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Ok Mom Podcast
by Ok Mom Podcast
OK, Mom is a podcast hosted by two friends, Hina and Uruje. Two Pakistani girls talking about motherhood, life, and everything in between. It's probably taboo, they might talk some s***, but Hina and Uruje just say it like it is, no filter.Tune in every Wednesday for your hump day escape.
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Men Will Never Understand...(Pt.2)
Part 2 is HERE, and the submissions just keep getting better. 😭 We asked our community to finish the sentence "Men will never understand…" and we are still processing. In this episode, we're diving into round two of your most relatable, funniest, and honestly most cathartic answers. Want Part 1? That's a Patreon exclusive, bestie. 🤍 Link below.Subscribe to Patreon
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I Married You...Not This Habit
In this episode, we dive into the little habits no one warns you about the ones you never even realized would bother you until after saying “I do.” From oddly specific routines to everyday quirks that slowly become impossible to ignore, we share our personal discoveries and the surprising things that tested our patience in marriage. It’s honest, funny, and maybe a little too relatable. If you’ve ever thought, “I didn’t know this would annoy me this much,” this episode is for you.
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Dating Apps Would Be Better If...
Let’s be honest: dating apps feel less like a "romance tool" and more like a second job where the boss is mean and the pay is zero. We asked you how to make them better, and you didn't hold back.This week, we’re putting the developers on blast. No more "AI matchmakers" or "premium gold tiers" we’re talking about the real-world fixes that would actually make us stop wanting to delete our accounts every Sunday night.
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The Tipping Point in Love & Friendship Pt.2
Part 2 is where it gets even more real.If you haven’t seen Part 1 yet, it’s available now on our Patreon make sure to subscribe for an extra episode every week and all the unfiltered conversations we don’t post anywhere else. https://www.patreon.com/c/OkMomPodcastIn this episode, we go deeper into what happens after you realize things aren’t equal, setting boundaries, pulling your energy back, and navigating the guilt that comes with choosing yourself. We also get into your stories, and some of them yeah, they hit hard.This is your reminder that relationships should feel mutual, not draining.Tap in, and don’t forget to check out Part 1 on Patreon.0:00 INTRO0:01 Push presents & coffee4:30 Meri Zindagi Hai Tu 24:35 After having kids29:06 Physical affection39:20 When I stopped putting in effort
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Craziest Backhanded Compliments Pt.2
In Part 2 of this fan-favourite series, we’re diving even deeper into the wild world of backhanded compliments, those sneaky remarks that sound nice… until they really don’t. 😅After the overwhelming response to Part 1 on Patreon, you all delivered again with some of the most outrageous, hilarious, and downright brutal “compliments” we’ve ever heard. From accidental insults to perfectly disguised shade, we’re reading and reacting to the submissions that left you confused, offended, or just laughing in disbelief.
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Unfiltered Inbox Pt. 2
In today’s episode, we dive straight into the inbox and unpack YOUR dilemmas, wild scenarios, and “what would you do?” moments. From messy relationships to awkward situations and tough life choices, nothing is off limits.We’re giving our honest takes, a little tough love, and maybe some questionable advice along the way 👀Got a situation you need help with? Send it in for a chance to be featured in a future episode.Sit back, relax, and let’s get into it.
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What I’d Never Tell My Family Pt. 2
Welcome back to the wild ride! In this Part 2 of our series, we're diving even deeper into the secrets that could send our families spiraling, except this time, the stakes are even higher. From unexpected confessions to downright shocking revelations, we’re taking you behind the curtain of what really goes on in our lives that no one can ever know.You won’t believe some of these secrets (seriously, some of us might have to change our names after this). Get ready for more laughs, more jaw-dropping moments, and more "wait, you did WHAT?" reactions.Warning: This episode might make you rethink your own family dynamics... or at least what you don't tell them. 😅
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Tough Seasons of Life We Appreciate Now Pt. 2
Part 2 is here! For part 1, head on over to our Patreon.In this episode, we dive deeper into the tough seasons of life, the moments that felt heavy, confusing, or even unbearable at the time… but somehow shaped us into who we are today.It’s easy to question everything when you’re in the middle of it. But looking back, those struggles often carry the lessons, growth, and unexpected blessings we couldn’t see before.If you’re going through a tough chapter right now, this one’s for you. You’re not alone, and we hope we can make you laugh a little. Or alot.
