No Really...We're Fine

After a few quiet months, we're back! Well this episode is just me but Deborah will be back soon. We are easing into things with a shorter episode that asks the question, What do women carry? Inspired by a passage from a book by Maira Kalman titled Women Holding Things. We reflect on the invisible weight so many women carry each day.

Instead of creating a whole new you for the New Year, we're asking a better question, What's Next? This episode is about the space between who we've been and where we might be headed - without the pressure to reinvent ourselves. We talk honestly about uncertainty, hope, fear, curiosity and why it is never too late to imagine what comes next. We invite you to join the conversation. What's next for you?

In this episode, we are talking about the life stage no one really prepared us for, yet nearly every woman will experience. We will discuss brain for, hot flashes, shifting hormones and why so many women feel dismissed or unprepared when they seek help. As well as the care gap that exists in medical treatment of menopause.

The life and legend of Edgar Allan Poe. Step into the shadowy world of Edgar Allan Poe. the man behind the madness, mystery and melancholy. In this special Halloween episode of No,Really... We're Fine, we unravel the the truth behind the myths: was Poe really the tortured, drunken soul that history painted him to be, or something far more tragic and misunderstood.

In this episode, Deborah and Sue Ellen bring on their other best pal to discuss the complexities of friendships, particularly as they navigate social connections as we age. They explore the nature of friendships, the challenges of making new friends, and the importance of maintaining long-lasting relationships. The conversation highlights how life changes impact friendships and the significance of community and connection in adulthood. The hosts share personal anecdotes and insights on the work required to sustain friendships, the impact of maturity on relationships, and the acceptance of change in social dynamics.

Sometimes you just need a good rant. From hot flashes to the doctor says what?? Come laugh with us and maybe nod along a little too. Nothing is safe from our over 50 side-eye! We rant with some sass, sarcasm and some sanity-saving giggles!

In this episode, meet Joan MacDonald, Grandma Gatewood, Lorna Page and Ruth Thompson, women who prove it's never too late to make your mark and maybe even change the world! Their stories show that life after 50 can be powerful, bold and full of purpose!

In this episode, we dive into the world of hobbies and how thy boost our mental, physical, and emotional well-being. while alsobringing joy and a sense of fun to evereyday life. From creative outlets to active pastimes, we explorewhy making time for hobbies is more than just a guilty pleasure - it's self-care!

Life isn't all about the big wins. Sometimes it's about finding joy in the little ones. Join us as we celebrate the small victories that keep us laughing, going and (mostly) sane!

 In this episode of No, Really… We’re Fine, we dive into the world of “Sweetheart Scams” — those online romance cons that prey on loneliness and trust. We share shocking real-life examples, the red flags to watch for, and why these scams are more common than you think (especially for women over 50). But don’t worry — this isn’t all doom and gloom. We balance the hard truths with humor, practical advice, and the steps you can take to protect your heart and your wallet.

Introducing our new, monthly segment: Hot Flashes and Heartaches - where love and life after 50 collide with a good dose of sarcasm and maybe a little sweat! Whether you're widowed, divorced, or just curious what companionship even looks like now. After 50, love and life are complicated, but at least we can laugh about it together!

It's that subtle, imperceptible change in how people see you and society in general treats you. Don't worry too much. It's not all bad. we are learning stuff and we get a superpower!

In the inaugural episode of 'No Really, We're Fine,' hosts Sue Ellen and Deborah introduce themselves and share their personal stories, highlighting their experiences as women over 50. They discuss the societal pressures of aging, the feeling of invisibility, and the importance of finding supportive communities. The episode sets the stage for future discussions on health, relationships, and the challenges faced by women in this stage of life, all while maintaining a humorous and relatable tone.