Pivotal Moments - Human Design & Life Coach Podcast

On today’s episode I’m joined by the beautiful Hetti Fox for a very honest and expansive conversation about what it really takes to rebuild your life from the inside out.Hetti shares her journey through anorexia, bulimia, binge eating & imposter syndrome - the moments that broke her open, the patterns she had to confront, and the identity she eventually outgrew. What unfolds is a powerful story of resilience, self-awareness and the courage to choose yourself, even when it means walking away from what feels familiar.In this conversation, we chat about:the role energetics play in our everyday lives, without us even realisingunderstanding our unique human design and the validation it gives ushow being curious over judgemental can help to reframe negative beliefsthe societal pressure we feel as women to look a certain wayhow we learn at such a young age, through generational patterns, that our body is a problemthe unrealistic standards set by celebrity & influencer culture the effects of suffering from eating disorders the pain we carry as adults from the bullying we suffered as childrenfinding purpose in your own personal painhow weight loss is not just about shedding kilos, but peeling back the emotional layers that have kept you stuckthe shame we can feel as women for eating something that's not deemed "healthy" or viral-worthyPlus so so much more! This was definitely a conversation that really hit home for me, as someone who has battled weight my entire life, and was severely bullied for it in those young developmental years. I don't think we realise the scars that remain hidden until you start talking about it and feel the resurfacing of old childhood wounds.Hetti speaks with so much grounded wisdom - not from theory, but from lived experience. This is a conversation about reclaiming your power, rewriting your story, and allowing life’s pivotal moments to shape you rather than shrink you.If you’ve ever felt the pull toward something more but didn’t know how to trust it, this episode is for you.To follow or work with Hetti, please click on link below:Instagram: hettijaynecoachI hope you enjoy listening to this episode as much as I enjoyed recording it! xx Connect with Selena from Pivotal Moments ✨:Instagram: @selena_hillier_Facebook: Pivotal MomentsWebsite: www.pivotalmoments.com.auLinkedIn: Pivotal Moments

In today’s episode, I’m sharing the lessons that shaped me most during my first year in business - the ones that don’t often get talked about openly.We hear so much about scaling, income goals, marketing strategies and “quantum leaps”… but far less about the human side of building a business. The emotional growth, the nervous system regulation, the self-doubt, the identity shifts and the inner work required to actually hold what you’re creating.This episode is a deeper expansion of a post I shared on Instagram - because there’s only so much you can say in a carousel. I felt really called to speak more honestly about what that first year can feel like, especially for those who are leaving secure jobs, backing themselves, showing up online, and navigating the unknown.In this episode, I elaborate on: why believing in yourself isn’t enough without the right support the non-negotiable role of inner work and nervous system regulation how values shape your decisions, confidence and self-worth navigating imposter syndrome, triggers and unsolicited advice the emotional impact of visibility and social media engagement why other people’s “blueprints for success” aren’t always aligned how every challenge is either a win or a lesson - never a failureWhether you’re in your first year of business, your second, or simply feeling stretched by growth, this conversation is a reminder that you’re not behind, you’re not failing and you’re definitely not alone.I’d love to hear what resonates for you - feel free to DM me or leave a comment on the episode.Thanks so much for being here.Enjoy xx Connect with Selena from Pivotal Moments ✨:Instagram: @selena_hillier_Facebook: Pivotal MomentsWebsite: www.pivotalmoments.com.auLinkedIn: Pivotal Moments