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Worst Advice You've Received Pt. 2
In this episode, we asked a simple question that led to some wild stories: “What’s the worst advice you’ve ever received?” From terrible tips and questionable relationship guidance to the kind of life advice that sounds good… but goes completely wrong 😅We break down the funniest, most ridiculous, and surprisingly relatable answers, and talk about why bad advice spreads so easily, and how to spot it before it ruins your day (or your life).Expect honest stories, a few debates, and plenty of laughs along the way.🎧 Tune in and let us know in the comments: what’s the worst advice YOU’ve ever gotten?
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Intrusive Thoughts Pt. 2
In this episode, we asked one bold (and slightly chaotic) question:“What’s an intrusive thought you’ve wanted to say to your partner?"And let’s just say the answers did NOT disappoint.From hilarious relationship confessions to brutally honest “I can’t believe I almost said that” moments, we dive into the unfiltered thoughts we all have but rarely admit out loud. Are intrusive thoughts harmless? Should you always be honest? Or are some things better left unsaid?Whether you're in a long-term relationship, newly dating, or single and just here for the chaos, this episode is painfully relatable.
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Who Are These BILs & SILs Pt.2
In this episode, we’re talking all about BILs and SILs, the brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law who bring the spice, the sweetness, and sometimes the stress to family life 😅.Are in-laws supposed to feel like real siblings?What happens when loyalty gets complicated?How do you keep the peace without losing your mind?Whether you love your in-laws, tolerate them, or are still figuring it out… this episode is for you.Get ready for relatable stories, honest conversations, and a few laughs along the way.
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From the Archives: Toxic Aunties & Uncles Pt.2
We’re back with Part 2 because apparently, the aunties held a committee meeting and decided we’re still not doing enough with our lives. If you’re South Asian, you already know no wedding, birthday, or random Sunday lunch is safe. One minute you’re reaching for samosas, the next you’re being audited about your career, your relationship status, your weight, and why your cousin’s son is suddenly the blueprint for success. In this episode, we’re diving into the fine art of “beta, it’s just concern,” decoding the legendary “log kya kahenge,” and unpacking why every life update turns into a competitive sport.It’s chaotic, it’s too real, and yes, we’re laughing through the trauma. If you’ve ever mastered the skill of fake smiling while being emotionally cross-examined at a shaadi, this one’s for you.
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From the Archives: The Hardest Moments in Marriage
Marriage isn’t always easy; even the strongest couples face moments that challenge their patience, trust, and connection. In this episode, we dive into the toughest times partners encounter, from major disagreements to life’s unexpected stresses, and share honest insights on navigating them together.Join us as we explore real stories, practical advice, and strategies for turning challenges into growth. Every marriage has its ups and downs, and understanding the hardest moments is key to building a stronger, lasting partnership.
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From the Archives: Desi Bridal Industry
We’re revisiting one of our earlier episodes, where we delve into the Desi bridal industry, exploring the pressure to conform to a certain aesthetic, as well as the expectations placed on brides, their families, and vendors alike.In this episode, we unpack the realities behind the glam:• Unrealistic standards• Cultural and family pressures• The business of weddings in South Asian communities• How tradition, money, and expectations intersectLet us know your thoughts in the comments and share this with someone who needs to hear it!
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They Came for My Rishta and Said What?
If you’ve ever sat through a rishta meeting and thought “there’s no way this is real life,” this episode is for you.We’re unpacking the most unhinged, shocking, and downright hilarious things people say and do during the rishta process. From wildly inappropriate questions to surprise demands no one warned you about, we’re sharing stories that prove matchmaking is truly a contact sport.In this episode, we get into:The audacity of some rishta questions (age, weight, salary, and even vibes?)Things elders say with a straight face that leave everyone speechlessWhether you’re deep in the rishta trenches, happily married, or just here for the chaos, this one will have you cringing, laughing, and saying “omg SAME” the whole way through.Warm up your chai, mute the family group chat, and press play, because they really came for the rishta and said that.
