Not That You Care....

You know those late-night moments where everything feels a little too quiet and suddenly you’re hit with that heavy feeling—like you’re completely alone in the world? Like no one gets you, or there’s no one to talk to? Yeah... I've been there. But is that really the truth, or is it just our inner demons doing what they do best—messing with our heads?In this episode, I’m unpacking that feeling of late-night loneliness we all experience at some point. I’m getting into why it creeps up on us, what it actually means, and how we can gently remind ourselves that we’re not as alone as we think. If you've ever spiraled in the dark hours or felt like no one understands you—this one’s for you.

In our mundane lives, we are always supposed to be sane, but what if being delulu is the right answer? In this episode, I’m diving into the idea that being a little delulu (delusional, if you must) isn’t something to avoid—it might actually be your superpower. I’ve been living by the motto “being delulu is the solulu” for a while now, and honestly? It’s changed the way I approach life, goals, and confidence. So let’s unpack what this mindset really means, how it can help you manifest bigger things, and why leaning into a bit of self-made fantasy might just be the most empowering move you make. Let’s get into it.

We’ve all heard the phrase “trust the process” at some point—and if you're my friend, you’ve probably heard me say it a hundred times (sorry, love you all <3).But what if we flip it? Can the process trust us? What does that even mean? Is there a smarter way to navigate life—or should we just embrace being delulu (honestly, my favorite coping mechanism)?In this episode, I deep-dive into my impulsive thoughts, spin some fake scenarios, and test out my personal life theories (or nonsense—your call). So if you’ve got your coffee, matcha, or chaotic drink of choice, settle in… let’s yap.

You stumbled home, your feet hurt, and your soul needs that one meal to make it all worth it. This episode is a love letter to the ugly-delicious foods that get it—the 3am kebabs, the cold pizza you defend like family, the convenience-store taquitos that technically count as culture.We’re breaking down the science of why trash food tastes like heaven after tequila, and why no ‘adulting’ meal will ever hit the same.Turn this up while you’re elbow-deep in fries. 🍟🔥 #NoRegretsJustRanch

As the older daughter, I always thought I had a say in everything. Sound familiar? If you’re someone with a strong sense of responsibility, a tendency to people-please, or a drive to overachieve—while also battling anxiety, depression, or difficulty in relationships—you might be experiencing older daughter syndrome. And guess what? You’re not alone.In this episode, I’m diving deep into what it means to be the older daughter. From carrying the weight of emotional labor to constantly striving for perfection, I’ll share my personal experiences and reflections on how this role has shaped me. Whether you’re an older daughter yourself or just curious about the dynamics of family roles, this episode is for you.Let’s unpack the pressures, celebrate the strengths, and remind ourselves that it’s okay to put down the weight of the world sometimes. You’re not alone in this, my lovely listeners. 💜If you want to reach out to me you can follow my instagram: notthatyoucarepodcast

Not everyone is a fan of horror movies—and honestly, I get it. They’re scary, intense, and can leave you with nightmares for days. But if you’ve ever wanted to dip your toes into the world of horror without losing sleep, this episode is for you.As someone who lives alone and bravely watches horror movies in the middle of the night (yes, really), I’ve curated a list of tips to help you build your horror movie tolerance. Think of it like a workout: you start small, build your strength, and before you know it, you’re ready to conquer even the scariest films.Whether you’re a horror newbie or just looking for ways to enjoy the genre without the sleepless nights, this episode is packed with practical advice and a few laughs along the way. Let’s turn those screams of fear into screams of excitement, my lovely listeners! 

Living alone has always been one of my biggest dreams—just ask kid me! But now that I’ve been doing it for a while, I’ve realized it’s not all sunshine and rainbows. Sure, there are incredible perks (hello, freedom!), but there are also challenges I never saw coming—like the time I spent three days talking to my plants because I was so lonely. 🌱In this episode, I’m digging deep into the highs and lows of solo living. From the “I’m finally free!” moments to the “why did no one warn me about this?!” struggles, I’ll share my honest thoughts and hard-earned advice. Whether you’re already living alone, dreaming of independence, or just curious about the realities, this episode is for you.Plus, I’ll give you a sneak peek into how I’ve learned to thrive on my own (and why you should do a SWOT analysis before taking the plunge). Let’s navigate this journey together, my lovely listeners! 💜

Hello, my lovely listeners! 🌟 This episode is for the mundanes who struggle to get out of bed in the morning, and for the plot-driven souls who live for the chaos. No matter which category you fall into (or if you’re a little bit of both like me), I guarantee there’s something in this episode that’ll speak to your heart—or at least make you laugh. 💜In this episode, I’m sharing my personal way to stay motivated. Whether you’re looking for a little inspiration, a relatable rant, or just some good vibes, I’ve got you covered. Let’s get through this together—one motivational (or unmotivated) step at a time.Ready to kickstart your day (or just laugh about how hard it is to adult)? Let’s dive in! 🎙️

By the power given to me (by me), I am announcing the Barbie Movie rankings. From Pink Perfection to OW NOOO. There was a lot to cover, and I probably didn't cover all of it but, let me know in the comments what was your favourite one. And until the next time XOXO...

The Prince Charming, saviour we are all waiting for? But does that reflect the reality? Do we really need that person, or can we actually solve our own problems? In this episode, I dive deep into the methodology of Prince Charming. As your dear host, I know that all of you can be your own saviour. But I am wondering about your thoughts on this as well, so hit me up in the comments or DM me.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notthatyoucarepodcast/

Welcome to the first episode of Not That You Care…! Today, we’re talking about This Is My First Life—because let’s be real, we’re all just winging it. From messy firsts and embarrassing mistakes to the pressure of perfectionism, this episode is a reminder that it’s okay to not have it all together. Whether this is your first life or your fifth (hey, reincarnation believers), we’re all just figuring it out as we go. Join me as I reflect on the lessons we can carry into our next life (if there is one), and remind you why it’s okay to embrace the messiness of being human. So, if you’ve ever felt lost, overwhelmed, or like you’re failing at life, this one’s for you. After all, this is your first life—let’s make it a good one. Or at least a funny one.

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