Just Be Poly Podcast

Hailey and Javi discuss the 1992 dark comedy, Death Becomes Her. Topics discussed include: Meryl Strep, Bruce Willis, Industrial Light And Magic, the symbolic origins of the magic potion, plot holes in the film, self-esteem, vanity, beauty standards, death, immortality, validation from others, Greta Garbo, morticians, diagetic sound, Robert Zemeckis, the symbolism of white in film, Sidney Pollock, celebrities, wealth, Hailey's processing delay, hypocrisies in cheating, scheduling with multiple partners, age gap relationships, putting partners through loyalty tests, eyes fluttering body language, Sabrina Carpenter, and Jenna Ortega.https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast/

Hailey and Javi discuss the original 1973 film The Wicker Man. Topics discussed include jealousy, threesomes, feeling left out, the Epstein files, the book of Daniel, ancient Celtic paganism, why coins are put on the eyes of the dead, Styx, Greek mythology, witches, folk music, religion, varieties of possible ENM boundaries, Christopher Lee, and is this actually a musical?https://www.instragram.com/justbepoly

Hailey and Javi discuss the 2016 horror comedy, The Love Witch. Topics discussed include: sex eyes, Wicca, Silver Ravenwolf, Charmed, scrying, Anna Biller, Gallo music and films, astrology, disassociation, gender role reversals, sexual assault, suicide, kaleidoscope effects, the film's retro aesthetic, sexism, femininity, sexuality, crime DNA analysis, and Lana Del Rey.

Hailey and Javier discuss the 2009 erotic thriller Chloe starring Julianne Moore, Amanda Seyfried, and Liam Neeson. Topics discussed include Chloe's uncomfortable themes, death of the artist, the original French film Nathalie..., how the film visualizes tension, the hidden metaphor of mirrors, sex work, rejection therapy, communicating feelings, emotional check-ins, family meetings, insecurities caused by aging, negotiating boundaries, meeting people where they're at, unicorns, shame, how affirmations shape the brain, the film's alternate endings, queer criticism of the film, and what's more disturbing: pedophilia or sneezing into a hand?https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast/

Hailey and Javi discuss the 2015 gothic romance Crimson Peak. Topics covered include what defines a period piece, Guillermo Del Toro, the symbolism of rubies in film, how ghosts manifest physically, vampire moths, ghosts' attachments to people and places, Fernando Velazquez, the happy major scale vs the sad minor scale, the importance of kiss chemistry, personal growth through polyamory, why other partners' dates must be respected, the power of journaling, long form media in the modern age, porn, and can polyamory solve incest?https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast/

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Hailey and Javi discuss 2003's The Haunted Mansion, starring Eddie Murphy. Topics covered include: religion and tarot, the original Disney attraction, the differences between men and women dating, what makes a successful online dating profile, barbershop quartets, the difference between green screen and blue screen, who made up the term jiggy, chatGPT, kids TV shows, and space facts!

Hailey and Javi discuss both the 2025 film Heart Eyes and the 2024 film It's What's Inside. Topics discussed include throuples, unicorn hunting, kinks and consent, how polyamory helps breakups, director Greg Jardin, integrity, porn addiction and its effects on romantic relationships, social media, possession vs love, group vs couple dynamics in polycules, and social anxiety.

Hailey and Javi discuss the 2016 psychological crime revenge film Nocturnal Animals. Topics discussed include Hailey and Javi's childhood exposure to horror, Amy Adams, Jake Gyllenhaal, The Alchemist, junk culture, Hailey analyzes the visual aspects of the film the Wilhelm scream, director Tom Ford, composer Abel Korzeniowski, Great Clips, makeup, Curology, toxic masculinity and machismo, male Titanic survivor, divine femininity and divine masculinity, guns, lavender marriages and beards, wealth and class in relationships, how to overcome judgement from others, and why terms like small dick energy are toxic.https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast

Hailey and Javi discuss the 2008 musical movie Mamma Mia. Topics discussed include: ABBA, bigamy vs polygamy and polyandry, Rumpelstiltskin, Greek weddings, Marilyn Monroe's triangle eye, crushes, The Fates of Greek mythology, jealousy being equivalent to love, polyamorous families, and next season's theme!https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast