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Episode 125: Why Do My In-Laws Do This?
In this episode, we dive into the wonderfully baffling world of in-laws and the things they do that are just… weird. From unsolicited “helpful” advice and strange house rules to boundary-blurring habits and traditions no one can explain. We’re sharing the moments that make you lock eyes with your partner and silently ask, “Is this normal?” Expect laughs, mild secondhand embarrassment, and the comforting reminder that if your in-laws are odd, you are definitely not alone.aughter
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Episode 124: Desis & Marital Expectations
In this episode, we’re talking about Desi marital expectations, specifically the complicated, often unspoken dynamics between families and daughters-in-law after marriage. We unpack the problematic ways DILs are sometimes “managed,” corrected, or controlled, while also holding space for the very real pressures and emotional labour DILs carry. This isn’t about blaming, it’s about understanding, questioning tradition, and imagining healthier ways forward.0:00 INTRO3:23 Hot dogs8:54 Saba Faisal 18:23 The wedding dress debacle25:38 Sacrificial lambs39:59 Hear, Speak, See no evil51:33 Shaadis59:24 The host
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Millenials vs. Gen Z
Remember when we used to burn CDs, memorize phone numbers, and survive without WiFi? 😭In this episode, we’re taking a trip down millennial memory lane and talking about things we did that Gen Z would never do, and honestly, shouldn’t have had to. From chaotic tech habits to unhinged social norms, we compare notes on how fast the culture has shifted. We also get into a very Desi topic: how in our culture we rarely say “I love you”… we say other things instead. You sent in your responses, and they’re equal parts hilarious, wholesome, and painfully relatable. Get ready for nostalgia, generational chaos, and the kind of love that shows up as “Did you eat?” instead.
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Boundaries We're Setting in 2026 Pt. 1.5
New year, new energy, new limits. In this episode, we’re talking about the boundaries we’re setting going into 2026: with friends, family, school/work, social media, and ourselves. No more over-explaining, no more people-pleasing, and no more burning ourselves out to keep everyone else comfortable.We get real about:• Saying no without guilt• Protecting our peace• Outgrowing old habits and expectations• Choosing ourselves (finally)If you’re entering 2026 with clearer standards and less tolerance for nonsense, this episode is for you.
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Hey Younger Self...Don't Do That
If time travel were real, this episode would be chaotic. “Hey Younger Self, Don’t Do That,” we laugh (and cringe) at past decisions, unpack what we learned from them, and talk about how those moments shaped who we are today. Equal parts funny, honest, and eye-opening.
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Caught in the Moment
Ever witnessed something so awkward, funny, or shocking that the person had no idea you were watching? In this episode, we ask the question: What’s something you saw someone do that they didn’t know you saw? From accidental confessions to moments that can never be unseen, we share stories that prove some things really do happen when no one thinks anyone’s looking.
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Hot Takes with Ok, Mom
Welcome back!In today’s episode, we’re diving into the opinions no one asked for, but everyone secretly wants to hear. From questionable life choices to pop-culture chaos, we’re serving up hot takes so spicy they might melt your screen. Grab a snack, buckle up, and prepare to disagree (or agree way too hard).🔥 Drop your own hot take in the comments!0:00 INTRO4:45 Riddle Me This8:53 Uruje’s hot take13:44 Bye bye wifi19:29 Wokeness24:42 Health40:09 SRK41:13 Nutella42:00 Pakistani desserts44:52 Kaala namak (black salt)45:18 Marriage49:00 Swifties53:44 Emotional boys
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Worst Rejections Ever!
