MidMen

Some things age like fine wine… others should’ve stayed in the past.In this episode of MidMen, Paul and Sean dive into the movies, comics, and moments that shaped them, revisiting old favorites to see what still holds up—and what doesn’t. From classic comedies to John Woo action flicks, it’s a mix of nostalgia, reality checks, and a few surprises along the way.But it’s not just about looking back.The guys also get into the deeper side of growing up and raising kids—how to balance keeping them safe while still letting them explore, fail, and figure things out on their own. When do you step in? When do you let go? It’s a conversation every parent wrestles with.And in the final segment, The Time Jump, they pose the ultimate question: If you had 24 hours in a different era of your life, what would you do? Relive the good times… or try to change your future?Insightful, relatable, and always a little unfiltered—this is MidMen.

We all grew up playing games. But what if those games never really stopped?In this episode of MidMen, we go from playground nostalgia to the deeper truth behind the games that shaped us—and the ones we’re still playing today.We kick things off with the classics—the board games, card games, and playground battles that defined our childhood. Then we dig deeper: who were you back then? The competitor? The rule-breaker? The leader? And how much of that still shows up in your life today?From there, we move into the chaos of young adulthood—drinking games, party games, and the unspoken social dynamics behind them. Because those weren’t just games… they were training grounds for risk, status, and connection.As dads, the game changes again. We talk about what our kids are playing now, what’s been lost (and gained), and why when your kid asks you to play—it’s not really about the game at all.We wrap with summer goals, the idea of life as a scoreboard, and a rapid-fire “Choose Your Game” showdown where we settle some all-time classics.Because whether you realize it or not…you never stopped playing.

MidMen Season 2 kicks off with a question a lot of men quietly ask themselves…Is it too late to start over?In this episode, Paul and Sean dive into the realities of hitting your 30s and 40s and feeling the pull between security and freedom, responsibility and ambition, and whether chasing something new is bold… or just reckless.They break down:Making career changes later in lifeThe tension between stability and riskFamily obligations vs personal fulfillmentWhere they’re both at right now, no BSPlus, they dig into a key question:👉 Which path leads to more regret… staying safe or taking the leap?And to keep things from getting too heavy, they wrap with a new game:🎯 “Too Late or Not?”If you’ve ever wondered whether you’ve missed your window… this one’s for you.

It’s Christmas time on MidMen, and Paul & Sean are unwrapping a full sleigh’s worth of nostalgia, chaos, confession, and cheer. Joined once again by International Bright Young Brian (with an I), the guys dive into the best parts of Christmas Past, Present, and everything in between.🎄 CHRISTMAS PASTWhen did we fall in love with Christmas? What did the holidays look like as kids? The sights, smells, traditions, the gifts that blew our minds—and the moment we realized our parents were “official helpers” in Santa’s operation.🎁 CHRISTMAS PRESENTHow the holiday shifts when you grow up: new traditions, family chaos, heartfelt moments, and the one adult Christmas experience that stuck with us.⚡ CHRISTMAS LIGHTNING ROUNDNo prep. No notes. Just pure instinct and poor judgment.🎶 CHRISTMAS STUFFSThe stuff that REALLY matters:• Our Mount Rushmores of Christmas songs• The one song that makes it officially Christmas• Favorite albums• Our Mount Rushmores of Christmas movies• New holiday films actually worth your time• And which “classic” we quietly never watch…🎅 CHRISTMAS GAMEChristmas trivia — the good, the bad, and the aggressively specific.🎁 GIFT WRAP IT UPThirty episodes, a season finale approaching, gratitude all around, and a look at what Christmas will mean this year.Warm, funny, nostalgic, and wrapped tight with the kind of MidMen honesty that keeps you coming back.Pull up a chair by the fire — let’s do Christmas.#Christmas #ChristmasPodcast #MiddleAge #ChristmasTraditions

In the penultimate episode of Season One, Paul and Sean dive into what truly shapes a life: the experiences we live, not the things we buy. Paul shares his F1 Las Vegas trip with Dash — matching tattoos included — and the guys explore why moments like these leave deeper marks than anything sitting on a shelf.From the adventures we still dream of (travel, risks, challenges, maybe a little chaos) to how we teach our kids to value memories over material stuff, this episode goes from heartfelt to hilarious in classic MidMen fashion.Then it’s time to look back on the best of 2025 — movies, music, moments, wins, surprises, and lessons — before closing with a deeper, season-finale edition of First or Worst.It’s honest. It’s funny. It’s reflective.And it’s the second-to-last ride of Season One.Because in the end… the shelves gather dust, but the stories stay alive.

