One Big Caper

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One Big Caper

One Big Caper is an episodic, bite-sized chat about the adventures of two dreamers and storytellers, all the way from show business to what most see as the common or mundane daily experience. It is created for dreamers and storytellers by dreamers and storytellers. Athena Patacsil is a former principal Las Vegas Showgirl who has become a valuable and inspirational resource for graceful femininity and empowerment the world over. Phelyx Hopkins is better known as Professor Phelyx, a touring comedic mentalist who uses tricks to reveal truths in his funny and amazing shows. As partners in all things, this duo explores the shiny, sparkly stuff that made them stars of the stage and how that part of themselves can’t be muted, even when simply shopping for groceries in the suburbs of Denver. In this program, they explore life on stage, backstage, and off stage. Subjects like love and relationships, parenting, friendships, business, entrepreneurship, fashion, lifestyle, travel, design, self-car

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    ep 053 DIY vs. Buy? What do you do?

    Do it yourself or buy/make it? Which do you choose and why? Athena and Phelyx dive into this topic from years of experience in making and doing for art, performing and typical handyperson projects. When is it time to outsource your weaknesses and just buy it? Find out in this episode, where Athena and Phelyx are on opposite sides of the argument.0:14 Performer math and maker life2:56 Is it in your best interest to DIY?15:56 Whatever happened to quality construction?18:09 Athena Juicy Bit20:05 There’s an upturn in maker paths23:56 Wanna be a maker?***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 052 When Is It Going Too Far While Creating Illusions?

    Athena and Phelyx are back to discuss another somewhat divisive topic. They can’t fully agree on this one. That is the subject of taking things too far—at least in the creation department. Learn how the quality and craftspersonship is handled at One Big Caper and why it matters to pay attention to details and quality. Can you tell the difference?0:48 What does it mean to go too far?7:53 Can YOU tell the difference?10:08 Quality as a consideration12:30 Investments in illusions16:08 Right tools for the job17:23 Who can tell the difference?20:52 When should you go too far?23:20 Who cares?***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 051 Halloween Horror Stories

    Hell gigs and horror stories happen to all performers. It’s part of the business. In this seasonal episode, we share horror stories of gigs that happened at Halloween time, our favorite time of year! Athena shares a headlining burlesque snafu and Phelyx shares about the one time he didn’t get paid for a gig. Tune in to find out how they survived these hell gigs.***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 050 Pivotal Moments: Childhood Performer Experiences

    We’re back with another pivotal moment that changed the course of our lives as entertainers. Tune in to hear the touching story of how Phelyx got his start in entertainment and how Athena progressed from catalog costumes to costumes designed by Bob Mackie and Pete Menefee. Enjoy!1:47 Andy Warhol Quote3:05 Phelyx Pivotal Moment5:18 Phelyx Juicy Bit6:45 Athena Pivotal Moment10:32 Athena Juicy Bit12:45 Fit is everything14:11 https://www.showgirls.life/2020/08/01/ep-5-like-being-shot-out-of-a-cannon/***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 049 Here’s why performers are desensitized

    As career entertainers, we forget certain societal taboos due to our desensitization. There are a number of things performers are desensitized to in the normal course of a show run or being a life-long entertainer. It’s just part of the job. Curious what we forget is not “normal” to endure in life? Tune in and find out the three things we forget about because we are performers. 1:11 Athena Juicy Bit2:10 The kinds of people that aren’t desensitized2:52 Personal Space5:34 Nudity6:38 Athena Juicy Bit13:32 Self Expression17:31 Athena Juicy Bit19:57 Phelyx Juicy Bit***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 048 11 Life Skills You Didn’t Learn Because You Didn't Take Theatre Class

    Here at One Big Caper, we discuss how our life in Showbiz has impacted our offstage life and everything we do outside of the theatre. We decided to compile the list of topics that come up in nearly every episode as skills we developed while working in the theatre that should really be taught in everyday classrooms. Tune in to 11 Life Skills You Didn’t Learn Because You Didn't Take Theatre Class to discover if you missed any of these valuable lessons because you didn’t get a chance to be in theatre class.0:20 Why would you spray something in an enclosed space?!2:12 11 things learned as a performer that are life skills3:03 #1 Smelly stuff5:15 #2 Staying organized6:54 #3 & #4 Kindness & Humility7:09 Athena Juicy Bit9:40 Phelyx Juicy Bit11:21 #5 Being part of something bigger17:20 #6 Diversifying your skills20:40 #7 Show must go on23:30 #8 Teamwork27:02 #9 Don’t poop where you eat28:45 #10 Work ethic29:50 #11 Your reputation arrives before you do ***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 047 Oppression and Rebellion in Self Expression

    Athena and Phelyx are back to discuss how their inner rebels came to be and how they are now navigating life as adults with those rebels. Rebellion is always born out of oppression, so it’s no wonder the world is quite chaotic these days. Tune in to learn more about inner rebels, the birthplace of Punk and other fringe community tales and ways that people are expressing their own rebels. Is the rebel in you strong too? Join us! 1:46 Let’s talk about rebels7:12 Phelyx Juicy Bit9:31 A different way to develop Punk14:24 Athena Juicy Bit20:40 The role of oppression in Punk22:32 Inclusion?24:09 We are born from rebels***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 046 The Choices Artists Make in Life

