PODCAST · comedy
Not Related
by Tobias, Dede
Not Related is a podcast where two lifelong best friends—who call each other siblings—share their unfiltered takes on Reddit’s “Am I the Asshole” posts, pop culture, and music. Every Tuesday, we dive into juicy dilemmas, trending topics, and the songs we can’t stop playing—all with plenty of laughs and sibling-style banter. Tune in for the hot takes, stay for the vibes.
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YFBBSH
Otherwise known as: YOU FAT BIG BACK STEALING H*EEpisode SummaryIn this episode, co-hosts Tobias and Dede tackle the messy relationship of content creators Kai and Havo. Later, they will explore all that Reddit has to offer, from kleptomaniac roommates to pregnant lesbians. Listen as this duo gives their unfiltered takes on these stories. All this and more on Not Related. ---(00:00:00) Introduction(00:07:35) Kai & Havo(00:19:55) For leaving my roommate stranded after she kept using my stuff without asking? (00:33:38) For not being willing to pick my wife up at 2AM?(00:46:42) My girlfriend of 4 years just told me that she's pregnant...I'm a woman, so it can't be mine. But she swears she didn't cheat. What do I do?(01:07:39) Epilogue---Messy TikTok - Kai and HavoContent Creators Kai and Havo are making waves on TikTok after the reveal of some messy relationship drama. The tea? Kai is pregnant by the man she was allegedly speaking with while she was with Havo. Oh, did we mention, Kai previously claimed she was a hardcore lesbian? Source 1AITJ - For leaving my roommate stranded after she kept using my stuff without asking?This is not a roommate. This is a problem. OP turns to the internet for advice, after friends claim she was the a**hole for abandoning her roommate when she needed a ride to the airport. Mind you, the roommate in question was low-key stealing from the subredditor. No, OP, you are not the jerk, but you need to establish and enforce your boundaries, because it is very clear your roommate does not respect you. AITA - For not being willing to pick my wife up at 2AM?Subredditor vents to the internet after one too many late-night trips picking up his drunk wife. He shares that his wife goes out to party with friends, sometimes as late as 2 AM, and expects him to pick her up. The problem? He has to get ready for work at 4 AM. No, you are not the a**hole. It just sounds like your wife is on some BS. BORU - My girlfriend of 4 years just told me that she's pregnant...I'm a woman, so it can't be mine. But she swears she didn't cheat. What do I do?This subredditor shares a plot-twisting tale about her girlfriend of 4 years, who ended up pregnant. If you think the girlfriend cheated? We thought so too. ---Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90sTiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharmeEmail: [email protected]Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/---Hosts: Tobias & DedeProducer: TobiasWriter: DedeGraphic Designer: DedeEditor: Tobias
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FOR THREE YEARS?!?!
In this episode, co-hosts Dede and Tobias explore all that Reddit has to offer. From bro codes and love triangles to vegans and allergies, listen as this duo gives their unfiltered takes on these stories. Later, they will discuss recent changes in the Academy of Motion Pictures, and a woman who shares how she cheated on her husband for three years. All this and more on Not Related. ---(00:00:00) Introduction(00:01:14) AITJ: For ‘stealing’ my friend’s crush even though he was cheating on his actual girlfriend? (00:31:20) AITJ: For refusing to let my sister-in-law stay at my house because she’s “a vegan with a peanut allergy”? (00:40:35) Academy of Motion Pictures: Rule Update!(00:57:28) Woman Cheats on Husband with best friend. Husband takes her back. (01:23:00) Epilogue ---AITJ: For 'stealing' my friend’s crush even though he was cheating on his actual girlfriend?OP turns to Reddit for advice! Is he in the wrong for pursuing a relationship with his friend’s crush, even though the person in question is cheating on his actual girlfriend? If you ask us, not only is this situation beyond immature, it sounds like your friend has no business being in a relationship, considering he doesn’t even value the woman he os with. So, to the unfortunate lady with that cheating disaster, run!AITJ: For refusing to let my sister-in-law stay at my house because she’s "a vegan with a peanut allergy"?OP wonders if refusing to let her sister-in-law stay at her house is wrong after the unreasonable demands that were 'asked' of her to make the sister's week-long stay comfortable. We find it interesting that a person thinks it is their given right to make changes in a home that is not their own. If you ask us? Tell your sister to stay at a hotel! Story - Academy of Motion Pictures: Rule Update!The Board of the Academy of Motion Pictures and Sciences officially declares that Academy members must watch nominated films to be eligible to vote for the Oscars. Question: why wasn’t this a rule before? SourceStory - Woman Cheats on Husband with best friend. Husband takes her back. A guest sits with a Christian to discuss alongside various topics, her infidelity of 3 years. Regardless of your religion, or even lack thereof, we posed this question: If your partner cheats on you for years, will you take them back? Source 1Source 2---Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90sTiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharmeEmail: [email protected]Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/
