Making Her Choices

She’s a registered nurse with 20+ years in nephrology. She’s read thousands of lab reports for thousands of patients. And then one Tuesday afternoon, she opened her own patient portal — and everything changed.In the premiere episode of Series 2: The Body Honest, Tawana reads her actual lab results out loud — all of them. The comprehensive metabolic panel that came back clean. The kidney function she’s spent her career monitoring in others (perfectly fine, ironically). The thyroid that’s not the villain. The fasting glucose of 81 that said “normal.”And the hemoglobin A1c of 6.2 that told a completely different story.This episode unpacks what happens when the snapshot says “fine” but the full picture says “we need to talk.” Tawana breaks down why a normal fasting glucose can hide prediabetes, what an FSH of 78.6 and an LH of 47.8 actually mean for a woman’s metabolism, and why the “eat less, move more” model was never built for her body.If you’ve been going to the gym, eating the salads, doing all the things — and the scale still won’t move and the numbers still won’t budge — this episode is for you. You’re not broken. The model is broken. And nobody told you that until now.⬇️ Download the FREE Lab Request Checklist — the exact labs Tawana ordered, what each one measures, reference ranges, and space for your own results:https://everwelljourney.com/products/free-lab-request-checklist-series-2-body-honest-episode-1Mentioned in this episode:• You First: The Radical Art of Self-Preservation — available at everwelljourney.com and purposedlypenned.com• Lab Results Decoder Guide — available at everwelljourney.com• Provider Conversation Script Bundle — available at everwelljourney.comThis podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice.#MakingHerChoices #TheBodyHonest #A1cWakeUpCall #KnowYourNumbers #PrediabetesAwareness #WellnessOverPerfection #HealthJourneyPodcast #BlackWomenHealth #NurseWhoKnows #LetsGo

Sometimes the wake-up call doesn't come gently.In this Series 1 finale of Making Her Choices, I get honest about an area of my life that's still a work in progress — my body, my health, and the patterns I ignored while rebuilding everything else.From the subtle warning signs to the moments I couldn't laugh off anymore, I realized something important: your body keeps track, even when you're not paying attention.This episode isn't about perfection. It's about awareness. I share the reality behind the numbers, the attempts that didn't work, the decisions I made, and the moment I knew I couldn't keep putting it off.It's also about what comes next.This finale introduces the next chapter — a deeper, more intentional approach to health, accountability, and long-term change. Not quick fixes. Not shortcuts. Just real decisions, real data, and real commitment.If you've been ignoring your own signals, putting your health on hold, or telling yourself "later," this conversation is your reminder:Your body is always communicating with you.The question is — are you listening?Let's go._________________________________________________________📖 Grab your copy of You First: The Radical Art of Self-Preservation — available now:🔗 purposedlypenned.com🔗 everwelljourney.com🛒 Explore companion resources, wellness tools, and more at the Ever Well Journey shop:🔗 everwelljourney.com🎙️ Follow Making Her Choices:Spotify | Apple Podcasts#MakingHerChoices #MidlifeWellness #WomenOver40 #HealthAwakening #SelfPreservation #BodyAwareness #WellnessJourney #WomenAndHealth #MidlifeReinvention #YouFirstBook

The Serrated Axe SpeaksShe’s been watching from the front row this whole time.In this episode of Making Her Choices, the conversation shifts — and for the first time, the axe gets the mic.I once shared something I heard in a sermon: there are two kinds of people — the scalpel and the serrated axe. The scalpel is precise, careful, always thinking about what it leaves behind. The serrated axe cuts through whatever stands in its way and keeps moving.I’ve always been the scalpel.My daughter? She claimed the axe without hesitation.This episode is our conversation — real, unfiltered, and deeply personal. We talk about what it looks like to watch your mother start over, the parenting choices that don’t follow the traditional handbook, and what happens when you raise a daughter who doesn’t wait for permission to move forward.This is about generational change.It’s about motherhood, identity, and raising strong, independent daughters.It’s about choosing growth over tradition — even when it’s uncomfortable.If you’ve ever had to choose between doing what’s expected and doing what’s right, this episode will stay with you.Because sometimes breaking the pattern isn’t rebellion.It’s evolution.And sometimes, the very thing you tried to control… becomes the proof that you did it right.---#MakingHerChoices #TheSerratedAxeSpeaks #MotherDaughterPodcast #BlackMotherhood #RaisingStrongDaughters #GenerationalHealing #BreakTheCycle #WomenOver40 #WellnessPodcast #MidlifeRebuild #BoldChoices #SelfPreservation #ChooseYourself #WomenWhoRebuild #PodcastForWomen #BlackWomenPodcast #StartingOver #RealParenting #WomenEmpowerment #HolisticWellness #MotherDaughterGoals #WomenSupportingWomen #HealingOutLoud #OnlyChildLife #ParentingDifferently #JeanWoodhill #ParentingBook

