Love and Lunacy

What are the Red, Green, and Yellow flags? Well listen and learn what the general these are. You may have your own but we're the experts... or get your own therapist... DUH!

In this episode we cover teen and adolescent development and how to parent teens in age appropriate ways. We debunk mythes of teen development as well as uncover the neuroscience beheld the truth. https://www.columbiadoctors.org/health-library/article/teen-behavior-what-s-typical-what-are-signs-problem/https://drdansiegel.com/book/brainstorm/

Listen & learn how ADHD shows up in intimate relationships as well as how you can practice healthy ways to adapt to ADHD challenges. We also cover how neurotypical partners can support while not engaging in codependence with their ADHD partner. https://www.helpguide.org/articles/add-adhd/adult-adhd-attention-deficit-disorder-and-relationships.htm https://adhdaware.org.uk/living-with-adhd/how-does-adhd-affect-relationships-and-marriage/

Covering a brief history of ADHD, debunking ADHD myths, and providing tools and tips for parents who have ADHD children and/or ADHD themselves. https://chadd.org/for-parents/overview/https://neurodivergentinsights.comhttps://www.additudemag.com/parenting-with-adhd-strategies/

Find out the differences in life coaching vs therapy as well as red flags in each. We'll talk about how to find a good therapist for you and what you may be seeking.

We discuss what gaslighting is and what it is not as well as the three times of Gaslighters, and different forms of gaslighting.

In this episode, we talk about the types of abuse as well as their cycles. Learn the ways to find resources for getting out of abusive relationships. Online resource for DV: https://www.loveisrespect.org

Learn about the three main states of the nervous system as well as how ground. In turn helping you respond and not react in your relationships. https://www.talkingmentalhealth.com/post/moving-ladder-anxiety-polyvagal-theory

Flaunt your boundaries in the right (healthy) ways in all your relationships. Learn the different types of boundaries and the ineffective way to not word them.

Listen in as we discuss Dr. Lindsey Gibson's book "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents", to see how your caregivers lack of emotional maturity has impacted your and your healing.

Learn about the four things to avoid & repair in your relationships for them to be healthy & last. https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-recognizing-criticism-contempt-defensiveness-and-stonewalling/

I didn't start with you!!!! But we are stuck with having to break the cycle. Let's discuss some generational trauma and sprinkle in Polyvagal Theory with the ACES study.

Explore and learn what your primary attachment style(s) are while getting the correct information about how this shows up in your relationships.

Explore the pretty messed up childhood romantical princess movies that have contributed to societies "Fantasy Love" craze. Let's unlearn this type of false love!