Middle age hits hard — the body slows down, the mind speeds up, and stress never seems to clock out. In this episode, Paul and Sean crack open the real conversation about self care — what it means, how we’ve screwed it up, and how we can finally get it right.From weights, martial arts, and recovery to journaling, music, and mental maintenance, the guys dig into how taking care of yourself isn’t weakness — it’s maintenance. They share past failures (protein shakes and burnout included), current routines that work, and honest goals for doing better.Then it’s time to face the beast: stress.What it actually does to your body, how it rewires your brain, and why modern life keeps the fight-or-flight switch jammed in the “on” position. From bad coping habits (doom scrolling, drinking, overworking) to healthier ones (the gym, intimacy, family time, even this podcast), the MidMen break down how to transform stress instead of letting it consume you.The episode closes with a “Solution Recap” — six real takeaways for staying grounded:Work out for life — movement until the end.Purpose is everything. Don’t lose it; find it again if you have to.Connection is therapy. Stay close to those who matter.Keep learning. A still brain atrophies.Stack the deck. Whatever works (and isn’t destructive) — do more of that.Put your mask on first. You can’t save others if you’re falling apart.Stick around for Micro Moments — a rapid-fire round of funny and heartfelt self-care questions, from “What’s your go-to comfort food?” to “If stress had a smell, what would yours be right now?”It’s raw, real, and surprisingly hilarious.Because you can’t fix the world if you don’t fix your oil light first.

Halloween memories. Pee-Wee Dance. Huey Lewis Phone Call. Sylvester Stallone Rambo Spoilers. And so many more Surprises!In this episode of MidMen, Paul and Sean dive into the magic of Halloween — from childhood costumes and candy hauls to parenting trick-or-treaters and how the holiday evolves as we get older (especially with Sean's birthday being ON Halloween). Do we still feel the excitement? Do we still dress up? Or is Halloween now more about making it fun for the kids, while implementing the parent tax on their candy haul? Plus, Sean shares his Pee-Wee dance story, which is a damn good one. Then the guys explore the idea of surprises — the good, the bad, and the hilariously awkward. From unexpected gifts and emotional moments to surprise visits, life curveballs, and the joy of being blindsided (in a good way)… or not. They wrap it up with The Surprise Game, a rapid-fire round of questions guaranteed to reveal some unexpected truths, from talking to Huey Lewis on the phone, to Sylvester Stallone spilling spoilers to Rambo and beyond!Grab your candy bucket and prepare for nostalgia, laughs, and a few shockers — because life is full of surprises, and sometimes the best ones come wrapped in Halloween memories.

Middle age hits different — careers shift, bodies creak, kids grow, and friendships evolve. In this episode, the MidMen dive headfirst into the theme of change, adaptation, and the friendships that keep us grounded through it all.Paul and Sean unpack why change feels harder as we get older — from marriage and parenting to career pivots and losing people we love — and explore how mindset, routine, and community help us adapt instead of resist. They get real about growth, grief, and gratitude… before taking a detour into something truly universal: farts. Yes, laughter really is the best medicine, even when it stinks.Later, Sean opens up about why he came to town and what reconnecting with old friends means in a time when “crash on the couch” weekends have turned into coordinated, family-approved escapes. The episode closes with the hilarious Worst & First game — the part where wisdom meets ridiculousness.Expect honesty, humor, and the occasional bodily function.Because change may be constant, but so is laughing through it.

🎮 MidMen: Level UpEpisode Title: Pixelated Past, High-Def PresentFrom blowing cartridges on the NES to firefights in Call of Duty, this week the MidMen power up and dive headfirst into the world of video games. Paul and Sean relive their first consoles—Atari, Nintendo, Sega Genesis—and the legendary games that shaped them: Mario, Zelda, Punch-Out!!, Contra, Jackal, Sonic, and more.Then it’s warp-speed to the modern era: PlayStation, Xbox, Halo, Fallout, KOTOR—and what gaming looks like today and tomorrow: VR headsets, immersive tech, and beyond.Also in this episode:🎲 FIRST or WORST – A new game where one MidMan must reveal a “first” or a “worst” moment. It’s hilarious, raw, and painfully honest.📣 Brian Hall Shoutout – You already know.So grab a controller, press start, and let the nostalgia (and chaos) begin.

