NOT WHAT I EXPECTED

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NOT WHAT I EXPECTED

The honest side of pregnancy and parenthood.

  1. 30

    #30 Honest Parenthood: Why did no one warn me about this?

    This side of pregnancy and parenting is rarely discussed. In this episode, we explore why honesty about babies and children is missing.

  2. 29

    #29 Life Change After Baby: Why does this feel so big?

    Having a baby reshapes everything. In this episode, we explore why pregnancy and parenthood feel like a total life shift.

  3. 28

    #28 Post-Pregnancy Body Pressure: Why do I feel pressure to bounce back?

    Body pressure starts before birth. In this episode, we explore recovery myths and expectations placed on parents.

  4. 27

    #27 Confidence in Pregnancy: Why does my self-trust feel shaky?

    Pregnancy challenges confidence. In this episode, we explore why self-trust drops during the transition into parenthood.

  5. 26

    #26 Parent Comparison: Why do I compare my baby to others?

    Comparison is constant in parenting. In this episode, we explore babies, children, milestones, and social pressure.

  6. 25

    #25 Responsibility of Parenthood: Why does everything feel heavier?

    Parenthood adds weight to life. In this episode, we explore responsibility and pressure around raising children.

  7. 24

    #24 Emotional Invisibility in Parenthood: Why do I feel unseen?

    Pregnancy brings attention, but not always care. In this episode, we explore emotional invisibility in parenthood.

  8. 23

    #23 Pregnancy Time Perception: Why does time feel strange?

    Pregnancy changes how time feels. In this episode, we explore waiting, urgency, and anticipation before the baby arrives.

  9. 22

    #22 Fear of Parenthood: Why am I afraid of what comes next?

    The transition into parenthood feels overwhelming. In this episode, we explore fear of life with a baby and raising a child.

  10. 21

    #21 Rest in Pregnancy: Why doesn’t rest help anymore?

    Rest doesn’t restore parents. In this episode, we explore mental load and exhaustion during pregnancy and early parenthood.

  11. 20

    #20 Parenting Doubt: Why do I feel like I’m doing this wrong?

    Parenting doubt starts early. In this episode, we explore why pregnancy triggers fear about being a good parent.

  12. 19

    #19 Pregnancy Body Boundaries: Why does everyone comment on my body?

    Pregnancy makes the body public. In this episode, we explore boundaries, body comments, and loss of privacy for expectant parents.

  13. 18

    #18 Pregnancy Anxiety Why do I worry even when things are fine?

    Anxiety is common in pregnancy. In this episode, we explore background stress and fear about the baby and parenting.

  14. 17

    #17 Pregnancy Emotions: Can love and irritation coexist?

    Loving your baby and feeling irritated can coexist. In this episode, we explore emotional ambivalence in pregnancy and parenthood.

  15. 16

    #16 Identity & Parenthood Why do I miss who I was before?

    Losing your old self is part of parenthood. In this episode, we explore identity loss and transition into life with a child.

  16. 15

    #15 Hard Pregnancy Why is this harder than expected?

    Pregnancy and parenthood feel harder than imagined. In this episode, we explore expectation gaps and emotional shock.

  17. 14

    #14 Parent Identity: Who am I becoming during pregnancy?

    Pregnancy reshapes identity. In this episode, we explore who you are becoming as a parent before the child arrives.

  18. 13

    #13 Parenthood Pressure: Why do I feel behind already?

    Parenting timelines feel everywhere. In this episode, we explore pressure around pregnancy milestones, babies, and children’s development.

  19. 12

    #12 Pregnancy Advice Overload: Why does everyone have an opinion?

    Pregnancy invites constant advice. In this episode, we unpack why parents lose autonomy over choices about their baby and child.

  20. 11

    #11 Pregnancy Expectations: Why do I feel pressure to be grateful?

    Gratitude is expected during pregnancy. In this episode, we explore how baby-centered narratives silence honest emotions.

  21. 10

    #10 Relationships & Pregnancy: Why does my partner feel distant?

    Pregnancy changes relationships. In this episode, we explore emotional distance, shifting roles, and connection between partners before becoming parents.

  22. 9

    #9 Pregnancy Emotions: Why do small things make me cry?

    Emotions feel intense during pregnancy. In this episode, we explore hormonal shifts, stress, and emotional overload in expectant parents.

  23. 8

    #8 Pregnancy Fatigue: Why am I always exhausted?

    Pregnancy fatigue goes beyond sleep. In this episode, we explore physical exhaustion, mental load, and emotional fatigue before and after having a baby.

  24. 7

    #7 Loneliness in Pregnancy: Why do I feel so alone?

    Pregnancy can feel isolating even with support. In this episode, we explore emotional loneliness during pregnancy and early parenthood.

  25. 6

    #6 Pregnancy Guilt: Why do I feel bad for not enjoying this?

    Pregnancy is supposed to feel magical. In this episode, we explore guilt and unrealistic expectations placed on parents before the baby is born.

  26. 5

    #5 Pregnancy Comparison: Why do other parents seem calmer?

    Other parents look confident and calm. In this episode, we explore how comparison during pregnancy and parenthood creates pressure and emotional isolation.

  27. 4

    #4 Before Parenthood: Why do I miss my old life already?

    Missing life before parenthood starts early. In this episode, we explore why pregnancy brings grief for freedom, independence, and your pre-baby identity.

  28. 3

    #3 Pregnancy Body Changes: Why doesn’t my body feel like mine?

    Your body changes fast during pregnancy. In this episode, we explore how physical changes affect body image, identity, and self-trust before becoming a parent.

  29. 2

    #2 Pregnancy Anxiety: Why am I scared instead of happy?

    Fear shows up where happiness was expected. In this episode, we unpack why pregnancy and the transition into parenthood trigger anxiety about the baby and family life.

  30. 1

    #1 Pregnancy: Why don’t I feel excited about the baby?

    Not feeling joy during pregnancy when you’re expecting a baby? In this episode, we explore why excitement doesn’t always appear in early pregnancy and why many parents feel disconnected before the child arrives.

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The honest side of pregnancy and parenthood.

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