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Send us Fan MailHosts Kathryn and Marina welcome Ronit, a local realtor who created “Mingle” a Facebook and WhatsApp community for Jewish singles ages 40–70 across Southern California and nearby Baja Mexico. Ronit says rising antisemitism and a common midlife identity transition—aging parents, grown children, divorce or being single—drive the need for a safe, warm community that goes beyond dating apps through real interaction and in-person events, including her active facilitation to connect people. The conversation explores post-pandemic social isolation, reduced flirting and touch, shifting social skills, introvert/extrovert dynamics, and ideas like pairing extroverts with introverts to help people feel comfortable. They discuss misinformation and antisemitism, immigration experiences, fear of being visibly Jewish, and Jewish values like Tikkun Olam -- healing the world, ending with ways to connect with the group and the podcast. 00:00 Welcome to Love Liaisons00:26 Meet Ronit and Mingle00:46 Tea and Wine Check02:12 How Mingle Started03:37 Why Community Matters05:46 Beyond Dating Apps06:52 Chemistry Online vs Real08:51 Why We Feel Isolated12:19 Relearning Flirting and Touch16:34 Helping Shy Guests Connect18:20 Introverts and Extroverts21:48 Safe Spaces and Antisemitism23:48 Interfaith Dating Realities26:42 Kindness Over Labels29:46 Judaism as Culture Too30:59 Mezuzah and Netanyahu Debate32:23 Israel as Lifeline35:13 Soviet Jewish Escape37:16 Why the Hate38:49 Bigger Picture War41:36 Isolation and Fear47:48 Hanukkah Decor Targeted49:34 Pride Over Fear52:48 Tikkun Olam and Community55:10 Song and Sign Off  Follow us on FB @Love Liaisons, IG @loveliaisons, TikTok @love.liaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFor more information about relationship and mindful life coaching  or speaking engagements contact Marina at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Love Liaisons, hosts Kathryn and Marina welcome Tracee, a women's health nurse practitioner specializing in menopause, to discuss the physical and emotional impacts of menopause on relationships. Topics include hormone shifts, intimacy, libido, and the importance of communication and compassion between partners. They explore how men can better support their partners through this life stage, emphasizing emotional safety and mutual understanding. The episode also highlights practical advice on maintaining physical health through exercise and proper nutrition. Kathryn, Marina, and Tracee provide valuable insights to help couples navigate the challenges of menopause together, enhancing both emotional and physical intimacy.00:00 Welcome to Love Liaisons00:20 Meet Our Special Guest: Tracee00:55 What Are You Drinking?02:05 The Impact of Menopause on Relationships05:38 Understanding Hormonal Shifts10:48 Men's Perspective on Menopause13:04 The Role of Compassion in Relationships16:23 Libido and Menopause22:12 Navigating Intimacy During Menopause23:33 The Importance of Communication24:46 Emotional Safety and Secure Attachments25:58 Challenges in New and Long-Term Relationships27:09 Understanding Physical and Emotional Changes30:22 The Role of Vulnerability in Intimacy31:35 Breaking the Stigma Around Women's Health37:13 The Importance of Physical Fitness43:15 Concluding Thoughts and Final AdviceFollow us on FB @Love Liaisons, IG @loveliaisons, TikTok @love.liaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFor more information about relationship and mindful life coaching  or speaking engagements contact Marina at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailIs it getting hot in here?  In this episode of Love Liaisons, hosts Kathryn and Marina sit down with Brenda, a women’s health nurse practitioner specializing in menopause and midlife wellness. Brenda opens up about both her professional expertise and her personal journey through menopause, breaking down the stages, symptoms, and misconceptions surrounding this major life transition.From hot flashes and insomnia to mood swings and changes in libido, the trio explores what really happens during menopause—and, more importantly, what women can do to thrive through it. Brenda shares practical solutions including bioidentical hormones, natural supplements, lifestyle adjustments, and the often-overlooked importance of quality sleep.The conversation also highlights how men can better support their partners during this phase and why maintaining connection, intimacy, and a healthy sexual relationship matters more than ever. Empowering, informative, and refreshingly honest, this episode encourages listeners to embrace midlife with confidence, humor, and joy.Guest Brenda Lee Herrod is a nurse practitioner specializing in women's health and menopause. She works at New Leaf Wellness in Omaha, NE IG @brendalee_wellness;  @newleaf_omaFollow us on FB @Love Liaisons, IG @loveliaisons, TikTok @love.liaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFor more information about relationship and mindful life coaching  or speaking engagements contact Marina at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailJoin Kathryn, Marina, and special guest Eric in part 2 of this lively episode of Love Liaisons as they explore the intricate dance of modern dating across the decades. From personal stories and the challenges of dating in shared activities like salsa dancing to the importance of staying present and setting realistic expectations, they offer honest insights into cultivating authentic connections. Eric, a registered dietitian and salsa dancer, shares his perspective on avoiding