In this gripping and emotionally raw episode, the MidMen confront the shockwaves of Charlie Kirk’s assassination — not just as political observers, but as men, fathers, and believers navigating a fractured world. What begins as a reflection on Kirk’s complex legacy and the disturbing reactions to his death quickly evolves into a deeper, more personal conversation about faith, God, and the unseen forces that guide our lives.Paul and Sean peel back the layers of their own spiritual upbringings — the doubts, awakenings, struggles, and moments of divine intervention that shaped their journeys. They open up about how faith has anchored them in chaos, and what it means to believe in something bigger than yourself when the world feels like it’s burning.No games. No gimmicks. Just two men laying it bare in a time when truth feels dangerous and hope feels distant.This is MidMen — raw, real, and searching for light in the dark.

Why do we love ranking things? Why do we follow (or break) rules? In this episode, the MidMen dig into humanity’s obsession with lists, from Top 5 movies to Top 100 songs, and explore the psychology behind why we defend them like gospel. Then we flip the script and tackle rules — the ones we grew up with, the ones we break now, and the ones we enforce on our own kids. Are rules about discipline… or control?Plus: a rapid-fire Top 3 Game with picks ranging from superheroes to fast food, guilty pleasures, and more. It’s personal, hilarious, and a perfect setup for our next episode — the long-awaited Top 100 Songs of All Time.

🎙️ MidMen: Episode [#] — The Summer Movie Reckoning (with Chris Bumbray)This week on MidMen, Paul is joined by special guest co-host Chris Bumbray, his former partner-in-pod from The Beard and The Bald, for a no-holds-barred look at the Summer 2025 Movie Season. From the rise of original hits to the fall of superhero fatigue, the duo breaks down the biggest surprises, disappointments, and what it all means moving forward.💥 Topics include:Hits, bombs, and break-evens from summer 2025The slow death of the superhero genre — or just a reset?Can Marvel, DC, and others course-correct?Was James Gunn’s Superman a hit, a miss, or a breakeven?Our Top 5 movies of the year (so far)Fall 2025 movie forecast & what we’re most hyped forWhat we’re watching — old, new, guilty pleasuresPlug in and buckle up — this is a deep dive for movie lovers who’ve seen the ups, the downs, and the popcorn in between.

What does it really mean to be authentic? In this episode, the MidMen dive deep into the idea of the “true self”—how much of who we are is genuine, and how much is shaped by others? From changing ourselves to fit in, to the philosophical puzzle of whether a single “authentic self” even exists, we ask the big questions about identity, honesty, and self-perception.We balance the heavy stuff with our Get Off My Lawn rant about bad design (“Who the hell built this?!”), a Brian Hall Shout-Out (of course), and a fun authenticity quiz where we force each other to make impossible Either/Or choices—sometimes hilarious, sometimes revealing.🎙️ Can you ever really know your true self? Let’s find out together.👉 Don’t forget to rate, review, and share if you enjoy the show—it means the world to us.

When Our Kids Leave: Identity, Marriage & The Next ChapterOne day, your kids pack up, move out… and it’s just you — and whoever you’ve become. In this episode, the MidMen dig deep into the emotional shift of life after parenting, from identity loss to relationship reinvention.We swap personal stories, break down practical tools, and share laugh-out-loud moments about:Re-discovering yourself beyond “Mom” or “Dad.”Turning a quiet house into an exciting next chapter.Shifting from project managers to true partners in marriage.Building a “Midlife Growth Playbook” for strength, skills, creativity, and adventure.Whether you’re years away from an empty nest or staring at it right now, this is your roadmap to staying connected, confident, and ready for whatever comes next.🎯 Takeaway: Your kids will leave. Don’t leave yourself behind.

This week, the MidMen dig into the world of pets—past and present. From childhood companions that chewed everything but your trust, to current-day fur-babies treated better than most in-laws, Paul and Sean share their funniest, most heartfelt, and flat-out bizarre pet stories. Expect debates on dogs vs. cats, why exotic pets are a red flag, and more. Plus, a trip down Pet Movie Lane, as the duo discusses the many Pet Movies in existence, from the good, the bad, and the naughty.

