Not Getting Dressed

Send us Fan MailBack from a two month hiatus, buzzing from a psilocybin mircodose patch and an actual vacation, Katie and Jamie talk about being the Executrix of life, the tease of Alberta spring, asking for help, a few fabulous birthdays and a honouring a beautiful life lived.  Side note: Katie still likes City and Oatmeal, Jamie still likes to talk about orgasms.  https://www.instagram.com/notgettingdressed?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan MailIn our first official episode of Seasons 2 of Not Getting Dressed, in the dark dredges that are the end of January in Alberta, we are tucking into cheap red wine, our unmanicured fingernails, New Year's resolutions, birth stories and the tricky business that is motherhood and gay hockey TV shows.  There is a smash or pass for all of us in this episode; enjoy and welcome to Season Deux. https://www.instagram.com/notgettingdressed?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan MailSlathered in goat cheese, dripped in honey, layered in black mesh and with a complete set of the most outrageous nails, join KK and J for a fire side old fashioned mid-November catch up. Tonite we are using everything we have in our tool kit to prepare for, survive and actually enjoy the end of 2025.  We cover our fall fashion must-have's, gift giving and have a look at how we perceive eachother. We even put on a ball gown and KK out spices J...buckle up friends and laugh with us.https://www.instagram.com/notgettingdressed?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan MailBack at Katie's Diner this morning to debrief on recent birthdays, the teachers strike, how the world feels like it's on fire these days and money. We're here talking about what are your non-negotiable things when you need to stretch a buck? What are the things you can leave behind and the things you need to keep going. For J it's butter, coffee dates, cheap Tuesday, and sex (but that's free). For KK it's always $ for beer or coffee with friends and her passion PC Optimum Point hoarding.As always, we go high, we go low and in conclusion feel differently about the new Taylor Swift album. A little 'showgirl marketing' opposition, if you will. Finally, to quote Jerry McGuire, "SHOW ME THE MONEY!!!".https://www.instagram.com/notgettingdressed?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan MailFrom babies to babes. We had our second guest last night to record Episode 12. It’s a ‘Coaches Corner’, if you will. There’s a bff competition (bit grim), some discussion around mental health and dissecting a few stigmas, how to spot an online dating red flag from a mile away, and finally, a little moment for our Oilers. Coach McCrea, you were a delight.https://www.instagram.com/notgettingdressed?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan MailJoin us as KK voraciously kills fruit flies hovering around LadyJ's pitcher of Long Island Iced Tea, in the heated end of summer. Where we wrap up some of our highs and lows, including encounters with Moose, skunks, and mice, matching power striped outfits. An honourable mention to KK's very own 'Cheers', aka Superstore. In closing, we have high schoolers now and a special guest booked for our next episode. https://www.instagram.com/notgettingdressed?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan MailJust two gals. Catching up on the highs and lower highs of summer 25. Making an Aperol Spritz live for you. Sharing our big highs, Jamie’s 14 day nun-hood and unpacking the art of being bored. We are learning the way, inspired mostly by renaissance women laying with at least one tit out and being fed grapes. Let’s master this art. https://www.instagram.com/notgettingdressed?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan MailWhile it seems impossible to have rage on the eve of Game 2 of the Stanley Cup Finals in Edmonton, rage still becomes her in this episode. KK says "yes ma'am" to Ekholm, she's done her research and she unequivocally agrees, he would indeed pull your hair. We discuss the sting of ex-husbands not communicating when they get engaged, rage about lives and experiences we have left behind, but also the peace and solace we have (occasionally) in our non-married lives. Also, KK is saving herself for the Cup and we let you in on what a day to day text exchange looks like between yours truly.https://www.instagram.com/notgettingdressed?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan MailAfter a month hiatus full of lifes ups and downs, we're back. In this episode we recap our very different holidays, if that hockey player would pull your hair, and if you can name 10 diets you've been on. We share on how with age, it gets more difficult to drop the pounds, harder to find a fuck to give, but a little easier to love yourself.https://www.instagram.com/notgettingdressed?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan MailK and J cozy up fireside (dog included—consider yourself warned) with mocktails to tackle "faking it." They explore people-pleasing autopilot mode that sacrifices oneself to keep everyone else happy. Plus: kissing 101, their recent dopamine purchases, binge-worthy shows, and life-changing tip of the week for when friends are up against it: "Just drop off the bagels or rotisserie chicken. Don't ask, just do it."https://www.instagram.com/notgettingdressed?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan MailHere we are. Another Sunday morning, checking in from Jamie's kitchen. Today we host our first guest who's now (as of this week) very close friends to both of us. Queen Em is here from the UK, with loads of insight on relationships, a 3 step practical sex life, the lukewarm Canadian sports scene and how if they ever divorce, it will be due to their dogs.It's light and fun of course with a few deep puddles. Thank you so much Emma for joining our kitchen island conversation.https://www.instagram.com/notgettingdressed?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, we rip the covers off "Dr." Jamie's not-so-guilty favourite topic. We know it, you know it, no shame here, it's sex. Katie has test anxiety from failing the 11 types of orgasms quiz. Plus, we're unpacking those sexual shame landmines planted in your childhood that still explode at the worst moments.  We talk everything from choreplay, tantra, birth control and how to communicate in bed.  This steamy conversation is just the first climax in our multi-part series — consider yourself warned.   https://www.instagram.com/notgettingdressed?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan MailFebruary's finale is here, and after a day of hardcore adulting, K and J are spilling all the tea. From their post-therapy wind-down rituals to eye-rolling at the audacity of men, these two don't hold back! They're diving deep into how they're finally dressing exactly how their younger selves always dreamed (hello, revenge fashion) and the delicious journey of falling in love with the skin they're in. Plus, get ready for a steamy preview of what's coming next episode – consider it foreplay for your ears. And wait for it... they're sharing a scandalously fun party game that literally anyone can play. Patent pending, obviously. You're welcome.https://www.instagram.com/notgettingdressed?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan MailIn this quieter kitchen bar conversation, we double down on the realities of grief and losing a parent, pour one out for our fallen leaderboard champion (sleep tight, sweet Zaddy), and learn why bombarding one of your single best friends with romantic charcuterie thirst traps is definitely not the move this Valentine's.https://www.instagram.com/notgettingdressed?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan MailThis week, we’re diving into the realities of dating in your 40s – the highs, the lows, and everything in between. We talk about the challenges of the local dating pool, the lessons we've learned, and how we keep moving forward. If you're in the same boat, consider this your reminder to keep swiping, take a pause when needed, and always honor the girl code. Plus, a little PSA: coffee in bed, a killer playlist, and a date planned? You're on the podium.https://www.instagram.com/notgettingdressed?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan MailComing from -20 degrees on a Saturday night in our robes from Jamie's kitchen, in this episode we go through our wins of the week, but more importantly we dig deep into what a win is and finding the wins in what a societal norm might view as a loss. For a dose of fun we unpack a terrible date and discuss if we will ever share a bedroom with anyone other than our dogs again.  https://www.instagram.com/notgettingdressed?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

Send us Fan MailIn this first episode of Not Getting Dressed, you will hear about how we met. We cover everything from kinder mom PTSD, far too many years that we lived apart, and you will experience first hand the authenticity and humour that make us up. Trigger warning: Jamie's hound throws up near the end. It's a bit rough around edges, but ready to go, just like us. https://www.instagram.com/notgettingdressed?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==