PODCAST · education
Out in Bloom
by Eva Bloom
Out in Bloom is a podcast for LGBTQIA+ late bloomers, questioning cuties, and anyone who is at the beginning of their queer journey. Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them), each episode offers tender conversations, helpful psychology frameworks, and personal stories to help you feel less alone in the chaos, confusion, and beauty of coming into your queerness. We explore identity, confidence, and queer community through a lens of learning and self-compassion—so you can make sense of your journey and bloom in your own time.
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queer hotness is more than shane from the l word
Fatphobia is soooo 200-and late! Let's talk about why the rise in anti-fat discrimination is a queer issue. Work with me 1:1! https://www.evabloom.ca/3pack Welcome to SEASON 3 (!!) of Out in Bloom! The weekly podcast for late bloomers and sapphics figuring it out in real time. Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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what you're probably getting wrong about compulsory heterosexuality
Learning about comphet was a huge part of my coming out journey, but there are so many misconceptions about this framework. Let's debunk them today. Get your ticket to the Sapphic Between the Sheets workshop Feb 9th 8pm EST! https://www.evabloom.ca/sapphicsheets Work with me 1:1! https://www.evabloom.ca/3pack Welcome to SEASON 3 (!!) of Out in Bloom! The weekly podcast for late bloomers and sapphics figuring it out in real time. Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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spicy wlw advice because it's almost valentine's day
Let me give you all the essential info about sapphic intimacy you need to spice things up this Valentine's Day! Get your ticket to the Sapphic Between the Sheets workshop Feb 9th 8pm EST! Welcome to SEASON 3 (!!) of Out in Bloom! The weekly podcast for late bloomers and sapphics figuring it out in real time. Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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how to support a non-binary partner (dating advice)
It's almost Valentine's Day...let's talk about non-binary dating! If you're non-binary yourself and you want ideas on how to be affirmed, of if you're dating a non-binary person for the first time - this episode is for you! Tickets for Sapphic Between the Sheets Valentine's Day workshop on February 9th 8-9:30pm EST (and replay) available soon at evabloom.ca/sapphicsheets Welcome to SEASON 3 (!!) of Out in Bloom! The weekly podcast for late bloomers and sapphics figuring it out in real time. Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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2026 is the year of confident bisexuality
Let's get even more bisexual!!! Time to stop letting queer imposter syndrome hold you back, and be the most confident iconic bi person ever in 2026. 🌈 Join QUEER ENOUGH running January 20th-March 10th! https://evabloom.ca/queerenough Welcome to SEASON 3 (!!) of Out in Bloom! The weekly podcast for late bloomers and sapphics figuring it out in real time. Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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Ins & outs for late bloomer sapphics
So you want more confidence in your queerness in 2026? Let's do this ish - are some resolutions designed to support your journey! 🌈 Join QUEER ENOUGH running January 20th-March 10th! https://subscribepage.com/queerenough Welcome to SEASON 3 (!!) of Out in Bloom! The weekly podcast for late bloomers and sapphics figuring it out in real time. Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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signs you're having a gay second adolescence
Sometimes feel like you're a teen, but you're in your 30s? Can't decide if you want to smooch every cute girl you see or settle down with a wife? Let's talk queer second adolescence & how coming out in adulthood can be a chaotic journey! 🌈 Join QUEER ENOUGH running January 20th-March 10th! https://subscribepage.com/queerenough Welcome to SEASON 3 (!!) of Out in Bloom! The weekly podcast for late bloomers and sapphics figuring it out in real time. Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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ranking the best lesbian christmas movies (plus books, music)
It's time to make the season merry and GAY! These are my favourite sapphic winter holiday movies, books, and music to ring in the holiday cheer! 🌈 Join the Virtual Holi-Gays Celebration! Dec 1st 8-9pm EST in the Late Bloomers Support Club - we'll be playing games, having some giggles, and reflecting on our 2025! Join for $10/month https://www.patreon.com/latebloomerssupportclub Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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how to survive the holidays as a queer person
The holidays aren't always the most wonderful time of the year for LGBTQIA+ people. Spending more time with family, less hours of daylight, out of routine. Let's talk about how to support your queer self through it all <3 🌈 Join the Virtual Holi-Gays Celebration! Dec 1st 8-9pm EST in the Late Bloomers Support Club - we'll be playing games, having some giggles, and reflecting on our 2025! Join for $10/month https://www.patreon.com/latebloomerssupportclub Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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can lesbians get stis? (sapphic dating & health advice)
Taking care of your health is an important part of dating & intimacy - and sapphics so often get left behind! So let's talk about it - do people actually use dental dams, how often to get tested, and more! Shop Broad Lingerie (including online fittings!) and use code OUTINBLOOM for a discount! https://broadlingerie.com/home/ More info about health, testing, PrEP etc: - LGBTQIA+ testing tips https://drive.google.com/file/d/1oyca9-AQo38v0hMToULy4kR5FShSrsF1/view?usp=sharing - https://teenhealthsource.com/stisetc/sti-testing/ - https://www.catie.ca/hiv-pre-exposure-prophylaxis-prep The bra I'm wearing in the video! https://shop.broadlingerie.com/collections/sexy-bras/products/mia-lace-bralette-p5951-black?variant=38099678134471 🌈 Join the Late Bloomers Support Club! A $10/month membership for monthly calls, a Discord, and late bloomer sapphic community! https://www.patreon.com/latebloomerssupportclub Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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unexpected (gay) lessons I've learned turning 30