In this episode, we dive into your most painful, hilarious, and downright unbelievable rejection stories. From the petty to the heartbreaking, to those that made us question humanity, we read through your submissions and react in real time.Expect:– Storytimes that will make you laugh, cringe, and scream “NO WAY.”– Our honest reactions and questionable commentary.– A reminder that if you’ve ever been rejected… you’re definitely not alone.Got a story you want us to read next time? Drop it in our inbox!Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share the chaos.0:00 INTRO2:15 The tiffin lady7:41 Wayward15:12 Our worst rejections 24:27 Bro led me on25:32 Dating in high school36:43 🤮38:42 Ghosting culture46:21 Hugs from the kids 49:38 She doesn’t laugh52:21 Bhai zoned
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Underrated Green Flags
In this episode, we’re flipping the script on the usual dating chatter. Instead of obsessing over red flags, we’re shining a light on the underrated green flags, those subtle, often-overlooked behaviours that signal someone is emotionally mature, genuinely kind, and worth investing in.From the quiet confidence that shows up in small decisions, to the way someone handles discomfort, to the surprisingly rare art of being consistent without making a show of it, we’re breaking down the traits that actually build healthy, long-term connections.Join us as we explore what these green flags look like in real life, why they matter more than the flashy stuff, and how to spot them early. You might just rethink your entire “type.”
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Funniest Family Moments
We asked for the funniest family stories, and you DELIVERED.From legendary sibling fails to parents causing chaos, this episode had us crying with laughter.Drop your funniest family moment in the comments!0:00 INTRO3:11 Pets14:30 My moms makeover21:23 Dad jokes23:22 I sneezed24:55 My BIL walked in30:39 The Eid cake32:50 The wedding video 35:31 Titanic37:25 Family movie night39:08 Bollywood
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Things We Do Now That Our Parents Would Call "Besharam"
What’s something you do now that your parents would 100% call besharam? This week, we’re diving into all the things that would make our desi parents clutch their pearls, from dating to dressing “too modern,” to just… existing differently than they did 😅We asked YOU to share your most besharam confessions, and honestly, some of these answers had us crying with laughter and shame at the same time.0:00 INTRO2:42 Alfaaz Art6:50 Hubby’s real name12:17 Sit next to hubby14:37 Water please16:15 Period!17:16 Talking back22:57 Baby voice26:09 Tampons27:05 No dupatta31:30 Husband heats dinner32:21 Swimwear36:43 Affection in front of kids37:13 Kissing scenes38:08 Comb your hair41:18 Piercings46:13 Showing skin47:44 Say no
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Bizarre Family Rules: From Parents to In-Laws
Ever had a rule growing up that made no sense at all? Or maybe your in-laws have some…interesting household traditions? In this episode, we’re sharing the weirdest, funniest, and most confusing rules our parents and in-laws ever made us follow. From “no shoes in the house” to “don’t whistle at night,” nothing’s off the table!Grab a snack, settle in, and get ready to laugh (and cringe) with us. Drop your own weird family rules in the comments 0:00 INTRO3:14 Shoes in the house7:18 Men get food first12:01 Shower once a week15:00 Periods22:49 No sleepovers25:58 Parents said no32:03 Siblings over your wife34:28 Can’t be sick35:45 6 dinner sets37:50 Black salt38:32 Hugs40:07 No locks41:40 Pick up the phone43:27 Maxi dresses and leggings
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Unhinged Scenarios Pt. 1.5
In this episode, we dive into your submissions, the weird, the relatable, and the downright impossible “what would you do?” situations. From family fallouts to moral grey areas and chaotic life choices, we offer our completely unfiltered takes and discuss them like we would over a late-night chat.If you enjoy hearing us overthink your life choices (and our own), don’t forget to like, comment your take, and subscribe for more every week!0:00 INTRO1:45 Translate to English8:30 I can’t take care of you 11:34 Unlock the WhatsApp15:41 My mom ruined things20:07 The rishta is coming!26:32 Keeping the wedding presents43:08 Torn between marriage and in-laws45:01 The roommates phase
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Spill the Inbox Pt. 1.5
In this episode, we’re diving into your questions and spilling the tea on the wildest scenarios you sent our way. From hilarious hypotheticals to real-life dilemmas, nothing is off-limits. We asked, you delivered, now it’s time to unpack the chaos. Let’s get into it!Got more questions or stories for a future episode? Drop them in the comments!Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell so you never miss the madness.0:00 INTRO4:56 Nurse someone’s baby8:58 Emotional blackmail16:41 You’re getting fat18:09 Mend the in-law relationship?20:28 Yo mama25:21 She stole the dance27:12 Property name29:56 I don’t want to work!38:27 Father or Husband?46:41 “Women were meant to suffer”51:20 She told my mom
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Desi Wedding Woes
We asked YOU what you can’t stand about Desi weddings… and let’s just say, the responses were on another levelIn this episode, we’re talking about all the things no one wants to say out loud, from the never-ending functions and sky-high costs to rishta aunties, judgmental relatives, and that one cousin who thinks they own the dance floor. 😩💬 We’re reading your submissions, sharing our own hot takes, and breaking down why Desi weddings can be both magical AND a total headache.