In this episode, Hailey and Javi discuss the 2007 musical movie Hairspray. Topics covered include: CinemaScope, Adam Shankman, Mark Shaiman, homages to the sounds of the 60s, white savior syndrome, Trump's America, shape theory in character design, fat shaming, sexualizing teenagers in movies, the original 1988 film, homewrecking, transparency in communication, and what happened to Nikki Blonsky?https://instagram.com/justbepolypodcast

Hailey and Javi discuss the 2014 movie musical The Last Five Years. Topics covered include: Intermarriage, Judaism, Jason Robert Brown's true events inspiration, symbolism behind reversed timelines, auditioning 101, sticky eyes/taffy eyes, contemporary broadway music, married man ring effect, thumbs body language, healthy arguments, feedback during breakups, small towns, infidelity, love languages, violent jealousy, and should all celebrities should be non-monogamous?

Hailey and Javi discuss the 2001 musical movie Moulin Rouge, starring Ewan McGregor, Nicole Kidman, and John Leguizamo. Topics include why movies have specific release dates, director Baz Lurhmann, narcolepsy, tuberculosis, jukebox musicals, the police, Henri De Toulouse-Lautrec, single tear crying, sex worker stigmas, brothels, self-love insecurities, new love, and how to overcome jealousy.https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast

We listen and we don't judge. Hailey and Javi discuss the 2014 musical movie adaption of Into The Woods, directed by Rob Marshall, starring Emily Blunt, James Corden, Meryl Streep, and Johnny Depp. Topics covered include: Movie adaption vs original stage production, Spanish fairytales and slang, generational trauma, the Brothers Grimm, what is right and wrong, meta narration, horror movie score parallels, the worst astrology sign, Stephen Sondheim, the metaphors behind the color palette of the film, favoritism in polyamory, "the chase", the demonization of non-monogamy in media, historical polygamy and concubines in royalty, and what is the record for the most wives in human history? https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast

STOP THE HATE STOP THE HATE STOP THE HATE Hailey and Javi discuss the 2005 musical movie Rent. Topics discussed include: Criticisms of the film's message, Hailey's Broadway disaster, Jonathan Larson's death, actual reality, Ronald Raegan, AIDS, sexual safety, STI/STD stigmas, boundary lists, la boheme, cast and crew of rent, sex workers' relationships, freedom in polyamory, mixed-orientation dating, choosing between partners, long distance dating, and why didn't they want to pay rent? Why did everyone not pay rent? https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast

The gun the gun the gun the gun the gun the gun the gun Hailey and Javi discuss 2002's Chicago. Topics discussed include Hailey's theatre background, Chicago's influence on musical movies, vaudeville, OJ Simpson and other celebrity trials, Maurine Dallas Watkins, Chicago's true crime inspiration, Rob Marshall, 1920's politics, big band swing, polyrhythms, Catherine Zeta-Jones, Richard Gere, nonmonogamy laws in Illinois, funny sex laws in the United States, how to creatively portray violence, infidelity, the messy list, why poly media is important, serial killers astrology, astrological modalities, how polyamory raises standards, fear of abandonment, loveless marriages, things polyamory cannot fix, and are there polygamous Mormons in Chicago? https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast

Mischief! Mischief! Topics covered in today's discussion include Stephen Sondheim, dies irae in film, violence in media, black operetta, Johnny Depp, Sweeney Todd history and lore, using celebrities vs thespians in musicals, lack of diversity in Tim Burton films, Lin-Manuel Miranda's influence, the original String Of Pearls story, arsenic, choosing love vs hate, possessiveness in monogamy, corsets, white striped hair, romantic relationships with inanimate objects, and how you can win a chance to get visited by three ghosts. https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast

My husband... makes movies... Hailey and Javi discuss Nine, the musical based off 8 1/2, starring Daniel Day-Lewis, Nicole Kidman, Penelope Cruz, Marion Cotillard, Judi Dench, and Fergie. Topics covered include movie vs stage version, critical reception, history of the 9 Greek muses, wine prices in New York City, how this movie smokes, weird baby names, infidelity while in love, societal pressures of monogamy, trauma cycles, how polyamory saves lives, and Hailey confesses a deep secret. https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast

Under sedAAAATIOOOOOON! Hailey and Javi discuss RIchard O'Brien's, The Rocky Horror Picture Show. Topics covered include origin of the story, horror and sci-fi influences, behind the scenes history, love triangles, RP culture, jealousy, repression, Easter eggs, the sequel, callbacks, Frankenstein, control vs freedom in polyamory, and more. https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast

Today we discuss the 2023 award-winning Poor Things by Yorgos Lanthimos starring Emma Stone, William Dafoe, Mark Ruffalo, and Ramy Youssef. Based off the 1992 novel of the same name by Alasdair Gray.Topics discussed include: Marriage, themes in the film's cinematography, Jerskin Fendrix's score, throuples, last names, the duality of life, the real meaning of siesta, psychological order of lists, connections to Frankenstein, Mary Shelley, is this film feminist, people's treatment of others based on their representation, establishing comfort before intimacy, vaginismus, what healthy communication looks like, Bella Baxter's ability to consent, how stories inspire real life, and DAFOE!The Just Be Poly Podcast is a podcast for lovers and film lovers alike. We discuss movies and in the end answer the question, "could these problems be solved with polyamory?" New episodes on the 8th of every month. Please leave us a comment and review as those really help us get discovered by new listeners. Give us a follow on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast/ to stay up to date on new episodes, informational posts and memes on polyamory, and our lives in general.

In today's episode, Hailey and Javi discuss the 2004 romance drama A Home At The End Of The World starring Colin Farrell, Robin Wright, Dallas Roberts, and Sissy Spaceck. Original novel and screenplay by Michael Cunningham.Topics discussed include: How childhood experience affects adulthood character, LGBTQ+ in pop culture from the 60s through the 90s, drug abuse in children and adolescents, spirituality and astrology, soul contracts, childhood friendships, compersion, emotional volatility, color theory, monogamy being unnatural in humans, legal barriers for polyamorous families, the importance of sexual safety and boundaries, and Michael Cunningham.The Just Be Poly Podcast is a podcast for lovers and film lovers alike. We discuss movies and in the end answer the question, "could these problems be solved with polyamory?" New episodes on the 8th of every month. Please leave us a comment and review as those really help us get discovered by new listeners. Give us a follow on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast/ to stay up to date on new episodes, informational posts and memes on polyamory, and our lives in general.

In this episode, Hailey and Javi discuss the 2010 rom-com Leap Year starring Amy Adams, Matthew Goode, Kaitlin Oslon, and Adam Scott. Topics covered include: Rom-com clichés, Celtic tradition origins, finding love in unlikely places, why women don't propose in heterosexual marriages, financial security in relationships, the relationship escalator, what characters eating apples in film means, divine masculine and divine feminine energy, how class impacts romantic partner choice, media's portrayal of the rich, the power of intuition, astrology, the importance of communication in polyamory vs monogamy, and TRADITION. The Just Be Poly Podcast is a podcast for lovers and film lovers alike. We discuss movies and in the end answer the question, "could these problems be solved with polyamory?" New episodes on the 8th of every month. Please leave us a comment and review as those really help us get discovered by new listeners. Give us a follow on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast/ to stay up to date on new episodes, informational posts and memes on polyamory, and our lives in general.

Warning: Includes spoilers, mature themes, bad words, and crying?In this episode, Hailey and Javi dive into the 2005 western romance Brokeback Mountain starring Heath Ledger, Jake Gyllenhaal, Anne Hathaway, and Michelle Williams. Topics covered include homosexuality, cowboys, toxic masculinity, emotional repression, laundry, behind the scenes of the film, original short story, Newton's Second Law Of Motion, we cannot pronounce anyone's name correctly, comet partners, what makes a western, hate crimes, fan fictions, shame, what a girl really wants, homewreckers, regret, and the one penis policy.The Just Be Poly Podcast is a podcast for lovers and film lovers alike. We discuss movies and in the end answer the question, "could these problems be solved with polyamory?" New episodes on the 8th of every month. Please leave us a comment and review as those really help get us discovered by new listeners. Give us a follow on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast/ to stay up to date on new episodes, informational posts and memes on polyamory, and our lives in general.

