Passion Place

In this episode of Passion Place, Mark and Lisa venture into the multifaceted topic of sex within marriage, exploring its crucial role in fulfilling various psychological and relationship needs. They reveal how sex is a thread that connects emotional intimacy, communication, and personal growth in couples, weaving these elements into a strong relational fabric. Key Topics Covered The psychological and relationship needs fulfilled by sex in marriage Overcoming discomfort and enhancing communication about sex The dynamic of men's need of sex to feel loved and women’s need to feel loved before desiring sex How differing expectations around sex can fuel healthy relationship dialogue The importance of playfulness, mindfulness, and sensuality in a thriving sex life Tune in to unravel how sex can be a vehicle for deepened connection, self-discovery, and stress relief, beyond just physical pleasure. Discover playful strategies and mindful practices to transform your approach to intimacy, and learn how to communicate about these tender topics in a respectful and authentic manner. Don’t miss out on insights that could redefine your relationship's intimate landscape! Show Notes online - http://podcast.passion.place/6 (http://podcast.passion.place/6) Discussion Resources https://www.amazon.com/Proper-Care-Feeding-Husbands/dp/0060520620 (https://www.amazon.com/Proper-Care-Feeding-Husbands/dp/0060520620?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) – The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands book by Laura Schlessinger https://www.benchmarkpsychology.com.au/its-a-fact-men-have-a-higher-sex-drive-than-women-are-all-relationships-doomed/ (https://www.benchmarkpsychology.com.au/its-a-fact-men-have-a-higher-sex-drive-than-women-are-all-relationships-doomed/?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) – Quote: In fact, 51% of men would like to have sex at least every day compared to only 7% of women. Find us online - Instagram - passion.place.show (https://www.instagram.com/Passion.Place.Show/) - Email the show - [email protected] (mailto:[email protected]) - YouTube Channel - @PassionPlace (https://www.youtube.com/@PassionPlace) - Facebook - Passion Place (https://www.facebook.com/people/Passion-Place/61566411255014/)

In this episode of Passion Place, Mark and Lisa explore the Gottman Institute’s insightful concept of the Relationship Sound House, focusing on the crucial foundations of marital trust, commitment, and understanding your partner's inner world through love maps. By unraveling the intricacies of trust and commitment, they emphasize the importance of truly knowing your spouse's psychological needs, and how these aspects influence sexual intimacy and emotional connection within marriages. Key Topics Covered Introduction to the Relationship Sound House by the Gottman Institute Understanding and building trust and commitment in relationships Love Maps: Getting to know your partner’s inner world The evolving nature of personal and shared relationship needs Navigating sexual preferences and mapping intimacy Tools and resources provided by Passion Place to enhance couples' intimacy Join us as we delve into fostering a deeper understanding of your partner's internal world, from emotional needs to sexual preferences. Discover how concepts like Love Maps and sound relational foundations can transform your relationship. Plus, learn how Passion Place is designed to support you and your partner every step of the way. Don't miss these invaluable insights to enrich and maintain a vibrant, loving relationship! Show Notes online - http://podcast.passion.place/5 (http://podcast.passion.place/5) Discussion Resources https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-is-the-sound-relationship-house/ (https://www.gottman.com/blog/what-is-the-sound-relationship-house/?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) – An introduction and overview of the Gottman Soundhouse https://www.gottman.com/blog/build-love-maps/ (https://www.gottman.com/blog/build-love-maps/?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/B08CPVQT5M (https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/B08CPVQT5M?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) – The "Come As You Are" by Emily Nagoski Find us online - Instagram - passion.place.show (https://www.instagram.com/Passion.Place.Show/) - Email the show - [email protected] (mailto:[email protected]) - YouTube Channel - @PassionPlace (https://www.youtube.com/@PassionPlace) - Facebook - Passion Place (https://www.facebook.com/people/Passion-Place/61566411255014/)

In this episode of Passion Place, Mark and Lisa explore the art of communication in relationships, spotlighting the power of feelings and needs wheels to enhance connection and understanding. They share insightful examples and practical tools to help couples articulate their emotions and needs more effectively. Key Topics Covered Understanding the difference between feelings and needs The role of a feelings wheel in identifying emotions with precision Impact of societal expectations on emotional expression in men and women How a needs wheel can transform relationship communication Personal experiences of using these tools for deeper connection The importance of clear communication in overcoming assumptions Join Mark and Lisa as they delve into the transformative potential of these communication tools, sharing relatable stories and expert advice. Whether you're navigating new challenges or simply seeking to strengthen your bond, this episode offers a roadmap to clearer, more meaningful communication. Don't miss out on these accessible strategies to elevate your relationship and truly understand each other. Show Notes online - http://podcast.passion.place/4 (http://podcast.passion.place/4) Discussion Resources https://allthefeelz.app/feeling-wheel/ (https://allthefeelz.app/feeling-wheel/?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) https://humansystems.co/emotionwheels/ (https://humansystems.co/emotionwheels/?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) https://www.cnvc.org/store/feelings-and-needs-inventory (https://www.cnvc.org/store/feelings-and-needs-inventory?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) https://5lovelanguages.com/ (https://5lovelanguages.com/?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.html (https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.html?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) – Maslow's hierarchy of needs pyramid http://podcast.passion.place/3 (http://podcast.passion.place/3?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) – Previous episode about attachment styles. Find us online - Instagram - passion.place.show (https://www.instagram.com/Passion.Place.Show/) - Email the show - [email protected] (mailto:[email protected]) - YouTube Channel - @PassionPlace (https://www.youtube.com/@PassionPlace) - Facebook - Passion Place (https://www.facebook.com/people/Passion-Place/61566411255014/)