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Car Park Simulator
In this episode, co-hosts Tobias and Dede explore all that Reddit has to offer, from exaggerated resumes to getting accused of adultery. Listen as this duo give their unfiltered takes on these stories. All this and more on Not Related. ---(00:00:00) Introduction(00:10:10) Some of Y’all Need to Stop Bullshoosh On Your Resumes!(00:13:33) AITA: For wearing underwear to sleep? (00:32:13) Neighbors From Hell(01:42:09) Best of Redditor Updates ---r/Interviews: Some of Y'all Need To Stop Bullshoosh On Your Resumes! OP is tired of the lies! This Redditor shares their experience interviewing a potential candidate for a role, only to quickly realize the interviewee has no idea what they put in their resume. If you're gonna lie about your expertise in a role, pretend to know your stuff. AITA: For wearing underwear to sleep?OP turns to the internet for advice after an awkward situation where his brother and his girlfriend walk into his bedroom, where he is awakened from his slumber. Here's the problem: he was naked, and something was standing at attention. Honestly, knock before you enter. Respect people's boundaries! AITA: If I charge my gf 1k for rent while I pay 2k+?OP seeks advice regarding his potential living arrangements. He wonders if charging his gf for rent makes him the a**hole. You guys might need to pause moving in together if expenses will be a concern while your girlfriend is still in school. NFH: Should I let it go?!OP is stuck in a parking war with their neighbor and turns to Reddit for advice. Here’s our advice: your property? Own it! Call the authorities and get their car towed! BORU: I [28/F] started making sexy videos for my boyfriend [29/M/2 yrs.] as a surprise. He found out and thinks I'm cheatingOP nearly ended her relationship! This Redditor shares how filming “private” films for her boyfriend led to her man accusing her of cheating. ---Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90sTiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharmeEmail: [email protected]Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/---Hosts: Tobias & DedeProducer: TobiasWriter: DedeGraphic Designer: DedeEditor: Tobias
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Allegations
In this episode, co-hosts Dede and Tobias explore all that Reddit has to offer, from disability drama to holding mothers accountable. Later, this duo will discuss the latest news with Shannon Sharpe and his $50 million lawsuit. All this and more on Not Related. ---(00:00:00) Introduction(00:13:20) AITA: For calling my mom a whore? (00:29:34) AITA: For playing a voice recording to prove my friend her daughter isn’t nonverbal?(00:40:22) Shannon Sharpe’s $50 million lawsuit. (01:14:50) We Just Talkin’ (01:31:12) Epilogue ---AITA: For calling my mom a w***e? OP wonders if calling her mother a w***e makes her an a**hole after learning that her mother once again cheated on her husband...by pretending to be her daughter. Update: Story has been removed on Reddit. AITA: For playing a voice recording to prove my friend her daughter isn’t nonverbal?OP turns to the internet for advice after proving to her friend that her daughter is not nonverbal, all while being called a liar. Story - Shannon Sharpe and SA allegations. On April 20, 2025, a civil lawsuit was filed against former NFL player Shannon Sharpe, accusing the current media personality of sexual assault. Court DocxSourceAudio LeakSharpe’s Response---Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90sTiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharmeEmail: [email protected]Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/---Hosts: Tobias & DedeProducer: TobiasWriter: DedeGraphic Designer: DedeEditor: Tobias
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Soap No Water
In this episode, co-hosts Tobias and Dede explore all that Reddit has to offer. From ungrateful sons to one’s body count, listen as this duo gives their unfiltered take on these stories. All this and more on Not Related. ---(00:00:00) Introduction(00:12:51) TOMC: My son is violent, unappreciative, out of his mind, breaks my heart, and I have had enough.(00:26:55) AITA: For Not Letting My Girlfriend Kiss My Best Friend?(00:46:15) AITA: For not letting my coworker stay at my place even though I “have the space?”(00:53:58) NLTOG: What is the most 'Pick Me' behavior you've ever seen?(00:59:22) AMA: Do you usually care about how many previous partners the girl had?