Why is it so hard to ask for help — even when we clearly need it?In this episode of Making Her Choices, I unpack the quiet struggle many strong, independent women face: doing everything alone, even when it’s costing us more than we realize.It sounds like strength on the outside.“I’m good.”“I got it.”But underneath, it’s exhaustion, pressure, and the belief that needing help means you’re failing.I share the real moments that forced me to confront this — from everyday situations to professional pressure — and how constantly carrying everything on my own started to take a toll physically, emotionally, and relationally.This conversation is about unlearning the idea that independence means isolation. It’s about understanding where that mindset came from, what it’s costing you, and what changes when you finally allow yourself to be supported.If you’ve ever struggled to say yes when someone offers help, or felt like you have to prove your strength by doing everything alone, this episode is for you.Because real strength isn’t about carrying everything.It’s about knowing when you don’t have to.#MakingHerChoices #HealingJourney #SelfGrowth #MentalHealthMatters #ChooseYourself #SoftStrengthhttps://a.co/d/09jxP24B

Some grief doesn’t come with a funeral.No flowers. No condolences. No clear ending. Just a quiet ache for something that didn’t turn out the way you thought it would.In this episode of Making Her Choices, I talk about the kind of grief people don’t always recognize — grieving a future that never happened, a plan that fell apart, or a version of your life you were certain you would be living by now.For a long time, I didn’t even allow myself to call it grief. I told myself to move on, to pray through it, to stay grateful. But ignoring it didn’t make it disappear. It just stayed there — unspoken, unresolved.This episode is an honest conversation about that invisible grief. The gap between expectation and reality. The life I imagined versus the life I’m actually living. And what started to grow when I finally stopped pretending I wasn’t hurting.If you’ve ever mourned something that’s still technically alive — a relationship, a career path, a dream, or a version of yourself — this episode will meet you where you are.Because not all grief is obvious.But all grief deserves to be acknowledged.And sometimes, healing starts when you finally name what you’ve lost.#MakingHerChoices #InvisibleGrief #HealingJourney #EmotionalHealing #GriefAwareness#SelfGrowth #InnerWork #MentalHealthMatters #SoftLife #LifeTransitions#LettingGo #UnspokenPain #PersonalGrowth #RealTalk #WomenWhoHeal#GrowthJourney #HealingInProgress #GriefSupport #AuthenticLiving #ChooseYourself

Money decisions shape more of our lives than we like to admit.In this episode of Making Her Choices, I open up about the financial conversations many women were never taught to have — the emotional weight behind money, the fear that keeps us in jobs too long, and the difference between being responsible and being stuck.Early in my career, I stayed at my first nursing job two years longer than I should have. Not because I wasn’t qualified to move on, but because the numbers felt overwhelming. Mortgage, rent, raising a young daughter — the risk didn’t feel possible.So I stayed. And I told myself it was the responsible choice.But sometimes what we call responsibility is really fear dressed up as practicality.This episode isn’t about budgeting tips or financial formulas. It’s about the mindset behind the decisions we make with money. I talk about the “golden handcuffs” of stable jobs, the hidden cost of always putting others first financially, the moment I realized free opportunities were actually costing me my peace, and what changed when I finally ran the real numbers instead of the fear numbers.I also share the shift that led me to start building something of my own — investing, creating opportunities, and learning why financial independence matters even more for women who have historically been left out of the conversation.If you’ve ever stayed somewhere longer than you wanted because the financial risk felt too big, or if nobody ever taught you how to build financial security for yourself, this episode is a conversation worth having.Because financial freedom doesn’t start with perfect numbers.It starts with honest ones.

Sometimes growth doesn’t look like celebration. Sometimes it looks like silence.In this episode of Making Her Choices, I talk about the quiet and complicated reality of outgrowing people — not toxic people, but good people. People who once fit your life perfectly, but no longer align with who you’re becoming.It started with a text message. The kind that used to turn into a two-hour conversation. This time, all I got back was a heart emoji. No words. No call. Just silence. And in that moment, I realized something had shifted.We don’t talk enough about the grief that comes with personal growth — the friendships that fade from paragraphs to emojis, the opportunities we pass up because other people’s fears are louder than our instincts, and the moments when leadership, ambition, or self-respect quietly change the dynamics around us.In this episode, I share the real stories behind those moments: the friendship that slowly disappeared, the leap I almost took but didn’t because I listened to outside voices instead of my own, the challenge of going from coworker to supervisor, and the uncomfortable truth about comparison when someone else’s growth forces you to reflect on your own.If you’ve ever felt guilty for needing distance from people who haven’t technically done anything wrong, this conversation is for you.Growth sometimes means your circle changes.Not because you’re better than anyone — but because you’re becoming someone new.This episode explores emotional maturity, evolving friendships, personal growth, leadership boundaries, and what it means to choose your future even when it means leaving parts of your past behind.Because sometimes outgrowing people isn’t betrayal.It’s growth.https://a.co/d/09jxP24B

