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Letters to Uncle Gay
by Teri Mandemaker
Intimate, funny, and irresistibly vivid glimpses of 1940's Los Angeles.When a lively 25-year-old woman writes to her beloved uncle- only a few years older and serving overseas during World War II - nothing is off limits. In these real-life letters, she chronicles her days and nights in Los Angeles with charm, wit, flirtation, and a sparkling sense of adventure. Each episode features a letter read aloud revealing a time capsule of love, youth, and the human moments that persist - even in a world at war.
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Blue Monday, Oct 29 1945
In this episode Pat reports about Wally's bad injury where he tore the tendons on his right arm on a broken bottle. Yuck! We also hear about dewy weather in Southern California.
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Raising Wolves Turkey Day 1945
Pat loved to bowl and she joined women's bowling leagues in the 50's and 60's. In fact Pat's youngest son, Thomas, not yet born as part of this series, became a competitive bowler and he even appeared on television throwing the ball.
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Angel Wings, Oct 8 1945
Wouldn’t it be swell to sprout angel wings?An image of "the Luscious One" is on the Letters to Uncle Gay FB page post on January 17, 2026
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Jerry #8: Dear Uncle Ugly
What is Christmas without our dear Uncle Ugly.
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Jerry #7: All about soap bubbles
During the 1940's the Coconut Grove at the Ambassador Hotel on Wilshire Boulevard was the premier, glamorous Los Angeles hot spot. Known for its tropical decor- featuring real palm trees from a Valentino film - it hosted big band music, Hollywood elite, and wartime service men, including hosting the Academy Awards until 1943.
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Jerry #6: Palm Springs Gigolo
On November 17, 1945 UCLA defeated Saint Mary's with a score of 13-7. The game was held in Los Angeles, where the Bruins handed the 7th ranked Gaels one of their only regular session losses.
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Jerry #5: Saying goodbye to Winnie
What is OCS? Officer Candidate SchoolFred MacMurray and Claudette Colbert starred in "Practically Yours", a romantic comedy released in 1944.
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Jerry #4: Time in Hawthorne Nevada
We found the French Restaurant in Reno. It was called "The Whitehouse". It offered frog legs, sweatbreads, and chicken a la king. The Chicken A La King was a family tradition that Jerry made for her children. Not sure the kids were as impressed with that dish as she was.Jerry talked about going to the Wallace Beery movie, "Barbary Coast Gent". The character he played was Honest Plush Brannon, a con man thrown out of the Barbary Coast in San Francisco in the 1880's and he headed for the gold rush region of Nevada.
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Jerry #3: Buying and using false fronts
Again - the Palladium - must have been quite the place!the Hollywood Palladium opened on October 31, 1940,on Sunset Boulevard instantly becoming a premier Art Deco ballroom for big bands swing. Hosting 3000 plus dancers. Tommy Dorsey and his orchestra featuring a young Frank Sinatra headlined the opening night.
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Jerry #2: Pat's Movie Star Turn
What are "false fronts"?Also known as "bullet bras" required to provide that extra oomph needed for the fashionable sweaters of the time. Danny Kaye was a legendary comedic actor known for his rapid-fire songs, physical comedy, and musical talents. His most iconic role was in White Christmas 1954
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Jerry #1: 1/6/45 Garment Workers
Recently uncovered letters from Jerry to Uncle Gaylord.
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PFC: August 25 1945
PFC equals poor flustered civilian
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Red Shoes: July 28, 1945
Jimmy Dorsey played at the famous Casino Gardens Ballroom near Santa Monica. There are live recordings from when he played there in 1945."The More I See You" was recorded by Dick Haymes in 1945.Phrase: Glad Rags - these are clothes for a special occasion
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Pat the Rat: June 28, 1945
Winnie's funeral episode. Also included are curious words about moist kisses and keeping one's lips lubricated. Jerry is "peeved" at Pat because Pat going on dates with Jerry's boyfriend
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To Smooch or not To Smooch June 11, 1945
Some music recommendations:"I'm in the Mood for Love""Molly and Me"One should avoid being Gravel Gerty for as long as possible.New phrase, "when we were groovie".
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Seeing Los Angeles May 24, 1945
The Ambassador Hotel on Wilshire blvd, now-demolished, was known for Hollywood glamour and the home of the Coconut Grove nightclub.Camp Roberts, along both sides of the Salinas River in Monterey and San Luis Obispo counties and is now the primary training site of the California Army National Council.All those sailors!
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Happy Birthday Uncle Pie May 15, 1945
This letter was included with a birthday card that I will post on the Letters to Uncle Gay Facebook Page.Some interesting new terms:Hot LegsStems - referring to legs PitchingCoin"Pitching" was a new one for me. According to Google, "It's a swell night to be pitching" means it's a wonderful time for someone to make a romantic advance". Sounds right.The "coin" usage was also unique to me. Coin travels far, I suppose, so can voices. I do see the connection.
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Germany Surrenders: May 7, 1945
Germany surrendered unconditionally on May 7, 1945 with a signing in Reims, France leading to V-E Day celebrations as the fighting ended in Europe, though the war continued in the Pacific.What is a Monkey Suit - it is a tuxedo or evening wear for menWhat is a Skoonk? I have no idea
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George gets drafted: April 11, 1945
There are solid record recommendations:The More I Love YouThe Rest of My LifeBut That's the Way it is
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The Frisco Trip: March 21, 1945
Sounds like the Frisco trip was a great success, even if lobster wasn't up to her liking. We learned that Jimmie was "Stinko" and Mildred was very nice. We also learned about a new marriage proposal.
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Washington Birthday 1945
Music recommendations The Mills Brothers, The Andrew Sisters, and listening to the DJ, Al Jarvis. For "the Frisco Trip" they plan to stay at the Whitcomb Hotel San Francisco. Listen for the idioms:Pitch a Little WooTNT Love Letters - sound pretty funAll that glitters is not goldMy legs are unpadded Gals in the future will be stacked
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Christmas Edition December 29, 1944
In this episode we learn about the cost of Christmas trees and that it is not possible to buy Christmas lights due to war challenges. Pat talked about throwing the ribbons onto the tree after the presents were opened.We have a couple of fun sayings "sent us into stitches" and "breaking loose and putting in all of the glamor".
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First Letter: October 8, 1944
Listen for idioms such as: “cooking with gas” and “a dress that fits like a paper on the wall”. This letter was written to Uncle Gaylord with the armed services Little Creek Virginia.Haven’t been able to locate the dance location “Cosa Moma Nonna” but it sounds swell.
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Intimate, funny, and irresistibly vivid glimpses of 1940's Los Angeles.When a lively 25-year-old woman writes to her beloved uncle- only a few years older and serving overseas during World War II - nothing is off limits. In these real-life letters, she chronicles her days and nights in Los Angeles with charm, wit, flirtation, and a sparkling sense of adventure. Each episode features a letter read aloud revealing a time capsule of love, youth, and the human moments that persist - even in a world at war.
HOSTED BY
Teri Mandemaker
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