On this episode, I’m joined once again by an absolute angel, the founder of Bloomin Within, Maddison Everist.Maddie has not only become a friend, she has been instrumental in some of the deeper layers of healing in my own life. Through her work in subconscious reprogramming, paired with a range of powerful yet accessible modalities, she supports women in creating real, sustainable change. Much of this work is now available through her recently launched Grounded membership.I invited Maddie back onto the podcast to share more of her journey, one that saw her navigate over a decade of her own mental health challenges, before stepping into the work she now does supporting women all over the world. Through 1:1 sessions, group containers, live community events and co-facilitating retreats both here in Australia and abroad, Maddie’s work is grounded in lived experience.Our conversation went deep, and some of the themes we explore include:powerful practices that create sustainable changethe importance of regulating & building resilience in the nervous systembeing resourced enough to navigate self-sabotaging behaviourssubconscious reprogramming for anxiety & depressionhow our beliefs dictate our thoughts, our thoughts dictate our emotions and our emotions create a habithow a silent meditation retreat peeled back the layers which led to healingthe chaos that your mind creates navigating friendships through personal transformationthe power of scripting "as if"the mind doesn't understand futurehow we are wired for negativity bias which unintentionally makes us focus on what we don't wantplus so so much more!!Maddie is a true embodiment of her work. She heals and supports others from a place of deep personal experience, and it’s from this adversity that her desire to create the Grounded membership was born - a space designed to support people through their healing journeys in a way that feels nurturing, practical and accessible.This is one of my favourite conversations to date, and I have no doubt you’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of yourself and the inner world you’re navigating.To follow Maddie or learn more about her work, explore the links below:InstagramGrounded Membership1:1 Hypnotherapy + Subconscious Coaching ContainersJoin Bloom Group Container: March 30th 2026The Nervous System Reset KitEnjoy! xx Connect with Selena from Pivotal Moments ✨:Instagram: @selena_hillier_Facebook: Pivotal MomentsWebsite: www.pivotalmoments.com.auLinkedIn: Pivotal Moments

On this episode I’m so honoured to be joined by someone who played a pivotal role in my own journey a few years ago, Lewis Huckstep.Lewis is a Purpose & Transformation Coach who helps high achievers heal childhood wounds and stop unhealthy patterns in relationships, family & money. He is also the best selling author of The Inspired Life Method, a step by step guide on how to find your life's purpose, heal your trauma and create a life you love.Lewis opens up about:his own childhood experiences, how being given labels at such a young age kept him stuck growing up with mental and emotional trauma & how it left him feeling unsafe & dysregulatedhow curiosity, anxiety & insecurity dominated his teenage yearsthe path of initiation into self-growththe pivotal roles that mentors playdifferent modalities that helped shape and continue to shape the man he is todayhow important it is to get to the root cause and not just put a bandaid on the symptomplus so much more!With insights from his own lived experience and lessons learnt through his own challenges and growth, Lewis is an embodiment of what it really takes to stop living on autopilot and start living your life with intention. To follow Lewis and learn from all his wisdom, you can follow him on Instagram at the below link:Instagram Connect with Selena from Pivotal Moments ✨:Instagram: @selena_hillier_Facebook: Pivotal MomentsWebsite: www.pivotalmoments.com.auLinkedIn: Pivotal Moments

On this special New Year's Eve episode, I am joined by one of my closest and favourite humans ever, my friend Mel.We have been friends for over 15 years and in that time have shared many ups & downs, seasons of change, life, love & career pivots but above all else, a mutual love & respect for each other that grows stronger with each passing year.Mel & I share a very similar Human Design profile, in that we are both 6/2 Manifesting Generators, and over the course of our friendship, I have been witness to the many pivotal moments she has experienced and how at times she naturally embodied her energy type and profile, long before either of us knew about Human Design.I asked Mel if she would be willing to share some of her story and the pivotal moments that have helped shaped the woman she is today, as I wanted this to serve as a reminder for anyone listening that throughout our life, we are constantly facing those "pivotal moments" where the choices we make and the options we choose, can - and will - change the entire course of our lives, whether it be in life, love or career.In this episode we dive into:The little shifts & wake-up calls that happen when everything appears to be fine on the outsideRelationship crossroads and the courage it takes to speak your truthHow work dissatisfaction can impact every area of your life Choosing growth over comfort - even when it’s messy and uncomfortableThe identity shifts that come with marriage and motherhoodMourning who you were while learning to embrace who you’re becomingNYE is often a time for reflection and I think this conversation is a perfect way to ground yourself in your own past experiences, your own pivotal moments that shaped you or changed your life's trajectory. Remember it's never too late to realign if you feel like your life is off course or you're at a crossroads.I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I loved recording it, you will see by the end why Mel is one of my closest friends! Happy New Year's Eve all, here's to closing out Universal Year 9 and welcoming in Universal Year 1! Be bold, be brave and most of all, be yourself ✨💛 Connect with Selena from Pivotal Moments ✨:Instagram: @selena_hillier_Facebook: Pivotal MomentsWebsite: www.pivotalmoments.com.auLinkedIn: Pivotal Moments