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Post-partum Stories
In this episode, we read postpartum stories submitted by you, our community. From moments of deep anxiety to unexplained feelings, loneliness, and emotional overwhelm, these are the real experiences of parents navigating life after birth.We also open up about our own journeys through postpartum, what surprised us, what scared us, and what we wish someone had told us.This isn’t about scaring anyone. It’s about honesty.
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ACOTAR: The Final Chapter
SURPRISE! We’re dropping a bonus episode because we just couldn’t wait to talk about the final chapters of A Court of Thorns and Roses . And let’s just say… it’s a ride. 😅In this episode, we break down all the twists, turns, and emotional moments of the ending, with plenty of wild theories, dramatic reenactments, and uncontrollable laughter along the way. If here for the fae chaos, this one’s for you.
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Desis and the Double Standard
In this episode, we're unpacking the double standards that run deep in Desi culture, especially when it comes to gender, family expectations, dating, marriage, and the pressure to live a life that pleases everyone but yourself. From the way boys and girls are raised, to the unspoken rules around reputation, sacrifice, and silence. We're naming the things that have long gone unchallenged.It's honest, it’s personal, and it’s probably going to hit close to home. Let’s get into it.
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Divorce
In this episode, we’re diving into the outrageous, uncomfortable, and straight-up WILD things people say during a divorce or separation. We're reading the jaw-dropping, and painfully relatable responses you sent in, and sharing a few of our own stories along the way. If you’ve been through it, you’ll definitely feel seen, and if not, you might just be shocked at what people think is okay to say. To everyone going through the divorce or separation journey, we wish you every happiness.
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Words That Stick: Things People Said That Never Left Us
Some words lift us. Others leave scars. In this episode, we're talking about the things people said, good, bad, or downright brutal, that we never forgot. From off-hand insults that haunted us for years, to unexpected praise that changed our path, we're exploring the power of words and why some stick with us long after they were spoken.
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What's The Worst Thing Your Teacher Ever Said?
In this episode, we dive into your wildest, funniest, and most jaw-dropping stories about the WORST things teachers have said in class. From savage burns to totally inappropriate comments.💬 We read your responses, react to the craziest ones, and share a few stories of our own!🛎️ Don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and hit the BELL so you never miss an episode!Got a story of your own? Drop it in the comments, we might read it in a future episode! 👇0:00 INTRO14:45 Phrases in Punjabi29:31 Only hope is arranged marriage30:17 Source of evil38:19 You’re a girl38:51 Pretty41:30 You won’t make it56:25 Eyebrows did57:42 Moved to Karachi
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Secret Confessions
In this episode, we’re diving into the anonymous confessions sent in by you, our listeners, the kind of stories most people would never say out loud.From quiet regrets to life-altering secrets, we’re reading through real submissions and reflecting on the experiences that make us all a little more human. Some are funny, some are heavy, and some might hit closer to home than expected.This is a space for honesty, reflection, and a reminder that everyone has something they’re carrying.🎧 Want to share your story? Submit anonymously for a future episode.Subscribe, comment your thoughts, and thank you for trusting us with your truths.
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Men, What Are Your Worst Dating/Rishta Stories?