drama, building secure attachments, and navigating the differences in how men and women perceive romantic interest. Whether you're curious about flirting, boundaries, or the magic of spontaneous moments, this episode provides practical advice, relatable stories, and plenty of humor to help you find joy and genuine love on your own dating journey. Cheers to living, loving, and laughing through it all!Available now on Apple, Amazon, and Spotify Podcasts.Follow us on FB: Love LiaisonsIG @ loveliaisonsTikTok @ love.liaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFollow us on FB @Love Liaisons, IG @loveliaisons, TikTok @love.liaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFor more information about relationship and mindful life coaching  or speaking engagements contact Marina at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Love Liaisons, Marina and Kathryn welcome Eric—a 37-year-old salsa dancer and dietitian looking for love—for a candid conversation about the highs and lows of modern dating. Together, they dive into everything from the “who pays” debate on first dates to the rise of situationships, swipe culture, and how social media continues to reshape expectations.Eric offers an honest male perspective on what makes connection so elusive today, while Kathryn and Marina bring humor and insight to the challenges of navigating boundaries, communication, and clarity in relationships. Funny, thoughtful, and refreshingly raw, this conversation shines a light on what it really takes to search for something real in the 21st century.Available now on Apple, Amazon, and Spotify Podcasts.Follow us on FB: Love LiaisonsIG @ loveliaisonsTikTok @ love.liaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFollow us on FB @Love Liaisons, IG @loveliaisons, TikTok @love.liaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFor more information about relationship and mindful life coaching  or speaking engagements contact Marina at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of 'Love Liaisons,' hosts Kathryn and Marina dive into the theme 'This Is Why I Am Single' by sharing humorous and sometimes tragic Dating Disaster stories. They explore awkward and outrageous dating experiences, emphasizing the importance of communication, respect, and understanding personal values and boundaries. From a failed movie date to a sweaty gym-goer, and even to an unexpected late night visit from an ex, the stories highlight the unpredictable nature of modern dating. The hosts also touch upon the impact of texting etiquette and the importance of authenticity in relationships. The episode concludes with a call for listeners to share their own dating disaster stories.Remember to follow us on FB: Love LiaisonsIG @ loveliaisonsIG @marinaismindfulwww.love-liaisons.comFollow us on FB @Love Liaisons, IG @loveliaisons, TikTok @love.liaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFor more information about relationship and mindful life coaching  or speaking engagements contact Marina at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of 'Love Liaisons', Kathryn and Marina dive into the complexities of attachment styles in adult romantic relationships, with insights from licensed therapist Lana. They discuss how early life experiences shape our intimacy and how different attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized—manifest in relationships. The conversation touches on recognizing patterns, the impact of childhood trauma, and strategies for moving towards emotional security. The episode also explores the difficulties middle-aged men face with commitment and offers practical advice for dating and self-reflection. Emphasizing the importance of personal growth and self-love, the hosts encourage listeners to understand their own attachment needs and to seek healthier connections.*For more information or relationship coaching contact Marina at [email protected] or Lana at [email protected] for couples therapy.IG @marinaismindfulFollow us on Facebook: Love LiaisonsIG @loveliaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFor more information about assessing adult attachment styles see:THE RELATIONSHIPS QUESTIONNAIRE (RQ)Bartholomew, K. & Horowitz, L. M. (1991). Attachment styles among young adults: A test of a four category model. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 61, 226-244.https://labs.psychology.illinois.edu/~rcfraley/measures/rq.htmlFollow us on FB @Love Liaisons, IG @loveliaisons, TikTok @love.liaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFor more information about relationship and mindful life coaching  or speaking engagements contact Marina at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailIn this heartfelt and inspiring episode of Love Liaisons, Kathryn and Marina welcome Andrea Miller—and later, her husband Ryan—for an intimate look at what makes a marriage last through decades, diagnosis, and daily life.Andrea reflects on meeting Ryan as college sweethearts, falling in love through shared values, humor, and deep friendship, and how those early roots helped them weather one of life’s hardest challenges: their youngest son’s diagnosis with Duchenne muscular dystrophy. Andrea opens up about redefining roles, shifting careers to prioritize caregiving, and the importance of feeling safe and supported by her partner. Together, she and Ryan have faced adversity not as individuals, but as teammates—committed to lifting each other up, even on the hardest days.Later in the episode, Ryan joins the conversation and shares his perspective on what keeps their marriage strong—from cheering Andrea on through career