    Here at One Big Caper, the subject of the artist’s life comes up a lot. It may seem weird to some, the choices artists make in life. Why would anyone choose a life of stress, worry, and sometimes poverty, just for the sake of art? Athena and Phelyx dive into this topic from their personal experiences as career performers and share their thoughts about what is so great about being an artist. The stereotype of the Starving Artist comes up again and again. The question is, why does society not value the artist and their craft more?0:55 Starving Artist archetype9:07 Rendering of building https://denverite.com/2023/01/10/rino-building-canyon-one-river-north/9:33 Artist lifestyle16:11 Monetizing creative skills22:15 Phelyx interview https://boldjourney.com/news/meet-prof-phelyx-hopkins/23:53 How decisions have affected our lives31:17 Mental health for artists ***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 045 The Truth About Immersive Experiences

    This is a hot-button topic in this household—immersive experiences. Why is it that everywhere you turn there is an immersive experience that “you have to see”? In this episode, Athena and Phelyx discuss the trend and how it is affecting the arts and showbiz in general. Tune in to see who loves it and who hates it. 0:17 Why is immersive such a hot-button topic?5:24 Different experiences and experiments7:28 Phelyx Juicy Bit #115:16 Criticism #119:15 Phelyx Juicy Bit #222:13 Criticism #227:18 Athena Juicy Bit28:50 Phelyx Juicy Bit #331:49 Why is traditional theatre going away?***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 044 What values are you prioritizing?

    Athena and Phelyx continue the conversation about Values from the last episode https://youtu.be/ZtTkl7n73II and share how they live their lives according to their values. If you are feeling like you need a change in your life but you aren’t sure what it is, you may just need a values check. Watch to learn how important it is to know your values and how to start prioritizing them for a happier life.2:49 What are values?5:31 Can values change?11:54 Am I living according to my values?13:18 What are your priorities?17:57 Questions for you***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 043 Travel & Escapism

    In this episode, we dig into why people travel. Is it for work, pleasure or escaping their life? Athena has some criticisms of escapism and traveling to get away from it all. Phelyx shares a Juicy Bit about a heated debate online about traveling to far off places. Tune in to discover different reasons for traveling and which category you fit into. Enjoy!0:09 Why do you travel?3:54 Why we travel7:31 Criticisms of escapism8:56 Phelyx Juicy Bit14:02 Why should anyone travel?16:25 Are you practicing escapism?***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 042 Hell Gigs & Horror Stories: Biker Bars & Private Parties

    We’re back with another series to appease your curiosity about the lives of career performers—Hell Gigs and Horror Stories! Athena and Phelyx plan to dish on their most terrifying gigs to date in this special series.What happens when a burlesque show goes south due to poor attendance? What does a mentalist do when his gig runs 2 hours late? Watch the episode to find out how they fared when exposed to these hellish gigs as entertainers. Have horror stories of your own? Share yours below!0:39 What is a Hell Gig?3:03 Athena’s Hell Gig at a Biker Bar9:01 Phelyx’s Hell Gig at a Private party18:03 ***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Never miss an episode! Make sure to subscribe to our channel and hit the notification bell.Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers. bit.ly/OBCpodenewsWe need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 041 What Makes You a Pro? Letting Go of Academia

    What Makes You a Pro? Letting go of academia is one of the toughest things to master as a professional, whether you are in the arts or not. Taking that leap into mastery of your profession takes more than just a paycheck. One of the hot-button topics that Athena and Phelyx discuss at home regularly is the subject of being a professional. While professionalism has a big part in being a professional artist, magician, dancer, etcetera, there is something more that is required that takes the student to pro. In this episode, Athena and Phelyx dig into what happens when a person is stuck in the academic approach to their craft and fails to cross that line into being a true artist or professional. 

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    ep 039 Getting Paid in Privilege: Perks of Being and Entertainer

    Being an entertainer comes with a few perks, and the higher you get on the ladder of fame, the greater the perks! In this episode, Athena and Phelyx discuss what Phelyx calls “Getting Paid in Privilege.” He coined the term to describe the perks that he has enjoyed over the years of being a career magician. And while some of these perks may not seem like a great trade for the 9-5 corporate life, some performers count on these perks to keep themselves in the game. Watch to learn what the perks are and hear two Juicy Bits from Phelyx about celebrities cashing in on their celebrity status in the real world.1:40 What does it mean to be paid in privilege?4:42 Showgirls Life Podcast https://www.showgirls.life/podcast/4:44 Las Vegas performer’s privilege9:49 Why do entertainers get paid in privilege?18:36 Phelyx Juicy Bit 120:12 Phelyx Juicy Bit 2***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 038 What is Art Jam? And why do it