We always hear the wild stories from women, but what happens when the guys finally speak up? In this episode, we handed the mic to the men and asked: What’s the most disastrous rishta or dating experience you’ve had?Spoiler: it’s messy. From surprise auntie interrogations to being ghosted mid-meal, the stories are equal parts tragic, hilarious, and “bro, are you okay?” energy.Tune in for a behind-the-scenes look at the other side of the rishta game. And yes, some of these stories might make you feel better about your own love life.0:00 INTRO1:47 Gen Z slang in Urdu12:29 Pay for my nails 16:55 Buy me a house27:19 Ghosting35:49 Not from Karachi37:06 The Custom home42:35 Rishta aunty45:02 Handshakes46:10 Rishta interrogation51:12 High maintenance
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Difficult Realizations After Marriage
In today's episode, we're getting real about what actually happens after the wedding. From unmet expectations to emotional growing pains, we're diving into the tough truths many couples face once the honeymoon phase fades.This is a raw, honest look at the moments no one warns you about, the internal shifts, the silent struggles, and the sometimes uncomfortable growth that happens when two lives fully merge. But it’s not all doom and gloom. These realizations, while difficult, can also open the door to deeper love, understanding, and connection.👇 Let’s keep the conversation goingHave you experienced any surprising realizations after marriage? Share in the comments or DM us on Instagram @okmompodcast
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The Lies That Raised Us
We asked: What’s something you heard growing up that turned out to be a total lie? And wow, y’all had some wild ones.In this episode, we're diving into the biggest lies, myths, and straight-up nonsense we all grew up believing. From media misinformation to random stuff your friend's cousin swore was true, nothing is off-limits.Did you think gum stays in your stomach for 7 years? That you’d die if you turned the lights on in the car? That your hair would grow back thicker if you shaved it? Same. We believed a lot of things that... just weren’t true.We read your submissions, share a few of our own, and try to figure out why these lies spread in the first place, and how many of us fell for the exact same ones.Hit play, prepare to feel called out, and let us know in the comments: what’s a lie you believed growing up?🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share with a friend who still thinks cracking your knuckles causes arthritis.SHOP OUR LATEST MERCH DROP: Ode To Our Cities https://okmompodcast.myshopify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOooRx91aBahAEIAlCaTEKvja8to0DB6LzQmKhc-zYJzHJophmhrS
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Red Flags We Fall For
Why do we keep ignoring the obvious red flags? In this episode, we're diving into the signs, patterns, and behaviours that scream "run!" yet somehow, we convince ourselves to stay. Whether it's in dating, friendships, work, or even with ourselves, these red flags have a sneaky way of slipping past our radar.👀 From love bombing and mixed signals, to toxic positivity and chronic flakiness we’re breaking it all down:If you’ve ever said “I saw the red flags, but...” this one’s for you.👇 Drop a comment with the biggest red flag you ignored (we’ve all been there).Don't forget to like, subscribe, so you never miss a truth bomb. 💣0:00 INTRO2:47 Hot Takes8:18 The F boy look10:34 Love bombing16:41 Social drinking22:43 “Don’t look at my wife”28:40 Anger37:36 Nazar47:29 Narcisissts53:45 “My family is amazing”
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Decisions That Changed Your Life
In this episode of Ok Mom, we’re diving into the big choices, the bold, the beautiful, and the "what was I thinking?" ones. From impulsive moves to relationships we stayed in (or left), we're sharing the decisions that altered the course of our lives for better… or worse. Join us as we unpack the turning points that shaped who we are today, what we’ve learned along the way, and how hindsight really is 20/20. Whether you're at a crossroads or just curious how one moment can change everything, this one's for you.0:00 INTRO3:00 The Diddler12:31 Married and disowned26:18 Moving out alone30:12 Green flag men32:13 Accepting toxicity39:32 The postpartum betrayal47:22 Emotionally forced engagement52:17 Rushed and married the red flagIf you enjoy the episode, don’t forget to follow our socials and subscribe to Ok Mom Podcast so you never miss a moment of the chaos, laughter, and real talk.