In this episode, I sit down with the incredibly talented Paige Noelle, founder of Sobu Studio, Brisbane’s newest boutique content studio and intimate event space that blends classic studio functionality with the warmth of a beautifully curated home.Paige shares the full behind-the-scenes story of how Sobu came to life, the years she spent quietly visualising it, the moment she realised the perfect space existed, the setbacks, the synchronicities, and the “act as if” approach that ultimately unlocked everything.We talk about:The reality of juggling motherhood, creativity and businessHow she used intuition, visualisation and trust to bring a huge dream into formThe subtle power of Splenic authority and following quiet inner nudgesWhat it means to build a business around ease, not pressureThe self-awareness that shaped every decision she madeThe difference between product imagery and branding imagery for service-based businessesWhat creators and founders should actually focus on when it comes to visualsHow she works with clients to bring their creative vision to life at SobuThis conversation is inspiring, practical, honest and so beautifully aligned with what Pivotal Moments is all about.If you’re someone who’s sitting on a big dream, craving a pivot, or wanting to create something that feels more you, this episode will be such a permission slip.To experience the magic of Sobu Studio for yourself, head over to Paige’s website and connect with her on Instagram - you’ll fall in love with her space and her eye for storytelling!Sobu Studio WebsiteSobu InstagramEnjoy xx Connect with Selena from Pivotal Moments ✨:Instagram: @selena_hillier_Facebook: Pivotal MomentsWebsite: www.pivotalmoments.com.auLinkedIn: Pivotal Moments

In this episode I am joined by life and career coach Amber Plant, a woman who spent years in Corporate Marketing, building national brands, leading campaigns and chasing success - until she realised her career had become her identity and her nervous system reached its breaking point.What followed was a series of painful but powerful wake-up calls - burnout, trauma, a spiritual unraveling and the moment she realised she was living a life built on expectations, not alignment.In this conversation, Amber vulnerably shares: • what life looked like when she was running on autopilot • the moment she realised she wasn’t safe - and couldn’t keep going • how intuition became her lifeline and her compass • navigating identity loss, people-pleasing and leaving her faith  • the pivots that led her to life and career coaching • how she now helps others find clarity, alignment and purposeAmber is a beautiful embodiment of a Generator living from the heart - following what lights her up, learning through experience and radiating love in everything she does. Her story is raw, relatable and deeply human, and I know so many people will see parts of themselves in her journey.If you’d like to connect with Amber, join her community, or apply for life & career coaching on her podcast, click on the link below:https://www.amberplant.com/Learn to trust your intuition to get crystal clear on your next career move so you can wake up every morning and know, deep in your soul, that you are living life on your terms.Introducing… Rebrand Your Life & CareerA 6-week live group coaching program for professionals and founders to pivot their lives and careers guided by their intuition.JOIN THE WAITLIST Connect with Selena from Pivotal Moments ✨:Instagram: @selena_hillier_Facebook: Pivotal MomentsWebsite: www.pivotalmoments.com.auLinkedIn: Pivotal Moments

On this episode, I am joined by Belinda Fedorczyk, known online as 'Foodie Mama Bel.' We met at a hypno sound event recently, and her incredible story of a life-changing decision caught my attention. Earlier this year, Belinda quit her stressful sales job with no plan in place following a pivotal conversation with her daughter. Now a passionate Thermomix consultant and advocate for whole food living, Belinda shares how facing major health challenges at 40 transformed her life. We explore her journey of healing, resilience and finding joy through food, and dive into how her human design as a 6/2 Splenic Projector played a role in her transformative journey. Tune in to discover how Belinda embraced her true self and is now helping others live more nourishing, authentic lives.✨ To follow Belinda's journey and learn more about Thermomix, click on the link below:foodie_mumma_belEnjoy xx Connect with Selena from Pivotal Moments ✨:Instagram: @selena_hillier_Facebook: Pivotal MomentsWebsite: www.pivotalmoments.com.auLinkedIn: Pivotal Moments