(01:17:14) Is it a SIMS or a Real Reddit story? ---Story - TOMC: My son is violent, unappreciative, out of his mind, breaks my heart, and I have had enough.Disrespectful child? Or controlling OP? OP turns to Reddit for advice regarding her eighteen-year-old son, who has grown to become a violent and ungrateful kid. What should she do? Sounds like your kid needs a healthy dose of consequences. Establish boundaries and remind your son that there are some things he can’t do in your household, and hold yourself and him to it. Story - AITA: For Not Letting My Girlfriend Kiss My Best Friend?Subredditer wonders if he is the a**hole for not letting his girlfriend kiss his best friend. If you ask us, your feelings are valid; however, choosing to date a theater major, knowing that your girlfriend will most likely be given roles that require intimacy, is an interesting hill to stand on. Story - AITA: For not letting my coworker stay at my place even though I “have the space?”The OP wonders if choosing not to let her coworker stay at her crib, even though she has the space, is an a**hole move. Interesting. We didn’t know that not letting people you barely know invade your space was such a mean thing to do. The more you know, I guess. P.S. Why did she go to jail? We still would like to know! Story - NLTOG: What is the most 'Pick Me' behavior you've ever seen?Let us hear it, listeners! Share the most ‘Pick Me’ behavior you’ve ever seen? Tobias is more than happy to share his. Story - AMA: Do you usually care about how many previous partners the girl had?The OP wonders if choosing not to let her coworker stay at her crib, even though she has the space, is an a**hole move. Interesting. We didn’t know that not letting people you barely know invade your space was such a mean thing to do. The more you know, I guess. ---Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90sTiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharmeEmail: [email protected]Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/---Hosts: Tobias & DedeProducer: TobiasWriter: DedeGraphic Designer: DedeEditor: Tobias
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A Biased 420
In this special episode of Not Related, Tobias tells the long-awaited FedEx story and talks about his beef with them. (00:00:00) Introduction(00:03:30) The FedEx StoryInstagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90sTiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharmeEmail: [email protected]: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/---Hosts: Tobias & DedeProducer: TobiasWriter: DedeGraphic Designer: DedeEditor: Tobias
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Blow The Whistle
In this episode, co-hosts Dede and Tobias explore the case of Meshay Melendez and Layla Stewart and how ex-boyfriend Kirkland Warren brutally murdered them. Later, this duo will discuss interesting subreddits, from family drama to engagement-ending jokes. All this and more on Not Related. ---(00:00:00) Introduction(00:24:35) Meshay Melendez and Layla Stewart(00:43:05) AITA - For Telling My Dad’s Wife…(00:58:03) AITA - For Breaking Off My Engagement…---Story - Meshay Melendez and Layla StewartOn March 22, 2023, Melendez and Stewart were found dead on the side of a rural road from gunshot wounds to the head. Kirkland Warren gets life in prison. Source 1Source 2Source 3Source 4AITA - For telling my dad’s wife I’m sorry but she’s not my mom? OP turns to the internet for advice regarding his dad’s wife, who is awfully insistent that OP calls him mom. If you ask us, motherhood is earned, not given. AITA - For breaking off my engagement because my fiancé made an offensive joke about me to his friends? OP wonders if breaking off her engagement was the right call after hearing her fiancé joke about her weight to his friends. If your future hubby/wifey ever jokes about your insecurities to their friends, throw your ring! ---Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90sTiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharmeEmail: [email protected]: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/---Hosts: Tobias & DedeProducer: TobiasWriter: DedeGraphic Designer: DedeEditor: Tobias
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Debt-Fundme
In this episode, co-hosts Tobias and Dede explore all that Reddit has to offer. From open relationships to unpopular opinions, listen as this duo gives their unfiltered take on these stories. All this and more on Not Related. ...(00:00:00) Introduction(00:12:02) AITA - My boyfriend is furious that I’m breaking up after he insisted on opening our relationship.(00:24:06) FAFO - Made my racist coworker uncomfortable after he made a joke? Oh well.(00:29:44) RA - What is the best way for me 52/M to reach out to my daughter 28/F? I haven’t spoken to her since she was a kid. (00:47:28) AITA: For not wanting to tell my BF I might be pregnant again? Advice please!