In this episode of Passion Place, Mark and Lisa explore the transformative power of understanding attachment styles in relationships. They unravel the frustrating emotional dance between couples, providing insights into how these attachment tendencies shape communication, conflict resolution, and intimacy. With relatable stories and expert advice, they delve into the science behind love, highlighting the path from insecure to secure attachments. Key Topics Covered Introduction to attachment styles: Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, and Disorganized The impact of attachment styles on relationship dynamics How childhood and life experiences influence adult attachment tendencies Real-life scenarios that illustrate attachment behaviors in action Tools and resources to identify and understand your attachment style Practical strategies for growing into a more secure relationship Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of your own attachment style and learn how this knowledge can enhance your emotional connection with your partner. Discover strategies to bridge attachment differences and nurture a more fulfilling and resilient relationship. Don't miss out on the opportunity to transform your partnership with insights from Mark and Lisa! Show Notes online - http://podcast.passion.place/3 (http://podcast.passion.place/3) Discussion Resources https://quiz.attachmentproject.com/ (https://quiz.attachmentproject.com/?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) https://drsuejohnson.com/ (https://drsuejohnson.com/?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) https://www.gottman.com/ (https://www.gottman.com/?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) Find us online - Instagram - passion.place.show (https://www.instagram.com/Passion.Place.Show/) - Email the show - [email protected] (mailto:[email protected]) - YouTube Channel - @PassionPlace (https://www.youtube.com/@PassionPlace) - Facebook - Passion Place (https://www.facebook.com/people/Passion-Place/61566411255014/)

In this episode of Passion Place, Mark and Lisa dive into the value of couples counseling, shedding light on its preventive benefits and debunking common stigmas. They share practical insights on how couples can proactively maintain their emotional and sexual intimacy, ensuring their relationship stays robust and healthy. Key Topics Covered The role of couples counseling in long-term relationships Preventive care vs. last-ditch efforts in relationship maintenance Common stigmas and barriers to seeking couples therapy Evaluating potential couples counselors - key questions to consider Practical self-help strategies for couples Useful resources and tools to support relationship health Tune in to discover why couples counseling isn't just for relationships in crisis and learn simple yet impactful ways to keep your partnership thriving. Plus, get expert advice on how to find the right counselor for you and your partner by asking the right questions. Don't miss out on our tips and engaging stories that could transform your relationship dynamic! Show Notes online - http://podcast.passion.place/2 (http://podcast.passion.place/2) Discussion Resources https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists (https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) – Resource for finding a therapist. https://www.gottman.com/ (https://www.gottman.com/?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) – The Gottman Institute https://www.gottman.com/gottman-assessment/ (https://www.gottman.com/gottman-assessment/?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) https://www.apa.org/pubs/books/supplemental/The-Marriage-Checkup-Practitioners-Guide/Assessment.pdf (https://www.apa.org/pubs/books/supplemental/The-Marriage-Checkup-Practitioners-Guide/Assessment.pdf?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) – Marriage Checkup Questionnaire - Relationship Domains Assessment https://www.focusonthefamily.com/themarriageassessment/ (https://www.focusonthefamily.com/themarriageassessment/?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) – The assessment is based on research and experience with 10 essential marriage traits. This identifies strengths and potential growth opportunities in your marriage, based on these 10 essential traits. Find us online - Instagram - passion.place.show (https://www.instagram.com/Passion.Place.Show/) - Email the show - [email protected] (mailto:[email protected]) - YouTube Channel - @PassionPlace (https://www.youtube.com/@PassionPlace) - Facebook - Passion Place (https://www.facebook.com/people/Passion-Place/61566411255014/)

In this inaugural episode of Passion Place, Mark and Lisa introduce the podcast and delve into the complexities of the "middle married" stage. Highlighting the common challenges and needs faced by couples in long-term relationships, they present insightful discussions on how to maintain a strong, connected partnership over time. Key Topics Covered - Introduction to hosts and their backgrounds - The mission of Passion Place and the focus on the middle married stage - Common pitfalls in long-term relationships and how to address them - The stages of marriage - honeymoon, disillusionment, and contentment - The impact of modern societal changes on marriage - Importance of emotional and sexual intimacy in long-term partnerships Join us on this journey as we unpack the middle married stage, offering actionable insights and practical advice to help you and your partner thrive. Don't miss out on our candid conversations and expert guidance designed to rekindle your connection and bring joy to your relationship. Tune in now! Show Notes online - http://podcast.passion.place/1 (http://podcast.passion.place/1) Discussion Resources https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/JeffryH.Larson (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jeffry_H._Larson?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) – Who defined the "middle-married" concept. https://passion.place (https://passion.place?utm_source=passionplace&utm_medium=shownotes) – The relationship service being created and made available to middle-married couples. Find us online - Instagram - passion.place.show (https://www.instagram.com/Passion.Place.Show/) - Email the show - [email protected] (mailto:[email protected]) - YouTube Channel - @PassionPlace (https://www.youtube.com/@PassionPlace) - Facebook - Passion Place (https://www.facebook.com/people/Passion-Place/61566411255014/)