Mama Knows Best (Mostly)

Sometimes you get lucky with a good sleeper… and sometimes you’re this close to spending $1,200 on a sleep consultant just to survive the night 😅In this episode, Carly and Becca dive into the very real, very debated world of sleep training. From “cry it out” to gentler approaches—and everything in between—we’re sharing what worked for us, what didn’t work, and the moments we questioned everything.If you’ve ever googled “how to get my baby to sleep” at 2am… this one’s for you.

We’re picking up right where we left off — because this conversation got too good to fit into one episode.In part two, we continue unpacking the balance between protecting our kids and allowing them the freedom to explore, climb, fall, and learn on their own. From playground equipment to everyday parenting decisions, we talk about the fine line between keeping them safe and raising confident, capable kids.We also dive deeper into how becoming moms has changed the way we look at life’s “big adventures.” The thrill-seeking bucket list items we once dreamed about? Let’s just say motherhood has a way of rewriting those priorities.If you’ve ever watched your kid attempt something terrifying on the playground while internally panicking — this episode is for you.

In this episode, we’re talking about the playground debate every parent eventually faces: do you step in… or let them learn?We share our mom philosophy when it comes to playground equipment, risky climbing, and those inevitable toddler falls. Are we the moms sprinting across the playground yelling “BE CAREFUL!” — or the ones watching from the bench letting our kids figure it out?We also dive into how motherhood has quietly reshaped who we are. Remember when skydiving, storm chasing, and adrenaline-packed bucket list adventures sounded exciting? Yeah… same. Becoming moms has changed the way we think about risk, priorities, and what actually matters now.This is a real, unfiltered conversation about parenting instincts, letting kids build resilience, and how motherhood shifts your perspective in ways you never expected.

After a little hiatus, Carly and Becca are back—and if you’re in the thick of toddler life, you’ll understand exactly why. Between the terrible twos, big feelings, constant tantrums, and the wild ride that is potty training, life got loud… fast.In this episode, we’re catching up and getting real about what this stage has actually been like behind the scenes. The meltdowns, the patience-testing moments, the tiny wins, and the reassurance that you’re not doing anything wrong—this season is just a lot.If you’re parenting a toddler (or bracing yourself for it), this one feels like a deep breath, a laugh, and a “me too” all wrapped into one. You’re not alone—and neither are we.

Even though they're moms, Carly and Becca are still just girls figuring out life for the first time; and thats something worth celebrating. In this episode, they open up about body image, the pressure to "bounce back" and why comparing yourself to younger versions of yourself pre-kids is a trap. Carly and Becca also share a surprising discovery that they have something very interesting in common! They touch on car seats, toddler beds and is it time to think about baby number 2 or is that just nightmare fuel? Grab your coffee and listen up!

In this exciting milestone episode, Carly and Becca celebrate a major moment—Vienna is officially walking! After lots of love, encouragement, and hard work at home, Becca helped her beat the pediatrician’s four-week walking goal… in just two. We’re talking proud mom vibes all around. We also dive into the less glamorous side of toddler life: sickness on repeat. Carly shares her recent experience with Jules and the never-ending daycare germs. Bring your tissues and your coffee—this one’s equal parts heartwarming and relatable.Support the show

In this week’s episode, we dive into all things toddler milestones — from walking (or not walking yet), to potty training readiness, and the great mystery that is… pull-ups. Are they diapers? Are they underwear? We’re confused. 🤷‍♀️We also talk about how freakishly smart our girls are getting — like, they 1000% understand what we’re saying now. It’s cute. And terrifying. Tune in for our unfiltered thoughts, personal stories, and lots of laughs as we try to figure it all out one baby step at a time 💬👣💕Support the show

In this episode, we dive into the messy, beautiful realness of motherhood starting with how and when we introduced peanut butter (and other tricky foods), navigating Carly’s emotional first day sending her daughter to daycare, and a raw moment from Becca about comparing milestones; because yes, we know we’re not supposed to, but it still happens. From sticky fingers to mama guilt, this one’s for anyone who’s ever asked, “Am I doing this right?”Support the show