(00:58:50) UO - Going to a restaurant right before they close is not rude. What’s rude is posting hours that you claim you’re OPEN but are expecting people to act like you’re not. (01:11:40) UO - Back pockets should be moved to the lower front like cargo pants do. (01:14:48) UO - Sleeping on the floor is better than any mattress. ...AITA - My boyfriend is furious that I’m breaking up after he insisted on opening our relationship.Subbredditer wonders if breaking up with her boyfriend makes her the a**hole. The reason? The boyfriend insisted on opening their relationship even after the OP told him she wasn’t interested. FAFO - Made my racist coworker uncomfortable after he made a joke? Oh well.Subbredditer gets her lick back after a coworker makes a racist joke. Of course, the coworker tries to play the victim. RA - What is the best way for me 52/M to reach out to my daughter 28/F? I haven’t spoken to her since she was a kid. Subbredditer asks the internet for advice. A guy wonders what is the best way to contact his daughter. Honestly, the OP burnt this bridge years ago. FAFO - For not wanting to tell my BF I might be pregnant again? Advice please!Subbredditer is freaking out! OP wonders if she is an a**hole for not wanting to tell her boyfriend that she might be pregnant…again. How about you confirm your pregnancy first? UO - Going to a restaurant right before they close is not rude. What’s rude is posting hours that you claim you’re OPEN but are expecting people to act like you’re not. Subbredditer thinks that showing up before closing is not rude. Clearly, this guy has never worked a closing shift. UO - Back pockets should be moved to the lower front like cargo pants do. Subbredditer believes back pockets should be moved to the lower front like cargo pants. If you like it, you like it; if you don't, you don't. It shouldn't be a general rule. UO - Sleeping on the floor is better than any mattress.Subbredditer thinks sleeping on the floor is better than any mattress. No, thank you, unless you’re Tobias, cuz he would. ...Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90sTiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharmeEmail: [email protected]Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/...Hosts: Tobias & DedeProducer: TobiasWriter: DedeGraphic Designer: DedeEditor: Tobias
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She Can’t Fkn Stop Me!
In this episode, host Dede and Tobias explore the case of a runner getting hit with a baton and an 11-year-old arrested for prank-calling the police. Later, this duo will give their unfiltered opinion on some interesting Reddit posts, from family traditions to group projects. All this and more on Not Related.---(00:00:00) Introduction(00:00:50) Runner Hit With Baton.(00:07:54) 11-year old arrested for prank-calling 911.(00:19:07) AITA - For not following my husband’s family tradition? (00:29:50) AITA - For the way I told my wife she needs to be able to communicate during a potential emergency situation? (00:41:40) AITA - Friends all think I overstepped?(00:51:59) AITA - For calling my group project partner a know-it-all over her insistence on wasting time obstructing my work to show off?---Runner Hit With BatonA video of a high school track meet goes viral when a runner hits another participant on the back of the head with a baton. 11-year old arrested for pranking 911A video of the past resurfaces of an 11-year-old who prank calls 911 because of a YouTube challenge. AITA - For not following my husband’s family tradition? A married couple wonders if refusing to follow the family tradition of naming their first son Henry makes them an a**hole. The answer is no, and you know what? Be petty. Spell Henri with an i. AITA - For the way I told my wife she needs to be able to communicate during a potential emergency situation? Subbredditer wonders if telling his wife to communicate better during a potential emergency makes him wrong. No, your wife definitely could’ve communicated that whole situation better. AITA - Friends all think I overstepped?Subbredditer wonders if she overstepped. If you asked us, your priorities aren't even straight. AITA - For calling my group project partner a know-it-all over her insistence on wasting time obstructing my work to show off?Subbredditer wonders if calling a partner a know-it-all for obstructing his work to show off makes him an a**hole. We may not have understood everything you said, but we know group projects. Just prove your point by making your code. If it works, great. If it doesn’t, perhaps you owe your partner an apology. ---Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90sTiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharmeEmail: [email protected]: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/---Hosts: Tobias & DedeProducer: TobiasWriter: DedeGraphic Designer: Dede Editor: Tobias
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8 Feet Under
In this episode, host Tobias and Dede discuss a Best of Reddit Update where cancer isn’t the only lie the OP’s ex-partner told. Later this duo will analyze two classic Tyler Perry hits: Diary of a Mad Black Woman and I Can Do Bad All By Myself. All this and more on Not Related.---(00:00:00) Introduction(00:02:25) BORU - My partner left me so I told everyone he doesn’t have cancer.(00:31:37) Tyler Perry’s Diary of a Mad Black Woman(01:17:17) Tyler Perry’s I Can Do Bad All By Myself ---BORU - My partner left me so I told everyone he doesn’t have cancer.Subbredditer turns to the internet to vent after learning her partner cheated on her with multiple women. If only that were his only crime. At least this story is not a 52-part series. Diary of a Mad Black WomanA dramatic comedy that follows the story of a woman who, after discovering her husband's infidelity, must undergo a journey of self-discovery while confronted by her husband's cruel actions. I Can Do Bad All By MyselfA dramatic comedy that follows the life of a selfish singer who unexpectedly becomes the guardian of her sister's kids. ---Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90sTiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharmeEmail: [email protected]: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/--Hosts: Tobias & DedeProducer: TobiasWriter: DedeGraphic Designer: Dede Editor: Tobias
