' as they explore the importance of showing vulnerability and healthy emotions, especially in front of your children. In a candid discussion, they share personal experiences and insights on why it's okay—and even beneficial—to cry in front of your kids. In this episode, Ryan and Diana sip on a delightful cocktail made with Blackberry Crown Royal Whiskey and Simply Lemonade, adding a touch of sweetness to the conversation. Tune in for an honest and empowering discussion on parenting, emotions, and the beauty of being real. Cheers to emotional authenticity and raising emotionally intelligent children!"

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    It's Not Just The Husbands Talking

    Get ready for a role reversal on the latest episode of 'It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking'! This week, Ryan and Diana's husbands, Chris and Robert, take over the mic and dive into the topics the ladies are always discussing. From marriage and family life to the changes that come with aging, they offer a fresh perspective with their own humorous twist. In this special episode, Chris and Robert share their insights while enjoying a variety of whiskeys, including the smooth Slow & Low Rock & Rye Whiskey. Tune in for a fun and enlightening conversation that proves it's not just the ladies who have a lot to say! Cheers to husbands taking the lead and adding their unique flavor to the podcast!

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    It's Not Just The Forgiveness and Happiness Talking

    Join Ryan and Diana on the latest episode of 'It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking' as they delve into a heartfelt conversation about self-forgiveness and discovering personal happiness. In a world full of changes, the dynamic duo shares genuine insights on navigating life's challenges, whether married or single, with kids or without. This week, the podcast is accompanied by the smooth and delightful notes of Cortes de Roses, adding a touch of elegance to the conversation. Tune in for an uplifting blend of laughter, wisdom, and the pursuit of individual joy. Cheers to self-love, forgiveness, and savoring the sweet moments in life!

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    It's Not Just The Self Doubt Talking

    Dive into the latest episode of 'It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking' with Ryan and Diana, where they fearlessly tackle the relatable topic of self-doubt. In a no-nonsense conversation, they share strategies on how to overcome those moments of feeling down on yourself and just BRUSH THAT SHIT OFF! In this empowering episode, Ryan opts for the smooth Snoop Dogg Cali red wine, while Diana enjoys the refreshing vibes of watermelon Moscato. Tune in for a perfect blend of motivation, laughter, and unfiltered advice as they navigate the challenges of getting older, embracing change, and celebrating the strength within. Cheers to conquering self-doubt and toasting to the unstoppable force that is YOU!

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    It's Not Just The High School Girls Talking

    "Dive into the latest episode of 'It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking' with Ryan and Diana as they embark on a hilarious and enlightening journey into high school life, past and present. This week's special guests include Ryan's best friend and youngest daughter, along with Diana's sister and niece. From teenage tales to navigating the challenges of adolescence, the generations collide in a candid conversation about life, changes, and everything in between. In this episode, the gang gets creative with their beverage choices, sipping on some sonic slushies turned into vodka mixers (don't worry, the kids were not allowed)! Tune in for laughs, nostalgia, and unexpected revelations as they bridge the generation gap with humor, heart, and a touch of liquid courage. Cheers to family, friendship, and the delightful chaos of growing up!

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    It's Not Just The College Girls Talking

    Dive into the latest episode of 'It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking' with Ryan and Diana as they're joined by special guests Shelby, Hayden, and Ava for a lively discussion on life in college—then and now. From the joys and challenges of being married or single, with or without kids, to the ever-changing landscapes of aging, this dynamic group unpacks it all. In this episode, they sip on whatever they could find in the house during this quirky post-New Year period. Join the laughter, nostalgia, and candid conversations as they bridge the generation gap and explore the unique experiences that come with evolving times. Cheers to friendship, shared stories, and the delightful unpredictability of life!

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    It's Not Just The New Year Talking 2024

    Dive into the latest episode of 'It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking' with Ryan and Diana as they uncork the highs and lows of the holiday season. From festive celebrations to the mental load that comes with it, this dynamic duo shares candid insights into the challenges of juggling it all. Sipping on the crisp and bubbly notes of Martinelli's Sparkling Apple Cider, Ryan takes on a dryish January, adding a twist to the conversation. Join them for a refreshing blend of humor, honesty, and the shared experiences that make navigating womanhood, relationships, and the holidays an unforgettable journey.