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Ok, Mom : Car Confessions
Welcome to Car Confessions, the episode where the car becomes the confessional booth. Buckle up and ride along as we take the podcast on the road and spill some real talk straight from the front seats.From random rants and deep dives to unfiltered opinions and spontaneous laughs, this car vlog-style episode is as raw and real as it gets. No scripts, no filters, just the open road and open conversations.0:00 INTRO6:31 Bare Minimum or Princess Treatment (in-law edition)26:40 common law29:16 Dad had an affair32:48 SIL cut me out37:02 Hubby acting like the wife44:57 Threatened divorce49:25 My MIL, the fortune teller54:05 Forgive your abusive father?58:31 Acne66:39 School Loans71:21 MIL expects me to payHit that like button, subscribe, and drop your own car confessions in the comments below! 🚙
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I Forgave But, I Didn't Forget
We asked: What’s something you’ve forgiven someone for… but deep down, you haven’t really forgiven them?And wow, y’all delivered.In this episode, we dive into the messy, honest, and sometimes contradictory world of forgiveness. From quiet resentment to unresolved betrayal, our guests and listeners share the moments where they said “it’s okay”… but it never really was.This isn’t your typical feel-good forgiveness talk. It’s real. It’s raw. It’s what happens when the words “I forgive you” come out of your mouth, but your heart hasn’t caught up.🧠 Let’s talk emotional honesty, closure (or the lack of it), and why some wounds don’t heal just because we said the right thing.💬 Drop a comment:Have you ever forgiven someone, but not really? Let us know below, we might feature your story in a future episode.🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications for more real conversations every week.We've been nominated for the Podcast Peoples Choice Award! We'd love it if you could all vote for us at the link below. Ok, Mom Podcast is listed under two categories: The Adam Curry People's Choice Award, and Best Female Hosted Podcast. Please sign up at the link below and vote vote vote for your girls! Thank you! https://www.podcastawards.com/
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Hardest Part of Welcoming a New BIL/SIL
Welcoming a new brother-in-law or sister-in-law into the family should be all about celebration. Still, for many Desis, it’s also a minefield of unspoken expectations, awkward first impressions, and family politics. In this episode, we get real about the most challenging aspects of blending families through marriage in South Asian culture. From navigating boundaries with your sibling's spouse, to decoding “adjustment” culture, to the quiet pressure of being the “good” in-law, we talk about it all. Whether you're the new in-law, the sibling, or just trying to keep the peace, this episode is for you.0:00 INTRO7:08 Netflix and in-laws21:30 SIL & BIL relationship24:48 Disrespecting your parents35:15 Comparisons40:13 Moody SIL41:16 Adapting to them47:07 Differences51:01 Gifting54:21 Problematic behaviour56:42 The walking red flagJewellery by: @rangreza_accessories
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What I REALLY Want to Say to My Parents & In-Laws
In this honest and unfiltered episode, we’re talking about the real things we wish we could say to our parents and in-laws, without starting World War III. From unsolicited advice to boundary-blurring visits, we're diving deep into the emotional tug-of-war that can come with family relationships in adulthood, especially after becoming a parent yourself.Expect laughs, maybe a few therapeutic rants, and the kind of solidarity you only get from someone who gets it. If you've ever left a family gathering thinking, “Did that really just happen?” ...this one’s for you.💬 Let us know in the comments: What do you wish you could say to your family?Clothing by: hinamuzaffarofficial.com0:00 INTRO2:17 Bid Candy12:42 You know you’re old when…30:51 Too sensitive32:10 Snakes in the family34:00 Helicopter, Helicopter39:07 Adult children41:37 Fat shaming41:56 Cut the cord!42:34 Freedom43:41 Stand up FIL45:15 Trauma46:05 Take care of me47:18 Eldest daughter50:49 I like someone51:07 Western clothing52:10 You captured my son53:21 GrandkidsDon’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who needs to hear it. Because honestly? We're all just trying to figure it out.