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Fell For It Again
In this episode, host Dede and Tobias explore the best that Reddit has to offer. From cheating co-workers to fiancé stealers, listen as this duo gives their unfiltered take on these stories. All this and more on Not Related. ---(00:00:00) Introduction(00:01:58) AITA: For reporting my coworker for cheating in the company walking competition? (00:20:24) AITA: For unintentionally causing my coworker’s marriage to implode?(00:37:08) AITA: For refusing to pay for my MIL deductible after she smashed the gift I gave her?(00:47:08) AITA: For refusing to attend my best friend’s wedding after she tried to steal my fiancé? ---AITA: For reporting my coworker for cheating in the company walking competition? & UpdateSubbredditer asks the internet if he is the a**hole for reporting his coworker for cheating in a company competition. Now, if you asked us, it would never be that serious. AITA: For unintentionally causing my coworker’s marriage to implode?Subbredditer wonders if ruining a marriage makes them the a**hole? Don’t let that sentence fool you. This OP had the unfortunate luck of getting caught in a messy situation. AITA: For refusing to pay for my MIL deductible after she smashed the gift I gave her?Subbredditer turns to the internet for advice after mother-in-law, who injures herself smashing a gift he gave her, asks her son-in-law to cover the hospital bill. If you've seen the mug, you'll understand completely…why that reaction was utterly unnecessary. Source: "Fell for It Again Award" Ceramic Mug – BOP MARTAITA: For refusing to attend my best friend’s wedding after she tried to steal my fiancé? Subbredditer wonders if refusing to attend her bestie's wedding is justifiable after the best friend tries to steal her fiancé. The real question is, "Why are you friends?" ---Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90sTiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharmeEmail: [email protected]: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/---Hosts: Tobias & DedeProducer: TobiasWriter: DedeGraphic Designer: DedeEditor: Tobias
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I Stole ALL My Girl’s Money To Gamble
In this episode, host Tobias and Dede explore the best that Reddit has to offer. From tough decisions to gambling, listen as this duo give their unfiltered take on these stories. All this and more on Not Related. ---(00:00:00) Introduction(00:19:10) AITA: For choosing to pick up a shift at work instead of going with my best friend to see her birth mother? (00:28:14) AITA: Posting homemade (adult films) from couple for additional resources; normal man & wife in their 40’s.(00:44:15) AITA: For tidying up in the bathroom while my girlfriend was in the shower?(00:52:50) AITA: for yelling at my boyfriend because he can't do adult tasks?(01:04:07) AITA: I gambled with my girlfriend's money and lied about it?---AITA: For choosing to pick up a shift at work instead of going with my best friend to see her birth mother? Subbredditor seeks advice regarding her decision to pick up a shift instead of coming along with her best friend to meet her birth mom. Listen, if you ask us, it’s not about you. AITA: Posting homemade (adult films) from couple for additional resources; normal man & wife in their 40’sThis is not a joke. Subbredditor wonders if venturing into amateur adult filmmaking would be a good way to earn another source of income. So, was Amazon not hiring? AITA: for tidying up in the bathroom while my girlfriend was in the shower?Subbredditor wonders why tidying up the bathroom while his girlfriend is in the shower makes him the a**hole. Sir, that wasn’t the problem, and you know it! AITA: for yelling at my boyfriend because he can't do adult tasks?Subbredditor turns to the internet for help regarding a partner incapable of doing adult tasks. Sometimes, you have to take a moment and think, “Do I wanna marry this man?” It saves a lot of time. AITA: I gambled with my girlfriend's money and lied about it?Subbredditor gambles his girlfriend’s money and lies about it. If you are wondering if he’s delulu? Yes, yes he is. ---Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90sTiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharmeEmail: [email protected]: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/---Hosts: Tobias & DedeProducer: TobiasWriter: DedeGraphic Designer: DedeEditor: Tobias
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Siri. How Do You Say Reciprocity?