Summer’s here, and we’re talking all things beach trips with a toddler; from sandy snacks to pool safety musts. We’re sharing what worked (and what totally didn’t), plus how to keep your little one safe, cool, and mostly tantrum-free. Then, we’re getting real about daycare: the emotions, the logistics, and the unexpected guilt (even when you know it’s the right choice). Whether you’re navigating summer schedules or just need to hear “same,” this episode’s for you.Support the show

What happens when mom and dad aren't on the same page? In this episode, Carly and Becca dive into the real (and sometimes heated) conversations that happen behind closed doors when parenting styles clash. From trusting your gut to figuring out who gets the final say, we're getting raw about those "we need to talk" moments in parenting. Because let’s be real—co-parenting isn’t always cute, and sometimes your mom instincts just won't shut up. Tune in for laughs, honest stories, and a reminder that you're not alone in this chaos.Support the show

Carly and Becca, two first-time moms, totally unqualified and wildly underprepared (just like the rest of us). In this episode, they dive into the big questions no one seems to teach you: How do you discipline a baby who can’t talk yet? Is gentle parenting really the way to go, or are we getting too soft? What’s the right way to teach right from wrong and when do we even start? Oh, and while we’re at it: what car seat goes where, and how do you know when it’s time to potty train? This one’s for every parent who’s ever googled “how to raise a decent human” at 2am.Support the show

Let's talk birth control - because apparently, the only method that's 100% effective is... not doing it. In this episode, Carly and Becca get real about hormonal shifts, why being off birth control can feel like waking up for the first time, and that moment when a surprise pregnancy test flipped the script (don't worry, it was a false alarm). It's honest, raw and just the right amount of TMI - just how we like it!Support the show

In this episode, Carly and Becca unpack their very different travel weeks - one with a baby, and one blissfully solo. From navigating TSA with a diaper bag and stroller, to peaceful airport coffees (yes, those still exist), they share the highs, lows and what it really looks like to travel as a mom. Plus, why taking time for yourself, even for just a weekend, isn't selfish - it's survival! You can't pour from an empty cup, so let this episode be a reminder to fill yours up!Support the show

In this episode, Becca and Carly are celebrating the beauty of laid-back mom hangouts—because you don’t need a fancy plan or a Pinterest-worthy agenda to have the best time with your mom friends. From real, unfiltered mom chats to spontaneous laughs, it’s all about enjoying the simple moments without the pressure to “do it all.” They also get into the unspoken rules of motherhood, like the dreaded Mom Chop haircut and the constant struggle of dressing like a mom without losing your own identity. If you've ever felt like you were supposed to change who you are after becoming a mom, this episode is for you. Join us as we keep it real, celebrate the chaos, and remind you that it’s okay to embrace your own version of motherhood.Support the show

In this episode, we’re getting real about screentime and electronic toys. From iPad kids to the challenge of helping kids find things to do without screens, we cover it all. Whether you're a fan of the digital babysitter or you prefer a more hands-on approach, we're here to share our thoughts and experiences—no judgment, just the truth. We also dive into the importance of creative play, non-electronic toys, and how to find a balance that works for your family. No matter where you stand on the screentime debate, this episode is all about navigating the digital world with a little bit of humor and a lot of honesty.Support the show

From the exhaustion of never getting a "sick day" to the unsung need for a village, we're chatting about the realities every mom faces, whether you're a stay-at-home mom or juggling a career. We discuss practical tips for getting through daily tasks like food shopping with a little one in tow, all without letting mom guilt creep in. Plus, we highlight the importance of safety at home, like anchoring furniture, and how small changes can make a big impact. Tune in for the kind of honest conversation you won't hear anywhere else — because real moms deserve real talk!Support the show

In this episode, Carly and Becca get real about the wild side effects of pregnancy, from losing teeth and strange reactions to nail polish to dealing with carpal tunnel. They also dive into the tough topic of announcing a pregnancy on social media and why miscarriage still carries so much shame. Tune in for an honest, unfiltered conversation on navigating these highs and lows.Support the show