    Art and craft runs deep in this family, which is why our family created a special night each week called Art Jam. Essentially, Art Jam is what creatives do together in lieu of game night or movie night. Listen in to hear how we started this tradition, how we kept it going for two years and how our favorite (and least favorite) sessions played out. If you start your own Art Jam, let us know! We’d love to cheer you on!0:47 The family tradition that brought us closer together5:45 Athena’s Juicy Bit6:50 What happens in an Art Jam?8:09 Link to the vegan gingerbread and frosting recipes9:03 How did Art Jam start?11:28 Athena Juicy Bit12:39 Lauren Alane birds15:22 Art Jam failures and successes22:01 Why do Art Jam?27:51 How to get your family involved in Art JamTo view images of our needle felted projects, head over to the website show notes page.***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 037 Deciding what to charge as an entertainer

    This is a topic discussed more than most in this household—MONEY. More specifically when money is discussed, we talk about worth, value and deciding what to charge as an entertainer. In this episode, Athena and Phelyx dish about their rates, how they came up with them and what factors need to be considered when setting your rates in the first place. This episode is not just for entertainers, but for all that are tired of getting paid less than they are worth. This information can be used to raise your current hourly or salary if you are an employee or help you set rates as a business owner. Listen now to learn what to charge as an entertainer or business owner. 0:50 A surprise for Athena3:15 Getting paid as a performer5:45 What Showgirls used to get paid8:42 The cost of doing business9:48 Athena’s Seaside act cost 15:05 How should we charge?20:42 Why we need to get out of an hourly mindset24:00 Phelyx Juicy Bit26:00 Athena Juicy Bit35:45 When to have variables in your rates40:54 Phelyx’s new website ***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 036 What is Security Theatre?

    What would a travel series be without the mention of the topic of security? Security Theatre is a term coined by Bruce Schneier ​​https://www.schneier.com/tag/security-theater/ about how security at the airport is more about making people feel safe without actually effectively providing security. Athena and Phelyx dive into the topic today from their own lens as performers and dig into what methods are actually ineffective and why. Listen to the episode to hear about badges and the people that wear them, the “Show” of security, and a couple of Juicy Bits from Athena about her personal experiences of going through TSA at DIA for her job. Enjoy!2:06 What is Security Theatre?12:08 Why does Security Theatre work?14:02 Why do badges cause people to behave differently?19:25 How is going through security a “show”?22:05 Does it really make people feel safe?32:32 Systems aren’t broken, they’re set up to fail37:15 Athena Juicy Bit #139:24 Athena Juicy Bit #244:40 The Show of Security***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 035 How Not to Dress for Travel

    Here’s a relevant topic for discussing Capers—Travel! Since this is such a huge topic in our realm, we decided to start a series for it. This particular installment has to do with How NOT to dress for travel. In other words, why does the airport look like people are on their way to a sleepover? Athena and Phelyx take great care in their appearance, no matter where they happen to be going. In this episode we discuss the current state of dress for travel, what it used to be like and why you might want to adjust your appearance while traveling anyway.***********3:09 How people dress for travel these days6:00 Why Phelyx dresses how he does for travel11:32 Travel tip #121:07 Phelyx Juicy Bit21:56 People are judging you based on your appearance27:45 Phelyx Juicy Bit #230:22 How the Bluebell dancers became famous while traveling Europe36:53 The REAL reason Phelyx dresses as he does***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 034 Online Dating: Why are we doing this?

    We’ve noticed you really enjoy our relationship videos, so we decided to do another one! This is a subject that we don’t have much personal experience in, but have heard horror stories from actual participants. Online dating seems to have become a gamified way for some to just “hook up” with people with no intention of forming a rewarding relationship. Why are we doing this? In this episode, we discuss the state of online dating, what could happen to our population if we continue this way of disconnection, compatibility, and romance in dating, as well as where we go from here. As usual, there is no end to this discussion, but we hope to give you plenty of food for thought if you are one of the participants (or former participants) of the dating apps looking for a way out of it. Enjoy!2:20 Link to first relationships episodes Ep 005 Embracing Differences in Relationships part 1 https://youtu.be/C04BWm30ZxwEp 006 Embracing Differences in Relationships part 2 https://youtu.be/yi7BqI3R1y02:47 The current state of online dating9:35 How do you meet people?11:15 The dangers of online dating13:09 Ways to meet people16:26 Not making the time vs. not having enough time18:34 Where do we go from here?22:10 Phelyx Juicy Bit25:22 What’s happened to romance in dating?29:21 What about compatibility?***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 033 How Not to Dress for a Date if You Want to Hide

    Dressing up and going out is a huge part of the foundation of Phelyx and Athena’s relationship. Their love of fashion, being in the spotlight, and spending quality time makes this activity a big part of their capers. Not being afraid to express themselves through clothing, is a fun way to get noticed and uplift others while out on the town. In this episode, they discuss how not to dress for a date night if you want to be a wallflower, how they plan out their date nights, and how much fun it is to turn up the dial on their dress to get reactions and (hopefully) inspire others to have more fun with their outfits on their regular date nights.3:08 How Athena and Phelyx treat dates5:51 Athena Juicy Bit8:12 The visibilidate we haven’t done yet10:03 Inspired by Andy Warhol11:45 Photo of Phelyx in the newspaper14:58 Turning up the dial18:32 Athena Juicy Bit19:28 Photo of Athena and Phelyx at the Auction22:41 The adjustment period of dressing up26:27 Using dates to nurture a relationship***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 032 Dealing With Depression (Not Just for Artists)