In this episode, Dede and Tobias explore the best Reddit has to offer, from bold accusations to dating single dads. Later, this duo will examine the case of three children found living in squalor and A$AP Rocky, who was declared innocent on charges of felony assault. All this and more on Not Related. ---(00:00:00) Introduction(00:05:31) AITA: For treating my coworker differently after she accused me of SA when I saved her life?(00:18:16) AITA: For leaving a family gathering and taking the cake with me after getting my feelings hurt?(00:37:48) AITA: For not dating a single dad, even if he’s a victim? (00:53:24) Three Michigan children found living alone in “absolute squalor” after mother abandoned them for years.(01:17:15) A$AP Rocky found not guilty of felony assault charges.---AITA: For treating my coworker differently after she accused me of SA when I saved her life?Subbredditer wonders if establishing boundaries is petty after saving the life of a coworker who felt his life-saving measures were inappropriate. Spoiler Alert: They were not. AITA: For leaving a family gathering and taking the cake with me after getting my feelings hurt?Subbredditer turns to the internet for justification after taking back her cake after the lackluster support from her family after sharing some news. If you asked us, we would too. AITA: For not dating a single dad, even if he’s a victim?Subbredditer seeks advice from the internet after going on a date with a single father. Frankly, the date being a single father is the least concerning part of this story. Three Michigan children found living alone in “absolute squalor” after mother abandoned them for years.News coverage regarding a case of three children found living in squalor and of a mom that abandoned them for years. A horrible example of how all children deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children. A$AP Rocky found not guilty of felony assault charges.A$AP Rocky was found not guilty of felony assault charges. Wait, A$AP was charged? When did this happen? ---Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90sTiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharmeEmail: [email protected]: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/---Hosts: Tobias & DedeProducer: TobiasWriter: DedeGraphic Designer: DedeEditor: Tobias
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Edumacation
Episode SummaryFrom holding siblings accountable to worst boyfriends of the year, join hosts Tobias and Doná as this duo discusses trending Reddit stories. AITA: For “ruining” my sister’s life by exposing her?00:02:57AIO: Am I overreacting? Did I catch my husband cheating? 00:13:30AITA: For breaking up with my boyfriend because he made me hold his newborn nephew?00:34:40AITA: For not telling my situationship earlier that he wasn’t my first? 00:51:59AIITW: After getting angry at my boyfriend for letting his friend see me naked? 01:02:46Reddit Post One Subbredditer wonders if holding her sister accountable makes her a horrible sibling. Reddit Post Two Subbredditer catches her husband on OF. Does this make him a cheater? Reddit Post ThreeSubbredditer is concerned that her past does not justify her desire not to hold newborn babies. Reddit Post FourSubbredditer is curious if not telling her situationship that he is not her first was wrong. Honestly, that should be the least of her concerns. Reddit Post FiveSubbredditer turns to the internet for advice following the events of her boyfriend inviting friends over while she was naked in the hotel room. Reddit Post 1Reddit Post 2Reddit Post 3Reddit Post 4Reddit Post 5Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90sTiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharmeEmail: [email protected]: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/Hosts: Tobias & DonáProducer: TobiasWriter: DonáGraphic Designer: Doná Editor: Tobias
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Imma Pray For Our Relationship