JOHN FUCKING MAYER!In this episode, Javi and Hailey discuss the 2011 rom-com Friends With Benefits starring Justin Timberlake, Mila Kunis, Woody Harrelson, Emma Stone, Andy Samberg, and many more.Topics covered in this episode include flash mobs, emotional unavailability, single parent households, mommy/daddy issues, childhood's impact on relationships, dementia, why wearing socks during sex enhances orgasms, vocalizations during sex, blinking body language, sexologists, the secret to orgasming in any position, heterosexual norms in sex, can FWBs work in real life, forcing organic connections into relationship escalators, healthy and effective communication during sex, the compliment sandwich, lying about fake orgasms, kink exploration, amorphous relationships, monogamy in this economy, is John Mayer the Sheryl Crow of our generation, and does a finger in your butt make you gay?The Just Be Poly Podcast is a podcast for lovers and film lovers alike. We discuss movies and in the end answer the question, "could these problems be solved with polyamory?" New episodes on the 8th of every month! Please leave us a comment and review as those really help get us discovered by new listeners. Give us a follow on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast/ to stay up to date on new episodes, informational posts and memes on polyamory, and our lives in general.

LOVE IS ALL AROUND ME!In this episode, Hailey and Javi discuss the classic 2003 Christmas rom-com starring Hugh Grant, Emma Thompson, Alan Rickman, Keira Knightley, Liam Neeson, Colin Firth, and every other famous British actor at that time. Topics covered include infidelity, emotional affairs, workplace romances, forbidden love, the origins of mistletoe, fat-shaming in the 2000s, boundaries in monogamy and polyamory, aura photography, losing a partner to death, stepparent to stepchild relationships, poly families, why do people cheat, language barriers, NRE (new relationship energy), casual dating in monogamy vs solo polyamory, and possibly the greatest Christmas movie soundtrack of all time.How many times was the word "actually" used in Love Actually?The Just Be Poly Podcast is a podcast for lovers and film lovers alike. We discuss movies and in the end answer the question, "could these problems be solved with polyamory?"New episodes on the 8th of every month!Please leave us a comment and review as those really get us discovered by new listeners. Give us a follow on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast to stay up to date on new episodes, informational posts, and memes on polyamory, and our lives in general.

Do angels have wings?In this episode, Hailey and Javi discuss the 2008 rom-com starring Eva Longoria, The Rudd, Lake Bell, and Jason Biggs. Topics covered include jealousy versus envy, wedding traditions, ghost lore, ghost outfits, angelology, possessiveness, fear of rejection in monogamy and polyamory, jealousy's place in relationships, how to create a safe environment in any kind of relationship, the emotional umbrellas of love and fear, compersion, metamours, kitchen table polyamory, what is a V, the hinge's role in a V, fear of being replaced/abandoned, and farts.Drink every time Hailey says "interesting!"The Just Be Poly Podcast is a podcast for lovers and film lovers alike. We discuss movies and in the end answer the question, "could these problems be solved with polyamory?"New episodes on the 8th of every month!Please leave us a comment and review as those really get us discovered by new listeners. Give us a follow on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast/ to stay up to date on new episodes, informational posts and memes on polyamory, and our lives in general.

Hailey and Javi discuss the 2002 biopic on the controversial life of Frida Khalo, starring Salma Hayek and Doc Ock (Alfred Molina). Topics discussed include the institution of marriage, boundaries, loyalty versus fidelity, heritage, death of the artist, reincarnation, gender roles and identity, lying culture, cheating, and why Javi is scared of buses.Trigger warning: This episode contains explicit content about sexuality, suicide, and sexual assault that may not be advised for younger audiences and/or people who may be sensitive to these topics.The Just Be Poly Podcast is a podcast for lovers and film lovers alike. We discuss movies and in the end answer the question, "Could these problems be solved with polyamory?"New episodes on the 8th of every month!Please leaves us a comment and review as those really help us get discovered by new listeners. Give us a follow on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast/ to stay up to date on new episodes and other posts on polyamory and our lives in general.

Hailey and Javi discuss the 2004 romantic comedy, 50 First Dates, starring Adam Sandler, Drew Barrymore, and a very rude vomiting walrus. Topics in the discussion include solo polyamory, "Goldfield's Syndrome", misogyny in 2000s films, new relationship energy, commitment anxiety and trauma, swinging, and Letterboxd's reviews.The Just Be Poly Podcast is a podcast for lovers and film lovers alike. We discuss movies and in the end answer the question, "Could these problems be solved with polyamory?"New episodes on the 8th of every month!Please leaves us a comment and review as those really help us get discovered by new listeners. Give us a follow on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/justbepolypodcast/ to stay up to date on new episodes and other posts on polyamory and our lives in general.