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Must In Laws Be Outlaws?
by Cathy Riva Bloomgarden
Ever wondered what could happen if we stopped being right and started being open?Must In-Laws Be Outlaws? is a playful, honest, and surprisingly heartfelt podcast hosted by a mother-in-law, Lucette Bloomgarden and daughter-in-law, Cathy Riva Bloomgarden, who didn't exactly start out as best friends. In fact, if you met them in the early days, you might have politely wondered how they would ever share a holiday table - let alone a microphone. This podcast is the story of how two women navigated misunderstanding, judgement, hurt feelings and unspoken expectations... and chose a different ending and how you can too. Instead of remaining "outlaws" in each other's lives, they leaned into curiosity, compassion, humor, and radical honesty - and slowly transformed a strained relationship into one rooted in respect, trust and genuine friendship. This podcast is for anyone who has struggled in any kind of a relationship whether with family, in-laws, friends or even themselves.Ea
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Tone Takes A Toll
From Must In-Laws Be Outlaws - Episode 2People don't realize HOW much tone affects relationshipsEspecially in familiesEspecially when nobody feels heardSometimes it's not the words that hurt us the most... it's the tone. Once tense conversation can shift the entire energy of a family.What if the real skill isn't winning the argument, but learning how to stay connected while communicating it honestly?Obviously we are still learning, but follow along as we navigate communication, misunderstandings, and finding your center in chaos.
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Blood vs. Belonging: Does Loyalty to Mom Leave Room for Other Mother Figures
Guest Loren Heuschkel Guidance Counsellor & High School English teacher explains allegiance to one's mom starts young, but there is room for everyone. And, one trait to be a great mother-in-law is inclusivity and unconditional love.Allegiance To One's Mom Starts Young, But Does Blood Have To Be Thicker Than Water? In this episode we break down the step-mother/ mother-in-law stereotypes and the guilt that may come from choosing one over the other. In addition we hear how about the traits of a wonderful mother-in-law relationship!
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What does a successful relationship look like? What is a good in-law? Episode 8
What is a good in-law? How does a mother become a good mother-in-law? How do we choose to grow despite friction? We offer tools we use in our own relationships that have healed our differences.
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Guest Joan Falk, Ph.D. Managing Stress and the Mother-In-Law Relationship
Guest Joan Falk, Ph.D. - Clinical Psychologist breaks down stress management and the Mother In-Law relationship. How to deal with different communication styles, advice for troubled relationships and learning to approach relationships as "this is the job you want to keep". Advice- get to know your Mother-In-Law and understand it's ok to question advice with gentle curiosity.
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How do you handle strong emotion towards someone and we open up the M-I-L Hotline
As mother-in-law and daughter-in-law we did not always get along, but now we are the closest of friends. Together we tackle relationship situations that everyone seems to face. On today's episode we discuss how to handle strong emotion towards someone and answer a "hotline call" where a mother-in-law is hijacking a high school graduation celebration. Tune in. Rate. Share with Friends.
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Navigating Family Vacations... Must In-Laws Be Outlaws Go on a Cruise
13 Family Members. One Cruise. No Escape. How do families survive the high seas? Sometimes staying calm is not about the ocean... it's about how you navigate each other.Tune in to find out tips on how to handle your next family gathering!
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Boundary or Blessing? When Your Mother-in-Law Takes Over the House
When a mother-in-law comes over and begins rearranging furniture, it can feel intrusive, or even disrespectful- even if her intentions are good. Only you can decide how important this issue truly is: sometime letting small things go can preserve harmony, but when it affects your sense of family independence in your own home, it's important to set gentle but clear boundaries.We discuss the root cause of why this may feel so deeply insulting or is it a blessing?Lean in as the mother-in-law and daughter duo, Cathy and Lucette, discuss difficult relationship situations and how it can inspire you too.
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In a longterm relationship, how do we avoid falling back into old patterns?
When you live together (and sometimes even work together) it is easy to fall into a routine. We discuss how we keep relationships fresh and inquire how that helps around stressful times like the holidays.
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How Do You Take The High Road?
Lean in as the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law duo, Lucette and Cathy Bloomgarden, discuss taking the high road. This doesn't mean staying silent or pretending you are not hurt. It means choosing self-respect over reaction, responding with clarity instead of anger, and remembering that protecting your peace is more powerful than winning the argument. This isn't about letting someone walk all over you- it's about how to choose wisdom over ego.Follow @mustinlawsbeoutlaws on instagram for more nuggets on unlocking the power of partnership: How In-Laws Become Allies
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Episode 1: Do In-Laws Have To Be Outlaws? We were, at first...
Meet Mother in Law Lucette Bloomgarden and Daughter in Law Cathy Riva Bloomgarden as they navigate tough relationship experiences to become good friends and how you can too.
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Ever wondered what could happen if we stopped being right and started being open?Must In-Laws Be Outlaws? is a playful, honest, and surprisingly heartfelt podcast hosted by a mother-in-law, Lucette Bloomgarden and daughter-in-law, Cathy Riva Bloomgarden, who didn't exactly start out as best friends. In fact, if you met them in the early days, you might have politely wondered how they would ever share a holiday table - let alone a microphone. This podcast is the story of how two women navigated misunderstanding, judgement, hurt feelings and unspoken expectations... and chose a different ending and how you can too. Instead of remaining "outlaws" in each other's lives, they leaned into curiosity, compassion, humor, and radical honesty - and slowly transformed a strained relationship into one rooted in respect, trust and genuine friendship. This podcast is for anyone who has struggled in any kind of a relationship whether with family, in-laws, friends or even themselves.Ea
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Cathy Riva Bloomgarden
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