Episode SummaryFrom disrespecting boundaries to audacious roommates, join Doná and Tobias as they explore and discuss trending stories on Reddit. AITA:For yelling at my friend when she took her nosy-ness regarding my girlfriend’s personal business too far?00:07:15AITA:For calling my friend an ugly pig?00:17:28AITA:For dressing too nice for a wedding00:33:30 AITA:For telling someone to stop making their insecurities my problem? 01:01:00WIBTA:If I started making my roommate pay half the bills even though it wasn’t what we initially agreed upon? 01:07:35Reddit Post One Subbredditer shares his frustration with the internet regarding a friend who insists she has the right to know everything regarding his partner’s personal situation.Reddit Post Two Subbredditer reaches a boiling point dealing with a friend whose actions are anything but friendly. Reddit Post ThreeSubbredditer wonders if she dressed too nice for a wedding she attended, only to realize it was never about the dress. Reddit Post FourSubbredditer shares an interesting confrontation she had with her ex’s partner. Reddit Post FiveSubbredditer considers making their roommate pay for their half of the bills after the Redditors' generosity was taken for granted.Reddit Post 1Reddit Post 2Reddit Post 3 andUpdateReddit Post 4Reddit Post 5Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90sTiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharmeEmail: [email protected]: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/Hosts: Tobias & DonáProducer: TobiasWriter: DonáGraphic Designer: Doná Editor: TobiasDiscussion Points
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It Was A Sh*tty Day
Episode Summary From cheating exposés to family betrayals, join Tobias and Doná as they explore and discuss stories from trending posts on Reddit. AITA: I caught my fiance hooking up with my sister while I’m pregnant and tomorrow I’m exposing everything at our family gathering. 00:05:00 AITA: For still being no contact with my brother after something that happened 4 years ago? 00:45:00 Should I have called the police on my dasher? 00:56:53 AITA: For not giving my trans daughter my mother’s ring? 01:17:03 Reddit Post One Subbredditer learns not all blood is family upon learning her fiance hooked up with her sister while she was pregnant. Reddit Post Two Subredditer wonders if he is wrong for going "no contact" with his brother for 4 years after his brother assaults him over a house chore. Reddit Post Three Subredditer shares a frightening tale of a dasher with possible horrible intentions. Reddit Post Four Subredditer wonders if his stance regarding a family heirloom makes him not just an a**hole but transphobic. Reddit Post 1 Reddit Post 2 Reddit Post 3 Reddit Post 4 Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90s Tiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharme Email: [email protected] Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/ Hosts: Tobias & Doná Producer: Tobias Writer: Doná Graphic Designer: Doná Editor: Tobias Discussion Points
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Hello, 911? The WiFi’s Down.
Episode Summary From wedding dramas to homophobic relatives, join Tobias and Doná as they explore and discuss stories from trending subreddits on Reddit. AITA: For not inviting my childhood best friend to my wedding because I don’t feel close to her anymore? 00:02:11 AITA: For reporting my mom for fraud on food stamps 00:23:17 AITA: For throwing out my flatmate’s rice cooker and clearing out her part of the fridge after she left the country to go home for Christmas? 00:31:18 AITA: For refusing to babysit after my sister demanded I stop bringing my boyfriend to family events? 00:43:56 AITA: For coming out in the family group chat, and pressuring my younger brother to come out after my sister said something awful? 00:55:50 Reddit Post One Subredditer is concern that not inviting her childhood best friend to her wedding because of the lack of connection makes her the a**hole. So, does it? Reddit Post Two Subredditer turns to the internet to voice her frustration with her mother, who claims the Redditor's brother on taxes and food stamps when she's the one that solely provides for him. Reddit Post Three Subredditer shares her last straw with her flatmate’s cleanliness via tossing out the rice cooker. Throwing out rice cookers? In this economy? Reddit Post Four Subredditer asks the internet if he's wrong for refusing to babysit his sister's kid because she doesn't want his boyfriend to attend any more family events. Spoiler Alert: The group chat is the true culprit! Reddit Post Five Subredditer wonders if he is in the wrong for pressuring his brother to come out after sharing his sexuality in the family group chat after his sister reveals her thoughts on the matter. Spoiler Alert: The group chat strikes again! Reddit Post 1 Reddit Post 2 Reddit Post 3 Reddit Post 4 Reddit Post 5 Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90s Tiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharme Email: [email protected] Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/ Hosts: Tobias & Doná Producer: Tobias Writer: Doná Graphic Designer: Doná Editor: Tobias
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Yo! OP deleted the first story!