I'm turning 30 this month, so I wanted to reflect on some of the things I've learned in my queer journey this year! Reflecting on queer adult friendships, sapphic love, burnout, and more. Thank you for being part of the ride! 🌈 Join the Late Bloomers Support Club! A $10/month membership for monthly calls, a Discord, and late bloomer sapphic community! https://www.patreon.com/latebloomerssupportclub Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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how to find your dream girl off the apps (and other sapphic dating advice)
Soooo dating apps kinda suck. Especially if you're a sapphic person. Let's talk about where we go from here - and how to actually meet the cutie of your dreams! 🌈 Join the Late Bloomers Support Club! A $10/month membership for monthly calls, a Discord, and late bloomer sapphic community! https://www.patreon.com/latebloomerssupportclub Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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why is halloween so queer?? (history, monsters & gay halloween)
From lesbian vampires to "I hate gay Halloween" jokes - Halloween is the gayest time of the year. But why do so many queer people resonate with this spooky holiday? And why is Halloween 100x more fun after you come out of the closet? 🌈 Join the Late Bloomers Support Club! A $10/month membership for monthly calls, a Discord, and late bloomer sapphic community! https://www.patreon.com/latebloomerssupportclub Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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the bi/lesbian beef makes no sense...why aren't we kissing??
Being bi is amazing AND queer af. Let's quash this beef. Work with me 1:1 on coming out, queer dating, and more! evabloom.ca/3pack Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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get in losers, we're unlearning your internalized lesbophobia
Being a lesbian rocks, but sometimes it takes time to unlearn the myths & stereotypes we were taught!! Let's do that!! Work with me 1:1 on coming out, queer dating, and more! evabloom.ca/3pack Use code WETFOREVA for a discount! https://wetforher.com/ Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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a man going above & beyond is a lesbian's bare minimum
A lot of cishet dating culture & norms...sucks. How do you start queer dating when you've been conditioned to be "chased"? 🌈 Join the Queer Enough program running Sept 30th-Nov 18th! https://www.evabloom.ca/queerenough Use code WETFOREVA for a discount! https://wetforher.com/ Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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signs you're dealing with comphet
Find yourself yourself drawn to unavailable men? Think women are *objectively* more attractive? I hate to break it to you... Comphet can be sneaky, and even if you're on your queer healing journey, it takes intentional effort to unlearn. 🌈 Join the Queer Enough program running Sept 30th-Nov 18th! https://www.evabloom.ca/queerenough Use code WETFOREVA for a discount! https://wetforher.com/ Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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communicating your sapphic desires
How to ask your girlfriend to try something new?? Want to explore what you're into with women, but don't know how to communicate it to a partner? This episode is all about how to communicate your boundaries, desires, and curiosities about sapphic intimacy! 🌈 Join the Queer Enough program running Sept 30th-Nov 18th! https://www.evabloom.ca/queerenough Use code WETFOREVA for a discount! https://wetforher.com/ Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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how to bust queer imposter syndrome
Do you struggle with not feeling "queer enough"? Feel like you're missing some secret info all the other sapphics have? Question if it's "too late" for you to come out? Let's dive into what queer imposter syndrome is, why you have it, and what to do about it! 🌈 Join the Queer Enough program running Sept 30th-Nov 18th! https://www.evabloom.ca/queerenough Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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how to make queer friends as an adult
WELCOME TO THE OUT IN BLOOM SEASON 1 FINALE :') Season 2 out in September! Making queer friends as a late bloomer can be challenging! Maybe you're going from a group of all straight friends or maybe you feel disconnected from queer folks who've been out for decades. Let's talk about how to actually make queer friends, friend groups, and community. 🌈 Work 1:1 coaching on sapphic intimacy, communication & skills https://www.evabloom.ca/3pack 👉 Grab the sapphic dating mini-course! All recorded to watch at your own pace + in any time zone. Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Join the Late Bloomers Support Club here. Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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how to dress so everyone knows you're queer
Queer fashion is more than just fabric on a body - it's euphoria, community, history, a political statement and beyond. This week on Out in Bloom we're talking a walk down queer history memory lane, talking flagging, and more! 🌈 Work 1:1 coaching on sapphic intimacy, communication & skills https://www.evabloom.ca/3pack 👉 Grab the sapphic dating mini-course! All recorded to watch at your own pace + in any time zone. Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Join the Late Bloomers Support Club here. Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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wondering if you're "queer enough"? THIS IS FOR YOU