    Another listener requested topic!It’s true. Artists are often subject to the extremes when it comes to the full spectrum of human emotions; just like the “artist stereotype” implies. The lows can be pretty dark. We believe that is because we also get the experience of really amplified highs! In this episode, we attempt to tackle the subject of dealing with depression in the performing arts. We treat this subject with respect and even address our own personal bouts and some techniques and practices we use to climb back out of the dumps.One of the things we stress is that it truly is important to talk to or with someone.24 hour Suicide and Crisis Lifeline just dial 988Click here for the National Network of Depression Centers1:51 Why do performers/artists experience depression?7:14 How performers can deal with depression14:36 What self care habits do you have?18:59 The hardest part of getting up21:53 When you can’t be the light24:01 Don’t suffer in silence29:48 Recap of tips***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 031 Healthy Habits Performers Use

    Being an entertainer is a lot like being an athlete! In this episode Athena and Phelyx discuss good behaviors and habits and some eventually corrected bad ones to ensure we can deliver the best of ourselves to our audiences. Some things may be obvious but many habits and rituals have been developed for years. Still, other lessons came “the hard way!”1:26 Young performer habits4:49 Phelyx Juicy Bit + Pivotal Moment11:00 Athena’s healthy habits13:55 Phelyx’s tips for youthful appearance16:45 This isn’t just for performers22:33 Adrenal cocktail recipe***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 030 Pivotal Moments: Ending Relationships

    One Big Caper is ONE YEAR OLD! This 30th episode is another installment in the Pivotal Moments series. Athena and Phelyx decided to celebrate a year of creating One Big Caper with story time! We begin another year of podcasting with two stories about the ending of relationships and the lessons we learned along the way, before we came together as a couple. Listen in to hear how Athena made a different choice and Phelyx let go of a toxic marriage. 3:51 Our 1st anniversary episode6:38 You can always make a different choice—Athena’s Pivotal Moment11:41 You’re not responsible for their happiness—Phelyx’s Pivotal Moments19:38 Life after divorce***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 028 Alcohol and Sobriety in Relationships

    Since the days of Vaudeville (and long before), two things are undeniably synonymous: Showbiz and Booze.The foundation of our relationship is the former. Both of us have been on stage for most of our lives. In fact, sharing the spotlight is how we met… but many of our first dates included a drink or three.We have also each, separately experienced destroyed relationships and abandonment of human connections over substance abuse. In this episode we explore this subject and, importantly, answer the question, can two people maintain a healthy romantic relationship when only one of them drinks alcohol?0:45 What is Repeal Day?3:01 Sobriety and relationships4:01 Kate and Mike Show ep 137 link https://katenorthrup.com/episode-137-sobriety-substances-and-choosing-to-live-awake/4:45 Illegal drugs and their history9:13 The partner that still drinks11:45 Replacing an addiction21:36 Entertainment industry substance abuse24:17 Athena Juicy Bit28:16 Alcohol Portrayal in the media30:06 How alcohol ruins relationshipsWant to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 027 Dealing with Bad Audiences

    Have you ever been to a show where an audience member was misbehaving and caused a scene? This episode is a viewer-requested topic and it’s chock full of Juicy Bits from both Athena and Phelyx. There are so many more stories about how drunk crowds have become a disruption to shows. These are some of the ways that we have dealt with them. Enjoy!2:45 Our personal histories with bad crowds12:00 Phelyx Juicy Bit14:38 Phelyx’s favorite way to deal with an unruly audience member17:16 Phelyx Juicy Bit18:22 Athena Juicy Bit20:02 More bad behavior…25:47 Athena Juicy Bit***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 026 The Value of Experience Onstage and in Life

    How does one value experience? In this episode, Athena and Phelyx explore what it takes to charge one’s worth and why you get what you pay for when you opt for “the cheaper option.” Two Juicy Bits are shared which demonstrates what happens when experience is devalued or forgotten. From stage to life, these two have celebrated and learned from multiple experiences when it comes to experience or the lack thereof. Watch to learn more about how important it is to put value on experience.1:51 How experience helps onstage (and in life)9:10 Phelyx Juicy Bit13:05 Athena Juicy Bit16:28 Subscribe to our e-newsletter bit.ly/OBCpodenews16:58 What happens when you work with others lacking experience21:05 Learning from experience and how to prepare***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 025 The Trouble with Producing Burlesque