How often have you said "yes" to something, when you really wanted to say "no", just to keep the peace at the expense of your own? In this episode, I discuss what people pleasing really is, where it comes from and the hidden cost of constantly prioritising others over ourselves.I also unpack how it can show up through the lens of Human Design, from Generators overcommitting their energy to Projectors pushing through exhaustion -  and how tuning back into your body’s cues can change everything.You’ll learn why awareness is your greatest tool for transformation, how to start saying “no” without guilt and practical ways to build self-trust and emotional resilience.Quite often we forget to show kindness to ourselves when we're in the throes of people-pleasing, we're so caught up in being 'kind' to others, that we fail to realise we also matter. A beautiful quote and personal favourite from Lao Tzu:"Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner."This episode has been recorded for anyone who recognises the pattern of people-pleasing in themself and is ready to break the cycle!Enjoy xx💫 Pivotal Moments on Instagram🔗 Pivotal Moments Website🌟 Register Interest for "The Alchemy Circle"  ✨ The Alchemy Circle by Pivotal Moments ✨                                                            A guided group experience for women navigating perimenopause and menopause - a space to connect, share your story and feel truly seen and heard. It’s a place to vent, to laugh, to learn and to rediscover yourself through the support of other women walking a similar path. Together, we’ll explore how to work with your unique energy and turn this chapter into a time of renewal, self-trust and personal power. Connect with Selena from Pivotal Moments ✨:Instagram: @selena_hillier_Facebook: Pivotal MomentsWebsite: www.pivotalmoments.com.auLinkedIn: Pivotal Moments

It’s been eight months since the last episode, and this one couldn’t have come at a better time. October is Menopause Awareness Month, and in today’s episode, I’m opening up about my own journey through perimenopause - the confusion, the isolation, the sleepless nights and the symptoms no one warned me about.When I first started experiencing everything from itchy skin and gum pain to heart palpitations and brain fog, I had no idea it was all connected. Like so many women, I was trying to manage each symptom in isolation, until one late-night Google search changed everything.In this raw and deeply personal episode, I share how perimenopause has impacted not just my physical and emotional wellbeing, but also my identity as a woman in her forties. I talk about the shock of realising I was in perimenopause at 45, how it affected my mental health and relationships and the frustrating lack of awareness and support that so many of us face.We’ll also explore how women in their forties are often made to feel invisible - overlooked by brands, media and even the medical system - and why it’s time we start rewriting that narrative. This is an honest, vulnerable and empowering conversation for any woman who’s ever felt unseen, unheard, or unprepared for this stage of life.If you’re experiencing similar symptoms or simply want to understand what this transition can feel like, this episode is for you. You are not alone. 💛🎧 Plus, I’ll share the pivotal moment that helped me finally feel seen - and how it changed everything.To listen to the podcast I referred to in this episode, click on link below:🎧 Dr Mary Claire Haver on Diary of a CEO💫 Pivotal Moments on Instagram🔗 Pivotal Moments Website🌟 Register Interest for "The Alchemy Circle"  ✨ The Alchemy Circle by Pivotal Moments ✨                                                            A guided group experience for women navigating perimenopause and menopause - a space to connect, share your story and feel truly seen and heard. It’s a place to vent, to laugh, to learn and to rediscover yourself through the support of other women walking a similar path. Together, we’ll explore how to work with your unique energy and turn this chapter into a time of renewal, self-trust and personal power. Connect with Selena from Pivotal Moments ✨:Instagram: @selena_hillier_Facebook: Pivotal MomentsWebsite: www.pivotalmoments.com.auLinkedIn: Pivotal Moments

