Old, New and Borrowed

In this first episode of Old, New & Borrowed, I sit down with a friend for an honest, unfiltered conversation about becoming, not the glamorous version, but the real one.We talk about the old ideas that shaped me: chasing validation, performing for approval, and measuring my worth through milestones and checklists. We unpack what happens when you achieve the things you thought would complete you… and still feel like something is missing.Then we move into the new; the quiet, messy, uncertain phase of becoming. Learning to sit with not knowing. Letting go of structure. Choosing curiosity over certainty. And learning how to listen to myself again after years of performing.Finally, we talk about the borrowed; the ideas, perspectives, and wisdom we lean on while we’re still figuring things out. From failing forward, to making decisions without waiting for perfect clarity, to borrowing inspiration from women we admire without losing ourselves in comparison.This episode isn’t about answers.It’s about asking better questions.And giving yourself permission to be in progress.If you’re in between who you were and who you’re becoming, this one is for you.

It’s a pause.A note.An introduction to what Old, New & Borrowed is — and who it’s for.In this short opening, Khad shares the heart behind the podcast: reflecting on what has shaped her, what she’s still learning, and why this season is about becoming rather than arriving.If you’re in a season of asking questions, shedding old expectations, and figuring things out quietly — this space is for you.Episode one is coming soon.Follow on Instagram: @onbpodcast