    There was one show that taught us everything we needed to know about producing a burlesque show. It was Bunny Brigade, a tribute to the Playboy Bunnies. In this episode we share some of the roadblocks we experienced while trying to bring this show to the stage as well as why we put it in the vault and no longer produce burlesque. We even made an entire documentary about the making of the show. If you’d like to watch it, subscribe to our email newsletter and unlock access to the full video. Enjoy this peek into our most controversial production.Phelyx interjecting here... This was a unique burlesque show that offered the whole of my (at the time) eleven years in the craft (I survived an additional couple of years). We applied all of that experience, plus the collective experience of a total of seven craftspeople from the neo-burlesque world in the creation and production of this show. If I can say so myself, this was decidedly high art in a low-brow art form that could have even been syndicated. I wish you could have been there. It was, unquestionably one of my all-time favorite collaborations. Oh, how I wish I could share the whole thing with you. An understated and tragically underestimated (by venue owners) masterwork. This, I believe, was the key to elevating burlesque from a bucket-list hobby to true art... and it broke us.1:45 The inspiration for our controversial show6:42 The difference between our show and the traditional burlesque themed show9:37 Gloria Steinham article: https://www.biography.com/news/gloria-steinem-undercover-playboy-bunny10:01 Censorship and sabotage12:02 The details that brought us closer together14:08 Subscribe to watch the full documentary17:19 Moving away from producing burlesque***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 024 OBC Halloween Part 2

    Dressing up in costumes is a regular thing in this household. It’s not just reserved for Halloween. In this special two part episode, Athena and Phelyx share the history of Halloween, and their own personal histories of the holiday and how it has become the most treasured season for them. Watch the episode to learn more about the history of where the holiday and the tradition of dressing up comes from as well as Juicy Bits from both Athena and Phelyx! Enjoy!Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 023 OBC Halloween Part 1

    Dressing up in costumes is a regular thing in this household. It’s not just reserved for Halloween. In this special two-part episode, Athena and Phelyx share the history of Halloween, their own personal histories of the holiday, and how it has become the most treasured season for them. Watch the episode to learn more about the history of where the holiday and the tradition of dressing up come from as well as Juicy Bits from both Athena and Phelyx! Enjoy!1:22 The history of Halloween and Samhain5:24 Why don’t we dress up more often?8:42 The psychology of dressing up 13:20 What about Kink?15:38 Halloween Spending 21:07 Why do we dress up?23:12 Athena Juicy Bit23:55 What’s the deal with box costumes? 29:47 Phelyx Juicy Bit***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.comWatch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 022 Manipulating Perception With Fashion

    Phelyx has always played with manipulating perception in every way possible, not just onstage as a mentalist. This episode is all about how he has used his dress to engineer certain perceptions as he has navigated through life. There were too many good experiences to share so we included 4 Juicy Bits!! Enjoy!2:06 Phelyx’s experimentations with perception6:01 Phelyx’s Juicy Bit #110:40 Practicality and Showbiz12:05 Other’s behavior 11:23 Athena Juicy Bit17:52 Phelyx’s Juicy Bit #223:00 Mimicry27:23 Phelyx is manipulating perceptions29:01 Athena’s first impression of Phelyx30:36 Phelyx’s Juicy Bit #3***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 021 Transferable Skills Learned From Being an Entertainer

    Being a performer or having been in theater builds some very important skills, for life and work. Phelyx and Athena talk about how Phelyx had to lean on some of these skills during the past few years as entertainers were unable to work due to gathering restrictions. Watch the episode to learn about the most important transferable skills developed while performing and hear 3 Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx.1:42 Learning the hard way about transferable skills5:19 Identifying transferable skills from being an entertainer9:10 Skills from entertainment that transfer13:08 Why doesn’t everyone have a strong work ethic?15:55 Define a “regular” job17:02 Phelyx Juicy Bit19:38 Phelyx Bonus Juicy Bit21:35 How does costuming apply to non-performers?25:52 Athena Juicy Bit26:50 The most difficult part of a job***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 020 Pivotal Moments: Ballet Camp and Art Galleries

    This topic was requested by a viewer many months ago, and we thought it would be a fun series. The Pivotal Moments series is a chance for us to do a bit of story time and share specific instances in our life when we experienced pivotal moments that changed the trajectory of our lives. In this first installment of the series, Athena shares about how one summer in her early ballet training years changed her path. Phelyx shares a moment when he was an art gallery owner and had to make a tough decision. Enjoy!2:39 Athena’s Pivotal moment8:15 Athena’s Juicy Bit9:15 Phelyx’s Pivotal moment14:06 Phelyx’s Juicy Bit***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 019 Living as Performers: Suburbia vs. City Life

    Life isn’t always easy as a performer—especially if they live in the suburbs. Even though both Athena and Phelyx grew up in the suburbs, it’s not an easy task to “blend in” when they are so used to taking the spotlight. Listen to the episode to discover the challenges they face now that they live in the suburbs and how the differences they have both experienced as a result of living in both the city and the ‘burbs.1:42 Suburbia versus the city4:36 Issues with suburbia13:10 The illusion of safety26:25 Why live in the suburbs?29:58 Phelyx Juicy Bit***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!Tags: performer, performer career, performer challenges, behind the scenes, show business, performer relationships, life as a performer, living in suburbia, 

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    ep 018 What Does it Mean to “Adventure”?