On this episode, I am joined by Uliana Ivanaskaja, who I was fortunate enough to meet whilst studying Human Design a few years ago. Uli is an Embodied Leadership Mentor and the founder of Ahora Living & Wellness in Tenerife, Spain.Her story is one of courage, strength and resilience, with a healthy dose of inner knowing, and the power we hold within when we take a leap of faith and lean into our deepest desires. Uli is a beautiful example of what happens when you awaken that connection back to yourself and trust in your body's guidance towards what is aligned for you.Having previously worked as a Cyber Security Product Manager for Vodafone, amongst a slew of other high flying corporate roles, Uli's journey began during Covid when she decided to work remotely in Spain to avoid the harsh, cold winters of The Netherlands.Tune in to hear her extraordinary journey from boardroom to the beach! Follow Uli’s personal journey and explore her inspiring work at Ahora Living & Wellness through the links below:✨ Uli's Personal Journey🔆 Ahora Living & Wellness Instagram💫 Ahora Living WebsiteEnjoy! xx Connect with Selena from Pivotal Moments ✨:Instagram: @selena_hillier_Facebook: Pivotal MomentsWebsite: www.pivotalmoments.com.auLinkedIn: Pivotal Moments

In this episode, I sit down with Alice Mason, a nurse, midwife and IVF nurse who transformed her life after discovering Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT). Alice opens up about her personal journey, how she went from feeling stuck and unfulfilled, to finding clarity, purpose, and a new way to support women struggling with fertility challenges.We dive into the power of the subconscious mind and the effects it has on women going through fertility, the emotional toll of IVF, and how RTT helps reframe limiting beliefs, reduce stress, and empower women on their path to motherhood. Alice also shares how she learned to trust her intuition, make bold pivots in her life, and embrace a career that truly aligns with her passions.If you’ve ever felt lost in your journey, whether in career or fertility, this episode is a must-listen.✨ Connect with AliceInstagram: @align.with.aliceWebsite: www.alignwithalice.comPodcast: Align with AliceEnjoy! xx Connect with Selena from Pivotal Moments ✨:Instagram: @selena_hillier_Facebook: Pivotal MomentsWebsite: www.pivotalmoments.com.auLinkedIn: Pivotal Moments

In this solo episode, I reflect on the pressures of online consumption and how it impacts our mindset, especially around the New Year. I share insights on embracing self-awareness, finding alignment, and tuning out societal expectations.I share very vulnerably some of my own personal reflections, providing practical tips, and encouragement to reconnect with what truly resonates, with the hope of inspiring more intentional living.If you would like to know more about your Human Design or feel as though you need some clarity or direction, follow the link below:Human Design Reading / Clarity Sessionxx Connect with Selena from Pivotal Moments ✨:Instagram: @selena_hillier_Facebook: Pivotal MomentsWebsite: www.pivotalmoments.com.auLinkedIn: Pivotal Moments

This episode is a deeply reflective conversation with the gorgeous Maddison Everist of Bloomin Within. Maddie shares her incredibly inspiring story, which starts at the tender age of 17 when she was diagnosed with Thyroid Cancer. After overcoming this life-altering challenge, she built a thriving career in marketing. But even in a role she loved, Maddie felt an inner unrest growing louder with time. Eventually, she made the bold decision to confront these buried emotions head-on, embarking on a transformative path of self-discovery.As Maddie continues to evolve and embrace her journey, one practice remains at the core of her healing: Hypnotherapy and Subconscious Reprogramming. In this episode, we delve into how these powerful tools have shaped her life and the work she now does to support others.To explore more about Maddie and her inspiring mission to guide others on their healing journeys, check out the links below:https://www.instagram.com/bloominwithin_/https://www.bloominwithin.com.au/Enjoy! xx Connect with Selena from Pivotal Moments ✨:Instagram: @selena_hillier_Facebook: Pivotal MomentsWebsite: www.pivotalmoments.com.auLinkedIn: Pivotal Moments

In this episode, I’m thrilled to introduce you to Bianca Brandner, a beautiful woman whose career journey spans a variety of roles, from flight attendant to TV presenter, events host, and entrepreneur, to boldly stepping into her passion as a personal mastery coach. Bianca now helps women build better relationships with themselves and discover their unique, authentic expression.Her journey is a powerful reminder that we don’t need to have it all figured out before taking the plunge. Her diverse career path shows that every experience—whether as a flight attendant, TV presenter, or entrepreneur—can serve as a stepping stone, guiding us closer to our true passion. Sometimes, it’s through exploring different roles that we uncover what truly lights us up and find the courage to back ourselves.Bianca shares very honestly and vulnerably on topics that I'm sure will resonate with many, so join us as we dive into her inspiring story, her journey to personal mastery, and the powerful ways she’s making an impact in the world.To follow Bianca, you can find her at the link below:https://www.instagram.com/bianca_brandner/Enjoy! xx Connect with Selena from Pivotal Moments ✨:Instagram: @selena_hillier_Facebook: Pivotal MomentsWebsite: www.pivotalmoments.com.auLinkedIn: Pivotal Moments