Compulsory heterosexuality means that many sapphics come into themselves later in life. It can also mean a lot of frustration and confusion about labels - or doubting if you're "queer enough". Answer: YES! There are infinite paths & experiences of queerness. 🌈 Work 1:1 coaching on sapphic intimacy, communication & skills https://www.evabloom.ca/3pack 👉 Grab the sapphic dating mini-course! All recorded to watch at your own pace + in any time zone. Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Join the Late Bloomers Support Club here. Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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non-binary lesbians have always existed
Gender can be challenging as a late bloomer - if it's figuring out your own funky gender, or learning how to support a new trans or non-binary partner! In this week's episode we break down different non-binary identities, talk queer history & more! 🌈 Work 1:1 coaching on sapphic intimacy, communication & skills https://www.evabloom.ca/3pack 👉 Grab the sapphic dating mini-course! All recorded to watch at your own pace + in any time zone. Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Join the Late Bloomers Support Club here. Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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gatekeeping is boooring & how to know if you're a lesbian
It's the first Q&A episode of the Out in Bloom podcast and we're diving deep - how to date women when you've never dated *ever*, how to know if you're bi or a lesbian and more! 🌈 Work 1:1 coaching on sapphic intimacy, communication & skills https://www.evabloom.ca/3pack 👉 Grab the sapphic dating mini-course! All recorded to watch at your own pace + in any time zone. Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Join the Late Bloomers Support Club here. Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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the ultimate guide to sapphic intimacy for newbies
Coming out but nervous about what to do in the bedroom? Not sure if scissoring is real? Want to wow future queer cuties with your skills? Buckle up, it's the sesbian lex episode! 🌈 Work 1:1 coaching on sapphic intimacy, communication & skills https://www.evabloom.ca/3pack 👉 Grab the sapphic dating mini-course! All recorded to watch at your own pace + in any time zone. Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Join the Late Bloomers Support Club here. Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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if you were obsessed with these movies as a kid, you know the lesbian masterdoc
Let's talk about the media that lead to my gay awakening! I am SUCH lover of all things queer books, TV shows, movies, music and more. In this episode we're talking about queer media and also media for affirmation on your coming out journey! 👉 Grab the sapphic dating mini-course! All recorded to watch at your own pace + in any time zone. Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Join the Late Bloomers Support Club here. Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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how to flirt with girls without being creepy & other sapphic dating advice
Are you new to dating women? Want sapphic/queer/lesbian dating advice? THIS IS THE EPISODE FOR YOU! 👉 Grab the sapphic dating mini-course! All recorded to watch at your own pace + in any time zone. Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Join the Late Bloomers Support Club here. Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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why do I feel like a teen when I'm a 30 something queer person??
Coming out late in life can sometimes mean starting over, or starting from the very beginning. Let’s chat about second adolescence, queer time, being a baby gay, and the awkward moments and healing that comes along with it! Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Join the Late Bloomers Support Club here. Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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comphet and the "doing womanhood right" escalator
From the Lesbian Masterdoc to the many more insidious ways that comphet (aka compulsory heterosexuality) can impact your life as a queer person - let's dive deep. If you're unpacking the ways centring men has messed you up, or stepping out into your queer life outside of cishet scripts, this episode is for you! Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Join the Late Bloomers Support Club here. Work 1:1 with Eva! Bring Eva to your university/college/organization/company to speak!
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from messy coming out to dating coach
Welcome to the very first episode of Out in Bloom! In this kickoff, I’m taking you on a ride through my own queer journey—starting with my devoted “Ally” era, through the deep waters of Compulsory Heterosexuality, and into the chaotic queer moments I had before I was even out. I’ll share how I finally came out as bi, what helped me put the pieces together, the queer media that made me feel seen for the first time, and where I’ve landed now: out, proud, and blooming as a non-binary lesbian. Whether you’re newly questioning, deep in the figuring-it-out stage, or just here for the giggles and gay chaos—this episode is for you. 🌸 Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Join the Late Bloomers Support Club here.
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Out in Bloom Trailer
Welcome to Out in Bloom! The weekly podcast for late bloomers and sapphics figuring it out in real time. Part personal storytelling, part social psychology deep dive, it’s your permission slip to explore queerness on your own timeline. Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them) - Follow Eva on Instagram Edited by A Peschanski Join the Late Bloomers Support Club here.
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Out in Bloom is a podcast for LGBTQIA+ late bloomers, questioning cuties, and anyone who is at the beginning of their queer journey. Hosted by Eva Bloom (they/them), each episode offers tender conversations, helpful psychology frameworks, and personal stories to help you feel less alone in the chaos, confusion, and beauty of coming into your queerness. We explore identity, confidence, and queer community through a lens of learning and self-compassion—so you can make sense of your journey and bloom in your own time.
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