    Athena and Phelyx live beyond the typical definition of Adventure in their everyday lives. For them, it’s a mindset that you can adopt to live a more fulfilling life. Listen in to hear about their own definitions of adventure, their past adventures, and how they use this mindset shift to add magic to the mundane.1:03 Stereotypical adventure2:36 Phelyx’s romantic notions of adventure4:20 What is adventure to us?6:00 Safari jackets and pith helmets7:18 Banana Republic Catalog circa ?7:59 Adventures in performing10:20 Showgirls Life Youtube Channel12:05 Curiosity about what could be different13:40 In the pursuit of adventure14:33 Athena’s Juicy Bit18:11 Future Safaris and Adventures20:05 Athena’s 2nd Juicy Bit Adventure Cues20:30 Ep 016 Road Trips & Relationships***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 017 Why Performers Don’t Take Vacations

    As career performers, Athena and Phelyx don’t really take vacations. There is always some sort of business to manage when taking trips away from home. It’s not the same as taking work with you on a trip, more like seeking out work and expanding your audience as an entrepreneur. Listen to the episode to learn why they think performers don’t take vacations and what they do instead.0:54 The inspiration for this episode2:45 The differences between performers who take vacations and the ones who don’t5:04 The reasons why we don’t take vacations8:31 Performers don’t celebrate holidays either10:59 Phelyx Juicy Bit13:18 Why not celebrate the holidays whenever we want?14:16 Performers are wired differently15:32 The expense of vacations16:18 Vacating from life***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 016 Road Trips & Relationships

    If you want to get to know your partner better, get ready for a road trip! At least that’s what Phelyx says. Athena and Phelyx share about their very first road trip together and how important this adventure is to the foundation of a budding relationship. Listen now to learn about what they learned about each other and what you can learn about your partner by simply taking a road trip together.1:06 Phelyx’s advice to newly engaged couples3:10 About our first road trip4:50 O act link6:10 The Ultimate relationship test: Road trips and what you can learn about your partner8:10 The things some partners will miss9:47 Our Juicy Bit20:12  Athena’s advice to couples for successful road trips***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Never miss an episode! Make sure to subscribe to our channel and hit the notification bell.Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers. bit.ly/OBCpodenewsWe need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper! ***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    Who is paying for your entertainment?

    DescriptionThis is a hot topic that is regularly discussed in this household: Paying for Entertainment. It’s been on the list as a possibility for awhile, but when Athena came across a recent Yelp review for a venue that Phelyx was performing at from a person who complained that a $20 cover charge was ridiculous, we decided it was time to talk about it on the show. Joe E, thank you for the review that inspired this episode. And remember, entertainers haven’t worked for two and a half years. Show your support, pay to see a show!1:32 It all started with a Yelp review5:00 The stigma of the “Starving Artist”6:49 The costs of going out8:06 Why do people think entertainment should be free?10:31 Ways to show support to entertainers16:45 The business behind comps19:40 Phelyx’s tip to consume entertainment as an entertainer20:55 Athena’s Juicy Bit24:50 The results of miseducation about paying for entertainment***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    Entertainment in Las Vegas

    DescriptionIn this new, intermittent series, we will explore our own experiences and education to address questions we are often asked about the Entertainment Capital of the World, Las Vegas, Nevada. After all, one of your hosts worked as a "Sin City" icon... a Las Vegas Showgirl in the world's largest review, Jubilee! which ran for 34 glorious years.Phelyx has also performed in Las Vegas many times and he counts his friends there as the most supportive in his career, including one of the top ten magicians in the world. He knows several performers who have shows in hotel casinos on The Strip and he has secret, insider's information.In this episode, we get down to the gritty and shameful truth behind the changes that old Las Vegas entertainment has endured and why its reputation as the Entertainment Capital is being ruined by corporate greed. Listen to learn a snippet of the history, how things have come along, and where we believe it might be going.1:45 The Las Vegas Icon2:30 Showgirls Life podcast www.Showgirls.Life/podcast2:55 A bit of Las Vegas Showgirl history10:05 The biggest failure in Las Vegas14:05 Where is Live entertainment going, anyway?16:09 Showgirls helped other entertainer’s careers18:26 Phelyx recommends his top 5 Magic shows in Las Vegas18:49 Where are the Showgirls now?23:07  Where entertainment is getting cut25:15 Phelyx’s Juicy Bit***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    Rituals, Ceremony & Superstition for Performers

    Most performers have rituals to prepare for shows and events. They can be viewed as rituals, ceremonies or just superstitions as one prepares to take the stage. Athena and Phelyx discuss their rituals for preparing for stage and times when not observing rituals have caused shows to go awry. Watch the episode to get their tips on how to use ritual in your own life, whether you are a performer or not, to make your days go smoother. 2:28 The Inspiration behind this episode4:50 Phelyx, the skeptic’s, ritual5:56 Phelyx Juicy Bit7:34 Tips from the pros12:05 Showgirls Life Podcast ep 002 and 003 on Showgirl rituals gone awry15:05 How we disagree on how we use ritual16:29 Our invitation to you***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    How the Showgirl and the Magician Got Their Starts

    Have you been wondering how one becomes a Showgirl or a Magician? Athena and Phelyx take a trip down memory lane in this episode and share how they got started on their paths in show business. Listen in to learn what inspired each of their career choices and at what age.3:07 Athena’s path to becoming a Showgirl4:52 Dancers starring Mikhail Baryshnikov 12:56 Showgirls Life ep 011 14:20 Phelyx’s path to becoming a Magician18:38 Avner the Eccentric 24:20 Phelyx Juicy Bit***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    Is there Jealousy when dating a topless dancer?