Episode Summary Join Tobias and Doná as they explore and discuss stories from trending subreddits on Reddit. AITA: I hurt my wife but I want to make it up to her 00:02:00 AITA: For farting when my co-worker wouldn’t go away 00:14:42 AITA: For refusing to learn my boyfriend's parents language 00:21:16 AITA: For refusing to invite my boyfriend’s childhood best friend 00:35:25 AITA: Bonus Story! For not revealing gender or names to family & friends for my future child 00:50:30 Reddit Post One Subredditer confesses to the internet regarding his failing marriage after he realizes his actions have hurt his wife and wonders if there's something he can do to fix his relationship. Spoiler Alert: No. Reddit Post Two Subredditer awkwardly shares how farting stops a co-worker from harassing him at work. Mind you, the co-worker was very persistent! Reddit Post Three Subredditer turns to the internet for advice, wondering if she is wrong for refusing to learn a language for her boyfriend's family in two weeks. Reddit Post Four Subredditer turns to the internet for advice when she learns that her boyfriend's childhood best friend secretly spites her and her relationship. In light of this revelation, the subredditer doesn't want to invite the best friend to the wedding. Reddit Post Five Subredditer recognizes that her friends and family are guilty of oversharing on the internet and decides not to reveal the gender or name of her baby to them. Is she in the wrong? Reddit Post 1 Reddit Post 2 Reddit Post 3 Reddit Post 4 Reddit Post 5 Instagram: @cloudbias and @not_related90s Tiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharme Email: [email protected] Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotRelatedPod/ Hosts: Tobias & Doná Producer: Tobias Writer: Doná Graphic Designer: Doná Editor: Tobias
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Spoiler Alert: You’re Not Overreacting
Episode Summary Join Doná and Tobias as they share their opinions on trending or even controversial stories of the internet. Tune in for the hot takes, stay for the vibes. AIO: My (23M) girlfriend (25F) went up to my best friend's apartment and let him into the bathroom with her. 00:03:42 THT: my best friend accidentally sent me a text about secretly hating me 00:12:58 Viral Internet Drama: Kai Cenat and Magician Major 00:45:33 Reddit Post One Subredditer turns to the internet for advice as he ponders his reaction to learning that his girlfriend lets his male best friend into the bathroom with her. Reddit Post Two Subredditer shares her heartache with the internet after learning how her best friend truly feels about her from an accidentally sent text. Viral Internet Drama Kai Cenat gets caught in a disturbing prank during his livestream, where he unknowingly hangs Max Major, a YouTube magician, from a noose. Reddit Post 1 Reddit Post 2 and Update Viral Internet Drama Instagram: @cloudbias Tiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharme Email: [email protected] Hosts: Tobias & Doná Producer: Tobias Writer: Doná Graphic Designer: Doná Editor: Tobias
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Are WE the A**Holes???
Episode Summary This episode features host Tobias alongside co-host Doná exploring and discussing stories from trending subreddits off of the social news network Reddit. AITA: Am I wrong for leaving my boyfriend for “doing his friend a favor?” 00:00:00 AITA: For suggesting my teacher host my son’s party at her house? 00:00:00 AITA: For asking my roommates to stop having overnight guests? 00:00:00 AITA: For telling my half-sister she doesn’t deserve my mom’s necklace? 00:00:00 Reddit Post One Subredditer questions if leaving the boyfriend was an a**hole move after learning he slept with his lesbian friend. Reddit Post Two Subredditer wonders if she is the a**hole after the teacher tries to convince her to accept all students to attend her son’s birthday in a bid for “fairness.” Reddit Post Three Subredditer seeks advice from the internet regarding horrible roommates that allow guests to stay past their extended welcome. Reddit Post Four: Subredditer seeks advice from the internet wondering if her mom made the right decision giving a family heirloom to her half sister, who is also the daughter of an affair. Reddit Post 1 Reddit Post 2 Reddit Post 3 Reddit Post 4 Instagram: @cloudbias Tiktok: @cloudbias and @mintycharme Email: [email protected] Hosts: Tobias & Doná Producer: Tobias Writer: Doná Graphic Designer: Doná Editor: Tobias
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Not Related is a podcast where two lifelong best friends—who call each other siblings—share their unfiltered takes on Reddit’s “Am I the Asshole” posts, pop culture, and music. Every Tuesday, we dive into juicy dilemmas, trending topics, and the songs we can’t stop playing—all with plenty of laughs and sibling-style banter. Tune in for the hot takes, stay for the vibes.
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