changes, to finding joy in friendly poker-night trash talk, to tackling challenges with short-term goals and daily teamwork. Their dynamic is rooted in mutual respect, humor, and the belief that love isn’t just a feeling—it’s a practice.This episode is a powerful reminder that lasting love isn’t perfect—it’s purposeful. Whether you're newly engaged or decades in, Andrea and Ryan’s story offers hard-won wisdom on growing together, staying grounded, and remembering that even when life doesn’t go as planned, everything is “figureoutable.”Check out Andrea Miller's Podcast : Show Me The Way PodcastFollow Love Liaisons on FB and IG @ loveliaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFor relationship and life coaching and meditation instruction contact Marina Dorian on IG @marinaismindful and [email protected] us on FB @Love Liaisons, IG @loveliaisons, TikTok @love.liaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFor more information about relationship and mindful life coaching  or speaking engagements contact Marina at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailIn this heartwarming and insightful episode of Love Liaisons, Kathryn and Marina sit down with professional Jewish matchmaker Layla Book to discuss the real work of finding love in the modern age. From the wine in my glass to the sparks of connection, this episode dives deep into what it truly means to be matched with intention.Key Topics Covered:•What is a matchmaker?Layla explains her role as a modern matchmaker—connecting individuals based on shared values, long-term compatibility, and emotional readiness.•How the process worksClients approach Layla, but she also actively seeks out matches using her  network, and deep client insight. Her focus is on connection beyond the swipe.•Biggest challenges in modern datingLayla notes that many people struggle because they don’t fully understand what they want in a partner. Societal pressure and fear of being alone can lead to settling.•Post-pandemic dating trendsThere’s a noticeable shift toward intentionality. More people are craving authentic, long-term relationships over casual flings and endless app swiping. More people are willing to try long distance.•Social media’s double-edged swordWhile it can help people connect, it often promotes instant gratification and surface-level interactions. Matchmaking, in contrast, fosters depth and genuine compatibility.•Skepticism about matchmakingLayla acknowledges the skepticism but emphasizes that a professional matchmaker can provide support, insight, and a safe space for exploration—especially for those stuck in dating patterns.•Advice for the love-seeking listenerBe clear about what you want. Know your non-negotiables. Don’t rush. Be open to guidance and don’t hesitate to get support from a matchmaker, therapist, or trusted friend.Don’t forget to like us on Facebook, share the episode, and join us next week for more deep dives into love, dating, and relationships.You can connect with Layla Book on FB @ Dating Concierge, by Layla BookIG @ laylafindslovewww.laylafindslove.com-------------------------------------Remember to like and Follow Love Liaisons on FB @ Love LiaisonsIG @ loveliaisonswww.love-liaisons.com-----------------------------------If you are interested in relationship coaching and/or meditation instruction contactMarina Dorian  -  [email protected] @ marinaismindfulFollow us on FB @Love Liaisons, IG @loveliaisons, TikTok @love.liaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFor more information about relationship and mindful life coaching  or speaking engagements contact Marina at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailDating Through the Decades: 20s to 40s and Beyond (with Guest Kat)In this episode of Love Liaisons, Kathryn and Marina pop open a bottle and welcome special guest Kat to explore the ever-evolving world of dating from your twenties to your forties and beyond. Kat, a 24-year-old adventurer navigating a budding relationship shares her generation's take on the modern dating scene—especially the now-infamous "situationship."The trio dives deep into how relationship norms have shifted across generations, reflecting on everything from flings to the ambiguity of today’s no-label romances. Expect laughs, honest reflections, and a few head shakes as they compare hookup culture, dating expectations, and the curious concept of “taking a relationship to the previous level.”Whether you're figuring out your twenties or navigating love later in life, this episode reminds us that dating may look different through the decades—but it never stops being confusing, funny, and totally relatable.Follow us on FB @ Love LiaisonsIG @loveliaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFollow us on FB @Love Liaisons, IG @loveliaisons, TikTok @love.liaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFor more information about relationship and mindful life coaching  or speaking engagements contact Marina at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailThe Role of Social Media in Modern RomanceIn this episode of Love Liaisons, Kathryn and Marina, along with their guest Gideon dive into the impact of social media on modern relationships. From “reel-ationships” built on meme exchanges to the high-stakes decision of making a relationship Instagram official, they explore how digital connections shape love today.They discuss the pros and cons—how social media can bring couples closer but also fuel jealousy, unrealistic expectations, and privacy concerns. Is posting a partner a sign of commitment, or is it just performative? Should couples set boundaries