Love Encompassed with Phil & Victoria

We're debunking bad advice about marriage--the kind that sounds good but doesn't actually help when life gets real. Just us for honest conversation, a few laughs and practical truth to help you and your spouse grow stronger together.

Let's talk about it--sex, intimacy and everything in between. We're diving into what helps couples stay connected, communicate desires and build trust where it matters most.

When you lose sight of who you are, your sense of self-worth can fade too. In this episode, we dive into how to find your footing again and rebuild your confidence from the inside out. 

In this episode, we explore Phil's newly released book Posture Of The Heart. We discuss how the posture of our heart will help us let go, lean in and love well. 

Victoria & their youngest son, Preston, talk about his journey growing up biracial. Their conversation gives a honest look at identity and celebrates the beauty of embracing who you are. 

Phil is joined by our youngest son, Preston, for a heartfelt conversation about the ups and downs of being the youngest. Preston shares how those challenges shaped him and the ways he's grown throuugh them. Their honest dialogue is a reminder that even in life's hardest moments, growth and wisdom can emerge. 

No relationship stays the same & that's not a bad thing. From shifting roles to evolving deams, we explore how couples can navigate life's inevitable changes with grace, empathy and deeper connection. Whether you're newlyweds or decades in, tune in for real talk, practical advice & stories that remind you: change can be the catalyst for even greater love 

From young lovebirds to still going strong--join us as we look back on 19 years of marriage, sharing what we've learned, what we've laughed through and what keeps us going strong! 

In this episod, we discuss different ways to view conflict, sharing honest reflections and practical ways to approach it with confidence. Confrontation isn't something to fear, but an opportunity for clarity and growth. Whether you're afraid to speak up or unsure how to handle someone in conflict, let's dive into this conversation together. 

In this episode, Victoria sits down with her sister, Rachelle Joi, for an intimate conversation about what led to her decsin to end her 20 plus year marriage. Rachelle shares how she supported her children through the transition and some revealing truths she uncovered during the healing process. 

Whether it's a mistake we can't stop replaying or guilt that never seems to fade, this conversation is your reminder: be kind to yourself. In this episode, we explore why forgiving ourselves feels so hard but is so necessary too change our perspective and start the healing process. 

Forgiveness is easier said than done, especially when you're still hurting. In this episode, we talk about how to take steps toward forgiveness when it feels nearly impossible. Why should you forgive? Howdo you do it when the pain still feels fresh? And most importantly,  why is forgiveness more for you than for the person who hurt you? 

Is trust something we earn--or something we chooseto give? In this episode, we dive into the different ways we've approached this very question. We explore how trust is built, the ways it can be broken and whether it can truly be restored. Join us we unpack why trust is one of the essential foundations that keeps relationships strong. 

Staying consistent can be tough--especially when you don't see immediate results. In this episode, we break down what true consistency really means & share powerful mindset shifts to help you keep going. Learn how to show up even when it feels like nothing is working. Don't let frustration keep you back from your breakthrough. 

In this episode, we're checking in--not just with ourselves, but with our partners & the people we hold close. Life moves fast & it's easy to miss when someone we love isn't doing so well. Let's explore how to be safe space for the people we care about--especially when they need it most. 

It's easy to fall into "fix-it" mode & focus only on what needs to change, but what we give our attention to can manifest in our lives. While it's important towork through challenges, it's equally important to celebrate the parts of our relationship the parts of our relationships we love and enjoy. In this episode, we'll explore how to balance growth with gratitude, shine a light on what's working and cultivate deeper, more fulfilling connections with the people who matter most. 

Even the strongest relationships can slip into autopilot--where connection fades under the weight of routines, responsibilities and daily stress. From school drop-offs to work deadlines, it's easy to stop showing up with intention--for yourself and for each other. In this episode, we share how we found ourselves stuck in that cycle, what we helped us recognize it and the intentional steps we took to reconnect and grow stronger together. 

In this episode, we reflect on the early days of our marriage & share the advice we would give to our younger selves. From moments of growth to lessons learned, we explore what we wish we had known when starting this journey. If you're navigating a relationship or thinking about marriage, this is a great listen for some real, heartfelt insights. 

Join us as we share our journey navigating a mixed relationship. From cultural differences to breaking sterotypes, we hold nothing back in discussing what it means for us to build a life together across racial lines. 

No one wants a stale relationship! To keep love strong, we need to keep things fresh & exciting, avoiding those all-to-familiar ruts. Join us this week as we share some simple tips for keeping your relationship vibrant and full of life! 

We all bring baggage to the table---but we don't need to bringinto our relationships. Old flames, childhood trauma and insecurities can affect not just us, but how we show up in our partnerships. In this episode, we dive into how to let go of that baggage so you and your relationships can truly thrive! 

The hustle & bustle of life can be DRAINING, but we don't have to let it keep us down. How do we stay hopeful and positive when "life" feels like it's throwing everything at us? In this episode we explore practical ways to stay uplifted and maintain a positive outlook! 

LIFE can throw challenges our way. Just like a speed bump, they might slow us down for a moment, but we eventually get past them. The same goes for obstacles in our relationships, marriage and everyday life. Join us this week as we talk about overcoming life's hurdles together. 

You gave us questions and we answered! Check out this special BONUS episode of the Love Encompassed Podcast! 

Let's be honest...loving others can sometimes be difficult! Loving yourself & being happy with you can seem IMPOSSIBLE. Taking care of you isn't selfish--it's the foundation for living a fulfilling life and building meaningful relationships. Join us this week as we talk about loving and embracing who you are!