🎬 Episode Title: Summer Blockbusters & Duds: A MidMen Deep Dive🔥 Episode Description:Get your popcorn ready! This week, the MidMen crew dives headfirst into the world of summer movie blockbusters—the megahits, the misfires, and everything in between.We break down what really makes a blockbuster (besides a fat box office), tracing the history from Jaws and Star Wars to today’s tentpoles. We share our personal memories of the summer movies that defined our youth—think Jurassic Park, T2, Independence Day, Batman 89, The Dark Knight, The Goonies, and more.We also get real about how COVID changed the game, what it’s like taking our kids to the movies now, and make our bold predictions about the future of theaters in the age of streaming, social media, and on-demand everything.Plus: our signature Summer Blockbuster Association Game—where no topic is off-limits, and the first word that pops into your head is the right answer.Whether you’re a movie nerd or a casual fan, join us for 2 hours of nostalgia, debate, and love for the big screen.🎥✨ Lights. Camera. MidMen.

Yo Joe! This week, MidMen goes all in on G.I. Joe—America’s Movable Fighting Man turned Real American Hero, featuring special guest Zaki Hasan!We’re talking the full evolution, from Hasbro’s 12-inch military dolls of the 60s to the legendary 3.75-inch line that made Cobra Commander, Snake Eyes, and Destro household names.We share our earliest Joe memories, the thrill of buying, playing, and trading figures, and how birthdays and backyard wars shaped us. We debate the best movies, cartoons, vehicles, and bases, then draft our Ultimate Joe Squads.We also dig into GI Joe’s weirdest eras, best modern reinventions, and whether the brand can even survive another 30 years. And to cap it off, Paul, Sean, and Zaki face off in a GI Joe Trivia Challenge for true die-hard fans!This is the ultimate nostalgia-packed, plastic-crack-fueled tribute to one of the greatest toy lines of all time. Knowing is half the battle—but hitting play is the other half.⚔️ Yo Joe!

Paul and Sean are back with a new MidMen episode!This week we’re diving into The Future of Hollywood: why studios keep betting on sequels and existing IP, whether we’re really out of original ideas, and what today’s audiences (especially the next generation) actually want from their stories.We also share Art That Changed Us: Comic Books Edition—the issues, runs, and creators who shaped our worldview, inspired our creativity, and made us think in panels and splash pages forever.Plus: Covid updates, travel chaos, our movie speed round, a rapid-fire word association game, and our weekly advice.Give it a listen and join the conversation!Don’t forget to subscribe—next week we’re joined by film critic Zaki Hasan for our GI JOE episode!

This Father’s Day, MidMen gets personal. In Fathers & Footprints, Paul and Sean reflect on the men who raised them—and the fathers they’ve become. Through stories, laughter, grief, and gratitude, they explore the legacy of their dads, how those lessons shape their own parenting, and the footprints they hope to leave behind.💬 Stories of discipline, awkward talks, and timeless advice🕯️ Reflections on loss, grief, and lasting legacy🧔‍♂️ Real talk on modern fatherhood: fears, hopes, and the WTF moments😂 The Dad Joke Showdown — who will wear the Crown of Cringe?🧠 Dad Trivia that might just trigger some childhood flashbacksWhether you’re a dad, had a dad, miss a dad, or are figuring it all out—this one’s for you.

This week on MidMen, Paul is joined by his brother Scott for a raw and revealing conversation about brotherhood and how it grows and changes over a lifetime. From childhood brawls to adult respect, they explore how their relationship has changed over the years — and how their personal beliefs, ambitions, and goals have sharpened or altered their paths forward into midlife. It's a deep dive into belief, manifestation, and chasing passion in fitness, career, and life.Plus — the Brother Quiz showdown. Who knows who better?A powerful, personal episode about the bond that survives everything.

Description:This week on MidMen, Paul and Sean take a brutally honest (and hilarious) look at the stuff we’ve outgrown — from six-pack abs and political arguments to overpriced door unlocks and black licorice. What changed? Time? Kids? Wisdom? Apathy? We get into it.Also in this episode:🚗 “Get Off My Lawn” tackles outdated industries and dumb negotiations🍭 “Be Yourself” takes on sweet treats, guilty pleasures, and candy you’re lying about liking🧠 New game: Finishing Sentences — one word, deep revealsBy the end, we’re lighter… not in pounds, but in baggage.