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    It's Not Just The Social Media Talking

    Join Ryan and Diana in a spirited discussion on the latest episode of 'It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking.' This week, they uncork the nostalgia and dive into the fascinating realm of social media, exploring the stark differences between their experiences and those of their kids. From the ever-changing landscape of technology to the challenges and triumphs of womanhood, they cover it all with wit and candor. Sipping on the effervescent notes of Snoop Dog Cali Gold sparkling wine, this dynamic duo blends humor, insight, and a touch of bubbly charm. Tune in for a refreshing conversation that's part reflection, part laughter, and all about the unique journey of navigating life, then and now.

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    It's Not Just The 40 Things To Know By 40 Talking, Pt. 2

    Dive into the latest episode of 'It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking' with Ryan and Diana as they unveil the second half of their insightful list—'41 Things We Wish We Knew by 40 (or even 20).' Navigating the twists and turns of life, marriage, and the myriad of changes that come with getting older, this dynamic duo uncorks the wisdom and humor that make their podcast unique. Accompanied by the sweet and vibrant notes of Arbor Mist's Strawberry Mango Moscato, join the conversation as they sip, share, and reflect on the journey of womanhood. It's a delightful blend of laughter, introspection, and a touch of fruity Moscato magic. Oh, and here is the whole list: Fuck it all - what is going to happen is going to happen Stop caring what other people think You need to love yourself first and most You don’t have to marry the first guy that asks you It's okay to switch jobs a few times. You don’t have to know what you want to be when you are 20. It's important that you do a hobby or activity that is just for you and makes you happy -invest in yourself Stop apologizing You don’t have to move out of anyones way. Be present in the moment - quit looking at tech all the time It’s important to know your own body and be confident about it. Let go of timelines - overbooking yourself It's ok to say no Your kids don’t have to rule you and your house Things are not always going to be easy You don’t need to seek approval You don’t have to have a good relationship with all of your family It’s ok to choose your own family. Express your feelings and be vulnerable Good friendships are priceless treasures. Old friends are the most precious ones. Less is more  Eat the cake, dammit It’s ok to ask for help Don’t forget about your old friends, even if they move away and you don’t talk to them often- tell the people that you love that you love them while you can. Keep your expectations in check Sometimes, it is good to just live day by day instead of planning your whole life. BE KIND It’s the little things that matter in life This, too, will pass for real You are not the center of the universe  Let the anger go; it only hurts you Life can change at any second, and so can you! Wooosawwww, that shit - don’t let the negative thoughts outweigh the good ones. Stop overthinking. Learn to accept constructive criticism You do always have a choice - even if you don’t like it Choose happy - laugh more  Have lots of sex Spend your money exactly how you want, be prepared and responsible, but do the fun things. You can’t take it with you when you die. Don’t raise your kids to feel like they are entitled to anything Not everyone has to like you, nor will they, and that is ok. It is important to know about adult finances - HAVE LOTS OF SEX

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    It's Not Just The 40 Things To Know By 40 Talking Pt. 1

    Pour yourself a drink and join Ryan and Diana on another candid episode of 'It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking.' This week, they're delving into the wisdom they wish they had by 40 (or even 20!) in a lively discussion that's so rich it's a two-parter. From marriage and motherhood to the ever-changing landscape of aging, they're tackling it all. Sipping on the golden notes of a premade margarita mix by Jose Cuervo, the duo shares laughs, insights, and a splash of nostalgia. Tune in for a refreshing blend of humor, heart, and a few sips of liquid courage as they navigate the beautiful chaos of life's journey.

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    It's Not Just The Holidays Talking

    Join Ryan and Diana in this week's episode of It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking, where they uncork the festive spirit and dive into the joys and challenges of navigating the holiday season. From sharing Thanksgiving tales to gearing up for Christmas, they explore the unique experiences of women, whether married or not, with or without kids. Sip along with them as they savor the delightful Pink from Jerome Winery and laugh, reflect, and connect on the ever-evolving journey of life, love, and the beautiful chaos that comes with it. Cheers to the season of togetherness, change, and a good glass of wine!"

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    It's Not Just The Traveling Talking

    Join Ryan and Diana on an insightful journey through the tapestry of womanhood on It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking. Whether married or single, with or without kids, we delve into the profound changes that come with age—both in the body and the mind. This week's episode explores the fun and exciting topic of traveling, places we have been, and places we still want to go. Savor the conversation as we sip on the exquisite Arbazza Sparkling Rosé, adding a touch of sophistication to our discussions. Tune in for engaging dialogue, parenting insights, and the delightful blend of wisdom and a fine glass of rosé."