On this episode I interview a Reflector, the first one I have met, personally, since discovering Human Design. Eva Curran spent many years in the corporate world, working for some big industries, only to find the more she learnt about herself over those years in corporate, through varying modalities, personality tests, strength finders etc, the more she came to realise how unaligned she felt in her career path.Eva speaks openly and honestly of the idealised beliefs of stability that the corporate world instils in us and how, through being fired once and going through two redundancies, she came to realise how undervalued she was. This set her on the direction of becoming a career & business coach, with the focus on guiding women back to their true selves, empowering them to feel sovereign in their energy and navigate change with confidence."Early stage entrepreneurship sure isn't stable, but it's the most aligned and calm I've felt in my entire career" - Eva CurranTo find out more about Eva and her incredible offerings as a Career & Business Coach, you can follow her at the link below:https://www.instagram.com/eva.h.curran/Enjoy!! xx Connect with Selena from Pivotal Moments ✨:Instagram: @selena_hillier_Facebook: Pivotal MomentsWebsite: www.pivotalmoments.com.auLinkedIn: Pivotal Moments

In this episode I interview an absolute vibe of a woman! From the reception desk of a radiologist's office to the stunning venues she now finds herself in all over the Gold Coast, Byron Bay, Sunshine Coast and other stunning destinations, Lauren Bridge took a courageous leap a few years ago into her new career & business as a marriage celebrant.Join us as Lauren shares her journey, from the spark of inspiration to navigating the path of the unknown and creating a business filled with purpose and joy. We’ll explore how trusting her instincts and listening to what lit her up led her to a fulfilling new path.This episode is a must-listen for anyone considering a bold career change or wondering how to act on that little voice that says, "What if?"If you're looking for a celebrant or some wedding inspiration, or to simply see Lauren in action, give her a follow at the link below:https://www.instagram.com/laurenbridgecelebrant/Enjoy xx Connect with Selena from Pivotal Moments ✨:Instagram: @selena_hillier_Facebook: Pivotal MomentsWebsite: www.pivotalmoments.com.auLinkedIn: Pivotal Moments

On this episode I interview Hillary McVeigh of Designed As You. Previously a family lawyer who was fatigued, lost, frustrated, bitter and burnt out, Hillary decided to quit her 9 to 5 and follow her intuition which saw her move to Berlin and start a new life, whilst focusing on the things that brought her joy. By backing herself and following her heart's desires, she has created a fulfilling, successful, heart-centred business, and on this episode she will share her journey from the tiny law cubicle she found herself in to the life she now leads as a Human Design Teacher, Breathwork Facilitator, IFS Practitioner and Intuitive Certified Coach, as well as the retreats she runs both here in Australia and abroad.To find out more about Hillary, you can find her at:https://www.instagram.com/designedasyou/https://www.hillarymcveigh.com/ Connect with Selena from Pivotal Moments ✨:Instagram: @selena_hillier_Facebook: Pivotal MomentsWebsite: www.pivotalmoments.com.auLinkedIn: Pivotal Moments

Welcome to the very first episode of Pivotal Moments! Join me, Selena, as I share the journey that led me to create this podcast, designed to inspire you to pursue a life that feels extraordinary. In this episode, I dive into what it means to make brave choices when faced with life’s forks in the road—the Pivotal Moments that shape who we are and who we become. I’ll explore my own experience of stepping away from a stable career, following my gut, and navigating the unknown. Tune in to discover how Human Design can guide us to trust our body’s response, overcome doubts, and unlock a life aligned with our truest self.Let's PIVOT! xxTo connect with me on Instagram, click HERETo work with me, click HERE Connect with Selena from Pivotal Moments ✨:Instagram: @selena_hillier_Facebook: Pivotal MomentsWebsite: www.pivotalmoments.com.auLinkedIn: Pivotal Moments