MissJudged Podcast

What is emotional unavailability, really — are they actually unavailable… or did they just not like you? In this episode of MissJudged, Alyssa is joined by Hunter Stoler to break down emotional unavailability in dating, what it looks like in real life, and why it is not always as simple as blaming avoidant attachment or calling everyone a narcissist.We get into the real signs of an emotionally unavailable partner, how health, stress, burnout, confidence, sleep, and mental wellness can affect the way people show up in relationships, and why some people are not cold or mysterious — they are just dysregulated, exhausted, insecure, or emotionally shut down. We also talk about the harder truth no one wants to hear: sometimes they were not emotionally unavailable… they just were not that into you.This episode covers:What emotional unavailability actually meansSigns you are dating an emotionally unavailable personHow to free yourself from the dynamicWhat happens when one person in the relationship starts to glow upHow your community can affect your heath in you body and mindThe connection between confidence, health, and emotional intimacySelf-sabotage in dating and how to stop repeating the patternHow to leave an emotionally unavailable relationshipIf you’ve ever wondered why dating feels so confusing, why you keep ending up with the wrong people, or whether you are chasing chemistry that is really just anxiety, this episode is for you.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You don't just date them—you date their entire family system. In this savage-but-true episode, Alyssa sits down with @CandiceGuardino to tackle the #1 source of relationship stress: in-laws and family boundaries. We break down the hilarious and horrifying reality of family meddling: from the people who only need parental approval, not a partner, to those who are recreating their chaotic childhood in their love life. Learn why people date what feels familiar instead of what’s healthy, why over-involved parents can delay marriage, and how to finally set boundaries without having a meltdown. If your relationship has a third person (Mom), this is your must-listen.In this episode we will talk about: Why people often don’t date what is healthy; they date what feels familiar. If your parents fought a lot, you’re more likely to think chaos is passion. The number one reason couples fight is in-laws and family boundaries. Are we just dating potential? Some people are not dating a partner; they’re dating with their family in the group chat. You learn more about your partner from one Thanksgiving or road trip than you do from six months of dating. Over-involved parents can actually delay marriages because they make partners feel judged or controlled. Sibling dynamics and relationships- should you insert yourself? Nothing tests a relationship quite like traveling together, IKEA, weddings, or Christmas with their family. Have you ever dated someone who’s family made them more appealing? Or someone who was perfect but you could NEVER spend a holiday with their family?? Ever wonder what do healthy boundaries with partners and family look like? Then this episode is for you!Support the showLike what you hear? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and tell a friend to help spread the word! The more, the merrier, right?Listen/ Watch to MissJudged Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify |YouTube Stay in the loop and follow us on Instagram: @missjudgedpodcast TikTok: @missjudgedpodcastHit play and join the conversation— can't wait to have you along for the ride!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.