Difficult Women Set Boundaries: How to Set Them, Hold Them, and Stop Apologizing for Having ThemBeing labeled “difficult” often just means you’ve stopped being convenient.In this episode, we unpack what boundaries really are, why they make people uncomfortable, and why women are conditioned to feel guilty for having them. If you’ve ever been called dramatic, rude, cold, or “too much” simply because you said no, this conversation is for you.https://a.co/d/09jxP24BSetting healthy boundaries is not about pushing people away. It’s about protecting your peace, honoring your needs, and building self respect. Boundaries are the foundation of emotional maturity, confidence, and healthy relationships.In this episode, we talk about:• How to set clear, healthy boundaries• Why people resist or challenge your limits• The link between people-pleasing and guilt• How to stop over-explaining yourself• Holding boundaries when they are tested• Emotional boundaries in relationships• Boundaries at work, with family, and in friendships• Letting go of “good girl” conditioningYou’ll learn how to say no without guilt, communicate confidently, and stand firm without becoming defensive or harsh. Because being assertive does not make you unkind. It makes you self aware.Women are often taught to prioritize comfort, harmony, and approval. But real growth requires discomfort. And self worth requires standards.When you stop shrinking yourself, some people will call you difficult.Let them.This episode is for women on a self development journey, healing from people pleasing, building confidence, and learning how to create healthy, respectful relationships. It’s about emotional intelligence, self worth, and choosing yourself without apology.You are not too much.You are not dramatic.You are not difficult.You are setting standards.And that changes everything.

Dating Yourself First: Turns Out, I Actually Like My Own CompanyWhat happens when you stop waiting for someone else to make your life feel complete?In this episode, we explore the transformative power of dating yourself first choosing self-love, emotional independence, and personal growth before seeking validation from anyone else. If you’ve ever struggled with loneliness, heartbreak, self-doubt, or the fear of being alone, this conversation will shift your perspective.Learning to enjoy your own company isn’t selfish it’s necessary. It’s about rebuilding self trust, strengthening your self worth, and creating a life that feels full on your own terms. Because healthy relationships don’t start with finding the right person. They start with becoming the right person for yourself.We talk about:• How to stop depending on others for happiness• Turning loneliness into nourishing solitude• Healing emotionally after heartbreak• Building confidence and self-trust• Developing emotional maturity• Breaking toxic relationship patterns• Becoming emotionally independent• Romanticizing your own lifeThis episode is for anyone on a self-love journey, healing from a breakup, rediscovering their identity, or working on personal development and mental health. Whether you're single by choice, single by circumstance, or simply learning to prioritize yourself, this message is your reminder that you are already whole.Dating yourself first changes everything. When you truly like your own company, you stop settling. You attract healthier relationships. You make better decisions. You move with confidence instead of fear.The most important relationship you will ever have is the one you build with yourself.And this is where it begins.

The First 90 Days: Sweater People, Honey People & Finding Your PlaceThe early days of any new chapter can feel awkward, lonely, and disorienting. In this episode, we talk about the first 90 days of starting fresh, learning who feels safe, who feels sweet, and who helps you warm back up to yourself. A reflection on belonging, adjustment, and trusting your instincts in unfamiliar spaces.The first 90 days of any new beginning can feel awkward, lonely, and overwhelming. Whether you're starting a new job, moving to a new city, beginning university, entering a new relationship, or rebuilding after a major life change those early days can shape your confidence, your mindset, and your sense of belonging.In this episode, we explore what it really means to start over and how to navigate life transitions with emotional intelligence and self trust. We talk about identifying your “Sweater People” the ones who make you feel safe, grounded, and emotionally secure and your “Honey People” the ones who bring warmth, sweetness, and encouragement when everything feels unfamiliar.This is a reflection on adjustment, personal growth, and trusting your instincts in new environments. Because not everyone in your new space is meant to have access to you. The first 90 days are about observing, discerning, protecting your peace, and slowly warming back up to yourself.If you’re:• In your first 90 days at a new job• Adjusting to university or a new school• Relocating or moving abroad• Navigating a breakup or major life reset• Feeling out of place in a new environment• Trying to build confidence and overcome lonelinessThis episode will help you understand that belonging takes time. Building connections takes intention. And trusting your intuition is a skill that grows when you listen to it.We discuss starting over, new beginnings, self-discovery, mindset shifts, emotional awareness, social anxiety, adulting, and finding your tribe. Because growth is uncomfortable but it’s also necessary.If you’re in a season of change, this conversation will remind you that you are not behind, you are not alone, and you are allowed to choose the people who feel safe and sweet in your life.Press play if you’re navigating transition and learning how to find your place again.

In this first episode of Making Her Choices, I open up about what it truly means to start over. After twenty years in nursing and a lifetime of caring for others, I found myself at fifty facing a major life transition — a new state, a new season, and the powerful decision to choose myself.Starting over at 50 isn’t a crisis; it’s a declaration. In this episode, we explore the courage it takes to walk away from what’s familiar, choose yourself again, and step into a future that doesn’t come with guarantees. This is about fear, freedom, and the quiet audacity of believing it’s not too late.personal growth, self improvement, women empowerment, starting over at 50, life transitions, emotional wellness, healing journey, midlife growth, mindset shift, women podcast