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Worst "Log Kya Kahenge" Moment
We’re going there today.In this episode, we asked: What’s your worst "log kya kahenge" (what will people say) moment that seriously traumatized you? And wow… you delivered. From crushing shame to full-on public embarrassment, we’re unpacking those deep, cultural moments that left a mark.🎙️ In this episode:• The toxic pressure to be "perfect" in front of people who never asked• Why this phrase hits so hard, especially for women and moms• Listener-submitted moments that had us gasping, cringing, and relating way too muchThis one’s messy, honest, and might hit a nerve — but you’re not alone in it. If you’ve ever had a moment that made you want to disappear because of what people might say… this episode is for you.💬 Share your story with us on Instagram @okmompodcast. Your DMs are always anonymous and safe with us.0:00 INTRO4:58 In-laws demand a kid9:55 Broken engagement17:12 Marrying outside the culture 30:26 Physical abuse38:02 No dancing39:28 Therapy & mental health42:19 Marry thy cousin45:04 The MIL updates 55:08 Guys and girls can be friends?BUY YOUR OK MOM MERCH
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Love & Money: The South Asian Struggle
In this episode, we delve into the sensitive topic of money and relationships, particularly within South Asian culture. 💬 From joint accounts to secret savings, wedding expenses to family expectations, we talk about how money influences romantic partnerships, power dynamics, and long-term planning.0:00 INTRO7:58 Poppi10:39 Finances in a relationship15:47 School loans21:33 Financial literacy for Desis23:50 In-laws and personal questions28:05 Independent woman vs passenger princess39:55 Man makes less41:10 Taking the domestic load46:44 Working together48:57 Security50:23 Asking for help56:41 In-laws control the money67:19 I’d never workBUY YOUR OK MOM MERCH
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98
Ok, Mom Confessions
We asked our audience to send us their most unfiltered, anonymous secrets, and y’all did NOT disappoint 👀. From awkward crushes and sneaky habits to full-on "my mom can never know this happened" chaos, we’re sharing it ALL.Expect laughter, gasps, and a few “no way!” moments as we go through your confessions. No judgment.👇 Drop a comment and tell us which confession shocked you the most (or lowkey reminded you of something you’ve done 😏)And hey, want to confess something anonymously in the next episode? DM us on our IG or hit the link in our bio. Your secret’s safe with us.🎙️ Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share Clothing by: Sofia Hasan Couture (@sofiahasancouture)Jewelry by: Zaraya (@zarayaco)0:00 INTRO7:43 Finish the lyric18:25 Nice guy22:35 Convinced them to marry young26:09 The backseat26:56 Political love story31:57 The scamming uncle34:04 Secret recordings38:13 Secret friends40:08 The Mil affairs43:56 Long distance lovers47:34 Imagination runs wild48:42 Secret bank account49:17 The co-worker50:49 Internet nannies56:19 Betrayed by my friend57:05 Hellish woman60:38 False alarms62:50 Buried truthsBUY YOUR OK MOM MERCH
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"Not The One": Stories of Almost Forever
💔 When the right person comes at the wrong time... or maybe was never right.In this emotional and brutally honest episode, we dive into real stories of love that almost made it. From soulmates who couldn’t quite align, to long-term relationships that fell apart just before the "forever" part, “Not The One” explores the heartbreak, healing, and hard truths behind the ones who almost stayed.🚪 Why do some people leave just when it gets real?🧠 How do we know if it was love… or just attachment?💬 Listeners share raw, personal moments of “what could’ve been.”Whether you're still healing from the one who got away, or trying to make sense of a relationship that nearly made it, this episode will hit you right in the feels—and maybe even help you let go.0:00 INTRO1:50 Brampton Laser7:04 Betrayal 16:47 Treat me better23:41 Apple lover29:19 He got engaged31:12 The Ex-fiance34:47 Only child37:02 Sister swap41:51 Colourism44:52 The corporate guy46:43 The break49:17 Istikhara51:36 Mamoo54:24 Aunty’s fake birthday56:15 50/50👉 Subscribe for more unfiltered conversations about love, heartbreak, and everything in between.💬 Comment below with your “almost forever” story. 📲 Share this with someone who needs to hear itBUY YOUR OK MOM MERCH
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
OK, Mom is a podcast hosted by two friends, Hina and Uruje. Two Pakistani girls talking about motherhood, life, and everything in between. It's probably taboo, they might talk some s***, but Hina and Uruje just say it like it is, no filter.Tune in every Wednesday for your hump day escape.
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