    This episode is in answer to a submitted question by a viewer on YouTube. Phelyx was asked if he ever gets jealous when dating a topless dancer. Athena and Phelyx dive into this topic from both of their perspectives in showbiz and in life. Listen in to learn how he deals with Athena having been a topless dancer and what Athena thinks about jealousy in general.1:03 The things entertainers don’t think about6:51 Athena’s act that Phelyx loves 8:31 Phelyx’s first experience with Showgirls14:46 Jealousy from non-performer partners and the troubles of dating performers17:38 How the patriarchy plays a part in jealousy19:29 What is appropriate when it comes to nudity?20:42 How to get over the jealousy22:13 Observing other partners in showbiz22:33 Possession and jealousy***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click http://www.facebook.com/sharer.php?u=https://www.buzzsprout.com/1909809/10406576. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    Was There Exploitation of Showgirls?

    DescriptionWere Showgirls exploited? This is the question that Athena and Phelyx dive into in this episode. Listen in to hear how the first Showgirls were treated in Las Vegas and how things changed over the years up to the closing of the largest Showgirl spectacle, Jubilee! Includes TWO Juicy Bits!This is One Big Caper's second episode with our new, custom, and original theme music! Did you notice the change‽ Tell us what you think!2:34   Who has the most spending power in our culture?7:42 Athena’s Juicy Bit #19:03  Who gave Showgirls a bad name?11:08  Athena’s Juicy Bit #214:03 How is exploitation defined?15:27  Showgirls Life Showgirl Story Time: Dancing Nudes Lines https://www.showgirls.life/2020/07/22/showgirl-story-time-nudes-lines/15:37 Showgirls Life Podcast ep 006 Mobsters and Lobsters https://www.showgirls.life/2020/08/08/ep-6-mobsters-and-lobsters/21:09 Social media and the exploitation of the female form***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Never miss an episode! Make sure to subscribe to our channel and hit the notification bell.Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers. bit.ly/OBCpodenewsWe need your help to get this show out to more of our kind of people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper! Click here to share! http://www.facebook.com/sharer.php?u=https://www.buzzsprout.com/1909809/10320565

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    Sexism in Entertainment: History, Tradition & Now

    Athena and Phelyx are back to talk about how sexism has affected their careers in entertainment. Of course we have to talk about magic and the exploitation of the women in magic. We also talk a bit about how it has affected other industries. Releasing this episode during National Women’s History Month, they hope to shed more light on the subject and help move the movement towards equality forward. 2:16 Getting peed on by cats in magic boxes12:02 Women in Boxes Documentary 15:09 Why does sexism happen in entertainment?24:11 Athena’s Juicy Bit20:07 27 Actresses reveal misogyny in Hollywood 29:22 Did the #MeToo movement really help?***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Watch a special email subscriber-only bonus of four Juicy Bits from Athena and Phelyx about Hell Gigs and Improv. Subscribe today to unlock access to the video and get email notifications of future releases and special offers.We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    Secrets to Successful Relationships

    What makes a relationship that started as a showmance work? Athena and Phelyx are back to share how establishing rules of engagement in the beginning of their relationship created a foundation that built a long-lasting commitment to each other. They share their secrets of success to enjoying a partnership that cultivates trust and authenticity between them for an enviable union. Listen to learn how to create a relationship built on trust and passion that lasts.The reason for our relationship success 0:45The rules of engagement 1:45The moment that ruined something special 16:20Phelyx Juicy Bit 19:06Key takeaways recapped 24:20***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Never miss an episode! Make sure to  join our email newsletter to get notified by email when the latest episode hits the airwaves. We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    How to keep passion alive

    Athena and Phelyx are back for a special Valentine’s episode about passion in relationships. Those who have seen us in person or on stage remark on the connection and the passion between us. Though we have been together for over 5 years, the passion is still alive and well. Watch to learn how we view passion within our relationship and the steps we take to keep it ignited.3:06 The Formula for passion.4:40 One great technique for the passion mindset.7:40 Signaling commitment to strangers.14:30 You are responsible for your own happiness.21:14 What is passion in a relationship?***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Never miss an episode! Make sure to join our email newsletter to get notified by email when the latest episode hits the airwaves. We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 006 Embracing Differences in Relationships part 2

    Here is part two of a two-part episode where Athena and Phelyx discuss how having differences actually adds to the passion and strength of a relationship. This episode was inspired by a conversation that we had at the dinner table with the girls about how it could or couldn’t be possible to be from separate political parties as a couple. After going through that discussion, they began to reflect on all the differences that they have and how strong their relationship is because they embrace them. Listen to the episode to learn about just how different they are and why it still works!Money Management 0:47Phelyx Juicy Bit 1:59Social Media Usage 12:30Free Education vs. Paid 23:50Woo or Not 28:30***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Never miss an episode! Make sure to join our email newsletter to get notified by email when the latest episode hits the airwaves. We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 005 Embracing Differences in Relationships part 1

