MUMs for Life - The Deconstructed Mum

What does it take to start over? In this powerful episode, Michelle, a mother of two, shares her journey from being a teen drug trafficker to building a new life anchored in purpose and hope. As drug abuse continues to rise among youth, with some as young as 13 falling into the trap, her story offers a rare and honest glimpse into the struggles of recovery and redemption. Tune in to hear how she found the strength to break free from her past and redefine her future. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

From heartfelt stories of lessons passed down by our mothers to the wisdom gained from the mums around us, this episode explores how motherhood shapes our values, choices, and relationships in lasting ways.Join us in conversation with Nafisah Suheimi—mum of two, co-founder of Ibu Sepanjang Hayat (a MUMs for Life movement in the Malay Muslim community), and author of Navigating the Honeycomb: Life of a Multi-hyphenated Mother and Leader. She shares how her own understanding of motherhood has evolved through the seasons of life.Mother’s Day may be over, but this episode is a timely reminder to honour the everyday legacy of mums—not just with cards and brunches, but in the quiet, thoughtful ways that truly matter.Tune in for an honest, inspiring conversation on the mothers who made us—and how their influence continues to shape who we are. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

New & Expecting Parents—This One’s for You!With enhanced parental leave schemes kicking in from 1 April 2025, what should mums and dads-to-be know before taking that big step? In this heartfelt and insightful episode, we sit down with Yvonne Yong—a mum of one with another on the way—as she shares her raw and real experiences from her first maternity leave, how she's planning differently this time around, and why she believes paternity leave isn’t just a perk—it’s essential.From juggling newborn life to redefining what postpartum rest really means, Yvonne opens up about the unspoken challenges and the importance of shared responsibility. If you're planning for a baby or know someone who is, this is the conversation you won't want to miss. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

How does she do it? In celebration of International Women’s Day, we dive into the evolving dynamics of modern parenthood—where mums are the primary breadwinners and dads take the lead at home. Join us for an insightful conversation with Delphine Teo, a mum of two and District Head in Early Childhood, as she shares her journey of balancing career and family, redefining gender roles, and navigating societal expectations. Tune in for an inspiring discussion on partnership, resilience, and what it truly means to support one another in parenting. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Motherhood is not just a journey of raising a child—it’s a powerful transformation of self. In this episode of The Deconstructed Mum, Sophia Ng, Co-founder of Kidztropic Singapore, shares her personal journey of rediscovery and growth as she navigated the challenges and opportunities that came with becoming a mum.If you’ve ever felt that motherhood is a journey of profound transformation, this conversation will resonate deeply. Tune in for an inspiring and honest discussion about growth, self-discovery, and the unique challenges of parenting. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In the Season 2 premiere of The Deconstructed Mum, Su Fen Cheong, Founder and CEO of Preschool Market, discusses how workplaces can better support working mothers. She opens up about the pressures of excelling in motherhood and leadership, the importance of leaning on others, and finding balance between ambition and connection. This thought-provoking conversation offers actionable insights for parents and leaders alike. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this special crossover episode, Alvina Chin from The Deconstructed Mum teams up with Alsen Chanamuto from The Kopi, Kids, and Kakis Podcast to explore the complexities of marriage and parenting. Join them as they candidly share their journeys, offering perspectives on the adjustments couples face while transitioning into married life and parenthood. Together, they share how they’ve learned to embrace, appreciate, and navigate differences, making for an insightful and relatable conversation. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What happens when you become a first-time mom far from home? Join us in conversation with Tina Lawenko, who shares her journey of parenthood as an expat in Singapore. "If you cannot get the help that you need, then you work with what you have," she shares, offering honest insights into creating a support system abroad while maintaining strong family bonds across borders. Whether you're an expat parent or just curious about different paths to parenthood, Tina's story shows how to make it work – even when home is oceans away. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The month of October marks Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. It gives us an opportunity to remember and support those whose lives have been deeply affected by the loss of a baby. Listen to this conversation with Mandy Too as she talks about coping with the heartbreaking loss of her twin daughters and how learning to tend to her grief has helped in the healing process.     Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Unhappy couples wait an average of six years before getting help, according to psychologist, Dr John Gottman. Listen to this conversation with Lily Kew as she reflects on lessons she learnt after her divorce, her decision to remarry, and being intentional about raising her daughters while running her business.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Should I become a mother? This is a question many women grapple with. Join us as we delve into the complexities of motherhood with our guest, Jessica Zhuo. She bravely shares her experiences as a reluctant mother and how she navigated her feelings.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The end of a marriage is often devastating for both the couple and their children. How can we heal and support our children through this process?Join us for a conversation with Jucelyn Ong as she shares her experience with divorce and how she maintained a strong bond between her children and their father.Jucelyn Ong, author of 'Standing Tall Overcoming All,' invites you to learn more about her journey and her book at https://jucelynong.com/. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The most common cancer among women in Singapore is breast cancer. One out of five patients is under 45 years old. Listen to this conversation with Tuminah bte Sujak as she talks about living with cancer and why words of encouragement don’t always help.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Life becomes extra unpredictable when a baby is born. At only five weeks old, her son had to undergo the Kasai procedure for his condition ‘biliary atresia’. Listen to this conversation with Sharon as she shares about feelings of guilt and how she incorporates her son’s diagnosis into the family’s daily lives.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Grandparents play a special role in our children’s lives, but sometimes we don’t always agree on what’s best for the child. A 2020 Poll reported that 57% of parents clash with their parents in the area of discipline. Listen to this conversation with Vera Heng as she speaks about her decision not to be a stay-at-home grandma and making sure that she remains a welcome guest at her daughter’s home. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

‘Women start turning into their mothers when they reach the age of 33’, according to a study by Dr. Julian De Silva. Listen to this conversation with Alya Osman as she talks about her personal revelation and dealing with the role overload that comes with switching between daughter and mother. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.