MidMen – Episode 11: The Inspiration EpisodeFrom Sheesh to Cindy Crawford: Inspiration, Nostalgia, and What It Means to Be YouWhat is inspiration — and where the hell did it go? In this episode, Paul and Sean dive into the strange mix of nostalgia, personal growth, and midlife reinvention that keeps them (and maybe you) moving forward. From dissecting Gen Z slang that breaks their brains to sharing first jobs, life-changing books, and pop culture moments that shaped them, this episode explores what it means to be yourself in the chaos of now.Also in this episode:👴 Get Off My Lawn – Yeet, Skibidi, and Riz make us feel old and confused💼 Job Histories – Our weirdest gigs and what they taught us🧠 Inspiration Deep Dive – From comics to military service to fitness to fatherhood🎮 Instant Recall! – A new memory-trigger game powered by ’80s/’90s nostalgia📚 Books That Changed Us – Real recommendations that left a markThis episode is funny, thoughtful, and kind of like a time capsule cracked open by two guys trying to stay inspired, relevant, and real.

🎙️ MIDMEN - Episode 10“Weird Stuff We Believe: From God to UFOs to Superstitions”This week on MidMen, Paul and Sean dive headfirst into the strange, the spiritual, and the straight-up unexplainable. From personal beliefs about God and the afterlife to alien visitors, ghost stories, Bigfoot, and bizarre superstitions (yes, we knock on wood), the guys get raw and real about what they kinda believe… and what still freaks them out a little.Expect wild tangents, deep reflections, awkward laughs, and totally unprovable theories.If you’ve ever said “I’m not superstitious, but…,” this episode is for you.

In this special May the 4th (ish) episode, MidMen finally gives in to the Force. Paul is joined by long-time friend and Star Wars savant Brian Hall as they dive headfirst into what it meant to grow up in the golden age of Star Wars — from the original trilogy’s magic, to midnight showings of the prequels, to the avalanche of content in the Disney+ era.They trade childhood stories about action figures, waiting in line for movies, and how their perspective has changed as they unpack how the Special Editions, Prequels, and Sequels shaped their generation. There’s honest critique, deep fandom love, and a few spicy takes on where the franchise is heading.Also in this episode:Star Wars Trivia Showdown (spoiler: someone forgets a droid’s name)Would You Rather: Star Wars Edition — including the question no man dares answer about which Leia they "prefer"A debate on whether Star Wars can be saved — or should be left to fossilize in carboniteNostalgic, hilarious, and surprisingly insightful, this one’s for the Force-sensitive midlifers out there who remember the smell of a freshly cracked Kenner figure and still kinda hate sand.

Buckle up — we’re talking cars, chaos, and the open road.In Episode 8 of MidMen, we take a ride down memory lane and talk about the vehicles that shaped us: our first rides, dream cars, what we’re driving now, and why every car has a story. From learning to drive to dealing with breakdowns and high-speed mishaps, this one’s a highway of laughs and nostalgia.We also peer into the future of driving — electric cars, self-driving tech, and whether humans will even need a license in 20 years. Are we heading for a world of auto-pilot Uberpods, or is driving the last real freedom?Plus:🚗 Get Off My Lawn – Slow drivers in the fast lane🚘 Would You Rather: Famous Movie Cars Edition🛠️ The MidMen Advice Column – Where experience meets bold claimsJoin us as we shift gears and coast into the conversation you didn’t know you needed.

This week on MidMen, we unpack the difference between a family trip and a real vacation — you know, the kind with sleep, intimacy, and zero ketchup stains. From surviving the chaos of traveling with kids to questioning the way we chase our dreams, this episode hits hard and laughs harder.We also dive into the concept of bucket lists: are they just checklists for retirement, or maps to the life we actually want? Plus, a round of “Would You Rather: Bucket List Edition” that’ll make you question everything from your next vacation to your legacy.Featuring: • Fire-starting takes on modern parenting trips • Real talk about what we’re still chasing • Wild bucket list debates: Machu Picchu vs. Great Barrier Reef, book vs. film, solo travel vs. group adventure🎧 Whether you’re dreaming about skydiving or just dreaming of sleeping past 6am, this one’s for you.#MidMen #PodcastForMen #BucketList #FamilyTrips #ModernFatherhood #VacationVsTrip #WouldYouRather #DadsWithDreams #MillennialDads #RealTalk #LifeAfter30