    Get ready for a two part episode where Athena and Phelyx discuss how having differences actually adds to the passion and strength of a relationship. This episode was inspired by a conversation that we had at the dinner table with the girls about how it could or couldn’t be possible to be from separate political parties as a couple. After going through that discussion, we began to reflect on all the differences that we have and how strong our relationship is to embrace them. Listen to the episode to learn about just how different they are and why it still works!How similar are we? 1:00Hoarder vs. minimalist 3:02OCD vs. willy nilly approach 10:21Going by whim vs. process approach 14:38Night owl vs. the early bird 19:13Poison vs. health nut 24:14***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Never miss an episode! Make sure to join our email newsletter to get notified by email when the latest episode hits the airwaves. We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 004 Workplace Romance Challenges

    Workplace romances cause drama backstage and in typical work environments. Athena and Phelyx discuss the challenges and gifts of falling in love at work. Topics also discussed are how to make it work, the greatest challenges of workplace affairs and that showmances are no different than typical workplace relationships. Listen in to hear Athena’s Juicy Bit about a particular instance when this relationship suffered a bit of drama.Workplace romances can cause drama 5:01Deal breakers and starting a romance 7:45How we have made working together work in our relationship and the challenges of it 11:00Athena’s Juicy Bit 28:50***********Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Never miss an episode! Make sure to  join our email newsletter to get notified by email when the latest episode hits the airwaves. We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this video on your favorite social platform, or click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 003 What is Professionalism in the Workplace?

    Athena and Phelyx are back to deep dive about the subject that brought them closer together—backstage etiquette. Not just for performers, this episode is packed with tips for anyone that works or lives in close quarters with others on a regular basis. They discuss subjects such as professionalism vs etiquette, behaviors that are unprofessional and the environments in which those occur, why rules of engagement are necessary in any work environment, basic backstage etiquette rules and common faux pas backstage. Plus, Athena’s Juicy Bit about an instance of inappropriate behavior in the dressing room. Listen in for some laughs and shocking truths about what it’s like in dressing rooms for performers.Defining professionalism and backstage etiquette 1:30Which backstage rules are often broken 7:15Common rules and backstage etiquette 16:00Athena’s Juicy Bit 29:50***********Mentioned on the show: Athena mentioned a video she created on her Youtube channel that defines “Nudes.” It’s not what you think! Watch the video to learn more about the chorus line in Jubilee! called “nudes.” Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.Athena: www.Showgirls.LifePhelyx: www.Phelyx.com***********Never miss an episode! Make sure to join our email newsletter to get notified by email when the latest episode hits the airwaves. We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this episode on your favorite social platform, click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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    ep 002 An Unconventional Approach to Life

    Athena and Phelyx continue the conversation about living life as performers. In this episode, they discuss how important it was to them to “hoe their own roads” and choose the less conventional approach to a career path. Athena shares a Juicy Bit about getting a regular job "just because I was a Showgirl," and more about societal pressures to choose a path that doesn’t align with the arts. They wrap up the episode by comparing performer life to entrepreneurship. Listen in to hear more about how living as a performer is an unconventional approach to life.Why does one decide to become a performer? 1:15Athena’s Juicy Bit  13:56The pressure to choose your career as a teen from older generations  20:30Being a performer parallels entrepreneurship 29:18***********In the beginning, Athena asks Phelyx to explain something he said on his Coffee Club page. If you want to read more intimate stories from him, join Professor Phelyx’s Coffee Club. If you are curious about the conversation Athena mentioned about Art versus Selling Out, listen here: Showgirl Deconstructed: Art vs. Selling out featuring Andrew Branche Want to learn more about Athena and Phelyx? Check out our solo projects at the links below.AthenaPhelyx***********Never miss an episode! Make sure to join our email newsletter to get notified by email when the latest episode hits the airwaves. We need your help to get this show out to more people! Please share this episode on your favorite social platform, click here to share. We appreciate your help in spreading the word about One Big Caper!

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

One Big Caper is an episodic, bite-sized chat about the adventures of two dreamers and storytellers, all the way from show business to what most see as the common or mundane daily experience. It is created for dreamers and storytellers by dreamers and storytellers. Athena Patacsil is a former principal Las Vegas Showgirl who has become a valuable and inspirational resource for graceful femininity and empowerment the world over. Phelyx Hopkins is better known as Professor Phelyx, a touring comedic mentalist who uses tricks to reveal truths in his funny and amazing shows. As partners in all things, this duo explores the shiny, sparkly stuff that made them stars of the stage and how that part of themselves can’t be muted, even when simply shopping for groceries in the suburbs of Denver. In this program, they explore life on stage, backstage, and off stage. Subjects like love and relationships, parenting, friendships, business, entrepreneurship, fashion, lifestyle, travel, design, self-car

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