In this episode, Carly and Becca sit down with Emma, a first-time mom to a 14-month-old girl, who discovered she was pregnant halfway through her pregnancy! Emma shares how she managed to prepare for motherhood in fraction of the time most moms have, with help from her incredible village. She opens up about the strength of community and the importance of leaning on others during life’s most unexpected moments.This episode is full of heart, humor, and a reminder that women are truly amazing—especially when we have each other’s backs.Support the show

They say mother knows best - and they're right! This episode is all about leaning into your mom insticts, even when the world (or Google) makes you second guess yourself. Carly and Becca are sharing moment's they've learned to trust their gut, the times they've been SO right, and why what mom says...goes.Support the show

Mom life is scheduled chaos — where every plan revolves around nap time, bedtime, or whatever unpredictable curveball your baby throws that day. Carly and Becca break down the mental gymnastics of trying to commit to anything when you’re living life in 2-3 hour windows. From last-minute cancellations to the constant fear of messing up the sleep schedule, they’re talking about why making plans as a mom feels nearly impossible — and why sometimes, it’s just not worth the risk.Support the show

In this episode, Carly and Becca chat about what happens to your relationship with your spouse after having a baby. We dive into the unspoken truth of how motherhood can feel isolating like you’re carrying the full weight of responsibility, even though you both made this baby. Why does it feel like moms automatically take the mental load while dads get to just help out?We’re also talking about what happens when you don’t see eye to eye on parenting (whether it’s screen time, sleep schedules, navigating those differences is hard and we’re breaking down how to meet in the middle without losing your mind (or your marriage).If you’ve ever thought, “why am I the only one who knows when the baby last pooped?”, this one’s for you.Support the show

In this episode, Becca and Carly dive into the never-ending debate: stay-at-home mom vs. working mom. From the frustration of earning a degree only to be judged for staying home, to the heartbreak of leaving a sick little one behind for work - both sides come with their own set of challenges. No matter which path you're on, the mom guilt is real, the judgment is unavoidable and the struggle is universal. Whether you're on your lunch break or commute, or it's nap time at home, join us as we get real about the tough choices moms make every day.Support the show

Breastfeeding, formula feeding, combo feeding—oh my! The mom world loves a good debate, but let’s be real: the only right choice is the one that keeps your baby (and your sanity) intact. In this episode, we’re getting real about the pressure, the guilt, and the endless opinions surrounding how we feed our babies. Spoiler alert: Mama knows best, and “fed is best” isn’t just a saying—it’s survival. Grab your coffee (or that cold, forgotten one from this morning), and let’s talk about what really matters.Support the show

In this episode Carly and Becca dive into the messy world of postpartum boundaries - what they swore they'd enforce, what completely fell apart, and what actually made a difference. From sick visitors to unsolicited advice, they're sharing the hard lessons, surprising wins and the newfound appreciation for their own mothers! If you've ever struggled with saying "no" (or regretting saying "yes"), this one's for you!Support the show

Becca and Carly share their very different birth experiences - Becca's 24 hour labor ending in a NICU stay without that magical first moment, and Carly's c-section that brought an instant, life-changing connection. The raw, unexpected realities of birth - no filter.Support the show

In this episode, we’re diving into the real, raw, and ridiculous side of pregnancy—because if you’ve ever been pregnant, you know the stories write themselves. Becca shares the moment her water broke (spoiler: it wasn’t like the movies), Carly talks about having her belly treated like public property at work, and we swap the most absurd comments people feel weirdly entitled to say to pregnant women. We also get into the emotional side of pregnancy—body image struggles, growing bellies, and the surprising shifts in relationships, from the ones who ghosted us to the unexpected people who checked in daily.Grab your snacks (or your secret pregnancy craving) and join us as we laugh, vent, and keep it way too real.Support the show

In their very first episode, Becca and Carly introduce themselves and dive into their journey to motherhood. Becca shares the shock of an unexpected pregnancy, while Carly talks about the surprisingly anticlimactic moment of finally seeing that positive test. They compare pregnancies - from weird food aversions to the dreaded glucose test - and chat about gender reveals, cravings and all the little (and not-so-little) surprises along the way. Grab a coffee and join us for some real, unfiltered mom talk!Support the show