In this episode, we unpack the weird psychology of self-checkout lines and donation guilt trips in a new segment called GET OFF MY LAWN, then dive into the real question: Do we grow up, or just grow older? From 20s party stories to 40s chill vibes, we compare the lives we had to the lives we’ve built — and play a brutally honest round of “Would You Rather: 20s vs. 40s Edition.” We wrap up with what we’re watching and why it hits differently at this stage of life.Equal parts funny, thoughtful, and weirdly therapeutic.

Grab your cereal and settle in—this week, the MidMen Podcast takes a nostalgic deep dive into the golden era of Saturday Morning Cartoons! We’re rewinding the clock to the 80s, reminiscing about He-Man, G.I. Joe, Transformers, The Smurfs, M.A.S.K., and more, and asking the big question: Do cartoons still hold the same magic today?In this episode, we break down:🕹 The 80s Cartoon Experience – Why these shows mattered, their cultural impact, and the toys that ruled our childhood.📺 Cartoons We Love as Adults – From Rick and Morty to Invincible, how has animation evolved?🎨 Does Art Get Better with Age? – How do we view cartoons differently as adults, and how do we pass that love on to our kids?🧠 80s Cartoon Trivia Challenge – Test your knowledge of classic Saturday morning favorites!🔄 Which Cartoon Deserves a Reboot? – If you could bring back one show, how would you do it?Stick around for listener shoutouts, some deep-cut trivia, and our final thoughts on nostalgia vs. modern storytelling. Plus, we want to hear from YOU: Which 80s cartoon would you bring back, and why?📢 Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and hit us up with your favorite cartoon memories!#MidMenPodcast #SaturdayMorningCartoons #80sNostalgia #CartoonTrivia

Episode Description:Birthdays change a lot as we grow up—some for the better, some… not so much. In this episode of MidMen, we break down how birthday celebrations evolve from childhood excitement to the “just another day” mindset of adulthood. Plus, how do we handle birthdays for our kids compared to how we grew up?Then, we hit the road—literally! We dive into the highs and lows of road trips, from the best adventures to the ones we’d rather forget. How do road trips feel different as adults vs. kids? What makes for the perfect road trip experience? And what destinations are on our bucket list?Along the way, we’ll hit you with some fun trivia, a couple of tough Would You Rather questions, and plenty of laughs. Buckle up for a ride through nostalgia and new experiences—this is one episode you won’t want to miss!🎧 Listen now and make sure to Subscribe to this podcast and follow us on X at @midmenpodcast

Parenting: Expectation vs. Reality. 🎙️💀👶 The parent you thought you’d be vs. the one you became🤣 Parenting horror stories (public tantrums, lost kids, 💩 disasters!)💡 Lessons we took (or rejected) from our own parents🔀 Would You Rather: Parenting Edition (Have your kid communicate in TikTok Dances or complete sarcasm?)😂 Dad Joke Showdown – who cracks first?🔥 Tune in now & tag a parent who needs a laugh! #MidMenPodcast

In This Episode: Paul and Sean discuss how movies hit different once middle-age kicks in and reflect on the films that had a big impact in their 20's and how they feel about them now, including Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Fight Club, American Beauty, The Matrix, The Goonies, Swingers, and more. They then take a deep dive into the films that have left a lasting impact and revealed themselves to be far more profound now vs. when they first saw them decades before. Stick around for the rapid-fire quiz, as both Sean and Paul must choose between two characters from the movies they love, relating them to who they are now. It's a thought-provoking peek at the ever-growing and evolving form of art known as film and how it changes with us as we age.

MID MEN An unfiltered podcast where two lifelong friends in the entertainment industry (hosts Paul Shirey and Sean Coyle) discuss childhood, fatherhood and all the other hoods that come with navigating mid-life in the modern era. EPISODE 1: Introductions – Who are we and how do we know one another? Where did we go and what did we become since then? MAIN TOPIC:  Reconnecting with Old Dreams (and Letting Some Go)What did we WANT to do when we were kids, what did we study to do, and what did we end up doing? What do we STILL want to do and what are we doing to get there? Is it EVER too late?