on social media use? And can a relationship survive on shared memes and reels alone?Tune in for laughs, insights, and real talk about love in the age of likes and follows.Follow us on FB  @ Love LiaisonsIG @marinaismindfulwww.love-liaisons.comFollow us on FB @Love Liaisons, IG @loveliaisons, TikTok @love.liaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFor more information about relationship and mindful life coaching  or speaking engagements contact Marina at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailSingle on Purpose: Redefining Happiness Without a PartnerIn this episode of Love Liaisons, Kathryn and Marina take on a topic that challenges traditional expectations: choosing to be single on purpose. While society often pressures women to settle down, more and more are embracing independence, prioritizing their peace, careers, and personal happiness over relationships that don’t serve them.Kathryn and Marina break down the statistics—singlehood is on the rise, and studies show that single women often experience greater life satisfaction than their male counterparts. They explore why financial independence is empowering women to be more selective, the double standards that label single women as “waiting” while single men are simply “independent,” and how pop culture icons like The Golden Girls modeled fulfilling, community-based living.With humor and insight, they tackle outdated stigmas, the emotional labor burden many women face in relationships, and the expectation that older women should take on caregiving roles. Whether you’re happily single or just questioning the rush to couple up, this episode is a celebration of self-sufficiency, high standards, and rewriting the narrative on love.Key Takeaways:•Statistics show singlehood is on the rise, with financial independence playing a key role.•Women often face stigma for being single, while men are seen as “waiting for the right one.”•The Golden Girls proved that friendships can be just as fulfilling as romantic relationships.•Choosing yourself is a valid, fulfilling lifestyle—not a waiting room for love.Tune in as Kat and Marina remind listeners: If someone asks why you’re single, you can say, “Because I’m happy that way.”Follow Love Liaisons on FacebookIG @marinaismindfulwww.love-liaisons.comFollow us on FB @Love Liaisons, IG @loveliaisons, TikTok @love.liaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFor more information about relationship and mindful life coaching  or speaking engagements contact Marina at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Love Liaisons, Kathryn and Marina explore ethical non-monogamy (ENM), polyamory, and the idea that monogamy may not be the only—or even the most natural—relationship model. They share personal stories, cultural perspectives, and statistics about ENM, discussing why more people are questioning traditional monogamy.Key Highlights:•Defining ENM: The differences between polyamory, swinging, and open relationships.•Sharing experiences in polyamory and why some people believe monogamy is a societal construct.•Attachment & Polyamory: Insights from Polysecure by Jessica Fern, exploring how attachment styles influence non-monogamous relationships.•Contrasting Viewpoints: why monogamy has worked for many of our married friends.•Debunking Myths: Addressing common misconceptions like “ENM is just an excuse to sleep around.”•Final Takeaways: Encouraging listeners to explore relationships that align with their values—monogamous or not.Resources & Recommended Reading:•Books:•Polysecure by Jessica Fern – Examines how attachment theory applies to ENM.•The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy – A foundational guide to navigating non-monogamy ethically.•Online Resources:•More Than Two – Guide to polyamory.•National Coalition for Sexual Freedom – Advocacy for alternative relationship structures.Don't forget to follow us on FB: Love LiaisonsIG @marinaismindfulFollow us on FB @Love Liaisons, IG @loveliaisons, TikTok @love.liaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFor more information about relationship and mindful life coaching  or speaking engagements contact Marina at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of Love Liaisons, we dive into the world of the popular and scandalous Facebook group called "Are We Dating the Same Guy?" which offers real world red flag detection by an audience of online Nancy Drews.  Similar to the entertaining radio show War of the Roses, Are We Dating the Same Guy exposes cheaters and players in a world of loyal expectations.  But is it too much? Is this online sleuthing damaging reputations and causing more harm than good?  We'll let you decide after Kathryn and Marina offer their differing perspectives and experiences on such dating disasters.Let us know your experiences and opinions. We'd love to hear from you.Follow Love Liaisons on Facebook IG @marinaismindfulFollow us on FB @Love Liaisons, IG @loveliaisons, TikTok @love.liaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFor more information about relationship and mindful life coaching  or speaking engagements contact Marina at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailYou are introduced to your Love Liaisons, Kathryn and Marina, who share a little about themselves, their similarities and differences and why they decided to start this podcast about modern relationship issues together.Follow us on FB @Love Liaisons, IG @loveliaisons, TikTok @love.liaisonswww.love-liaisons.comFor more information about relationship and mindful life coaching  or speaking engagements contact Marina at [email protected]