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    It's Just The Life Skills Talking

    Dive into the world of womanhood with It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking, where Diana and Ryan navigate the nuances of life—married or single, with or without kids, all while embracing the transformations that come with age. This episode delves into the essential life skills we believe every parent should impart to their children. Amidst the spirited conversation, we sip on refreshing sodas and explore the delightful concoction known as the Dirty Shirley, inspired by the creative flair of Ryan's daughter, Shelby. Join us for a blend of insightful discussions, parenting wisdom, and a touch of mixology, as we toast to the evolving journey of women everywhere.

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    It's A Thousand Goodbyes

    Embark on a journey of self-discovery with It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking, where Diana and Ryan fearlessly navigate the intricate terrain of womanhood. From the complexities of marriage and motherhood to the profound changes that accompany aging, join us in candid conversations that transcend the boundaries of societal norms. In this episode, we explore the art of bidding farewell to past versions of ourselves, relationships with kids, husbands, and friends. Amidst the poignant reflections, we indulge in a delightful blend of bourbon liquor and root beer, creating a unique concoction reminiscent of root beer floats. Tune in for laughter, introspection, and a refreshing take on the multifaceted experiences that shape us."

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    It's Not Just The Love Languages Talking

    Step into the world of womanhood with It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking, where Diana and Ryan unravel the rich tapestry of life's transitions. In this episode, we delve into the intricate web of love languages and their profound impact on relationships—with husbands, kids, and families. Join us for a heartfelt conversation that sheds light on the subtle nuances of connection, communication, and the enduring power of love in every chapter of a woman's life. This week Ryan introduced Diana to the beauty of The Incredible Hulk, a sweet mix of Hypnotic, Cognac and pineapple juice.

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    Expectations- They Suck!

    "Join us on It's Not JUST the Alcohol Talking with Diana and Ryan candidly explore the multifaceted journey of women—whether married or not, with kids or without—as they navigate the labyrinth of changes in their bodies, minds, and lives. In this episode, we dive deep into the profound impact of societal expectations on women and unravel the stories that unfold when expectations meet reality. From marriage to motherhood, smut books, and the intricate dance of aging, we discuss it all with humor, heart, and a touch of rebellion. Tune in for insightful conversations that resonate with every woman on this transformative journey."

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    🎙️✨ Your Over 40 Besties Telling It Like It Is!✨🍹

    Get ready to dive into the laughter-packed, unfiltered world of Chaos and Cocktails as we kick off our maiden voyage with Episode 1! 🎉 👯‍♀️ The Genesis: Have you ever wondered how two dynamic women found themselves navigating the wild seas of life together? In this episode, we spill the beans on how fate (and perhaps a few too many glasses of something tasty) brought Ryan and Diana into the gloriousness that is now our podcast. 🎤 The Birth of It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking: Why did we decide to embark on this rollercoaster ride of midlife musings? Tune in to discover the inspiration, the laughter, and maybe a hint of desperation that fueled the birth of It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking. Spoiler alert: It involves an excess of life's finest elixir, but not just that. 🤣 The Struggles We Wear Like Badges of Honor: We're laying it all out on the table—our current struggles that make us laugh, cry, and sometimes question our life choices. From managing households to embracing our newfound forgetfulness, it's all fair game in the midlife carnival. 🍷 What's in Our Cups Today: It wouldn't be It's Not Just The Alcohol Talking without a touch of liquid therapy. Ryan's diving into the smooth vibes of 19 Crimes Cali Red by Snoop Dogg, while Diana's taking a delightful detour with 1-cent frozen margarita popsicles. Because why not? Pour yourself a drink, find a comfy spot, and join us for a laughter-filled session that's equal parts heartwarming and hilariously chaotic. 🍸🤪 Don't miss the first sip of our podcast journey! Cheers to chaos, cocktails, and the magic of midlife! 🌈🥂

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Hey there, fabulous folks! We're Diana And Ry, the voices behind the podcast that's spilling the tea on the messy, marvelous, and sometimes mystifying journey of life in your 40s and beyond. 🍵🌪️Grab your favorite beverage (ours is usually a cocktail but hey, no judgments if yours is coffee at 3 pm) because we're diving deep into the chaos that comes with being married, working, raising kids, and trying not to lose our minds in the process. 🍸👩‍👩‍👧‍👦What to Expect:🤣 Hilarious Tales🍹 Drinks of the Day💑 Relationship RealnessGet ready for the rollercoaster, because life begins at 40

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Ryan & Diana

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Hey there, fabulous folks! We're Diana And Ry, the voices behind the podcast that's spilling the tea on the messy, marvelous, and sometimes mystifying journey of life in your 40s and beyond. 🍵🌪️Grab your favorite beverage (ours is usually a cocktail but hey, no judgments if yours is coffee at 3...

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